Africans on the way to Europe via the Mediterranean sea...shocking right?
who will blame them?The places they are running away from is probably worse than
the risks they have to take.
So many Africans have died in the quest to enter Europe through
the back door...Journeys that make
meaning for some who eventually make and others not.
''Aduro'' comes into play for some and we have lots of Africans go
through this process to remain in Europe.
Know anyone who crossed over like this and eventually ate ''Aduro''?
If I had the opportunity to be in that boat with that crowd, I will not hesitate
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I totally disagree with u Stella for say that Africa is worst than d risk in what they r doing... Life is a choice.. Yes Africa is still developing, there was a time Europe is like Africa and their pple never ran away rather they joins hand together and fight for their problem...if everybody runs away from Africa then who will solve our problem..
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Haaaa Alloy, is it that bad 4 u? No wonder u re a blog whore. I thought u had a functioning chemist? God abeg o. I can assure u that out of those people on that boat, only about 4 will/made it to Europe. What they are doing is not 4 d faint hearted. Europe by road??? Mba........
DeleteWhere do I even start from @Madubuko? There was a time Europe 'was' like Africa; rather they joined hands together and fought for their... .
DeleteSir Madubuko...Trust me brov when I say that u should also be on that sea trying to cross over...because this ur English na apology. na dieeee..lol. *hugs*
DeleteHaba oga madubuko. Na by force to talk? Maybe u can also head to Europe to find a teacher.
DeleteGod forbid bad thing...what is this nau?....
ReplyDeleteI know someone that crossed over to SA through Kenya as far back as 1995...Dude is doing very well for himself...infact,he is one of the rich people in my village....
But I personally will not take this kind of risk...for what nau?I will keep saying that naija is not that bad if you know ife ana alu...
And linda u 4got 2 mention dat d so called rich man is ur elder brother who stole money left under ur mums care nd run to SA through kenya nd later travel 2 America where he made a lot of moni.rumour has it dat he made his moni tru drugs.he is very rich sha.doin very well like u said he has a company in lag nd a hotel in the east.he married an (akata)black american dat u displayed her pix with u last wk.he is a very wicked man dat will neva help someone except tru you.that's y u always feel like a god.I will neva lick ur ass neva.lemme stp here b4 u decode me
DeleteHahahahaha...I know who you are already....one of those relatives we stoped helping...I always know that my enemies are within...my God will continue to expose you people one after the other...see how you foolishly exposed your self bwhahahaahah......where were you when we lost our daddy?where were you when we wanted to die of hunger?you want to reap where you did not sow?...my brother that you are talking about,are you not 5years older than him?..don't go and look for something meaningful to do with your life...continue waiting for my brother's money... thief!you want my brother to give you his hard earned money so you will use it and do jazz for him to block his source of income...its not gonna work,he is smarter than you people....next time,write about me and leave my brother alone...
DeleteShegejawa! Lol.......The fear of spilling things about you and family on SDKB is sure the beginning of wisdom. Monitoring spirits everywhere,God ll surely save us all
DeleteYou too anon, you get double tongue die. How come you are asking for Linda's brother to assist you financially and you come here to blackmail him and spill all his dirty secrets. This is a family battle so I have little to say. But sofree sofree o.
DeleteLmao Linda, u re highly mouthed.
DeleteShegejawa! Lol.......The fear of spilling things about you and family on SDKB is sure the beginning of wisdom. Monitoring spirits everywhere,God ll surely save us all
DeleteLmfao..linda nyash don open o!! Linda is good to be good sha. Although its ur brothers money and he helps whoever he wishes to help. Pained Relative anon Kpele o. Work harder besides u r older
DeleteLol..... Linda and stupid lies..... Ur brother Wey do drugs.... Thank ur stupid arse he is not in jail..... Half baked illiterate bitch
DeleteHehehe. 'I know someone...' And the someone happens to be the brother. Interesting bit.
Deletefunny that Linda did not defend her brothers source of money. So he's a thief nd a drug dealer? Dirty money neva lasts.
DeleteAt this point,I am totally speechless!
DeleteHian!
DeleteWhat a family, daughters with infidelity and lesbianism, sons with stealing and ritualist. Fetish woman linda eze how market?
DeleteThis blog sha, serious matter!
DeleteThe real ceecee,welcome back. Impostor even if you jumped on the Google I'd first.you still can't be like the real ceecee
DeleteBy their fruits we shall know them. What a dysfunctional family,maybe we have to blame poverty and survival instincts,but still not legit.
DeleteFool Ceecee,is obvious that you are obsessed with me...you eat and sleep with my name on your lips...
DeleteAm not the cause of your suffering and frustrated life in the Uk...ashewo England with a blocked womb...my fetish is paying very well and I am living the good life...
I fear una
DeleteInshut I raise nynsh for una
All dis anony
Hmmm
I fear una
DeleteInshut I raise nynsh for una
All dis anony
Hmmm
And your brother have to be sleeping with corpses? Your mother have to be sleeping with your horseband? You have to be sleeping with your sons at a certain age? All these to renew your blood money? Now tell me where one can envy you? You are a waste of sperm linda eze. Now i believe what someone said about your husband meeting you in a brothel where you left your pictures for rich customers who bides higher. Since your womb is open, why don't you bring forth girls to life? Or maybe you are scared to avoid producing another saddle to the society added to what you are already.
DeleteWow!!..Ceecee,is that what your brothers and sisters and your mother is doing??...unbeliveable!!...your family is Cursed...*SpitsOnYouPeople...
DeleteNo wonder why 5 men raped your ass and you shamelessly left naija with your leaking smelling ass....
My father died long ago before my brother travelled....
Ohhh where I come from,we don't cherish female child that's why I brought out 3 wonderful boys...hehehehe...come and born nau let's see...expired ashawo uk with a leaking ass...
Children are from God. Male or female.
DeleteLol...it's not that bad here in naija now...and pls what is Aduro?#sipsMoetnChandon#
ReplyDeleteSeeking assylum is aduro
DeleteTwo IB boys repping,Bitchplis and Moydot,what a combo!
Delete@moydot,a club is about to hit ur neighbourhood soon(ring road)...I'l give u a bottle of moet(on d house) @ d grand openin...all SDKers in ibadan abeg come dey groove with us o...am so excited about leavin dis stressful lagos...watch out!
Delete@bitchplis.all d club in ring road re not dat tush..ebevande used to be my favorite but I stopped wen all d dirty chicks at bubble turns it to......well u can buzz me on moydot@gmail.com#sipsMoetnChandon#
DeleteRecently lost an Uncle and his pregnant wife in that sea, how pathetic!
ReplyDeleteReally do nigerian still go to Europe by road???? God help us oh!! XxxbarbieXxx
DeleteBLOG ANALYSER: odiegwu! Life aint easy in Nigeria bt we shall make billions in this country, no need to run. Pls visit and patronise us via www.facebook.com/asandreaco for your great outfits. We are Africa! We are Nigeria!
ReplyDeletenow going to benin to ask them,they are the ones that like travelling this way.this is what we call 'izozo'
ReplyDeleteWhat d heck is 'aduro' nah? Smh kai! Baba God help ur 'Shildren' o
ReplyDeleteWhat is "Aduro"?
ReplyDeleteTo claim asylum or refuge
DeleteThat's how broda john wanted do cross frm morocco to holland.but he couldn't make it..should I cry or weep for broda john?
ReplyDeleteANGELRAY SAYS
ReplyDeleteNa wao, to go abroad na by force, wat kind of risk is this.
Pls Wats d meaning of 'aduro'?
ReplyDeleteCheck up, one anon has written d meaning of Aduro.
DeleteIhekire Tony
ReplyDeletePsalms 188:8, "It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in humans".
You hv come again ba?
DeleteWhat is the correlation b/w your write-up and this post? I dnt get it.
It seems you love to be rammed by Sdkers.
Na wa oh! God abeg what is this? if anything happens on that boat see the number of lives that will be lost (God forbid)! God please come and save us in nigeria cos i don't know what else to say! #One Love#
ReplyDeleteMadam, u r bck, ur hubby has finally allowed u to use modern facilities, welcome bck
DeleteKoolblend what happened to you n your blog, it can no longer open. Hope all is well with you.
Delete@Kool blend, na only Nigerians de inside that canoe/ boat abi na wetin I go call am sef??? There are people from other African countries there. So go sleep, Naija go better, but no be Naija bad pass.
DeleteHey dear..where u been? I lost my phone and can't recall that my email I used to email u..creamy
DeleteYes i've finally started using mordern facilities, no be God! lol! @Queen Amy if you want to reach me use my email, then you'll have access; @creamy i'll try to send you a mail asap. Thanks #One Love#
DeleteHaaay! I hope they all make it :(
ReplyDeletelmao... na real "ate" aduro. na food?
ReplyDeleteHaha a euro matter , na only strong lie win am now oh, them done no our lies. But it takes the grace of GOD to win, Aduro non they work for uk again oh. Except in Canada
ReplyDeleteHaha aduro matter , na only strong lie win am now oh, cause white done no our lies. But it takes the grace of GOD to win, Aduro non they work for uk again oh. Except in Canada
ReplyDeleteAnty stella, na wa 4 ur German nigerian slang ooo.
ReplyDeleteThose looking 4 green pastures they should go ahead. Many have lost their lives in this process and still counting.
"Aduro"( ayoruba word for stay) is widely used in Europe relating to those claiming asylum especially in those tough 80s and Abacha days. You'll see people chew and swallow their passports right in the plane and declare themselves stateless. This Aduro word reminds me of getting to Yankee and hearing words like "ewe"(green card or American P), "Sola Sola"(social security number) etc. Those words always have me in stitches.
DeleteThis is an unfortunate situation. Blame it on poverty, unemployment, lack of education and a corrupt government. I dont know anybody who went through this process and got in. I only know of pple who died in the process. May God help our ignorance.
ReplyDeleteThis is so wrong. I know someone that sold his shop & goods far back 2001 & travelled this way, till date we haven't heard from him.. This guy was doing so well b4 he left o. I wonder sometimes what went off..
ReplyDeleteHmm...
ReplyDeleteThis is insane. Not that i blame them though, they are probaby desperate or ill- informed. Such a shame, lots of them end up as shark food.
ReplyDeleteClick my name for all your celebration cakes nd cupcakes, cheers
Na wa o.
ReplyDeleteDangerous journey
ReplyDeleteIt's a pity people go through all that to get into Europe, and on getting to Italy (for those who survive it) find our there is nothing special,you have to work hard to make money,as money don't grow on trees. I believe you can make it anywhere if you are focused and determined.
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Yea...I have met some Africans n Asians who claim to have come this way and its really a horrible experience.
ReplyDeleteEven though some are now over it and are successful red ppt holders especially the Asians. Others look very much unhealthy and mentally unstable after so many years here.
Not a fair world indeed
But for many of these people, the places they are RUNNING AWAY FROM away from are FAR BETTER than the PLACES THEY ARE RUNNING TO. Imagine people running way from Nigeria to Greece or Italy where their own citizens are even suffering, with no jobs, no good pay...etc. It is because of this unawareness that makes many Africans run to Europe and North America where they get stranded with no JOBS, no accommodation and no good money to take care of their BILLS. What happens next??? They end up doing drugs and cutting corners to make quick money. Many of those who cut corners to make quick money are the ones who come back home to Nigeria (and by extension Africa) and claim to be making working hard and making money in Europe and North America. Those back home will be deceived by these people and end up desiring to run to Europe and America. Imagine a Nigerian who sees it belittling to be a Barber in Nigeria but proudly accepts to be a Barber in Spain? Imagine a Nigerian who will not accept the job of a bartender but will hurriedly accept one in the UK. But the truth is, it is also difficult for a bartender, barber and their likes to pay their bills in the UK or other European countries just like it is for those in Nigeria. Besides, many Barbers in Nigeria even make better money for their upkeep than the ones in Europe.
ReplyDeleteYour head correct
DeleteI wrote a film Europe by Road in Nigeria and i potrayed all what you saw above. Its real and people are still embarking on it. Some made it big and some died on their way.
DeleteAduro is seeking asylum in a foreign country.
On the other hand i want to comment here that its not easy in Nigeria does not mean that nothing good comes out of Nigeria. Some people in Nigeria that are doing well may vow not leave but some who have tried and tried and nothing is qorking out will always prefer to leave, sometimes am not blaming them. Now tell me but God forbid if what is ihappening in the t is happening in the South what will happen,? Again Topdawg your analysis as regards barber,bartender, hairtylist for me its hundred percent wrong and not through. In the US here so many barbers and hairstylist are makingbit big. Sowing of clorh, ibhave seen alot of them established themselves. Our leaders have gotten rid of our dear country, America is like Nigeria if know your way too. More oppoturnitiea though you cant compare the two. Road, Good Education, Healthcare etc. Dont even go there do you how much a barber or hairstylist are paid in America? Well whereever you find yourself stive hard to survive. Ich leben alle. Danke
Liar liar pant on fire!!!! Barbers/ bartenders in UK can successfully have a comfortable life..mortgage, car etc Europe gives u chances/opportunities ...Africa hardly does!
DeleteLiar u can be a barber in Europe and still rent a house and have the basics.... Can u do that in naija? Y people prefer to suffer abroad is the little u get can give u the basics... In naija can an average security man take his kids to good schools, eat fairly well, buy good clothes? In London u can..... For some of us who are lucky and educated u can cope in naija but for some who have no such opportunities abroad can help give u leverage at least.... A cab driver abroad can have some basics a cab driver in naija won't have, dats the motivation for some people not because they think money grows on trees abroad....
DeleteHmmm. The barbers are here.
DeleteTrue that@ the barbers are here.
DeleteI will never understand why any one will put himself through this just to go to Europe.
ReplyDelete#Namaste#
ReplyDeleteMake dis pple fear God ooooooo!What if a neatly dressed mad man goes on the journey wit them n when dey get to d middle of d sea,start showcasing wat he knows how to do best,,,,,,,wetin go shele?
LMAO
DeleteNa wa for ur reasoning oo, what took your mind there? Hehehehehe
DeleteThe mental picture is too funny abeg. Hahahahaha
Hahahaaa@Lollybee
DeleteYou're so funny
Damn!
My dear stella crossed over to UK for d holidays, that was 10 days of hell for me, i really don't know how u guys survive in EU. its so boring, and everything is so expensive. i don't know how Africans survive there. Stayed in crystal palace, it was a big culture shock for me sha. Never want to go to UK again, maybe other EU countries are different. i rather stay in 9ja jare.
ReplyDeleteAm currently touring Europe on vacation. Nothing fantastic here. The tax is extremely annoying. I saw many of my igbo sisters and brothers. All they do here is fraud, drugs business or marry Oyibo to get papers. These are men that have range rover. G-wagons back home. I saw their situations here and how they make the so called money. I was discouraged. Cnt wait to get back to my base. Best city in the world
DeleteOf all places, crystal palace. No wonder u had a shitty experience
DeleteCrystal palace is a very cheap hotel o!next time consult people who live there before booking a hotel you hear?
DeleteThat is if you are talking about the hotel o!
DeleteEgbamiii!!! God forbid I try such. Haba! Ko le to yen now.
ReplyDeleteOh dear!
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Pls what is aduro.....
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Dis is shocking! Is dis réal or some photoshop?
ReplyDeleteI think its photoshopped,how can people pack themselves like this.
DeleteWhat is Aduro, Aduro is the way of standing on your feet that you want to be European pikin.Aunty stella hope i pass this test.
ReplyDeleteAduro = Asylum...Ah,,,Some ppl need to educate themselves with new trends and the in-language...
ReplyDeleteFor your mind now you are up to date with the in thing abi?
DeleteADURO simply means seeking assylum.
ReplyDeleteThis happens all the time,I went to a church in paris pastored by a Nigerian a few years back and got friendly with some Nigerian ladies the stories I heard was sgocking about their travials in the desert and on the sea just to make it to Europe.Infact one said it got to a point where they were so starved and had to start drinking their own urine to survive.But what I couldn't deal with is even after her supposed 8yrs in paris she still was claiming to be a sierra leonan on paper and still didn't have her passport.
ReplyDeleteIt was more depressing when she asked me to describe what the airport looked like cause she has never been to one and there are areas in Paris she wouldn't wanna venture to cause of fear of being made out by the police
All she had was her beautifully bleached skin,her perfect french and a tiny room in one of the slums and being an uneducated lady too aint helpful so she works in a salon part time,takes part in church activities and sticks to her african friends but can not think of going back home cause that's gonna be one way outta europe forever and am thinking what a life! Lots of sob stories like that so if you have a good life and can travel back and forth at will you should eternally grateful to God
Yes Stella alot of them here in Spain eating ayuda.eg chuks.
ReplyDeleteAduro means seeking asylum. ......
ReplyDeleteWhile I don't recommend this method of travelling abroad a lot of Nigerians have migrated and are making life better for themselves than in naija.... The problem with the naija mentality is that u must be rich overnight.... That is why as a nation we are bedevilled with thieves and all kinds of corruption.. In other countries in the world u must work hard to get to the top so don't see y u come into a country as an immigrant and u expect t to starts sending home millions after two years..... Nigerians stop putting pressure on ur family who live abroad.....A lot of Nigerians are doing well abroad but didn't get there overnight..:.if u have a good job in naija fine but if u also have the opportunity to go as a highly skilled migrant by all means take it, but don't go there and expect an overnight miracle... With time u will see the real value of living in a society where effort is made to give quality to human life....
ReplyDeleteThank u!! U make sense die!!!
DeleteDisgusting pic
ReplyDeleteAduro is to seek refuge in white mans land. Usually lies and fabrication of stories that touch, like boko haram wiped off ur family cause ur a christian and they are still looking for u. If u go back they will kill u or that ur gay and with the new law in Nigeria u will be jailed, just anything to attract pity from oyibo and they will give you a house or shelter and be giving you food till you get some oyibo girl to marry. Once you born pickin u are saved and automatically you get papers. Very common in Germany, Italy and other European countiries that's why Stella used that slang cause she probably have met a handful out their In Germany.
ReplyDeleteThe risks people are prepared to take for 'greener pastures'!!
ReplyDeleteOdi egwu!
For those asking, as far as I know, 'Aduro' means benefits or the welfare system i.e., 'free cash'.
It's all a mirage! It's better to stay back home, work hard, and make something out of your life, than to undertake this kind of suicide mission all in the name of a better life.
Majority of the people who make these journeys end up at the bottom of the sea or die from exposure and dehydration. Out of
the few who make it across, most get caught and held in deportation camps, and eventually get sent straight back home.
Only a minute percentage get away with it, but they end up having to hide from the authorities for years, most times only able to earn peanuts. What sort of life is that?!
When you find yourself in a wasteland, it doesn't matter the direction you just have to keep moving with the hope of a better tomorrow. when i look as this picture all i see is HOPE.. HOPE.. and HOPE..
ReplyDeleteKnow 2 of them like that. One left many years back but got deported almost immediately. He came back and started forming for us like we didn't know what happened. The other one was lucky. He travelled to Italy first, then started scouting for old Italian ladies and used his pimp juice to survive. Omo, those ladies no be here o, very large ladies. He kept sending their pictures to his sister here in Nigeria (maybe so she could see how hard the hustle was). The hustle continued for years until he found a way to migrate to the UK. The Lord had mercy on him and he finally got a white lady to marry in the UK. He's settled now but anytime he comes to Nigeria, the hunniz no dey rest o. He will lie that he's not married and rekindle the old flames with his poor Ex girlfriends who are still single and will be promising them marriage. If you tell some of them that the brother man is married they will nearly pull their bra and use it to strangle you so all the neighbours do is watch o.
ReplyDeleteLmao! This your story is funny
DeleteSee how desperate pple are,too bad. Like I always say, na to stay here make money o,only go for vacations over there. I can't jst imagine going through this route and getting there to still hustle real hard. At the end of the day some will get caught there and will be sent back again
ReplyDeleteWhat if something happens on that water nko? Smh
hmmmm na waah oh.
ReplyDeleteWhat is Aduro to start with?
ReplyDeleteAfrican leaders are the ones to blame for this.
ReplyDeleteHey! See gist! I talk am say this Linda sabi lie 4 Africa! So d person u know is ur older brother. You mentioned juju! Hahahahahaha juju for drug money abi? He will eventually pay nu, either now or later. Useless sets of pple, mama runs woman, dota pimp, son drug lord. Bad blood...
ReplyDeleteIs your entire generations that are useless and cursed with bad blood ...that's why poverty has eaten deep inside you...
DeleteAt least our bad blood is paying us,what have you achieved with your good blood?...money,you no get,job you no see,husband kwanu,you no get at your age...tufia!...are you not cursed already??
Olodo pimp linda eze always know where to draw the line please. Am a full fledged man, who have one of the top hotels in NH and also one of the 042 niggas who dumbed your sorry ass after f%%cking it. Hope you have cured the offensive bum bum odour you have? Deranged generation. Hahhahahhahahahha
DeleteFrom your writeups,its obvious you are a woman claiming man...Hahahahaha...look at this fool...
DeleteWho dash you a hotel in new haven...church rat..
You fucked who?...bwhahahaha...
For your dream!..
Fyi,I got married before people started building hotels in New haven...ewu!!..go and marry aunty agbaya...
Buhahhahahhaha! Anything to save your face mummy agbaya. Maybe you will have to amputate my dick to make me the woman you always wished for me to be dirty lesbian.
DeleteI am done with you this stupid anonymous...ijiro okwu!!...go and marry first before talking to me...old woman...aunty gwegwegwe....
DeleteAll sort of vagrants and vacuous minds abound here.Advisable to focus on the message and ignore certain messengers.disgusting
ReplyDeleteDrug or no drug,what matters is that he is a succesful business man....
ReplyDeleteHis business is selling like a hot akara....
At his age,he has never been to jail or smell anything called jail....
He is an American citizen....
He has a wonderful family...
He has investments both home and abroad...
His properties is uncountable both home and abroad....
The least car in his garage is a range rover...
He is a silent billionaire...he dosent make noise...
He is made for life...
I don't know why poor people always accuse rich people of getting their wealth through dubious means...its not every rich man that does 419 or drug for a living...
For that anonymous that said am lying,if I come on this blog and mention how rich my brother is,you will be the first to call me a liar or that I boast....
Hehehehehhe and for that useless relative anonymous,watchout for his new private jet coming soon!!...
Enemies abound everywhere! Tufuakwa!people just believe cos they know you, you should give your hard earned money to them while they lazy about. Msheeeew
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The Alex
Mtcheeew! Enuf noise jare madam. We've heard your brother has plenty money. Biko go and work hard to make your personal money too
DeleteBrainless house wife. You are living good because dude used una papa for rituals and now you think its gonna last? Let's all wait till your three sons use you for rituals to secure protection from all the people their useless mother have hurt, reduced, and stolen their destiny diabolical one way of the other.
DeleteLinda Nwa H.. u fall my hand big tym.. how could u allow that stupid anon decode u.. All you could have done was deny and shut him up.. even he will be doubting if you are the right person but your love for your brother made you rise to his defence.. you see the joy in blogging is that we don't know who is who.. now you will bcom Ezenwanyi that only leaves one line comments or stop commenting. You will be missed though.. @All stop spilling your personal goings on on blogs.. lots of ppl visit blogs but don't necessarily comment.. Be wise and take note from those b4 us.
Delete@anon 11; 32,Eziokwu??????nobody exposed me biko instead she hyped me and I quickly put her where she belonged cos I dont suffer fools.i drop one liners cos I ve nothing to say,I ve nothing to hide and should my hubby stumble on my comments on this blog,I wont deny it cos I dont like lying and he also knows am not desperate for marriage he needs me more than I need him and that is d difference between me and a lot of women.
DeleteLinda did nothing wrong,its a blog for fucks sake.she is even nice about it cos after I exposed d bitch that was typing rubbish she went underground both online and offline cos had it been she continued I would ve dropped sacrifice for d gods of d night on her behalf .I ve told people that am not a nice person,I dont forgive neither do I forget but those who know me know me.
Linda Eze is a very nice person and these people are just jealous.
Oops,I forgot to add his looks...
ReplyDeleteDude is sexy af...tall,fresh infact,over fine dey worry him...is he not blessed?Oh yes he is...
Bwahahahaha. .........u want to kill some people.
DeleteNo o! His not nah... how can u say such a man that sleeps wit 1 eye open is blessed? a thief and drug lord! His good 4 nothing o. Wit his akata wife acting like she's ur goddess and u licking her yansh. Ike nsi! Bcos of ego olee? Home and abroad biz nko home and abroad biz ni. Heonly has boys that pass drugs around 4 him. And u call that biz. Odikwa egwu o. And d least car we will find in ur garage is?
ReplyDeletePrivate jet? Who dash monkey banana?
Oya run along and get biz eh.
See painment ohhhh....And how is it your business if he sleeps with one eye open?...if I lick my sisters inlaw nyash e concern you?how does it put food on your table??...
DeleteHit your head on the wall if e pain you too much...He is made for life so deal with it...
Lazy idoit..now I understand why he hates associating him self with poor people like you...
Hope you have proof to back up your lies you fool...yes,he flies Privates and he is buying his soon...Go and die!!!...
See gobe, hmmmm!
ReplyDeleteThe problem I have with sdk bloggers is that u ppl divulge too much information on the blog. forgetting that people know u and will cast from the hints you give. una think say all of us no dey blog? I got scared if this blog when I made a comment about my horrible boss and ppl in my former office started calling me on phone to say they saw what I wrote. THAT WAS D DAY I RESPECTED MYSELF. so I will advice u to be wise and cautious while commenting. take care and forgive hateful comments.
ReplyDeleteWhy didn't you advise Barbie from your experience.
DeleteSo true let's leave less of our personal info on the internet because the internet never forgets..
Deletemadam, you are beautiful and business smart with a good heart. but I must question your intelligence. intelligence makes you see beyond the ordinary, yes it makes you scrutinize.
ReplyDeletenow, your husband selling his dad's house doesn't necessarily mean he loves. he might just have tried too hard to convince you that he is IN. So don't use that to convince yourself too much.
Secondly, you should have laid the rules down knowing you are taking him to a new environment and he doesn't know what's about to hit him. it's never too late to do that.
Thirdly, its a 50-50 situation. And until u are sure, you can never really say if he is head over heels into u or not. do not conclude too soon. u have to apply wisdom here. do u have a mum or elder sisters or aunties who can really advice u? please ask for advice to deal with this situation from people around u who are seeing this guy LIVE when we aren't.
Also, the child is not to blame. please let's not include him in this wahala. try as much as possible to give him a better life than his father can afford. he already calls u mum. nevertheless, seek to having your own kids when its more convenient for u, so incase u have any issues in future with the child u won't be so sore.
above all I pray God gives u strength. I have a brother who is this lazy and I can understand what you are going through. its not easy. cos me as a sister I am already over burdened. not to talk of if he was my husband.
Also, don't feel too sore to walk away at any other indications that things wont get better. Its never too late to start again.
If you need to contact me via e-mail, feel free to indicate and I will post my email add. You are really young and I feel so unhappy that this is happening to u.
Might I also add, you need to check if its a mental or psychological problem for him to feel the need not to do anything, not to be corrected, get violent after being told the truth and shuts-in once his f**k up is treated with beating. If he isn't interested in sex and doesn't womanize but often does things like someone who still has a good heart, then These are symptoms of a similar situation I have. You have to act fast.
Wetin dey worry u? We dey read better gist for Linda Ezeh side na im u carry us go back to SA issue. Carry time o. Linda Ezeh (aka Queen of Blog) ...continue!
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