This is either the height of being careless or the sender of this mail needs to wear gloves on her privates!....ah ah.
I am sorry but yo mail pissed me off...you went to shuffle yo privates between two men and now yo want Stella and blog visitors to help?
Yo mail was titled ''SOS'' but should have been ''deep sh*%t''.
''Dear Stella,
I am in a lot of trouble. I dated my ex for a few years but we had to break up ten months ago because of same genotype issue.. A month ago,I finally met this great guy after not being able to date for a while and we hit it off immediately.
I went to see my ex for one last "kiss" and we ended up having sex.
I wasn't in my safe period and we didn't use a condom in the heat of passion..that was on a Thurs. New boo and i went out partying five days later and came back high.while we were having sex,the condom broke. I immediately got up and went to pee o..
Now my period is late and I'm trying to figure out who may be the father. Is it my ex or my current boo? If I tell my ex it's him,we'd have to get married,same with the other guy.
What if I tell my current boo it's his and then later start seeing my ex in the baby's face?? I'm really confused on what to do and I need to act fast.
Slept with ex on the first day of my ovulation and current on the last day of ovulation.
New boo doesn't know I slept with my ex.. I don't want to tell either of them that I slept with the other around the same period.
Please I would like fellow blog visitors to analyze with me and figure out who the father is. Please feel free to insult me,I'm not perfect I know. I would prefer to marry my ex though,I still love him so much and he loves me too''.
*my advice? you are pregnant for both of them..face will be your ex and body will be your present...my problem is from your mail you sound like someone that does not normally use a condom ...Mscheeeew!!!
Pretty dicey,let me sip on my decaf coffee
ReplyDeleteFor the sake of d unborn child(if u are preggy) just get rid of it now!!! Without anyone knowing o except if u want to tie anyone down with the preggy.
DeleteMen be fathering children that are not theirs. Poster clap for urself. Even me sef I am confused.com.
DeleteLet me give u an idea on how u will know the father of ur baby. Wake up in the mid nite. Remove ur cloths infact just be naked. Fill water in a basin. Call the name of ur ex 7times and then call the name of ur present boo 7times. Then dance around a basin of water. Anybody's face that appear is the father of ur child. It works oo.
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Baby oku u are obviously so bored ad jobless. Must u be the 1st to comment in most post? Ad as early ad this u are already here? *smh* Get help!
DeleteWhat's wuth the "I immediately got up and went to pee". If you no pee nko? Poster oya oh! Come and explain.
DeleteIf I read well, u mentioned genotype as d reason 4 ur breakup with ur ex & now u consider marrying him??? What happened to d use of condoms and going to meet ur ex 4 a last kiss after 8months of breakup shows hw loose u are!!! Since u prefer ur ex, pls go ahead and leave ur new boo 4 a more deserving girls!!! Mtcheew
DeleteMadam, did you tell us before you went to hang your leg ontop burglary proof? Why then are you asking us a question that the god's are supposed to answer? you left your ex because of genotype issues 'cos you knew that having kids with him might spell disaster in capital letters, now you are pregnant for him (yes It's his bun in your oven). What do you want us to tell you ni? Abeeegi, make i go cook! This pot of stew will not make itself!
DeleteGod,I use dis poster as a point of contact....send a lady like her away from me in d name of Jesus . Amen
DeleteNawa ooo... the same thing everyday. fuck here, fuck there!
DeleteGirls allow your *downtime* to rest.
The bad thing is someone out there is doing this exact thing. May the good lord give you direction.
HOPE YOU DONT ABORT IT
Your ex is d father, cos ur present did not ejaculate in u abi. U said u stood up n went to pee. Or did u come back to continue skin to skin after peeing. Good luck with d decision u make.
DeleteThe day all the unmarried women start the journey of celibacy, men will begin to take them seriously... I think this poster is either 12 or just a naive old woman who is very confused about where she wants her life to head to...My advice is do what @cinderella says.. lolz
DeleteYour ex is d father, cos ur present did not ejaculate in u abi. U said u stood up n went to pee. Or did u come back to continue skin to skin after peeing. Good luck with d decision u make.
DeleteIf u slept with ur ex on the first day of ovulation, then the baby is his, cos u said 5day later.... u don't ovulate for more than 3 to 4 days each month,abi docs in the house... the fact that u r an alcoholic is not enuf, u r so dumb and ur legs r always opened for business
DeletePoster, apply to Trisha's show.
DeleteFree DNA, free popularity and free counseling.
It's a win-win.
Trisha is cool.
DeleteThis is serious poster, sometimes d stories we read on here and am. Like re. Der 4 real?huh???????????????????????
Delete@Jelly ...exactly she should just apply, o get on d show already. And hopefully she will go with both guys to the show so that there will be a serious brawl, bickering et al . *sigh* I don't even know what to say/ type to this poster.
DeleteKourt
We only OVULATE ONCE a month, but we gv 3 days window b4 and after d ovulation date! Those days u r NOT safe as the egg can still b fertilised by any sperm deposit! If u r sure of ur ovulation and u met ur ex on ur first day of ovulation then u r pregnant for ur ex! Now, d bigger issue is d genotype factor... u must b AS or SS and ur ex the same for u guys to b incompatible.... I think u hv a bigger issue to deal with coz u might bring in a sickler into dis world! Am not a party to abortion so wot u should b doing is get down on ur knees and ask God to bless u with a baby dats not a sickler!
DeleteThis same thing happened to my bestie, omo she aborted the baby ni o.NO TIME
DeleteCan Men just go ahead and do secret DNA checks on their kids already???
DeleteYes! I'm a wife and mother too. Gosh!!!
My dear dont be coward... keep your pregnancy and carry your cross. In terms of the paternity its a difficult one. All those screaming abortion would be dead today if their parents based their value on the circumstance of their conception!!!
DeleteIhekire Tony
ReplyDeleteI don't usually comment on things like this. Especially on a sunday morning.
No Bible passage? Just a question.
DeleteThought shall not kill
DeletePreach it pastor! Bless u bro Tonero........lmao. U no go kii person for this blog. BTW i heard u don go church today? Erm erm erm bless U *sign of the cross*
DeleteHahahahaha! What is the difference between this poster and i? Co's the guy is an ex? As long as they broke up 10 months ago and jst hooking up again now, that man is as gud as a stranger and could hv also gone around to gather diseases during that 10months break and she went and have condomless sex with him. Now u people won't bash her oo, it's me that u saw fit to bash! Double standard I say.
DeleteLmaoooo anyway for those I got angry yesterday, mbok kuyat esit I promise to aalways confirm the condom next time. By the way, this woman Abi man called MOI that felt I was seeking for attention, umukut fi, nmom fi! Na me send stella to go extract my comment and turn am to post? Namsense!
I was up last night reading everybody's comment, I laughed so hard. This blog is therapy.
It was awesome in the presence of the Lord today. Poster, don't commit the sin of abortion. Its most likely to be your ex's cos twas early into your ovulation. You're still hooked on your ex. Oya. Go back to him Na. But why would you in these times do without protection...no I mean...don't fornicate Na. You come do with two people without protection during the same period. Ah.Na people like you dey make men feel say no wife material again. Sha dont come back here with another story.
DeleteHow are we to help o?
ReplyDeleteWe no dey their wen u dey do the dew
And since we are not 'omnipresent', we do not know when your egg fertilize.
In this age and time... Smh for u!
No mind the poster, she just de find word from person mouth.. I wont b surprised if its some jobless man that sent in this epistle like story lolz
DeleteTrue. Spread your legs and writhe in pleasure and want us to share in your error now. For what reason?
DeleteJust come back and explain the "getting up to pee" part. What has that one got to do with stuff?
There is a believe that getting up immediately after' to pee,stops the sperm from getting to destination.....myth,fallacy or fact to be proven after poster delivers her baby.lol!pls don't forget to update us who he looks like ok?#as u wan use us do experiment with ur question ,let's use u too#eyelashes
DeleteI think your ex is the father of your baby...
ReplyDeleteNa wah ohh and you left him because of same genotype issue...choi you are finished...
Just pray the baby is not a sickler..
Poster thou shall not kill o. D deed has been done. Happy Sunday y'all.
DeleteVery Awkward and Shameful situation madam, I'm not going to judge or insult you, it happens abeg.
ReplyDeleteI'm seeing "My first... and last day" I'm a little bit confused there, there can be only one day of Ovulution but the days before and after it are considered unsafe, so if you could state how long your cycle is and tell if your cycle is steady then calculation might be easy. There's this myth that a woman Always knows who got her pregnant irrespective of how many lovers she has, tap into your womanly psychic powers the truth sha find thee..lol
Pele oh God be with you.
Wanted to say the same thing o......then, I saw ur reply.
DeletePoster biko, ovulation no get 1st and last day.
Exactly. Which one is I had sex with my ex on the first day of ovulation, and with the new boo last day of ovulation? And from your Post, you stated this happened 5 days later.. My dear, ovulation just like nuvi honey stated is just a day.. You also forgot to state how many days you've missed your period for.. But girl, na wa o, you wanted to taste the anaconda one final time, woman, why art thou loose?
DeletePeople are really mean, she's in a dilemma, this couldve happened to anyone, mistakes happen, so should she kill herself. If not cos they say abortion is immoral, I would have advised that she should remove that pregnancy and start afresh with her new bf. Pls don't tell him oh except you want to lose him or have him distrust you for the rest of your lives
DeleteWhy is no one else seeing that she wants to tie her ex down with pregnancy but the broken condom while fucking her new bobo spoiled her show??
DeletePoster why u no take Plan B after sleeping with your ex? eh? is it too costly, and u know fully well u no dey ur safe period, you just wan born sickle cell children mthceeew !
Nuvi honey u no get sense...D days before and after ovulation are still ovulatuon period...d 14th day is just d day d egg falls off..So d poster is right..i guess she had sex with d ex on d 14th day and slept with d new guy five days after which is still unsafe...
DeleteSmall girls like u should shut up when issues like dis are mentioned...Na ur type dey do abortion every month with ur sabi sabi attitude.
Chizoba, u r d small girl dat needs to shut up in shame! If she has a normal 28days cycle, her ovulation day is on d 14th day... she is unsafe from d 12th day thru d 17th day so Nuvi is correct for saying 1st and 2nd day is confusing. If d posters 1st day is her day 14 (ovulation day), then she is pregnant by her ex! Chances of d egg still being fertilised 5days after ovulation, day 19th is very slim and close to impossible for a 28day cycle!
DeleteChizoba ibebuyansh, Lol, please drop your comments and move on, with all your Stupidity and attention seeking antics on this blog I've never insulted you,I just pretend not to notice you. You should adopt that method too.
DeleteI like how u don't hide under anonymous to talk trash though.
Sperm cells can live for 2 to 3 days ....ovulation per.lasts 24, n in a special case 48 hours. Teacher itiboribo! Ur own egg de fall d day n after kikiki!!
Delete.....amakam ife na Ozubulu bu onye Nkafie na Nnewi **rmse**
DeleteMy Gpapa always told me that wen the shit hits the fans......there is no point hiding wat u ate the nite before.............ITS ALREADY IN THE SHIT...
ReplyDeleteTranslation:
Depending on who you wanna be with...SIT THE DUDE DOWN AND SPILL THE BEANS.....
And next time if you wanna do it on a high.....USE A TARPOLINE CONDOM...
Marry both men
ReplyDeletePatt Patt u nearly make sense. Tintiri*
DeleteWould luv 2 see d world thru ur eyes
DeletePatt ogar u are not serious. She should marry both men? Dis one na hot mess! Poster Sorry ooooo.
DeleteYou need to have your brain examined. You really be Doro. DORO IS A CHEERFUL GIVER
ReplyDeleteYou need to have your brain examined. You really be Doro. DORO IS A CHEERFUL GIVER
ReplyDeleteDis requires a lot of calculation n either way u r in deep sh*t. Really dicey.
ReplyDeleteOriegwu! Don't know what to advice since am not a doctor. May God see U thru. *sipsgreentea*
ReplyDeletebabe, you are in deeper shit okay?
ReplyDeletewhen u wan fork ur ex your brain no tell u make u use rubber ba? am pissed off babe, like u said no man is perfect and i'll say prevention is better than cure, although its old buh i still hold'on to it, as for me i suggest u tell both of 'em so your shit won't go deeper again, ShiKena!
Thumbs up Stella
Analyse with you, you are on your own.
ReplyDeleteBwahahah!! @ u are on ur own!! @ poster sorry to spill d horrible truth to u:: your ex is the father of ur baby!! The earlier u start thinking of what to do the beta for u.. when u know having a baby wit him might be disastrous y didn't u use a condom! If u go ahead and tell d new guy God forbid if dat baby comes out a sickler? U are in a big shit. Na Wetin oke ihe omume dey cause be that..
DeleteMtscheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!!!
ReplyDeleteI knw a lot of ppl r going 2 go all sanctimonious on me..Poster try n go for a scan..am sure dey wil be able 2 tel u d day u got preggy..don't tel d would be fathers dat u r preggy until u r certain who d original fada is and if u r still nt sure u can seek for a D and C..
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm Omoh u are on ur own!!! VIVICANDY
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing like first and last day of ovulation. U just ovulate on 1 day but you are fertile some days before (cos sperm lasts for some days) and some days after your ovulation (cos d egg lasts for a couple of days). So u jus hv to pinpoint d exact day of ur ovulation cos ur most fertile dt day and whoever u had sex with dat day is most likely d papa!
ReplyDeleteI hope d poster reads nd understand ur comment cos u v said it all here!
DeleteYou may have non identical twins. One child from each man :)
ReplyDeleteSdk and her ever fertile imagination lmao!
DeleteNa wa oh! This sounds like fiction oh but if na true story ur own don done.according to Nuvi honey God b with u ooooooh
ReplyDeleteNo matter how hot d passion is.always condomise.now look what u have done to urself.u went to ur ex to give him his last kiss.
ReplyDeleteAnd he succeeded in giving u his last shot.
Ur ex is d father.
Just know that having a sickle cell child is not usually a lovely experience except in a case where there is wealth. Money makes it a bit easier to cope and keep the child safe. Having said that, who goes to see an ex for one last kiss? Haven't you heard of the power of an ex? Especially in a case where the relationship wasn't messy and break up had to happen for reasons like yours? My advice, don't tell any of the boos, past or present that you slept with either of them at the same time range, pee on a stick and if it turns out you're preggers, tell the good news to le current boo, soak your chaplet in water and pray the baby doesn't end up a sickler cz then u wld have a lot of explaining to do. My guess is you're as and ur current boo is aa and ss babies don't usually come with as and aa babies. Wow! You're really in deep shit. On the bright side, the chances that the baby belongs to you're current boo is higher sha ie if you're even preggie. Periods come late sometimes too. Go pee on a stick and confirm first
ReplyDeleteNa woman wey carry belle dey know d papa of her pickin... figure it out urself abi I follow dey there when u was going getting humped carelessly?? Don't bother us unnecessarily here jare
ReplyDeleteI am suffering from this mess too, if you know what uis good for you abort the baby, god pls forgive me. Lemme tell you my story, I got married last year last august, and my registry was 2weeks before the main party in august, so after my reg I went back to my location preparing for the big party, hubby came to visit me on a Saturday, we made out early hours of Sunday morning,and he traveled back to his location, my X came to my house same Sunday evening, he claimed he was uin the nebhood and decided to check If I was in town, cos I changed my number because of him. God knows I sent him back when he came into the compound, lemme cut the story short, we made out too that Sunday (we normally wildraw ) guess what? My period was last, and I was pregnant, I told hubby I was preg, he was over the moon,fast forward to 9month later my baby was born, and guess what my brothers and sisters, my baby is a spitting image of me. How I can't tell if my baby is hubby or X. I cry evryday, I pray I ask God to forgive me. And show me some signs if the baby is hubby I will stay otherwise I will file for a divorce, cos I can't focus, I was a size 14 before, now am size 8, people keep asking me what the matter is. I look at my baby always, and above I was a good girl now this. So poster I don't think u want suffer what am suffering. So be wise
ReplyDeleteNa wah ohh..
DeleteIfe na eme !!..
Ihe di na ortu na amu aburo obele ife...
Foolish woman, listen to Ur story. Ashewo kobo kobo, I pray dt child is fr Ur ex
DeleteSorry about your predicament. Why not arrange with a doctor for a dna test without telling your husband. Then find a way of lying on what d test is about. Nd don't show him the result.
DeleteChai chai chai
DeleteWhy didn't you abort your own?
DeleteStupid gists all over the place.
Imagine this one asking BVs to help her analyse what they have no information about.
Shit happens. No one is a saint. Be grateful the kid looks like you. Poster should get rid of that pregnancy with speed if you are not sure.
DeleteNa wah o....
DeleteNa real wah o....
Biko Nne,
Akuko nke a dikwa very risky ...
You just got married and you fucked your ex?, women na una cheat pass o
DeleteStop bothering urself on issues like dis..why are u loosing weight cos of dis? D baby is ur blood and daz d most important thing..what if it turns out d baby is for ur husband? Make u no harm dat child.
DeleteMy dear, take your husband's tooth brush or his his saliva, try to get his hair from the root or any of his clothes he wore recently. Take them, and your son to somewhere you can check their DNA. Its a bit expensive, but you will have your peace of mind. There are many discrete DNA centres in Lagos and Abuja. Do it before your husband notices something. The baby might look like you now but might start looking different as he grows, his behaviour and personality might be different too. Good luck!
DeleteHmmm things dey happen o. Wetin person no go hear for dis blog?
DeleteNa wah o women.
DeletePoshkayy
So people on this blog have 'chop winch' to the extent of knowing who the impregnator is?
ReplyDeleteHmm...na wah o! The tone of ur mail is so carefree! I just wonder.
I hope u find what u're looking for. Good luck!
Nki oooo
DeleteLMAO @ chop winch
A sperm can live in a woman's body for seven days. Its most likely ur pregnant for ur ex, ur biggest challenge is finding out the babies genotype. I know things happen but u should have been careful. Mrs O
ReplyDeleteOne last kiss with ur ex? And you eventually have sex with him without condom????? But the condom busted while having sex with ur current guy. Hmmmmmm.... Poster I think you know what you are doing and what you really wanted. I hope ur decision favour you
ReplyDeleteWhat's the world turning into? U love ur ex bt unfortunately u may be carrying an ss genotype baby. What do u wanna do about it na? Go for a pregnancy test n then take some drugs
ReplyDeleteU went to ur ex for one last kiss? Wtf does that mean? Since you and ur ex broke up over genotype ish so what if the child now turns out to be a SS? I'm so sorry for your present boyfriend,men dry suffer for women hand o.
ReplyDeleteI think you should get an abortion and pls don't come and play the moral card here,if you could have unprotected sex with a man you are not married when you have a fiance then you should be ready to carry the can.
Poster you need a magician to help you figure your baby's father out cos am not sure doctors can even help you
ReplyDeleteWhich kin assignment be this?
ReplyDelete@Poster, take your time!
I taaaay u no be small assignment....jus cracking my brain infact even doing some marmatics for dis....wat sort of confusion is dis kwanu.....gal my soul strongly tells me ur ex is d papa of ur unborn bebe...why? Cos first fresh days of ur ovulation are so much fertile. Infact ur uterus is so much ready 2 receive any type of sperm 2 get u pregg! Happy ante-natal gurl!
DeleteGenny Baby, biko show face
DeleteNa wa oh ,this kind of story confuses ones mind .after we will say men are polygamous in nature ,but this days women have taken over ,if you love your ex tell him. The baby will sure look like who was with you during your pregnancy days doesn't matter if is your ex or your current.so choose wisely who you want to be with.if Khalsa burst in future based on DNA things na u Sabi .
ReplyDeleteI don't get how we are supposed to help you with this. Please go sort yourself out madam "Heat of Passion".
ReplyDeleteNa wa oh ,this kind of story confuses ones mind .after we will say men are polygamous in nature ,but this days women have taken over ,if you love your ex tell him. The baby will sure look like who was with you during your pregnancy days doesn't matter if is your ex or your current.so choose wisely who you want to be with.if Khalsa burst in future based on DNA things na u Sabi ,you fuck your ex no condom and u call him your ex ,you fuck your current boo no condom come here dey tell us say condom burst ,better tell your sef truth .
ReplyDeleteU r not serious at all.
ReplyDeleteUnneccesary panic BV! Shits happen and that's it!
ReplyDeleteIts unfortunate but u not the 1st and won't be the last anyways,
My concern is the child wen is born is a sickler cos its very obvious u re pregnant for ur ex,
1, U love each other a lot u said so u guys must have had the last on REAL hot and u open ur leg and heart well!!
2, Is D 1st day of ur OV so ur eggs re still fresh (though am not a Doc) so posibility of getting pregnant is higher
But to me u shouldn't marry ex to avoid future disaster cos of ur same genotype issue,
I doubt if its ur new boo cos
1, U guys just met and am sure u aint that completely free and relax with him with yet
2, Last day of ur OV and ur egg must be weak by then
3, U guys were drunk which is likely alcohol must have made his sperm not strong enough for ur already weak egg to make u pregnant, ( in my experience ooh!)
Marry ur new boo and keep the baby as a reminder of ur love for ur ex
D deed is done and castigation won't solve nada
Besides I don't support abortion but also u wear the show and u only know where it hurts most,
U re an adult, u know what u want, we can only advice and say so much
I wish u luck in ur decision and I hope lesson learnt!
With all said and done though u might not be pregnant afterall,
Might just be a slight delay
So relax, take a deep breath and let's keep our fingers crossed
Best comment so far!
DeletePeople can castigate too much.
The deed is done.
I wonder why she brought the issue here.
Goddess,I was with u til u said "marry ur new boo and keep d baby as a reminder of ur love For ur ex"
DeleteFastforward 20 years later
She wil come here and cry
And her story wil go like dis
I love my hubby
He loves me
We are happy
Buh he found out that our 20year old son
Is not his
Now he hates me and has asked me to go
My son hates me and wants to know who his father is
My ex says m wicked cos I never told him d baby it's his
My people are so Soo shocked at what I did
I am sad
I am alone
What do I do???!!!!
So shebi we go come begin crack our heads again ni?!
Madam sunshine she brot it here cos she prefer 2 seek answas from pple who don't knw her personally n can advice her without sentiment. Dear poster am sure u knw d baby is 4 ur EX bt as usual u just don't wanna acpt it becos u knw it's gonna b soooo messy. Now ure not just gonna loose ur present man bt ure likely gona bring 2 dis world a child who will suffer a great deal n as a mother u too. My advice. Flush dat tin out! Save ursef n dat unborn baby d pains biko. Mite not b d best advice tho so ill simply add 4low ur heart.
DeleteBoth of u are evil keep give Anoda man's baby to Anoda? Women!!! I fear Una
DeleteYour stupidity no get rival. When u get an ss pikin u go know who give bele....
ReplyDeleteU want us to analyze f u, whew! Are u sure? Are u really really sure? Is dat ur final ansa? Are u sure u dnt want t use 50-50? Hw abt foning a close frend? Ok since u hav chosen t ask d audience(Blog visitors)..m. Brb lemme consult Dr Agwotorumbe's gods.
ReplyDeleteStella you are so judgemental. You talk like u still live on the streets of Ajegunle. Please grow up you this old fool. Your speech before and after the post was just exaggerated. Why not just post it without your tout comments? And you will soon be the first to critisize other as if you are beta. Na wa for you. If you don't have anything to say to her, why not just shut up abeg.
ReplyDeleteHian..... what exactly is the causer of ur painment?
DeleteYour mama old fool..
DeleteShe does it all the time, not a good way to set an example for people that look up to u. Stop being so freaking judgemental Stella. Ppl make mistakes all the time
DeleteNow Eka Joy go bk up dere n delete ur 1st comment. Next time learn 2 sound like human wit morals. Young fool. After dat pik a dictionary n search 4 d meanin of OPINION
DeleteThank you so much eka joy.stella pls don't talk like that cos you no holy pass.
Delete8;54, I swear down, I agree with u, but u cld av md ur points witout using offensive words. At 1st stella does even add this is a Bv's story to her headlines, I use to tink she's d one preaching oo, n den i jump the post, only to notice a high numb of comments. Until I complained tire, den I noticed she statd adding a Bv's story to her headline. Stella mayb u shld publish d story only, and comment just lik every bv(ofcus wit ur ID), in d comment section if u av d urge to.
DeleteAnon 8:54 why do I feel like I know u? Only 1 yeye blogger can type like u, critizise other ko! @Eka joy, point of correction in your 1st comment, it could'v happened to any 'loosed' person. Secondly, we know that nobody is perfect, she left her ex cos of genotype, meaning it's not safe to have kids with him, so what is the purpose of having an unprotected sex with him on her ovulation period? Don't blame stella, I'm also angry with this lady. Do u know what it means to bring an innocent child in this world to suffer for your stupidity, cos there is 88% chance of that child being her ex's & u know what that means for the child. Poster, my advise for u is to go for test asap, to know ur baby's genotype, it can be changed in the womb, but it costs a lot. Pls note, don't hope on this, if u r not married yet, it's a risky process which may not work for everyone.
DeleteWHO ARE THOSE PEEPS CUSSING OUT STELLISTICA? IF IT WAS YOUR BROTHER'S GIRLFRIEND OR FIANCEE THAT CAME TO TELL YOU THIS, WOULD YOU ALL BE PLAYING THE SYMPATHETIC AND UNDERSTANDING CARD?
DeleteDOG !!!!!!
ReplyDeleteDarling, she isn't a dog. Imagine if everyone got pregnant from every unprotected sex. A lot of ladies keep multiple sex partners but narrowly miss the poster's predicament out of sheer luck. Honey my advice is to be honest. As scary as it may be now, that's your safest option. Tell both of them and deal with the consequences now rather than later. Please my love, don't marry a man when your heart beats for another. It never ends well. I'm not applauding your actions but what's done is done. We are way past the blame game, it's damage control mode now. The truth never stays buried forever, it sprouts out when you least expect. You can't outsmart the truth. A family friend of ours are ending a 15year marriage because of a similar mistake 4years ago that was brought to light this year. Imagine the scandal and the lives that are affected by this? Baby, tell the truth and set your mind free. #e-bearhugs.
DeleteAll these long stories you people are writing sister you know what to do just go and Abort it's the simple truth and stop beating around the bush and start afresh I can beat my hands in my chest and say this is not your first time of commiting abortion from ur email.
DeleteMr Lyca.
Face of ex, body of current! Re u in a meeting? But that's none of my business! Mmore sugar pls. Poster, na only u waka come ooo
ReplyDeleteBlog visitor do u take us for grantd, we cnt run a test on u to ascertain the sperm dah won buh dah will also be joblessness on our part...u were busy in pursuit of pleasure and selfishness,is high tym u renumerate ur ordeals, u want to involve us nw cus it hs escalated into exacerbation ,the truth is the baby wud definitely luk atavistic ,ur so called new boo wud definitely de-trop the baby, if u tell him cus I fink it's to early,d other might accpt cus u guys hv bin together 4 long, buh y do I hv dis feeling u jux want to try dis out n see if he cud or is capable of giving u healthy children as against the doctor's advice, b4 u make d decision of marryn anoda..just a feelin tho* ### after a long thought annd reading the history of the blog based on wah wahs her name again(joy isi bewaji) wrote to aunty stella I felt reli bad, I now knw a bit abt her occasional memo each time, hmmm I won't be a part of dah fishsellers and ogogorobuyers category dah she calld us i am poised to prove her wrong. Aunty stella sorry for my attitude.
ReplyDeleteBabes u r strictly on ur own. I got no advice 4 u.
ReplyDeleteU r just looking 4 a man 2 tie down wit ur pregnancy.
Don't marry any of them yet till u give birth... Go for DNA test secretly before telling any of them if he's the father or not. Put that marriage plans on hold cos I don't think any of them would want that for now !!! If u can manage fucking them both, u can equally look for a good reason to keep them both till u give birth, that's, if they r willing to stay after that... If not, tell both the truth !!!Does ur ex know about ur new boyfriend? If he does, tell him the whole truth now!! They both deserve to know the truth . Use it and see who loves u the most!!! This can happen to anyone!!! Next time, be careful!!!Good luck cos I think u need it!!
ReplyDeletelol @ secret DNA test , how will she get dna samples of the two men to match with??
Delete@collins, steal their hair brush or their tooth brush now!! That's simple, if she wants to!!
DeleteActually, she only needs one person's DNA and she can easily get her present boyfriend's...hair, cup he drank with, toothbrush....easy!!
DeleteIt's not that expensive anymore..
Go and abort that pregnancy sharp sharp!
DeleteMy dear, get rid of the pregnancy. Its best to avoid confusion and deception!
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ReplyDeletethis one na gobe
ReplyDeleteThere is only one day of ovulation. 5 fertile days... So you can't prolly tell who your baby daddy is now as you slept with both of them on your fertile time.. We don't know whose sperm hit the egg first.. And your period might just be delaying cos of too much sex this period with multiple partnes #sarcastic smiley.. You are prolly not pregnant but if you are,you gotta wait till your baby is born to know who the father is
ReplyDeleteWhy didn't u save urself this unnecessary confusion and take a pill? Deep in ur heart u know what to do, u just want someone to tell u! All the best as u do what's in ur heart!
ReplyDeleteYou can only tell who the father of your baby is, when you birth your child and there after, you take your child for a DNA test. Right now your answer to that question will be based on assumption, and blog visitors can neither tell you who is the real father of your child. One advice though, don't even think of terminating that pregnancy.
ReplyDeleteShould have known better woman! Go on Maury show when you deliver! Good luck.
ReplyDeleteEmma.
LMFAOOOO! Stella said you sound like someone that doesn't normally use condom.. Choi #dead
ReplyDeleteI would be surprised that this blog is filled with sluts but then, their queen mother herself owns the blog.
ReplyDeleteJeeez.....Stella did u notice this comment?
DeleteYour mother is slut...idiot
DeleteAnd who exactly is this nonentity?
DeleteThis cracked me up but then your mother and sister(s) might be ardent visiors.
DeleteYour mother is slut...idiot
DeleteOri e buru danu. You come here to form holier than thou but you can fuck for africa. Onidokudo.
DeleteBwahahahaha. ............
DeleteI am not a slut oooo. .......
Hian!!!!!
So u r here
DeleteAuthentic
Mad
Dunce
Ur grammar keeps exposing u! Suck it up already.
Must u use gutter language? Pls there are no slots here. Take ur time o.
DeleteOmo your generation na slut ahan!! Na so d thing pain you reach? Idiot!!
DeleteWho send you message?
ReplyDeleteAbeg gerrout.
I wonder how you submit without protection to multiple partners. No fear whatsoever... in this time and age of plenty yama yama disease. Issokay.
My dear, you nor like yourself before so need for my advice.
Ns only u waka go...only u hang leg for both..e de sweet u that time...now kasala don shele, u de find advice. from who?
Taaaaaa! gba fue biko! if I hear pim!
Did u read the part where she said, the condom broke, quit being so fucking judgemental like you are a good girl yourself
DeleteDid u read the part where she said, the condom broke, quit being so fucking judgemental like you are a good girl yourself
DeleteBloglord haff vex!!!
DeleteOriegwu!!!
Eka Joy pls shut up! U sound as stupid as the poster. Did u not read where she said they broke up for how long again? And the only time she decided to visit him for the said 'last kiss' was on her ovulation, where is your brain? She planned it all. What happened to so many protection options? Poster u can't deceive us, your problem.
DeleteMy first insctint was 2 insult you n basically jugdemental..however,dia no use cryin over spilt milk,cos d deed az bin done.I'll advise u cme clean wIv ur new boo,who myt likely suggest abortion n secondly test d authenticty f his love 4 u..gudluck,n rememba Makin babies is A responsibility dat requires maturity wen nex u decide 2 open ur legs..
ReplyDeleteNo comment of mine will fall on ds post....
ReplyDeleteNa wa o...buh it just fell here.
DeleteYou left ur ex cos of the genotype ish, dafuq u still having sex with him for?
ReplyDeleteI'm sure you were having sex wt the new guy without condom too ( but u lied the condom broke to avoid plenty bashing), na u sabi.
You go dey gbensh without condom come now dey ask for advise, bitchpliz....aint nobody gat time for that.
LMAO!!! I'm imagining Tony writing his comment and the imagination just cracks me up, I can't deal.Anyways poster, what I'm glad about is you're married to non, so you owe to allegiance to neither.Wait till your baby is born, meanwhile tell your ex you re in serious dilemma and at a cross roads and tell him the truth,while you can hold out on telling your boo that and besides what's the point of all the genotype testing if you were going to fuck your ex without condom!
ReplyDeleteIt's most likely your Ex's baby from the time frame of ovulation you gave.Poster look to Jesus today and surrender your life, He is the greatest problem solver and stop fucking different people with no interval without condom!!!
God bless you all and happy Sunday all and yeah before I forget, I have a huge crush on bitchpls :) something about him makes me feel some type of way * wink*.have a wonderful Sunday people.
The problem is nt that she didn't use condom but come on what of postinol 2 abi did u think u are immune to pregnancy? Get an abortion to avoid a life time of fear
DeleteLMAO!!! I'm imagining Tony writing his comment and the imagination just cracks me up, I can't deal.Anyways poster, what I'm glad about is you're married to non, so you owe to allegiance to neither.Wait till your baby is born, meanwhile tell your ex you re in serious dilemma and at a cross roads and tell him the truth,while you can hold out on telling your boo that and besides what's the point of all the genotype testing if you were going to fuck your ex without condom!
ReplyDeleteIt's most likely your Ex's baby from the time frame of ovulation you gave.Poster look to Jesus today and surrender your life, He is the greatest problem solver and stop fucking different people with no interval without condom!!!
God bless you all and happy Sunday all and yeah before I forget, I have a huge crush on bitchpls :) something about him makes me feel some type of way * wink*.have a wonderful Sunday people.
Sister Buchi, with this your preaching you still dey crush on bithplis, oya bind the devil and call blood of Jesus 150 times.
DeleteOrisabunmi how is your friend Mr fantastic?
DeleteI think your ex is the father. Am not gonna cuss you out coz no one is perfect. Maybe you should go back to the one you love, you obviously don't love the new guy so why force it. Good luck.
ReplyDeleteSweetheart, go on your knees immediately. Only God can help you out of this mess. You are talking about being pregnant, have you tot about getting infected with an std or worse HIV/AIDS? Your ex and your new boo could also have had a careless fling with another woman who is a carrier. As far as am concerned your only solution is to repent, confess your sins to God and change your ways. If you are pregnant truly then you will have to dance to your music alone. Ignorance is not an excuse darling. If you are old enough to have sex then you should be ready for what comes with sex. Sorry, abortion for me is not an option. May God help you. Amen.
ReplyDeleteLike Ihekire Tony said " I don't usually comment on things like
ReplyDeletethis. Especially on a sunday morning" lol.
Onye ara
ReplyDeleteYou see what you have done to yourself ?
ReplyDeleteGREED ! ! !
NA ONLY YOU DEY FUCK TWO MEN ALONE ? HABA ! WHAT happened to there is love in sharing sister ?
Girl pls come clean ,things like this do backfire o.See a doctor who might be able to help you not us.
I wish you the best bcos I do fear for your future now,just bcos of 10 minutes fun.
Lmao@ only u dey fuck two men.
DeleteDo you want the gospel truth? Get rid of the pregnancy, and if you don't want to, tell both of them and inform them that as soon as the baby is born a DNA will be done (maybe the baby daddy will have mercy on you and take you back).
ReplyDeleteIf not, nothing else can be done. How old are you btw?
Goodluck to u,follow ur heart,buh u getin married to ur ex is very dangerous nd u wi surely get to blame ursef @ d end,not now buh later in d future,have a aged couple in my street who got married over 30 yrs ago buh dey dnt have a happy home,dey knw @ d early stage dey r of d same genotype buh bcz dey claimed to love demselves dey got married tinz was fyn till dey start giving birth to SS as children,out of 6 children jst 1 ws AS nd he's d only surviving child.Diz couple shud b above 70 by age,buh dey dnt hv a happy home,dey dnt greet,talk,or act lyk. Couples despite their age. Even d wife doesn't cook for d husband,he buy food outside.So my daer forget abt loving him,wen some nasty situation arises love is goin to quench within a blink of an eye
ReplyDeleteCurry toto make only u dey smell am.... na tuface u wan born so lolz....
ReplyDeleteRemove it b4 u put an innocent kid life in2 wat he did not plan 4!!!
ReplyDeleteOkay ooo
ReplyDeleteAsk GOGGLE.....
ReplyDeleteStop being silly my friend. Pick the guy with the best peospects jare. Since you want bad advice. Nothing is hidden under the sun, if you pick the wrong father, one day breeze must blow & na your yansh go open. Remove am. Stop being a hoe
ReplyDeleteAbeg sdk since last night na so so pr**k and t**oh matter I dey see for here.my talk be say women wen like big sugar cane why e be say some women honey too wide even big sugar cane go dey swim for inside even with rain coat.na wa oh with my 7 na swim I swim tru out last nite.
ReplyDeleteMarry the both of them....Story for the gods...
ReplyDeleteNot every post should be an avenue to use the phrase 'give ur life to Christ' you think they haven't heard that same phrase over and over again. Poster, like I said in my comments, this could have happened to anyone, too bad it had to be you, I've never been against abortion so my advise, remove this ne while its still just blood, do not tell any of the guys and just start afresh. At least you shouldve learnt ur lessons by now
ReplyDeleteDear Poster,
ReplyDeleteIMO, this was a well thought out plan to hook someone, (most likely ur ex). Why? Because u knew u were ovulating, and as such u may get pregnant at that time. Yet, u went ahead to have unprotected sex with him. Who does that if it's not premeditated? Ok o, after the act why didn't u take the morning after pill when u knew u might get pregnant? U don't deserve any of those guys. Better have the child as a single parent, don't get them involved in this mess u have created for urself.
Guess it's still in the early stage. See a doctor and do the needful...EEE!!!
ReplyDeleteMy first reaction was "And dey will never learn! Keep ur legs closed oooo "
ReplyDeleteBuh den,i realized d deed was done ans she is in soup(soup she cooked by herself o)
Honestly,I don't know wot to tell u
I have no advice
I have tried putting ma self in ur shoes
And dis is what I wil do if d roles were reversed
Go on ma knees and PRAY
PRAY like I have never done before
Cos dere is no way out of dis one o
Pray dat ur Period is just late
Cos Nne,how wil u have d baby sef without a man? Cos at dis point,u have none
Cos if u claim d oda one,d oda one wil know
And den wot happens wen u go wit one and d baby is born buh u find out d man u are currently living wit no be him papa?
U see what I mean?
And personally,m against Abortion
Can't live wit d guilt
Go on ur knees!
I can almost feel ur pain
Ask GoD to make it right
We all make mistakes....
So sorry babes...
Sending u hugs...
Why so judgemental?! If u can't give an advise, move to another post na,no b force.
ReplyDeletePoster, if u really want to keep the pregnancy, chill till its 2months then go for a scan, they'd give u the precise day of conception. Btw, don't tell any of them yet.
Hmmmmmm....una don see??? Wen dey will be advicing guyz dem nor dey hear!! D ppl at d receiving end here are d guyz cos one of dem go fada a bastard!!! Bitchplis take note!......................OKIJA WIFE
ReplyDelete@Anonymous 8:31 ; so your own definition of wisdom is to abort an innocent baby? The Scripture says that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. Where is your fear of God; you made a mistake (sin); instead of confession, you want to commit murder on top? Repent, confess your sins and be save and free yourself from your own prison.
ReplyDeletePoster; and your likes, opening legs before marriage (bride price is paid) will never benefit anyone, it will always lead to bondage. Confess your sins to the Lord and receive salvation, tell your intending husband what you did and get a DNA done; it is left for him to decide what to do. Do not marry a man you don't love b/c you will be tempted to keep opening legs outside. Save yourself from the most shameful embarrassment; eternal damnation.
That is what happens when you whore around. Deal with it. I really pity men this days. *shaking my head in disgust*
ReplyDeleteBabe let me give u dis best advice..Abortbd child bcos of d ge.notype issue of u and ur ex have cos i'm 100% sure d baby belongs to him...ifu make mistake of keeping it for ur recent guy and u give birth to a sickler how are u going to explain to ur husband?
ReplyDeleteLet me ask u,is dis ur first time of getting pregnant? If d answer is NO..then why is dis preggy sp special to u? Dont bring a sickler into dis world to suffer...Pls do d needful by aborting...U can always get preggy for ur new guy...wait for d ring first to avoid baby mama issue.
Nna Abort that thing...no need for long talk and stories. Except you wanna risk it. All u sanctimonious people should smell out and be realistic.
ReplyDeleteFor every action, there's an equal and opposite reaction. What happened to morning after pills? As you lay your bed, so will you lie on it.
ReplyDeleteThe did has been done already, so no time for too much talk, if u r my friend, i wud advise u remove the pregnancy ASAP. Abi how u go do.
ReplyDeleteThis kind matter no b beans.
Perharps many people don abort, no b new thing, so u can start afresh with ur new guy.
If u like go sleep with ur gateman afted this one.
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ReplyDeleteMost women are pretty unfaithful and yet demand trust from the men. Messing around with every long thing. #whores#
ReplyDeleteWont judge yoy for all have sinned....Count back to your ovulation day- 15 days from day 1 of your last period before the one you missed. Sperm can live for up to 5 days and your egg lasts for about 24 hours after it is released before it dies off. Do the math.
ReplyDeleteHmm, breaks my heart when I read this kind of sob stories. Isn't there anything like self control and decency anymore?
ReplyDeleteCarry your cross, you hear? Smh.
Dis story hard ooo,,no advice from me poster..u know what to do
ReplyDeleteDis story hard ooo,,no advice from me poster..u know what to do
ReplyDeleteDis story hard ooo,,no advice from me poster..u know what to do
ReplyDeleteGo and abort it and stop confusing the world! Hi everybody I'm back!
ReplyDeleteLools Ezenwanyi. I no vex o, I just say make I tell the poster my mind as e be.
ReplyDeleteare u talking to me?
ReplyDeleteanyway let me not reply u until at least u mention my name, then I can rule out the assumption and give u a piece of my mind as well.
lmao@ 'woman why art thou loose.' Seriously though, I was taken aback by the assumption (or is it justification) that 'everybody does it' Pls speak for yourself abeg. I don't; and I know quite a few women who don't sleep around - cos that's what this is. Once you are 'doing' more than 1 man at a time, its sleeping around and not everyone does it.
ReplyDeleteThe other surprise here is how no one has asked this woman to go for an std check - particularly hiv. if na only belle she carry from this 'escapade', she should thank her stars.
As for those who say telling this person off is judgemental...
Should we clap for her? Mistake ke? How does one 'mistakenly' have sex? With 2 men? Unprotected? If na so, the bigger surprise would be if she isn't living with HIV already.
Ok o. memo to mistake making, multiple sex partner rockers (raw or with condom) aka disease factories, pls know (let it sink in enough to actually influence your behaviour) that you can't afford that kind of mistake or a promiscuous lifestyle anymore abeg. HIV and Ebola say so! Even industrial gloves fit fail o!
As for advice - poster: do NOT bring a child into this mess abeg. Go and evacuate the thing (if you confirm belle), close leg for sometime and renew your mind!
From this risky behaviour, you are not ready enough to bring a child into this world (mentally or emotionally). What will you teach that child? And if you don't have the self love enough to close leg, where will you find the strength of character to make the sacrifices bringing up a child will demand?
Do not marry or have kids until you are thinking straight and can pay the price required for good outcomes in marriage and raising kids. This is not judging or condemning - it is stating the obvious truth. Good luck in your journey o!
My dear ladies , I am begging you all in the name of God Almighty, Please for the sake of the God we all serve ( even if you don't go to church ) Give babies to their real fathers, for the sake of God, your happiness, your peace of mind and for the sake of your sons, brothers, cousins etc. Imagine how you will feel if another lady dose that to your family member ? IF you MUST cheat, please give this babies to their real fathers. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteIt will be better for you to suffer once and live happily all days of ur life on earth than to be living in a misery and regretable life in all ur days on earth,,so right now open up to ur new boo about you and ur ex.bf,,tell him all about u and ur ex.bf,nd ur mistakes and promise him never to do it again or never again meeting ur ex in secret,if he loves u much he will understand nd respect u for ur openness to him,,,nd his solution over de matter shall be ur wisdom of solomon,goodluck,from swiss
ReplyDeleteMy daughter is 12 years old and I dont know who her dad is. Currently 2 of my ex's are fighting over her. The one I claimed was the father refused but took care until she was 2. He always remembers her birthday. The other ex issue is a long story. He just came about 5years ago to visit me and said this is his child, his blood and started fighting with my family. He is married with kids so I dont know why he is fighting for the pretty intelligent girl. I thank God for my family sha who covered my shame and supported to sponsor my daughter. She is intelligent and I am proud of her, my husband has adopted her so I dont cuur anylonger, she calls me mommy and calls my husband daddy. She has sibblings and no one knows about this except sdkers. SHIT HAPPENS. We move on and not kill ourselves. I am in a happy place now. All things have been made new abeg, I am a new creature.
ReplyDeleteOoo.
I sincerely hope this stories are fake stories?
ReplyDeleteIn this day and age,people sleeping regularly without protection? There are worse diseases than HIV.
Those of you sucking dicks uncovered,you are looking for trouble.precum wey you dey swallow go put you for trouble. You can't spit it all out.
So upon all the HIV awareness Stella is giving on this blog, the numerous stories and advice dished out freely here, you are still this daft? You wont lead me into giving you a sinful advice...the only advice I will give you is to run as fast as your legs can go to the nearest Clinic to carry out all the STD's test cos that story about a broken condom is too coincidental for comfort!
ReplyDeleteBrendaN
These kind of stories are getting too much and it's sad because it shows that more and more ladies are living irresponsibly. What is this whole thing of breaking up with X, moving on with Y and then going back to sleep with X while still sleeping with Y. People make choices and then when it comes to dealing with the consequences, they start looking for counsel that they won't take in any case. Well my two kobo advice is deal with this mess objectively and in the process learn your lesson and get your cars together. Tell the 2 guys involved, the one that loves you more will be angry but might still stand by you, if that happens, both of you can decide what to do with the pregnancy (if you are truely pregnant). If none of them stays, you will have to on your own decide what to do. If this is a true story, I am sure despite your acting all confused and in need of advice, you already have decided what to do. May God help us all to always set our priorities right.
ReplyDeleteABORT!!!
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