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''Dear Stella and SDKers,
I am a 30 yrs old single woman. I don't have a job however during my job hunting, I met a 54yrs old married man last yr November who promised to assist in this regard.
He seems so concern about my welfare cos he was always calling to encourage me that all will be well nd I should not be depressed. He seems to be the only one I could talk to as there is soo much problem at home.
We became very close nd unconciously we both started exchanging romantic text messages nd eventually started dating.
Bcos of too much problem at home,(parents house) he got me an accomodation, furnished it nd gives me weekly feeding allowance of #5000 .
He has spent about a million naira from December 2013 till date nd he has not had sex with me cos I told him I've vowed to keep my self 4 d man who will marry me.
The problem now is dat lately he doesn't call me as he used to, gets upset easily, ignores nd becomes angry when I raise issues of finance. Even though I know he loves me, he has changed completely, I know he is tired, I know he is feeling he has spent so much without anything in return, I know he wants to have a feel of me, I know he wants to make love to me, even though I love him, BUT I AM SCARED.... WHAT IF I GET PREGNANT COS I DON'T EVEN KNOW HOW TO CALCULATE MY PERIOD...SHOULD I START HAVING SEX @ MY AGE WITH A MAN WHO IS NOT READY TO MARRY ME? I AM CONFUSED AND DEPRESSED.
I don't have a job yet, he is the only helper I've got after God.
I have fasted, prayed but everything looks bleak. I never planned mylife this way. I never did....
Should I allow him make me a woman? #Sobs..''
*You are in a 50/50 situation,you can give him what he wants and he vanishes completely...
You can give him and he insists on you being his baby mama.
Are you desperate to do this because of financial reasons?sounds so cos you refer to helper and the reason you left home.
Why dont you try to get a job?
A Virgin at 30 is not a days job,you will get advise to either do it or close your legs but the final decision lies with you.
Hmmm...imagine being awake at this time of the morning!
ReplyDeleteWell, I might as well put the time to good use.
Poster, this is a no brainer! Please do not give in!
Stella, didn't you see where she said the man is married?
In the 1st place, why get so close to a married man, even if he did promise to help?
Men do not usually shell out that kind of money on a woman without wanting something in return.
You shouldn't have accepted his largesse in the first place. It was obviously going to end up in him wanting returns on his investment.
I know jobs are hard to come by these days, but you're young and single, and if no jobs are forthcoming, you can start something small for yourself.
I remember a comment someone once made here, that as long as you're hard-working and willing, you'll always find something to do for yourself.
Please vacate the apartment he got for you and move back to wherever you were to start with.
Avoid any contact with him and move on with your life. There is no future with this man, for you.
Search harder and pray even harder. I'm sure something will come through for you if you just persevere.
All the best.
Dis ur advice too hard jooor!!! Na u go accomodate am if u vacate d house?? Smtcheeeeeeeew!!!!...........OKIJA WIFE
DeleteWhen your own Adokiye go dis Virginia?
DeleteOkija wife am forced to agree with u.
DeleteWithout much repertoire and asking why u receive and do not want to deliver, sex wise... because saying that would mean u are a runz girl no matter how mildly one presents it. However I cannot blame the man. Perhaps he thinks u are having sex with another man and just using him as a visa debit card. On the other hand he had stuck to u long enough to convince me that he truly wanted to help u abinitio, and of course he became fond of u as u became of him.
Otherwise after a month or two and no show he would have stopped his kind gestures towards u. After all no be only u get punany for town na. He wouldn't even have to spend much to sleep with a girl of his choice in town.
To play the devil's advocate here...me think that even if u decide to sleep with him he'll still stay with u..am convinced. but regarding ur apprehensive demeanor, is this what u really want? If the answer is NO, sit him down and tell him that u do not want a fling with any man. And tell him nicely that if he doesn't like it he can choose not to help u anymore. That will give him a guilt trip if he has a conscience o.
Meanwhile for the period of time he was feeding u, did u not try to secure a job or learn a trade? Did u think this bonanza would last a lifetime considering he's a married man...I presume? Were u just watching AFMAG and doing.. 'manner from heaven eternally I praise thee' ni?
Well sha this man is a good man if u asked me. Some other men would have drugged and raped u. He had the capacity to mess u up but he didn't. And u sound like u are ready to shag him anyway..else u wouldn't be asking us this. Na u sabi jare.
Poster that man is too old and stingy jor. If u decide to sleep with him, let it be worth it, he should start a meaningful business for you, or help u get a job, 5k a month is total crap abeg for a married 54 year old at that. I met this 38 year old married guy two weeks ago and he has spent abt 500k already, i ve only had dinner with him once. If u decide to eat a frog please eat a large frog.
DeleteIhekire Tony
DeleteDear poster is so unfortunate that you have given the devil so much room in ur life.
1corinthians 6:18, "Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body: but he that commit fornication sinneth against his own body".
What happens to waiting on the Lord?
Proverb 10:22 "It is the blessing of the Lord that makes rich, and He adds no sorrow to it.
Dear poster don't let earthly things that will never follow you to eternity, make to disappoint God. The Lord is always faithful to as many that are faithful to Him.
He spent close to a million on u and u havent saved to start a biz. U be real joker. Mrs O
DeleteAnon 7am you just said the truth. If you are going to be a kept woman, let him keep you. You are hardly a spring chicken so let him be ur first ladder up.
DeleteFirstly dis girl is not serious, you claimed d man has spent almost 1million on you and you are still looking for Job,am a man I wiLl tell u,u are not serious,why won't d man run,so u were eating with all ur mouth abi,what happened to u saving for d rainnin day,did u for once ask him to let u start sumtin,so u think u being a virgin is licence to take is money and move into his house,my answer to u give in take money set urself up,use condom its the best u can do now
DeleteU no get savings frm millions he larvish on u? If yes pleas go start up a little biz. ......
DeleteLinlinhot
Hmmm am loving the new Tony. Poster listen to Tony's advice dts wot I wld I v said if I hadn't seen his post. In all u do pls always v God in mind ist pls.
Deleteposter the ball is still in ur court if i must say....but seriously 5k every week is 20k a month...since u already know nothing good last forever,u would ve saved a lil then use it to start up something for urself like learning hairdressing,sewing or any lil thing u can think of;then keep looking for greener pastures(a good job) elsewhere..another thing is u said he has spent up to A MILLION NAIRA?? for CHRIST sake it is enough money if u ever have wanted to start up something for urself..without sounding bias;all i can say is u seem to relax when all the goodies were coming in and now that it is no longer flowing as it normally does;u ve now regained consciousness..lastly about allowing him take away ur pride,can u even hear urself out?? are u confused?? even if u ve to,why does it ve to be a married man?? my advice is if u decide to go against a will,make it worth everything....if u wanna lose ur virginity;give it out to someone who worths it...the man has tried for u,and i aint doubting it,but he doesnt worth ur virginity..cos no matter what u will still bear the name "side chick".....or would ur conscience allow u get married to him even when u know he is already married?? just follow ur heart on issues like this dear poster.....
DeleteFor a chicken change of 20k monthly allowance you want to let go of your virginity? I make more than 20k sales on a good day from my kids clothing business o! Don't be a fool at 30!
DeleteAs long as u are in that house he got for u,its only a matter of time u will give in to d pressures from him.btw have u tot of who is going to pay d nextt yr rent of dat house?now this is one of d sure reasons u must give in to his pressure!and dat notwithstanding is not a guarantee that he will stay and pay d next rent,he can just sleep with u and disappear.all he succeeded in doing is to put u on a pedestal u can't maintain without bending over backwards' so first go back home if u are not ready to become a loosed gal on d streets!at least u can go back to ur parents house isnt?pls don't be a lazy gal,i suppose u safed up something?start a trade no matter how small it is,pple esp gals opt for d easiest way out of crisis which now makes them victims of circumstances.its nott like it's a big deal who disvirgins u,but I assume that for u to keep for 30yrs means u want it to be special.hold on and let that old man be!but as Stella said,d decision finally lies with u,we can only suggest.
Delete@poster hope ure saving frm d ones he has been giving u? If yes pls go and start smalll biz dats what u need nw. Goodluck.
DeletePlease get a job
DeleteLeave a married man alone,hes married don't even think of getting involved with him,white collar jobs ain't meant for everyone,get a teaching job or start a trade,all will be well with you
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After 30 years of being a virgin
DeleteU Nah want to sell ur birthright to a 54 years old grandpa married man.please listen to urself,no matter wot e has done for u, does not justifies DAT....Kk!!! Letz say u were not wise enough to save some money n now Ure broke datz y u decided to speak up so we will beg d man to temper justice with mercy n resume giving u weekly allowee kwo! ...Dear! U Berra wake up to d reality of life n go learn some form of trade or craft....n stop sitting at home watching keeping up with d kardashians.pls run as fast as ur legs can carry u n dont indulge with d 54yrs old married man...always knw dat dere is light at d end of d tunnel.
Some ppl are funny sha. You are busy dating a married man, yet you are praying and fasting? Why? God can not be dragged into that mess. How do you intend to support yourself when God answers his wife's prayers and he leaves you? Abeg you are greedy, get serious and look fr a job. He has spent a million at least on you in 7 months, can you sustain the lifestyle even if you get a job?
DeleteThis man will sleep with you max 10 times and move on.
DeleteGet a job or do business. It's too risky to live hand to mouth on someone's handout.
What if he dies, what will you do?
Dear, poster a man is commiting adultery with you and you are still calling God's name. Pls are u a learner, what were you thinking in the first place. You should not have started with the romantic massages in d first place. All d best.
DeleteStella u missed d part she said he is married! Dear poster I must commend u 4 keepinq urself 4dis lonq! N I can tell u also dat deflowerinq naw esp 2sumone who is already married is not worth it! Wat u wud hv done wif d 5k weekly allowance was 'savinq' n startinq a lil bizness. You think u luv him cos u r financially handicapped, get sth to do fast! Once he qets wat he wants he will move on 2d next one. But like stella said d final decision lies wif u! Be wise!
ReplyDeleteAbeg this gist no even sweet me. Its just like asking if you should eat akpu or bread and tea this morning when you know the answer. Akpu is too heavy for breakfast, though it wont kill you if you eat it, but bread and tea is light and better as breakfast. Plus akpu will leave you feeling heavy and maybe useless for the rest of the day ! Ball is in ya court !!!
DeleteSeconded....Poster,try and get a job no matter how small it is...please keep your pride to someone that will appreciate it ie your future husband....abeg leave this married man he dosent worth it....
DeleteEven if you want to sell your virginity,look for a bigger fish that will pay more.he spent close to 1mill and he is making noise.....mtcheeewww abegggiii...
You this poster!
Delete*He loves u and u love him too*Love ndi obodo ebe biko?
Nothing is free in this world
At 30 u still asking this kinda question...Like u didn't know ur r/ship with a married man would result to this?
The answer to ur question lies with u
My dear poster, at your age you should have known that all these gifts were not free. But since you cannot refund I would advise you to turn to God and leave this man. God frowns at fornication and adultery. Do what will make God happy. trust me He will make a way for you. Don't sell your body for money. May God help you.
ReplyDeleteYou've said it all
DeleteStella, she didn't forget o. She stated it clearly that the man is married.
ReplyDeleteLazy woman, because of 20k per month and a temporary accommodation, you relaxed in your comfort zone and stopped doing anything to better your life.
Even if you give him the pussy, you can be sent packing at any time. You sound so foolish, I don't know where to start with you. A fool at 30! Shior.
Too harsh haba
DeleteGoldscent Gbam..... uve hiit the nail on the head... So bcos of 20k monthly and stupid accommodation u wanna loose ur virginity to a married man...let me advise u since 20k is ur problem, get househelp job atleast they will pay u 20k and uLl be in a free accommodation plus free food too. at 30 no ambition SHAME
DeleteWhich 20k? It's even 5k a month.
DeleteMy dear poster,immediately you sleep with that MARRIED man,your fears will come to pass!
You will just write to Stella that your pregnant for a married man walahi.
Go and look for a job!!
If your willing to take 5k as a kept woman,then you will work for at least 15k a month that is if you don't have any qualification at all.
How many times have you shown interest in some of the job publications here(a cleaner needed,nanny,secretary,etc)
My friend move your ass!
That married woman will even go and soak chalet for you...Na so you go look for job tire!
Be wise!!
It's sooo easy to judge p'ple when ur not in their shoes. I am sure u will do worse if ur in same situation with them.no 1 is perfct u knw. Dear poster I was in same condition few yrs back.i had no job after my masters. It was really frustrating cuz I was not in2 any rship aswell.d only companion I had was a marriedman. It was neva my intention2 date him and b4 then I had a very strict policy 2 stay away frm marriedman. But eventually I cudnt resist him. He was like a fresh breathe 4 me. Yes I eventually slept wit him. We did it bout 2_3 times. He is still in my life and he is my best friend now cuz he was d only 1 dat stood by me but we no longer sleep wit each other and I dnt c dat happening again. Nobody shld curse me out cuz u neva knw what it feels like to b in dis situation. But I have asked God 2 4give me and I thank God 4 d 4giveness.let he witout sin cast d first stone. I dnt commit sin deliberately but God always has his way of bringing me back 2 him no matter Hw far I run from him. It's been 7mnths since I had sex and I intend being a celibate till ii gt married
DeleteDear poster leave that married man ASAP, what were u thinking before,that he will keep financing your needs without any returns. Hope you hv some savings use it and start up something.
Delete@ Anon 7:30AM- the difference btw u and the poster is she says she is a virgin. No one will judge u but if u prayed to GOD to forgive for sleeping with a married man, that means u know what u did is wrong so why are u advising someone else to tow that path?
DeleteDon't do it!! Let me tell you, I just dismissed a 60 yrs old man that wanted to take my virgnity!!! I trusted him as a friend!! Buh, he disappointed me!! Plz Don't give your virgnity away just like that!!! B/w I'm 26 virgin just started a relationship for the first time in my life....remember, if you give him ur V.. He will brag abt it n make u feel worthless!! Ur hubby is around d corner.. If u believe in God!!
ReplyDelete60 years old ke?? Wey d power wey him want use didvirgin u na??? Person wey don die finish wit watery prik?? Hahahahaah......notin these men nor dey do!! Smtcheeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!...............OKIJA WIFE
DeletePlease were una dey waka reach dey jam all these ancestors sef? I tire
DeleteYou just dismissed a 60 year old who wanted to disvirgin you. My question to you is what did he do for you? You left out part of the comment. All I see here are lazy Nigerian women who are looking for a life raft without lifting a finger. Stop asking men for money if you are not willing to reciprocate. They are not your father or brother.
DeleteI like U̶̲̥̅̊Ʀ spirit dear. Poster av u hrd? U were even too relaxd. Dis relatnship has bin goin on for ova a yr and u didn't read d hand writtin on d wall. Haba u r too old for dat na. But it's not too late dear just walk away and be optimistic dat u'l get a job on ur own.
DeleteChai.....UWA!!! Nothing goes for nothing!!!!...............OKIJA WIFE
ReplyDeleteTrojan gifts. Teach me how to fish, and he was just giving you fish to eat, for over 6months now. You kinda got relaxed with all the showers of 'blessing.'
ReplyDeleteOl' boy was bidding his time with you and as he is not reaping his intended reward, he is bored playing the mugu naa. Nne, what do you want us to tell you? To do or not to do? I think deep down you actually know what you will end up doing oh.
Btw Stella, mr man is a married man.
Thank you for this comment! Poster also added she didn't want to get pregnant.. She didn't mention STDs ie AIDS. Stella pls do a post about CONDOMS biko
Deleteok noted...i missed it.
ReplyDeleteI LOVE U STELLA...#PULLING MY HAIR #...lol
Delete*am out
Ahh! With you being a virgin at this age, kudos. But bia, let this man no come do caeserean cut for you vjayjay oh. Cos e no go pity that area if he eventually succeeds.
ReplyDeleteAnd when you were moving out of the house to your own place without a job, your parents did not voice their doubts? Abi you extended the gifts to them too? Smh. Either you go back to your original base and start afresh cos ur bobo will soon throw you out of his place. Yes his place cos na im money. No return on investment.
ReplyDeleteI missed that part too I had to go back to read it. . I so much frown at ladies who date married man for one reason or the other. .you are playing with fire its just a matter of time before you get burnt
ReplyDeleteExactly...she was playing with fire. Why on earth will u let a married man foot ur expenses to the extent of gettin u accommodation? Did u think it was gonna continue lik dt for how long? U acted very stupidly wen u left ur parent's house. So wat if u didn't meet him? Wouldn't u hav continued living wt ur parents? And u knew he's married. All u should av done was to keep puttin pressure on him to get u a job. This is the devil tryin to play wt ur life. If at this stage nd being a virgin, u start dating a married man, then I wonder how its gonna play out, but trust me, it won't end in ur favour, so u better swallow shame nd move back to ur parent's house. God wil provide for u ok. The devil has no free gifts
DeleteAll una talk no even pain me oh!Have you thought of You giving up the virginity and he vamooses,doesnt pay the rent and no monthly allowance,Then you will have lost it all cos believe me some men only like to do it once and dey lose interest.
DeleteI read law,and an older classmate chased and chased and toasted me till I graduated,till after law school.was ready to do anything and I had him by the balls even though I no gree.
Fast forward 2 years after law school,i allowed him have sex with me,i think he gave me 10k or 20k and he lost interest.He is now a house of reps member. Making big money.And I haven't heard from him since.
So dear poster!it isn't worth it.
Nigerians with much advice without a real solution,,,my dear call de man or sms him nd tell or explain to him de reason you will not give it to him,thanks him alots nd promise him dat you will never forget him in life,,then pack ur things and move out from his house back to ur parents house,,or do u think to meet ur own husband in another man house'?maybe u are wishing to answer his second wife by loving him too,u are joking,go back to ur parents ur favours are there already waiting for you,,goodluck,from swiss
ReplyDeleteIf he truly loves you like you say,he would have gotten you a job or even tried to,instead he keeps you dependent on him.Dear Poster,he is a MARRIED MAN and there is nothing like you guys began UNCONSCIOUSLY sending romantic texts/dating,you clearly saw this coming.My advise:leave him ASAP,however hard it may seem at the moment,nothing beats self will though!I ask,why keep your virginity for this long only to want to lose it to someone who would MOST LIKELY not marry you(forget the many lies he may have told you) God's blessings adds no sorrows and when the future looks very bleak,that's when He shows His mighty power.I hope you have been able to save some money all these while,detach yourself from him,start something,however small while still searching for a job,commit it to God and watch how you will grow! May God help you Dear.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you... He has been taking care of your expenses for the past 6months and he is yet to give you a job? I thought the whole purpose in his life was to help you get a job. How long will you keep depending on him? You think he loves you? Aren't you just daft... If he loves you what about the wife at home? What does he have for her? Hatred? Oh,I guess he has given you the speech about how his wife is a nag just so he would be close to you.. Whether you sleep with him or not,he will go back to the wife and cuddle her in her sleep while you regret allowing him deflower you...
Deletecan't believe at your age you asking these.kind of questions..
All the runs girls( prostitutes and whores) on this blog would soon come out and say how one doesn't understand to the situation because you not walking in their shoes..
Poverty is no excuses to sell your pride and dignity... For how much kwanu? Trust me,whatever a man gives you you are worth more than that.. Even if he gives.you.a million after sex..
Don't I just love u Qutie. Am not a saint o. I have done it before several times but dat was den sha. Its a terrible tin and I ain't going back to it. Pls poster please if u straff dat man u will regret it just waka go.
DeleteDayumn!! This poster really slept on a bicycle mehn!! You have a man dt can easily finance a business 4 u and u were jes thinking with ur pu55y all along *SMH*
ReplyDeleteSo u didn't kno dt d only reason 95% of married men would want 2 confess their luv 4 u is jes 2 browse ur website...
@Poster would u go back 2 wherever u were b4 to start forging ur life ahead and leave dz
Useless man!!!
*lips sealed and watching*
He has spent over a million and you couldn't save enough to start something on a small scale.
ReplyDeleteYou were comfortable accepting Gifts from a married man and you didn't see any thing wrong with that.
Weren't you staying somewhere? What's with the accommodation?
Me think you are lazy and greedy and you want to reap where you didn't sow. Leave people's husbands.
You are a woman already. You don't need to have sex to become a woman. You sound kinda desperate. At 30years, you can still find a very single man. Retrace your steps. Move out of his apartment, find a job or better still start a small business. Upgrade your self. Make yourself desirable. Pray to God, at the right time he will make all things beautiful. Cheers.
ReplyDeleteBV, even if u give him ur virginity, he will still dump u... His family comes 1st.
ReplyDelete#FaithfulSalt #CheatingIs ForLosers
Salt
There is rly no point of losing ur virginity @30,keep it 4 your husband,if u give it to dat man,then it made no sense keeping it dis long
DeleteWhy don't I believe this story 100%?
ReplyDeleteYou are fasting and praying for what? You are in an alduterous relationship woman!
Stop lying! You have both had oral sex!
Gbamest! Shioorrrr Lazy girl with no ambitions at 30.
DeletePoster , I must commend you for keeping your self this long .
ReplyDeleteDon't succumb to the pressure from this married man and God will surely honour you.
The blessings of God added no sorrow and maketh a man rich.
For every man , there is a woman.
Leave this man and let God bring you your God destined husband.
You might find it rough when you eventually leave this married man especially since you didn't save when he was assisting you.
You just need to look for something to start doing no matter how small and God will surely smile on you.
Poster stop lying for Africa! Virgin what? A NIgerian married man would do all these without crossing your legs first? He is father Christmas? You have fasted and prayed so that he would neglect his own family and be taking care of you because he is a fool?
ReplyDeleteWhen you started the sexting, did you not know you were wrong? And you are 30 and not 13 asking this question?
It's very possible. Dere r few nice p'ple. I have 1 in my life. And whenever I am in need and he finds out. He always tells me 2 b free wit him and dat he's not toasting me.we av only seen 3times and twice was in my office. We av neva hugged talk more of holding hands. He's a responsible man. It's over a year since we met and he is still very nice 2me. He has neva ask me2 meet him anywhr. So my dear I am a living testimony
DeleteDont sleeep with him. Get a job.
ReplyDeleteMy dear poster DO NOT give U̶̲̥̅̊Ʀ virginity to a married man. I know its not easy but pls leave d man and vacate dat house. Truth is he can't help u wit a job my dear, if he culd he wuld av done it long ago. What he'l only do for u is to be givin u stipends which he's already doin but is dat wot u want? If u allow him deflower u, u'll be too emotionally attached to him. So walk away now dat u'r still able to. Cheers
ReplyDeletePls nobody shud evn pity ds woman biko.. Ur dating a married man abi?? Sit dia and lazy about. In 6months already, he has spent almost 500k on u. I'm sure his wife may b suffering 4 lack of funds smwr, and d old foolish man is lavishly spendn d money on u.. How u wan tk get job wn u like osho free tyns. Kai, I'm so vexed.
ReplyDeletePlease do not give in. Ur big break might just be waiting 2 varnish once u sleep wit him. Take from a person who has been there n done that; its not worth it.
ReplyDeletePls nobody shud evn pity ds woman biko.. Ur dating a married man abi?? Sit dia and lazy about. In 6months already, he has spent almost 500k on u. I'm sure his wife may b suffering 4 lack of funds smwr, and d old foolish man is lavishly spendn d money on u.. How u wan tk get job wn u like osho free tyns. Kai, I'm so vexed.
ReplyDeleteAnd yes, u cn call me holier dan thou, I dnt kia.. As a single lady, I neva as much as evn looked @ smbody else's bf not 2talk of husband.. Now dat I'm married, nobody shud evn try it wit me.. D man's wife is so kul, if its me, poster, I wil find u and teach u a soft lesson..
Mz cool, meshonu. Na only u Waka come. Save ur feisty energy and teach your man the soft lesson. He needs it more than the girls he's busy chasing up and down
DeleteSo because you added "Virgin" you think you are a saint abi? You were exchanging Romantic text messages with a married man that has been spending on you and you are there calling him "helper" Does is wife know you are her hubby's helpee? No I guess, that's cheating too. You know he's married since you can chop his money allow him to chop you too or pack out of his house and go back to your parents house. That's how when he use juju on you or rape you, you will come here and start crying. There's no free gift in Naija. You won't even see a God given helper in Church that would rent a house for you and not want Sex.
ReplyDeleteMy dear poster, my advice to you is don't do it. You knew he was married, so what were you expecting? Who knows if he even wants to use the fact that you're a virgin for his next ritual sacrifice...if he's into that lifestyle. God does not like fornication and adultery, so my dear, thread carefully.
ReplyDeleteIt alarms me when I hear girls says they are in love with a married man. How can you be in love with some1 else husband just because of your selfish reasons. Why o why are some girls just daft. From what I have seen and witness 85-90% of nigeria girls have slept or dated a married man and more are willing to do it if they meet the handsome and rich married man they. Furthermore, you girls will be shouting a man is not faithful and cheating whereas you all encourage this married men to be unfaithful to their wives. Smh.
ReplyDeletePoster believe me or not you have already slept with the man(it not only when it becomes physical) and have done wrong by distracting him from his home. Your problem in your family is not enough to desire the comfort from a married man so the earlier u give it up and move on the better for you. Girls please stop falling in love with married men.
What people go through!!! 5k every week is like 20k a month? ?? Not worth it pls..you might let him do it now and get a very good job the next day.How would you feel? He knows you see him like a messiah and that is why he's forming angry so you can finally succumb. pls, resist that cheap voice in your head that wants you to give in and watch God surprise you.DON'T GIVE UP! !!!
ReplyDeleteThis is a difficult situation. If u give in, he might get territorial about you and thus prevent any single person from getting close to you. The best thing is get a job.any job no matter how small the pay. Use it as a stepping stone. Wish u all. D best in ur decision. - Desire
ReplyDeleteThis is a difficult situation. If u give in, he might get territorial about you and thus prevent any single person from getting close to you. The best thing is get a job.any job no matter how small the pay. Use it as a stepping stone. Wish u all. D best in ur decision. - Desire
ReplyDeleteDear Poster,
ReplyDeleteAbeg u in d name of God, give him d sex e wants, and experience HARDSHIP!
Lemme tell u, the two of u av alredy committd a sin, cos u av concieved it in ur hrt, n collected gifts frm him.
Az it eva occurred to u dat it might be d reason for ur worsened problems?
Y not go the whole lenght, give d man wat e craves for, n watch ursef fade away in his eyes.But plz mk sure u come back n give us d rest of d gist, so we can learn.
NB; dem no dey use dis kind age enter d tin, wey u put ur hand so. U r too old for wat u are doing. And ur lover is a wicked man(if e gives u a total of 1mill doesnt mean e loves u, it only means e can afford it)
You kept your viginity and you are 30 yrs old. What is the difference between given up your viginity now to a married man and loosing your virginity 15yrs ago? Which means, keeping yourself and missing out on all the fun of youthfulness was all for nothing.
ReplyDeletehe is married o!!!!! Imagine hw much he has neglected his wife n kids. Do u knw d last tym he paid their sch fees?
ReplyDeletePls d man sef don try. His wife has probably tightened her prayer belt.
Abeg ehn kip lukn n searching 4 a job even if u ve 2 teach pls do. Dia r sch s dat ll pay u more dan dat 20k every month.
Blue IvY
You are a lazy and gullible lady. Your type is the kind of lady that buy bags,shoe and aso ebi almost every week without a source of income/job. At 30, you don't have any skill or know any trade and you are asking for advice?? The simple truth is that your f**cking lazy!!!! Pack out of the house and learn a trade or do a biz or you fuck him and after he ditches you, you pick another client b4 the rent runs out, cos rent dey quick run out ooooo
ReplyDeleteYou are a lazy and gullible lady. Your type is the kind of lady that buy bags,shoe and aso ebi almost every week without a source of income/job. At 30, you don't have any skill or know any trade and you are asking for advice?? The simple truth is that your f**cking lazy!!!! Pack out of the house and learn a trade or do a biz or you fuck him and after he ditches you, you pick another client b4 the rent runs out, cos rent dey quick run out ooooo
ReplyDeleteHmm babe I feel u jor but the truth is this; everything is so wrong here. Ure with som1's husband, you want to give up 30 yrs old virginity to an old man. I feel you are greedy, condescending and extremely lazy. Instead of him blowing millions on u/ your apartment, why didn't you make him open you a small biz (maybe selling weaveon and hair products) which is really lucrative. You just sat there eating away your meal ticket foolishly. My dear wake up! Tell dat man that you'll lose ur V to him if he opens a biz for u. Get it n vamoose! I don't really care about your V, just give a younger dude not an old married man.
ReplyDeleteDear poster, I am proud 2 say I live in abuja and no married man touched his filty hands on me. Put on that garment of pride. What I do is chop and run. If they give me 30k or 10k unto the next then I invest it in2 my business. I started my business with nothing. The money I used 4 my photoshoot a married man gave me. 60k. I invested. Another one 10k.my dear if u can't play the game don't do it. I come 4rm a very well to do family but I decided 2 struggle on my own since their r no jobs in nigeria n my parents want me 2 come back home so I will be sleeping at home. I said NO cus I have a goal to be financially independent and to give those in need. So being here is against my mum's wish. I've done so many training which are bead making, hat making (bridal hair fascinator), bridal hand fan etc. I do all these. Now its make up. I begged my dad 70k 2 go to makeup school I was given only 50. Decided 2 go 2 the classes on youtube on my ipad and I've learnt a lot. Then use 50k to by products and box even if its not enough. My wedding business is in progress. I am building the blocks everyday.
ReplyDeleteSee my dear, no married man loves u the way he loves his family (unless he is useless or maybe his wife is unbearable but he loves his kids). The reason he is reacting like this is cus he never loved u. He wanted 2 have a taste of ur goodies and thought that giving u all those things u will continue being his personal whore. Don't be deceived. Besides u sound naïve. That's y its good 2 be street wise. I been do bad bad things (with my ex boy friends not married men) b4 I talk say I no one do serve God wella. Now 4 my relationship we no dey do cus my bf na born again. So experience will teach u that when a man demads 4 sex it doesn't mean he loves u. Showering u with gift doesn't also determine his love 4 u. Men can do anything 4 sex. And do u know what love is?
U could have saved all those money he was giving u 2 start something 4 urself like a business.don't wait 4 a job cus the population of graduates 2 good jobs is very disheartening. Can't u think independently? Can't u go n meet ur relatives 2 beg them 4 funds 2 start something? Or even freinds and rich women u might know.
Don't be naïve. Think outside the box. Be proactive and don't give urself 2 the man. If possible pack out of the osho free house cus e dey purge. When u take a step 2wards success u wouldn't believe the heights u will attain wih just one step.
One more thing look un2 God. If u look un2 God He will use men. Read hebrew 11. Read stories of people that had faith. Buy books on faith. Build ur faith.
GOD's CHILD
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DeleteNne leave d idiot poster wey dey think with her punani.
DeleteBetween, you must b very naiive. I can't with girls that are over 23 and still say they r virgins. You are keeping the virginity for a man that has obviously slept with thousands of girls and even carried out abortion on them.
ReplyDeleteAnd girls like u (poster and annon 26yrs virgin) fall for the wrong men, the womanizers and bad boys cose u mistake every single act of affection for love.
Except the Man U eventually marry is also a virgin anything wey u dey talk no get head!
Pay attention to d issue na why u dey yap " virgin dis virgin that"? Na dat 1 pain u pass
DeleteU are an idiot! U kept ur virginity for 30 yrs only to loose it to a married 50 years old man. Is that no height of stupidity?
DeleteInsult me next time and see if I will not curse u! Internet rat
Lmaaaaoooo see vex Chai doc. If an internet comment makes u curse wetin u go do wen u vex for real life? U go barb gorimakpa tear ya paiynt join? I no be d poster u hear take kia of ya rabid temper chop I billion kisses docki blogger mwwwwwwwah
DeleteA big No from me
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Accomodation,weekly allowi n u sre still holding on to your v? Lol
ReplyDeleteBabe,get a job,make love with him(if u wish) for the pleasure,not for anything o. Na waooo. At 30yrs some don born finish and u are still asking this kinda question on xes. Ake and Dr Okechukwu,ho una see am?
Ihekire Tony
ReplyDeleteDear poster is so unfortunate that you have given the devil so much room in ur life.
1corinthians 6:18, "Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body: but he that commit fornication sinneth against his own body".
What happens to waiting on the Lord?
Proverb 10:22 "It is the blessing of the Lord that makes rich, and He adds no sorrow to it.
Dear poster don't let earthly things that will never follow you to eternity, make to disappoint God. The Lord is always faithful to as many that are faithful to Him.
Hehe. You want to eat your moi moi and have it. Of course you know nothing goes for nothing. Either way, the good times are about to end for you. Your t*t* is getting too expensive for him. Now you know that there is no free lunch in this world.
ReplyDeleteLol, free lunch na in plenty pass for this world when u look in the right places. Lwtmb ooooooooo. Girls should learn to chop and clean mouth. This stupid married men also do same.
DeleteNew commenter here SDK adict shout out 2 sdkers luv u all u guys rock
ReplyDeletePoster, don't even try it... Hunger will not kill u if he leaves u. So what is the essence of doing miss goody two shoes till. 30 and u now WANa lose ur virginity to an old withered monkey u are obviously commiting adultery with ? Am not gona play saint here either cos some situations warrant people to take certain decisions in life ,,,,,, now is the time to use ur head... Plan... I don't care ow u do it but don't do wat u will regret... One more thing....get a job!
ReplyDeleteMadam poster at @30 you're this stupid? What kinda advice do you want from us? Tell you to give in to a married man or commend you for keeping your virginity til now? In this generation? Why wil you even start setting with a married man wen you know nothing goes for nothing? And you dint think you could save up nd opeen a small business just incase it gets to this point? Now ure asking us for advice?you just a lazy young woman! At 30 you don't have a relationship,nothing,no job no brains,when you moved out of your family house your momma dint ask you who funded your apartment? You're deceiving yourself..mscheww you want to reap where you dint sow! Akiko uwa..infact I'm nt even sure you're a virgin cos if u are you won't even exchange numbers with a married man not to talk of confiding nd sexting with him..you either move out of tht house,get your lazy ass to work or go fuck that man! Rubbish..virgin kur married man nii
ReplyDeleteI am going to be very blunt here! Cos one i was sleepy wen i started reading dos,den suddenly d sleep vanished from my eyes!i couldnt believe u said u are 30!nne did u mean to say 13.and pls lets get dis point straight first of all,u are a very greedy person!and i know u agree with me!u wanna sleep wit à married man n u had d effontery to come here and ask us for advice.May d curses of his praying wife follow u.and something tells me she is a mountain of Fire member.Hmmm...get ready for d worse times of ur life.amd i couldnt believe u said u know hé loves u...biko how does hé love u?as if common sense didnt tell u hé did all dat to get into ur pants.pls dont come here and act all naïve!its so upsetting!u allowed à married man do all dis for u,u wanna sleep wit him(cos u have already made up ya mind to do so)and den u wonder why things arent going well wit u.at 30,u stil have fish brain!pls what happened to ur self esteem?what happened to millions of other single good men?no,u want already made.be ready for already made STDs,already made beatings and already made womanizing.hope u r not deluded enough to think u wik be his last.u wanna sacrifice ur morals for a petty 20k dash money.Abeg...go on ur knees and ask God for forgiveness n d Strength and d vision to see 20k as what it is:chicken change.yeah,chicken change comparéd to what God has in store for u.N to dose old cargoes going after young girls,just pause and think:what if another older cargo does dis to ur much cherished daughters...i hope wit dis thought alone,all ur lust for girls not ur wife will be buried once n for all.
ReplyDeleteNwunye general a million likes 4 dis ur comment. God bless u. U took d words out of my mouth. Can u imagine d rubbish. Ur seeking 4 advice on how 2 destroy anoda woman's home. And blog visitors are busy giving advice instead of raining curses on her. What is dis world turning into? Some1's husband? And am sure dat man has bn complaing of financial issues @ home while he is busy gettting accommodation 4 u. Neglecting his wife while exchanging romantic msgs wit u. U love anoda woman's husband and ur looking 4 ur own. Oya na! Ur name na SORRY. Nonsense
Delete100 likes for your comment @ General's wife. How can you sell ur birth right for common 20k a month? Its obvious you have low self esteem. Are you sure you are a virgin coz u strike me like a runz girl having issues with ur parents and moving out of their house into a married man's house. Pls put yourself in the wife's shoes haba! You are fasting and praying that what? Do not be deceived, GOD cannot be mocked; whatever a man sows so shall he reap. A word is enoff...
Deletegbam! at annon 7:00am if you want to eat frog eat a big one. poverty is truly a bastard o! someone is giving you 5k and you feel he has earned the right to your punani. all the 'i love u' 'baby''honey' that u have been calling him nko? he doesn't know it is strength and energy it takes. anyway, its because he knows you are naiive.
ReplyDeleteIt seems the Old man doesn't love you but want to be bed-warming you. Since you have a vow, be patience, your grace is near. Leave his house and cut of communication with him. Keep taking action for your accommodation and job problem, you will surely a solution.
ReplyDeleteSdkers pls o I realy need your advice.......which kind of bisness can I do in lag so I can make extra money apart from my salary?the horseband am with has finished me and my money o,am exhausted!
ReplyDeleteEhen, na now better gist come. Bia Nne, wetin your "horseband" do you?? Kai, I can't stop laughing abeg.
DeleteGive us the full gist then we can give you suggestions. Waiting with my two hands on my head.
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If i say NO 1billion times.....dt does not change ur own Decision
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@Galore
To think that you had to walk all the way from lagos to badagry express to purchase a fruit that means so well to you, only to come back and begin to wash it with the water people have already used in washing their hands. Co'mon baby, its not hygiene neither is it good for your consumption.
ReplyDeleteAm a man and know us well, that's not love but a bait in helpers disguise so pls get back on your track before its too late and Beware of bad blood please.
Poster go back to your parents house. You win some you loose some, you lost this one. You didn't use your brain from the start, 5 k for call credit allowance or what? Please my dear, pack your bag nd go home!!!! When he was Mr good minute what you ought to have insisted on was a good paying job instead of packing out from your parents house. A lot of young pretty girls do that especially after NYSC. Once a single girl is living in the same country or state with her parents and she lives aline young guys thread with caution. Nothing can buy virginity. In fact run from him before he carries you for sacrifice, I hear that virgins are hot cakes for ritual at least from Afmag. Deeds been done. Go home with your virginity. Unless you have made up your mind.
ReplyDeleteLOL, OF COURSE THIS MARRIED MAN IS A SMARTIE. HE WANTS SEX, GURL AND YOU KNOW IT. HE KNOWS THAT MONEY TASTES GOOD, ONCE U TASTE, U WANT MORE. SO HE GAVE U SOME MONEY, GOT U AN APARTMENT AND LEFT U HANGING...OF COURSE U WUDNT WANT TO GO BACK TO NOTHING, AFTER HAVING TASTED A BIT OF LUXURY. SO HE STOPPED CALLING SO U WILL RUN BAK TO HIM FOR RENT MONEY, UPKEEP ETC AND BY THEN IT WONT BE FREE, U MUST PAY WITH SEX. SMART MAN.
ReplyDeleteI SAY, MOVE OUT OF THE APARTMENT, GO GET A JOB AND FEND FOR URSELF. ALL TRUE VIRGIN GIRLS KNOW ITS NOT COOL TO COLLECT GIFTS FROM SOMEONE UR NOT READY TO DATE..VIRGINITY GOES WITH PURITY TOO..U CANT BE SENDING ROMANTIC MESSAGES TO A MARRIED MAN NAA, HABA AND PLS DEAR DUNT DATE A MARRIED MAN. PRAY FOR FORGIVENESS AND GRACE TO OVERCOME THIS TEMPTATION, DUNT GIVE IN. GOODLUCK!
Some people can be stupid for africa,you were praying and fasting to God?, for what exactly?,for him to leave his family and feed your lazy ass?, apparently God has answered the prayer of his wife,stop calling him before u drop dead,stupid girl
ReplyDeleteAm sorry u guys I just had to comment.i read through the comments and nobody insulted the poster the way I wanted lol.didnt u guys see where she said she's dating the married man already, so no need to quote bible for this one. Poster your a veryyyy stupid and senseless lady.very useless stupid woman. So the question your asking us now is if to sleep with the man your already dating who happens to be a married man by the way, mshewww I can't even begin to deal. #komot
ReplyDeleteMy friend stop being lazy. Even if you're a virgin are you also foolish? When the man was doing all that you didn't know it would come to this?
ReplyDeleteWhen he was giving you a measly 5k per week, why didn't you use the money to start something for yourself however small? All the time he put you somewhere, why didn't you insist he help you find a job? If you want money, you must work for it. So if it's by man, better be ready to be on your back or knees ALOT or if it's by a real respectable job be ready to start from the ground up.
People shouldn't feel sorry for you, you've been doing runs without sex and you think you're sharp abi?
My friend stop being lazy. Even if you're a virgin are you also foolish? When the man was doing all that you didn't know it would come to this?
ReplyDeleteWhen he was giving you a measly 5k per week, why didn't you use the money to start something for yourself however small? All the time he put you somewhere, why didn't you insist he help you find a job? If you want money, you must work for it. So if it's by man, better be ready to be on your back or knees ALOT or if it's by a real respectable job be ready to start from the ground up.
People shouldn't feel sorry for you, you've been doing runs without sex and you think you're sharp abi?
@ poster, u mentiond d man has spent up 2 a million on u in 6
ReplyDeletemonths? lets say 600 was for d rent n every other things in da house. So wetin happn to d remaining 400 na?.
U don invest d money in designer
bags n shoes....d Manner dat fell
from heaven only happend once in d
bible. 5000 every week n u was
without battlin an eye-lid enjoyn like Dokubo nwa Bekee.
Now, check ur pocket watever u hv left with u ll be enof 4 u to start a new life. It's even much easier now dat d guy don de shift small small.
how come he has spent over a million on u n u avnt been able to save up some moni to start something small that is financially profitable. use ur brain my dear.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand wah yhu mean by being a virgin,Hmmm ma dear z dz a film or a true Lyf story.Oya come lemme confirm if yhu are Rili virgin maria den we'll continue from dia.Yeye dey smell#odikwaegwu#am Waiting
ReplyDeleteStella, how come all ur posters are virgins? Then who be the ashanaz and runz babes out there? U need to start demanding for certificate of virginity or something and post along with their stories bcos i no understand again oh! I picture the house the guy rented for her will be face me i slap u sef. That kind cheap maryd man.
ReplyDelete*stella I pray dat dis 'gist' is real & dat u post ma comment*...first of all,y wud a SANE person agree 2 date a MARRIED person??...hv u fogottn dat d Bible says dat wat GOD hs joined 2geda,let no man(or woman) put assunder?..Do u. Fear God @ all?..don't u hope 2 get married. Someday 2? Wat if dis same tin happens n ur marriage?..my dear,rite now,am also single &witout a job.But by God's grace,I will NEVER meddle(or encourage odas 2 meddle)n d affairs of married people.Believe me,its better u die holy(witout a job & all),dan gain all ur desires @ d price of losing ur virginity 2 someone who isn't 4 u.pls oo,if don't want any complications n ur own future marriage,u'd better Return all d gifts dat he's given 2 u(ncludn d apartment & watever jewelry),thank him well,& take ur virginity bck 2 ur father's house.4 me,d future is always brighter & better dan d present!..hold on 2 God oo,cos He won't leave u..ODM devotional is available(join n dier 21- day & 14-day fasts)& also,try & buy Apostle Johnson suleman.But most importantly,learn 2 WAIT on God!..not every man dat comes ur way is ur helper!..pls learn 2 tink rightly.hw can some1 who's. Supposed 2 help u,be expectn s*x 4rm u?..& u,hw can u kip on collectn tins 4rm a married man?..is he santa clause?...many women don't like tinkn straight,& dat's y men use & dump dem lyk refuse.mtcheew!..*dont mind d length of my sermon dough*
ReplyDeletePoster how stupid can you be? After 30years you want to give in to a married man 24 years older than you because of WHAT?
ReplyDeleteAre you so incapacitated that you can't at your age fend for your self? What is wrong with you? Oya nu open your legs & surrender your precious gift to him for a plate of miserable porridge.
Will you get off your lazy ass & find something to do! Miserable 20k every month & you are on the verge of ripping your pants off. *msheww!
There are jobs everywhere if only you will bend down, swallow your pride & do them. Two cleaning jobs will fetch you nothing less than that 20k he is giving you.
We have two cleaners in our office each earning 13k each, & they have another cleaning job elsewhere that pays 8k. ( they come in the morning & before 6.00am they are done with the cleaning & they leave for the day to their next cleaning job & in the evening go to their shops to sell so babe what are you yarning about?)
Stop selling your dignity & dignify yourself & be somebody someone will be proud to call a wife, mother, daughter & mentor.
This just shows how lazy you are. At 30, even without job, you would have started acquiring skills. Even people with jobs, try to add business on the side.
ReplyDeleteI don't even want to talk about ur relationship with the married man, coz it's stupid asking us if you should sleep with an old married man or not.
5k per week = 20k per month. You should have at least be saving 10k each month and start something as he was even paying for ur accommodation.
Go back to ur village and learn how to farm, coz ur education was a waste. No brains cha cha
If he's as nice as he claims to be, why didn't he give you the money he used to pay the rent so you can start a biz instead of getting you an apartment you won't be able to maintain in time being jobless? If he's a good man, a source of living/income should have come first, now he has you where he wants you, totally dependent on him, meanwhile, moving back with your parents might be hard, he knew all these 'l happen, even his change in attitude is part of the whole plan, thinking na you go take your pussy beg am and you're beginning to think of doing just that to hold on to him. Honey, he's a wicked man and doesn't love you, spending a million on you means nothing, men spend a lot more, buy cars/houses just to get what they want and disappear without looking back so he's no "champion". My advise- dump his calculating arse, go back home no matter how hard it is, look for a job and look unto GOD for help, HE's the only AFUNI MA SINREGUN. BEAUTY
ReplyDeleteA jobless virgin at 30?? ---Greatest Achievement Ever!...Next!!
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahaha..This one too is claiming virgin???..hahahahaha….Well i belong to the married women club so you won't get any advice from MOI. lol..BITCH you are EVIL! that old fool has rented a house for you and give's you 5k every week? I know the poor guy's wife and children are already feeling the heat at home, OLODO! ANUOFIA! EWU! you want us to advice you on how to break a marriage! FRUSTRATED BITCH! Old runs woman AKA Public toilet! Mtcheeew.
ReplyDelete@General wife, 1000, likes.
ReplyDeletePeeps should stop taking our God for granted!He is never deceived and can never be mocked!
Dear poster,I'm in ur situation but I'm not a virgin. This man helped me but deep inside me I dun wanna get down wit him, I don't care about his mony but sometimes I do pity him like he has tried. Jes get a bf cz if dis man disvirgin u, u ll hate urself.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 7am that's the best comment so far. Ur head dey there. Me don collect over 6000$ from a single older man, not even a kiss, ta lo raye oshi. Make e try rape now, na jail e go die. Don't get involved emotionally is the rule, if the man tire to do mugu, drop him like hot yam and keep it movingggggg gurl to the next one. Use them to keep moving on the ladder and don't drop nothing. If they don't see the handwriting their business. The ones I've phobia for na the married ones, una wives get paralysis of the punani wey dem dey look for fcu.. up and down. Collect their money and be alright. The same way they for nack ur akpako. No time for dulling girl, u shd hv saved all that money. Praying and fasting on top married man, wetin d wife wan come do nah, leave his house jawe. Don't waste ur virginity on that man. I would even prefer u waste it on a single poor guy u love for what it's worth. BTW me no even be virgin and am a professional. But no shame in dis game, men also no get shame. Don't be dependent on mortals. Be celibate till you meet the right one.
ReplyDeleteSorry for the thesis, but girl u still a learner. Who curse me, back to sender in multitudes.
Aunty Stella keep up with the good job, God bless all our hustles.
Shout out to all you who keep this blog hilarious. Muah to m'amie, unquenchable pepper, wide eyed, Kenny ake, kaycee, Linda Eze, Irene, all of una sha. Dis my debut comment
Linda Eze,dont i just love you:-)?Poster,i know that sometimes you need it. Anyways,if you wish to continue sitting on your lazy ass,sell your virginity. You can market it thru the internet like all dose oyibo gals
ReplyDeleteLinda Eze,dont i just love you:-)?Poster,i know that sometimes you need it. Anyways,if you wish to continue sitting on your lazy ass,sell your virginity. You can market it thru the internet like all dose oyibo gals
ReplyDeleteNack him !!!
ReplyDelete*yimu* nack ya head 4 wall 10:17 na only u waka come?
DeleteOh my God i love dis super story hope it has part 2
ReplyDelete@Dr Blogger, so because the man she will marry may have dealt wrongly with other women, she should start giving her body to men, just like that. Then when wahala comes she should run to you. So if her future husband is someone that likes eating fire, she should do the same and when she is looking for ways to heal the burns what will happen? Most people that are promiscuous tend to have some serious emotional issues and scars that they are dealing with, so please seriously pray you do not marry a wife or husband like that, because the outcome is normally unfavourable.
ReplyDeletetruth is i feel your pain. if he was not married i would not have had problem with age. but if u have come this far keeping your virginity then it has to be for the man youwill call ur husband. its not easy in this time and age and so i salute your courage. be wise and like stella said, the choice is yours. good luck
ReplyDeleteI jst hate dis Linda Eze...Empty vessels make d loudest noise...Rich pple dnt show dey r rich,pple see it in dem...Poor rat!!!
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