Whoever you are and no matter what you are going through...It will end in praise.What you listen to might make you cry but my wish for you is that your tears heal you.
My wish for you is that you know that somebody loves you and has been where you are....
Those of you contemplating 'ending it all''....Please listen to this and fall in love with yourself all over again...Its my wish for you.
This was sent in by Blog visitor Stanley Nwanze who says ''
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I went to westfield yesterday. ..contemplating of jumping from the third building but who will take care of my two kids. Please can anyone in UK give me work contact. ...I'm ready to do any menial job but no documents Thanks and God bless
ReplyDeleteAwww anonymous, God bless your soul, please don't jump o! That's suicide, God will sEe you through..its just a matter of time....what church do you attend isn't there a way they can help you?
DeleteAnon, where in UK do you live? I beg u in God's name please reply.
DeleteSweedy, thank God you didnt, life is for the living, God will make a way where there seems to be none. My advise is plz Come back home!!! Abroad no be do or die affair.
Delete020 7828 3023 , it's an event management company. Ask for Andy and he will give u a job asap. As long as ur visa hasn't expired
DeleteThank u all UK BV's for reaching out to her. My dear BV suicide is not d solution. Thank God u didn't jump. God will soon wipe away ur tears dear. E hugs
DeleteAm sure its the kids that keep most of us going
DeleteU have crazy thoughts sometimes But wen u remember and asked urself who is going to take care of the kids then u have to keep walking
Its aint over until.............
Especially if u aint the bed hopping type
Being a mother and father aint easy at all
He reign supreme and have always make a way where there seems none
Do not give up
Just keep pushing
There is no impossibility
Before u know it
CLICK!!! Its done
U re there,
Believe!!!!
When I read all this talks of suicide, I sit and wonder, is that the end? What happens when you jump off the bridge? Its eternity and that's a one way ticket to hell. Whatever you are going through can't be that bad as long as you have this gift called life! I don't even have the strength to drop the story of my life cos my joy comes from the fact that God has something big in store for me. All I do now is work hard, believe and trust him. May the Holy Spirit strengthen you. Amen
DeleteAnon, sadly things are not as easy as they used to be anymore. Even the guy in the corner shop does not want to employ anyone for fear of being fined if found to employ someone without docs , am sure you understand my example. But here is what you should do , go to your council speak to a social worker, in the best interests of your kids they should be able to work something out for you or connect you to charities who will not only help with feeding and other needs but will also help with regularising your stay.
DeleteThat is your best bet now, you don't want to keep looking over your shoulders each time you go to work for fear you might be caught. Try that route first. Am on maternity leave so am just managing myself but perhaps I can do a bit of shopping for you and post to your home you know like home delivery thing. Please add me up on bbm, 7C7CD8B8 and send me ur addy and your preferred items and store of choice for groceries. I am not promising the world but at least something little for the kids. God bless and please be strong. You will not only get your documents but you will also get a good job and be happy.
@Waterloo road, I aff added u on BB ooooo....... How are you darling, hope you are enjoying maternity leave?
Delete@Waterloo road...thats so kind of u!#e-hugs#
Delete@Anon 9.34am...dont worry, everythg will be ok soon.The earth is rotating...something is changing...ur situation is a phase,it shall soon pass.Your joy will surely come in the morning.Hold on!
Awwww! Kemi didn't know it was you dear. I sha saw the name but was trying to play safe. Lol
DeleteMaternity is fine oooo, 6 months gone and couple more to go. Bored but not complaining . Lol. We go dey chat jare.
Still haven't heard from dear anon, will be waiting.
Thanks PD millionaire. We are all one.
DeleteGod bless you @Waterloo Road.
DeleteIf you are ok with child minding, leave your contact here and I will get back to you. Need to know where in the UK you live though. (Only I'm a bit worried about someone with suicidal thoughts, not sure how deep rooted that is)
DeleteWaterloo Road, God bless your kind heart darln
DeleteDa'alu Nwanze Alobam....
ReplyDeleteQuite an emotional song.
ReplyDeleteDon't end it all biko.
I wish I wish I wish (in R Kelly's voice)
ReplyDeleteLife is full of ups and many a down
ReplyDeleteEnjoy the good but romance the frown
Entity filled with trials and test
But testimonies is bound if you give your best this month of August
Endurance sometimes prove difficult, but you have to endure whatever it is you are going through
Matters not if emotions are hurt, but you have to endure, for life singles out not for torture, does that only for care and nurture, the remaining part of this year, all BV will receive uncommon favour from God in Jesus name.
God Bless all BV abundantly, protect you greatly
and always be with you, yes you reading this
I pray that the remaining part of this year will get golden and imperial for all SDK BV in Jesus name.
Finally, in God your life you should submit this today and always
Your comment will be visible after approval
*this month of August/September* *submit this day*
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This blog is so amazing. I've been feeling sad for like a month now. Its nt been easy...but thank God all d same to see His light in this dark phase I'm going through. thank Jesus.
DeleteBwahahahaha. .........
ReplyDeleteStop sweating d small stuff pls.
This song can even trigger depression.
Shed tears ke???
Hian!!!
Orisirisi.
Onwa Ezenwanyi..
DeleteNwa Ogaranya..
Choi!!!!!
DeleteLinda,U know praises gets to my head ooo......
Bwahahahaha. .......
Hope U are enjoying d holiday. ...NY on my mind.
Are u dis strong or u are feigning it.
DeleteCos bhind all dese defense mite be a senstive n soft woman.
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DeleteU think @ Pink Shell????
DeleteI'm all veins and muscles oooo......
I would have love to watch it but I dey seriously manage my mb!
ReplyDeleteI also wish all blog visitors well.
Just remember; God no go give you anything wey you no go fit win! The thing wey no fit kill you, go make you strong!
God bless us all and grant our 'good' heart desires!
Me too am managing my mb jus can't go a day witout stella's blog...
Delete*ANGEL OF LOVE*
#I LOVE, LOVE
I wish above all that you prosper. For the best weightloss and fitness tips click here»» Fitness Blog, Weight Loss Tips And Beauty
ReplyDeleteThanks, u try
ReplyDeleteBV Stanley,Thank you. It is Well with us all lJN.
ReplyDelete***Healing-rain***
Awwww.... Adonbilivit oooooo... Infact I cry now...lol... Well it made me think of me having the best parents in d world, my siblings all alive and kicking, my extended family all glowing in the Lord. In one of tge best skools in 9ja. I know of 2 students in my skool who doesn't have help in paying skool fees and feeding fee but dey are still in skool.it made me shed tears on Sunday as a frnd of mine who had not eaten since mawnin till 2pm when I called him out to a restaurant to just get him a plate of food. Plz I don cry tire. I just Luv dis blog and I wish u all d best in life... Just put God 1st... As I dey type dis comment I dey cry.... #shit #tooemotional #alinko
ReplyDeleteOriegwu!!!
DeleteEzigbote Oriegwu!!!
DeletePRAYER WARRIOR 1.We may see her in the grocery with her children Or in the city nine to five each working day She's a mother or a teacher or a woman all alone But she's someone else entirely when she prays C.She's a prayer warrior down on her knees Wrestling with power and principalities Standing in the gap for others For her sisters and her brothers Reaching heaven with her heart – prayer warrior 2.We don't see her lonely nights of intercession Or that tear she shed with every whispered name We may not see the simple things hidden in her heart But the eyes of God are watching her with care Repeat Chorus Bridge: And we'll never wholly know the debt we owe her For we'll never know the evil we've been spared Many nights she's crushed through Satan’s strongholds Reaching heaven with her prayers
ReplyDeletePrayer warrior by Heirloom.
Download and listen to it.
Cheers!
Udu bunch!! Anamu ekene oooo.
DeleteChy Jesus,kedu ije???
DeleteHmmmmn!
ReplyDeleteDis stanley guy can like to fall hand sha,
While som are sharing cards, some cloth, some shoe, some training, some cake, and most ridiculous stories, nwaneze aka alinko dey ere dey share wish. #JustKidding.
Don't mind me, atleast u shared smthg. Only dat I can't view the format of some videos.
You must be a very totful guy #Cheers!
If u are feeling sucidal, plz try ice cold bournvita. My mum wld say she doesn't understand y countries fite war, wen dey can av chilled fanta.
To every BV, life is sweet, take each day as it comes, and find smthg positive to be tankfull for.
"My wish for you is that this life becomes all that you want it to.... And if one door opens to another door closed, I hope you keep on walking till you find the window...."
ReplyDeleteAaawww! This almost brot tears to my eyes. May the good lord grant all our wishes &hrt desires. Amen! Tnx Stanley
It is well
ReplyDeleteSome of us are going thru so much pain
But we can only hope for the best
Yes o my story will end in praise!
ReplyDeleteAnon that wants to jump from Westfield I need babysitting for my kids from time to time are you willing to do it ? If so disclose ur email . I live in se london . Thanks .
ReplyDeleteNa wa ooo.....
DeleteU will allow a suicidal person babysit ur kids??????
Dr Ok,where are U oooo. ...........
DeleteI'm having insomnia.
Chai!!!
Frequent bathroom visits.
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It is well!!!
Look for smthg else to give her, not ur kids.
DeleteBecareful, not let emotions override ur good sense of reasoning.
Thanks @ 10:30am,southeast is far for me because I live in eastlondon. My kids are both in full time 8:45 to 3:15. Ezewanyi I try my best to take care of my kids so be careful about things you say.. ...moreover I have done child minding before but the kids have moved to the states now.
Delete@ Onwa Ezenwanyi, I guess u don't like abroad so you won't understand, I pray u never be in a situation that makes u think suicide is next. @ anonymous it will end in praise.
DeleteEzenwanyi, well asked.
DeleteAbsolutely unnecessary to chip in suicidal attempts while asking for assistance.
Whatever you do,please do not babysit for anyone especially nigerians. Before you know it house girl duties will enter and they will keep thinking they are doing you a favour. The day you "rebel" trust me they will call immigration for you and still pretend to sympathise wuth you especially all those south east women. Thamesmead;woolwich,Charlton etc.
DeleteBeware o. Did I mention they will offer you the most ridiculous money? Because they see you as desperate,no papers and in need of something to do.
Yeah right!!!U take really good care of them with one leg above d bridge.
DeleteU are a coward and a spineless fool.
U are a security risk and anyone allowing U to babysit is an ass!!
@anon11:35,I don't need to live permanently in abroad to know how it works over there.
DeleteY wont u guys be suicidal,u dont ve d faintest idea about survival,u take any shit that comes ur way,u guys are so cold..no spark,no fire,no action....what did u expect me to say to suicidal stunt???hold ur hands...sing u a lullaby. ....u think its easy to commit suicide???it takes guts and U madam,u do not ve it.
@ Goldscent,its absolutely very necessary. Did u notice d sob stories keep increasing??????
DeleteAnon contemplating suicide. Isn't it strange that you seek for help but you ate being choosy?! So if you had papers and you got a job in central London you would say you can't go there because you live in East London abi? I pity those who are offering to help you especially with your attitude. Shior!
DeleteStella please stop enabling these sob stories. Enough is enough
Come onwa ezewanyi, U are so oooooooooo insensitive; Dats so mean of u I swear down, must u comment? Do u know Dat d battle of d mind is more fierce Dan natural battles? If u can't encourage the n shut it and go to bed or better still move over.
DeleteHian!!!
DeleteGo to bed kwa????its a sunny afternoon biko.
Battle of d mind my gigantic ass!!!!
I dont know d kind of upbringing u guys had.
cant deal****
Ezenwanyi, I'm a regular on this blog but i hardly comment. I see all ur comments. All i cn tell u my dear is this. U are not God, u cn never be. Be careful in this life, u don't know what tomorrow will bring. U will cuss me out ur good with words. Once again, nwelu nwanyo!!!!!
DeleteAnon 4:03pm, 1000 likes.
Delete@anon 1:22,dont go all sanctimonious on me biko,what are u afraid of???u sound so down and out so y should I cuss u out when u are doing it urself.
DeleteU guys claim to be christians but dont an idea what it entails to be in Christ.bring out ur bible let's discuss so I can point out ur lapses to u.
U complain from morning till night every blessed,no plan in sight,looking onto man and not God for help and directions or didn't d read in d that he who goes borrowing goes sorrowing.
U and I dont operate on d same wavelength,u probably wont understand what am trying to say.
I wont beg in this life nor in d next life cos my God is not a liar and he changeth not.
When God blesses U,he causes ur enemies to be at peace with U.
Go back to d basics,open ur bible,charge ur spirit man to enjoy d benefits and promises of God.
It's not a matter of being God biko.
DeleteMothers hustle to take care of their kids. It's been like that all over the world since time immemorial and will be like that forever. We can't all be rich. You think those women carrying pans of sand at construction sites love it? Those selling pure water under the hot sun just to turn a profit of N200 a day nko? That's what mothers do. Half of the world's mothers would have experienced a time of extreme hardship but most soldiered on. Nigerian women especially have it bad, struggling day-in-day-out to feed their kids, and sometimes, together with their useless husbands.
But these days, all we hear on this blog are threats of suicide because of temporary hardship. Diaspora women be showing off pictures on FB, while they can't feed. There comes a difficult time in everyone's life. Threatening to commit suicide is not the way out.
Well said @ Goldscent.
DeleteEzewanyi ,I know you are right but pls take it easy even though it has nothing to do with me,I dey fear for your tone.
DeleteYou go dey strict for reality.
This ashawo no well sha,Ezewanyi has said nothing but the truth and it felt as if she was talking to me and I have vowed to make changes to my life.
DeleteY are u forming in d mouth @ashawo badagry??
DeleteHian!!
The mind is a powerful thing, create your world in your mind and see yourself live it. I know how difficult it is to be positive in dire situations, be positive all the same. Give a helping hand to those in need, because no matter how difficult your situation, you're still better than some people, wish others well and sincerely pray for them because that is the fastest way of getting answers to your prayers and desires. Shalom BVs.
ReplyDeleteThanks @stanley...I realli need it 2 calm depression cos I knw suicide is neva a option.
ReplyDeletehahhahahhahaa..you are wicked I swear.
ReplyDeleteIt is well.. I remember wen I was younger I contemplated commiting suicide cos d problems were too much for my young heart den..story dat I can take a whole day to narrate.. But dat will be for anoda day.. I Alredy took d otapiapia bottle to drink from den I caught a glimpse of my great grandmoda who is late nw tru d window sitting outside and singing one joyful yoruba song.. My heart melt n I couldn't bring myself to do it again cos of d damage it will do to her n my grandmoda who were d only persons I hav left den.. Despite she was hurting too from d problems she didn't lose hope but was singing joyfully.. I dropped d bottle n juz went outside n hugged her.. She didn't knw why I did it but she juz smiled n told me to join her in singing.. I sanged my out dat day n I couldn't even hide d tears streaming dwn my face.. Well, I thnk God today despite am not where I want to be yet.. Am walking towards dere.. By the special Grace of God I will be graduating nxt year with no help from any family members.. No moda, father,siblings,Aunties,uncles etc except my old grandmoda who even depends on me nw.. God is really great no matter d situation u see urself juz give thx to God n believe it is well.. Though it still pain me wen am arnd pple dat talk about their families,how dey went visiting and so on.. I knw at the end I'm going to have a beautiful story to tell...
ReplyDeleteThank God you didn't end it, God that brought you to this level will take you to greater heights. You will excel beyond your imaginations, good tidings shall follow you, depression will never come to your doorstep again. What your entire village could not acheive you will acheive. God will give you the best children ever. It is well with you in Jesus name.
DeleteEyaaaa..it will end in praise my dear..if I can make it in life,you too can..
DeleteAmen.
DeleteI wld av shed tears reading ur story but...in d office. It is well dear, we'll all have beautiful stories to tell in Jesus name
DeleteThank you Stanley for this inspiration..... Am depressed and I need this encouragement now.......
ReplyDeleteGod bless you all
Thnks bvs i personally need all the encouragement i could get right now.
ReplyDeleteAm at my wit end but i know sucide is not even an option course am too
Cowardly for that
It is well with my soul
Stanley, the song is nice but it did not bring tears to my eyes.
ReplyDeleteWhat did bring the tears was ur comment @10.04am. I'm still tearing up here. I hate sadness, sorrow or suffering of any kind as well, and it touched my heart that with ur flippant comments here sometimes, u do have a heart of gold.
God bless u for thinking to bring a smile to someone's face today with this simple act.
God bless all SDK BVs and SDK herself. God bless Nigeria.
ps:@Anon 9.34am, pls cancel those suicidal thoughts. PLS! At worst u can bring urself and kids back to ur family in Nigeria. They need u to be alive.
Thank God for Kemie and anon 10.30am who are reaching out to you. It is well even in the well!
Flippant u say? Hmmm..... Grammatarian.... U don't know me, wateva I do hear is just fun and 4 d sake of comment.... The other me is weneva u wish to meet me.... #alinko
DeleteMy story will def end in praise... I c beta days ahead,and I blive there's light @ d end of d tunnel. Lord plz listen tru my heart... and ansa me.
ReplyDeleteSo touching,and dis ebola is scAry why ph? Why Nigeria? GOD save us
ReplyDeleteIt is well
ReplyDeleteOctober 2013 was a month I wouldn't steal even if I were a Klepto. A month I will forever in life remember. I was emotionally down for the rest of the year but suicide was NEVER on my mind. I am so scared of death. I can't even afford to allow the devil to frustrate me to that stage.
ReplyDeleteBad times don't come to stay, its only a phase. So whatever situation U find urselves, count it all for joy. I have learned to draw strength from biblical stories of Sarah, Abraham, Job, Joseph e.t.c. for good things comes to those who have faith in God. Lotsa love y'all.
People should learn how to take life easy and give thanks to God no matter the situation.
ReplyDeleteHave a thankful attitude.
It wil all end in praise
ReplyDeleteThere is a always a light at the end of the tunnel,whatever bad thing you are going through won't last forever so just remain steadfast in prayer and you'll make it through...
ReplyDeleteThere is always a light at the end of the tunnel.whatever you are goin through,no matter how frustrating things might be for you right now,never give up on God and yourself remain steadfast in prayer and you'll scale through it in no time,suicide is never an option!
ReplyDeleteVery correct.
DeleteNice wish
ReplyDeleteTnx Stanley
I feel like dying bcos of d way my hubby and my inlaws treat me like nobody plssssss SDK for d sake of my two kids I need a job anykind. Contact:08188342719
ReplyDeleteYour line is not going through.
Delete3yrs afta youth servce wtout job,my husbands pple re nt helpng matters and my husband salar is nt even enof.pls any1 dat stays in Abua shd help me wit anykind of job .smtimes I ask myself why me?Oh God(crying)pls put an end to dis sufferng.
ReplyDelete@sdk thanks a million! Please any BV who can help adopt him should contact stella,he's 2yrs old and I don't want to end his life cos am totally dissapointed in myself and depressed! I look into his eyes and I sometimes cry hard why bringing him to dis world,I said I don't have an email and one anon cussed me dat am a scam....I pray u shall never witness ur child cry wit pains cos of hunger in ur presence!
ReplyDeleteAdopt your Son? This is turning into something else entirely.
DeletePlease take the poor boy to the appropriate authorities, or abandon him in a proper place. Don't end his life please.
Na wah ohh..
DeleteThere is nothing I won't read on this blog..
Are you for real???...
Ooooh Chim oooo.......
DeleteOriegwu!!!
Toh me I can't view anything.I haven't seen nor met that situation that will make me contemplate suicide,I have a melchanholy temperament and suffer from depression most times but I haven't thought about suicide for once.peeps alys talkn about suicide to me they are selfish and wicked,have you suffered like Job? Why don't pray and hold on to God's word,He never fails!
ReplyDeleteHaving suicidal thoughts is the real spiritual attack. Please no matter how bad it is stay alive, stop comparing yourself with anyone, use your head and think of how to better your life, pray not just going church. Unhappiness comes from tying your perception of life to people and circumstances , stop doing that , turn to God and time tested principles for happy living.
ReplyDelete@ezewanyi do u think everyone that works don't feel suicidal from time to time . She needs a job . She needs help . She feels that way don't mean she's going to do it , nigerian mothers don't kill themselves the love of their children won't let them . Nig mothers are strong hardworking women . They re not cowards . I love my mothers they're great . I've been in worse situation than hers the thot of suicide did cross my mind but the love for my kids and God kept me going . If she hasn't harmed her kids why mine . And she went to Westfield which she's hoping for a better future not killing herself . Be strong my sis just know someone's gone thru worse than u but have come out on top . God bless.
ReplyDeleteIf I say what's in my mind,u will say am insensitive.
DeleteShe should be talking to someone not babysitting anyone's kids but seeing u are so emotional,u wouldn't see reasons.
Bye!
Idiot, the lady neve asked for babysitting job. Someone suggested it. Heartless fool, i pray you wont get help when you desparately needs one.
DeleteIdiot????That's it????
DeleteHian!!!! Heartless fool kwa?????
I wont get help when I desperately need it?????That's d difference between U and I,U are a weak and a very shameless person and I am so appalled by ur behaviour.
My mum brought us up doing menial jobs,those of us who were going to school payed our way by working in other people's farms,fetching etc etc.....I never heard her talk of suicide,begging shamelessly d way u guys do here.
Madam,U are d sole craftsman of ur future,as its paths,turns and twist are all determined by U.
Thanks for keeping it clean @onwa ezewanyi.there was no need for the name calling anon
Delete@anon 10.50am . Pls can you spk to Andy in confidence if he can accept you know what I mean can't spell it out for security reasons ?
ReplyDeletePlease anon don't yield to this. Immigration is on a rampage now. Anyone caught is being deported immediately. Your council can help you via social workers. They have so much help to offer as long as you develop a thick skin cos some of them can be quote rude and all but then for the some sake of your kids. Please be wise o!
DeleteWaoh! You are encouraging her to go and work as an undocumented migrant knowing fully well she will be paid less than the minimum wage and she will only keep moving around in circles. You know quite well it can take her years to get out once she gets in. I suspect you. So now you have not only implicated Andy but who knows she could even get busted on her first day at your work. I suspect you are the Andy so better be careful. I guess you didn't know its now a case of deport now appeal later.
DeleteBe careful the kin d of advice and help you offer before you get into trouble.
Oh dear Stella, i want to say a BIG THANK YOU for this music. It touched my soul, it is my kind of music. Yes Stella you made my day with this music. *teary eyes* It also made me remember my DIFFICULT childhood and seeing where i am now…hmmm…Please dear all NEVER you give up no matter what.
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ReplyDeleteSeriously it did not bring any tears to my eyes,just wish things where different for a lot of people
ReplyDeleteFellow BV ,pls anyone wu kan help wif job 4 me or finanncial assitance. Am a B.A (ed) in English holder,and also learnt cake making nd decor. am pregnant 5months gone, husby's work has nt been movin fyn 4 sumtym wich makes feedn frm hand 2 mouth. I knw sum wud nt blive if i say av nt being feedn well 4 d past 1 week, no work, av searched , d tribalism here in Delta is high ,especially if u ar nt one of deir own. Nd as fate wud av it am a Yoruba lady.
ReplyDelete@ lingold
ReplyDeleteYour story was so touching, you will have your own family someday soon and experience the joy of being established. It is well with you and you are in my prayers. E-hugs
Meanwhile! You guys should please stop all this suicide talks. Its never an option! This blog would never have the caption "rip blog visitor" AMEN
ReplyDelete@anon 1:58pm. What happens to gathering children this holidays for holiday lesson. My neighbor does it, I tell you she collects good morning. Get up and do something. Some times, we are our own problem. What happens to baking cup cakes and going to sites or biz centres to drop some each day for sales. With your course, you are having a very big advantage this season.
ReplyDeleteThe way people lie in this blog just to get help is so annoying. What shall it profit you to get something that will turn to a curse for you. How dare you paint issues that does not exist. I swear you people asking for help might be better financially than the givers in this blog. The only difference between you.. Yes you and the givers in this blog is the fear of God and the spirit of giving. All of you have turned expectant mothers and single mothers. isoriat... Continue... there is God o. You seat in your office and house to compose beautiful stories. okey.
ReplyDeleteWell Said!!!!!!
Deletei tire for these people. stella please be careful before your good deeds become bitter pills for you. people should be honest for crying out loud. some of these stories....i rest my case.
DeleteAnonymous you don't have to be angry over comments because 419ers are every where, ready to feed on the naivety of kind people.
DeleteDon't be surprised that you might be better off than some people commenting here but they endure and strive to live.
I tell people that when you know your financial status, learn to live strictly within it! There are some food, clothing and events you have no business with!
Anonymous, you don't have an email account which means you refresh this post to read and comment. Where do you get the money to buy air time instead of using it to feed? OR you borrowed the phone to browse? Don't the owner make use of her phone? Where do you live? And who pays the rent? No parents? No siblings? No relations? No friends? What about the boy's father's family?
I ask all these questions because I know for a fact that, no BLOOD RELÀTION would turn back a mother who cries to them that her child is hungry! Even if it is garri, they would give him to drink!
Cont'd....if you want to give him up for adoption, please go to the rightful authorities or orphanges and give them the power of attorney and go away without coming back to look for him or the people that adopted him. BUT would you be able to live with your conscience? OR better still, go to a TV station and present your matter, and the boy would be gladly taken off your hands. I BEG YOU, DO NOT HARM THAT BOY, OR TRANSFER YOUR ANGER ON HIM BY ANY MEANS!
DeleteTomorrow will be a bright sunshine day "IF" You are here to make it happen .
ReplyDeletevisit any hospital around your area and see how you will dancing and thanking God for his mercy,and some of those are mega billionaires .
I know is not easy,but in any situation give thanks to God.I'm not guessing,there are millions of people out dear ready to give up everything to be in your shoes,believe me,that's the truth.
You came to the right house and family,So your problem is warming up for a race to destruction !
You are not alone,don't make room for devil in your heart.If such though pays you another visit,Tell the though and it's papa evil to get behind you.Is well with you.
@onwa ezewanyi sometimes you talk without thinking like you have diarrhea of the mouth !!!
ReplyDeleteNo vex!!!
DeleteI didn't know I was hitting below d belt,biko pass me one of those Stella's seats make I siddon dey look.
@Golscent,queen Linda and Ezenwanyi..u won't understand and I pray u won't be in this kind of pains in your life!
ReplyDeleteHian!!!!!!
Delete...So,U didn't know that pain and challenges are all part of God's design to shape us into better beings?????
It's not ur fault sha.
These women u called out told u d truth, I dont know y u guys dont like hearing d truth,d bible says u shall know d truth and d truth shall u free.
So we have been grouped together into the association of insensitive women? Oriegwu!
DeleteSo if this blog didn't exist, some women will open their eyes and let their kids starve to death or just commit suicide to end it all.
When I think of all what my mum did in addition to her civil service job just to send her kids to the best schools, I can only shake my head.
@Golscent,queen Linda and Ezenwanyi..u won't understand and I pray u won't be in this kind of pains in your life!
ReplyDeleteWhen someone comes to you begging for bread. You give. He/She will come again for bread or something else thinking you have a bread factory.
ReplyDeleteTeach them how to fish.don't give them the fish.
In essence,all these people coming on here to beg for this and that,I think Stella should reduce the donations and increase the job assistance.
If you're moved to help, pls help them better by giving them something to which they can generate their own income,that way you save further beggi beggi. Cos some ppl are just too lazy.they just sit back and beg and enjoy self pity. Instead of dusting their asses and empowering themselves.
My own opinion tho.
Nigerians ve misplaced priorities,I told my aunt who wanted me to sponsor her son abroad to tell him to go and learn a "work"she refused telling me are my kids not un abroad schooling bla bla bla......but her son already has braids,tattoos,he even pierced his nose and ears.....anyway I turned her down.....
DeleteThis is where I love d yorubas,they combine there secondary education with craft and by d time they are through with school they are already established and if they choose to continue with tertiary education they use those skills to see themselves through in school cos their papa no send them oooo......cos polygamy is so rooted there so na everybody with him mama and they actually survive and make d best of it unlike our igbo people that has entitlement mentality and is so rampart with d females:;;;yea I said it and its true.
Sponsor her son? Ninjas! Na you born am? If your children dey abroad nko? Na their papa money! I dislike such people with a passion! EEwanyi, you know your condition, save your energy and stop explaining too much. Sob stories don't move me again because I have endured dark moments in my life also and I came out stronger. some peeps are good at begging. Let me share this:
DeleteA man came to complain that he could not pay his children school and he is working. He was helped. He came again to complain about another thing, I assisted. He came again, this time I refused because I realized he has taken it for granted!
Another lady whom we attened open university off campus programme complained about not having money to balance her schoolbfees and transport fare to the exam location. I assisted. She complained again of not having food to eat, I assisted. She got married, only for her to send me a mail asking for financial help again! I ignored the mail. It was later, I found out that she begs other students in the class and she is working in a bank! I realized she is a professional beggar!
I helped to pay waec fees for A boy only to find out he was lying, used the money for something else.
What about a relation I helped several times, only for him to be coming to ask me for every trivial things, that I ignored him!
There are few genuine cases but how do we know them? And how are we sure they won't come back asking for more?
Points noted @ 3; 42.
DeleteWell said!!
Zaram, onwa ezewanyi pray 2 God dat in his infinite mercies, he wud nt put u in a tight corner, am telln u 2 fid is a problem, u ar talkn abt makin cupcakes. If am 2 organise coachin 4 children wud dey seat ond floor? Or cakes wud i steal d materials. Al am askn 4 is capital even if it's 10k to start-up sumfin. Am a woman of dignity bt am doin dis bcos of my unborn child. Do u knw wat it mins 2 leave ur entire family in search of greener pastures nd nofin is comin up, u talk lyk life is a bed of roses 4 u, i jst pray God wud continue 2 make it smooth 4 u. Bt watch wat u write al in d name of comments.
ReplyDeleteI grew up in a tighter environment,and I watched my mum work like a jacky.
DeleteMy mum from a very poor background,married my father who was not only poor but very abusive and not once did she raise her voice at him nor starve him.
My mum,made our home as comfortable as possible,never missed morning mass,always cheerful and willing to do any kind of job to make sure we ate and I followed in her footsteps so forgive me if I do not understand ur plight.
U guys ve no idea about duty and responsibilities,I got married b4 my 14th birthday cos it was d right to do at that point,I didn't complain to anyone when I couldn't walk for days cos my totoh was hot and paining me ,I didnt complain to anyone when I felt nauseous from pregnancy and couldn't hold any food down,I didn't complain to anyone I hated my husband for hurting me badly ever night........but here I am today,standing strong shaped by those pains and telling u to go back to d basics and get it right cos ur foundation is very faulty and shaky.
I cant believe am actually crying,May God bless you.
Delete@onwa ezewanyi pls hug your mum for me tell I said she's a grt woman we need more wives like her unfortunately there nowhere to be found .women of this days will cus their husband out from morn till night for not being able to provide . God bless her .
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