According to a DailyMail article ''Women who have several sexual partners before getting married have less happy marriages - but men do no harm by playing the field,a study has found.
According to new research by the National Marriage Project, more than half of married women who had only ever slept with their future husband felt highly satisfied in their marriage.
But that percentage dropped to 42 per cent once the woman had had pre-marital sex with at least two partners. It dropped to 22 per cent for those with ten or more partners.
But, for men, the number of partners they they have had appeared to have no bearing on how satisfied they felt within a marriage.
Researchers said the study showed that sex with many different partners 'may be risky' if the woman is in search of a high-quality marriage.
It concluded: 'Remember that what you do before you say 'I do' seems to have a notable impact on your marital future. So decide wisely.'
The findings were published in 'Before 'I Do': What Do Premarital Experiences Have to Do with Marital Quality Among Today’s Young Adults?', published at the University of Virginia.
The report, by Galena K Rhoades and Scott M Stanley, said the first conclusion of the study was that 'What happens in Vegas doesn’t stay in Vegas'.
It means our past experiences, especially when it comes to love, are linked to our future marital quality, they said.
The researchers said those who had more partners perhaps find it difficult to commit to their spouse because they were aware of the alternatives.
They added that more experiences of breaking up can give people a 'more jaundiced view of love' which could affect future relationships.
The report said: 'Many in Generation YOLO (you only live once) believe that what happens while you’re young won’t affect your future. But our research paints a different picture.
'This doesn’t mean that sex before marriage will doom a marriage, but sex with many different partners may be risky if you’re looking for a high-quality marriage.'
It continued: 'Having had more relationship experiences prior to marriage also means more experience breaking up.
'A history of multiple breakups may make people take a more jaundiced view of love and relationships.'
The study also found that couples who had more than 150 guests at their ceremony had the greatest marital quality down the line.
It said: 'We think this finding has to do with making a public declaration of commitment and having community support.
'The more support a couple has, the better they are able to navigate the occasional choppy waters associated with marriage.'
The study tracked the relationships of a representative national sample in America of 1,294 unmarried men and women aged 18-34.
The researchers followed the subjects for five years. In that time, 418 were married.
Only 23 per cent of those who got married during the survey had sex solely with the person they married''.
*What do you think about this research?I agree about some aspects of it though...
truth.women that sleep around before marriage ,na them jealous pass
ReplyDeleteNa big lie jor. I slept wit more Dan 18 guys and had about 13-15 abortions b4 I got married. I'm now happily married wit kids and hav left my past behind me. Over happiness dey worry me for my marriage sef.
DeleteThis is how people fail their exams. So after reading the article, that's what your brain could come up with, lol smh for you.
DeleteAnywho, they prolly sleep around because they have experienced too many dicks and now they can't get use to one. God isn't stupid y'all know, there's a reason for the do not fornicate and one man, one wife rule
GG
Jesu @ 13-15 abortions omo you strong o.
DeleteThis article na lie, I be confirm bad girl just 3 abortions o and I just had a beautiful baby boy he is 2weeks old and such a good baby. I am very happy in my marriage my hubby worships the ground I walk on infact I'm spoilt self. Money is not a problem. Thank God for forgiving me
Anon 3.51, caze dey worry you. Dirty killer, killed 15 children nd you are happy. Ready to face God on dat day. Hell fire await you. See her evil mouth don fuck tire no wonder your life bend. Demonic woman
DeleteAnon 3.51 instead of you to shut up, u dey feel funky. Later you go say boko haram bad but u kill pass ebola nd HIV. Bitch like you
DeleteNa wah, dis baby killers and runz girls dey proud anyhow here. Stella ur reader don kill 13 babies lolz kai may God forgive you o and the souls of the baby. Dnt worry u are happy bah, ur evil is yet to caught up with you. Maybe your daughter go turn chronic killer that time u go know wat goes around come around. Pray to God to clean d babies body dat is in ur hand. Fool
DeleteAnon 3:51 you strong oh
DeleteHow do you even sleep at night?
You have murdered your conscience a lot time ago i swear.
Meanwhile the so called good ones hardly ever get lucky
This life is unfair.
Na your toto she use ?
DeleteGirl i beg fire more tori.
Na same man give you belle a be na 15 different guys ?
Haa,girl you don chop prick belleful o o.
These writers wey dey wan spoil market 4 us.... Make una dey well oooo...#alinko
DeleteHmmmm! I agree to some extent! But there ain't any straight rule to life.
DeleteAnon 3.51. I just pity ur husband. He married a finished commodity
DeleteI have never ever been moved to comment on this blog before now, even though I'm an avid reader. You committed 13 abortions (??!!!) and you still have the effrontery to open your mouth and gloat. You won't hide yourself in shame, you vicious, cruel and heartless murderer. You think God sleeps? You will face your comeuppance, for God is a vengeful God. You don't even seen the wrong in what you've done, to be spewing such pompous filth from your mouth. You have no soul, worthless animal.
DeleteNa wah o, see as una dey rain abuse on me cos I say I do plenty abortions. Na for one guy o and d guy Don die sef. My story be say We were students then and I was afraid to use birth controls cos I hear say if u use am u no go fit born again and d guy no like condom so na so we begin fire for fire on top bed every nite and as a confirmed fertiliser, i took in almost every other Month. I did not murder any child. Sometimes i used hot gin to flush my stomach. Abeg make una give me proof say 4wks pregnancy na pickin. Bloody hypocrites! ! Don't judge me if you don't know me and all those who cursed me, return to sender hundred fold. Winch people everywhere I go even for social media too. May God help me.
DeleteYou are an unrepentant fool, a sorry excuse for a woman.Continue to revel in your hopelessness. You will continue to see witches for you are the greatest one yourself. Possessed goat.
DeleteSee d irony of life.. My husband met me a virgin, yet I'm so unhappy in dis marriage, 2kids in six years, but I must tell u its two years of pain, physical n emotional abuse, he prof in adultery, scared of having sex with him now sef cos of disease... Wo my sister u are indeed very lucky... But pls repent n serve God more cos He loves u gaaan.. I knw God will deliver me too one day!
DeleteLook at that one that said "just 3 abortions." what's the difference? You think you are better? This God is merciful sha.
DeleteRonke
Ronke ur a fool, thank God ur not God you for strike me dead na. I av repented and God has forgiven me. Don't judge me because your sins are different from mine.
DeleteThat's true.....decent women like moi is not common. Before I got with my current partner, I had just two flings. Titimadame
ReplyDeleteU call two just???
DeleteSee this ashewo calling herself decent. Mmmscheew
Delete@Titimadame only 3 booty counts? U are very decent. So how many more 2 go b4 u settle down?
Delete*lips sealed and watching*
Yes,that's the way to go.
ReplyDeleteRuns girls and promiscuous girls go nearly kill themselves on dz post jes 2 justify dr promiscuity
DeleteMake una fear God oooo
*lips sealed and watching*
90percent correct. All I can say is Thank you Lord. At least for now.
ReplyDeleteThis is true and even the men have a price 2 pay. Where R the spiritual BV's in d house? If u say dz is not true, then u R denying God's plan 4 his pple..
Delete*lips sealed and watching*
Daily mail daily nonsense, d sad story dat we read here on sdk blog is mostly from d decent/virgin girls....... not dat d wild girls are all happy but dey do know how to make dia self happy, while d good girls fast and pray to b loved by hubby.....
ReplyDeleteI couldn't have said it better myself.
DeleteGod bless u! Truth is the bad girls always get the good guys,it has always been that way
DeleteUr right
DeleteHmmm....I was in agreement with d research until I read ur comment @chick. Don't know again.
DeleteSome good decent girls that end up marrying womanisers, how about them? Some of them are so myopic cus of lack of Experience. Nobody should judge a happy marriage from someone's past life.
DeleteThe holier than thou na them loose pass in my opion except those that are sharp enough to spot a nincompoop and also those that God favour.
Myth!!
DeleteGood gals go to heaven
Bad gals go everywhere!!
So true. I know someone who married last year as virgin,its been one year of hell for her. She ain't happy at all,na so so fight fight and all kinds of nonsense. I pray for her though,may she eventually find happiness.
DeleteChick felix shout up. Dirty runz girl. Go marry na. Ur pussy na public dust bin
DeleteAs sad as it sounds ds article na wash. Me nko wey keep myself wella before marriage wetin I dey enjoy? sometimes I even regret it. Honestly everything dey God hand o. marriage na luck.
Delete1000 likes for your comment Chick Felix.
DeleteThere will be so many anons and confessions on this post,lol.
Interesting! Errrm... Stellahipsy, lemme get married first, then I can confirm the report. *smile*
ReplyDeleteVERY TRUE..
ReplyDeleteBECAUSE WOMEN ARE ALWAYS COMPARING
IN THEIR MINDS
IT MAKES IT DIFFICULT FOR THEM
This was what that anony was talking about yesterday.
ReplyDeleteMy take on this is the Writer of this article is a Masculinist .
I feel it's the opposite case, a woman that has seen it all, has nothing to look for ouside marriage,m she has seen all manners and size of Ds before settling down. It is not necessarily the case either ways though.
Gbam!! While the men continue in their quest for more pussies in the marriage.
Deletedo you think a woman dat has seen it all could easily stay out of sex? What if the husband is out of the country for a business trip? What happen's? easy way out abi?
DeleteThis article is 1 million BULLSHIT!
DeleteAlways the females!
Men that fuck hundred of pussies before marriage don't have anything on them?
Mschewwwwwwwww
Even after marriage they still pursue more pussies!
Happiness in marriage depends on individuals, lifestyle and financial status.
so happy on ds research
ReplyDeleteYippeeee
@Galore
I saw this write up as a comment..can't remember the post...
ReplyDeleteWho ever wrote this is sick in the head...
Runz girls make better wives than those holy nweje...a runz girl has seen it all,tasted it all..infact,most of them turn to born again once they get married..I prefer a runz girl to a virgin biko...
Why u dey take am personal na????
DeleteBut I didn't taste naa......
DeleteGEJ 2019!
Coming from an ex runs girl Linda Eze. #smh.
DeleteSorry to disappoint you though, You are wrong.
Madam runz girl, see ur mouth like I prefer runz girl to virgin. Becos u re a shameless runz girl nd sorry u gave ur virginity in a foolish way. Person wey e head correct no go talk like dis, tell ur son to marry a whore, nd advise ur daughter to sleep wit 100men a day k. See advise wey she dey give. Senseless moron
DeleteWell said Linda but Sumtimes runz girls have the tendency to cheat when husband is broke or things ain't rosy in the marriage.
DeleteMadam, chairlady of runz girls, how cn u say those dirty words. Born pinkin make e join d whoredom instead of keeping her pride, tell ur son to marry a slut. See her mouth like I like runz girl to a virgin. Is obvious u lost ur to a spirit, a demonic man. Dirty runz girl feeling cool with her profession
DeleteLolz no mind d man woman, runz girl feeling funky. No wonder ur pussy bi like well. Oloshi. Thnk you for telling us u re a chronic dirty runz girl dat want to drag innocent girls in wit ur demonic comment. Otondo
DeleteLinda shush it biko, whatz your point btw? Are u a man to prefer n not prefer. When u finally have your female kids, don't forget to train them to become runz girlz mshwwwwww.
DeleteNa u dey sick for head k. We d virgins hv refused to join runz girls like you, sadist like you
DeleteSEE HER MUMU MOUTH LIKE I REFER RUNZ GIRL.SHUT YOUR FOOLISH MOUTH MADAM RUNZ GIRL
DeleteMrs runz girl feeling funky. Lolz olodo woman, sorry u lost urs to a dog
DeleteLolz funny# runz girls feeling funky here, ebola real o madam prefer to runz girls
DeleteMake sure u train ur daughters well well on how to be runz girls. U just sat down feeling like u know wuzzup. Nonsense!!
DeleteLinda,U are so blessed!!!
DeleteSee all ur toasters oooo.......
I'm so jealous!!
Choiiii Linda! Here we go agn. Ama just swerve but then let's go biblical today a little lol. TeamGodFirst still Striving to do what is acceptable in his eyes, putting that first not my fleshly desire. Baffles me how we play God sometimes like he's kinda dumb like we humans. Saturday night did it all den Sunday tie scarf off to pray for prosperity nd ask for forgiveness lol same routine al d tym, nd wen things go wrong hainn we remember God. Ain't no miss righteous just once in a while we need remind ourselves that wch is the sad truth. Its truly hard to do that wch is right but so easy to do the wrong things and dats y we r here today. May God help us all. Amen
DeleteLinda, Ashawo kobo kobo.
Deletejust look at the way she talks! Like it every runz gals that make it in life! Some may end up with sickness and die
DeleteYes! We make better wives, we have seen it all, I have slept with more than 138 guys, omoh no b jor o! I start runs @ the age of 16, disvirgined @ 13, got married to the best man in the world,omoh me am happy hubby loves me and worship me. So please, all these holy holy I see as Una dey enjoy Una marriage abi na frnd Una stil dey? Useless fools,they dia dey form 1boyfrnd n pant dey wear u.
DeleteRuns girls don't really make better wives, they just know how to get a man and keep him happy.
DeleteBiko this is too one sided #walkingaway
ReplyDeleteI'm on the fence on this one.
ReplyDeleteI agree!
ReplyDeletebut i sabbi one big aunty wen marry as a virgin .very pretty aunty
ReplyDeletethe night of her wedding, na so ds Man dey ping all him Agarachas dem
To cut Torri short....her husband bgin dey beat her for no reason,..d marriage did not last upto 6mths...ds Aunty get belle born pikin we no see ds useless Man
@Galore
Holy girls wey no fit spot nincompoops, ona dey hear am. Na who good favour better husband and na who sharp to grab the better one. Idiotic research.
DeleteU cannot grab a man.we ladies tend to feel say na we sharp pass cos mayb d guy choose to marry u.if ure lucky enuf to have a good man no b bcos of sharpness,its just favour
Deleteso happy on ds research
ReplyDeleteYippeeee
@Galore
Akuko
ReplyDeleteNaaaah not true! Hav a cuz dah married as a virgin to a dog! She evn knws 1 of his gfs on dia street. She's alws depressed yet she doznt wana leav d Ewu nama. The marriage is jes 3yrs old.
ReplyDeleteHermes,wjay is "jes"?
DeleteDon't you get irritated reading your lines sometimes?
What
DeleteWhat is "jes" please
DeleteHahahaha!! Ewu nama indeed.
Deletei kinda agree with dis research tho....its not even by having multiple sexual partners sef...having loads of dating experience can give room for comparison ....when u c sumfin that is not good in ur present...instead of working on it...u will begin to compare thereby causing irreconcilable differences.... i agree with d research really! @xclusiv
ReplyDeleteI disagree with you. These things should be individualized and conclusion only drawn in retrospect. People are so selfish, they want the good girls and are not in themselves any good however, you can always make the best of whatever side of the divide you fall.
DeleteDumb explanation. Read my lips "very dumb".
DeleteIf u know what is good and ur not getting it why don't u compare.
If u were living in the city and something happened and u packed to the village wouldn't u compare how life was better in the city?
If u see ur friend driving a car and ur treaking wouldn't u compare how much advancement ur friend has made to urs?
Ok na. Na virgins dey work on their marriage or relationship pass girls wey get experience abi?
I have made mistakes in the past and I aint ashamed of them. Now I know better. Haven't u heard experince is the best teacher. Mtcheeew!!
U re not ashamed because you a fool, dog don lick your eyes. Fool
DeleteSome men marry gorls who are virgins thinking they've hit gold but they end up bored and start looking outside. In my opinion it's not about virgin or not though I still maintain that abstinence before Marraige is best, but it's about love! Just my opinion
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ReplyDeleteOk!
ReplyDeleteI wonder what the gender make up of the research team was!
While I agree that some of the findings may be valid, one critical factor they have ignored is the GOD factor!
Not condoning a promiscuous lifestyle, but some girls-about-town have been known to settle to marital bliss.
"It's not of him that willeth or runneth, it's the Lord that shows mercy".
Dem try sha.
Nki, that is because there are always exceptions to the rule.
DeleteThe few cases of girls about town settling down to marital bliss that you know of are some of those exceptions.
I am here to read comments.
ReplyDelete# learnermode
Akuko n'egwu!
ReplyDeleteI concur....so true.
ReplyDeleteCarry on oo aunty........I lyk dis gist wella, single girls lyk us.......urna dey hear
ReplyDeleteThis explains everything about Kim K and her numerous failed marriages.
ReplyDeleteAm very sure a car can reverse inside her Punani.
E go shock u that Kim is tighter than a 15 yr old virgin. U think all those Hollywood plastic surgeon r there 4 decor?
DeleteSo na virgins wey no get failes marriage? Epic nonsense.
Deletebig lie....kanye still wan die there....hasnt she settled now...she seems to be a good mother...
DeleteWhy not sale ur own sex tape like kim, bitch like you. You think she is happy
DeleteLmao @ a car will reverse inside her punani
DeleteMarry*
Delete@Make a wish, that's a perfect example of what we R saying. Plus J,Lo, Jennifer O'neille, Elizabeth Taylor and co. Same reasons why most celebrities R unhappy in dr marriages and doesn't last
Delete*lips sealed and watching*
Rubbish
ReplyDeleteMr Lyca
Adonagree! The reverse may be the case if the survey was done in Nig.Let the comments roll in!!
ReplyDeleteHahahahahaha - Gbam
DeleteSmtcheeeeeeeeew!!!!..............OKIJA WIFE
ReplyDeleteBwahahahaha. .........
DeleteOkija wife,Ogini????
Ok!
ReplyDeleteUniversity of virginia, wah a nice name without the letter (I).
ReplyDeleteSo that's all u cud pick out of all? Wow!
DeleteI agree with the research.
ReplyDeleteI beg to differ
ReplyDeletehmmmm
DeleteI agree with the research if not 4 anything bt 4 God's plan 4 us, God who said premarital sex is a sin knows y he said so, he wants d best 4 us bcos his our Father does who disagree are trying to say u r wiser dan God? Are u beta dan Him? Are u trying to say he made some mistakes in His word? His d LordN d King of all kings he d best Father one can ever have so don't question his word by saying sleeping around b4 marriage is d best, dat y der divorce everywhere dis dayz bcos no one is satisfy with der spouse, a married wilt no shame will complain dat d husband is not satisfying her if had not tested so many will she know if she's satisfied or not u will c some married women calling der ex complaining dat d husband is not good in bed n can not give her d way he does if she had not tested d ex's own hw will she compare
ReplyDeleteAbeg shut up!!
DeleteWith all your holy thou art attitude, na your type dey married chronic womanizer and woman beater.
Marry*
DeleteA 100% true.
ReplyDeleteI say true because, i know ladies who even though they are married always run to their exes when there is a little problem, my brothers have also told me the same thing, i heard most of them this days don't want to let go of their ex even after marriage. Nah so i hear.
ReplyDeleteI have left my exs so count me out.
DeleteAnd the men that still date their ex's after marriage nko?
DeleteHmmm
ReplyDeleteQueen see ur mouth, wen u born tell ur daughter nd son to marry runz girls to virgin. Sorry u lost your to a mad man
ReplyDeleteI disagree in strong terms!!
ReplyDeleteI agree biko, people like linda wey dey prefer runz girls to virgin re not happy. Is obvious she is bitter dat she lost her own lolzzz
ReplyDeleteit's 100% true. pls i need help on how to open a blog tanks
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Thats the pure trruth no doubt about that.
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
No former experiences to compare her husband with. What she has is the only one she knows. It makes sense. Rose
ReplyDeleteBut the man would be comparing her to his ex lovers and still go back to them complaining about his wife!
DeleteHmmmm it's a two way thing,it works for some girls while in some,it makkes their lives unforgettable and miserable.Everything is by His grace
ReplyDeleteNa truely the grace of God. Its not he that willeth nor he that runneth, its the Lord that shows mercy. I know of ladies that married as virgins and now r promiscous even when married.
DeleteIts a wrong thing to conclud and judge. very wrong.
Some of yu be taking this sh*t too personal...its just a topic to delibrate on, and not rain abuses on each other. One luv...
ReplyDeleteI agree with the title.
ReplyDeleteWomen who don't sleep around before their wedding are happier because
THEY SLEEP AROUND AFTER THEIR WEDDING.
Chai....Bekee una too much.
Chai. Dibia nmor you got me reeling with laughter.
DeleteHahahahhaaha
God has a plan : that a woman would be penetrated by one man all her life. The plan of God is for two sexual novices to discover themselves in marriage. You want to taste it all and then suddenly become faithful on the altar. God forgives and blots out but he is calling you to repentance. Btw....whether you were a runs girls or a virgin, make sure you work on ur marriage o. and choose rightly. The virgins and holy girls need to understand that it's not just keeping yourself, u need to learn and learn about marriage and r ships and choosing right. I am a virgin and am 22 and am working, developing myself and praying towards my marriage... and I chose right(my bf). that's what makes a marriage work. Shikena.
ReplyDeleteI agree with some parts too but not all
ReplyDeletewww.preciouscore.blogspot.com
See all the runz girls in the house, shameless girls like chick felix, linda eze, am married, 15 babies abort er, chronic demonic runs girls feeling funky. God don open una yash. Babies soul they cry for una head. Linda eze I hail o, infact I raise yash for you, bitch
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteI don't agree.
am married and happy. Wat sha it profit linda eze to fuck all dick nd die, rather than me been a virgin and still fuck same dick linda eze fucked wit all respect and romatic virginity nyt with my hubby. U re not better. Linda eze runz job no bi job
ReplyDeleteI have never ever been moved to comment on this blog before now, even though I'm an avid reader. You committed 18 abortions (??!!!) and you still have the eff
ReplyDeleteI agree in some cases.
ReplyDeleteTalk about settling down; butterfly never settles! But come to think of it; man can research but the word of God -the manual of this life is settled in heaven and does not need research; and what does it say;
ReplyDeleteMarriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. Heb. 13:4
Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!2 Cor. 5:17
Why not be in Christ and "wipe the slate clean?" Sounds good and true; isn't it? So whose report do you believe, science or God who made the body and wrote the manual? Do you believe/obey the manager of the company or the CEO who owns the company and employs the manager?
Talk about settling down; butterfly never settles! But come to think of it; man can research but the word of God -the manual of this life is settled in heaven and does not need research; and what does it say;
ReplyDeleteMarriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. Heb. 13:4
Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!2 Cor. 5:17
Why not be in Christ and "wipe the slate clean?" Sounds good and true; isn't it? So whose report do you believe, science or God who made the body and wrote the manual? Do you believe/obey the manager of the company or the CEO who owns the company and employs the manager? . . . . . HB
For the birds jare! I got married as a virgin at the age of 24 and my life was like hell on earth before God delivered me. Iye
ReplyDeleteFor the "anonymous" saying she'd had played the field, had abortions and is happily married . . . you can be "anonymous" to man and blog visitors and Stella but are you anonymous to God? I hope you've repented and believed in the forgiving power of Jesus; if not, inescapably Judgment awaits you. The blood of those kids you aborted are crying against you and God hates hands that shed innocent blood; Prov. 6:15-17. Also the person that sheds blood will have his/her blood shed by another Gen. 9:6; so how many times have you had close shave with death? If you die today and all the "so called enjoyment" eludes you, do you know the cause? One word sister; Repent!
ReplyDeleteOriegwu!!..
DeleteHope you are perfect..sin is sin and God will judge her the same way he will judge you for lying..
For the "anonymous" saying she'd had played the field, had abortions and is happily married . . . you can be "anonymous" to man and blog visitors and Stella but are you anonymous to God? I hope you've repented and believed in the forgiving power of Jesus; if not, inescapably Judgment awaits you. The blood of those kids you aborted are crying against you and God hates hands that shed innocent blood; Prov. 6:15-17. Also the person that sheds blood will have his/her blood shed by another Gen. 9:6; so how many times have you had close shave with death? If you die today and all the "so called enjoyment" eludes you, do you know the cause? One word sister; Repent! . . . HB
ReplyDeleteI don't believe the research o!
ReplyDeleteso many that have tasted and seen which dicks are good or bad, they don't settle for less in marriage hence they have it all. money, good sex, better husband...u just name it.
while the mary-amaka-virgin-types? they enter marriage with no prior knowledge hence they bear whatever they find or we begin to read posts here like... .
Stella and BVs help! My husband peepee is too small.
Stella and BVs help! my husband doesn't last one minute.
If only the engine was tested...
PS: Virgins, pls keep it o! but shine your eye when its time for marriage.
Hahahaha @my husbnd peepee too small! Bloglord don cray aswear!
DeleteWhen am married I will comments appropriately for now am just reading and learning
ReplyDelete"Yimu"
Rubbish! Tell this to my then virgin aunty lol
ReplyDeleteHow do people come up with all these articles and write ups.Whether you sleep around before marriage or not, there's no guarantee that your union would be a blissful and happy one.What matters in marriage for a woman is her ability to keep her woman whether she is an ex whore or Ada Jesus.
ReplyDeletePlease whoever wrote this article is partisan and the writeup is skewed.I have read a thousand stories on this blog on the hassles of marital life and majority of the stories are from I will wait till my wedding night women.MY take on this issue is that if you love your partner and you love God and adhere to good advise, you're are almost always guaranteed to be happy,even when the downs are frequent.
Okay I hope they write an article about men who don't sleep around having happier homes or being happy. Infact I think the promiscuous women have greater surety about their partners' love for them,because any man that still wants them after their rendezvous will most likely really love them, unlike the Virgin Mary's, which some men already have this warped and misconstrued mind set of finding the purest as wife with/ without loving them and they get into these Virgins get into marriages thinking they've kept themselves for their God sent,then soon after the men start cheating and misbehaving, because they are only trophy wives and nothing more.
Please there's absolute no guarantee to a happy marriage or home,but everyone is guaranteed to be happy as individuals once they are steadfast and live for God and try to enjoy their lives.And yeah, Aunty Stella I just voted, I didn't think the link would be valid but it is and I voted, I hope my vote counts sha.God bless you all.
How do people come up with all these articles and write ups.Whether you sleep around before marriage or not, there's no guarantee that your union would be a blissful and happy one.What matters in marriage for a woman is her ability to keep her woman whether she is an ex whore or Ada Jesus.
ReplyDeletePlease whoever wrote this article is partisan and the writeup is skewed.I have read a thousand stories on this blog on the hassles of marital life and majority of the stories are from I will wait till my wedding night women.MY take on this issue is that if you love your partner and you love God and adhere to good advise, you're are almost always guaranteed to be happy,even when the downs are frequent.
Okay I hope they write an article about men who don't sleep around having happier homes or being happy. Infact I think the promiscuous women have greater surety about their partners' love for them,because any man that still wants them after their rendezvous will most likely really love them, unlike the Virgin Mary's, which some men already have this warped and misconstrued mind set of finding the purest as wife with/ without loving them and they get into these Virgins get into marriages thinking they've kept themselves for their God sent,then soon after the men start cheating and misbehaving, because they are only trophy wives and nothing more.
Please there's absolute no guarantee to a happy marriage or home,but everyone is guaranteed to be happy as individuals once they are steadfast and live for God and try to enjoy their lives.And yeah, Aunty Stella I just voted, I didn't think the link would be valid but it is and I voted, I hope my vote counts sha.God bless you all.
lease leave matter! I was a confirm 'miss goody two shoes' married my boyfriend who disvirgined me and fast forward to 18 years of marriage later I am sick and tired of the marriage jor, love and sex is dead,he cheats non stop and I really feel/long/ want to 'fuck' a good dick not make love jor. I wish I had enough sex with others before settling down. I just tire.
ReplyDeleteIf u've a 2-day old hiv negative test result when we meet n I'll produce mine,I WILL FUCK U TILL U TAP OUT!!
DeleteChai....some ppl have mind sha. see how someone is giddy in announcing dat she has committed 13 abortions. *phew* Lord have mercy on us all
ReplyDeleteIf I just hear....I used to have dz same perception until I became a victim of broken marriage after barely six months of marriage....Got married to my husband at 24 early dz year and the bone of contention was that I was simply too tight
ReplyDelete. According to him, at my age I ain't supposed to be that tight unless I actually tightened my vagina...at first I felt he was just kidding buh issues got to a head when he couldn't even release wenever we slept together...I on my own part tried everything on planet earth to see that I satisfied my husband amidst emotional and physical abuse but all to no avail and surprisingly he did release wen he met someoda girl....presently am back to my parents house tryna see if I can raise money to revalidate my PG admission at Awka wich I had already given up....mehn!!!!!!!
Moral of my gist; aint no straight rule to happiness in marriage...a man who got married to a virgin might end up sleeping with an ex girlfriend he knows has an ugly past without raising a brow, while on d oda hand a man married to a runz girl might end up madly in love with her......one man's meat is indeed another's poison....Am really a living witness and I guess now I know better...just believing God for a job so I can get back to school and make something worthwhile out of my seemingly hopeless life
AM OUT.........
I smell jazz .. tightness wey men dey pray for na im pesin reject hehe
DeleteIf I just hear....I used to have dz same perception until I became a victim of broken marriage after barely six months of marriage....Got married to my husband at 24 early dz year and the bone of contention was that I was simply too tight
ReplyDelete. According to him, at my age I ain't supposed to be that tight unless I actually tightened my vagina...at first I felt he was just kidding buh issues got to a head when he couldn't even release wenever we slept together...I on my own part tried everything on planet earth to see that I satisfied my husband amidst emotional and physical abuse but all to no avail and surprisingly he did release wen he met someoda girl....presently am back to my parents house tryna see if I can raise money to revalidate my PG admission at Awka wich I had already given up....mehn!!!!!!!
Moral of my gist; aint no straight rule to happiness in marriage...a man who got married to a virgin might end up sleeping with an ex girlfriend he knows has an ugly past without raising a brow, while on d oda hand a man married to a runz girl might end up madly in love with her......one man's meat is indeed another's poison....Am really a living witness and I guess now I know better...just believing God for a job so I can get back to school and make something worthwhile out of my seemingly hopeless life
AM OUT...
If I just hear....I used to have dz same perception until I became a victim of a broken marriage after barely six months of marriage....Got married to my husband at 24 early dz year and the bone of contention was that I was simply too tight
ReplyDelete. According to him, at my age I ain't supposed to be that tight unless I actually tightened my vagina...at first I felt he was just kidding buh issues got to a head when he couldn't even release wenever we slept together...I on my own part tried everything on planet earth to see that I satisfied my husband amidst emotional and physical abuse but all to no avail and surprisingly he did release wen he met someoda girl....presently am back to my parents house tryna see if I can raise money to revalidate my PG admission at Awka wich I had already given up....mehn!!!!!!!
Moral of my gist; aint no straight rule to happiness in marriage...a man who got married to a virgin might end up sleeping with an ex girlfriend he knows has an ugly past without raising a brow, while on d oda hand a man married to a runz girl might end up madly in love with her......one man's meat is indeed another's poison....Am really a living witness and I guess now I know better...just believing God for a job so I can get back to school and make something worthwhile out of my seemingly hopeless life
AM OUT...
If I just hear....I used to have dz same perception until I became a victim of a broken marriage after barely six months of marriage....Got married to my husband at 24 early dz year and the bone of contention was that I was simply too tight
ReplyDelete. According to him, at my age I ain't supposed to be that tight unless I actually tightened my vagina...at first I felt he was just kidding buh issues got to a head when he couldn't even release wenever we slept together...I on my own part tried everything on planet earth to see that I satisfied my husband amidst emotional and physical abuse but all to no avail and surprisingly he did release wen he met someoda girl....presently am back to my parents house tryna see if I can raise money to revalidate my PG admission at Awka wich I had already given up....mehn!!!!!!!
Moral of my gist; aint no straight rule to happiness in marriage...a man who got married to a virgin might end up sleeping with an ex girlfriend he knows has an ugly past without raising a brow, while on d oda hand a man married to a runz girl might end up madly in love with her......one man's meat is indeed another's poison....Am really a living witness and I guess now I know better...just believing God for a job so I can get back to school and make something worthwhile out of my seemingly hopeless life
AM OUT...
You! As young as u are na failed marriage dey mk ur life hopeless so? U better tk it easy.
DeleteAnon 7.44, hmmmn pele you are missing a lot o! One dick for 18 yrs? Chai! When no be compulsory medecine. Me am married for 6 years and na atleast 3 other dicks I dey taste steady. Abeg love and marriage is overated.when the chips are down you go know Say love no dey. I had a father who goes abroad when he has a headache for treatment,but sends my mum to a quack hostial with expired drugs. Where is the love After 35 years together. My hubby thinks of only himself before me and our 3 kids.he has no plans for His kids ,that I know.no sex for the past 2 yrs after my last baby,claims I gained weight and breast milk naeusates him! why Should. I have any serious plans with such a person? Lives in the same town with the mum and won't visit her ,even a poor woman down with stroke! I can't let any mad man kill me bf my time,I am a good wife,I will continue to act it ,but my brain dey dia! Can't joke with my side dicks,they are all married too,and its same Story. they are all my exes and am going to continue having them,infact one of them is coming in from london tonight just to see me and Go back on monday.tis ewu man can't visit me in my station just 3 hrs from lag! they give me pleasure,why will any one deny them selves of good things biko? Side dicks all the way abeg I no fit shout eeh!
ReplyDeleteSo u expected dat a man wu wldnt takia of d woman wu birthed him wld takia of u(madam is dis rocket sci?). One wld av tot, u wld becareful in pikin a spouse, sins uv had a 1st hand experience, but u no wat dey say abt gals falling inlove wit a man exactly lik dia fada. It is now left for u to ensure ur female kids do not follow ur path by piking a wrong man, dat is if u wld live long enuf to watch dem marry, cos u are living a very reckless life(d wages of sin is death)
DeleteThe world has gone to the dogs.
ReplyDeleteWow! Single n married Life is not the same........people n talk.......hmmmmm
ReplyDelete100% crap!! I know a virgin who is not happy in her marriage and her husband sleeps with ashy! Nigerian men can f### for Africa! They want virgins? Who would marry the females they have disvirgined or slept with in the past?
ReplyDeleteOur fore-mothers married as virgins, how happy were their marriages?
YOU PEOPLE NEED TO CALM DOWN ALREADY! I KNOW LOTS OF LADIES THAT MARRIED AS VIRGINS AND YET THE HUSBANDS DEY USE THEM DO PUNCHING BAG! MEANWHILE, THE RUNS BABES OUT THERE DEY CONTROL THEIR HOMES AND THEIR MEN!
ReplyDeleteTHERE ARE ALSO SOME VIRGINS THAT ARE LUCKY AND HAPPY IN MARRIAGE SAME AS RUNS GIRLS!
THE TRUTH IS THAT GOD CHOOSES WHO TO BLESS, HIS WORD SAID THAT I SHOW MERCY TO WHO I WANT TO SHOW IT TO, HE MAY BE BLESSING THE RUNS GIRL COS OF A PACT HE (GOD)HAD WITH HER GRAND PARENTS OR SOMETHING. BESIDES, WHEN SOMEONE REPENTS COMPLETELY, I BELIEVE THEIR SINS ARE FORGIVEN! IT IS NOT OF HIM THAT WILLETH OR RUNNETH, IT IS OF GOD THAT SHOWETH MERCY! EVER THOUGHT ABOUT MARY MAGDALENE?
Lol! Everyone now knows someone that is not happy. Its actually to a percentage! The point here is the percentage of one is more than the other. And I see girls that have bedded lots of men carrying d matter on their head. Most decent and godly (decent not virgins) girls are actually happier than the pre- runz girls in their marriages. I have equally seen lots of them that are suffering in their marriages. That u finally picked and dusted a sissy who worship u or u married one rich sugar daddy(who still cheats on you) doesn't make u any better than a decent/godly gal with a blessed marriage. I am no virgin but I don't justify sleeping around. I also know am decent. Sorry to all runz girls.
ReplyDeleteI hear most of the sluts here saying they got married after sleeping around with almost the population of two nations and they are proud! But one thing i want them to confess is how they use voodoo and witchcraft to get these men they called husbands. Some say the runs girls get married and the virgin girls no husband or they married some crazy guys. The truth is the virgin girls don't know how to seduce men while the slut are professionals to seduce,manipulate,and bewitching men. In fact I call almost 99 percent women "WITCHES" Marrying a girl who has had sex prior to marriage is 99 percent risk. So you take what you get. Don't let all this whores fool you and tell you it doesn't matter when you do marry one you will know. Though marrying any woman,girl,ladies as the name implies in this generation is SUCIDE! Is just the mercy of God. And if any man finds that good one please take care of her!
ReplyDeleteI hear most of the sluts here saying they got married after sleeping around with almost the population of two nations and they are proud! But one thing i want them to confess is how they use voodoo and witchcraft to get these men they called husbands. Some say the runs girls get married and the virgin girls no husband or they married some crazy guys. The truth is the virgin girls don't know how to seduce men while the slut are professionals to seduce,manipulate,and bewitching men. In fact I call almost 99 percent women "WITCHES" Marrying a girl who has had sex prior to marriage is 99 percent risk. So you take what you get. Don't let all this whores fool you and tell you it doesn't matter when you do marry one you will know. Though marrying any woman,girl,ladies as the name implies in this generation is SUCIDE! Is just the mercy of God. And if any man finds that good one please take care of her!
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