A lot of people have the impression that Sammie is a ladies’ man, a playboy. Is Sammie truly one?
Ah! God forbid bad thing! (General laughter). In fact, like I said, I am one of those people who like history. Because when you go back to history and you start the story, then you progress and get to the present day. You can see the progression and you can see the different junctions of changes a man’s life has gone through.
There was a time when it was oh, Sammie is a ladies’ man, single guy, pruuuu! He loves women, he doesn’t want to marry, he just wants to play. And those were my days of youthful exuberance.
Let me just pause and say this – I think every man should go through that whole process so that when you build a home and a family, there is nothing out there that has the capacity to come and even make you say you are packing out of your house or to scatter your home or to come and start giving your wife and your children trouble, because some of the guys who dive, and I’m not saying that early marriage is bad; some people dive into it and they have no experience of what the world is. They get in there and while they are married, they start saying hey, like say I know, I for never marry o! Before you know it, they have messed everything up.
The home is in crisis, the wife has packed out, families are meeting, bad PR out here and you are just messing up yourself. So, those days of Sammie is a ladies’ man are gone. I am so happily married to the woman of my dreams. In fact, it was my wedding anniversary on the 1st of July And I’m happy that I did not marry before I got married, because I probably would have joined all the headlines of crashed marriages in the entertainment industry.
We shall return to your marriage. At that time, you dated some of the finest and hottest babes in the industry. Now, when you see fine girls, what goes through your mind and how do you avoid the temptation of going back to your old ways?
My brother! You see, those days, we didn’t know better. We didn’t know better and I have been able to get around wise mentors and wise counselors who have used their own lives as experiences to teach me certain things. You know when you are just moving by yourself, nobody advises you, there’s nobody you can go to, to say please, what do I do? This, that, that, that is an issue.
That is why everybody, you must be accountable, you must submit yourself to people who can pick up their phones and call you and say Sammie, you are messing up, I need to see you right now; I heard X, Y, Z, where are you? Come to my house right now or come to my office now? And you will leave whatever you are doing, drive there.
I had to submit myself to those kind of people because my life was going in a kind of crazy direction and I didn’t want it to end that way. I had to do a re-think and put myself together and then somebody said you know what, be accountable. When you are accountable to certain people and you know that their eyes and their ears are on ground, they can hear anything, you will behave yourself. Those things restrain you from doing certain things. So, these people have taught me so many things that now you can look at beautiful women; because if beautiful women was the problem, I waited and I married a beautiful woman. So, it is not like when you go back home, what you are living with is not beautiful enough.
When you want to mess up, you are imagining the kind of abuse that is going to come. Like, look at his wife; you have this kind of wife, what are you still looking for outside, if something is not worrying you? So, I put myself under those kinds of checks and balances where people can advise me. Even when I have issues, they will say no, this is how you handle it and guess what? My wife is my best friend.
You moved effortlessly from one woman to another then. In fact, you were gliding and galloping (General laughter) – Kate Henshaw, Stella Damasus, Janet Fateye, Gloria Ibru and so on. How were you able to cope during those days?
It was mad! It’s a crazy thing that I did then. The industry just swallowed me. That’s the only way I can describe it because I was an up and coming entertainment personality, I was involved in all the media events, all the awards. They were calling me to be part of the theme songs, to do this, do that and I said to myself, my God, this is the life! The kind of ladies that you will not dare say good morning to; you don’t even have to say good morning; as you are passing, they will just say hi and you begin to wonder: am i the one they are waving at? Because I was in the limelight and I didn’t know how to handle it; I entered it gbuaaaa! And I was like my God; is this what these celebrities are dealing with? Where you don’t even have to say hello to a lady.
She’s looking for you, she’s trying to hang out with you. So, I didn’t know what to do with it; I thought that was the life and the thing just swallowed me and like you said, before you knew it, I was gliding and galloping from relationship to relationship. It was crazy! I didn’t know better. I didn’t know better, but I will balance that. I didn’t know better, but somehow, I am grateful that I had to go through that. Because that is what I appreciate now; because of what I have been through.
You know they say experience is the best teacher. When you have gone through some things, that is when you look back and you say ah! That was not a good experience. You will do all you can not to go through that again.
culled from YES! international
So dem carry Sammie go interview
ReplyDeleteDey ask am about fine fine stars e don frolick with
Not minding he's now married
No regards whatsoever for his new mrs.
Shame on you journalists
If you dare ask my DH about his exes while I'm there, heads will roll...
I'm a jealous being
I hate nonsense
Mamie,I am starting to enjoy your chronicles of DH. Always fun to read. I just dey follow your diary bumper to bumper. Meanwhile,find out from the congolese community in London,how you can get your "yellow" serum. GOogle their base,as popsie don transit. DH must continue to believe that you are mixed race!. As for sammie,all those girls,esp Damaturu,all snitched that they were with you because you are the world's best "headmaster"! Now that's an achievement!
DeleteChoi lmao at world record holder in headmastering.
DeleteLolz@ wide eyed I kinda like your gut
DeleteSo Okposo na oga for headmaster,I like my kittycat sucked but this my hubby na old school which is even better cos I dont think I will like any of my family members sucking women's pussy.that is where Seyi comes in,that guy can suck for America,and that is only what he does for me.suck and go.i hope its not a sin ooo.....
Delete@Ezenwanyi stop corrupting me o Bhahahawahawa
DeleteEzenwanyi who is Seyi kwa?
Delete@eze,I hope say no b my seyi o because I tasted tohtoh on his lips yesterday n I thot it was my tohtoh
DeleteHaaaaaa! Omo Ibadan,no be my totoh oo.......
DeleteGW,long tory.
Chi Jesus,loollz
Bwahahahaha. .....
Dey there! One babe that had the pleasure of his one hour~long~headmastering~ session,said he surprisingly "off loaded" while at it. It wasn't even a '69' ! The guy gets off on being quite the headmaster! Infact,he's a "Prinspa"! Kudos, Olorogun of 'totology' department!.
DeleteLike say u Don stop to dey nack for outside, hissssss
ReplyDeleteAnyways dis man is still a ugly as hell
ReplyDeleteU are so on point. Wonder what Kate Henshaw saw in him. As for Stella, she has always liked gorillas. I jump am pass
DeleteSassy Mum
Na juju he dey use fuck them.
DeleteIs Kate henshaw any better?! Doesn't she look worse than sammie himself. Ugly, skinny, manly looking brat (Kate henshaw).
DeleteThat's the problem with us women. Always looking for tall handsome men not minding if his her is handsome. We marry then, they beat us, cheat on us, we feed them, spend on dem and they act like kings bcos we made them so. And on top of that we make silly excuses for their excess just because they are "handsome". Until will look beyond facial (physical attraction we will not get it right). Mind you Kate and Stella obvious saw something more than handsome or they just like his aura. So stop judging them. We all have what will like and move us but we should based it on HAPPINESS not on 1 stupid beauty/handsome. My a gal by the way b4 u start screaming 'welcome Sammie'. HATER's SLAYER.
Delete@ Anon 12:12- are u for real or all this tian gbosa na joke? Now my eyes are aching me from reading ur comment.
DeleteBeauty n d beast
ReplyDeleteblack like charcoal
ReplyDeleteIs this my Charisma ????
Delete#yawning# Sammie go and sit.down joor..i pray u dont start singing different tone after 10 yrs...Dem no dey take marriage boast....Ask Kate Henshaw and Rodrick Nuttal how far..
ReplyDeleteWait o...
Deletebut Kate Henshaw was married na, how could they have been dating?
...I don't understand.
They dated when Kate was single.
DeleteU were still breastfeeding when they dated so butt out of grown up's gist. Cos u have data service doesn't mean u should on every post. Small pikin!! Hehehehehe
DeleteKate was still single wen dey dated.
DeleteI were kwa?
DeleteNo be small thing, all the same thank God for your life.
ReplyDeleteTeeth like shark's
ReplyDeleteHe is indeed a wise man.
ReplyDeleteHis wife is beautiful. See colour contrast.
ReplyDeleteI bet their kids will be beautiful.
beauty they say is in the eye of the beholder sha
ReplyDeletei wonder what attracted the aforementioned ladies to him sef
i can't be attracted to this man...celeb or not
Mtcheeeew. I never liked this man. Wor-wor thing like am. Mtcheeeew. This is how women make men feel like they are super stars, years after they are still mentioning the women he dated. Nonsense. Ladies mind the kind of men you date.
ReplyDelete*Yawns* getting ma ass back to work.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful couple.may God keep u Both n ur union
ReplyDeleteShebi una dey hear...beauty is not it o
Ego is not it o
Fast cars n Beautiful mansions no be it o
To My Bro who always wanted to marry à Beautiful,fine,tall,very fair,Model-like lady(dont Even know wot dis means sef)
Shebi u dey hear:all dese things wit time wil fade
All dat wil stand is ur character,d friendship n love u guys had(have)
Ma ina achokwa akwa ugo na akwa nma
GW,U be learner???give me gorilla with trillions I go marry am.How can any marriage be sweet without money????.
DeleteThank God for my hubby that has it all.
Even if he is a gorilla buh ur friend and has d character u admire in a man...of course one can go ahead n marry d dude....Money wil come!
DeleteOh yea,it wil come!
Ibilibi,kedu maka ndi ofuu?
VERY ugly man! Must have a big dick coz I don't know what those beautiful women see in him
ReplyDeleteHe really has a big dick and no I haven't seen him before
DeleteHe really has a big dick and no I haven't seen him before
DeleteWhich kain yeye big dick????if people wey get amu kajaluakaja Sammy no go dey for line and this sammy no dey fit,so I no sure say him oko go strong gidigba.
DeleteGuys stop consuming sugar so that una akpa amu go strong.
Ezenwanyi, u can yarn for Africa, choiii. Who do u ds kain thing? Lmao.
DeleteChai Ezenwanyi ooooo! Ikwuwaa onu ooo...kikikiki
DeleteBwahahahaha. ....
DeleteNnaa mehn..this Stella Damasus abi Damascus na original keziah...her pussy must have seen better days...
ReplyDeleteI don't know why women keep throwing themselves on these celebrities...someone that can't even give you a reasonable amount of money...tufia...
Well its always good to enjoy life before getting married,more especially to those women that keep their virginity till 30yrs...
Sammie,your wife is beautiful...you like better thing...
Stella likes to steal other people's men naa. She was besties with Kate yet dated sammie after he and Kate broke up. I suspect she was the cause of breakup. And now she stole Adimokun from Doris. Always posing as the good friend. Mstcheeew
DeleteDont blame stella biko,I dey suspect say dem no circumcise am like me cos once breeze touch there ....
DeleteU wont Even begin to understand how i Used to respect Dat Stella Damascus Till her hubby died n it was just one Long roll of one Man after d other n after the other....
DeleteIt was crazy reading all dat
Hmmmmmm......i Jes hope you won't go bk to that lifestyle. I wonder how those ladies will feel reading this
ReplyDeleteI agree with some of his statements tho, the early marriage thingy,there is no hurry in this life, your time will always be your time,beautiful wife I must say.
ReplyDeleteMr Lyca
Guy,early marriage is d best.
DeleteI will be 35 on d 19th of this month,am still chopping life,grooving u know and was almost through with child bearing. I ve fucked d best dick life has to offer,gone to d best places on earth,drove d finest car and I ve barely begun.its like I ve lived two lives already and btw I think sammy charmed his wife and her family.
Ezenwanyi, we were born on the same day gangan.
DeleteEzewanyi, you were almost through with child bearing until what happened? ??? Please shed more light.
DeleteSeriously @ Goldscent,I always knew we had a real connection.
DeleteQueenie,until I carried another one.
Birthday mates with Ezenwanyi nd Goldscent
Deleteawwwwww.....MK,we are very special.
DeleteYeabim 10th and my daughter is 18th, Leos rock!
DeleteMisleading headline...there was no explanation...lol.Well,Mr Okposo,thank God for your life,not EVERY guy needs tow the 'grooving path' prior to settling down,it doesn't end well for some!
ReplyDeleteI never new sammy okposo dated stella damasus.hmmmmmmmmm#lessonsfortheyoung.
ReplyDeleteall i see is his beauriful wife *in jenifa's voice*..
ReplyDeletemscheew...what kinda silly excuse is that? You were jumping from one celebrity to the other cuz you felt you had arrived,which ,eans you never dreamed of getting that far? smh for you Sammie,anyway,i doubt you've changed sha,once a womanizer,always a womanizer...chikena!!!
ReplyDeleteOga Sammy pls keep shut, you too talk.
ReplyDeleteWetin dem see 4 dat ya burnt black face sef, Mtchww!
This interview is so annoying, I hate it when guys talk carelessly abt their philandering ways bcos they are now married...
I wonder what those women mentioned saw in this malu.
ReplyDeleteMadam Linda, to each his own!
ReplyDeleteIt's a personal choice if one decides to keep her virginity or chooses to be the well of Babylon!!
Live with your choice abeg!!
well of Babylon??????buhaahaa u dont say!!!
DeleteImagine this FOOL, so because he is married now he can talk about all this ladies he slept with as if they were just his fuck mates? very disrespectful. This is one of the reasons i hate when ladies sleep around, guys just see you as one of the easy ladies out there, A lady dare not grant such interview. mtcheeeeew. SEE HIM HEAD LIKE ROASTED GOAT.
ReplyDeleteLol@roasted goat
DeleteThank you MOI.
DeleteYou said my mind. I feel it's disrespectful of him and the interviewer to mention those ladies names.
You see why women should not open their legs anyhow for men in the name of dating? Later those guys will use you as topic for this kind of discussion. But if they didn't see your pants, they won't talk about you like this.
Ladies be warned.
I hope he is faithful to his wife sha. Wisdom is profitable to direct Ecl10:10.
ReplyDeleteThis guy is a gospel artiste o. So after mounting the stage to sing gospel, he will mount the women too...And he has the guts to come and gush about it in an interview...God de o.
ReplyDeleteI'm wondering same. It simply means that he wasn't born again all the while. Cos as a gospel singer, u r also preaching d gospel. He wasn't practicing wat he preached, he shouldn't av called himself a gospel minister.
DeleteLol @ mounting stage t sing gospel n mounting women! All na evangelism!
DeleteA pastor once said, "A man could be born again but his manhood wont be"..hence, sammy okposu case
Delete#Mayan Yarns
My tot exactly....sammie is an hypocrite....Kate was even a live in lover then...after singing gospel & speaking in tongues....he was busy fucking all these babes...very nonsense guy
DeleteAs if he has stopped messing around. How about ur co single and married gospel singers ure 'mentoring' in bed? Even the wife na runs girl for UNAD way back
ReplyDeleteMay God forgive you. Which runs??? Just because she looks wild she's a runs girl. It's sad people call others runs girls out if envy!
DeleteSammie....haba,,u gave too much info jare. i never knew he dated Kate ooo,,,,but not surprised he dated Stella Damasus sha,,,,na her ways be dat.
ReplyDeleteIt shows how young you r....U r so ignorant of history....kate was his live in lover for many years...d relationship ended on a bad note
DeleteTouch and follow things
ReplyDeleteEzewanyi my ex,na you dey compere\moderate this post?
ReplyDeleteBwahahahaha. ......ex kwa????who wan separate U and Me??
DeleteLOL, I LOVE HIS HONESTY IN THIS INTERVIEW, THERE'S REALLY NOTHING TO DENY, WE ALL KNEW HIS LADIES. BUH MEHN, STELLA DAMASSUS...U'VE RILY BEEN AROUND. HOW DO TWO FRIENDS DATE ONE MAN? WELL, I'MA KERMIT ON THIS..
ReplyDeleteAND MAMIE, NO NEED CUSSING OUT JOURNALISTS, IT'S THEIR JOB TO FISH OUT SECRETS, TO PRESS ON TILL U LET IT OUT. COME SEE HOW PAPARAZZI HERE BEHAVE, THAT'S WAT THEY ARE TRAINED FOR..
I THINK ITS REALLY A MAN'S WORLD IN NIGERIA. A MARRIED MAN CAN TALK ABOUT HOW HE DATED GIRLS IN THE PAST OPENLY... BUT IF A WOMAN DOES THE SAME, WE WONT HEAR THE END OF IT..
so he is a better man now ,good for him,, the question should be all the women he left behind, are they better off for it?
ReplyDeleteWait ehhhhh. Isn't this Stella blog? Why are people abusing her on her own blog. Loool. I fear una o. Small respect biko unu
ReplyDeleteHian.. I hope this comment is supposed to be a joke o.
DeleteIt must be a shock each time she introduces her husband to someone who has never met him.
ReplyDeleteThere was a town.the clown impregnated four girls at the same time o!That was why he was pursued out of House on the Rock o!
ReplyDeleteDs guy worwor no get part 2... Am not his fan @ all.
ReplyDeletehe dated kate when she was single. it was only stella who was married and sleeping with him.
ReplyDeleteWho was stella married to when she was sleeping with sammie?
DeleteShe was just 2months in widowhood when she used to drive one gigantic black suv to ve steady aftenoon trysts with sammie! She never missed a day!She was very consistent,dedicated and loyal to her orgasmic mission.if the walls of that one room apartment could talk,the gods would cry!
DeleteHa..Slow down Sammie!..too much information and have a break.
ReplyDeleteNA wa o . Men really scarce o . Abi NA the wife market no sell . If NA the last man I can't fit , tufiakwa. My kids go ugly die .
ReplyDelete