What would you do if you walked into this situation either as a man or woman?
The 6th option is to WALK AWAY WITHOUT SAYING ONE WORD.
Sunday, July 27, 2014
Forgiveness Vs Revenge.
What would you do if you walked into this situation either as a man or woman?
The 6th option is to WALK AWAY WITHOUT SAYING ONE WORD.
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Yes! I'll walk away. If we r married I might forgive u if u shw remorse. But if u dnt regret ur actions I'll leave ur life.
ReplyDeleteSome ppl's comments here are crazy, lol!! @ Amaka, I concur with u!! I will forgive only if u show remorse!! No time to commit murder biko cos men never finish!! One door closes, several others will open!
DeleteI don't know wat I will do but I know what I won't do is to forgive talk more of to forget. I pray it dosent ever happen.
DeleteJust walk away jeje.
DeleteI will forgive and forget...but I can never marry her anymore coz the memory will always be there!
DeleteStrengthen my marital vows
ReplyDeleteChikena!!
If is my husband, the roof of that room will be pulled downthat day! I will make sure they both lick the unquenchable pepper that day,if its boy friend, he must get two hot slaps spiced with konfu kicks plus a quit notice! That will be it! Fertig!
DeletePepper ose oku! Oji aka chiri stars!
Walking away without saying a word is the hardest thing to do o, especially if you have suffered with the guy and he pulls this stunt when the going gets better. It's not a place I wanna find myself because I can do the unthinkable!
ReplyDeleteHappened to me. He came visiting so we could work out on our issues and after we talked and talked he went back and my spirit asked me to follow him. Only to get back and find a babe with him. The bedsheet I bought she was sitting there so comfortably.
DeleteI asked her which one she was because she there were over 5 babes who were texting and calling when he was with me. She seemed so small and naive I felt sorry for her because she would still hang on to the sorry trash. I gave him a slap when he came in and tried to talk stupidly, apparently he expected me to beat the girl.
He begged and begged and begged for almost a year but I couldnt even look at him without remembering the babe on my sheets. I couldnt
This was someone I supported emotionally and finacially while he saved to buy a car, the car which was now used to ferry babes around.
I felt relieved actually because there were so many issues and that was the final push.
I will walk away ..wen I know I can expect d unexpected frm any1.
DeleteI will choose option 7. Join in the fun ;)....thats if we are not married sha ooo
ReplyDeleteNaija una too much, coffee wey i dey drink comot my nose as i see dis
I will take off my cloths immediately and join them...
ReplyDeleteI suspected my ex-fiance. So, I went to his house in the evening after leaving that morning. He wasn't expecting me. I heard moans from the room window. I went and tapped the back door, he got up to go and check. I used my keys to open the front, hurriedly got in, went and jammed the back door, locking him out. I looked at the 'dirty' girl lying in there, and all I could do was pity her. Some Men will always be dogs. No matter how 'tush' a babe is, a man who is a dog will definitely cheat on her with a 'dirty girl'. I was thinking I'd find a girl whose looks and carriage would challenge me but I was disappointed in a good way though. Well, I just hissed, opened the door for him to come in, went to back to the room, seized her clothes. Ordered her to take off the sheets and wash, she was just saying aunty sorry. Mr. Ex, was saying I should let her go. I checked the kitchen and noticed they ate- the food I cooked- I noticed she had already taken off the sheets and was holding it in her hands, all the while Ex was trying to grab her clothes from me. I told him -i'll cause a scene if he comes close. I shouted at her to go wash the dishes, Ex was saying I should let her go. All the while, the little twart was sobbing- telling EX- see what you caused. I went back to the room and I just looked at her and hissed. Then I said to Ex- look at the dirty girl you could sleep with... Started raining curses at him, he said he will beat me if I don't shut up. Then I heard the dirty girl say "if I was dirty why did he come to me"? Well, that's because he's a dog! I grabbed her and gave her one hot slap. Then I hit her head on the dressing mirror in one hot flash. Till today, I hate that I did that. I had no intentions of doing that. What if I killed or injured her seriously? I threw her clothes out. She went and stood in the backyard while Ex helped her get her clothes. After that, Ex tried to work things out. I forgave him or so I thought. He had already come to see my parents. BuT, I could never let him touch my body anymore. All I could see was that girl lying on the bed. End of relationship!
DeleteU get luck say no be ayilara babe u meet @anon 11;38.
DeleteD lady owes u no explanation and she's right ur man went to her .
Una go dey form tush and all thinking thats what keeps a man,yinmu! all na wash.
A million likes darling...A 'DOG' will always b a dog...'no matter ow tush a babe is,a man who is a dog will always cheat on her wit a dirty girl'....u cldnt hv said it better!*msheeeeeeeeeeew*
DeleteHmmm..God saved you o aunty. You would have become a murderer.you went too far sha.Thank God cos you would have been in jail or killed sef.
DeleteYou have low self-esteem my dear. Why humiliate a fellow woman and sparing ur 'dog' ex?you reacted as though d girl knew u were in d picture. You think being tush compensates for lack of self-confidence? Mtcheeew! U even went back to him probably bcos u wanted to get married by all means. I'm very much sure u married and divorced him. Pls work on ur self-esteem to raise ur self-confidence.
DeleteI don't understand why women tend to be their own enemy unnecessarily.
Anony (in Osuofia'svoice), you went too far. Haba!
DeleteU hated dat u hit her head on d mirror,but truth is,no one knos how he or she wld react in dat situation,its never planned 4 and trust me,it so hurtful dat u can do d worst if care is not taken....who nor go,nor kno!
DeleteU na mike tyson wife!
DeleteExactly, you never know what you are capable of doing until it happens to you!
DeleteYou had luck that you didn't jam agbero girl. If to say na waffi girl I'm not sure you should have survived after slapping her or pushing her head against the mirror thou. The girl owes you no apology, you should have slapped the dog out of your man and pushed dirty out of his head against the mirror. Madam don't try this again o. You nor go like yourself if dem use mirror particles take design your body like Louis Vuitton
DeleteY'all throwing blames at her shld shut up already!pray u neva find urself it dis situation datsall...otherwise,u neva kno how much u ll do if it were u...she acted out of her vexed n pained state!
DeleteDem get ex fiance ni? Lmao! Nothin person no go hear in SDK blog.
Deletei have a baseball bat so im def gonna go with no 2. the bat is for the man. i will chase the man with it with intent to do a lil harm to his blokos. the girl aint my business except shes someone i know. if shes someone i know, then shes in for the bat shit crazy chase outta my house along with the man. lol
ReplyDeletep.s. im only gonna fight for my husband. if its my boyfriend that aint getting any action and i walk in on him doing a 'chick'? its all well and good. im def walking away and forgiving him. then its bye bye to his cheating ass. him revealing his philandering self before we get married helps me make decision now to kick him outta my life. that saves me a lifetime of head and heartache.
Take 5 Leona! Not like that anon. 11:38 above.
DeleteLmao @ chase him around wt d baseball bat!
DeleteI will walk away! He dsnt deserve me!
ReplyDeleteMbok, do you people know Hon. Iquo M? Former house of reps member? Hian! I used to do runs with one top politician she used to date abi fuck? I never knew-o! I only knew the day I was almost caught. I went to sleep with the man as usual, and on this particular day, Madam Iquo came around 4:am. I don't know where she came from. There was a horn at the gate, and oga peeped from up, and as Oga as he is he was shaking with fear. The gateman said Oga did not come back. Iquo commanded him to open the gate else she'll deal with him. Someone was slapped. Oga was shaking. I packed my clothes. Oga was telling me to run downstairs to the boys quarters. BTW, oga used to give me 20k- 30K. That day I was begging him to give me 200K. He said he doesn't have. And I saw money in the upper drawer. I was telling him to give me my trans, because the gate was being opened, he gave me 20K as usual. I grapped a wrap of 500 naira notes. That was 500k. And ran out. Madam got upstairs and was ranting. Opening doors and slamming them. Oga was telling her there was no girl in the house. I knew the next thing she will come down to the BQ. Me I ran to the gate. The gateman put off the security light opened the small gate and I ran out. Na god save me that day. I ran into the nearest hotel since it was at an estate, I did not bother to pay for any room since it was almost morning. I entered the restuarant and asked for juice. Few minutes past six, I left. That's how I had money to start my shop at calabar. Malabites runs girls, I greet una! Thankfully madam Iquo did not catch me that night cos I heard she's a tiger.
DeleteEveryone always quick to say walk away!! Walk away to wia?? If its ur boifwnd, fine you can walk away. Buh ur husband, wia will yu walk away to?? You will walk away from ur matrimonial home, to where pls?? Yur fada's house?? Ur friend's?? See itz nt always easy like dat. May God help us nt to see evil.
DeleteMadam for just chop you raw. Thank God you know she's a tiger but you still went ahead to be f*cking her husband, you get mind o. She for kill you that night. Go thank Your God and stop sleeping around Madam Runs Girl
DeleteWrap of 500naira note equivlnt to 500k? Jst asking sha
DeletePls, anon 1:34, the man wasn't her husband nor her fiance. I don't even know if she's married now- and even if she is, it definitely isn't him.
DeleteAnon 1:43, a wrap of ten bundles of 500 naira notes makes 500k. There were two more like that in that drawer. I guess it was for work at one of his sites cos I remember him telling the site manager to ask all those he owed to be at the site next morning.
Sista Jane, I will walk away. U don't know me or d fights or sacrifices I hv made b4 in my life. Bliv me, none is worth it. I still maintain dt I will walk away. I don't own him (boyfrnd/husbnd). Wtvr he chooses to do with his body shouldn't make me run mad. It will hurt dearly. But dear, u must n will survive it!
Deletelie lie anons. your story sweet sha.
DeleteAnonymous 1:43pm don't think u are that daft not to know what she means? But in case sha, the 500 naira notes made up 500k..... Learn to use ur common sense instead of expecting every comment to come with 100% explanTion
DeleteA packet is 100 pieces or notes(50000, since it's 500N). 5 packets is a bundle(250000N). A packet could also be called a wrap. So what u grabbed is 2bundles @Anon. Not a wrap.
DeleteDepends on who d girl in question is but knowing my character,I will just keep on walking away,but as I walk away so,make d guy no just try touch me,run after me or try to beg o cos na dere d kasala go burst..on a lighter note,aunty stella where sunday laffs na? I dn refresh dis blog taya. And pls what email do I use in sending u some laffs n pix? #thecrosseyedibogal
ReplyDeleteForgive n forget ke? Sterra no oo, as for muah.. will strip d girl naked and send her out then handle the man d way I can......
ReplyDeleteOk,supposing d girl na black belt holder nko???
Delete....or mayby preson like me wey get single bone.
Am jes goina walk away.may forgive later bur will definitely tk some time. Weeks/months/years/or even forever!
ReplyDeleteQuickly take a picture of them.... Lol
ReplyDeleteI like ur thinking jare.
DeleteBwahahahaha. ......
Hmmm. Let me relax and wait for comments and stories!
ReplyDeleteUntil you find yourself in this situation,you might not know exactly how to react...oh well,i might walk away,or literally collapse there in tears..dunno joor Stella! LolzZzZ
Collapse for wetin???? no be ordinary fuck dem fuck??abeg!cut d men some slacks biko!how person go fuck only one totoh till he die??That's y d men who wont /cant cheat are killing their wives.check out d way our pastors wives are dropping dead and then check out their replacement.
DeleteLive and let live!!
Why you go collapse? Na that time your mind suppose strong pass, collapse ke say you you don jam the one wey pass u abi na wetin? If you collapse, he will even tripple the act. Nein! No be me!
DeletePepper ose oku!
Hahaahaha,Ezenwanyi,LMAO.no be small collapse for wetin.hian
DeleteDis Ezewanyi or wateva u call urself,u r such a FOOL...all dese nd more will b ur portion IJN...gosh!ow can a woman talk like dis?iyamaaaaa!
Delete@ ezenwanyi..its obvious u don't hv a man dats explains y u can sound dis way..STUPID!
DeleteEzewanyi stop justifying your dog of husband..... Women like u sleep around so it's not problem for u.... For some of us who believe in fidelity in marriage we expect same from the men.. Me I can never fight another woman for a man.... Men r not all that but I will make him pay for cheating one way or the other....
DeleteIbilibi!!! Pepper!! Gw...lmao! una funny true...This Stella question too much for mouth...I just don't know what I will do ooh...collapse no mean die ooh.If I die who go cm take care of my child na,Godford!!?? I tear up easily especially when my hormones are raging,or I can go numb!
DeleteHappy sunday ma people!
Dont get up bend now will ya @ anons???today is sunday and not really in d mood to abuse anyone.
DeleteI always follow d rule of engagement when attacked.U ve been warned!!!!!
*Godforbid*
DeleteAnonys abeg this isn't as serious na...why una dey curse person?
I will walk away and forgive also, why would I use any of those other options and end up in prison for manslaughter/murder as the case may be?
ReplyDeleteTake off my clothes n join d parry
ReplyDeleteNo 2 no shaking.
ReplyDeleteI would rather forgive and never forget....
ReplyDeleteI will use d third option but on d woman's leg.
ReplyDeleteOriegwu! E never reach to play number 3! No vex, how many times madam do catch you? No tell me say you have never been in such position before! For nothing is hidden in the surface of the earth! Either eye see you, darkness or light see you or the four walls of a room see you! No lie! Antwort!
DeletePepper ose oku!
Exactly Stella.
ReplyDeleteI will walk away without saying a word.
If my partner wishes to let me know why he had to get it from someone else, I'll listen and try to understand.
I will forgive eventually, but it would take a while.
And yes, I'll be heartbroken but my partner will never know.
My partner's reason (s) for cheating will determine if I will take a walk or work it out.
I will walk away. Keep quiet and re-strategize. While walking on the street in broad daylight one day, he/they i.e the erring parties shall be kidnapped 4ever.
ReplyDeleteI won't talk, I won't make noise.
Hope say u no be silent operator! All these silent people, fear them! Angst!
DeletePepper ose oku!
Just to walk away because if you choose any of the option from 1 to 5, it will cause another war thereby blaming yourself.
ReplyDeleteI m d babe witout hips ooo. Wat is squats? And how do i do it? Make una help me ooo
ReplyDeleteYou squat by doing frog jump every morning and night. Make sure you do like a hundred everyday.in one week, you would see the difference. Good luck.
DeleteLmao! Squats- Ntukwu!
DeleteMy dear, squats no dey add any Shit. Ve done it 100x a day 4 morethan 3mnths no difference. Na hip n butt padd I use n I'm cool wt dem
DeleteJust to walk away because if you choose any of the option from 1 to 5, it will cause another war thereby blaming yourself.
ReplyDeleteJust to walk away because if you choose any of the option from 1 to 5, it will cause another war thereby blaming yourself.
ReplyDeletei will simply walk away, n dat's d end of d marriage/relationship for me. No big deal. Anuty Testimony.
ReplyDeleteSo wat will u do wen u walk away? Remain single for life or find a man u re sure won't cheat? Its not worth it pls except if he's a serial womanizer.
DeleteAs for me, if I find my husband in such a position wt a woman, I'll simply walk away without uttering a word. I'll enter the chapel nd cry myself to sleep. Then pray for strength. Wen I com back, I won't talk to him, nor cook for him. I'll make his life miserable til am ready to forgive, afterall there should b no peace for d wicked. Then I'll tell him a very expensive gift he wl buy to say sorry. I can't loose on both ends abeg. Though I doubt if this lovely man I'm abt to wed wil ever cheat on me, talk more of in my home. He worships d ground I walk on, loves me lik 80% whil I give him 20% love. So quiet and responsible. Doesnt drink, smoke nor womanize. Its wat I've alwz prayed for. Thank u Lord
story o, story.
DeleteI pity u, keep living in mumu land. Na una type dey commit sucide when kasala burst.
DeleteAbia! Clap 4 urself n dance Azonto join. 3yrs after marriage result akpoo. So for now STFU!
DeleteNdi osu imi kariri na this blog ooo. Sombody dey give testimony of her life and som frustrated old bitches don carry her case for head lik market. I tire for una sdkers ooo. Una fit poison person
DeleteMy dear Lindy Congrats ooo. I've alwz loved ur comments cos u re an honest person, not all des fake ass women we hav here.
Ur Invisible Admirer #winks#
Anon 3:59, I said I doubt if... does not mean I ruled out d possibility.
DeleteAnon 4:14, I'm sorry. U sound so pained. Its obvious u live a bitter life cos ur husband is a chronic cheat. I'm really sorry for u. Unless they ve all used nd dump u, keep in mind dt all men re not d same, and try to kno d Lord Jesus.
All u women dt say I'll walk away re d ones dt had cheating boyfriends nd yet were prayin for him to propose. U wil b d first to tell ur friends to walk away frm their mrgs but u stay put nd keep treatin STIs. Mtchew
Finally, ds blog is filled wt unnecessary competition nd jealousy, and frm strangers at that. Na wa ooo...SMH
Bia Stella, bring Sunday laughs na. I don refresh tire. #JESUS BABY#
ReplyDeleteI pray not to walk into something like this cos temper was my problem before I asked the Lord to erase it from my life and He miraculously did. Praise the Lord somebody.
ReplyDeleteSo,as a human,when I walk into something like this,the devil will like to use that and get u. What I will do is this:
I will remove my shoes(I always wear heels or wedges) and use it as a projectile. I will make sure it hits the man's head or any part of his body. I will run out,lock them inside the room and start telling them I'll burn them inside them.
Infact,I don't know what I will do. Let me think again
Irene u no well.hahaha.LMAO @ Projectile.n locking dem inside n runnin away.
Deleterenne bern l dey ontop your matter, be like say you too like prick. you with the word projectile.
DeleteLol. Shoelace,prick bad?
Delete5th option, probably cos am a woman. Though it may not come immediately but time will definitely heal d wound.
ReplyDeleteI would use option 1-5.. If I don't, then am not human..
ReplyDelete*am out*
I will nevr forgive anyman that cheats on me! NEVER.
ReplyDeleteI warned my bf now hubby befor we married!
After we married he disvirgined me. I learnt all d sex styles to please him, and hez soo happy! I'm so dedicated to our marriage, the laast thing he can ever do is cheat, cuz our sexlife is soo good and very active.
Do u know how heartbreakin it ois to find out ur hubby cheats? After fuckn and tearin ur puna he now goes to misbehave with anoda woman? Omo mehn he don die be dat oh!
I will kill him and leave him, it can onli take d grace of God to make me stay.
Bloody learner!!!!
DeleteBwahahahaha. .....
Nne so u think Men cheat cos deir wives arent dedicated to dem?! Pls think again.
DeleteThe rate at which men cheat ehn! Its alarming! Befor you find someone who wudnt cheat on yu ehn! It mite take forever.
DeleteI pray he doesn't cheat oo you sound like you would kill him immediately. You should have kept your virginity for yourself and pride and not for any man especially when he has slept with the whole world.
DeleteLol.hahahahah
DeleteAnon 10:41.. your marriage must be very new,(2) your man respects you enough to keep it away from you (that's a good thing) (3) Ignorance is simply bliss for you.
DeleteShuoooo..he can never cheat cos of the styles you give him? I pray your shock absorber is strong enough.
Anony 1:04,i have no problem with her saying her Man doesnt cheat.its d reason she gave why he wouldnt cheat is wot i Find laughable.
Deletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Simple, i will go bang her mum, sis, aunt and grand mum if possible, besides we are still one family.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Bang on o jare...
Deletena ur waist go suffer am.
LMAO... You're a FUU
DeleteWalk away. If he can cheat on me, then he is not worth fighting for.
ReplyDeleteThe headache that goes with anger is too much.
Walk away and move on.
Walk to where????
DeleteGod forbid!!!!
For better for worst biko.
Truth is nobody knows how he/she would react except faced with that situation..but I know I won't resolve to killing..I'd probably walk out but never to forget or forgive. ..cos I'll definitely deal with d guy..I don't have an issue with d girl cos she no force am even if na she initiate the thing..but one thing I have learnt from movies is not to jump to conclusions...watch your partners reaction before u walk out..He or she could be drugged at that time..but if they r both active, na there d wahala dey..
ReplyDeleteU go kill another woman pikin bcos he fuck abi???abi na bcos of ur totoh dem circumcise him prick.
DeleteD worst u can do is move out.
Ezenwanyi I gve up on your case!true true dem kno get person for mind wen dem dey circumcise.you are so funny.
DeleteWalk away without saying one word. But things will never be d same again never.
ReplyDeleteAjike kwa as in hairs for toto? No name I no go see here
DeleteFly away!
ReplyDeleteNo be 2day
SDK fam is there for consolation.
I'll go with the sixth option
ReplyDeleteHonestly I wouldn't know what to do
Ewoooooo. .....
DeleteI would walk away from d scene n from d person's life... can stand that he's cheating but can't stand actually catching him in d act
ReplyDeleteNumber 1....
ReplyDeleteEziokwu???
DeleteU no get job? Y u dey reply everybody?
DeleteJob on a sunday?????u must be a labourer in a factory.
DeleteI enjoy listening to silly excuses,i might as well sit and listen before choosing option 6. Every other option ain't worth it. Even option 5. There's a 90% probability that he/she might do it again and I ain't got time to sit around and find out. When I hear people say it's a mistake,did your dick trip and fall into her vagina or did the vagina mistakenly stumble on the dick and settle there? Cheating is a premeditated thought and as a woman I won't just walk away,il be taking half of everything you own.(if not more)
ReplyDeleteSpot on!
DeleteGBAM!!!!!
DeleteWalk away with immediate effect. No time
ReplyDeleteI'll just phone a friend who will help me pack my things so i can walk away.
ReplyDeleteThe 7th option is to revisit option 3.
ReplyDeleteThe sixth option is what i will considered first to avert murder. For my husband that have always been faithful to and always profess his love to me and promised there will never be a side chick,he should just forget about me. I can't continue to be part of him this is worst than death,on our matrimonial bed its all over, even God conderms adultery. Apayan ni iru okurin be, mi o Fe ku.
ReplyDelete6th option
ReplyDeleteI pray It doesnt happen to me
ReplyDeleteAnd one cant really say til It happens to one
Buh if I know me well,ha,i wont Shout down d Heavens.i wont even as much as whisper a Word.reason is dat first,i Will be Soo shocked.and Wen m shocked,i dont cry.i take things into perspective.i wil be very hurt,no doubt.very very hurt.and i wil want to get away.not LEAVE d house.just be away for sometime.Lets face It,i have three kids.and for d sake of dese kids,i wil stay.what has happened has happened.some peep say all Men are dogs buh i beg to differ on dat.i wil be crushed cos i would have tot d General would have proved dem wrong n me right.i wil cry buh he wont see My tears.den i wil do what i know how to do very well...i wil give him d silent treatment.so silent he wil d walking around dizzy.all d while i Will be praying for Strength to carry on n forgiveness.for me to forgive him.Silent mode all d while super-activarse.normally he buys me presents Wen he is wrong.now,i am going to make him pay.as in pay.like i said,i wil take a mini vacation...of course wit ma kids and spend his money like dere is no tomoro.and dere had better be dat brand new Range i have always wanted waiting for me Wen i come back.den,after some days,i wil sit him down n have A TALK.buh all in all,i am gonna forgive.for ma sanity and for My Peace of mind n for d peace n happiness of ma kids n My home.and Yea,cos i am stil crazily in love wit My husband.he doesnt get It right sometimes.nobody does.n now he clearly messed up.buh i wil forgive.i'n gonna forgive cos i stil Love dis Man.
All this generals dt can cheat for african
DeleteHahahaha,Anony 1:47 u just cracked me up.#barrackthings#
DeleteJust reading this shows how love can make us forgive...choi. I keep thinking of what I will do exactly! I don't want to find out! Gosh!!!
DeleteCan't this life just be simple? Lol
Who tell u say na any Gen she dey marry abi u no see d day person gist us say na carpenter she dey marry dey form Gen 4 SDK blog? All na wash wash. My dear u can chose to answer Bill Gates wife for here. are u a learner? Don't mind dem HWs wey full here.
DeleteWalk away to go and calm down, before I do something irrational.
ReplyDeleteIts not easy,it won't be easy to forgive talkless of forget.to me I didn't c any option there.I won't kill nor stab nor commit murder.I will simply walk away and never to see ma husband again but if he is deeply remorseful,I may forgive but not forget.
ReplyDeleteOK, let me imagine what I will do if I walk in on this.
ReplyDelete*closes eyes*
Firstly, I will be too shocked to utter a word.
I can imagine my face,
my mouth open and my eyes popping out of it's sockets. If I'm holding anything I will drop it while shouting "blood of Jesus".
Then after some seconds, I will look my hubby straight in the eyes and quietly walk away with hot tears running down my cheeks. I will then grab my phone and call my mummy.
I can imagine mummy calming me down, I can even imagine dad at the background asking what's wrong. I can also image him collecting the phone from mum to hear what I'm saying.
I can imagine him telling me to get out of that house immediately. I can imagine them calling my brother to go and fetch me asap.
I can also imagine hubby too stunned and ashamed to face me. I can imagine the other woman running away half dressed!
I can imagine my daddy calling hubby and summoning him to our house.
I can imagine hubby in tears. I can imagine one of my SIL in tears begging me to forgive. I can imagine my MIL's face when she hears. I can imagine how stunned my 5 brothers in law will be. I can imagine their faces when they hear.
I can imagine the 2nd son preaching forgiveness, I can imagine him talking sense into hubby.
I can imagine mummy giving me lots of inspirational books and bible verses to read. I can imagine myself crying some more. I can imagine my siblings feeling sorry for me. I can imagine them trying to be extra nice.
I can imagine mummy inviting any of her rev Fr friends to come talk to me.
I can imagine, I can imagine, I can imagine.
You are still reading?
LOL
SMH
Smtcheeeeeeeewwwww!!! Akuko nyanga eze..lol......................OKIJA WIFE
DeleteSmh..keep imagining. To think I even read half of what you wrote.
Deleteawww.....
Deletewhat a touching story,
Sniffs*
Wipes eyes*
Blows nose*
.....crys more....
pls dont stop**
You are just too perfect for my liking, as in, too good to be true.
DeleteI know most people here live out their fantasies on this blog and most times, I just can't help but put you in that category.
My mummy, my daddy, mil, brothers in law bla bla bla. Na only you? ???
I swear u r crazy!!! ....nice
DeleteHahaha!
DeleteSee painment and beef on top my comment oh.
Na wah for all the bitter people here.
Una too dey take things unnecessarily serious.
Haba!
Me perfect ke? I claim it oh.
It won't be a bad idea if I'm crowned the most perfect person in the world.
Abeg lick some sugar to sweeten your bitter life. I'm not the "causer" if your frustrations.
Fantasy ko reality ni.
RME.
@Ezenwanyi, Nnem I hope it's not Peter's pant you are using to blow your nose oh? LOL.
Bwahahahaha. ......lmao. @peter's pant.
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DeletePeter's pant ke? Nwanne m ochi atogbuola mu oo.
Habana sister!
DeleteTrue I usually pick the phone to call my mom too when am distressed ...she used to be my confidant..Yes I know,no 3rd party so I have reduced it...but she's a woman filled with wisdom,will never advice me wrongly. so I can relate with Genny baby,and yes some inlaws are fantastic like that!
Btw,shout out to my moMma,today is her bday...That woman held it down for I and my siblings when all hope was lost! Used her last kobo to make sure we ate,had a decent xmas(my fav season).
Made sure we danced to Shina peters with our mates on our bdays(big gbedu ooh).. I thank God for giving her a turnaround in this life,she now gives others! Hallelujah!. Yes she's not on this blog but it makes me happy to shout it out! lolz
I will go with number 3 ::Linda Ikeji
ReplyDeletei'll snap them pinshure nd walk away,so they wount denial it...Happy sunday peeps
ReplyDeletei'll snap them pinshure nd walk away,so they wount denial it...Happy sunday peeps
ReplyDeleteWalk away without saying a word
ReplyDeletei'll snap them pinshure nd walk away,so they wount denial it...Happy sunday peeps
ReplyDeleteWc one be pinshure again? Una no dey go church for this blog?
DeleteHa, God help both of them.
ReplyDeleteOluyomi Odukoya
Yinmu**
DeleteAnd the 7 th option
ReplyDeleteI'm just gonna carry my pistol and make em finish. Then, I'll walk away for ever. If I were married. That one matter no go fit enter this space. It will be a lonnnnnnng story.
ReplyDelete* Clicks tongue* (Kum) Dr Who its people like u that wil break down right there n cryyy.and the two wil just b consoling u.kikiki.pistol indeed.
DeleteNo 1-5 is so tempting to do, but no 6 'll take a lot of courage. It's not matter of maturity nor decency, God punish the devil. That no 6 'll be hard for me o! Seeing them with my two naked eyes, in my home. No!
ReplyDeleteChai chai!!!! KOSORO!.....................OKIJA WIFE
ReplyDeleteI will take option 6, I will never forget nor forgive. End of marriage.
ReplyDeleteI met dis guy when he does not have a kobo on him,not a single room to himself,nd does nt have even d minimum of 1k in his account....Mi met him as I was abt writing my last paper * final year in d uni,since he does nt have,I don't boda him 4 anytin at all, rada I will be d one sending him money tru his friends acct,name Francis Okoh,aka Preacher man! Thou he is a grad bt no job.I was doing all dis out of love nd hoping dat wen everytin will be fine wit him,he will appreciate me....despite my rich toasters,I rejected dem cos of him........
ReplyDeleteAwwww...lover girl..you are still a learner...
DeleteI have two options
ReplyDeleteOption 1 join them if the chic is very hot and sexy
Option 2 use my AK 47 and blast my bf 's dick if the girl is very ugly and dirty.
These two option will depend on my mood sha.
Small small,Ceecee is coming out of her shell...hmmmmm...Oriegwu!!..
DeleteHmmm..You will never really know how you will react until you find yourself in that situation. Now if i know myself well this is what i will do if he is my husband. I will walk away and by the time i come back i will ask why he did that, now if he is truly sorry and ask's for forgiveness, i mean serious begging i will forgive him then tell him to go for test, if the test is negative then no wahala. The next thing will be to start pinching his brain till he dies I won't tell any body. Finally the day me too i find correct bobo i go hammer :) No be only him dey smoke dry shit. If any man think's he can embarrass me like that then he should be ready for war . One thing i will NEVER do is leave my home for another woman, NEVER! With God's help i built my home and nobody is coming to enjoy my sweat . If a man can bring a whore to my home, cheat with family and friends then i will give him double trouble. Yes cheating is wrong but don't push me.
ReplyDeletePls Moi,tell us u are joking.pinch his brain till he dies ke?! *eyes and mouth Wide Open* Abeg o.dont be talking shit like dat.oga o.nekwanu anya bikonu.
DeleteI can't forgive a cheating partner period!!!
ReplyDeleteD followng year,he did INEC work nd collected abt 100k,I didn't still boda him even as he did nt buy me common pants,nd I dudnt take a dine 4rm him! Into d relationship, am d only doing evrytin ou of love.my sis complained nd give me so many reasons to leave him bt hell no! I was rada obstinate! After a year, I got preg..he pleaded wit me to bear wit him cos I started squatin with a friend cos he still has no accomodation...feeding,clothing I took upon myself. 4months into d preg,h took me to one face me I slap u,,we oved in there,he didn't even finish payin nd I later balance up from d little I was left wit den.........
ReplyDeleteAre you anon 12:04?please am waiting for the concluding part...
DeleteConcluding part???chei!
DeleteWalk away without saying a word. That kills faster than the above mentioned.
ReplyDelete#Hot Ice.
This is a very simple matter.
ReplyDeleteMy hubby feeds me,pays our children's outrageous and bogus school fees,changes my cars and buys any latest car me,takes care of my extended family,has taken me to almost all d countries in this world,buys properties in my name,made me sit on boards of companies knowing I dont know wat up there but still grooming me for tomorrow cos he knows he will die b4 me,gives me freedom etc etc.......so,if fucking a tortoise oo...frog ooo is what will make him happy,who am I stand in his way.
Hahahaha..you are one cray woman!
DeleteEzenwanyi u're the realest person on this blog,let the rest of 'em keep deluding themselves,keep living ur fantasy on stella's blog.most of u av caught ur hubby's uncountable times with babes yet u come on here 2 act ur fantasies.zuzuo puo...taa!
DeleteBuahahahaha! Ezenwanyi ukwu nuu! Ukwu gold! You don para finish o! Echt! Lmao!@frog and tortoise.
DeletePepper ose oku!
My dear,i Second dis jare.its only a learner that wil kill herself cos she caught her Man cheating.Moi said kill her hubby sef.wetin i wont hear bikonu.My mindset is dis:all Men cheat buh not all Men.Lol @ My own side saying.he Takes good care of me and d kids....ha...biko i wont kill maself or kill him...God forbid...
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DeleteHahahahahahaha...Okala madu Okala muo...ima ife ana aru biko..
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I couldn't agree more ezenwanyi, leave a life of comfort and love, for what? For who? I laugh in swahili. After cheating you will beg me and spoil me and we will move on. After the waka o don waka before I settle with this one. Lol we in this together baby.
DeleteEzewanyi,shebi dat 1 dey shower u wit every?talk of a man wey nor do jack,u dey follo am patch..msheeeeeeew
DeleteWow! Ur husband az trully done somtin dat no man az eva done, e deserves to fuck anytin e wants, eze av u considered d ultimate gift, 'Ur sister'. If u avnt, u r very ungrateful.
DeleteBwahahahaha. ....
DeletePink Shell,ur head dey touch! Her sister indeed.Hahahaha...u get bad mouth.buh wait o!dat one no be ultimate na.for me sha,e no go pain me well well(dats assuming It happens,God forbid)na My maid own go pain me Wella.Chisos!so dat to me,na d ultimate gift.Hahahahaahha! We cray for dis blog.Abeg nothing go happen.our hubbies go love us (ISE!!!) we go Love dem(ISE!!!) And na only dem we go dey f*** and na only us dem go dey f***(ISE!!!!!!)
Deleteanon 12:03 gist us more nah.
ReplyDeletedidnt he call u to return the money?lol
Amebo Stella. He called me oh! I just hissed. He's someone I know wella. Apart from doing runs with him, I used to give him babes. ...So I just told him I had started a small shop with the money afterall he had much and that wouldn't hurt, I even told him to come to find a weekend and come to calabar that I had 2 babes to give him. One is an halfcast. He came...as usual.
DeleteStella if I start to give u gist ehn... About runs babes from calabar and Uyo axis... I don't think I have the patience to type. Like I said, I used to do runs, very coded. No jazz, and no thief thief like most of them. I had no close friend. I had acquaintances cos I had connections. After I started that shop in calabar (I was 18 then) I moved to another level.
Stellastica Stellacious,your head dey there...
DeleteChoi! Stellalistica likes gossip eehn! Abeg beg Ur BVS to advice me on d PP change of name thingy I ve bin hammering on bikonu!
DeleteHmmmmm, runs in uyo. No wonder Akwa Ibom state has the second highest burden of HIV/AIDS in d country. ( statistics from NACA-National Aids Control Agency)
DeleteHumm, madam d way u think baffles me. So u can't stand in d way of a cheating spouse because of money, car and other things he showers on u. Smh, Na d type of Una hypertension dey kill slowly cos emotionally u can neva be Urself no matter what u r bin showered wt. I pray it doesn't happen to you. Av bin where u are, dats y am talking: those things can Neva replace ur joy in marriage especially with a cheating spouse. May God give u d wisdom to apply wen dat tym comes
ReplyDeleteEmotions can get u killed!!
DeleteWisdom when what comes???if it happens nko??
Coming from my background and not wanting to go back there,those are d things needed to make my life comfortable.
U guys should loosen up biko!forget all those jargons that money is not everything,d rich only say it so that poor people wont revolt.
Ur husband no get second wife,he feeds and cloth U,does not bully nor assault U;allow him to fuck small biko!
Hmmm.........
DeleteWhat if he brings home an STD........., do you truly love this man?
DeleteThis Ezenwanyi! You are something else.............. Don't i just love u???
DeleteUKWU SUGAR!
Hmmmn,I can't say anything oh,don't wanna even imagine it. EVE E UME
ReplyDeleteI can see ur heart,and my prayer is that u never catch him.
DeleteNwa ndu May God bless you for that statement ''you should have kept your virginity for yourself and your pride and not for any man'' Gbam!!! Gbamer!!! Gbamest!!! As for me if a boyfriend supposedly strays and is caught by me,I don't think I would care very much,seriously.As long as we re not bound by law or by God or tradition,do wetin you want as I'm going to also be doing what I want.As for the husband aspect,it will not happen to me because marriage is not on my ''to do in life''list,so over the the married and future ''marriers''.
ReplyDeleteGeneral's wife this one way you talk so,I'm getting the vibe that General don dey chop puna outside and you dey suspect and you don already plan wetin you go do when you finally catch am.My dear virgin bride if you like learn how to do karate and teckwando for bed,if your husband na the looky looky type,trust me he go still go and do the ones wey dey do like dead body for bed,just pray that God should keep him faithful.
@ Lady Buchi u are cray! I wanted to say d same thing o.make she keep her vriginity for herself.buh Lets not criticize her Soo much.she never marry.i understand dat n dats why i didnt say wot i tot initially.truth be told,i was once like her,till i begin hear gists.til My big aunties begin yarn me about d ways of some Men.note d usage of "some"Nne My own now is :all Men cheat buh not all Men.u get d drift.i pray i never witness dis...cant even imagine It buh hey! If It happens i wil console maself,if Jay Z could cheat on Bey,if Tiger could cheat on his wife n so on.and den i wil try n remember d very good sides of d General.dat Man is over generous...he is calm,he is prayerful,he gives me too much freedom,truth b told he is a near perfect hubby.wil be hard buh i wil remember dese things cos m trying to forgive him.den i wil bleed him eh....kai...dat Range i dey eye since,he wil run and buy It.Hahahahaha.all d things i want ,e go do am o.i no Fit comot.i no Fit kill ma loving husband....God forbid.n me i no go die for matter Wey no get head.for what na?
DeleteHahahahahahaha…Generals wife , to pinch brain is one kain stress that only women can give a man. I for like teach you. lol. but on a serious note thank God that has NEVER happened to me and NEVER will. If you must cheat go far away! ( don't worry he won't die lol )
ReplyDeleteMOI Abeg teach me.buh wait o!no b silent treatment n den losing ur fone anyhow n den cooking d dishes he doesnt like.n den skipping Church(chai dat one dey touch The General's brain)ha!Abeg i dey come for lesson jare.lolz
DeleteChai,Ezenwanyi is so dope.When i growup i wanna be like you o.
ReplyDeleteChai,Ezenwanyi is so dope.When i growup i wanna be like you o.
ReplyDeleteFake hoes keep saying i can't stand a cheating hubby/boyfriend. If my hubby cheats on moi when i get married, will i forgive him?yes. Solong he treats me like Ezenwanyi's hubby.
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ReplyDeleteHahahahah..Anon. 12:03, your story is soooo funny. lol. I laugh tire. lol. Ladies please don't fight fellow ladies instead fight the DOG!
Ezenwanyi in my head if you find yourself in that situation the girl is dead. lol
ReplyDelete@ezewanyi liar from katangowa market like you abeg go sit on top shotgun abeg !!! Who dash you . Monkey ologbo !!!! .
ReplyDeleteNo big deal, it happened to me once and when the lady involved saw the kind of slap I dealt my ex, she picked race. I made sure I left him wt marks, there's noone as dangerous as a woman scorned! Well, I cldnt bring myself to go bk to the relationship
ReplyDeleteHa Linda Eze you said you will join???…Mbanu, in my head i don't see you doing that.
ReplyDeleteNne,something tells me Linda wil join o.LMAO! Buh come to think of It,d girl n d guy wil b Soo confused eh!
DeleteI will simply walk away and start having affairs on the site too. Abeg I can't shout. Two can play the game plus I have a lot of correct toasters that I have been ignoring all in the name of being faithful to my vows. If you can break yours so can I. Won't leave the marriage though, we'll be living like married strangers until something gives. If he changes, so will I. If not, then my side business remains. Shikena! #dont judge a cheating woman until you hear her story.
ReplyDeleteIf you know me then you should know I do not forget,
ReplyDeleteGod knows I try to, especially the bad but I just won't forget,
In the book of proverbs, it is stated, four things that God hates...
In my book, One thing I hate... CHEATING(in any form or size). I'll rather you walk away, quit the relationship or marriage than cheat!
If I walk in on you cheating on me, I'll forgive(that's very easy), I WON'T FORGET and me not forgetting means one day, I'll av no other choice than to walk away and when I do, I would have packed every valuable thing you own.
P.S : this isn't revenge. This is me being @ peace!
It happened to me, we lodged in a hotel cos my bf came in from outside naija,for close to 45mins I didn't see him, then I decided to go check in his friends room who was with us that night,lo and behold,my boyfriend was making out with a sales girl DAT served us at d restaurant d previous night.She even had bundle of money dat my bobo gave her.I cried and cried,then ran out of d room and ran downstairs, my bobo followed me immediately and was on his knees,he cried so bitterly and pleaded with me.He later took me back to our room,he was so remorse and I forgave him.U know what?, we made luv DAT night not minding what happened. I luv my man with all my heart,though he has cheated on me several times,I still luv him very much,no matter how hard I try to let go,I still can't help it.All I know is DAT one day,he go tire,he must and he will.Breaking up with him cos he cheated wasn't an option cos dat new guy am leaving him for is not better off or a saint.Dogs dey are. I luv my man with all my heart and I know God will arrest him one day.
ReplyDeleteWalking away in marriage? I doubt
ReplyDeleteIn a relationship, hell yes
My Ex boyfriend cheated oh nah so I catch them for bedroom, one early momo, i used my key.i felt so pained.Dude said he went to club, the babe was stranded and he as a Good Samaritan had to bring her home.A 3 bedroom flat and she had to sleep in your room, odiegwu.
He jumped up immediately he saw me and told the girl to go, I dint scream, dint fight, dint say a word to the girl cuz I no get issues with her.
He felt uncomfortable cuz I was quiet but within me, I was trying to control myself, I felt like setting the house ablaze.
I got home, reviewed the relationship, beyond cheating he had other issues so I took a walk, not worth it.
Having the fear of God is important in marriage even when you stray you want to retrace your steps.Who wants to marry a man who sleeps outside always, smokes and drinks heavily,clubs, womanises, has useless friends etc.it is better to be single.My husband ain't perfect but I thank God for him, I have peace of mind.