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Why do Ladies snatch boyfriends and risk ending a beautiful girly friendship?even at the risk of knowing the snatchee wont last long with them?.
This Blog visitor mails me most times or sends me breaking stories or sends in to ask when a post is not clear.......She sent in this mail really upset and says.....
''I have a girlfriend I thought was true. But recently I have noticed some new things about her. She envies me now. We have always been in a competition and I never knew. I took her out to Ikoyi to meet a man I was just getting to know. We had a good time and all. I am a free spirit so i didnt see any need to be on my guard or suspect my girl. We got home that nite and my girl told me that the man asked her for her number and that she gave it to him out of courtesy. That she doesnt intend to proceed with him. The man later told me that my friend gave him green light dat nite.
I have been in this situation loads of times and my reply to the backyard toaster is always "take my number from my friend " or I say "U can reach me thru my girlfriend" I dont give my number. Why couldnt my friend say the same thing? I am hurting cos if u see this girl u wont even pin her to the crime of bf snatching.
I have decided 2 put her at arms length now. Make everybody answer im Papa name.
Has any blog visitor been betrayed like this?''.
*No paddy for jungle..LMAO!
The guy was still your friend right? May be you are the one mistaking the relationship you had with the guy. Until it is official, he can decide who he wants. No one can snatch an adult. Know that. Even if you hide your toaster under the bed, if he will leave you, he will.
ReplyDeletemaybe he's not into you. He may just want to keep you as a friend. Your girlfriend letting you know they exchanged numbers,shows she may be innocent of what you accuse her of. Sorry,but the competition may be from your end. To avoid tension like this from recurring,go on appointments alone,that way,you can give your own green light without another woman deeming it.
DeleteTrue talk my dear.
DeleteWide eyed, abeg chop knuckle. Make am 2 knuckle. The most straight up advice. I don't understand why you agree to meet a guy you like and then you take a friend or an entourage, y ladies? Y? Dem born una together? Listen ladies, if you like a guy, he ask you out on a date, you say yes, Please go alone. It is very uncouth, classless, and tacky that you drag all your friends with you to a date. Same way its rude to talk on the phone or text while on a date. Now your girlfriend is now sending headlights to the new guy now, and you are complaining. Girl, u need to grow up.
DeleteWide eyed what rubbish are u saying? She took her friend there cos she was getting to know the guy..... If there was no green light from the guy they won't be getting to know each other. Her friend should have known not to give the guy her number.... If the guy is a player then her friend just helped him..... Girls need to respect themselves more.....she must have gisted this friend she likes this guy so y did she still give her number to the guy? We women don't watch each other's back that's y men behave like dogs and chase everything in skirts including friends..... Poster forget that guy and ur friend after all nothing serious happened yet.....
DeleteAnonymous 3:52. While u may be right I beg to differ. No matter what, the foolish friend shouldn't have indulged him. And even if the man didn't like the poster again, her friend shouldn't be the contingency plan. And besides I do not believe he stopped liking her. He just wanted to do both of them, and he would have been happy to make them fight so that he can conveniently bang both of them and later dump them like June12. This kind of man will bang ur sisters, any female staff, and even Hgirls when paro catch am.
DeleteIf per adventure he lost interest in this babe, as a responsible man u will look elsewhere, not to pick someone around her to her detriment. Goes to show the man ain't worth it o madame poster. Even of he doesn't sleep with ur friend do not date him again o.
To ur friend who gave her number in ur absence, she's non short of a bitch and d grandma of all jezebels. To the man who gave in because he was given 'green light' supposedly, like say na only him waka stand for traffic light, he is an uncircumcised dirty dog. But poster, if u are not a runz girl yourself, sorry to say oo, perhaps u should re evaluate ur friendship. Ok bye
Am pretty and have never allowed any guy take advantage of even my ugly friends.... When you are toasting or dating my friend and u try me I warn u straight cos I feel it's an insult to me and the female gender.... We women present ourselves too cheap these days that's y men just wanna use us and dump us anyhow...... I have warned my hubby of nine years the next affair I catch him having ( he had had 4 I know of and forgiven him cos he begged) am so starting my own affair..... Let me see the person that will tell me rubbish then.... Men should learn more self control and stay focused on one relationship at a time.... And women stay off other women's property.... Dont think the men cheat on wifey or girlfriend cos they r witches as the men like to claim....they will do same to u in due season
DeleteI guess the guy has no idea that the girl is your gf and you have to let him know...this happened to me sometimes ago..girls r use to this..do chill
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Sister you are a learner,but I tot we had dealt with such isssues in the blogs anyways I no trust that man since you said you just met him
ReplyDeleteMr lyca
I know a sister that snatched her. Elder sisters fiance o! He's a doctor in the Us..she added the guy on facebook,told him lies about the sister nd even toasted him join,when the guy came back to naija the sister was writing her exams nd dint come back ontym, she went to see the guy nd took everything he bought nd they had. A good time. funny enough wen the other came back from school she saw all the stuffs wit her sister nd asked her,she said her friend gave her case closed..one beautiful morning she wanted to use her sisters phone to check facebook lo nd behold her sisters dint sign out so she went to her message nd saw her beloved boo exchanging dirty messages with her younger sister,she called off the engagement nd disposed the ring..the girl nevr accepted too,she said her account was hacked lol..ignore any typo
DeleteChai, that na one crazy tory o. Why na? Y would a sister do that? Are they step sisters? Thats just gross. The thing wey man no go hear for this world.
DeleteChoi!
DeleteSuch a sister can kill o
what a shame!
Some girls will never learn...
ReplyDeleteThere is a saying that you don't take your friends to where your bread is buttered or something like that....
That's why I like my self...when I was single,I don't have a single close friends even now...learn to be #TeamOneManSquard...
Poster,hope you have learnt from this...next time,go alone...hope the said man is not married anyway...
Hmmmmm,i introduced my frd to my ex,i trusted dis girl so much dat I introduced her to my bro,d rela didnt work out though,afta two months she met my ex,d three of us were going out and I had to collect sometin frm anoda frd,so I left dem in d car,dis babe begged my ex to help her out wit uk visa,my stupid tod me he was going to Lag few days later,he went to c my frd even tuk her to his hotel twice,i got to knw all dat d day she called my ex and I was wit him,i confronted him,he was shaking and advised me to beware of frds,i also confronted my frd,she 1st wasnt sorry but later called to apologised, now my boo is my bestfrd,i tuk to my ex advice anyways and life has bin gud,no more frds.....teamonemansquad in Linda's voice
DeleteDts true dear cos some will not only take d bread but the baker and d bakery combined. But I like my friends, none of them is capable of doing such.
DeleteLemme start by saying:
DeleteNever take some friends to where your bread is buttered.
Cos some may collect the buttered bread,the person buttering the bread,the remaining bread,the remaining butter,the bread baker,the bread oven and even the whole bakery.
Trust nobody. I've been in that kinda deep Sh*t...Pele! Just try to learn from this experience and don't get carried away with anyone again. Safe!!!
U r very correct o! If u take dem to where ur bread is buttered, some will collect the bread, some will collect the butter, some will even collect the bakery
DeleteWhere is Linda Eze?
DeleteHi5@alloy, please tell them.ℓ☺ℓ
DeleteThe thing full their body wella
They say, they say, i say, she say...haba!!!mouth no dey pain una shuo?
Umu nwanne.....women are always their own enemies.
God help his people mbok!
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@ Debby James .... My father owns a bakery and u totally understand the bread and
DeleteAbeg girls wahala too much, if its not that they are jealous of one another, its snatching Bf. Smh
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Alloy, na the same thing I de think too. Nawa ooo #femalesgotissues
DeleteHi5@alloy, please tell them.ℓ☺ℓ
DeleteThe thing full their body wella
They say, they say, i say, she say...haba!!!
Umu nwanne.....women are always their own enemies.
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Ihekire Tony
ReplyDeleteIf you didn't snatch from anybody, nobody will snatch from you.
Asi asi
DeleteBig lie, Ihekire!
Deletethats a big lie.....her friend is just gullible
DeleteNo Bible quotation to support your comment?
DeleteHian!!! Ibiakwa ozo oga tony
DeleteEasy does it biko kwa. Haba!!ℓ☺ℓ
"Oga tony's law of snatching return"
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Tony big lie o. Ok let me share my experience.
DeleteI had a very close childhood friend of mine whom I went everywhere with. I mean everywhere including sleep overs at my man's house. To cut the long story short, she and another friend of ours always advised that I stopped dating this man because of his philandering ways with women. But ehn, I would just not listen. So one time, this my close friend and I had a face off that we cussed ourselves tire. So while she cussed me she felt she needed to hit me below the punchline with hurtful words.
She said be deceiving yourself that u have a man. Let me tell u ehn, ur man has been toasting me for years and he says nasty things about u. We laugh at u behind ur back etc. I said ok now. I left her and made straight for my man to challenge him. After I blast him he laughed and called me a big fool. That he wonders when I'll stop being a mommy's girl to realise that a lot goes on behind my back with my so called friend who would one day poison and kill me. I shook and wondered what he was saying.
He sha said, so ur friend told u am toasting her? Or she actually confessed how long I have been fucking her? Like days the 3 of us will be in the house and u(me) would be fast asleep, and I would crawl to bang her in the living room??
He continued and said, Or the days she would come to my office and I would bang her silly on my office desk...Moreso days that we sneaked to hotels to have sex and she would even steal some of my money when am in the shower....
and the ultimate this man said that made me lose hope in friendship, was that there was a time my friend was ontop of him having sex, and she used his fone to call me, tho she withheld the number. And I believed this part of the gist because anyone who that was familiar with the old Ericsson phones in the mid 90s will tell u that while u speak on the phone, there would always be a beep sound every one minute, that is if u set ur phone to do that. Which my man had on his fone then. So the day in question that she called me and I heard that beep, I said ah, do u now use an Ericsson phone? she asked why and I said I just heard that beep sound. She quickly said no no maybe the TV.
What am I saying here? I have never snatched nor dated my friends men in my life. This girl was just a promiscuous nympho that liked sex too much. I confronted her and she denied it but I knew that she was lying. That was the end of Solomon Grundy d Cassanova.. Abeg some people no get conscience biko.
Lmaooo. My gf has always liked any guy I'm dating. I don't even care cos most times, sho would lose her self respect and worth in their eyes. Truth is, this girl is super beautiful but she hasn't been able to keep a man for more than three months. So if I'm done screwing a dude and she shows interest, I will pass the chaff to her. Though she would be forming all " I don't really like him" at first but, I always have more than one to share. When it comes to the people I date, it's a no no though and she understands that. My boyfriends are not the types that go after my friends. I am not scared of losing any guy to her too, I mean, he isn't a non living thing that can be stolen.
ReplyDeleteContradictory comment. She has always liked the guys you are dating. .. but when it comes to the guys you date, it's a no no ????
DeleteLol! Thought I was the only one who saw it!
DeleteChoii Anon can lie for Sierra leone. Na so dem go de come here de lie like thief mscheww
DeleteHonestly..I thought same too
Deleteread in btween the lines, she meant aristos and single guyz.....aristos can be shared but single bobos are a no no. #helping a sister out. #don't thank me.
DeleteSUGAROUS SUGAR***
What she means is; A guy she's fucking... all these ashawo sef tufia
DeleteSugar baby....your explanation no be here o...lol
DeletePoster of this comment, u need Christ
No...I haven't...... I don't do bestfriends....
ReplyDeleteWelcome back orela. Is the strike over?
DeleteSmh. Poster you's a learner! You just come Lagos abi? Except that person is ur blood( which in some cases doesn't count) trust no bitch! Stop taking em to see people except it's strictly business. No Lagos girl wants to see you do better than them.
ReplyDeleteThe last line just made me LOL
DeleteLol. The competition is stiff in Lagos mehn...u said it all.
DeleteLol
DeleteIffy you are sooo correct.
Just recently found out that this lil youth coper girl living with me snatched her cousin's boyfriend (she is hubby's cousin btw).
Her cousin and her bf had a quarrel and she volunteered to help her beg the guy only for them to start dating. Smh.
Small girls of these days eeh..
Trust no one.
Smh
Hi dear
ReplyDeleteYou mentioned that your getting to know this dude,so it's really unclear what you are doing with him...you didn't specify if this man is married or single too.
But am going to give you my advice hoping the man in question is very single.
Talk to your girl,confront her about what you suspect...I hope you know some men like creating enmity between friends so that they can sleep with both...
Then if you really think she's competing with you,it's time to let her go(it might not be healthy).
Please sort things out before you date this guy ooh
Maybe its just me, but the supposed guy told you, your girlfriend gave him the green light and your only beef is with your whorish bestie? Chai, Nigerian women shine ya eye o. Na so men dey expensive for town? Shouldn't you be asking your supposed man, "the hell do you mean by green light?" What was he doing staring at my bestie for so long he noticed that her light went from red to yellow to green. Girl, drop both your bestie and this supposed guy where they both belong. They are no good for you. And the nerve of your bestie giving out her number out of courtesy, what does she mean by courtesy mean? Chai, some girls get heart mehn. So shame no catch am? Ummmmm, na wa o.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you for this comment.
DeleteAnon 4:20
DeleteChop kiss, lol.
You nailed it.
Nice one.
DeleteSo many years ago, my friend n I went to see her man. Her man asked me for my phone that he needed to make a quick call. Innocently, I gave him my phone only for my friend to snatch the phone from him. She gave me my phone back and gave him, hers.
When we were ready to leave, this guy called his driver to drop us off and as he came to bid me good bye, he slipped his number into my Palm. I felt really bad because my friend told me how much she loved him.
When the driver dropped us off, I gave her the piece of paper with her man's phone number. She cried and after much, never heard her speak of the guy again.
Sometimes, I ll feel like I should have kept quiet and not say anything other times, I ll be like, I did the right thing.
Stella please do a post on when it's right to spill or not. Our family friend's horse band has been disturbing my elder sis and she doesn't know how to tell him off. If to tell the wife or not......
Last bebe, you did the right thing. A woman will shed a few tears and move on,a girl will fight you.
DeleteAs for husband matter, your sister should tell your mum.
Our family friend was on my case when I was single and at home. I told him off, the guy no gree hear. I just told my mum and though I don't know what she did, the man withdrew all his advances sharply.
Aristo snatching tins, next jor! After d 2some now u r ranting, get lost bitch!!!
ReplyDeletegirls..hmmm i fear dem oo. my blood cousin who was like a sister to me, we were soo close i told her everything and we did everything together i soo loved dat babe eh, until she stabes me behind my back with de guy i was dating some years back & she knewbhow much i loved de dude. chai dat really killed me. she later blamed de devil for deceiving her and blah blah blah. i have forgiven her oo but i cant forget and i cant have anything to do with her. she called me a few days back to wish me happy new month and was complaining dat i have changed and i no longer care about her. i just gave her a loong laugh, did yinmu and wished her a wonderful day. no time for frenemies mbok. my dear stay faaaar away from dat babe o.
DeleteEheh na today yansh dey back?as for mi,I can neva trust any of girlfriends...evil and jealous friends everywhere
ReplyDeleteMy dear,me na their regular customer oooo.Friends don do me sote na one man show I dey run now.The annoying part like in my case,is that it's them who befriends you,eats from you like there's no tomorrow,envys you,put you down secretly at the slightest opportunity,stabs you where it will pain you most.To me that's witchcraft.
ReplyDeleteGod delivered me from such evil friends and since then,I've been on my own.
My candid advice,curtail the way you talk about your successes or achievements in the presence of friends,lastly on no account should you take any of your friends to where your bread is been buttered!!!!
Wisest comment do far! I learnt the hard way and even now that I'm married with married friends I trust none of them!!
DeleteLadies be wise
ReplyDeleteDont take your girlfriends to your guy's place or potential guy's place cos they will snatch the hell out of him from you.
I have been in such situation before and i cant be a fool twice!
I waka pass
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Kuku bullshit her though...
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
That one is a FRENEMY..
ReplyDeleteANGELRAY SAYS
ReplyDeleteThis is not news na, even sisters snatch their sister's bf, i ve seen it happen, plz look for another guy cos dat ur man is irresponsible, even if d girl gave him a green light y will he collect her number.
Gbam!
DeleteShit happens !
ReplyDeleteU are lucky u don see who she be before u enter one chance.
I had a course mate once who confided in her best friend how one guy was "toasting" her and she was beginning to fall for him. Her friend discouraged her from having anything to do with the guy, claiming the guy was a player only to go behind and sleep with the guy. They are happily married now!
ReplyDeleteMy course mate was devastated!
GIRLS!!!!!!!!!! Their own worst enemies!
married is very different from happily married
Deletewhy do people mix both up?
Well I haven't been in such situation cos, I don't take my girlfriends to any correct toaster of mine. I leave them with d yeye ones. cos I don't trust my girlfriends. Thank God i'm married now, they only got to meet my hubby on d eve of my wedding. Finish! Annie L.P
ReplyDeleteSharp babe!
DeleteCorrect geh
DeleteAristos...if u had self respect and carried urself well, he would not have treated u like that...just another hoe...
ReplyDeleteStupid idiot, it's your mother who is a hoe.... Men are dogs and some just want to shine any Congo in sight....if u are a babe or guy I pray u experience bitter betrayal then u will know if it's only when u don't respect urself that shit happens,.. Loudmouthed goat
DeleteUhmm...I guess you missed the ranting post...
ReplyDeleteIts common tho
ReplyDeleteLearn to keep ur so called besties away from ur man
But all these guys that go ahead to toast there gfs friends tho
I've found myself in situations where I hv to say no to my friends bf...its so tiring!
See they your lane and dont disturb us. If we toast you now you nor go gree now you are asking for advise.
ReplyDeleteThis kind of thing can pain ehhhh especially if you are so into the guy,well lucky you that the guy in question even confessed:
ReplyDeleteHere goes mine:Back when I was in school my frnd introduced me to a guy and we liked each oda and started dating,well he had anoda friend that needed a girl friend so I hooked the friend up to a chic I thot was a friend.This dude stays in IB and myself Lagos,so seeing often was kind of a big deal,he comes to see me in Lagos and I had nver been to IB...to cut the story short I never knew that my so called frnd was wanting what I had and oppurtunity came when she said her grandpa passed on,and she was off to IB,babe was missing in skool for like 3 weeks I was worried and kept on asking other friends if they had seen or spoken to her or if something was wrong? Tried reaching out to her on phone no response,and I just figured maybe she dint want to talk to me..Alas! She and my so called Bf we're getting their freak on...Looool hmmm it was my other friend that even put 2 and 2 together and was like girl wake up!
Long and short he slept with her and she came to me to say she was sorry and all the stupid guy cuold say is i was seduced and I slept with her so? Its none of your business, Lmaooo nawa o,I was so burnt mehhnnnnn,planned on giving her skinny ass beating of life with my best friend back den,I approached her and she wasn't even sorry,so I hatched a plan to help her arrange her bones*Rotfol* buh she later came to apologise that it wasn't intentional and it was the devil.
Well I forgave her because I hate fighting with anoda chic cos of a man;becos if he was worth it he won't be that stupid to do such....End of story.The men that are worth it would never toast/scope/woo/or take your friend's numba its the thirsty ones that do such! He was never yours.
A friend took me out on a date she had wit one dude,and see dude giving me green light up and down strecthing his legs out to me under the table ha! I had to stand up immediately and tell my frnd see wot your bobo is doing oh I cudnt afford to be termed "BF SNATCHER" real frnds dnt snatch their frnds bfs
*Sweetness*
I think I know the person when u mentioned ibadan lol
DeleteMy dear,
ReplyDeleteThe world is full of jealous people. Aside your sisters, don't get any woman involved in your love relationship. Good people are hard to find,take it from me!
Rose
My friend dated my ex but day was after we broke up. She tried to hide it from me but i later found out and really felt betrayed even though we were broken up. And to think that she was insulting him and his looks cos he was truly not attractive. Looking back now, I realize that she was just jealous of me and him cos he spoilt me silly. But the funny thing is that he slept with her dumped her after promising her marriage. But who cares. She got what she deserved. We used to be close but I avoid her like a plague to avoid future occurrences. That baby can kill
ReplyDeleteAbeg, it's the guy you should be pissed at.
ReplyDeleteThe girl even told you what happened, if she'd harboured such ulterior motives, she wouldn't have informed you.
Don't misplace your annoyance dear, put it on that guy- what kind of lame excuse is "green light"?
After giving number abi? Out of courtesy too. I see u
DeleteNa today yansh don dey for back??
ReplyDeleteYou attract your kind ...or how is it said again.? My 'few friends' are just like me. We know our limits and have so much respect for each other. I have never and can never experience this.
ReplyDeleteAeegurl...
Gbamest,you attract your kind!I learnt the hard way and made up my mind to keep my circles tight
DeleteI wouldn't say " you attract your kind" but I'm lucky to have very few friends that know their limits.
DeleteShut your silly sanctimonious self righteaous mouth....few friends ko few friends ni....
DeleteI hav more of male frnds n d few female frnds av got are simply a blessing. Dey watch my back. Anyways, Ladies need t b more discreet abt dia r\ships sha.
ReplyDeleteCouple o' yrs back, my bestie in whom iam well pleasd came to me n begin ask of a particular directn
ReplyDeletedat leads to a road dat leads to a street dat........... anyway na so i mumu-humbly help my bestie oo, only to find out some days later dat she was actually looking for my (ex's)
bestie's house (she knows d adress but how to locate dia) d guy dat'd take her to my bf's house...smh!
She even buy apple & gala b4 my very eyes b4 boardin a bus. Heck!
i tot she was looking for a motherless baby's home lol!
I think there was a story on this blog sometime ago, where the snatchee was celebrating and thank God for giving her a husband. People saying why did she take her friend to see her toaster, you are the same ones that will advise people to never go on a first date alone, esp in lagos, with the rate of rituals and all, people will be talking from both sides of their mouth...
ReplyDeleteAt the slightest sign of a quarrel, bitches be all up in ur face like "dump his ass, ain't no nigga gon treat me like that, take a walk babe, u too dull sef" whereas they're hooking up with ur man behind ur back. Abeg stay with who makes u happy no matter what any 'friend' gotta say lest u blame urself in d end. courtesy ko,breaksy ni.
ReplyDeletewhat about the guy?guys like that are not trust worthy
ReplyDeleteThere is no such thing as boyfriend snatching please. If your guy sleeps with your friend, he is an idiot, and honestly you should be looking at your guy and not your friend. As per the BV that sent in this letter, your suitor is not a serious person. She gave him green light how, was he looking at her when her light was red? Abeg he should move. All these guys and stupidity.
ReplyDeletebabes, babes,babes, this one no hard now, there are guidelines to be followed when dealing with your fellow babe. 1. Don't tell her your secrets or weaknesses
ReplyDelete2.Don't take her to where your bread is being buttered 3.Try not to gossip about your other friends with her 4.don't reveal all your possessions, money and life to her.. do all these to avoid stories that touch... u can also add more guidelines if u have..
Babes r wicked dou, my gurlfrnd's Sugar Papa was hitting on me, buh nvr had notin 2do wif him, wen my gurlfrnd found out dat he was hitting on mi, c craze o, she has been tryn 2get numbers on my phone buh 2 no avail,cuz I dnt save my toasters name.....it was dat day she shouted n calld somone's name on my phone dat do call mi always, she was like I'll destroy ur relationship wif d guy....ladies r evil, d'll bi monitoring u like witches buh u wunt knw, til d deed iz done.
ReplyDeleteOne rich mumu like dat was trippin d hell 4 ma gf...den saw me and started toasting me....lol...dis my gf we hav been friend 4 life...so I told her and we ate dis guy money together chai...b4 d fool knew we were playing him we don collect belle full....mtcheeew it only takes understanding....he tot he was a player he forgot we wre his coach...yimu
ReplyDeleteIbadan girl#
DeleteSome girls are just horrible. They know you are in a relationship but will try by all means to break u guys up just so she can take over. That was how one tried every trick in the book to take over my man but I was smarter than she thought she was. Maybe she even slept with him cos you can trust men too. But I warmed her off and disgraced her in the presence of her boyfriend. Since then, she left him alone.
ReplyDeleteWhatever happens to the male creatures in the world???
ReplyDeleteI ga zi kwa ma girl bestie...
I remember two bestie's back then in unizik.....had a real fight, blow me i blow you "konfu".... When people came around to settle dispute, what they were hearing was so funny and at same time irritating...oya, e don do, what happened.. One said the other one took her pant to a native doctor..ℓ☺ℓ
And when the culprit was asked, funny enough she didn't deny it ooooo....she accepted and gave her reasons as thus;
That the rommie is finer than her, and that whenever they go out, it is always her guys come after bla bla bla... Chineke onye obodo anyi! Unto wetin na?
Or is it the one that happened in Imsu???
Best friend after doing chief brides maid for her BFF, got pregnant for the BFF's husby even before the Bff...from the gist self, it is obvious jazz came in ooooo, and this was how the babe lost not just her husby, but her career in the name of bestie.....
They plenty self....kai!!! I hail thee girls!!!
*so dear poster, yours is just an akamu case. Get up, dust your self and always be vigilant knowing that what we are fighting is more physical than spiritual...NDO!!!
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Jesus!!
DeleteD story of ur life
DeleteAnty stella,my own cousin snatched my fiancee from me,she came to town knowing I travelled and went to his house to sleep,she told him all sort of lies about me how I sleep around wit men and that I didn't go for the wedding I told him I was going to that its an aristole's house,anty stella and na correct lie be that,I never cheated on that guy,she even called my ex that was disturbing me put it on speaker and was asking him question my oga siddon dey listen,after that night she shagged the idiot...na still d idiot come tell me after he found out they were all lies...how did he find out? I came back from the wedding my younger sister called me to tell me that she was coming to beat up my cousin that her BF called her now to tell her that our cousin was @ his place lying to him about her...that one suffery enter motor from ekiti dey come back to enugu so she can come and beat her up so I gisted my stupid fiancee who has been misbehaving and even slapped me for nothing...after somedays he couldn't bear again so he told me...abeg I carry my bag go and never came back,because that kind man fit shag my own sister if them tell am another tori...I thank God I am married to the best Man in the world now...ELLA
ReplyDeleteEven the snatchers are here telling their own story. I don't trust any girl. Even the ones dissing snatchers. I'm happily married and have learned the hard way. Those that say they wl never do it, do it more than the others
ReplyDeleteLol..I absolutely agree.
DeleteHahahaha! CharismaticDiva, you don kill me with laughter! Rose
ReplyDeleteHmmmm...my friends know my boo but they ain't got tym 4 dat..der are still good girls
ReplyDeleteHaha....you can't even know the real name of the man I'm seeing not to talk of smelling him. So how una wan pass green, yellow and red light.
ReplyDeleteIf your not ready to loose or share a man with your friends, then keep him a top secret!! Don't even tell them his name or what he does, cause some will start to look for where to find him.
Be Wise and Trust no one!
Hmmmm everyone is claiming to have been betrayed at one point or the other,then who's betraying who....
ReplyDeletetrust nobody.
ReplyDeletebe your own bestfriend.
do not ever reveal everything to anyone. even to ur spouse.
follow ur instincts and listen carefully to ur gut.
lastly keep ur future man away from ur girlfriends. i see no reason why ur man SHOULD be friends with ANY OF your girlfriends.
Guard jealously the man you love should he ever come ur way.
My humble two cents
A girl's gotta be highly coded when dating her boo cos girls are not smiling.
ReplyDeleteNobody knew my husband (then boyfriend) when we were dating.
e be them like film trick wen dem see Wedding Invitation.
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I don't do guys. I twerk on ladies laps,I'll do Dr Okey or Enyeama tho
ReplyDeleteFriends!!! *sigh* 2 yrs ago, My so called best friend slept with my hubby 3days after I gave birth. Scattered d relationship, made me a single mother and am jobless. I lost my job(marketing) when I got pregnant. Annie
ReplyDeleteNow why on earth will I fight with my friend cause of a man? The best I can do is give both the"silent treatment"anyways I don't roll with girls,all my friends are guys. EVE E UME
ReplyDeleteHmmm where I do I even start from cause there are people on this blog that know the people involved in my little live drama ... Okay my older sister has a child and is currently engaged to my ex bf ( she started sleeping with him when we were dating ) but I'm so thankful that God delivered me from him cause he turned out to be a beast and treats my sister like a piece of shit , but in all honesty I have moved on and forgiven them . My second experience is with my ex fiancé , a popular Nigerian business man that happens to be highly celebrated on blogs but would try to code this gist because Stella knows the man in question and won't want her to make a post on it , so this man happens to be old enough to be my dad but very much single , we met during one of my visits to Nigeria as I am based in the U.S , we met at a popular restaurant on the island but I ignored him & i always kept on running into him cause I always had lunch @ the restaurant , so one day one of my Lagos based gf's kept on disturbing me and asking me to give him a chance & so with his persistence and my gf constant bugging I gave him a chance and we went on a date and before I knew it he started spoiling me silly with very expensive gifts , not like I really cared bout the money cause I work for Americas biggest network and I get paid big , but it was nice to be spoiled silly , our relationship continued for months while I was in the us and would fly into Nigeria on holidays cause he could afford to pay for my flight and my friend who happens to be the younger sister of one of naijas top female singers was always keeping tabs on him but little did I know she was fucking the old retard & this continued for months without my knowledge but soon my spirit told me to be careful and cut her off & then my older lover proposed to me , I was beyond excited and said yes because I was head over heels in love with this man , I mean he was good looking for his age and had chains of businesses in Europe and Africa , plus he spoilt me silly , who wouldn't be excited ? Although he has a two years old daughter from a failed engagement ( loved her like my own ) do you know that this old fool went around sleeping with my friend and was even planning to open a business for her !! Lol shocking rite ? But my 'friend' confided in another friend of ours who spilled to me & so I decided to play the fool and observe ... Would end here because it was a very messy breakup & people who know read your blog and I am drama free and don't want to be fingered out on blogs , so when I read stories of how lagos girls are dying over politicians and business men I laugh , cause marriage isn't just built on money . And to think we had planned to tie the knot before the end of this year . Lol God knows best
ReplyDeleteLadies, a 'real' man can't be 'snatched', he not a handbag except if u carry urs in ur handbag, lol.
ReplyDelete#Every girl chases after happines, not knowing that happiness is right at their heels' at www.shoeloungeonline.com(91 Awolowo way, ikoyi lagos), we share happiness cos our shoes are even better than chocolates.
Sister a 'real' man can't be snatched, he is not a handbag except if u carry urs in ur handbag. Lol
ReplyDelete#Everygirl chases after happiness, not noticing that happiness is right at their heels.
@www.shoeloungeonline.com (91 Awolowo way, ikoyi lagos) we share happiness cos our shoes are even better than chocolates.
Hmm. Lone ranger right here... my friend has shown her tendencies by dating men in relationships with other women so that's enough warning for me. Babe went as far as meeting up with a guy who was chatting me up on fb,wasn't even worth my time to confront her or nothing cos I wasn't into said guy but was completely shocked when she accidently told me (as gist enter gist) that she met with so and so(who was living in Norway at that time) and he was even still trying to find out about me during their date..That just rung a bell in my head that 'this 1 can't be trusted rara'. Same girl has a history of dating married men and her other friends' bfs. Worst is she doesn't see anything wrong with it and will even be trying to justify her actions to me..why would I let such person in on happenings in my marriage?
ReplyDeleteEven if you let her in on your marriage nothing would happen. Do you know if she finds your husband attractive? The fb guy did she meet him through you or on her own? If she met him on her own it shouldn't be a problem unless of course you like the guy. I have a feeling you fcuked around when you were single too. You're married face your marriage pls
DeleteIs this not how Elohor got married to Owen? Chalya Shagaya was dating Owen & their love na wa. Then one day she took her close friend Elohor to his house. That was the end. Elohor is now married to Owen.
ReplyDeleteAnon 2:30am i know you and i know this story sooo well..infact i am still investigating all the facts and you just shockingly supplied all the missing pieces of the story..call it a miracle..LMAO.i cant believe it.
ReplyDeleteheard the sister even had her fill....
Please contact me via email,i need your pic,i already know your name,i couldnt find u on fb.
contact me...lol
Bf snatching no be today na. Had a friend whom we used to do everything togeda. She knew my bf n errbody knew wat was up. Dint knw dey exchanged numbers until I picked up her fone one day n his call came in. I answered n pretended to be her. No be small corner corner arrangement o. Later I confronted d guy and he said he was just testing her. #yimu@menfolk
ReplyDeleteChai Sterra of life!
ReplyDeleteMother of allll BLOGSIPPS lol!
I can see ur Gossip antenna standing 10m away from u hehehe!
Abeg gather d whole infos biko,
a bia rom Stella's blog ikiri mmanwu
owu ashiri kpotara m hia hehehe!
@ Rose hehehehe na so oo!
ReplyDelete@ Amebonamywork, stella needs a supplier, heeelpp please!
ReplyDeleteWomen wahala
ReplyDeleteNa wa
Now permit me to download my own.
ReplyDeletewhen I was in university, I was a dunce. fresh smallish fine face ajebor looking babe like me. correct guys dey chase me, but I dey do friendship with yeye babes. I never used to lock my phones so these girls had access to my phones and will always steal my toasters numbers and finish me until the guys will disappear. we were three besties. at a point I just felt some reason to avoid them and I did. these girls ehn one was dating a rivers state house of reps person who wanted to marry her as 2nd wife. the other one was dating an oil company young guy who was her mumu button. they had more than me and I was content with what I had. yet, they were envious of me because I am more intelligent, better spoken and I dress better than them. when we go out I indulge in better conversations with the guys even if he is an aristo that just wants to buy us lunch, they will always eventually be able to have better conversations with me while on d table. I grew up in lagos while they grew up in smaller towns-almost villages, hence the reason for my exposure and 'sharpness'. one was even an orphan sef, but u know say for university all of us go blend nau. and I am very liberal when it comes to relating with ppl. I didn't believe in 'class circle' but now I DO!! cos those local girls forming toosh are very desperate. take it from me. I didn't grow up in so much wealth, but I wont kill to have it cos I know I will if I work hard. but those local breeds, they want money NOW NOW so are desperate and damn the consequences. for them its survival of the fittest. so they can backstab just to forge ahead.
anyhoo, two years after I had disfriended these girls and moved on with my life, my ears were yet to be filled with all the things they did to me. the guys will be coming back apologizing. and na abuse I dey take reply them. these girls even went as far as telling lies to one ph big babe I used to shop from, that I even introduced them to so they can wear better clothes with all the money their bfs give them that they use to buy aba clothes. nonsense. the babe didn't tell me until she was sure I was through with my friendship with them. then she stylishly told me, but that she be sharp babe nau and she knows the games women play.
even taught them how to mix and match wall paint and furnish their house. they would copy what my room looks likes and enter market to furnish their room. yet, they dealt with me. one even went as far as sending me msgs to me that it will never be well with me and I will die wretched, bla bla. all because I made a hairtstyle and she told me it was ugly yet went behind my back to do it. I now told her when I saw her 'na wa oh! so u actually liked this hairstly, u didn't even wait two days to do it' na fire she begin fire back. text msg for three days. no be small!! I didn't say a word.
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ReplyDeleteFastforward 3 years later, I am doing better than both of them. they still confined to the small town they know, they didn't graduate cos of runs up and down, didn't serve, doing runs and forming 'business'. me I have returned back to base-lagos, have a good job and drive a better car. then, the oil company boy broke up with one of them and met me on fb asked me out for a drink and told me he liked me then, but didn't know how to scope me cos he knew I am not the kind of girl that will backstab my friend to be with him. told me how d girl showed herself and he ran for his dear life. anyhoo, fellow SDKers I begged to not be a 'loyal' babe on this one oh!! It was time for payback, cos this guy was this girls lifeline and even after he changed her life, she was sleeping around for peanuts and things he could afford to give her 10times more. even stealing numbers from my phone to join oh!we are dating now. and I don't feel sorry about it. though I don't know bout the future, as I do not love him. I have not promised him anything, I told him we should see how it goes. but he is allover me like white on rice. and spends silly. or was I supposed to say no to d ex of a backstabbing frenemy who did everything in her power to terminate all my potential reltionships? till now she still calls him begging, but I have given him my jazz of being 'homely' and concerned that he isn't even looking back.
what can I say? revenge is best served cold :)
after that experience, I don't join babes with my man oh. lai lai! I have become a loner. I lock my phones and don't allow anyone use my phones to call. instead I will go online and buy u that online banking credit. 200naira. make the call there.
this is me that my friends manfriend who bought her a brand new car when we were in school and took her allover the world, met me at the aiport purchasing ticket from lagos back to school, bought me business class ticket and was toasting me on board, offering me d world. I just kept smiling. when I got to school, I called her and reported. told her to warn him. same babe came to meet me that d man said if we have a threesome he will give me 1mill. told her over my dead body. that she and d idiot should fuck off. I am not that cheap. distanced myself since then. till today the girl thinks im a mega big babe that have too much money. cos she cant believe I turned down d offer.
there is nothing wrong in being a loner. very few self-disciplined girls exist, so cut ur coat according to ur size. if u have been unlucky with friends in d past (like me) u will understand that being a loner is d best oh. forget all those babes that form #wcw on instagram with their so-called bestos. theres a lot of sh*t that goes on within them. they wont tell u how they rotate bfs. yeye dey smell!!
The one me hear wey i shock,
ReplyDeleteGirl: daddy, these are my friends A, B,C and D.
Father: Nice to meet you all. Later Papa come dey pick B frequentsly from school, giv her money and spoil her. when the girl go dey complain for scdhool say papa no dey pick calls, she neeeds more money etc, Everybody go lock up because them know say papa dey give B 100k weekly. na hear i hear am o, so no be only boo house u no suppose carry friends go oooooo...
Maimi wow you brave o, your story be like tales of moonlight we dey hear when we small... My dear sometimes God will bring better female friends ones way. Its not easy sha, i recently rekindled my friendship with one of my elder cousins, for now i am learning a lot of things from her, and i am enjoying it. Simlpy siad if they don't add good value to your life, cut them off. Not all girls are bad, but the desperate ones, biko zone them, because they can kill you... Stella you like asking about our stories, one day you must tell us your own o...
ReplyDelete@poster u be Learner sha but thank God u have learnt ur lesson.I do have a few good friends(very few) cos no man is an island although dey live very far from me and dy know dia boundary. I still am a #Teamonemanriot#,#teamonemansquad#, #teamnochopshit#.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was dating hubby,nobody knew him facially until d day of my wedding except for 2 of my colleagues who saw us at an eatery.
My husband who worships d ground I walk,my friend go begin give am orange abi purple light. I laugh in swahili,
@Nil- Trust me it wasn't easy. but look at d downsides
ReplyDelete1. anyday my wedding hits the blogs babe will be first to comment that we had a 3some and I used d proceeds to better my life-lol. even if I didn't.
2. evry othe 3some doing babe in school back then would have heard and I would have been the 3rd party of their sex orgy request.
3. her bf may have liked fresh pussy, they will call me bf snatcher. even when I was on my own oohh
4. d man may not have liked pussy enough. he would have told all d men in town how I am a 3some tool.
5. 1 million was money then, but its not money to me now. would have hated myself after all the possible negative outcomes may have happened. so I am happy I didn't do it.
My dear, I hate complications in life. I hate drama as well. I stayed away from it ll. and God is helping me somehow.
if u see d epistle I wrote before the server closed my network connections. Anyways please my own is open or heart for love to come in, if this current boo is very okay biko settle down with him, husbands no dey market. as for your friends leave then karma don dey work on top their heads. This guy sounds respectable so please give him a chance, stop playing that revenge card. In the end, its you that will get hurt because you did not see the diamond in your hand, cos you were hell bent on hurting your friend. God has a way of making pasts friendships and relationships, future homes. as for the threesome its okay u did not do it, because in the end the way u will work for that 1million, shame no go let you talk am out. @Miami
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