The Stay At Home Wife And The Implications...Blog Visitor Narrative.

The depression of staying at home is not what you bargained for right?..and then your parents will not stop demanding and asking for things beyond your means...just like blog visitor mamie complained of in the ranting post,some parents can break a home with their selfish demands!...what do you do?

blog visitor says....

 ''I am an only child. I am from delta state and my hubby yoruba. I come from a part of the country where it is Believed it is the responsibility of the children to take care of Their parents Whereas he is from a part of the country where parents work hard to leave inheritance For their childrens children. 

I am a stay at home mum (not by choice.) Had to relocate to another part of the country where my husbands talent is more appreciated.While my husband is thriving in this place (believe me I am happy for him / us) 

I am wasting away at home. 

My temper is melancholy so you can just imagine how unstable and depressed I can be. My husband sends money to my parents weekly for feeding and he never misses the to opportunity to rub it in Whenever we quarrel, even though he was the one that told my dad to stop working. 

My parents do not help matters Because They Are always asking for extra money even though what they are given should be enough. I use to cater for them until I got married. The state where I reside now is a civil servant state so getting a job is not easy.

 I told my husband I want to go into a Particular business and he put his weight behind it and started planning for the business in a big way. The business is Capable of gulping close to N2million (it is a fast moving consumer products). I was not planning on spending huge amount because my hubby will never give me that to amount to set up a business. 

My trouble is He Has totally edged me out. 

I do not even have a say in the planning process. My parents are getting very old and I need to be able to gather some money to put aside to help out. My husband is never Concerned When my parents fall sick and I do not blame him Because his parents never ever ask him for money. 

I do not have any money to start a business and my husband will not give me except he takes over the business completely. Most of the time I am suicidal. Just last night He Said some nasty hurtful things about my parents. He can be very mean with his Utterances. I need advice please''. 

*sad sigh*