Married But Living Single Heart Breakers - Blog Visitor Narrative.

I am as puzzled as the poster of this story.....she met her knight in shining armour,he looked single,said he was single and told her his wife was his sister till she 'snooped' and the truth starred her in the face!....OMG!




Please read this narrative..she isn't asking for advice,just narrating her experience.

















Hi Stella. Hope you're having a good day? 

I just want to vent because there's something that happened recently that I can't get my mind off. 




I met a guy recently here in Lagos. Young guy who's about 29years old. He seemed okay and we went on a couple of dates, talked on phone and bla bla. 




Earlier this week, I worked late and really didn't wanna drive all the way home from VI. He stays in ikoyi and offered that I pass the night at his place, which i did. He cooked for me and all. While having dinner and gisting, he mentioned his younger sisters name as he wanted to chip in something. We had a cozy night, without making out or anything and I really thought I had found a boy friend.









The next day I got back to work all smiles and decided to check out his sisters page on Instagram and I saw a wedding picture she posted. Apparently, dude engaged his wife early this year and they got married about 13 weeks ago in the UK. I think she lives abroad.




I was so shocked and had to call him to rant. He started apologizing and still didn't have a concrete reason for doing what he is doing. That he's crazy about me and all (I can munch our chats, edit the number and send to you). Anyway, I insulted him and barred all his numbers. Damn! That was such a clean game from him. 







Oh! And he added that sex with her is painful, so he has to find an alternative. 

And I asked him: shouldn't your alternative be booking an appointment with a Gyneacologist for your wife? So you guys can work through it?

 He said he doesn't have the time and patience for all that long process. That is it his fault she's the way she is? That the best he would do is have sex with her whenever they want to make babies. 



If only the poor girl knows what she has just walked into..... 






I have been so sad because these are the reasons why some of us have lost hope in marriage. If it was a guy who had been married for more than 5years that's chasing me, I would understand that he's probably a dog that's held out too long (trust me 90% of my toasters are married guys- gist for another day) But 12 weeks? He should still be on a honeymoon if you ask me!!! 




My question is: why would a guy who got married 12 weeks ago to a Virgin girl be begging so desperately for a relationship?




Or am I overreacting??? 







*How did you know he married a Virgin girl?