SEXUAL CONSUMATION BTWEEN A MINOR AND AN ADULT?......The burden of proof comes in here.yes or no?
how do you prove an adult is having sex with a minor?
''Hello Stella,compliments of the day. I trust this meets you and your family well. There's this alarming issue that has stayed put on my mind and i'd like for lawyers and learned persons on your blog to throw more light on this issue.
SEXUAL CONSUMATION BTWEEN A MINOR AND AN ADULT.
I have a neighbour who's an engineer and a little well-off. Very much single so I have never had a problem with the number of women that flock to his apartment. Married and single alike,thats his business not mine. I became duly concerned when I noticed a young girl in high school uniform always coming around. I have been working from home for a while so it's hard to miss these goings and comings.
She cooks and cleans while around and at about4pm,when she's supposedly closed from her lessons,she heads home.
Recently I. Was forced to call her in and speak to her. She opened up to me and I found out she's just 15 and in SS2 class and she calls him my boyfriend.
I spoke to her as I would my child and she stopped coming Only for my husband to tell me that he has received certain reports that I do not mind my business. Obviously the girl told him her reason for cutting off and he reported me to my husband for intruding into his affair.
Stella I cannot close my eye to certain things and this is one of them. I want to know,is there no law protecting the Nigerian girl child? There ought to be a law against crimes like this.She's just 15 for pete's sake,a minor and this man in his early 30's feels very comfortable stealing her adolescence.
If there's an NGO addressing issues like this,please let me know.
Have a lovely day.
*It is good you want to blow the whistle on him but a whistleblower has no protection in Nigeria so think of that as well.
Please drop your contact here if you can help her...Thank you!
This is a serious issue o
ReplyDeleteWhich kine amebo woman b dis? U stated that u see her coming into his house. U neva saw him kidnapping her. She comes on her own accord. N she told u in her own words he is her boyfriend. What is ur business. Run ur home n stop being....
DeleteTo d point u even spoke 2 her? I feel sorry 4 u. Which do u prefer? Her fellow 15 year old 2 impregnate her? At least he is matured, takes care of her. U r too nosey mehn. Ur husband de try o
DeleteI do know anything about Nigerian Law but as stella said, you should think about your safety if you are to report this paedophile. This is just too sad, the things that people get away with in Nigeria. Thank God for GBR ;-)
DeleteIts really crios...therez no protection for whistleblowers in nig.
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As far as I'm concerned, this man has not committed any offence under the law. It is an affair that is consented to by two "mature" minds. It is not a crime and he can't be charged for any crime under the law. However, the act is against the law of God and morality.
DeleteD gal goes dere on her n not forced! He dsnt maltreat her or forces her to do stuffs, amebo! U must b one of those jobless hos wives in my neighbourhood always standing in line to find gossips....get busy amebo!
DeleteWow!!! Nigerians really have some fucked up minds. How is the poster an amebo? How is a 15 y/o a matured minded person? 4real it's good to travel out n educate yourself.. too much of Naij is bad for the blood.. As in I'm so pissed reading the comments from the two anon and Gentle Gaint.
DeleteStop showing your ignorance Gentle Giant and d others. That girl is a minor and the man is committing a crime- having sex with a minor. Mbok, even if she does there on her own accord. Pls pp, reead wide and aquint yourself with global truths and dnt limit urselkves to Nigerian mentality.
DeleteGod bless you dearly for this comment. A fifteen year old girl is a minor worldwide who can easily be enticed by a significant other with material things just to get her in bed which can culminate into series of abortion. Poster you are doing a great job a concerned citizen ought to be doing. Only if Nigerians can think outside the box,that country will be in good shape. Am not in naija I would have been more than happy to assist. Please help before another life is being destroyed. And a situation of leave my house if you can't conceive within a certain period of time arise!!!
DeleteDear poster I tink d best u can do is wat uve done. Talking 2 d teenage girl as she were ur own. But going further 2 b asking about an NGO or Law is against d act is wat a call busy body. No go put ur husband/family 4 wahala. Atleast u said ursef she stopped coming around so leave it at dat. Law kor NGO ni
DeleteI'm shocked at some peoples responses. so many paedophiles lurking around. May God save your souls
DeleteDear poster, please ignore everyone hurling insults. I cannot seem to get over this particular story so after giving it much thoughts let me share my story and I mean this happened to me. When I was about this girl's age, a guy moved into our area. Much older probably in his 30s. He asked me out , after much persuasion and promises and all what have you, I fell for him. I started seeing him. He knew quite well I was very scared of my parents so he encouraged me not to to say to anyone about us and anytime he wanted me to visit him at home, he would ask me to meet him at a junction then pick me up in his car, drive past my house o and then we would get to his place. All this while, I would duck in the care so no one can see me but after sometime someone did and told my parents. There isn't anything bad in drawing people's attention to such situations as this cos in the future that girl will be grateful to you. My parents were very rattled and unhappy but the whistle blower could come put directly to tell my parents who the person was. Just simply told them to keep an eye on me as I was been seen with a guy. I of course went back to my supposed boyfriend and told him. Naive as I was and he did make life miserable for the whistle blower. After sometime, I realised it wasn't just me in his life as he told me, much older ladies and all sorts of ladies sef. I then started to say no to him anytime he called me to see him. Mind you this guy is the first and last person who took me to an hotel to sleep with me. I cannot even begin to recount the things he made me do. Looking back now I realised I was abused. I could never say no as he would indirectly threaten me and one day he carried out his threat.
DeleteHe called me one day and asked me to meet him at his friend's place. I got there he was nice and all, calling me his little baby and telling me how much he loved me and missed me. As soon as the friend stepped out , he stood up and locked the door. I told him I wanted to go but he became a beast. He told me to take off my clothes gently or be prepared for the worst. I thought it was a joke until he stood up and slapped me so hard. I immediately obeyed when I rrealised he probably had it all planned with his friend and if I died there no one would know what had happened to me. This guy had sex with me forcefully, I don't want to call it rape cos even though that's what he did , I just cannot come to terms with me. When he was done he pushed me to the floor and he stood up and threw my clothes in a big bowl of water which I think he had brought into the room for God knows what. I wept so hard infact I have never told anyone this and this is the first time I am sharing this here and even revisiting that past.
Fast forward years later he adds me on Facebook. What a joke and what insult. This guy if I should mention him is a very popular person, he got married to one actress like that sha but their marriage packed up and she is married to someone else now. Such painful memories. To think I was stupid enough at that age to think of love and believe such lies.
So please don't blame the girl and I think you did right only that you should have told her parents rather than the girl just for your own safety. God bless you.
Am 30 years old now but I really haven't been able to get over it, I kind of feel a bit of release typing this up. I never accepted his friend request and I blocked him completely. I mean who does that after all he did to me.
Am a regular blog visitor but I will go anon on this one.
It is painstakingly amazing to read how shallow minded some people are. What a big shame that the poster can be insulted by mothers and mothers to be.
DeleteBy law he is wrong. Socially he is convictable. At 15 she has been monopolised and cajoled mentally by an older and a stronger gender into having an illicit affair with an adult. It is gross, an offence which her parents can take up on her behalf...although not without her full cooperation.
While he may not have raped her, because I suspect that is the reason most of u here are justifying the crap, the juvenile correction organisation can arrange a surveillance with the help of the whistleblower. The girl can be questioned again mildly and unsuspecting while being recorded secretly.
So to be certain that Infact she says he's her 'boyfriend' with definition. Once confirmed, on that basis alone he can be nailed even without being caught performing any sexual act with her.
Her parents may wish to also pursue a redress in court on her behalf ..and he can be convicted for carrying an illicit affair with a juvenile. Hell yes it's a punishable offence by law. Are u kidding me??
Lawyers over to you guys. Educate us pls.
ReplyDeleteI saw one of my neighbours f..king a litle girl of about 12years in his corrido, I could not take so I stop and interrupted them, insult the guy and the girl ran away, I was sopissed n mad. Hmmm at nite the guy came to my house with groups of young agborus, its my brothers that save me that day oh, they beg them that am not ok, that "na small pikin they worri our sister" the guys na demanded 4 money, and tok som tinz out of the house. Am now mute oh
DeleteIn countries where things work correctly, this man would be serving time. Ask Akon how sleeping with a 17yr old who threw herself at him almost ruined his career. Ask R. Kelly why he's the acclaimed king of R n B yet hasn't been officially given the title (in Neyo's voice). If you are on this blog and you do this pls stop. Activate your conscience
DeleteUnfortunately statutory rape is not known in Nigerian criminal code. What we have is rape or defilement(involving children and adults). A 15 year old girl is regarded as a juvenile under Nigerian law and the only way an adult can be prosecuted or charged with rape is if the prosecution can prove 1. Penetration and, 2. Said Penetration was done against her will. Of cos the "my boyfriend" title throws the 2nd element of rape out the window. More importantly court cases in Nigeria are not as straight forward as you think, too many technicalities. You don't even have the locus in this matter, only the girl can file a complaint at the police station and clearly, that ain't gonna happen.
DeletePoster,face your work ohh...mind your damn business..mtcheeew...
ReplyDeleteI know your type,busy body...
Lol
DeleteAnd u r a mother??? Most times I know your comments are just to make people laugh, but when issues as serious as these are raised, can u make an insightful contribution or just shut d hell up? This could be your child madam, hope u know that.
DeleteLinda, imagine someone molesting your child while you are away. I guess you will be excited since you sleep with little children already. I mean, you said so yourself. Keep at it until their mothers catch you and stick a knife through your throat.
DeleteI don't want to believe you are as stupid and your comment. If the minor is your sister or daughter would you "face your work. And mind your business"? Silly cow.
DeleteQueen Queen....how na? Ezenwanyi dey dia??? ....................OKIJA WIFE
DeleteU keep spewing rubbish from that hole in ur face u call a mouth!u will have a daughter soon so that u will know exactly how it feels. Beauty without brains!Anuofia!
Delete@Djfx...wats funny?if u r so daft u don't hv anytin reasonable 2 say on delicate issues like dis,den shut ur gutters...@ la effizy,dont hate,anon 9.53,10.37 nd 10.57...my plenty regards are in order!!!Spot on!!!
DeleteClueless anonymous clown...
DeleteIs she really a minor? - I thot the legal age of consent has been reduced to 13 by the senators. Or isn't that what Stella Damascus and a few other women where angry abt. Have we forgotten senator Yerima so suddenly?
DeleteHmmmmmm. In dis country, such is no big deal
ReplyDeleteNa wah oooOh.God pls protect my dota frm all dis psychopath nigga.over 2d lawyers on board.
ReplyDeleteA 15 year old girl has two kids in my hood. Her parents don't even care.ya dunno the kinda background she came from.so mind your business poster before you become a target.
DeleteDisgusting behaviour from one who should know better! And in full view of the public as well!
ReplyDeleteWell done ma'am for having a conscience. I believe some of the NGO's that deal with women's righjts may also have an interest in the protection of the girl child.
I can't remember the name of one them that has been advertised often on this blog.
FIDA ( I hope I'm right; the group of female layers that take up causes on behalf of other women), might also be able to help.
Please act anonymously. This is Naija not 'obodo oyibo'. For yours and your family's safety. God bless.
Nne jes close ur eyes o. B4 that mkpi harms you. Stupid Pedophile
ReplyDeleteNne jes close ur eyes o. B4 that mkpi harms you. Stupid Pedophile
ReplyDeleteClose your eyes syndrome is what is killing Nigeria! You guys shld keep wallowing in it! That why corruption has eaten so deep that it hasnt got any cure.
DeletePoster pls find out where this girl lives, and report her straight to her parents. You xan do it anonimously, without the girl knowing you blew the whistle. Pls do the right thing and do not turn a blind eye to it.
Bank.
What insolence. Give me the guy's details and if I don't nail him no be my papa born me. I will so follow him to kirikiri where inmates will bastardize his ass hole. How can u tell the woman to mind her business? Madame poster, if u mind ur business I pray God will not mind His business when it's ur turn.
DeleteYou have been made to see this for a reason. Remember that he who watches over others, it is God that watches over his own too. Your kids will someday spread across the country for a reason or the other. Either to school or work. And what u do now will determine whether urs will meet with favour form a person who would also keep an eye on their affairs for their betterment. Need I say more madame? I leave u to ur conscience.
Thank you o Sisi eko. I'm amazed at the number of women asking the poster to mind her business. With mothers like these, no wonder we have so many paedophiles, rapists and other irresponsible young men around.
DeleteImagine the useless man having the audacity to report to her husband. I wish poster's husband had gone back to give him a tongue lashing for defiling a minor
Dis is disgusting... D little gal might be enticed bcos of his money.... Av u tried finding out about d gal's parents?? Maybe u should talk with dem. Or report to any NGO or police station... Just know dat everything u do is at ur own risk cos dis is Nigeria where anything goes.... By d way, pls poster which work do u do from home?? Am planning my future and am also interested in working from home.... Like a housewife thing....
ReplyDeleteThe poster does have the legal right to file a complaint at the police station. The only people who can do that are the parents of the girl or the girl herself. As sad as it may be, the only charge the guy can face is unlawful carnal knowledge of a minor. It isn't rape nor molestation(she's 15 years). Having pointed this out, it's one thing to file a complaint and a whole different ball game to prosecute this matter in court. This girl has to be willing to testify and reveal all the sordid details. God help you if the guy has a pitbull counsel who would tear the girl apart during cross-examination! Take it from me, it's only a girl who really feels victimised who can go through the rigours of a trial. A courtroom is more serious than you may imagine.
DeleteA country where the senate themselves have passed a law in support peadophilia, how can that country have a law addressing issues like this?
ReplyDeleteYour comment will be visible after approval
Exactly my thoughts.
DeleteBiko bia, Alloy,ive been meaning to ask you ; this "your comment will be visible approval " is it your signature or what ?
DeleteCos I "doesn't gerrit"...
This is serious. Perhaps the girl has the body features of an adult. Only a maniac or pedophile would screw a 15year old. tueh!
ReplyDeleteVisit segunakinleye.blogspot.com for your topical issues, relationship tips, the latest news, commentaries and lifestyle
When the Engineer is trying to groom his intending bride,jealous blog visitor who has been eyeing engineer is dying silently and fighting battles with both seen and unseen forces.
ReplyDeleteIn all your nosey write up,I didn't see where d girl confessed to being sexed or molested.
Do you know when I met DH?
I met him the day I was born.
Oya kee ya self
That 15 year old might even know more than your nosey head can contain.
Fia!!!
Calm down madam
DeleteHahahahahahah
DeleteCome 2 think of it. I met my DH when i was 16 and dated for 5years and got married. Mind u, we both knew exactly what we were doing and he was not in his thirties, but i just feel this isnt a big deal. Madam reporter, when did u lose your virginity?
DeleteYou are disgusting to be called a mother...mamie I wish I could spit on u....
DeleteU r a disgrace to have typed such nonsense supporting d man
Now I know you're crazy !!!!
DeleteMamie! I just dont know what to do wit u!and i just dont wanna give up on u dear...not yet.kikiki @ d day u were Born.really Mamie?! I swear ur head dey shake.LMAO
DeleteThank you Mamie.. .I don't think it's sexual abuse. Who knows maybe the guy is grooming her for marriage.
DeleteSick Mamie,bipolar patient!u should be in the psychiatric hospital.U will have a girl child soon and know how it is!mgbeke ugbofia!btw,I'm not the poster.
DeleteYou this mamie tho!
DeleteI couldn't agree more with you! Poster pls mind your business
DeleteHer age is not the issue here, but the education. According to poster, the girl misses school everyday, comes here cook, clean, fuck and then close from "school"....yea right here is the issue.
DeleteBank.
Kai, too many useless and irresponsible mothers here. You should form a group already with Mamie as the president and Linda Eze as Vice president.
DeleteU jumped the gun already. You shd hv found a way of reporting the situation to relevant institution rather than addressing it directly by yourself. Did u think d girl won't tell her 'boyfriend' wat u said??? now u r branded a busybody. Can u take the heat? Hwever I think for fear of the trouble escalating, d girl won't come there again.
ReplyDeleteIs better u mind ur business since u av bin reported to ur husband now......
ReplyDeleteCuriosity is what kills d cat and made d monkey receive a bullet in his forehead,wen he peeped. Wetin concern u 4 d matter,if a 15yr old decides to fuck a well older man,that's her problem nt urs,say d truth u dey eye d young man abi,cuz if not,i wonder y u can't face ur family problems nd settle it. Na dis kain young gals we dey call 'So Solid'. Reminisces. Renegade says so.
ReplyDeleteSpot on!
DeleteCuriosity is what kills d cat and made d monkey receive a bullet in his forehead,wen he peeped. Wetin concern u 4 d matter,if a 15yr old decides to fuck a well older man,that's her problem nt urs,say d truth u dey eye d young man abi,cuz if not,i wonder y u can't face ur family problems nd settle it. Na dis kain young gals we dey call 'So Solid'. Reminisces. Renegade says so.
ReplyDeleteNigerian women are nosey bitches i swear too God.
ReplyDeleteIf you were fulfilled and happy in your own marriage, you would mind your business.
this is why i dont want to get married and many men too these days...youre just looking for husbands to tie down and be all in their business 24/7...
pls get a life and a real job....stupid ho
You don't want to get married or they refused to marry you. Which one is it?
DeleteI wonder why you decided to insult a concerned fellow with this your badly constructed English. You better spend time to develop your English and learn how to use punctuation marks before going around to call people names.
DeleteI'm so ashamed of what we Nigerian women have become! So at 15, a girl is mature enough to know what is good for her and doesn't need guidance? I don't gerrit o! A man seduces and misguided a 15 year old into spending school hours in his house and doing "wifely" duties and you all think it's right? May the same happen to your daughters and may there be no good samaritan to talk senses into her...amen! I for one really respect this woman for not "minding her business". I will do what she did anytime, anyday! A mother isn't just someone who has kids, it's someone who looks out for all kids ( everyone below the age of 18 is a child!). Thank you!
Delete1000 likes, ma'am
DeleteStella this your advice is discouraging oh..
ReplyDelete@poster obey your conscience and do what it tells you to
But I'm sure some 15yr old girls have sugar daddies.
madam ill say mind your business,can 15 be called a minor in nigeria? remember at 15 some ppl get married,you will be shocked her parents are aware of the relationship and see nothing wrong in it,he might even hv promised her marriage.in nigeria most of these things are allowed because of our various culture.ill say it again,let it go.
ReplyDeleteShe is 15, Adolescent stage, she needs counselling and guidance.
ReplyDeleteShe leaves school to come and do his chores, does it mean she doesn't want a career for herself???
She calls him her boyfriend...well..... That's none of my business
Hehehe!
ReplyDeleteD poor gal is doing compulsory IT(industrial training).
She is chopping d head of her life biko.
A 15yr old NIG girl knows wat sh is doing.
She resumes work 8am and closes 4pm.
U can only call and advice her, or threaten to trace her hom n report her(d later is wat my mom wld do.)
Anytin outside dis wld involve police wc isn't even an option sins e is well to do.
Lmao
DeleteMy point exactly! She knows fully well what she's doing.
DeleteIt's neither here nor there really.
I got into my first relationship @ 16 when I got into Uni and the guy was 24. And he was very good to me and though I'm married to someone else,we are friends till this day.
As for this story, u never know what his intentions are though in most cases, these men just use them and dump them.
I'm only concerned about the part where she skips school just to do house chores plus his antecedents of having many females troop in and out of his apartment. Sounds like a player.
He may just be using her or "grooming" her. Who knows?
Your best bet is to alert her parents.
If indeed the guy has good intentions for her then it should be a "guided" relationship (by her parents of course)
That girl will deny your allegation and you get yourself into trouble,be careful.If you can get hold of her parents or guardian maybe they can follow up
ReplyDeleteDear Madam, I have a 17 year old and understand exactly the way you feel. I think you should either report the matter to the girls parents and (or) the school authorities. That's what I would suggest. As a parent if someone sees my daughter doing this sort of thing and reports her to me, I would appreciate a lot. The worst part is that this man would use and dumped this little girl and it would disorganise her life. Sad. God help us.
ReplyDeleteIt was great you spoke to the child. That's d Nigeria I know where we look out for eachother. The man is irresponsible but next time whistle with care n involve your husband from the very start
ReplyDeleteMadam, please I beg you in God's name mind your business o! You were kind enough to address the girl, and she stoped coming over, don't you think you have done enough for her. And the foolish man reporting you to your hubby, don't your think if you press further there would be trouble? Please my dear face your work and the man and his wahala. WARISA AKA. HAJIA BRINGY BRINGY
ReplyDeleteThis is serious
ReplyDeleteDear poster.
ReplyDeleteI think you did the right thing. Do not that weigh on your conscience negatively. It obviously worked too because the neighbor now knows there is someone in the neighborhood who will not stand for it. Some may call it gbeborun, I call it being a responsible human being.
The problem in Nigeria is people would turn their faces on what is blatantly wrong. If that were their 15 years old daughter, would they encourage her to follow a 30yrs old man? But then again, they may if he were rich.
SMH
-Ajala
She visits her “boyfriend” on her freewill. She was not raped nor molested. Poster, abeg face your work.
ReplyDeleteThat is y wen i say all engineers are bastards and all female engineers are prostitutes. I have first hand knowledge. They are very promiscuous. Anything in skirt they will try. I dislike dem so much. Companies like J.... and D...... are at the top of this. they even go after their IT students..
ReplyDeleteLmaoo.
DeleteStory of a pained used and dumped ashawo.
Go and die
Dats y ur fada and ur mother are generational dogs. Will u shut up incest filled family dog.it is ur great grandmother that is an ashawo.fall down and die. Fool
Deletepeople screaming "mind your business". damn. my country's morals is in the toilet. at least you tried poster. kudos
ReplyDeletedirty pedophiles the lot of them. but it wouldnt surprise me that that childs mother is in on it. Selling their girl kids off to the highest bidder. damn shame
Poster u v done enough for her, pls lv the decision for her to make so u won't harm urself n family.
DeleteShame on you lots, see the kind of comments one is seeing here from useless women who call themselves mothers, u fools are disgrace to motherhood, am highly dissapointed with wot am reading. If care is not taking, ur sons and daughters will be raped by paedohiles in broad day light so u konw how it feel. Ashawo good for nothing house wives.
QUEEN AMY:
DeleteLine 10: *If care is not TAKEN*
Line 12: *So you know how it FEELS*
ONE LOVE!
That's child abuse o! Please what are parents doing these days, eh?
ReplyDeleteBtw madam Stella, I crave your indulgence abeg. I need a 2/3 bed within surulere and environs, favorable to a single lady who works from home and I will love to deal directly with house owners. I have been duped by Lagos agents.
Please it's very urgent. Thanks
What part of surulere do you want? And what do you do for a living?
DeletePlease visit tolet.com.ng. U'll see any apartment of ur choice in any area u wish.
DeleteVery sad to see all these comments. A 15 year old is a child, if she was dating her mate that's ok but not a 30 year old. If it were me I would not mind being branded a busy body. The only problem is I wouldn't trust any nigerian institutions to take of the issue. So find a way to (anonymously) let her parents know and let them deal with it. If it were my child, I would appreciate the information.
ReplyDeletewhy support evil ds woman saw sthg wrong n did sthg abt it here pp r calling her nosey i wld do d same if i c such poster u ve done wel il advice u leave dm alone dre's no need goin further @least 4 d sake of ur marriage if d girl decide 2 start behavin like ds at ds stage of her life good 4 her
ReplyDeleteMadam,u ve done ur part,n i get ur point,esp.if u ve kids too.But don't go any futher,respect ur hubby n mind ur biz,cos like u said she has stopped coming,unless u ve hidden motives uve nt stated.Angela Anaconda.
ReplyDeleteThis is normal in Nigeria. You'd be surprised that the girl is okay with it. I don't think there is a law in Nigeria. Some of these small girls will throw themselves to you. They like it old, because I have lived in America I won't engage in such act but to some of those girls it is normal. After all at age 16 some are already done with high school and getting into university, you now tell me if they won't have sex in college? I don't see anything wrong with a 15yrs old if she's not been raped. But look at back in the days our mothers married at this age. Not that I'm saying it's right but it's the society that we all live in. Madam easy o make you nor use you head carry person problem this one that he reported to your husband. You don't know who and what he is.. Na naija you dey nor be obodo Oyinbo
ReplyDeletePoster olofofo
ReplyDeleteWetin concern you
Mind your own business Goddammit!
I seriously dislike your type
Mscheew
Chei see comments. I have been laffing like a native American.
ReplyDeletePhrinkies, you wicked sha. Infact if to say you be spirit, I foe make you head agbara.
Working from home ko, house wife ni.
U feel you now live in yankee as per Internet.
Hahahahahahaha. Engineer go lock you up.
Face your soup. While doing that, read the constitution.
Oh pls shattap!!! What cave did u crawl out from? I work for samsung and I work from home. I live in abuja.
DeleteI go to the office one day in two weeks so what are you on about???
May Amadioha strke ur mouth.how dare u. U think u r dealing with some kid. I promise you, hardship will befall you. To know I am real, u will be involved in an accident before this weekend is over.
DeleteImagine.
You dare Agwoturumbe....mbanu. no one dares.
Lekwanu anu mpama. Where did you come from to tag my comment? I just finished sending my igurube to you. Today you will learn not to insult people whether online or real life.
DeleteYou live in Abuja and work in Samsung...abi. ha ga chu gi na oru.
Ewu
Olololololo....u want to know the cave I came out from???? The cave where you will come and look for your otu.
DeleteU are as fake as ur name!all other gods are the works of men! May job 5:12 be ur portion in Jesus name! I'm not the anony.
DeleteAccident? You are just an evil person mtscheew
DeleteReally? @ rumour has it and Mr native Dr.
DeleteDr Agwotururmbe,this is harsh biko...come-on...its not that serious joor...e never reach like this...although those una curses on this blog no dey work...
DeleteDr Agwoturumbe, up until now, ive enjoyed your sense of humor and always look forward to your comments and laugh really hard but I find this very distasteful.
DeleteYou know, in life there's always just a very thin line bw 2 extremes and you've simply gone overboard here.
We all come here to talk and it's perfectly ok for people to disagree lightly over issues but spewing this much bile is totally out of line.
Like I always tell people, "Be careful what you wish others... cos YOU just might get it.
#NotImpressed#
#Totallydissapointed#
May all your curses be visited on you till your 10th generation. Bloody bastard !!! You think say na for Mouth? You speak, I act.
DeleteWatch your life wither away like dust. You will beg for death, but it won't come. Stay tuned...
Bia, whoever this is using my name, stop it. Haba.
DeleteIf you want to spew vile and hate, look for your own name.
I come here but will never cuss anyone. Abeg stop this.
Why do people like impersonating others. The other day it was Jagbajantis. If you so much want to be a N.Dr get ur own name biko.
I still don't know how people hate. Someone once called me illiterate and I agreed with them.
Biko I don't cuss.
Thank God that was not the real N.Dr. AgwoturuMbe. I've always known him to have a good sense of humour, not spew this type of terrible curses.
Deletethis is the main reason why we have a lot issues in this country, u guys saying she is busy body , will keep quiet and close ur eyes if she was to be ur sister or daughter? kai where is our moral value? 15yr old kini , God Forbid and for your information most neighbours in the western countries don't mind their damn business, ur child is screaming or crying the next is police at ur door step, ur car has been in ur garage for days, the next tin police at ur door step, u peep thru ur windows towards ur neighbours house and they notice it the next tin is police. Nne forget matter oyibo tafia pass us oo.
ReplyDelete@ poster trace her home and invite her people 2 watch then wash off ur hands for the matter.
You spoke with the girl and she has stopped visiting, so wats the issue again? If it were me, I would have traced her school and reported to the head teacher so that when Kasala burst, it won't be linked with me. The heart of men is desperately wicked.
ReplyDeleteMadam poster! U be gbeborun, d man shld av poured shit on u, it's none of ur goddamn business. 15 isn't too small na, e de sweet am n I'm sure d guy isn't raping her n did she tell u he's d one dat deflowered her? Ur family no hook u for mind ba? Abeg go Sambisa n free our girls for us if Naso young girls matter dey touch u for heart. Piisshh!
ReplyDeleteYou are just vile...
DeleteThey will do same to ur daughter and nobody will tell u till she's heavily pregnant!stupid women we have on this blog! I spit on u all talking trash!
DeleteExactly o, b4 the 'blower' will become the 'blowee'...you have said it all.
ReplyDeleteThe 15yr old knows what she is doing
ReplyDeleteAdvice her,look for her parents and tell them to advice her since u're interested in her matter
Kids of nowadays ehn...minor ko,major ni
Poster what is your business ehn? Amebo like you.who told you a 15 year old is not old enough and that she doesn't know what is happening? How do we know he is molesting or sexing her.biko I like your husband he is very correct,mind your damned business and concentrate on other important issues.as long as she's not forced and no case of rape,I don't see an issue here.At what
ReplyDeleteage did Omotola meet her husband,all those BVs that marry at 18 and 19 at what age did they meet their spouse.for all we know he might just be using her as a maid only,since she cooks and cleans and promising her heaven and earth or grooming her to be his wife as as he has fucked all the girls in his age range and he might also be sexing her but that one na her and her mama's wahala.Stop doing what her mother is supposed to do,which is keep eye on her girl child,face your children and mind them! I remember when I was 15 vividly which was not too long ago and I can tell you my mates and I knew more than married people.ejo fi omo obirin le, kosi kankan iyoonu e.
Of course u will be seen as a busy body that doesn't mind her biz. What u should have done is to find out about the girl's parents or guardian and stylishly bring it to their attention that is if they are not aware of it already. Like stella rightly advised, whistle blowers are not protected in Nigeria. I know of a family that lost their dad to "armed robbers" becos the man advised their house help then who was impregnated by a man nobody knows what he does for a living not to marry the man becos he is a suspected armed robber. The man even told the help's family that his family will cater for the baby's upkeep. The girl went and told her "boyfriend" and the poor man ended up dead. The family received a letter from the help's boyfriend two days later saying that he killed the man becos he was poking his nose into another person's business. So my dear poster, pls thread softly.
ReplyDeleteMadam this your Aproko will soon put you in trouble. If you like the young man, better go and collect your share. You'll be in your house and still try to know who enters and go out of your neighbour's house...Rubbish
ReplyDeleteMadam MIND UR BUSINESS, e nor consign u. Besides she can tell u they're not doing anytin,n u have no way of proving odawise.
ReplyDeleteThe truth is that this lady posting this is badly tripping for the engineer.she is merely jealous
ReplyDeleteThe truth is that this lady posting this is badly tripping for the engineer.she is merely jealous
ReplyDeletePoster, what you should have done is find the parents of this girl and tell them about what is going on. It would now be left to them to seek any form of redress available to them. Haba poster! Don't jump the gun. You haven't spoken to her people but are already searching for links to an NGO. What if her folks know about it and are cool with the arrangement. Think about it.
ReplyDeleteErrm,this is somewhat a dicey situation. I don't remember hearing of any law in Nigeria that strictly covers this kind of crime in Naija as is the case in other developed countries. Or maybe it's not such a crime here??? *just wondering*
ReplyDeleteJudging from a moral standpoint,and being a mum. I can only imagine your concern.
Plus come to think of it, girls much younger than her get married off in the north so I'm afraid it might not be such a big deal in Nigeria.
However, I think the only authority this "whistle blowing" will make much sense to will be her parents.
Goodluck
Ma'am you should have find a way of reaching her parents if you truly wanted to help cos anything you tell her will get back to the so called bf! But as your hubby don say make you mind your biz... Remove hand for the matter! No go buy market wey dey no sell give you!!!
ReplyDeleteHope say you no be dis kind neighbors wey if person dey shit see you him go sidon on top am make you no see the colour ba? #justasking
Super _cute:
Delete*You should have FOUND a way* not *You should have FIND a way*
ONE LOVE!
kai the illiteracy of peeps on this blog is something else. the usual suspects are lesbian linda, mamie and that fool who used is instead of it is. think about it, if this was your daughter or sister would you keep quiet? the fact that it happened to you does not mean it should happen to others. the man may start grooming some others and may even go younger. find an NGO and report it.
ReplyDeleteShe's 15 and not a baby, she knows what she's doing. My cousin was 13 in JSS when she started going after guys for money. Abeg, forget about it. You think she was a virgin before she started doing "it" with the guy? Don't lose sleep over another person's wahala. If she's not with the Engineer today, she'll be with Teacher tomorrow.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, the Principal or Proprietor of Igbinedion Education Centre in Benin used to bring some of his JSS/SSS pupils to the hotel where I worked. They usually have threesome or whatever some because he never brought one, always two or three. The MD of the hotel knew about it, this is one of the reasons I resigned.
So poster forget this matter.
Things are happening in this country.
DeleteWell, I don't think she's a kid anyway, cos at 15?, she should be able to decipher right form wrong.
ReplyDeletePoster, I would sugggest you mind your business or still, your advise to her would have been; if you chose to date the man, fine but concentrate on her studies and avoid unwanted pregnancies.
I get u póster.someone like me wont turn a blind eye as well.and m Sure I would have done wot u did.buh now here is where My problem is.any normal Man doing wot he is doing would have ran and hid his head in shame.buh no,he Went ahead n reported u to ur hubby.now dats a DANGEROUS Man.a WICKED Man,A PEADOPHILE n a LUNATIC. so tread softly.i wil advise u to protect urself...i dont know any NGO regarding dis buh i know dere is something like child welfare in police stations.at least in ma own police división.and dey r serious about crimes against kids.so go n check ur police station.n while there,mention u are concerned about d Man and u Fear for ur safety.i am Sure u wil be Fine.buh Pls madam woteva u do,dont let dat Man ruin dat young girl.ur Reward is in Heaven.God bless U.
ReplyDeleteGenerals wife, God bless you. We have truly lost our morals from responses I've seen so far. Poster, you did the right thing. Bit I'll like to add that what ever step you choose to take involve your husband. May God order your steps..
DeleteHahahahaha generals wife u too funny I swear. Child welfare? Seriously? Biko which country/state u base? Abeg make una stop 2 dey deceive dis poster go enter wahala she nor bargain 4 biko. She's done wat is expected of a responsible woman/mother so let it rest.
DeleteNebor onise-face your work ooo,acid bath is real ooo,for d guy to report u to ur hubby,he's not smiling o,u've spoken to d girl,that's enough,at 15 she has a boyfriend,isn't it good for her,I know some girls that started prostitution at 14,today some of them are married,some are dead,some are still on d street,her destiny is hers to fulfill not urs,if d guy was molesting her I would ve adviced u blow the whistle but obviously she's enjoying it so maintain ur lane o cos we won't contribute nothing to ur plastic surgery o
ReplyDeleteShame on all of you!!!! Big shame! there is no reason for a 15 year old girl to be dating an adult!...somebody in their 30's!
ReplyDeleteAnd to top it off, she now skips school to be playing housewife!....would any of you wish this on your own daughter?
if the girl is doing nothing wrong, why does she come in her uniform, why does she leave at a time that looks like she is returning from school!?
so why now would you be calling the poster names such as nosey.
The mind of and average Nigerian is seriously lacking in!!!!
once again, SHAME on all of you that think the poster is in the wrong!
As in ehn! Can't believe the kind of comments I read. A girl who is supposed to be rounding off exams this period is playing housewife. He obviously wants to ruin her. Shocked mehn
DeleteWhere did she write the girl skips school? U have created ur own scenario. Shame on you too. What if her parents are poor and the guy was paying her fees.
DeleteAll you busy bodies that will not get the facts. If the girl was a beggar and he offers to help her, you all will start screaming God bless you! Increase your pocket etc.
if the guy is paying her fees, all the more reason why he would want her to attend classes. And yes, the poster said that the girl skips classes. I'm so ashamed reading all the comments abusing the poster. Is the same Nigeria I know? A girl skips school to be with an older man and all you ask is, is she a virgin. We all know it's consensual sex (albeit with a minor) but don't you people get the part where
DeleteA) she skips school everyday
B) she makes herself vulnerable to STDS by sleeping with a man that also sleeps with other women
if the guy is paying her fees, all the more reason why he would want her to attend classes. And yes, the poster said that the girl skips classes. I'm so ashamed reading all the comments abusing the poster. Is the same Nigeria I know? A girl skips school to be with an older man and all you ask is, is she a virgin. We all know it's consensual sex (albeit with a minor) but don't you people get the part where
DeleteA) she skips school everyday
B) she makes herself vulnerable to STDS by sleeping with a man that also sleeps with other women
Madam, careful with dis ur report o! You'll be shocked her parent is aware of d whole thing and engineer is prolly taking care of ur supposed minor and her family. I have seen cases like dis, a 15yr old isn't a minor in Nigeria as we speak.
ReplyDeleteStella forget thet matter, girls now ourdays don spoil. i served in looja, in a secondary skul, one day one teacher caughtr some students kissing and fondling themselves, she npw called the 3 girls , wanting to advise them... t=one of the ss1 girls was like mama free,i have men in the palm of my hands, if i want to get pregnat for them or not i know what to do. We free the girl o , cos e be ike say she big pass us... Madam face ur own daughters, aand let the man and girl be, who knows maybe the man has paid her bride price to her parents sef... 9ja no rules protecting the girl child, none at all....
ReplyDelete*Lokoja, *then one of the girl, *
DeleteIt's still wrong, it's 'one of the girls'.
DeleteIn Nigeria, a minor is from 13 years and below. She is not being raped so there really isn't any law to cover your whistle blowing o. This is Nigeria na, you should know that whatever you do is at your own risk. You can talk to her, advise her, but that's it. It is her choice to listen, you cannot make her. That's how life is, it isn't fair. If your counselling doesn't work, please leave her alone and mind your business. Even God will record it for you that you tried.
ReplyDeleteDats how engineers are o my sista.they are very shameless and useless. Most mess around esp wen outside of lag and even within . I hv seen situations where d male engineer will b pusuing his IT staff. He will b taking her to d roof of the building for illicit affairs. I am a worker dere so I knw. His wife just had miscarriage and up till now he hasn't learnt his lesson. Well i wish him all d best. From IT to fellow female workers. His colleagues go after d company cleaners.the list goes on and on
ReplyDeleteAnyways, do not risk your own life trying to help the girl.a man that can sleep with a minor and still reports you to your husband can do anything. More over 15 year old of nowadays don't see themselves as kids.apologise to the guy and maybe after a while, when he must have forgotten your busybody, you could look for someone to go inform her parents and that is if they are not aware yet and given their consent sef.
ReplyDeleteSecond story, in that same lokoja, one child ran away from her aunty, the woman was evil, never fed the girl, will cut her privates, put pepper inside, maltreaded this poor girl, the girl stole gala and water from her shop, cos she had not eaten n days, the woman chased d girl down the street, the girl ran away for a month, they foud this girl in Odo state, my heart broke into pieces, when the Father of the child came, he did not eat for 4 days, he wore one cloth for 4 days. He said he was the one that trained the evil woman, took her to school and she lived with him for years. sadly, when they found the 9yr old girl, she had been raped and used by all those truck drivers, she was thrown by the roadside sef... let me say it was like they were picking a corpse... all these stories came out when she ran away, did not even know the girl before then, i too cry when i hear story..... madam people dey marry by 15 for north so free the girl, and protct your own family... She is not being raped, but being used,instead if u want to help, report the girl to her parents....
ReplyDelete*Ondo state
DeleteYour English needs redemption.
Delete@phrinkles, 9ja police go laugh u die, tell u to face ur housewife duties, no even try am... FIDA is a good option
ReplyDeletePlease listen to Dont hate o, HMMMMM, (ja no easy, leave the girl for her parents, its sad but we honestly CANNOT do anything... if it was Abroad sharp sharp, social services don come.. But 9ja, na you the whistleblower go injure.... Neigbor dont worry, whatever seeed d man is sowing today, they will do it to his daughter tomorrow....
ReplyDeleteI think its better you mind your business. The girl willingly calls him 'her boyfriend'. That shows they are in mutual agreement with whatever they are into. Since the engineer has reported you to your husband, its better you back up before you get more than you bargained for.
ReplyDeleteIf I were you poster I would do one of 2 things.
ReplyDelete1. If I have free time on my hands and don't know what to do with myself, I'll ask her 4 her name, forming friendship with her and then go to her school and report her to the school principal. They should take it from there.
2. As a busy person, I would just mind my business!
Those people saying the woman should mind her business na wa. I fear who no fear una! Madam u were really brave to have spoken to the little girl who chooses to skip sch to spend time with a man 2x her age. Abeg madam since you've spoken to the girl and it's now causing you wahala I will advise you to face your own home. Pray for her in your corner and I am sure things will be well. The Engr could deal with you if angry so just stay your own. The girl get "waka waka" spirit that's why she too no run when am sure her mates will run from such a man.
ReplyDeleteIn Nigeria a Minor under the law is 13.
ReplyDeleteFoolish BV when that girl carry belle now, the guy will either give her money to abort and she dies or reject her. He will not marry her cos he is obviously not a responsible man, even if ge marries her, do you really think he will respect her and take good care of her? 15yrs old girl o wey never finish secondary school talk more of to go university. So for sure she will be a house wife, next thing is domestic violence. It is a vicious cycle. Talk true that man is a paedophile and God will punish him. Dont keep quiet @poster, go to her school talk to her parents. Wicked perverts. Evil bastards. Im taking this very personal. Rubbish. 30 yrs old buffon.
ReplyDeleteMadam this is my take on your story and i have some questions. 1, are you sure your are not one of those useless married women on this blog? 2, are you sure you have not slept with him and now he doesn't want your ass again? 3, if you have not slept with him, are you sure you are not interested in him? 4, how did you know both singles and married visit him? 5, do this married women show you their ring before they enter his room? Be honest madam! To me you are just one jobless house wife that doesn't mind her home. I also put it to you that you reduced the girl's age. Now madam one last question, why do you still want to report the guy when even you said the girl has stopped visiting? MADAM MOST OF US HERE GET SENSE YOU HEAR?
ReplyDeleteU made perfect sense. D most sensible writeup here.
DeleteHABA! All of you should fear God! You call yourselves mothers and yet you call out this poster? Fear God! That man has nothing good to offer that girl. If he means her well, he will be the first to encourage her to stay in school and make something good out of her life. She is naive and the idiot is preying on her naivety.
ReplyDelete@ poster you did the right thing and God will bless you for not turning a blind eye on evil. Ignore all the negative comments here and listen more to the applause heaven is giving you for being bold enough to stand up for what is right. That talk you had with that girl might just be the push she needs to set her path right and stop her from messing up her life. However, I'll like to advise that whatever decision you will like to take now, involve your husband from the get go. May the good lord order your steps....
I can't believe what some pple are saying,haba how can you say a 15 year old knows what she is doing..that girl is a child for God's sake..the bloody old man can't go out for his agemates? even if he loves young girls so much a girl of 18 would be okay..but 15...haba and there are mothers here? Please this is child abuse it's not until a child is raped that it is chid abuse.poster you did the right thing.i think you should report to the girl's school let the school authorities inform her parents.the bloody engineer is feeding that girl with lies.he is a bloody perv..weak man can't even be with a girl his age.
ReplyDeleteThere is no way in the world her parents will know and approve of her going to a mans house during school hours .Poster was specific, she comes in the morning and leaves when school is closed.
ReplyDeleteIt may appear that a 15 year old knows what she is doing but trust me, at that age, you are gullible, naive and likely to go astray if care is not taken.There are certain decisions some people took when they were in their teens that affected and haunted them forever,abortions, taking pills, pregnancy, infections, Hiv etc. Not saying the girl should not date but she needs a whole lot of guidance. If he truly loves her and means well for her, he wouldn't encourage her to skip school, that man is wicked.
Poster, you are not Nosey, you are only concerned about the girls future which is typical of a responsible mother.A better approach would have been to find out the girls school, try and get her name and go report her .Let the school authority take it up with her parents without you in the picture.
It is too late now that the stupid pervert knows you spoke to the girl, you will be the suspect and who knows what length he might go.i advise you back off since you do not have your husbands support.
I am totally irritated by all the people here saying she should mind her business. Imagine one "he goat" of a man sleeping with ur 15 yr old who should be getting ready for ssce. I hope someone tells the whistle blower to mind her business while ur daughters life is traded for 10kobo sex. Crap!!!
ReplyDeleteMOI I completely agree with you. This her story is fishy..
ReplyDelete"To Mamie", I think this is the most disgusting and disappointing comment I have read from you. My goodness. IT'S A 15 year old for crying out loud. what will you do if it was your 15yr old? My goodness, what are we talking about here, that it is ok, for her to hang around a man who is probably old enough to be her father? of course that man must be more than 30 yrs old.
ReplyDeleteIn another 10yrs, or more, she will be full of "had I known" she will wish she had lived a better life. Let me ask a question, is a 15 yr old, old enough or matured enough for matters of the heart? Only God knows how many abortions she has had already for this man.
And am so disappointed at all the people saying she knows what she is doing. DOES SHE REALLY KNOW WHAT SHE IS DOING? what are the effects in 10yrs down the line? what if he is HIV+? If he is actually sexually active as the poster says, how can he be grooming her for marriage? I can bet with my life he will NEVER marry her. when he is done with her he will dump for someone else. And I hope Mamie...your brother,or cousin picks her up for marriage. Lets think carefully and twice before we post comments. My goodness, what is our world turning into...?
Dear, poster, if you can do anything about this situation of the under aged girl, pls by all means while you cover your back. Mamie, And so what if you met your hubby at an early age? Different strokes for different folks.if you like cuss me out, I have spoken and I hope your conscience is still at work.
She is the type that look's for bachelors to fuck when hobby has gone to work. The type that will fuck her electrician , plumber, cook, steward, gardner etc. mtcheeew.
ReplyDeleteyou Nigerians are cursed!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteand to think you sit down and talk rubbish about us in "the western world"!
like WHAT THE FUCK!????
she is a CHILD! He is an ADULT! she SKIPS school to play housewife...and the majority of you are saying "maybe he is just grooming her"...ermm hello! that is not a good thing!
"she is old enough to know what she is doing"....since when did a 15 year old have the same mental capability as a 30 yr old! when did they go through the life experiences to be able to hang around, not to mention date a 30 year old!
KMT somebody that she should be calling uncle.
the guy is a pervert! simple as!!!!! he should not be attracted to a 15 year old girl. What on earth do they talk about?
and to top if off some fools are saying "maybe he plans to marry her later'......marriage is not the be all of life! prospect of marriage should not make us lose our common sense.
yes, he is not forcing her. but that doesn't mean what he is doing isn't wrong! she knows no better!
if this was the UK it would be called RAPE, regardless of whether she consented or not!...why???? because she is underage! she is a child.
oh! and there was one idiot that asked if we would prefer she was dating or sleeping with a boy her age....yes I would prefer that. kids hang out with kids. kids date kid, not grown men!!!!!
the age gap is not the issue. the fact that she is a child is! if he was 40 and she 25, thats different!
wow poverty really is a disease!....disease of the brain! This disease is now the cause of lack of morals.
it's one thing to "approve" of this....its another thing to approve of this and then abuse the poster!...only an evil person can sit down quietly and observe this.
I pity all of you that thinks this is acceptable. I pity all of you that has bashed the poster. I only pray your daughters don't do the same. I only pray that a grown man doesn't use and abuse the innocence of your daughters.
And for those who don't know....the age of sexual consent in Nigeria is 16!
Thank you. God bless you dear one for this intelligent post
DeleteIn fact, the responses almost made me cry.
DeleteI am appalled and so sad with some of the comments I have read here. I didn't know that our morals have gone south. I guess reading some of the comments here have being an eye opener for me.
ReplyDeleteMay God help us raise a generation of children who know their right from their wrong and stick with the right no matter what. Once again dear poster, you did well, however, be careful.
THE COMMENTS ON THIS STORY IS SO HEARTBREAKING!! IT'S OBVIOUS THE MORALS IN MY COUNTRY IS NOW IN THE GUTTER. GOD HELP NIGERIA. OBVIOUSLY YOU ALL ARE THE ARCHITECTS OF YOUR MISFORTUNE IN THAT COUNTRY. HOW DARE YOU SAY IT IS OKAY FOR A 15YEAR OLD TO BE SKIPPING SCHOOL AND PLAYING HOUSEWIFE FOR A MAN TWICE HER AGE. FOR THOSE OF YOU CLAIMING HER PARENTS MAY BE IN ON IT, WHY THEN DOES SHE LEAVE HOME IN HER SCHOOL UNIFORM AND LEAVES THE IDIOT'S HOUSE AROUND 4PM WHEN SHE SHOULD BE CLOSING FROM SCHOOL.
ReplyDelete15 IS DEFINITELY TOO YOUNG TO BE HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH A MAN IN HIS 30s. WHY THE HELL DO YOU ALL THINK ITS RIGHT? THE FACT THAT IT IS COMMONLY DONE DOES NOT MAKE IT RIGHT. SHE'S A CHILD!!!! I COMMNEND THE POSTER FOR STANDING UP AGAINST WHAT IS WRONG!!
YOU OBVIOUSLY DON'T BELONG IN THAT COUNTRY OF MINDLESS AND MORALESS INDIVIDUALS. TELLING HER TO MIND HER BUSINESS, WHAT IF THAT WAS YOUR CHILD??
I CAN'T BELIEVE SOME PEOPLE. THIS USELESS MAN IS OBVIOUSLY HAVING HIS FUN WITH THIS "CHILD" AND WILL OBVIOUSLY MOVE ON WHEN HE'S DONE WITH HER. IF HE WAS "GROOMING" HER TO BE HIS WIFE HE WILL HAVE HER BEST INTEREST AT HEART....LIKE WANTING HER TO FINISH SCHOOL AND GET A GOOD EDUCATION. THAT'S WHAT A REAL MAN GROOMING A WOMAN TO BECOME HIS WIFE WILL DO!!!!!!!!
NOT HAVE HER SKIP HER CLASSES IN"SECONDARY SCHOOL" TO SHAG WITH HIM.
SORRY FOR THE INSULT BUT A LOT OF COMMENTERS ON THIS STORY SO FAR ARE SENSELESS. YOU ARE SO IMBEDDED IN A CULTURE OF FILTH, GREED AND LIES THAT YOU HAVE ALL LOST SENSE OF WHAT IS RIGHT AND WRONG. IT REEKS TO HIGH HEAVENS!
SDK, POST MY COMMENT.
EXTREMELY DISAPPOINTED BLOG VISITOR.
It still amazes me how people, even supposedly matured and intelligent people, would hear only one side of a story and instantly rush to judgment. Haba!
ReplyDeleteMadam hoe face your hobby. The guy dose not want u again.
ReplyDeleteHe left you for the young girl. If not why won't you let go even after she has stopped visiting?
ReplyDeleteSTELLAAAA SOME OF YOUR READERS ARE SICK O HOW CAN YOU GUYS BE ABUSING THE BV THAT DID THE RIGHT THING NO WONDER WE ARE STILL BACKWARDS IN THIS COUNTRY O. (Screaming)
ReplyDeleteThat is what happens to all this married women that sleep around. You all become bitter once this men get tired of your over used asses, go look for and dick to fuck.
ReplyDeleteMadness at its peak@Agwoturumbe or whatever you chose to be called
ReplyDeleteProverb26vs27 and Sirach27vs26 are my prayers for you hence.
Just the moment i had thought i have started liking you, you just threw everything away to the dogs.
You are obviously out of rhymes and chants and now heading for self destruction if time ain't taken.....
Arrant nonsense!!!
Cuss me and crawl begging all the days of your life as you have wished a fellow
You are as vile and vain as the useless hand made gods you hype and brag with.
***Days of relevance duly expired***
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*Prayer For Nigeria in Distress x10 Daily*
I thought Yerima and the house passed a bill that allows this kind of thing.Anyways my own is that she wasn't forced,she used to go there herself and she says he is her boyfriend meaning there's mutual love and understanding(lol).please madam you've advised so that is where your own ends.She might be attracted to older men as he is attracted to all sorts.Im not too far gone from 15 and I can boldly tell you that the girl knows what she's doing big time.after all back then women married at 13 to 27 year olds so this isn't so much of a big deal.Like I said heaven would bear you witness that you've talked your own.leave the rest to God and her mother/guardian.For all we know she might be going through some things in her life and this obviously perverted man is her only escape route and source of comfort.She told him what you said that means she trusts him like that and most likely confides in him,Im talking from experience.
ReplyDeleteposter there's only so much one can do in this case and you've done your but.Trust me 15 o ni ogbon ju awon agba lo wa ninu blog yii (I mean in that dept of sex and stuff like that),so let it rest.It is well!
Weldone poster!!!
ReplyDeleteYou did what a good mother should have done
Just be careful please
God Bless you!
Stupid Agwoturumbe who thinks he can come here and just spill rubbish with those stick which have got eyes but can't see, ears but can't hear, mouth but can't eat.......useless and lifeless structures that can't even save a life...... To think you have been joking with it left me with no choice but to laugh and flow along, but you coming hear to intimidate, threaten, or bully someone else with it is surely a No No For me...........even those gods or yours know that power jam power, that power must surely change hand....... So, whatever you think you have said, to "rumour has it..." Remains with you and your household you shameless, diabolic, powerless, useless, ruled out creature...... I am just vexed and waiting for you to write any rubbish and watch as strange fire from heaven descends on you and consume entirely..... And yes, i am all here for you and your gods anu ofia.....better go ask the prophet of baals how hot it was for them in the days of elijah oooooooooooo before your downfall starts and you start accusing someone else forgetting you heaped it all on your self on a day like this... Ewu gambia
#YourLegacyLivesOnProfDoraAkunyili*7/6/14
*Prayer For Nigeria in Distress x10 Daily*
SDK Bouncer,its ok now.we dont pay back evil with evil.Rumor Has It asked him wot hole hé crawled out from first. Which was wot ticked him off.wot hé said wasnt right n me sef i shock.buh u have chastized him.buh den u are even now cursing him more dan hé cursed Rumor Has It,or dont u think so?he realises hé was wrong,hence hé hasnt said anything more.n dont be carried away by all his empty boasts.some people exaggerate stuff n some over-react.we all like him like u pointed out,so Pls Lets drop dis before It excalates more.God bless us all.
DeleteAunty Stella thank you for this story...it has really exposed the quality of BV's....very shallow-minded people (especially the women!). Imagine all the "mind your biz" trash this woman has received because of her motherly act. Tufiakwa! I bless God for my husband because he will encourage me to get to the end of the matter. You will all have daughters and at 15 they will start receiving "grooming" from men twice their age during school hours. Useless women!
ReplyDeleteafter reading the comments of all these women commenting here supporting the man, i have this one thing to say, may all of your daughters be groomed for marriage at age 15 by a promiscious man who makes her miss school to do house chores and fuck her also and make her fail her WAEC and infect her with HIV because at that age she probably might not have a strong sexual will. my God i cant believe what im reading. what kind of new generation do we want to breed, school drop outs or half baked graduates who fuck their way through school and fuck their way to get a job and become a lousy wife at home who only gossip and read blogs and watch african magic while our other counterparts are inventing new innovations. Africa my Africa its a pity.
ReplyDeleteLinda Eze shame shame shame shame on you and your mother for her failure to bring u up properly......because your parents sold u out for money cos of greed u think it is right? Your daughters shall be defiled early, they shall be taken advantage of then we will see how it feels.......stupid idiot, this blog is not meant for those who had no proper upbringing......keep ur warped values for your children and ur family members.....,,half baked bitch.....
ReplyDeleteAnon as much as I don't dig dis Linda girl U don't ve d rite 2 place a curse on her family or insult her mother who I suppose is also like ur who didn't do a gud job in bringing u up properly, cos if she did u wudve typed beta. She mite not b a gud wife n mother bt don't ever 4get she's entitled 2 her own opinion as is d rest of us. So shut ur trash half baked bitch
DeleteIt's a pity we have women here who have lost that motherly instinct.......am ashamed....yet we all come here to complain of how society has lost it's values...who is society? Will change not start from me and you? All u women here saying she should mind her business and calling her busy body should hide ur heads in shame......I pray the same visits your daughters then we see how u react.....even if u married early is not an excuse.....poster try and get her add or something then inform her parents......don't bother talking to the guy again......at least heaven will record that u have helped a young girl......any female adult who do not think it's her responsibility to be a good example to young women around her is not worthy of being called a woman.......
ReplyDeleteIt's a pity we have women here who have lost that motherly instinct.......am ashamed....yet we all come here to complain of how society has lost it's values...who is society? Will change not start from me and you? All u women here saying she should mind her business and calling her busy body should hide ur heads in shame......I pray the same visits your daughters then we see how u react.....even if u married early is not an excuse.....poster try and get her add or something then inform her parents......don't bother talking to the guy again......at least heaven will record that u have helped a young girl......any female adult who do not think it's her responsibility to be a good example to young women around her is not worthy of being called a woman.......
ReplyDeleteOmoge Manchester you are a stupid woman and should utterly be ashamed of yourself for your comments.....so cos u started having sex early u think it's right? U obviously were not properly guided as a child and ur mum didn't do her job well......shame on you
ReplyDeleteBia whoever this is that is impersonating me, look for ur own name biko. Don't spoil my bad name.
ReplyDeleteHaba, cussing people like u know them. O gini?
My apprentice has arranged id for me with the sacrifice I offered to igurube. Stop using its name to cuss people. Igurube is a grasshopper. He just wants to eat salad. Biko.
People who know me know I dont cuss. Even when u cuss me, I laugh with you.
One love biko
It's true when they say out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks......I have noticed that all the women here crying busy body are the bitches who do not comment here with any sense of responsibility.......Lina Eze, Mamie, Caribbean princess, omoge Manchester etc......it's obvious u all really lack home training and it's impossible for people to continually spew rubbish all the time if that is not your true nature.....u are all a disgrace to womanhood, I pity your husbands and especially ur daughters if u have any.....they obviously can't grow up with any good values or respect for themselves.......tufiakwa.....#spit on you disgusting lot#
ReplyDeleteMadam please be very careful. I am very passionate about such things too but the difference between both of us is i would do this thing in a way that it will never ever be traced to me. I would not have approached the young lady on my own neither will i do anything to expose myself and put my family at risk. RMB YOU ARE IN NIGERIA AND NOT OYIBO. BE VERY SMART AND CAREFUL....
ReplyDeleteImagine the sun news headline "jobless housewife doused with acid by teenage rival"(the love triangle).Make wisdom an ally.
ReplyDeleteI'm soo soo shocked at u all castigating this woman! I went wayward early in life,mainly bcos my dad was soo strict and when I could, I jst turned to a street girl! Now I wish I had someone who talked to me lik a sister then and gave me direction and made me think twice den cos now looking back,I'm soo ashamed of some of my actions! Poster, kudos to u jare! U have done ur part! Don't mind d stupid peadophile, reporting u to ur husby!!! No shame again ooo!!! 15yr old to 30yr old man!!! Haba,SDKers, make una fear God oo! What is bad is bad! Grooming wetin?? Once her p**sy is as wide as texas, he will abandon her and marry a virgin! Let's be our brother's keeper and help whomever we can so dt God will bless us ooo!!!! #ok bye#
ReplyDeleteSo one cannot see wrong or evil and try to right it in Nigeria? Shocked at most comments here. Poster you did the right thing by talking to the girl, though I don't think there's an NGO that can help on this kind of issues. Wonder where decency and morality has gone to. Sad much
ReplyDeleteAt 15 I don dey chop better prick, and am 38 now ,all this bv dem forming holy ,even whistle blower don begin fuck since ,she dey 12 ,Abeg face your work ,the 15 years old girl cry come meet u ,busy body.,children of. 80 s and 90 s wey dey fuck like dog ,even smoke Igbo joiin,na him u dey here dey poke nose Abeg face your work .
ReplyDeleteMOI you are bloody idiot and may your daughters be messed up early in life......foolish lack of home training goat......will lying put money in her account? Wickedness of your type of people is what has made this country what it is today......idiotic fool
ReplyDeleteEngineering firms dat are culprit of such activities are cappa, julius berger and Deux project. The worst is Deux project. Very reliable gist and promiscuous staff
ReplyDeleteBV you have done nothing wrong. However so far the youmg girl has stopped coming to the house, you could drop the matter. Nigeria is a lawless jungle where a good intention could turn sour. The world would be a better place if we all watch out for each other. Unfortunately this is not the case.
ReplyDeleteWahala plenty for naija
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