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''Hi Stella.
I've laughed and yabbed quite a couple of people that bring their stories here not knowing I'd be in this same position someday.
I have a very good and enjoyable marriage. Not to blow my trumpet but I've really got it good going for me. When I read stories of some marriages I wonder if the ladies got their men from Mars.
My husband is a good Christian doesn't drink or smoke and for a decade now I've not had cause to question his fidelity.
I resigned my job after my first child because we both agreed I should stay home to nurse our kids and go back to work after I'm done with child birth. So I gave up my hopes of becoming the next Okonjo Iweala and my thriving career. Barely a year down the line I got really bored and started a cottage business just to keep me busy.This business blossomed into something great and has found its way to a lot of homes.
Something happened recently that got me thinking hard about my husband.
He was praying for the kids and I recently and he prayed for God to make his children greater than presidents and when he got to my turn he prayed for guidance and protection only. I think that prayer clearly spells his intentions for me. I've decided to shine my eyes.
I've been saving for almost 2 years now to organise a 40th surprise birthday and buy a brand new car for him but after this incidence I changed my mind. I called my mum and told her my intentions to purchase landed properties without my husbands knowledge. I'd buy in her name and she'd will them to me so if she passes away I'd acquire them as inheritance. She bluntly refused.she says my husband is a good man she can't betray him. I told a friend and she asked the kind of mother I had.
I'm not jealous of my kids. My only annoyance is that my husband is selfish and I think he let me give up my career for fear that I might soar too high. So right now I need to start making investments without his knowledge because he discourages me from doing anything even expanding my business to other states and all along I thought he had my best interests at heart not knowing they are all schemes just to make sure I don't go outside limits he has set for me.
Men eeeehhhhn! Mtscheeeeeeeew.''
Lmao.
ReplyDeleteAlobam,welcome back!!..hope you are good...
DeleteA lot of nigerian men are like that; they hardly want their wives to soar high for fear of losing control.
DeleteOf course if u get the opportunity to invest without his knowledge, by all means do.
Click my name for all your celebration cakes and cupcakes, cheers
Foolish poster.. divorce him let single girls looking for a husband marry him.. idiot
DeleteDunno wat to say, just be careful nd keep ur eyes wide open even when ur sleepin so d man won't overtake u by force. Lol
DeleteWhere is Pepper osu oku? I have not seen her comment for a while now, please Pepper come back oooo! Alloy nwoke Ike is not happy because I have not seen your comment, please Pepper my sweetheart come before I start to nauseate, cos just like food without pepper can make one nauseate, SDK without pepper osu oku is not good oooo! Please come I want you to tell me where I can get that thing *winks*
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Men nd deir cunning ways...no woman shuld b a stay hme mum...look for smefn doin
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Thanks my Alobam,am good and hope you are good as well?
DeleteNonsense! While some women are complaining bitterly about how evil, heartless and neglecting their husbands are, you are here making a mountain out of a mole hill! Why must you cause problem for yourself? According to you, your husband doesn't drink, smoke, he provides for you and your kids, above all, he doesn't cheat on you. So why do you want to throw all that away all because he prayed for your kids to be successful in life? Well, i will say your mum is full of wisdom, that's why she refused to be part of your mischievous antics. This reminds me of what my friend once said to me, he said and I quote; "the problem with women is they don't really know what they want, even God himself doesn't know what women really want". I think I'm beginning to understand what he meant now... My candid advice madam is for you to focus on building and protecting what you have. Most women out there don't have it! They can give an arm just to be in your shoes!! Most women have a blossoming career and everyhing money can buy but deep down, they are not happy... Think about that. Cheers.
DeleteHubby has a fear of intimidation eyah, take it to God .....
DeleteI don't see anything wrong in your husband's prayer, he sees you as succeeful already and he prayed for protection and guaidiance you are complaining? If for that reason you think your husband is evil, then you are a bad wife striving to be better than your husband by all means. You better chill and keep thanking God for who He chose for you as husband.
DeleteSometime we women just like starting wahala by ourselves...kilo tun fe kolorun se fun e? You have a prayerful husband that pray for his family and you are complaining? Pele o madam ngozi owela.....hissessssss @ poster
My dear poster, hmmmm, from experience I have seen that as women our minds play too many games on us for nothing, most things we worry about never happen, we keep reading wrong meaning into things, thank God for my husband, my paranoa before no get part 2, all my investigations and suspicions led to nothing, pls talk to ur hubby about ur concerns FIRST before u do anything. Hear what he has to say & see his reaction, u would be shocked at how silly u went far for nothing, plus he probably prayed for ur children cos they r still upcoming and u r already a made adult
DeleteBLOG ANALYSER: I laugh in spanish! Madam! I am using God to beg u, I have read all the comments here. Biko adhere to the good comments. That is, u can always save in ur account bt wen it comes to buying properties u can buy in your name however he has to know abt it. This depends on d type of marriage u pple are runing. I admonish u to keep nd protect ur peaceful home.
Delete1000likes Lloyd Oliver!
DeleteThanks anonymous, she's truly foolish.
Delete10,000Likes at Loyd Oliver.
DeleteHuh. You have a good and God fearing mother. Wisdom is profitable. Your husband merely prayed for u the best prayer that made Solomon excel, and which till date NO man can equal or rival. WISDOM and guidance from above darling.
DeleteIf u apply the wisdom from God into training ur kids, therein lies your success as a mother and a virtuoso wife. Your career or position in ur office, ur account balance etc, are NOT the prerequisite to being successful. That house u want to acquire behind ur husband will not measure ur innate wisdom or succesd. Those kids he prays for are who will determine what would be said of u and hubby in future. Rather, invest in them tru prayers and giving them ur time. Your husband is right. That's all.
Im single, getting old and no husband. Please divorce him so girls like me, that'll cherish him, that need a husband, can take him. You don't deserve him fool. Im sure its your big headeness that made him say just that prayer for you. Idiot that doesn't know you don't tell single friends whats happening in your marriage. FOOL im looking for a husband and this goat wants to destroy her marriage because her good husband said a prayer for her. Irritant
DeleteLloyd Oliver chop kiss jare.... poster ur really looking for problem where there is none.
DeleteAnon 11:30pm take it easy ooooo
DeleteMadam, you are making a mountain out of a mole's hill!
DeleteYou have a husband that even prays and you are complaining about his prayer point?
I salute your mother for not supporting your decision and I hope your friend would not betray you by snitching to your husband or try to 419 you because she knows your financial status.
My advise is to have a secured saving account that ONLY you know in a reliable bank in case of the unexpected. Buy one landed property in your first daughter name with your husband knowledge with you as co-sign.
Haha....men. but you sef.you no know say no matter as the marriage sweet you suppose get your own "backing". Cos he is like the perfect husband doesn't mean you shouldnt have your own investments.Infact,you should have an account he doesn't know about. Yeolske
ReplyDeleteShe said she has her own biz and savings her husband doesn't know about.
DeletePoster you are lucky you got to know your husband's true nature, will and prayer for you. Have a solid financial backing. Don't use up all your savings to buy propeeties. Safe some cash in a bank and leave it there. No ATM, no booklets, no alerts, nothing. Once in a while, check the account in the bank to ensure your cash is intact. Leave the money there in case of emergency for yourself and kids.
You can still buy lands with the remaining money in your name and make your kid(s) next of kin without your husbands knowledge.
Finally, be very careful. When God expands your biz and you be come very rich, he will become so jealous that he will start creating problems in your home.
Whatever you do, do it with wisdom. Good luck.
Poster I don't see anything in having ur own properties, it doesn't make u a bad wife, u don't need to hide it either, bcos when u hide it and he get to know later, he may be suspicious of the source of the money. U don't need to hide ur own investments esp where he buys property in his name, so if u can afford any, buy in ur own name.
DeleteThanks dear...I meant investments. The type her mum refused to be part of.
DeletePlease how did she get to know the "true nature" of her husband? Unbelievable! Oh! Is it because he bothered to pray for her at all? I'm still trying to process how a prayer for guidance and protection = not wishing you well. What if your hubby doesn't pray at all? Please just because men are known for their shenanigans doesn't automatically make all men evil. Wow! I can't even believe some of the comments I'm reading. Wow!
DeleteAsk me o Ronalda! I was reading her write up and I was just shaking my head. No where did I see any strong proof that your husband is who or what you think he is. Abeg come borrow my husband! Then you'll know what you have! He prayed more for your children than you, and you are jealous! Imagine this : some years down the line you find out your husband has lands and houses in choice places and you never knew, how would you feel? That's exactly what you are planning to do to him. You have a good marriage, don't let the devil use you join statistics o! Draw your ear, I don talk.
DeleteRonalda I tire for them ooo.... madam poster u hv it good appreciate what u have and dnt use ur hand to invite the devil into your home... appreciate the good and the bad in ur hubby no one is perfect biko..If it bothers u so much talk to him and I think u shuld go ahead and celebrate his 40th birthday. every Woman shuld love thier hubby unconditionally and pray for them always
DeleteCynhams cake, am sorry but I do not like the tone in which u advice her. Sounds vindictive, rebellious, competitive, and absolutely distasteful to say the least. Haba, what has the man done wrong that u say he will get jealous later? She's his wife not his business associate. He's wrong doing is that he prayed for his kids, their kids o. Madame poster u are just fanning d ember of discord in ur home without knowing it. Like I said earlier, it is YOU who needs a reality check and not ur hubby. I pity the man in advance.
Delete@Cynhams,did i hear u right?!SMH. Na her own hubby we r talking about here o,not one wizard in her village o!
DeleteNa wa for this cake woman o! What kinda silly advice is dis one?.... smh better face ur cake biz and stop giving rubbish half baked advice
DeleteDon't blame CYNHAMS, I noticed so many blog reader don't really understand what they read and that informs their kind of comments. Not understing a question properly before giving an answer is the reason behind examination failure in Nigeria.
DeleteYoung woman you are creating unnecessary problems for yourself which you might regret in future, and I hope you don't regret it, you are beginning to view your husband based on prayer he said, as if he was wishing you bad in the prayer. Abeg no create problems Wey u no go fit carry, please try and think above your shallow mind
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Good comment. Some women just jump into conclusions for no or little reasons. He tells u his intentions but u want to keep urs away from him, u really wanna start trust issues in your marriage and later come on SDK and start crying wolf. Woman, ur husband is a good man just like ur mum said and u should rather communicate with him or even question him jokingly about his prayers for you. Don't betray his trust in you cos of his prayers o. Abeg. What u r planning to do by keeping properties or investments away from him break marriages. We have had enough break ups, separation and divorce already, pls help us to save urs, Ise esu le leyi o (this is devil @ work). Like I said communicate and jokingly talk about his prayers for u. God bless
DeleteMy thots exactly.he is a good guy.he prayed for ur kids.u r vexing he didnt pray for u to be okonjo iweala.i pity u.wait till he starts giving u problems u will really worry abt.
DeleteTank u bro.
DeleteTHANKS FOR TELLING HER THE TRUTH, HOPE SHE LISTENS.
DeleteGbam! Gbamer!! Gbamest!!!
DeleteDo women really know what they want?u even have a man that prays for u sef,not the one u will be begging to with u....Please go ahead and give him that surprise birthday bash,he deserves it. Lastly,stop discussing ur hubby with friends other than ur mum and siblings!ur friends are envious of u,they wish to be like u!the only people that will tell u the truth is ur family.
DeletePoster you should know that that friend of yours is unfriendly, your mother is a very good woman. Pray harder because devil is creeping into your home.
Deletexoxo
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Poster, if u like go n buy d properties in ur friend's name. Wen she runs away nd dupes u, ur eye wee clear. Trouble go siddon jeje, dem go dey find am. Don't come back on dis blog to cry when your plan backfires oh
DeleteHahahahahah...
ReplyDeletePoster,you are a wise woman jare...
Some men are scared of their women taking all the shine...Oriegwu!!...
Madam Linda abeg am bored wit dis ur curse Oriegwu..
DeleteWe have many curses in igbo language dat u can use, so why don't u pick another ok make dis one rest.
Thanks for ur cooperation.lol
"We have many curses....". Hian! is "oriegwu" a curse? Obviously you're not Igbo. Stay off her case, I know many people that log in here to read Queen's comment. It's called having a good sense of humour. Do not drive her away please. Oriegwu means "it is terrible".
DeleteIt's what she wants to use. No read her comment if you are bored. Na you get her mouth? Abeg Nigerian women and oversabi. Face your front Becky.
DeleteThis is not a curse pls. Oriegwu means 'it is fearful' alobam Linda no be so?
DeleteKai!Trouble sit yanga go wake am.
ReplyDeleteTo be blunt you will be a big fool if you try that.
So because he didn't pray for you to be Oprah Winfrey now you want to use your hand to break your home.i pity you.its that your same friend that will go and tell your husband you have property you bought wtout telling him,and start dating him when your marriage breaks down.
Do you know the prayer he prays secretly for you when he is alone? Are you God?
Thank God for your sensible mother. At least when your marriage breaks down the world won't blame her.
Nonsense.
Sensible comment
DeleteGod bless u anon 1;54pm. I pray she listens!
DeleteMay God bless you anon 1:54.
Delete@Poster, your mum is a very wise woman, listen to her.
I don't see anything wrong with your husband's prayers.
Cut off from that your so called friend. She is a bad influence.
Don't allow the devil into your home. The devil hates to see happy couples and he is using you to destroy your happy home by sowing this seed of mistrust in you.
You have a good husband. Don't do anything behind his back. If you must acquire properties, please tell him about it, I'm sure he won't stop you from doing so.
If you have any concern about your husband's wishes for you, I suggest you dialogue with him, and watch his expression while at it, you'll be surprised to find out that you are worrying your head for nothing.
Be guided.
1+1. Is1 so relax. Ur destiny wil b ur destiny. Keep on praying u dnt nid anoda persin prayer to wrk for u. Kpakam
ReplyDeleteEeeyaa...that's all I could say after reading your story. I think you should have a talk with him, tell him money or no money you'd still be his wife. Some men just can't stand d thought of their wives making more dough than them. Guess your hubby is in that category. N while @ it, start saving n don't change your mind about buying him that car. That might just make him know you also have him in mind...EEE!!!
ReplyDeleteI always say this, never assume! Correct me if I'm wrong, but where in that prayer does it state that he doesn't want his wife greater than him? Or am I reading the write up wrong? OK o. Just be careful.
DeleteMy dear.. It's like we are marrying the same hubby.. My hubby loves me.. Provides everything for me but when he prays.. He only prays for himself.. I will not fail, I will be this and that and closing, he will say God protect and guide my lovely wife... Serious? He believes a man's job is to provide for the family and not a woman's.. So my dear... I realised my hubby doesn't wanna see me thrive in my career or any other thing hence his refusal of me working.. So I now focus on saving..: I have saved up to 3million naira... He doesn't know about.. Because these men can turn into else anytime, any day..still playing the best housewife and milking him .. Lol
ReplyDeleteIt's a man's job to provide and protect his family. He has done nothing wrong. Instead of devising a means to wreck your home with your own hand, why not Siddon and enjoy the threat the good man is giving you. What you people are toying with is what some women are fasting and praying for. The Bible didn't say it's the woman's duty to provide for the home, it is the man's duty so continue to pray for him. And for the poster, please go ahead with your surprise birthday party and gift, it will only open more doors of blessings unto you
DeleteWORD! we tell women here all the time, but you still hear stupid stories like "I thought he lobed me and now he sent me packing" or "I found out he has two other families outside" . please please the only people that will advice you not to put all your eggs in one basket are the ones who are opposing your idea of "getting prepared" if the worst should come.. Please poster save save and continue to save.. Noan wants his wife to be more than him.. And that is a fact, they are so insecure..
Delete*am out*
Una strong ooooooo!
DeleteHmmmm I don't know what to say. I fear some men so I encourage wives to save for a rainy day. Any man that doesn't want you t gather for a rainy day is evil. It's not even a matter of divorce o, what about other issues. What happens if he can't provide again? What if he passes on...you and your kids will be fighting with in-laws. Our men tend not to use wills etc. Let everyone do as they see fit.
DeleteMadame you no get problem.
ReplyDeleteKosi rars
DeleteExtreme love is what your husband has for you. He asked God for what money can't buy yet you think he doesn't love you or he doesn't want you to soar.
ReplyDeleteA foolish woman destroys her home with her own hands.. thats what Chineke said. No matter how much you have, without Gods guidance and protection, u r nothing. Ask Steve Jobs
Nna ehn, u copied this comment from my mind!
DeleteDon't mind her. SMH for some women sha. Because he didn't pray that u become president or governor ? At least he prayed for guidance and God's protection over you, is God's protection not enough? He prays for u to live long and u r complaining. Heyyy, na wa o, Greetings to Chief Ebenezer Obey with his song "Ko sogbon to le da, ko si wa to le wu, to le fi t'aye lorun o" meaning (no matter how wise you are or your good behaviour towards people, u can never satisfy them). SMH for u, WOMAN, Womaaaaaaaan. Obinriiiiiiiiin.
DeleteThank u o, better dnt use ur hand to spoil ur marriage. Looking for trouble where there is non.
DeleteU just hit the nail on the hedge. Poster, do u know the kind of prayers ur hubby says for u wen he is alone? You are about destroying your home. Stop letting ur mind play tricks on u.
DeleteAbeg tell the foolish lady. You can also save money not because you think your husband does not have the best intention for you. What he has is is also for you and the children. it was a prayer and communion between him and his children. please listen to your mother and chop sense period.
DeleteThank you oooo
DeleteThank you, o jare! Is it not when there is life, there is hope? He prayed for your well- being and your children greatness and you are angry? Are you in competition with your husband? I don't understand why spouses should be comparing and constrating each other success? Is the business not in your name? Even if he mis behaves in future, you can stand on your feet. Be thankful you have a praying husband!
DeleteHissss,he prayed for ur protection. Wot else? Madam abeg leave us alone! Na love dey worry u, go n sex n get well.
ReplyDeleteIf ur children become presidents or top society officials, are u not part of it?poster I think u have difficulty with comprehension and also u are a desperado.thanks
ReplyDeleteThat's how men are
ReplyDeletePoster u r a foolish woman! Destroy ur marriage n send Stella a msg on her u ruined ur marriage! Fool
ReplyDeleteWoman, you silly. Some men don't even pray for their spouses, some pray that their spouse should die so they can inherit her properties/investments, and some men are jazzing their spouses so they can take new wives, but yours is praying for you and you are running helter skelter. Please, disappear from this space.
ReplyDeleteMadam no use your hands invite trouble to your home o. The best you can do is save up, or if you want to invest invest in your childrens name listen to your mum's advice and talk to your husband about your plans don't listen to friends because
ReplyDeletenot all friends have your best interest at heart.
I typed a comment it didn't publish.
ReplyDeleteSummary of it is I don't think the problem is your husband.
You guys had an agreement are you done with Child bearing and he refused you working? Why scheme behind his back and try to drag your mum in?
So he prayed for your kids more than you,m do you want to be greater than your kids?
Na wa o
Please fix the money nau,hian.I believe in transparency in marriage but that does not mean you can't run your personal accounts. Buy him the car, throw a party for him but ensure you have your own savings.
ReplyDeleteStop discussing such issues with friends, with your mom fine .Do not destroy your marriage, love your husband but set money aside, save save save.All the best.
Well depending on how many times he has done that, if it's just once, he might mean no harm. When next u pray together, after he might 've finished mentioning his prayer points, try adding urs, watch his reaction and d way he goes about it in ur next praying session, if same, then ignore him and make ur plans like investing. NB this shouldn't bring problem between u 2, u can as well make a personal prayer and state ur point there.
ReplyDeleteNa wa o. Dis kind man go fit give u rat poison sef. Nwanne chakwa anya gi ofuma. Wen he gives u thing to eat and drink make sure say him drink first. Feed am wella.
ReplyDeleteBabe.... I apologise in advance but I have to say this for someone soooooooo educated u sound absurdly illiterate!!!
ReplyDeleteHe prayed for guidance for you from God so u don't get overly carried away with your. "Success" to the extent of Lording it over him and to the detriment of your children and protection from the useless friends you obviously have that can have the Effrontery to say such about your mother(who is a great mother by the way) .
Madam poster pls sit ya behind down buy him the car, you have a great Husband that's God fearing, its every sensible and God fearing Parents prayer for Our Kids to be greater than we are..... that man Loves u all immensely
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or u buy the Land in the name of your children.......
Or at night when U're gisting ask him why he choose those prayer points for you......Its better than talking to those silly friends of yours that envy u anyways or bringing it out here for the proverbial lizards to widen the cracks in your wall.
You should be a bit more humble madam..... don't break the hedge lest the devil comes in and makes u worse than Job!! What u have that u think u've arrived is chicken change to small pikin Wizzy and Co o!!!
Calm down for Jesus and do the needful...... Appreciate your husband More before one small girl that won't mind if he doesn't pray for her talk less of being concerned about prayer points, comes and show him how it feels to be loved and be without faults!!
Selah
P.S - I'm a lady just like you. This isn't a personal vendetta against u..... its just that the ingratitude oozing frm this post Stank to high heavens.
Efe
God bless u for this write up.
DeleteOr you start attending divorce court proceedings so that you will see and hear THINGS . You got no problems dear. Just love him back.
DeleteYou know...reading this crap you wrote....as a married woman, I am pleased to tell you that whenever married women are called on, you are a GREAT EXAMPLE of a FAILED ONE!.... It is quite unfortunate buh it is what it is.....I could NEVER feel sorry for your kind....and I am talking bout even if he serves you divorce papers today.....I mean, he even prayed for you sorry ass.....if you actually read stories here, you would know that you got absolutely nothing to worry bout....I mean people talk bout not having jobs, not having money, deadbeat dads, not having children....and you come here with a selfish interest and expect a backing....naaa......and I say this from a very good place.....that irritating mentality needs to be on lockdown!......IT IS CALLED MARRIAGE!...1 + 1 = 1!....I am looking forward to seeing you write bout how your marriage collapsed......YOU CAN'T FIX WHAT IS NOT BROKEN!!....and right now, that's exactly what you are doing....you are creating a solution for a non-existing problem....who does that?...I'm guessing women who aint qualified for marriage like you!
ReplyDelete@Ernisea whoever you are, you deserve a hug for this write up. Poster you are one of those girls every mama warned his son about.
DeleteCan't believe Erniesha can type this long, and making so much se se...lol...poster i pray you follow the advise of Erniesha and other right people here. May God guide you ooo. Sweetbussy
DeleteThumbs up for dis comment. U just gave it to her raw and undiluted. Hope the poster will listen to the voice of reasoning cos after reading this her mail again, i saw a proud woman who is on the verge of destroying her home.
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DeleteWell said!
DeleteEvery woman, married or not should ve plan A,B and C, if the "C" is possible cos these guys ain't loyal !! And u shouldn't depend on men for everything cos u ll be heartbroken wen find out they don't depend on u for anything . Truth be told, men love independent and strong women. At the poster, I don't think u ve anything to be worried about cos u ve smth going for u already!!
ReplyDeletePls women don't be stupid in love !! Men are bastards pls have ur secret acc , secret prop , etc. u don't know what might happen tomorrow . Do anything you want for him but pls safeguard ur self . Speaking from experience .
ReplyDeletePlease, not all men are bastards same way not all women are gold diggers. True, all women should have a backup plan because you never know. I'm sorry you had a bad experience and I pray God heals your broken spirit. If ladies go into marriages with an active exit strategy, why bother getting marry? Tackle challenges as they come but to get married with so much negativity will surely attract negative results, that's the law of attraction. Not all marriages end up badly.
DeleteMadam not everyone will experience what u experienced!All fingers are not equal after all,so shove ur experiences in ur ass!
DeleteWahs bad abt prayin 4 ur guidance and protection n how does dah depict selfishness, as a young psychologist,(mrs woman) ure d one at fault and ure d one dah is selfish..u will only b right with ur lame excuse if u ask or tell him abt ur ambitions,and he refuses I wud believe u then buh not dis nonsense ure Talkin based an arbitrary and capricious opinion of urs dah wears fallacy with a matching jacket of mirage thinking,to me dis is an excuse to hide sumtin from him ure d one been selfish and greedy,,many ladies stay at home during child birth ,banker,doctors,etc urs is no difference,ur thinking like dis becus u hv ur wide eyes dah luk like owl outside,,tell him n see his responds b4 jumpin into conclusion like who sponsor boko haram btw PDP and APC,I tink he prevent u from openin branches across d country he isn't sure of ur faithful ass whn u travel out.just be good n loyal,,involve him more to ur plans n he wud see no reason to limit u, plus sit him down tell him boldly abt everytin u tink he is doin to u, trust me he is goin to apologise n gve u d go ahead cus men dnt want their wives to knw they ar cagin them even if it seem so****the psychologist****
ReplyDeleteI think you missed the whole thine because, your perception may not be correct. I think he loves you. he wants you to be guided properly.
ReplyDeleteI think an average African man believes he should be the provider. I don't think he has bad thoughts towards you, though that does not mean you should not save for the rainy day.
ReplyDeletePlease, madam, do not discuss such sensitive issues with your friends, they can betray you o. Only God can be trusted.
Please, do not destroy your marriage based on mere suspicion. Rose
This woman what is your problem? What is wrong with that prayer? NOTHING! I can see your life and marriage is beginning to feel too perfect so you want to destroy your home. Well madam good luck while at it. By the way, you have a GREAT mother.
ReplyDeleteWahs bad abt prayin 4 ur guidance and protection n how does dah depict selfishness, as a young psychologist,(mrs woman) ure d one at fault and ure d one dah is selfish..u will only b right with ur lame excuse if u ask or tell him abt ur ambitions,and he refuses I wud believe u then buh not dis nonsense ure Talkin based an arbitrary and capricious opinion of urs dah wears fallacy with a matching jacket of mirage thinking,to me dis is an excuse to hide sumtin from him ure d one been selfish and greedy,,many ladies stay at home during child birth ,banker,doctors,etc urs is no difference,ur thinking like dis becus u hv ur wide eyes dah luk like owl outside,,tell him n see his responds b4 jumpin into conclusion like who sponsor boko haram btw PDP and APC,I tink he prevent u from openin branches across d country he isn't sure of ur faithful ass whn u travel out.just be good n loyal,,involve him more to ur plans n he wud see no reason to limit u, plus sit him down tell him boldly abt everytin u tink he is doin to u, trust me he is goin to apologise n gve u d go ahead cus men dnt want their wives to knw they ar cagin them even if it seem so least I 4get pls buy him dah car cus whn u do u hv jux succeeded in openin d gate of his heart to grant ur request buh dnt do it cus of d request do it becus u love him cus dah gift am sure wud boost his confidence dah u wud always remain loyal to him cus at first he might even belve u had dah moni to buy him a car so go ahead wid ur surprise package****the psychologist****
ReplyDeleteMe dear, instead of think dis way, u should have started a joking discussion based on dis worry of urs!!! Since he is everytin u ever wanted, he allows u continue ur business without stress n he listens, pls n pls DO NOT TRY getting anytin witout his consent!!! A word is enuf 4 a wise woman i pray u are
ReplyDeleteDear Poster your husband is not the problem you are.
ReplyDeleteFrom what you wrote here, I don't see his crime, how did praying for his kids to become great and for you protection make him a bad person? I don't get it.
Your mum is right! Did your husband stop you from pursuing your career? Are you done with child bearing? I don't get your story at all
@the queen n the boss of this blog. U dis foolish woman claiming royalty and another woman's intellectual properties,whn in reality ure a slave at home and the boss of all the imbecile,u beta not support anytinn dah will brk sumone's marriage or else d gate of hell will fall on dah ur head dah luks like mango.
ReplyDeleteWomennnnnnnnnnn.......... who can understand them?. continue trying to break your perfect home and see who pack in when you're done with your home. It's true that trouble sleep Yanga go wake am. Chikena
ReplyDeleteThese are some of the stories I read and I just begin to wonder if I should get married or just be like the whites and call our selves partners, if anything goes wrong we go our separate ways as partner. Trust is a very big issue in marriage just because of prayer points you are beginning to hv second thoughts about your husband the last time I checked marriage was for better for worse,this is how the devil comes and plays with our sense of reasoning,planting evil thoughts in our mind. Thumbs up to your mum I hope you don't regret your actions and say those words (Had I known)
ReplyDeleteMr Lyca.
You notice something about your man, you didn't have conversation with him,talk sense into his head and let him understand some of the things he is doing that create doubts. By the way if your man is praying for your kids what’s wrong with it? sometimes men do not really see things the way women see it when they do something wrong unless you call their attention to it. My problem is with you not with your man,your business and the amount of money you are making is getting into your head, you feel on top of the world even without your man you feel you can make it, my dear climb down from your ladder because you are about to break your happy family. You have a very very decent mother and a good woman as a mother, she feel what you are doing is wrong. Let me tell you those your so called friends will run away when you are thrown out of your home because of your action. I know some men don’t really like when their wives are higher than them in income but is all about understanding, is not a black man thing is men’s thing. What you lack now in your marriage is communication with your man,all i see through your write up is a woman who’s ego is getting bigger as her business is growing. You can choose to have properties,business, investment and still WILL everything onto your kids name even with the knowledge of your husband with good communication.
ReplyDeleteJM, God bless u for this comment, all I could read from her write up is the fact success is getting to her. Thank God for her Godly mum. Madam change the women u keep as friends, half of the women on this blog have real issues like domestic violence ur only issue is "ur husband prayed for u".
DeleteTruthfully I pray for ur husband , he should be careful with u.... Oh and I'm a lady
Bless you Jay Moore for this...
DeleteSweetbussy
Lol, madam is seeing things when there is nothing to be seen!
ReplyDeleteCAN..
Wahs bad abt prayin 4 ur guidance and protection n how does dah depict selfishness, as a young psychologist,(mrs woman) ure d one at fault and ure d one dah is selfish..u will only b right with ur lame excuse if u ask or tell him abt ur ambitions,and he refuses I wud believe u then buh not dis nonsense ure Talkin based an arbitrary and capricious opinion of urs dah wears fallacy with a matching jacket of mirage thinking,to me dis is an excuse to hide sumtin from him ure d one been selfish and greedy,,many ladies stay at home during child birth ,banker,doctors,etc urs is no difference,ur thinking like dis becus u hv ur wide eyes dah luk like owl outside,,tell him n see his responds b4 jumpin into conclusion like who sponsor boko haram btw PDP and APC,I tink he prevent u from openin branches across d country he isn't sure of ur faithful ass whn u travel out.just be good n loyal,,involve him more to ur plans n he wud see no reason to limit u, plus sit him down tell him boldly abt everytin u tink he is doin to u, trust me he is goin to apologise n gve u d go ahead cus men dnt want their wives to knw they ar cagin them even if it seem so least I 4get pls buy him dah car cus whn u do u hv jux succeeded in openin d gate of his heart to grant ur request buh dnt do it cus of d request do it becus u love him cus dah gift am sure wud boost his confidence dah u wud always remain loyal to him cus at first he might (not) even belve u had dah moni to buy him a car so go ahead wid ur surprise package****the psychologist****
ReplyDeleteWahs bad abt prayin 4 ur guidance and protection n how does dah depict selfishness, as a young psychologist,(mrs woman) ure d one at fault and ure d one dah is selfish..u will only b right with ur lame excuse if u ask or tell him abt ur ambitions,and he refuses I wud believe u then buh not dis nonsense ure Talkin based an arbitrary and capricious opinion of urs dah wears fallacy with a matching jacket of mirage thinking,to me dis is an excuse to hide sumtin from him ure d one been selfish and greedy,,many ladies stay at home during child birth ,banker,doctors,etc urs is no difference,ur thinking like dis becus u hv ur wide eyes dah luk like owl outside,,tell him n see his responds b4 jumpin into conclusion like who sponsor boko haram btw PDP and APC,I tink he prevent u from openin branches across d country he isn't sure of ur faithful ass whn u travel out.just be good n loyal,,involve him more to ur plans n he wud see no reason to limit u, plus sit him down tell him boldly abt everytin u tink he is doin to u, trust me he is goin to apologise n gve u d go ahead cus men dnt want their wives to knw they ar cagin them even if it seem so least I 4get pls buy him dah car cus whn u do u hv jux succeeded in openin d gate of his heart to grant ur request buh dnt do it cus of d request do it becus u love him cus dah gift am sure wud boost his confidence dah u wud always remain loyal to him cus at first he might (not) even belve u had dah moni to buy him a car so go ahead wid ur surprise package (after dah use dis phrase say'darling I want u n I to soar higher together then make ur request)****the psychologist****
ReplyDeleteWhatever you're doing, don't go to extremes. Some men can be funny at times, granted,but tread softly. #myopinion Happy Sunday SDK fam.
ReplyDelete* tasha barbie *
This is ever best funny post ever read here,poster without Gods guidance and protection,what will you be or do on earth?a bad wife will always being a bad wife no matter how much loves you show to her,a monkey can never be a humanbeing in cote,just imagin if u has become okonjo iwela now with the same way u has change ur mind in reasoning nd also wishing ur own mother death with a land to wills you?nawah for you,,mama abeg i no go marry dat lady again oo,i want to wait for my own wife who will never change her mind for bad
ReplyDeleteHaba! Madam you re too sensitive and very competitive. Go ahead and buy whatever you need,don't use the prayer excuse to do so. Its ok for a woman to ve her own money or property. The man coulldnt ve parayed for you to be higher than presidents cos he knows how unrealistic and sarcastic that would sound.
ReplyDeletePls shut up, its d likes of u that will destry ur wife's career then throw her out penniless.
ReplyDeleteMy dear poster, do not go ahead with your plan of getting properties without your husband's knowledge, you are not solving anything but instead giving him a reason not to trust you anymore. I know of a lady who bought a land,built on it and only told her husband about it after it was completed. The fact that she could do all that without him knowing made him feel she couldn't be trusted anymore. She had obviously lied about visiting places while she was inspecting the building site. To cut a long story short, they are no longer together. Poster, review your friendship with the lady asking you what type of mother you have, instead ask her what type of friend she is. Your mother is absolutely right and wishes you well. I'll advise you sit with your husband and let him know how you feel. He may not have meant any harm. Who knows, he may have gotten a premonition about what you are about to embark on hence the prayer for protection and guidance. Just my opinion. Good luck. Bimbim
ReplyDeleteStop talking to that your friend!!! She is out to break your home.your mother has given you a good advice.discuss your concerns with your husband.if you are not satisfied with his answer, pray and pray some more.please don't spoil a thing
ReplyDeleteMadam ur wise joor. Most men do not want their wives to rise above them, hence they try to suppress them by asking them not to work. By doing dat u'll end up being under them n depending on them 4 life. Its nice 4 a hubby to be d provider anyway. But women should be encouraged to be what they want to be too. Our place is not only in d kitchen n taking care of d kid. Thanking God 4 my DH who is always encouraging me to be d best in my career. Infact am an introvert to d core but he always push me to go out, visit friend n miss up with pple. My hubby, my friend. Yes ke.
ReplyDeleteNa wa oo. Person wey get head no get cap!!
ReplyDeleteI don't like to insult people, but I really feel like saying your a STUPID woman!!
How do you like divorce and living alone? Please start preparing for it the moment you start investing and acquiring properties behind your husband.
You have a man that is good and prays for he's kids, instead of you to be worshiping him and thanking God, you are there saying he didn't pray for you to be feeding him.
Mumu how many woman have men that take care of their children, talk more of praying for them.
You better sit down, have a rethink and be counting your blessings. Do you even know if that man is the source of God's blessings in your life?
Just like Jacob was the source of Laban's blessings!!
Please don't use your hand to create problems where there is none oo. Buying properties behind you husband is as good as killing him.
How would you feel if the table was turned?
A wise woman build her home.....
Be wise!!
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DeleteI dont want to type more dan dis or insults go Follow.
Dis poster is Pure Evil...
Make I no talk again cos i no wan curse dis yeye woman cos of her good mom
What is greater than guidance and protection?
ReplyDeleteDear poster, u r d one with issues. U have misplaced priority. What is above peace of mind? It is with guidance and protection that you can achieve that which u crave for.
DO NOT buy properties in your mother's name ooo! Even if she wills them to you, it will cause canter ooo! Not everyone will know the properties are yours in the first place.
Please be contented. You av a gud man!
I keep saying it,dat women are d cause of deir problems,u av a husband who prays 4 u nd u still dey find excuse. Foolish woman,na una typ dey allow strange women take over ur homes. If u so much dislyk ur husband 4 d listed rubbish,u put up,divorce him nw and watch anoda woman take ur place. Foolish woman. Renegade says so.
ReplyDeleteMadam before nko, is itnot men again. Make your plan solid and execute it silently but still play the perfect wife, do the party and buy him the car because it will throw him off from monitoring your plans and movements. Be wise!
ReplyDeleteTrust no man because anything can happen, forget born again o cuz na them worst pass.
My dear, your husband loves you. I say this based on your write-up above; except if there are other things you noticed.
ReplyDeleteI will go with your mum on this one. Still buy him the present you intended for his birthday. keep being a good wife but of course save some money somewhere that's if you have some doubts about him.
Your husband did not pray bad for you but good infact one of the best prayers.(guidance and protection)
Please keep your home. Don't let money matter dive its ugly head into it.
Alloy u are the only one dt made sense here
ReplyDeleteWoman continue looking for trouble where there is none. Continue to allow d devil deposit evil tots inside u jst to scarter dt which u cherish most(ur home). I can see dt d devil has started registering evil tots in ur head. I dnt blame u shaa,na too much bv stories dey worry u(all men cheats,all men are liars,are men r selfish). And now d devil has told u to monitor ur hub and see if u wl see any of ds trace in him . U didnt notice ds since,na now u dey notice am. Continue to allow d devil to make u an instrument,wen it backfires dnt say i didnt tell u.
pray to thank God you have a husband that loves you and prays for you. nuff said
ReplyDeleteAlloy u are the only one dt made sense here
ReplyDeleteWoman continue looking for trouble where there is none. Continue to allow d devil deposit evil tots inside u jst to scarter dt which u cherish most(ur home). I can see dt d devil has started registering evil tots in ur head. I dnt blame u shaa,na too much bv stories dey worry u(all men cheats,all men are liars,are men r selfish). And now d devil has told u to monitor ur hub and see if u wl see any of ds trace in him . U didnt notice ds since,na now u dey notice am. Continue to allow d devil to make u an instrument,wen it backfires dnt say i didnt tell u. ur mother must sure be a good and godly womqn.And u v even started telling friends,sorry fr u. Am so sorry fr u. Continue looking for advice. Sure u wl get dt kind advice u dey seek. Some will even tell u dt ur husband is a cheat. I trust sdkers. Trouble komoko.
I personally do not see anything wrong with your husband's prayer. You and yours belong to each other! The devil is trying to manipulate you! It is also not wrong to have personal investments. But the intents matters... Don't be the proverbial foolish woman the BIBLE talks about! Think before you embark on a trip of self destruction... I don't need to tell you what the end will be.
ReplyDeleteHow about you sit down and have a chat with your hubby regarding your concerns? There is nothing wrong in having things in your name and to be honest this issue apart you should acquire things in your name. You are only investing wisely. However like I said earlier please have a heart to heart chat with your husband. You need to clear your mind of every doubt and also share your feelings with him.
ReplyDeleteIf not , without you realising it you would suddenly find your self and your husband drifting apart and the question on your lips will be "but how did it come to this? "
That will NEVER be your portion in Jesus name. Am glad you have something keeping you busy, you sound like a good mumpreneur, so if opportunities arise do not hesitate to invest, you are doing it for the kids not your husband. I don't know if I have made sense but please never live with doubt in your mind, it is a powerful mind manipulator and it gives birth to nothing but suspicion and assumption.You sure can imagine what suspicion and assumption can lead to if not addressed on time. God bless.
Wise lady... babe abeg shine ur eyes wella dis was how my dad almost ruin my mum not knowing dat my mum had build a very big house bigger dan my dad own,as d man begin misbehave na mumsy turn landlady. Wen family members decide to settle dem my dad insist dat my mum must drop d house document to him na there my mum families provoke ..... imagine my dad get only one house and he gat 15 children though my mum is d first wife but my dad gat one son during his secondary school time....... men are too jealous of women donno y.
ReplyDeleteYour mum case is different because your dad had other wives and children. In such situation, I would support your mother to get landed properties since she is the first wife. But this is different! .
DeleteThe first woman that did something without his husband's knowledge was Eve; and how far did she go? Your mother is a wise woman; very wise woman and if you will not listen to your husband, perhaps you will listen to this wise lady that gave birth to you. Your friends do not like your marriage and typically of women; they want to laugh at you. Why don't you (if you must) open up to your husband and tell him "honey this prayer you prayed the other day got me thinking . . . why did you not pray for my business to prosper for us too etc." And hear him out. If you tear your home with your own hands, you will soon see the futility of your "investments and secret accounts" etc. If you have an ear (just one ear) hear!
ReplyDeleteEse,is that you? Lol
DeleteThe first woman that did something without his husband's knowledge was Eve; and how far did she go? Your mother is a wise woman; very wise woman and if you will not listen to your husband, perhaps you will listen to this wise lady that gave birth to you. Your friends do not like your marriage and typically of women; they want to laugh at you. Why don't you (if you must) open up to your husband and tell him "honey this prayer you prayed the other day got me thinking . . . why did you not pray for my business to prosper for us too etc." And hear him out. If you tear your home with your own hands, you will soon see the futility of your "investments and secret accounts" etc. If you have an ear (just one ear) hear!
ReplyDeleteIts a culture tin.
ReplyDeleteSo mayb u are worrying ursef over nothing, abi aint u a nigerian?
A woman, az bin brot up to accept to be a subordinate, u were tot unconciously to pray dat God prospers ur husband, n blesses him wit 2 more cars even after e already az a car.
U feel witot even knowing it dat dia is no how ur hubby does well in life dat it won't rub off on u.
But a man?! Nah! E knows its his role to takia of his family, the average nig man mentality is, if she earns more den I lose dat respect. So all dey pray for is genrally,good health, and yes good future for dia kids even d females(ShinesTeeth Dey can't hlp it)
Madam u no get problem. Its a rare attribute to find a man wu can accept a woman with succesful carreer. U av analysed ur marriage n u say its farely gud. Abeg enjoy it, save ur mony, get ursef a landed property if u want 1, and get him a gift to show ur appreciation to him.
U can't av it all!
Madam poster, pls dont create ish for urself as theres none yet wit what you stated above EXCEPT there r oda tins u havent mentioned...
ReplyDeleteOrganise the surprise party but for d car I really cant say so u dnt create the impression that you have more than enof..
DO NOT BUY ANY LANDED PROPERTY WITHOUT TELLING UR MAN, Secrecy in marriage is a sin before God. Oneness and transparency is what the bible preaches
@poster,yes u now knw his mind towards u tru prayers! I tink its dumb for women to chill on der careers cos of 1 man all in d name of luv nd marriage! We will be sucessful togeda,nd the children will be alright! A lot of destiny nd career killers called husband! Pls wats ur purpose on earth as a human bn? Jst reproduction??? What abt the prophetic declarations dat we say concerning bn great??? How will u b great if u dnt av sometin good doing! Ur husband is a selfish man,expand ur business if u av to! If he dies tmrw,av smtin to fall bck on dat won't be "our son's money".
ReplyDeleteNothing wey person no go hear 4 dis world. Foolish woman u hv a near perfect marriage and if u destroy it with ur hands na u go suffer am. Ur even lucky he prays sef. Wats better dan guidance and protection? Ur too daft. Jonathan is d president but pls tell me does he look to u like he has guidance or even protection? See wat Boko is doing to him and his govt. Ur focus on materialism will be ur undoing. Dat ur husband is very wise 4 since I was young and now dat I'm old I hv never seen anyone dat has guidance and protection dat didn't prosper. I guess if u were Solomon's wife u wud hv slapped him wen d only thing he asked God was 4 wisdom. Let me spare u bc of ur good mother. She is a rare gem. I know of mothers who hv destroyed their daughters' homes. May God continue to bless her. Bye,u bad daughter of a great mother.
ReplyDeleteWoman stop worrying yourself. How can you complain over a prayer that comes from the heart? Now let's talk about your husband prayer for your children who will gain more among you if your kids become presidents? Do you know the kind if prayer he prays for you in the secret? It you want to listen to your bad friend and start investing outside your matrimonial home and without you informing your husband go ahead madam cash. It might interest
ReplyDeleteYou to know that that same friend if yours might be the one feeding her family that's if at all she's married may God bless and keep your mother
Me too I nid to start saving even if my marriage is just 1yr old. No time ooo cos dis men are unpredicted
ReplyDeleteY not simply ask him what he means if u don't get it?
ReplyDeleteY creating problems where there is none. It appears your home is peaceful and u have a good husband like you have confirmed. Tell him y u are worried n how that statement made you feel den watch him closely. It's well with your home. By d way if u ever choose to buy properties, do it in your own name. Do u kno ur mother can will that property or fail to even make a will?
Pleaseeee be very smart madam.
Women tho
ReplyDeleteIndeed pple perish because of lack of knowledge.The Bible stated that the woman is the helpmeet,but you sound like you are competing with your husband.I hope you don't destroy your marriage with the way you are going..You should bless God for having a good mother,your friend you are telling your marital ish might not have your best interest at heart..Be wise
ReplyDeleteMadam poster u are looking for trouble where there's non. If u don't like ur husbands prayers then pray for urself.
ReplyDeleteAll these assumptions because he prayed for you? He didn't cheat on you, he isn't an abusive hubby, he provides for you and the kids but just because he didn't pray the prayer of Jabez, you start throwing fits? Are you sure you've been reading stories of troubled marriages on this blog, yet you can't see what a great guy you have? Please go and prepare his favourite dish and give him mind blowing sex later today and stop acting like a spoilt child. As a woman and a mother, you don't need to be told that you must save up some money for yourself or good investments if you can. Your hubby, the angel you painted him to be, isn't your God. Can't you pray for yourself? Who determines your destiny, God or man? My darling I actually think you are overreacting, probably the poor guy meant no harm. Please don't start sowing seeds of discord in your marriage and be very careful how you tell your friends about your home.
ReplyDeleteUr husband prayed for guidance and protection for u and ur complaining?? Gosh, some ladies sef..Abeg hurry up and destroy ur marriage u hear. I just hope u realize d stand ur abt taking b4 its too late
ReplyDeleteFOLLOW YOUR MUM'S ADVICE. DONT LISTEN TO PEOPLE WITH UNSETTLED HOME.
ReplyDeletelol
ReplyDeletelead the prayer next time
and use same prayer intention for him then watch his reaction
YOU ARE DOOMED IF YOU NEGLECT YOUR MOTHER'S ADVICE.
ReplyDeleteWhy don't U tease him someday and ask him why he said that kind o prayer for U(the other night). I believe that in that 'atmosphere' he will reveal his true intentions. U can plan your next move from there rather pre-supposing something that probably didn't exist.
ReplyDelete*P.S: I don't think I can ask my wife to give up her career completely just cos of our kids. Every human being is entitled to chasing his/her dream.
Madam u better go back and tell that ur friend that u decided to take ur mum's advice and continue to save ur money. A word is enough for d wise cos it's that yr friend that'll start dating ur hubby when she's finished telling hin what u did behind his back. I pity u.
ReplyDeleteDo not, I repeat do not trust any friend, they're all evil
ReplyDeletePlease dear ones advice me on the business I should go into with 1million Naira at Abuja that will yield me more income. I am a guy, and really need your advice please my lovelies.
ReplyDeleteReading the comments, I am forced to comment cos I am not a comments person. She made supposition upon supposition based on prayer for God's guidance n protection. Does God not guide one to greatness? DOES GOD not protect one from untimely death, sicknesses n impediments to success? I could asmwell say he is praying for God to guide me to be my greatest in life and protect me from all the forces against achieving my destiny. Evil communication corrupts good manners - woman ur friend is leading u to destruction. Out of the abundance of the heart a mouth speaks - woman, u have for long harbored that notion that ur husband is against ur success n insecure. I plead with u by the mercies of God do not destroy ur home, rather discuss with ur husband. OK. GOD BLESS, CN
ReplyDeleteThat's why communication is very very important in Marriage. DISCUSS with your husband...explain how you feel about his prayer; although "Guidance and Protection are absolutely perfect prayers.
ReplyDeleteThank you Ronalda and all the good people on this blog giving good advice.
Madam, you need to ask God to renew your mind. Look at the plan you hatched and asking your mum to partake in it. Truly, you are a stupid daughter of a great mother. May God bless her.
Yes, save some money but not for only you but for YOU and YOUR husband in case of rainy days.
You have a husband that prays! and you are complaining?
Madam, you need to apologise to your husband for doubting his love for you.
Please keep your home oooo do not let money issues break your home.
A word is enough for the wise.The bible says no matter how far you've gone on a wrong road, turn back!!.Change poster, change. Your wealth is getting into your head already. You forget that this nice gentleman asked you to stop working (while he provides) so you could look after the children. I know women who their husbands are pushing hard to get back to work a few months after giving birth. Go thank God oooo.
Also keep your hands clean, do good to your husband. Abolish all crazy plans from your head.
I pray for your home today, May no devil through whatever form, money, bad friends rear their ugly heads into it in Jesus name: Amen.
I wish Mr. Fantastic would advice you on this one. He calls a spade a spade.
Please hurry up and buy the land without telling him....but before then, drop ur hubby's contact details here for me. I have some friends who would appreciate a wise and caring man like ur hubby...and your kids would be well taken care of.
ReplyDeleteP.S..he obviously knows pride has gotten to your head hence his prayer for Gods guidance on you.
Madam don't listen to all these people allying you stupid o because when you come back here with my husband has another family story they will be the first to call you stupid for not saving and planning your life behind his back also. Tell your friend you took your mums advise. Get a good lawyer, build the house, save save save, and expand your business. I'm telling you now these niggas are not loyal at all. Men can do and undo o. Madam do your thing abeg of you but keep it between you and God. Do not tell any friend please.
ReplyDeleteMadam!!dont just lemme put my stress from cooking all thru the weekend with 4 kids running around on you!!are u for real!!!maybe if ur husband was sleeping with your househelps or beating the Suarez outta u ur mind will reset!!! Men don tire with women abeg!! Even the one they're not thinking about we will say they did it,ask married women how many times thier husbands even have time to pray talkless of praying for them,instead of u as a woman to pray for u and ur family Ua waiting for ur husband to pray for u before u become Michelle Obama abi,nne abegabegabeg!!!park one side!!!
ReplyDeletePoster, every wise woman saves up for a rainy day but we do not do it with the mind that our husbands are devilish. They can't help themselves. They were brought up to provide alone. We should be grateful that he is even so mindful. Some of us have husbands that are only by name and nothing else. Your husband is human, if he acts like he doesn't want you to be better than him...I don't know what to tell you there. Just keep your sensible eye open but please do not mess up a good thing. His prayer for you was very nice. Without protection can you be successful? He didn't hit your prayer point, well then pray for yourself. Both of you...not just him o, agreed to hold of work so why the complaints now? Please don't get carried away and create issues. Do not...I repeat do not go talking to your friend about issues you have. Keep it to your Mum. The request you made of her is a bit off. Don't put your dear mother in such a situation especially when you have a good man. If he was no good, your mum would have talked to you about saving eons ago. Now keep doing your business, make investments and keep loving your man.
ReplyDeleteMadam u have issues. Be careful cos update destroy ur home with ur own hands. Don't allow the devil take hold of ur thoughts. Pride goeth before a fall.
ReplyDeleteMrs. Career Woman without guidance & Protection from God how do u think you can ever Make it in life? Your Husband just prayed the Best Prayer in the world for you & u suddenly declared war in ur Home. Don't be like those who don't kw a good thing until dey lose it. Stop allowing the devil to give u negative understanding but rather let God open ur spirit mind to understand the positive & good Prayer ur Husband prayed 4u. Listen to ur mother, shun fake friends. God Bless n keep your Home.
ReplyDeleteYou should still follow through with the party. The car, I am not so sure about, because if you honestly feel he does not want you to be a big success, he may feel funny taking a car from you, maybe you should get him a Canon SLR camera, or a very nice watch instead.
ReplyDeleteEven when your husband is the both fabulous man on earth a woman should still protect herself because there is a thin line between love and hate, and when a marriage dissolves the woman is always the one who suffers most.
Let it go, prayer is a private moment and nobody should eavesdrop on another person's prayer. Do not let your mind run away with you and you start doing and saying things to bring friction in your marriage. So just let it go, pray for yourself in the manner your desire. Nobody's prayer will ever be as powerful as the prayers you speak for yourself. Continue to be a good wife in all ways and pray well for your husband and children.
If you feel that expanding your business is the right thing to do, bring it to God and ask for wisdom and the spirit of discernment to decide if you should expand. If God tells you to, then expand. If your husband says anything about it, let him know you are working to leave a legacy for your children and grandchildren so that the family can have their own and poverty will not be their portion, and leave it at that. Every man wants to leave a legacy for his generations, so he will understand.
Wish you all the best in every area of your life.
Stella pls you should start collecting money from posters cos some posts are just funny. Dear poster, you don chop belle full you hear? Hiss*
ReplyDeleteI'm on dis blog everyday but dis is my 1st time of commenting, I can't believe dis woman, u have a husband who supported u to start a successful biz, provided for u and ur kids respects u and u are here complaining of him not praying for ur greatness? U must b d mostselfish person ever.do u just realise dat u are jealous of ur own children? Isur children's greatness not urs? I can't believe.u only exposed ur bad intentions using ur hubby prayers as excuse.go on ur kneesand ask God for forgiveness.God bless your mother.that's all I can say.and just to add u don't have friend's.
ReplyDelete@anon5.19pm . Which of ur paymaster or paymistress dash u 1mil ? And still you don't know what to do with it . Easy money that's how it is .
ReplyDeletePls bvs how do ppl laugh in Spanish ? I'd like to know .
ReplyDeleteMadam please take it easy o. dont create trouble where there is none. God bless your marriage.
ReplyDeleteMadam please take it easy o. dont create trouble where there is none. God bless your marriage.
ReplyDeleteposter, to be honest I am disappointed in you.
ReplyDeleteso many men find it difficult to appreciate their woman openly but from his little prayer of guidance and protection, I can tell your man cherish and adore you.
...and then here you go, acting on your assumption.
do not crumble the near perfect love filled marriage you've got based on some negative thoughts running through your head.
have your financial back up. that one is mandatory for every woman but shake off the doubts you've started breeding quickly
You lack wisdom and i know it when some women starts making money they become so selfish and stupid. Go and use ur hand to break ur marriage but later u will see what you have done urself
ReplyDeleteThis a dumb ass post evil woman
ReplyDeleteU berra keep praying in the corner of your room ..... What more do you want
ReplyDeleteUse you hand to do urself oooo u hear
My dear lady,I wish you would listen and follow my advise because am married just like you.please follow your mum advise.Sometimes God uses those close to us to speak to us.Please I beg you,don't change towards him.If your not happy with the way he prayed while not jokingly pass the message to him and being a good man he will understand.God bless and keep your marriage
ReplyDeleteYou are lucky. How I wish my hubby will provide all our needs and even give me d opportunity to be so involved in our kid's life. We share responsibilities even to school fees. I buy all my childrens needs and he's nt even concerned. He rather prefers to give useless girls and random pple money. You have a head and you are looking for cap. Its well with u o. Pls I cld be ur agent in other states if ure so desirous of opening new branches.
ReplyDeleteYOU NO GET ISSUE BUT YOU WANT TO SPARK SUMTHING! TAKE IT EASY OOO SO IT WONT BURN YOU!
ReplyDeleteI START WORK TODAY AND ITS NOT FUNNY AT ALL OO AFTER A YEARS BREAK! WISH I HAD MY OWN SUCCESSFUL BIZNESS AND COULD SPEND MORE TIME WITH MY PICKINS!
My husband wants me to strive and do very well...but guess what, it's out of selfishness, cos he knows that I'm not selfish and that I could spend any amount of money on him.
ReplyDeleteMadame, I am enjoying my marriage o so sweet marriage is real.dnt allow friends destroy ur home 4 u or other pple bitter experience.we still av reasonable men o.besides wen u notice something, u should av confronted your hubby, u don't assume In marriage.that's why its marriage and u don't discuss your hubby with friends.u are already believing that your marriage cannot continue to be sweet.its a lie of the devil.its normal to have assumption, confront him.In all don't destroy ur marriage with your own hands
ReplyDeleteMadame, I am enjoying my marriage o so sweet marriage is real.dnt allow friends destroy ur home 4 u or other pple bitter experience.we still av reasonable men o.besides wen u notice something, u should av confronted your hubby, u don't assume In marriage.that's why its marriage and u don't discuss your hubby with friends.u are already believing that your marriage cannot continue to be sweet.its a lie of the devil.its normal to have assumption, confront him.In all don't destroy ur marriage with your own hands
ReplyDeletePoster, you know what your problem is? You're jobless. That would be the only reason you would try to use your own hand to destroy your marriage.
ReplyDeleteYour mother is a good woman and has advised you appropriately. If your husband didn't pray for you to become the next president and it is paining you, why not just raise the issue with him? Why are you behaving like a rat? Is it that you want to return to work? If so, start looking for a job and tell him you're going back to work and discuss from there.
Your husband prayed for you! Do you know how many husbands do not even pray for their wives but because youre bored it's to manufacture problems for yourself. Better wise up and stop being foolish.
IF YOU REALLY HAD A GOOD MARRIAGE LIKE YOU SAID, THE FIRST THING YOU WOULD HAVE DONE IS TO ASK YOUR HUSBAND JOKINGLY LATER ON WHY HE DID NOT PRAY FOR YOU TO BE GREAT LIKE THE KIDS AND TELL HIM HOW YOU REALLY FEEL INSTEAD OF GOING AS FAR AS HATCHING SINISTER PLANS TO HIDE ASSETS JUST ON A WHIM. PLEASE STOP LOOKING FOR REASONS TO JUSTIFY THE WRONG YOU ARE INTENDING TO DO. GOD HAS USED YOUR MOTHER TO ADVICE YOU AND YOU STILL DONT WANT TO LISTEN, LOVE KEEPS NO RECORE OF WRONG DOING ABEG TALK TO YOUR HUBBY AND MOVE ON IF YOU REALLY INTENDED TO BUY HIM A CAR AND ALL THAT THEN DO IT BUT I THINK YOU SHOULD REALLY SEARCH YOUR SOUL TO SEE IF YOU ARE NOT JUST LOOKING FOR AN EXCUSE TO EXECUTE ALL YOUR SELFISH PLANS.
ReplyDelete@EFE, you have given the best advice. This stupid poster is going to throw her husband into the arms of that very same friend that is advising her against her mother. My husband that does not pray for me nko? Wetin you want make I do? Abeg poster, shine ya eye correctly o. That husband of yours is your blessing from God. Dont let your pride destroy your happiness
ReplyDeleteWow!! Ask God for wisdom when you pray or your husband prays. You need it. 👈
ReplyDeleteYour husband has your interest at heart. He prayed that God should direct and guide you. A lovely prayer. It is you who is jealous.
ReplyDeleteI don't support the idea of acquiring assets without his knowledge; to what end?
ReplyDeleteObviously the internet and the advent of blogs in Nigeria has made many a ladies erroneously obsessed to their own peril. These web-page wives learnt next to nothing from their mothers who were nurtured with real African ethics and thrived in long lasting matrimonies. The myriad of advices they get from blogs and the internet generally have left most ladies a disillusioned and disinformed pack. You need to hear them wag open their mouths and spit their ignorances to the pity of better informed minds. They think they know it all but alas folly and ignorance is their stock in trade. I have read so much about and from these 21st century ladies who think a bit of education and 'exposure' gives them monopoly to wisdom-exposure is in inverted commas because it only amounts to exposure to self-destruct tendencies.
ReplyDeleteImagine this poster with identity crisis- who wishes to become an Okonjo Iweala- toying with the idea of igniting a fire she will never be able to put off. Many women crave the blessing of your kind of husband and home and there you're asking for a recipe for a broken marriage. I bet you the same friends who advice you to follow your ignorant heart will be unwilling to add you to the daily problems they already have to contend with when the chips are down. Go ahead. Acquire lands you'll leave the earth with and damn your marriage. PIKIN.