We got some friends and family like this in the real world....it looks like they are there for you but look for ways to actually bring you down...secret ways that you will never find out....
Some ask God why he should bless you and not them.
They are officially your BFF and watch your back,act like they would kill for you but eventually kill you.I know two actresses who were like this until one of them found out that the reason she was always in the press with her pants spread out was because the BFF was ratting her to the press and calling the same press when the publication is out to rain curses on them...LOL.
Watch your back from people who got your back...does not apply to every relationship.
Word!!!! Frenemies too much...... Trust no one.....
ReplyDeleteMy circle so small I speak to myself.
DeleteLol @Swerve
DeleteI speak to the Holy Spirit, can't shout. Never been one for friends.
DeleteI have learned to watch my back a long time ago. I'll rather be alone and happy than to have "friends" and not have peace of mind.
DeleteFre-enemies always hanging around deeping their eyes and noses ,that's non of my business
DeleteI feel you swerve, better to drive yourself crazy than someone else to drive you crazy.
DeleteThis is the reason my friendship circle became verrrrrry small,almost nonexistent.
ReplyDeleteFought too much physical,mental and emotional battles early in life from friends,so right now,I no fit shout.
We stay civil.No serenre.
The reason I don't have bff. They can set u up anytime.
ReplyDeleteThis is soooo true..I get them plenty.
ReplyDeleteI used to be open and free with my female friends till they started hurting me..The first one ruined my relationship..I was already on d verge of getting married to my guy when she struck and ruined it...Trust me,i avenged it and hurt her back..Dont ask me what i did cos it aint funny..Its been four years but is still hurting and looking for a way to get at me...i dont regret what i did to her.
ReplyDeleteSo many of them hurt me...Since i got married i've been staying away from my female friend..They were all itching to come to my house and meet my husband...One of dem jokingly told me she will snatch my cute husband if im not careful..They kept asking after him and his names....I avoided dem like a plaque..i could go on and on...
There's nothing like bff..Keep ur friends at arms length especially women...They can be dangerous atimes.
If you're the one on your profile and thats your hubby too biko mechionu.. see mgbeke feeling funky.
DeleteIn Olamide's voice "Story for the gods"
DeleteJust passing by with my side eyes.
Why all of una dey do yimu sef???make una stop am o.
Nnem no mind dem, their own hubbies no cute. Some of dem no even get hubbies sef.
Hahahahaha, anon 12:48 has choked me with laugh
DeleteLmao!! Odikwa egwu
DeleteAnon 12.48pm, I tire o. Infact thank u very much.
DeleteI had to go through her profile to see her pics and that of her 'cute hubby'. I wasn't disappointed to see how ugly she looks. And to know dat she comes to dis blog to insult people who are way finer than her, people whom she can't even stand side by side with on any level at all.
I think some people actually behave d way dey do because they have very low self esteem, so dey try to cover up for it same way she does. SMH
Lmao. This anon will not kee me oh....lol
DeleteIt pains me that women are their own worse enemies. A man can easily come in between them.
DeleteSDK, continue eating up my comments o. Issokay
DeleteBwahahahahahahaha! Idiots are hating on me bcos i have a fine husband..Bitches go and die!
DeleteI'v been in situations like this..they would act really nice,act like they care.but at the end its a different story. Some so called friends would back stab you so badly...watch your back from people who got your back.
ReplyDeletehmmmmm....The good Lord keep me away from enemies as frnds n frnds like enemies.
ReplyDelete@Galore
Wow!!!...
ReplyDeleteFrienemies everywhere...relatives are even worse...I don't keep friends that don't make a positive impact in my life..
My new bff is mama Tope,a 60year old grand mother..I have learnt so much from her,correct woman that knows what's up I love her like my mother...she can keep secret for Africa...you need to see us attend owambes together..
Shout out to mama Tope,miss you like kilode..she is a blog visitor too...
Wait till she comes to borrow and u turn her down.no be yoruba woman??
DeleteShe will not only leak ur secrets,she will also add ajinomoto and curry to make d gist spicy.
Be careful!!
Hahahahahahahahahaha...no she is not like that...I have tested and trusted her,she is different...LMAO
DeleteLooooolzzz, Ezewanyi is a case
DeleteLol @ Ezewanyi so true, I have a friend I have never said no to until last dec, she needed some cash from but I was broke also and for the first I said no to her request, my dear thats the last time we've seing each other o, each time I called her she acted as though the network was breaking n she could'nt hear, dis a friend that frequents my house like tomoro no de. The race is not to the swift Ecl 9:11
DeleteOde ni e ezewanyi,u igbo can gossip for Africa,onr igbo woman wey dey come wash clothed for my neighbour,na her gossip dey wake us every Saturday,she go talk about her husband,her customers too,shior
DeleteLinda Yoruba na Yoruba o! They can snitch for Africa. When e go happen, no come cry for here o. Na wetin only u sabi na Im be secret, once u tell am anoda person e no be secret again.
DeleteHahahahaha. Ezenwanyi na real comedian. On a serious note,all these things cuts across all tribes,its not a tribal behaviour. Am sure if we all start writing about various experiences,this space no go do us.
DeleteHave u ever seen yourba movies end without seein babalawo,jazz and d rest.I would rather be with d enemies than to be with Yourba people whether young or old...
Delete@oluwasun,
Deleteoloriburuku ni iya e ati baba e!!
Apoda omo irankiran.
Iwo kinikan radarada bi ajeku were yi.
ko tun ni dafun awon to nie.
Every tribe has their fault,so bcos u will be heartbroken I shouldn't advice my sister.
@Cute shawty,u are right but this is about Linda and her supposed friend.
DeleteI ve lived among d yorubas,I know d way they think,their mannerisms and all and that is y am warning her.
God knows am not calling them out but if they feel aggrieved they can take their shot.
Na wa o! Talk about tribalism.. All the commotion in Naija ain't enough for y'all? Yet you slander yourselves like this? Idk the Yoruba person that has come on here to talk filth about Igbo people yet, y'all have so much venom against them.. It's well with you folks.
DeleteTaaaaaa! Who wants to be with u? Oshisco! Back to da matter, my circle is so small too, at times I wish I had lots of friends sha so we can do girls nite out and all those ishhhh! But it's Berra to keep it small like dis jare. I've had my fair share of snitches uni days. So I'm cool lyk dat yo! You feel me???
DeleteYou hv a problem chiwe. Talk to God
DeleteStella,where are my comments???
DeleteEzewanyi may God heal u from your pains,and return your curse back to your household
DeleteStella release my comments naa.....
DeleteHian!!
Right back at U @Dayo Oluwaseun.
DeleteDont ever call anyone ode bcos U do not agree with them.
word!
ReplyDeleteI always hope for the best and expect the worst from people. that way, I don't feel so bad when they mess up.
Glo- 11196 48704 17953
Blog Lord I see your're on a giving spree today. God bless your heart for reaching out.
DeleteStella hmmmm! This kind of friends are real. God has been exposing mine to me slowly. It'll be out in the open soon.
ReplyDeleteI just don't know how and why the heart of pple can be this wicked. Delibrately making moves to sabotage your progress both physically and spiritually.
My God will keep fighting for me. Amen!
Hmnnn... *sighs heavily*
ReplyDeleteYup...
ReplyDeleteDo people still have BFF? My husband is my bff. I associate with some lady's but don't call them friends because I don't talk about my life with them.
ReplyDeleteI dont have stories that touches the heart so i will just read comments
ReplyDeleteMay God help us all from backstabbers,and give us the wisdom to know them from a distance.
ReplyDeleteOnly God can forgive my extended family.
ReplyDeleteI won't say more than that!
Heaux aint loyal
ReplyDeleteOnly in God I trust
Exactly!
DeleteSometimes family(blood) can be worse
ReplyDeleteStella I no get any Bff o. God is my bff cos my secrets are safe with him. Someone you eat and sleep on same bed with will turn and back stab you like no man's business. We ladies are our own worse enemies sef. Trust me i go shine the teeth well with you but that's where it ends. I have had enough with fake friends. I don't even know which story to write sef cos dem too much. I learnt my lessons the had way.
ReplyDeleteGod save me from my friends,I can protect myself from from my enemies.
ReplyDeleteNow everyone is claiming to have been stabbed by a bad friend. Who are the ones doing the stabbing?
ReplyDeleteWatch yourself though. If you are a bad person, you are likely to attract bad friends.
A good friend is tremendous blessing.
U dey mind them.
DeleteGbam! Gbamer!! Gbamest!!!
DeleteHmmmm…People!!!
ReplyDeleteAntystella..u nor even ask after me as u nor dey see my commentzzz.....na so we go dey dey??....anywz, av resumed 4 my NYSC. Camping sha......back 2 d mata,am a one man mopol,my deepest secrets lies between God and i,infat eh,ΐ can neva shar it wit any living soul cos nowadays,we are surrounded by wicked envious dealy enemies who come as friends.....to me,ave bin ones bitten and now am one billion shy.....miss SDK and SKDers mucho.....
ReplyDeleteYou have resumed for your NYSC camping. Uni grad.
DeleteAntystella..u nor even ask after me as u nor dey see my commentzzz.....na so we go dey dey??....anywz, av resumed 4 my NYSC. Camping sha......back 2 d mata,am a one man mopol,my deepest secrets lies between God and i,infat eh,ΐ can neva shar it wit any living soul cos nowadays,we are surrounded by wicked envious dealy enemies who come as friends.....to me,ave bin ones bitten and now am one billion shy.....miss SDK and SKDers mucho.....
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha...Stella should of you as per what nau?who you be?you no even get I'd sef...
DeleteOriegwu!..
*ask
DeleteGot this quote from a very old time friend..she stated to me "make friends;but don't have a friend".......and that's just the truth..personally;I keep friends with the opposite sex(female folks) cos it would be soo rare for an opposite sex to sell you out..the few friends I have among the guys act like they care;but I actually know they don't..they act like they wish you well but stab you at the back..they are just typical frenemies;but I still like them tho and pray for them(even act like I trust them too)..but for me to share any of my problem or secrets with my male folks;that's the last thing I would ever do(oma mme kwa)...but talking about my female cliques;they are just the best type of friend any being could ask for...MY BFF for instance.. **MARTINS ABOY**
ReplyDeleteI advice you to be careful, the heart of man is desperately wicked.
DeleteWoman wrapper. Men are better at keeping secrets of a true friend. Check ya sef.
DeleteHaters everywhere,cant even trust a family member
ReplyDeleteTrust not thy shadow, Jesus is your only best friend and mine too.
ReplyDeleteEven the wall have ears. I talk to God in my heart cos He is the only 1 that will make my dreams come through.
ReplyDeleteEven the wall have ears. I talk to God in my heart cos He is the only 1 that will make my dreams come through.
ReplyDeleteNot only friends Stella, your blood sister can stab you in the back just to remain in parents good books.
ReplyDeleteIt's terrible. These days I ve plenty acquaintances and zero confidant. If I can tell my creator who would even solve my issues for me why tell mere mortals?
Utuocha .....
Friends friends..i thank God for d few I hv made. I recall when I was going through a very tough time they took care of me and gave me strength to scale through. I miss them everyday cuz every1 is so busy facing life.#youattractyourkind
ReplyDeleteMy dear! The degree of betrayal is epic! Especially from so called "family", anyway na end time things sha.
ReplyDeleteI don't trust any one.
ReplyDeleteZibah's signature (Event house)
#sharon was here
Back in my uni days,my roomate n i used 2 b best of pals and the envy of oda babes.The moment my guy propose 2 me,she changed,she almost broke our relationship,always telling my fiancee negative tins about me,she realy stab me in d back.I paid her back in her coins.Happily married now,i gat no friends,i keep my pains,grieve,secrets 2 myself,n am so loving it.
ReplyDeleteFriends and family are important o, we only need wisdom in our dealings wif them. The race is not to the swift Ecl 9:11
ReplyDeletemy favourite quote.
ReplyDeleteTony Montana: Who put this thing together? Me, that's who! Who do I trust? Me!
My boo is my best friend. You need to see us gisting,more than friends.
ReplyDeleteFriends ke? I dey fear them pass enemies sef because you know what your enemy can do but a friend who is actually an enemy can be very dangerous.
My boo is my best friend. You need to see us gisting,more than friends.
ReplyDeleteFriends ke? I dey fear them pass enemies sef because you know what your enemy can do but a friend who is actually an enemy can be very dangerous.
I have a friend who is a widow and a colleague we work together , cause of her status I know things were difficult for her so I would bend over backwards to make her comfort ate , give her money , food stuffs , take her home , drive her to places she wanted , on weekends if she was broke I would send money to her , didn't know the idiot was such a back stabbing bitch .
ReplyDeleteAnother colleague had to call me to be careful as everything happening @ home with my husband was all over the place , said out mutual friend was telling people my gist .
When I had issues in the office I realized she was not a friend to stand by you , I just cut her off . She like following people that has money . But me no more friendship any where am always by myself and if I have gist na my husband oooooo. # Bukkibaby#
My boo is my bff o..I ve been dealt with several times way back in sch..These girls can never be loyal!!
ReplyDeleteUsed to keep friends but when I got married my bff turned to be my hubby and my single friends are saying that am feeling superior. They won't understand shaa until they tie the knot.
ReplyDelete@Chinwe Jessy,do you have to turn this thread into a tribal discussion,must you mention Yoruba people?i tire for una people sometimes sha,later when the table is turned,you guys would be acting like victims.Its better you learn to judge people based on the individual personality,rather than generalising on a whole tribe,hian hian..Olufunke
ReplyDeleteDE one dat really hurting much are so called friends fucking ur wife and pretending to be ur friends without them knowing dat u has knew all there doing to ur marriage and so called wife giving them every imformation about u,you can no longer shares ur secrets with de woman u called a wife,,just having pity for my duaghter each time i look at her face cos can never still be living with such woman as a future wife,,need to replan life again,,everytime seeing those guys outside and back house to see her face or her voice,feeling killing some one,but can never do,MY GOD WILL FIGHT FOR ME,just told her last week dat i knew all dat has being going on with them all but today one of de guy saw me and turn his face at bush,meaning she has told them too.evil woman
ReplyDeleteIf your wife is fucking your friends,that means there is something you are not doing right...
DeleteCheck your self...
If your wife is fucking your friends,that means there is something you are not doing right...
DeleteCheck your self...
Linda tell him d truth.
DeleteOga u no sweet simple.
Oga sorry u hear
DeletePls try to be creative
There are several ways to get ur woman to orgarsm,sotey wen u go work she go dy think of u and she go dy weak like doDo
First and foremost my man you need to be sure that your daughter is yours. Like my sisters have said if she is sleeping around and selling your secrets then maybe you are not sweet enough. Kindly free her let her go and satisfy her sweet tooth elsewhere till she gets diabetes. Safeguard your life. ........ Onanikoko
DeleteFirst off those people are not friends. The Bible tells us to trust NO man, so if you use the wisdom of the Bible as you life guide you will be okay. I don't even trust my own self at times, why would I trust others too deeply.
ReplyDeleteBitch, go to the post where they are helping the needy, my husband is a billionaire, na by mouth? Deluded mufu.
ReplyDeleteOooops, I forgot you dint go to school so you won't understand what it means to be in school and have an ambition to finish, lousy leech ..
My mom, my younger sister+hubby!! And yes my children when they have grown. They re All I need ooo! I'm friendly to all but Never close to any.
ReplyDeleteEzenwanyi Nwanonukpo Eze Ochiagha 1. I remember a comment where u mentioned one Yoruba woman as your close pal. Whatever happened? Did a train pass btw you pple. It would have been nice if you had advised Linda not to trust pple instead of playing the Yoruba card. I respect you ma and I enjoy reading your comment. But all these Yoruba n Igbo comments are so unnecessary. We are all human, hence capable of evil and nobody should or can be trusted.
ReplyDeleteOne luv!
Bro/sis,abeg no vex.
DeleteI make this joke with my friends all d time and d truth is I dont even ve igbo friends.
I am home with my yoruba friends and we tease a lot she calls me aje okuta ma mu omi and I call her ofenmmanu at times she calls Ojukwu agbari Ojukwu and it goes back and forth.
This particular trait is common with yorubas and u know it and some igbos do it too buy Linda's comment about her yoruba friend brought it up.
pls am very sorry.
Hope we are cool??
Ezenwanyi, the snitching trait is a myth which started with Awolowo/Ojukwu/Biafra brouhaha and has been perpetrated by Igbos ever since.
DeleteI worked in a bank known as "Igbo bank" and I kept hearing the Yoruba snitch joke. No one could prove it though and I, the Yoruba person became the no 1 confidant to most of my Igbo colleagues.
You and I know there's no trait peculiar to any tribe.
Human beings are capable of all manner of evil irrespective of race, religion and gender.
@ Goldscent,a le wa para wa jhor!
DeleteI agree that human beings are capable all manner vices but this particular one is about Linda's friend.
No vex abeg !!
@Goldscent if I jist u wat tope my former colleague did to me ehn,u will oen ur mouth but I do not attach snitchin to a particular tribe(individual xter) although were I worked before had more of yorubas's,I met the Good,bad and ugly ones(xter wise). Generally humans are not to be trusted,no body is perfect
Delete@Goldscent if I jist u wat tope my former colleague did to me ehn,u will oen ur mouth but I do not attach snitchin to a particular tribe(individual xter) although were I worked before had more of yorubas's,I met the Good,bad and ugly ones(xter wise). Generally humans are not to be trusted,no body is perfect
DeleteOne love, Ezenwanyi and Mrs Chu Ude. I understand you.
DeleteFriends sha. .. We still have good ones
ReplyDeleteI have just a few good friends
ReplyDeleteI don't know how pple make new friends o cos ehn TIME NO DEY,most of the time I am just too busy. Most times I relax from 10pm.
We have all had our fair share,Good friends come from God nd dy are gift to man cos wit the high rate of jealousy,Trust no one.
I remember a coursemate and a friend I give foodstuffs in school dos days,wetin she do me ehn I no fit talk finish,chnge tins ontop my head,brought htred from oda coursemate to my doorstep,dy just hated me,sometimes I wonder y. Not until my final year I heard d gist,I almost fainted but I left myself to God to take control but God vindicated me(no b only me she do sef,),dis one is just d lil that hapened o,. I thank God for everytin that happened to me and I hav forgiven those who offended me cos it taught me a big lesson,it made me SIT UP.
I also did sometin I wsnt proud of,I saw my friend hanging out wit some strong eye babes in school den,I called her as a friend(I dy form advicer nowamagbe),told her not to get involved with them cos dy might affect her negatively,na sincere advice o cos pple who know me,dy know am a very free and simple person but not perfect.. The babe go tell dem o,been dat all of us n coursemate o,dy vex for me o nd I regretted it cos God knows I didn't mean it dt way. Since den I mind my business o even till now,. I have learnt so much in this small world .
No man is an island,u will need a friend one day,I have few good friends,I impact positvely from them and vice versa.
Goodnight BV's
God pls help me o! Na me b d. Bad 1, my 2 bestie. Think am a good person, I v bin sleepin with my paddy1's man 4 a long time, withoUt her knowing, and phone sex with her boyfrnd, even pics, and paddy2 sleeping with her man 2, mean while dey tell me everythin about dia menh, so that wat I Use against dem 2 get d men, tryin 2 settel dem and all, God 4giuve me
ReplyDeleteU are so evil. U need Jesus. Karma is a bitch
DeleteGo and sin no more... Confess if you can, if u can't just stop.
DeleteEzenwanyi Nwanonukpo Eze Ochiagha 1!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE YOU MORE FOR BEING THE BIGGER PERSON ON THIS BLOG!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you for replying me. Am the anonymous who pointed it out that you have Yoruba friends also. Infact you just confirmed to me that you are one carefree but loving and caring grandma (or to be). I will try getting a blog ID self. For now I will sign my posts as Unsolicited advice.
ReplyDeleteOne love SDK!
To the person yanshing her besties bf, there is God o. Repent before his wrath falls on you.
Awwww.......I will be on d look out for ur comments.
DeleteGod bless U my sister.
yoruba peeps tufiakwa . had one for a husband and that has been my biggest regret. No regards for the institute called marriage. Greatest backstabbers nd so pretentious. 99.95 percent of em
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