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You dumped your ex and they moved on but you see them with their new love and you freeze in your steps wondering if you should thank God or cry over the loss....hello?
Blog visitor says,
''Hi Stella I left my ex 6months ago, two weeks before he was to go see my kinsman for my bride price.he punched me in the eyes so bad I had to see a doctor,so I ran away one morning after he almost pushed me out naked from another fight.
I didn't exactly know what I was thinking but I got scared and just left,though I broke some of he's things to hurt him,but still he apologised and I didn't go back,but I just saw a picture of his court wedding I don't know what am feeling,weather I should regret or thank God.
I need advice or stories from fellow blog readers with similar experience to keep me strong. Thanks''
*Babe you should have a party,buy champagne and send me the bill!...Mscheeeew!
Go and see Dino Maleyes Wives association lamentation galore and give yourself brain.
ReplyDeleteAzin ehn, I don't understand this post at all. Regret over what? You guys dint work out, he got married so? Thank God and move on...
DeleteIt is well dear. God will sort you out.
DeleteI like how sdkers always have similar stories sha to wotever topic is being posted...hahaha
Cz u ain't married yet? You need a psychologist.... Mtcheww
DeleteThis is how some of us vex God when He chooses to answer our prayers in a peculiar way. I mean madame poster, what else do u want? Just move on mehn.
DeleteThank God....in everything give thanks....abi no be so bible talk am?
ReplyDeleteWhat will be would be.
Big lie from the pit of hell
DeleteGini? My dear today is Friday, go clubbing with ur girls and celebrate den on Sunday go to church for thanksgiving and also pray for his new punching bag for God's strength, patience and grace. Ur ex is a serious psycho.
DeleteLet me go anonymous on this. Lol
DeleteEven tho am way cuter than d girl my emotionally abusive ex eventually married, I can't help but feel a pang evry time I think of them because I always feel that shoulda been me. I never marry still. Stella I sent u an email of my story. Pls post.
Poster, listen to Stella. Throw a big party cos you've just escaped death ah! No loss here oo abi u no hear of Dino story? Chilax cos soon the new bride will start contacting you about his maltreatment like what Alero is doing to Toks right now... Leaving him was a big gain biko n just pray for your Boaz lolz
DeleteStella have u seen my mail? I put my 0703 number as the subject. Pls post my story or just reply me.
DeleteThanks
Very funny that u r reverting ur actions..Thank God cos u guys r not meant to be
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U this imposter! U keep impersonating lepa shandy. Lepa shandy does nt sound this way. I'm still wandering why some people choose to impersonate others instead of getting a life
DeleteThat's why I stop commenting till I have a gmail.
@ Poster, Rejoice and be glad.
ReplyDeleteGod will give you your own man soon.
A man who will cherish and adore you, a man who will never hit you, a man who will love and respect you, Amen.
Just put your trust in him.
Just checked my ex's page.
DeleteHe is still doing bad.
God is good
Why are still visiting your ex's page, monitoring spirit.
DeleteWow. Are you rejoicing at someelses misfortune?
DeleteLol @ anon u r a clown o. I don't wish mine bad but no matter how well he is I will never qo back! Its not pride, its just me! Its only doqs dat qo back to their vomit!
Delete@anonymous this ur comment made me laugh jare
DeleteLmao @ anon 3:22pm.
DeleteReally?
Udonminit!
Lmao @ monitoring spirit.
DeleteYa'll are killing me.
Omg, monitoring spirit got me in stitches
DeleteU got outta an abusive relationship n u dnt know whether to thank God or cry??? Should ds even b a topic for debate??? Grow up n grow wise poster
ReplyDeleteThank uuuu!!! Some with brains but dey won't use! Iranu. All ths posters self everyone sah wanna get featured on here. SDK der r some amunurunni stories u shouldnt even bother/stress urself to post self. A 5yr old will give her a perfect answer. Sister not too late u can still go back, sigh Hain Swerve!
DeleteNa wa ooooo. C harshness
DeleteLive and let live. Biko
She asked for advice. Not insults
Kini big deal?
U got outta an abusive relationship n u dnt know whether to thank God or cry??? Should ds even b a topic for debate??? Grow up n grow wise poster
ReplyDeleteITK (I too know). Poster pls don't mind this person. It's absolutely normal for you to feel this way especially if you did love this person. One thing is certain; you took the right decision. In no time you will meet the right person that will love you back and will never lay a finger on you. Sit in front of ur TV with a box of chocolate, cry tears of relief cuz u just saved your own life by walking out!
DeleteClear case of ITk, oversabi na disease.
DeleteHia!!! Una dey vex o... am saying it shouldn't b a topic for debate cuz clearly she's been saved from a life of abuse... abeg where d ITK take enter wetin I talk now???
DeleteMy dear you would get over it,its cos you aint totally over him,trust me it would pass!you should do what stella said you should o,you were rescued from domestic violence you should be thankful...
ReplyDelete*Sweetness*
Hahahahahah I laff cos this was me last year though alittle bit different. Mine was that my ex was so stingy dt he cdnt even afford to pay for a cab fare, not even a dime for a phone recharge n this is a guy who is loaded with serious business I know of but was ready to waste my time calling every minute of d day mtchewww, all he wanted was for us to get married d next day n nothing more. Jeeez I was angry with d way he was so stingy towards me, never knew handsome men can be dt stingy like superglue. I quit the relationship, he waited n found out after some months dt I wdnt marry him so he chose someone else. I was shocked d day he called telling me his wedding IV was out, to tell u d truth I felt so sick, even on his wedding day last year, I sent d story here under a post, some pple adviced yl some cursed d hell outta me lmaoooo. As for those dt adviced me dt period under anon tnz lool, am really greatful cos am free like air, enjoying my life.
ReplyDeleteSo sweetie u will surely get over it n go tnk ur stars for escaping a sad life.
Hehehehehe Queen Amy,are you the person dating a stingy dr in Ai???...
DeleteHmmmmmm....thank God you left him biko,no time for ndi owuite...
See your life? You see as you expose yourself, parrot.
DeleteLmao the Boss is not me ooh, mine is a business man.
DeleteNdi owuite loool Linda u be correct 042 babe. Enjoy ur weekend.
DeleteHmm... 2 kind of men I detest... D stinqy and d abuser!!!! God no let me jam one bubome!
DeleteExposing my self, how? Am real bebe and dnt pretend like a maggot infested dickhead which you are. Come on gerrout from here aunty agbaya.
DeleteQueen Amy dearest, you will meet your King deserving of you.
Delete#i hope my grammer correct#
A big Amen stella. One love
DeleteA big Amen stella. One love
DeleteAmy,you left a young working man who is trying to make it in life cuz he is "stingy"..hmmm so he shuld spend his seed money for his biz on you..to be a man is not a day job,yu jst made a very big mistake
DeleteLol@i hope my grammar is correct!hahhahhahahahhahahhaha
Deletelove me some stella asemota anyday anytime...#FunnyMaMa.......needless to worry dearie...with you, everything/anything is allowed#smiles
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My dear thank God u left. Stingyness is a serious sickness. Its different if he doesnt have but he has and he no dey share. Mba.
Delete@anon 6:34
DeleteAt a singles meeting one day, the preacher said "a man's gifts maketh way for him" and we were all surprised at the literal explanation he gave that verse. Stingy men are annoying.
get busy honey and or look for new love...
ReplyDeleteYou should be thanking your stars that you escaped being used as a punching bag for d rest of your life.
ReplyDeleteWow!..thank God you left him...I detest men that beat up their women...I have no experience sha...
ReplyDeleteAdd coldstone ice cream while u are at it.. Lol my dear you dodged a bullet
ReplyDeleteTo be more specific, a bullet from an AK 47 assault rifle! Sweetheart, it's only normal for you to feel the way you do. As ladies when we walk out on a guy, we expect him to chase after us grovelling and begging us to come back. It's only a guy who truly loves you, who would hold out as long as possible to win you back. Of course being violent to a woman automatically rules love out, so be glad you didn't end up with a man who isn't in love with you. As ladies we have the capacity to still hold on and "endure" unacceptable treatments. Please know your worth, you are a diamond fit for only a king so don't settle for less. It may hurt now but trust me, joy comes in the morning. Don't worry about finding love, love has a way of finding you when you ain't even searching. #hugs
DeleteAnd domino's pizza.....
DeleteYou should be thanking God and rolling on the floor giving thanksgiving in church that you never enter one chance like that babe that married him. Look at weyre dino that beat his wife for 10 years and alero even after hearing this went to enter once chance in dino's hands.
ReplyDeleteBabygeh you don't have a problem go and pop champagne like Stella said.
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ReplyDeleteHahaha haha *rotfl* really hard!
DeleteJoke peters na you b ds
DeleteBimpe, u've always been a desperado. This post is not meant for desperate idiots like u. U sound as if going abroad is a ticket for a free meal. Don't worry na. Shebi most nigerian men abroad are now killing their wives becos of frustration. Continue with calling the cops. One day, dat mad man u married becos u want to answer MRS will show u pepper. Just pray make e no be yonder e go send u.
DeleteYou must be a pathetic fool...how can u tell her she missed her own because of a punch. U must be some desperate woman. Despite the beating u married him? So u will advice ur daughters to stay in an abusive relationship than stay alone..my cousin stayed cks of this ur same ideology and where is she now? She is dead...killed by the fool cos she was saving face by staying married........better to be single and alive than married and dead. Sorry for the insult
Delete"YOU'RE IN ABROAD"? REALLY!
Delete#ok bye#
That explains your delusional behaviour and myopic brain.Dude must have beaten your brain into pieces and yes this is so my business cause you are very uncouth!
DeleteThe Alex
Can you hear yourself? madam you need serious reorientation so you can change your mentality. Don't make men feel like Gods abeg! #One Love#
DeleteTufia! Your self esteem must be so low that you feel marrying a beast is an achievement
DeleteDesperate house wife, talkative, next time, he will make sure he slaps out okoro seeds out of your eyes with your uncouth words.
DeleteWho dash this one abroad, lousy thing.
DeleteU guys shld ave known by now that bimpe's annoying comments is a deliberate attempt for her to become popular on this blog. Non of the tins she says are real
DeleteBimpe I totally and utterly pity you.... So cos the police came to take finger prints u have own abi? So mean a guy who beats you is the best for u cos u now live abroad? May your obituary not be next on this blog in Jesus name.. Amen
DeleteTasteless and cheap post,a man doesnt have to beat you b4 you know he is the best man for you,and going abroad?a good man will always treat his wife as his baby,sister,mother,daughter (all in one),felt so ashamed when i read this post(Bimpe),so until his fingerprints was taken in custody ,he did not value you,i guess you proposed and married him not the other way round
DeleteHahahahahahahaah
DeleteAyeeeeeeee ooooooo what the frack dd you just say? You are in the abroad and she missed her luck just becos of a punch???? OMG!!!! How desperate can women be ehhhh...lemme beliv dis your post is a joke awon EBINNA OSHI becos men are their meal ticket! Even if he is your damn meal ticket u happy he treats you like rags? Adonbilivit!!!!!!!
*Sweetness*
Wow
DeleteWow
Wow
Still shocked
Chei Bimpe u have serious self esteem issues. Ndo. I will pray for u
DeleteSo you regret leaving a man who punched your lights out? Wow! Perhaps I'm not understanding you. I guess you miss the good times you had with him. Also, it's quite painful seeing your ex gaining the upper hand(in this case, getting married) but with time, thoughts of him will be a thing of the past. Kpele my dear. Just thank God.
ReplyDeleteTrue talk.
DeletePoster you don hear?
Best comment.
Just give the idiot one month after the so-called wedding,he will come begging for you.
ReplyDeleteI think its normal to feel like that because this is someone you shared some of your most treasured memories with however thank God you left before you became another statistic for domestic violence related deaths.
ReplyDelete#1. u break up wt Mike Tyson u dey cry?!
ReplyDelete#2 Dat niggur got married 6mntgs after u guys broke up? He was definitely cheatn on yo ass wt d girl while u were dating. U shuld bake a cake, mix it wt Ganja, buy some champagne, throw a party & call me (IN dey like dat kind tin well well). Good riddance.
As I write ds, am on my way to settle d 4th fight btw a couple dat got married 4months ago.
Ladies beware... its not abt d wedding, its about d marriage.
Big Daddy
Thank God you left him. You will find happiness elsewhere I can assure you that
ReplyDeleteDear poster, bless d name of the Lord dt he gave u the courage to move on. Many girls re in such rships but out of fear nd desperation to get married, they stay put, so I'll say u re lucky to get ur self esteem back. Somtimes wen I engage in a rough play wt my male friends or relatives, I can't help but feel som pain even though it might hav been dt we were playfully strugglin for one thn or d othr, so I can't imagine the type of pain a female feels wen a guy beats her. That's d height of wickedness. No girl deserves such a treatment frm any man. We all deserve a gud man, so never settle for less. God wil provide ur own man in due time
DeleteIf u set pass the wifey thank God if the wufey set pass u thank God still,for u its a win win situation ,the fights wasn't healthy for d relationship jare.my baby dady is married ,d first time I saw d wifey's pic I felt hot/cold at the same time .only for me to hear after 2mobths that he preg d maid.na win win my sist
ReplyDeleteMschew good riddance t bad ruBbish.. Dear poster u need t really thank God frm saving u frm d hand of a beast. Som men r beta off @ d zoo.
ReplyDeleteYour story is quite similar to mine but my ex is still very much single and i heard he just bought himself a jeep*like i care* he still loves me though and i love him too but anytime i remember how he used to punch my face, i just hate him the more.Poster just forget about him no matter how hard its going to be cause i believe we deserve the best.
ReplyDeleteAwww. E hugs dear.
DeleteLet me give it cos there r lots of insults flying around.
Your story is quite similar to mine but my ex is still very much single and i heard he just bought himself a jeep*like i care* he still loves me though and i love him too but anytime i remember how he used to punch my face, i just hate him the more.Poster just forget about him no matter how hard its going to be cause i believe we deserve the best.
ReplyDeleteJust thank your GOD madam. Been in an abusive relationship is death!
ReplyDeleteRegret or happy, he is no more your problem. Move on and erase him out of your mind.
ReplyDeleteMy dear jst believe in God, ur own man is on d way, d one dat will respect ur dignity
ReplyDeleteSweetie, trust me you are only sad because you are single and he is getting married. thank God you left an abusive relationship alive
ReplyDeleteMy dear, don't feel bad or jealous cos u dnt knw wat u would av faced if u had married him. Probably d new girl hasn't seen d oda side of him, buh trust me her close friends will Strt hearing complains from her
ReplyDeleteA beater? Please rejoice, your own who will not lay a finger on u is coming.
ReplyDeleteSo bcos he married some desperate woman u now think u did wrong by leaving him? A crazy guy that almost pushed u out naked? Are u for real?
ReplyDeleteCos he got married b4 u doesn't mean u made a mistake, u berra thank God cos soon his poor wife will realise she married a mad man!
Cry very well. Call a pity party and invite me, i will be there to mourn for you. stupid poster. when you start fighting everyday and your neighbors come to separate fights and when he uses cutlass to chase you out naked round the compound maybe that's when you will know whether you made the right decision.
ReplyDeleteWith all these insults I wonder how anybody has the heart to send stories here.
DeleteHmmn
What kind of stupid question is this?
ReplyDeleteHow can u ask this?
Domestic violence is not to be condoned @ all, thank God that he showed his true colour befor u pple got married.
My aunt is in bondage right now.
Her husband is an animal! A bastard and evil beast!
He beats her evrytym,
D most recent one was last week, he was beating her and d kids cudnt take it, dey ran and calld the neigbours and he still continued! Imagine o, infront of d neighbours, no atom of shame.
My dear beta do as stella said and throw party because u just dodged a bullet.
God knows that I wil never be with smone who beats me up, its not right at all.
I kw dat feeling yh n i feel u shld tnk God oooh, d pictures may look so lovely yh but my sis u no kw wetin d new wife dey go tru , so tnk God for him n God will bring a better person.
ReplyDeleteYour God given spouse would locate you,trust me. Just hold on to the Lord and he would never forsake you. He almost pushed you out naked? That is certainly not a person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Marriage is a school of hard knocks on its own,don't add trash to it.
ReplyDeleteMy dear thank God for your life ooh!
ReplyDeleteThe good thing is that you have dated your frogs...Is time to marry your prince charming! Congrats in advance!
Thank God dat ur not in the 6ft by now do u kn d hell his wife 2 be is passing 2ru by now ?
ReplyDeleteWow, within 6months he met, dated, engaged another lady..... mmmhhh
ReplyDeleteMy dear like Aunty Stella said, pls pop champagne jare..
congrats on escaping a potential DV situation..
Thank God for saving you from DV. Rose
ReplyDeleteBabe! Babeee! Babeeeee! How many times did I call you? No need to send Stella the bill, send it to me! I'll throw in a free return trip to Croatia sef! Aba! Oya start dancing "skelewu" and praise God you dodged a bullet!!
ReplyDelete6 months and he's already married? LOL girl you were the side chic. You better be thanking your stars.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, u should be dancing skelewu on top his matter. U escaped from another bingo melion! My dear, rejoice and be happy. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Thank God u didn't go blind from the punch!
ReplyDeleteWhat will be will be. When things we don't have control over happen, let it be a by-gone. God said he has thoughts of good and not of evil for us, to give us an 'expected end'. So keep being happy my dear and don't bear grudges against ur ex.
ReplyDeleteU can't tell if d wife is Mike Tyson's sister. Maybe she learnt boxing just like Mike Tyson while growing up. U berra thank God o, u berra leave him 4 a woman that can withstand all his punching skills......if d wife no fit withstand d punching again, she will do d needful like Dino Melaye's second 1st n 2nd wife, or she may decide to put on her own boxing gloves and show Bros that she learnt boxing while growing up. What pained me in ds ur story is that u just ran away after punching ur eyes, u should ve organised ur younger brothers n their friends to help him arrange his face small. U f up jare.
ReplyDeleteRejoice, u have been saved. You may not understand your feelings now but someday you will, a part of you still cares
ReplyDeleteWhat a question....so If we tell u 2 regret u seff go regret....oya start regreting nd kill urself naa
ReplyDeleteYou dunno if you should thank God for getting you out of an abusive relationship??? Hahaha.... Nope u shouldn't... Sicko psycho!
ReplyDeleteShut up tips, are you in a perfect relationship either?
DeleteAlways thank God for everything,Once the break up is not from not your fault.
ReplyDeleteMy ex girl friend (a student) left me yrs back and after few months,I met my wife (a doc)
We got married and we are blessed and happy. Am 10x richer and Blessed than when she left me.Looking back I have to thank God cos assuming I married her by now,mayb we go don divorce.
He punched you in the eye, he pushed you out naked yet you are are asking us weather or not you did the right thing? Ok, madam if i were you i will be thanking God for giving me the courage to walk away. I want you to know that you are a STRONG girl and even though i don't know you , i am very PROUD of you. Please don't look back. Soon you will start hearing story of how he has tuned his wife to a punching bag.
ReplyDeleteBimpe,,,i now understand why ur reasoning and comments are always upside down. Ur man has used his fists and legs to punch ur senses out.....living abroad is the definition of a good life to you abi??? just thank God u are there bcos if u were in Nigeria,,,am sure ur DV stories will be all over the internet.....mtchewwww
ReplyDeletePoster,,u will get over him with time and a big congrats to you for walking away from troubles. May God grant the new wife the padded butts required to accommodate all the punches.
Last year March I left my BF, he just got a job with Radio Nigeria and I just graduated. He was preaching marriage, he had even discussed with his cousin about getting a ring and proposing. Hehehe! Well, I just didn't see my future with this guy! I have known him for over 8years, 8 years of so many on and offs. My mum just didn't like the guy, my siblings too, People who knew him more than I did advised me marrying him would be a great mistake. He was abusive in his other relationships but not to me because me sef get craze oh, I fit leave knife inside im belle if he try am. So one day I decided to joke and told him "Hmmmmmn, baby! So you have 2 kids and won't tell me. People talk you know. And he said, why do people lie like this? It's just one girl oh, about 4years old". What? I knew him for over 8years and I just heard this one? Osalobua bu mwen re oooooo! I wasn't sure if I wanted to marry a guy who had secrets so I decided to chill (not break up) just to see what will happen. June he was engaged to his co-worker! Huh?!!! August someone saw the girl and she was pregnant! Wait oh, this was a guy who was discussing marriage 4months ago. November he got married! 8 months later, 8months later! Shuooooo! What if I said yes? How he for take manage me and the girl wey get belle for am? Luckily for me, I started dating this guy who'd been on my case for a year, the most amazing man. He treats me like a queen and spends too much. I'm living like a Queen in his Palace. Thank God I walked out on that bastard.
ReplyDelete@poster: rejoice!!! God is bringing the one who's going to make you rejoice that relationship never worked out. You'll see. All the best.
Osa we se vwe gbe we otenmwen.
DeleteThe best is yet to come.
Enjoy.
Lol finally someone us speaking Benin here...
DeleteLast year March I left my BF, he just got a job with Radio Nigeria and I just graduated. He was preaching marriage, he had even discussed with his cousin about getting a ring and proposing. Hehehe! Well, I just didn't see my future with this guy! I have known him for over 8years, 8 years of so many on and offs. My mum just didn't like the guy, my siblings too, People who knew him more than I did advised me marrying him would be a great mistake. He was abusive in his other relationships but not to me because me sef get craze oh, I fit leave knife inside im belle if he try am. So one day I decided to joke and told him "Hmmmmmn, baby! So you have 2 kids and won't tell me. People talk you know. And he said, why do people lie like this? It's just one girl oh, about 4years old". What? I knew him for over 8years and I just heard this one? Osalobua bu mwen re oooooo! I wasn't sure if I wanted to marry a guy who had secrets so I decided to chill (not break up) just to see what will happen. June he was engaged to his co-worker! Huh?!!! August someone saw the girl and she was pregnant! Wait oh, this was a guy who was discussing marriage 4months ago. November he got married! 8 months later, 8months later! Shuooooo! What if I said yes? How he for take manage me and the girl wey get belle for am? Luckily for me, I started dating this guy who'd been on my case for a year, the most amazing man. He treats me like a queen and spends too much. I'm living like a Queen in his Palace. Thank God I walked out on that bastard.
ReplyDelete@poster: rejoice!!! God is bringing the one who's going to make you rejoice that relationship never worked out. You'll see. All the best.
Babe pls do tnx giving..say no to DV
ReplyDeleteWao!!!!!! Bimpe did you just say that????!!!!….Wao! *speechless*
ReplyDeleteDear Stella I seem to be stuck in the past. And its very sad. 3 Yrs ago I met a guy briefly and fell in love with him. He was on a break in relationship with his girlfriend. And we met during the break. He was instantly attracted to me as well but due to circumstances beyond my control we ddnt last 3 months. The guy has anger issues (he will deny it til today if u ask him) he feels he is always right. It is The other person that is always @ fault. I ddnt mind. I would apologise and apologise weda I was wrong or not. All because I wanted to be d perfect girlfrnd. Well that didn't work in d long run cos it moved to emotional abuse (if he calld and for some reason you couldn't pick at dat point in time na wahala. He would hammer and hammer on d issue you wil find yourself apologising like Goldie did to Prezzo. Infact our very brief relationshp was like Goldie/Prezzo's only I feel this dude really liked me but he had "insecurity" issues. Anyways we broke up after an arguement where he used foul language on me that I reiterated with a worse one (my first time of insulting an adult). The bad part is that he moved on and I ddnt. I did get asked out but I would always measure them to this ex and in my eyes they always fell short. Fast forward 2Yrs later and all of a sudden I hear he is married. D only satisfaction I have is am way cuter than she is lol. And in d weddin pics I saw she looked scared of him. (That's my opinion anyways).
ReplyDeleteAm not asking for advice on how to get over him. I doubt I ever will tho I'm still praying God helps me. I got engaged to a guy (who still fell short of my ex in my eyes) and I called it off this year cos I doubt I want to enter a marriage wen am still in love with a married ex. He is doing fine with himself still as arrogant as I knew him to be. And here I am, still stuck in d past.
Note: I ddnt have sex with him so nor be the sex (as some of you may think) dey make me miss am. ...
Wow!!...even if you had sex with him,is it a crime?...
DeleteU need serious beating....ode omo
DeleteI knw hw u feel. Stop comparin d pipo u meet wit ur arrogant ex. Arrogance alone is a big fault. Just pray to God to help u delete his memory 4m ur database(brain).kip an open mind to pipo u meet and see hw it goes. Cheers
DeleteAA u still dey miss ur ex dat is married? U even broke ur recent engagement cos of ur EX dat is MARRIED? Ahjusdongerrit. Smh Sweerie I've gat no advice for u. Keep missing ur ex dat is married u hear. Don't move on. Yinmu.
DeleteU see ur life,u b real psycho,nor worry u go soon old,u tink say na abt beauty abi?I just pray u less dat 23,mak u de find mr right nor go find mr left make u drag am go mr right de dere,mtchew
DeleteU didn't av sex with him while u guys were dating? Now I know where ur problem lies. U should have had sex with him to calm his nerve and also increase your bond. Nigerian girls obsession with virginity and celibacy. Smh
DeleteThis AA woman is a donkey and a foolish fool. Liar! This is how u go on different blogs lying up and down! How are u finer than his wife??
DeleteShutup anon 5:29. Not everyone choose to be sleeping around. Have a fear of God or better still some dignity.
DeleteNa wa oo @5.30pm. E be like say na u be d AA. U come under anon to curse yourself cos how you know say she nor fine pass d wife you go talk.
DeleteAbi you be winch join your monitoring spirit?
Lwkm
You must be d poster like I said.
Nne take heart
DeleteIts been over 9months after since weve broken up. The only way to get over this man is by venting all my anger on SDK and remaning anonymous.Nobody knows exactly wats happening in my life. Im very good at suppressing things but, I couldn't suppress this one.I have had two serious relationships in my life and im telling you the third one is the worst. I was so difficult to get over him.WEll, I think I feel a lot better today. im off to Paris tonight to clear my mind.Im finally letting go of the most amazing man have had in my life. I have learned my lesson, Not all that glitters is Gold. Ishaq, this is my final rant about you again. I know u made it clear 4months ago that u don't want to know me anymore. I wish you all the best. Thanks for breaking my heart again. #thisniggasaintloyal. hahaha
ReplyDeleteGet a rebound guy or guys. Move on, it's not that hard... get ahead in ur career and always have it at the back of your mind that nothing lasts forever. Date around, yes, dont be a random girl or distribute your coochie, but date guys. Get dating experience. Have fun. Also remember nobody ever died of a broken heart. Good luck.
DeleteI broke up with my ex and he got married like 2 years after.He was an ok dude, not violent but he had some extreme vices I just could not tolerate any longer.
ReplyDeleteAfter trying hard, I gave up and took a walk, he begged and begged , I refused to go back cuz I knew I will never be happy in that marriage.
That is how one of his pathetic friends called me 2 years after to say he was getting married, person wey no dey call me,I felt a bit bad naturally cuz of course I loved him.
After 6 months of marriage, the guy started disturbing my life, he has made a mistake, I caused it, he ended up with some one he dint know well, we need to see, we need to talk .
Then some of our mutual friends told me he had been speaking to lawyers to advise him on how he could dissolve the marriage.
We had a long chat over the phone and I broke it down to him, if you leave your wife for any reason you are on your own, I left you cuz you are far from what I want in marriage so you had better go and work things out. She is your wife not your girlfriend and even if you made a mistake, try and make it work.You want a perfect person but you are far from perfection.He said he wanted me to know that what is happening to him will happen to me if I marry someone else.i will never be happy. I rebuked it fast.
Chai, today God blessed me with a God fearing man, my best friend, you need to see us play ludo, cards and we go bet on top.We have our slight issues which regular couples have,I have never had course to regret my marriage whilst my ex and his wife are separated.
All this epistle is to let you know that your ex is the loser, trust me, you will get a better person, work on yourself, be a better person and be prayerful.I know a couple, the guy had the nerve to bite his mother in law in the chest region, guess what he said after, that he wasn't sorry and that he actually wanted to bite off her nipples.He beats his wife in the presence of her mom and when her mom tries to intervene, he beats her up.No be everyman be husband oh!
Desperation should not make you settle for less,all the best Hun and keep your head up.it is better to be a bit delayed and get it right.
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Am happy for you my sister,DV is not to be condoned in any way. I know how you are feeling,but trust me,your prince charming is on the way!
ReplyDeleteLmao,aunty stella u ar funny.poster rejoice and be glad for you didn't join the devil to dine in hell. EVE E UME
ReplyDeleteMy dear u'v got to tank God o. He saved u 4m wot wuld av a dino/toks/alero situation. Believe me, u made d right decision. Urs will come pretty soon.ask urself isnt it too soon for him to av hooked up wit som1 else? It's either he's bneen cheating or dunno wot to say.
ReplyDeleteLet go and let God.
ReplyDeleteMy dear poster go and tro a big party
ReplyDeleteThe lord has delivered u from untimely death cos men like dis can kill a loyal woman,very useless and stupid hediots.
I feel pity for his wife sha,she go chop blow like hot akpu.
Do not get carried away by 'I go marry u",go to God in prayer,tell him what u want,he will surprise u.
@ poster dont worry,,u own missing rib is on d way coming,,,u must surely laugh d last laugh
ReplyDeleteMy ex girl friend invited her ex boy friend to my house when i have left for work surprisely to them i return back home afternoon and meet them seating together,asking what is happening in my house babe,she respond to me with words,short upp,dont you know him as my ex b4 you?i asked them in my house?she replied and so wat?b4 i can image the whole drama as a dream,menh na hot slap i got from her ooo,menh i keep silents cos i dont know there plans,after de ex have gone,she come back dey beg me to forgive her,menh i forgive her with 2 dirt hot slaps and her clouths outside my house,babe you got to go back to ur ex bf house not in my house oo,,now i am about getting married to my lady sweet heart and her ex bf getting married to another lady,here she is ranting noise nd crying,,ooh babe dont cry but learn how to live with ur mistakes,,nd learn how to tell people de truth for de good advicers
ReplyDeleteJesus if Nazareth, brov uv murdered English. What???
DeleteMy friend meet a lady at a church and got talking then become so close friends,weeks later a guy friend meet both of them at bar drinking,later meet my friend telling him how de lady was very much expensive and can never make a good wife or manage home good,,then my boy choose to test her and stop giving her money and asked her to manage ,menh na so this lady pretend for only 2 weeks and start calling my boy a stingy man after many ways she has tried to decieved my friend of colecting money from him,she did not know that my friend means very good for her nd wishes to marry her then,but she left by her self b4 de 6 months could complete to propose her,,lucky my friend,he meet his angel lady wife now,some ladies dey regret there youthful lucky age just after they clock 37years old plus
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DeleteYour write-up has given me a migraine. Goddamn!
DeleteWtf!! How did you even have access to the internet 🔫🔫🔫
DeleteMy bf of 4yrs called it off saying I'm too perfect for him he just realised he wants some1 who isn't so perfect, I've given him everything and he doesn't measure up. And I'm like wtf!!! I felt so sad I cry at night, powder up to work in the morning until yesterday I broke down to my friend who was shocked at the stories I told her I went through and had been hiding sef.
ReplyDeleteStingy guy I can't begin to list now yet i'll be covering him up since.
My parents&friends think he's a saint sef
I won't lie o I've been calling the battery out of his phone no matter how much I say I won't but what I'm sure of is that I can see how much of an arrogant stingy Bastard he is.
I'll grieve and vent(coz I've really given the rel a lot) but that's it. I won't even go back and this post just gave me more reasons not to.
I just need to stop dialling hiis phone no out of reflex. Chai!!!
You need to see a counselor ASAP!
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My dear I can imagine how you are feeling. My ex finance called off our wedding one week to the weeding and yet he still wants to be my best friend. I love him so much and he loves me too but why he calld it off, I'm still trying to find a reason too and him as well. I'm trying to move on but it's not easy on me. I have even been taken to diff doctors to be counselled bt yet their results is not yielding fruits. The emergency service have become my friends koz I call everyday that I want to speak to someone and they Will just send police or doctor over. I never believed in depression as a true Nigerian girl but right now, I wish I can just die and have some peace. No friend to talk as I don't even have friends I can talk to and they won't laugh at my back. Please I need advise. Thanks
ReplyDeleteLwkmd ur write up na die,chai anyway sha so ur frd ws testing ds gal nt 2 gv r mony 4 6month straight and not 1ce in a while or dnt gv r evritime she ask.una try bcos she's a car u test.go ad improve ur bad englis b4 u wud b testing gals up and down.@andromeda pele oh,no vex take drug.lmao
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ReplyDeleteWhat goes around comes back around (hey my baby)
What goes around comes back around (hey my baby)
I say what goes around comes back around (hey my baby)
What goes around comes back around...
There was a time
I thought, that you did everything right
No lies, no wrong
Boy I must've been out of my mind
So when I think of the time that I almost loved you
You showed your ass and I, I saw the real you
Thank God you blew it
I thank God I dodged the bullet
I'm so over you
So baby good lookin' out
[Chorus:]
I wanted you bad
I'm so through with that
'Cause honestly you turned out to be the (best thing I never had)
You turned out to be the (best thing I never had)
And I'm gonna' always be the (best thing you never had)
Oh yeah, I bet it sucks to be you right now
So sad, you're hurt
Boo hoo, oh, did you expect me to care
You don't deserve my tears
I guess that's why they ain't there
When I think that there was a time that I almost loved you
You showed your ass and baby yes I saw the real you
Thank God you blew it
I thank God I dodged the bullet
I'm so over you
Baby good lookin' out
[Chorus:]
I wanted you bad
I'm so through with that
Cause honestly you turned out to be the (best thing I never had)
I said, you turned out to be the (best thing I never had)
And I'll never be the (best thing you never had)
Oh baby I bet sucks to be you right now
I know you want me back
It's time to face the facts
That I'm the one that's got away
Lord knows that it would take another place, another time, another world, another life
Thank God I found the good in goodbye
[Chorus:]
I used to want you so bad
I'm so through with that
Cause honestly you turned out to be the (best thing I never had)
Oh you turned out to be (the best thing I never had)
And I will always be the (best thing you never had)
Oh, best thing you never had!
I used to want you so bad
I'm so through with that
Cause honestly you turned out to be the (best thing I never had)
Oh you turned out to be the (best thing I never had)
Oh, I will never be the (best thing you never had)
Oh baby, I bet it sucks to be you right now
What goes around, comes back around
What goes around, comes back around
I bet it sucks to be you right now
What goes around, comes back around
I bet it sucks to be you right now
What goes around, comes back around
I bet it sucks to be you right now
My advice: think of all the horrible thins he used to do. All the negative things that made u walk away. Dwell on them, laugh over the stupidity. And pray to God to give you the strength to move on. As for me, my heart is cooked and done. It takes a lot for me to give it out. Maybe that's why I'm still single. But who cares?
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ReplyDeleteMy girlfriend of 2 years, just left, no note, no text, no explanation, I was in pieces, I contacted Dr.Obodo and within a few minutes of talking to he I felt much better, he is so calming, I listened to he advise and he began work for me, it took a few weeks to bring J back, about 2 I think, but it worked and I can't thank he enough.
you can contact Dr at +(234)8155-425481 or (templeofanswer@hotmail.co.uk)
K. Cornwall.