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What do you do when Family tries to run you out of town and plots for your downfall?..Is blood really thicker than water?
''Dear Stella,
My story is too long but I'll summarize. I am from a polygamous home where there is no semblance of love. My dad abandoned my mum, he eventually turned us all against her-he was quite fetish but whatever he did wore off because I renewed my relationship with her shortly after. The issue now is, my parents are both dead and because of reasons which are too deep to share, I cut off from my family. Not all of my sibs even attended my mum's burial. In place of love and support is extreme envy and betrayal-esp amongst those of us from the same mum. I am the 7th of my mum's 9 children. She was the 1st wife.
Once I cut off from my siblings I had problems at work and even where I am schooling right now; I was bullied severely. At my last place of work before I left Nigeria, I was treated in the same manner. After almost 2 years I am finally discovering that it is my family members who are tracing me and sending emails to colleagues/contacts and classmates trying to hurt and embarrass me. Someone once spitefully read out part of an email from my family member to my hearing until a classmate tugged at her and made her stop. I still could not believe it until I stumbled across my brother's profile on an anonymous blog where MY OWN FLESH And BLOOD recommended the same bullying I got and never understood.
You people should please advice as these are people who did not even cry when my mum-who suffered so much for us died after two strokes with a 1 year interval in which they neither called nor visited her. I was the one with her in the hospital, I kept trying to get their attention by calling and texting but they were not interested but now I am trying to cut off from such wickedness they have taken to the internet to find me and embarrass me wherever I go.
Sadly people believe everything that comes from a family member; imagine my brother writing and asking me to withdraw from a Masters program abroad and to return to Nigeria because I was being bullied only for me to discover it was them that influenced my classmates in the first place??? What do I do? Please help. Thank you''.
Hmmmmm
ReplyDeleteReal hmmmmmmnnnn. This is really deep.
DeletePoster you need to start seeking the face andprotection of God.
If they can attack you like this physically, i wonder what they will do in the spiritual.
This battle is not yours but God's.
It is well.
Patt Ogar pls stop posting comments or go anonymous! Mtscheew. Pls dear poster DO NOT withdraw from your program. Ride it out. Bullying will stop! Reduce ur presence online. Change name if need be. Also, u can attack instead of hiding. U can anonymously go online to attack them too. Wicked people.
DeleteChange your profile online and avoid having any contact with them...if they persist, go to court and file a restraining order against them!
DeleteChange your profile online and avoid having any contact with them...if they persist, go to court and file a restraining order against them!
DeleteVery simple. Change ur name. No advise here would suffice trust me. Too deep. Beyond human understanding because I feel u.
DeleteHmmm. Don't know what to say really. But poster, you could be wrong you know. I think your issue may be a clear case of sheer bad luck. Best way I can put it. It doesn't eliminate the family issue but don't assume that every unfortunate incident that befalls u is from them. Have a general over view and an open mind about it all. The Devil may be beclouding ur judgement to deviate ur attention from the probable root cause of ur predicament. Thus not allowing u to redeem yourself. We all say the 'witches' in our household are behind any near success syndrome that we experience. But they remain imaginary until proved otherwise. Godspeed
Deleteyou said they monitor you through the internet right..so reduce your presence on the internet go under,change ur lines,jobs and even your frnd it is a big sacrifice you shld ready to bear.all the best
ReplyDeleteNa real wah !
ReplyDeleteThis one is pure enemies from within
Poster, u really need God in ur case
habaa! Prayer is all i can advice u
to hold.....it is well
I have read this before now, I can't really place my finger on it but I have read this sob story elsewhere and all I can say is... really?
DeleteHehehehe. U like dat. Like really? There are so many questions that we cannot answer but really? First of all. U are abriad like u said. If u no want disturbance....easy. change your number. Anyonw who bullies yiu especially professional can be severely dealt wuth...easy thing go report them so school authorities. To be honest you sound like a whiner. Man up abeg. Your mums dead...kpele. they dudnt mourn..you cant force anyone to mourn. Stop taking panadol ontop trivial issues biko abeg.
DeleteI no understand o, how do they get your colleagues and course mates contact details. You may be suffering from a paranoid disorder. A lot of Nigerians have it, they think everyone is out to get them.
DeleteAt ngbor. If all you can say is really', then you should really shut up and keep your mind sealed, it hurts to see that people want advice and al som people do is make stupid sighs mchwwee....
DeleteGoing forward, dear poster once God shows you ur enemies they cant hurt you again, now that you know them cut off from them totally do a change of name and move on run run run as fast as your being exists. Move on and start a new life, family can either make or mar you.
To me o,dis your write up Is senseless.cos if U see Real family wahala,u won't even obtain visa in the first place.u are living fine na
ReplyDeleteHahahahhhahjajajjajajajhaahhahhahhahhah best comment ever. .. @poster if u see family wahala u go see free wifi but no phone/laptop to use.....please chill...
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Ah ah! Madam! This is just too harsh but funny tho.
DeleteFunminista,ur soooo correct.She sounds psychotic to me shaaa. Dats how madness starts o!!!! monitoring u thru d internet, bullying at ur age. Nne,visit d nearest psychiatric doctor make dem check ur head. #Amouttahere#
DeleteChizzy.
Abi oh. This one na small gbege you de see. This one na self induced wahala. Stop revealing too much info about yourself to your family members. Not just that cos even if you tell your brother or sister, they might want to brag by spreading your gist. So change your profile, email address and co. That way noone will really track your progress and all.
DeleteMy late papa, whenever he wanted to introduce us, he would mention our names and add that so and so are running their Masters programme in so and so. We had to warn him to stop it oh, cos all these people are not genuinely happy for your progress mehn!
Howz d write up senseless.i have a sister that behaves exactly like this mayb not as severe bt she is as envious as they come,once a good thing comes to your life,her anger cnt even be hidden,so i understand what the writer is talking about
DeleteAs silly as u sound, there's an element of truth in ur post
DeleteYou're actually an idiot! So! Everyone who's able to obtain a visa and live abroad is "living fine". Gutter mentality.
DeleteAnon 2:11 gutter mentality indeed. I knew of a person who was abroad and really miserable until he came back. He's doing so well now and he's really happy. Started his own business and all.
Deleteon to*
ReplyDeleteIgnore the bullies, build your own character, make it impossible for people to hate you, put out some sort of disclaimer on your social networking profile, PRAY! PRAY! PRAY!
ReplyDeleteFirst of all madam, how old are you that you are being bullied? That on ain't bully no more, get the popo involved ASAP. Restraints should be served to the culprits.
ReplyDeleteThen your siblings, go off any social network radar.Change your email addresses and phone numbers.
Then when you are done with your masters, relocate to another territory and start all over.
Iin all, you need someone at least to be there for you and will always have your back.
My dear, hold on to God o!Have a close relationship with the father through Jesus and you will be at peace with yourself!!
It is well!! xoxo!!
This one pass me abeg
ReplyDeleteAnd e don pass "be careful"
Make I sidon first!
Wow ! This is very serious !!! Yes , blood ain't no thicker than water .Sometimes family brings you down faster than strangers cos na who sabi u fit kill u.
ReplyDeleteThis sounds to me like a deep rooted and long standing problem so I won't even advice u to bring them together and make peace.
If you've convinced yourself beyond all reasonable doubt that detaching yourself from them is the best way to go then maybe you can change your name or something.
That way it'll be much harder for dem to trace you
You need serious prayer! What you should do again aside from praying is just be yourself, now that you know the course of your problems, just face life positively and try to ignore them, try to have good and great friends, they will help a lot
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This is so hard and deep...
ReplyDeleteWhat's their age?they should grow up joor,what's with the bullying?....
Poster,can you swallow your pride and make peace with them?..I don't mean being close or friends with them...just hello hi kinda friendship....
OR if you can develop a thick skin and ignore them...cut off any link especially mutual friends between you and them...leave social network for now,keep your life PRIVATE...
Omo, ur siblings are WICKED with a capital W, is it jealousy or what? Why will de stoop ds low to use d Internet against u. Really u didn't state what actually transpire between u guyz, would have been a bit easy to advice u dear. But I expect u hold ur head up high n continue with your life, pray always, do not let their threats get to u, though it's quite painful when all these hate is coming from one's own blood related family. If it were to be outsiders, u would have run to ur family, but d very family members are d ones doing this. Pray my dear, pray always, if de can tarnish u ds way, den de can also kill u. Avoid them for now, their must have been something ur father planted against ur mum in their hearts, they still hold that feeling. Since u went back to be with ur mum b4 she died, de have stretch d same anger towards u, ds is more deep than u can imagine, pray 4 God's protection upon ur life daily n ask God to avenge ds wickedness 4 u. Takia dear n put a smile on that face, I'm praying 4 u.
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ReplyDeleteDear poster, this ur story get K leg oh, how did ur brothers in Nigeria know the email of ur class mates abroad,how did they also get the email of ur colleagues where u worked before,plz run away from this blog cos u don't ve anything to say. Fake story.
Fb can do great things... All they just need to do is get names of people tagged in a picture with her and find their email address or better still send them a message.
DeleteCommon sense dictates innit. Na so dem dey fail JAMB.
DeleteI cant get as much information from a person‘s LinkedIn profile.
Ppl don't use their office email accts for fb. Tagging won't wrk. Story Fake
DeleteStory of life! .........Mz BAUER
ReplyDeleteBLOOD IS NOT THICKER THAN WATER.......SIBLINGS AND FAMILY CAUSE A LOT OF GRIEF...
ReplyDeleteFOR ME,I HAVE COMPLETELY STAYED AWAY FROM MY FAMILY AND ANYTHING THAT CONCERNS THEM.
ITS A BIT OF A LONG STORY BUT THIS IS IS THE BEST DECISION I HAVE EVER TAKEN.TAKE IT FROM ME,SOMETIMES,U NEED TO TAKE DRASTIC MEASURES TO ACHIEVE SOMETHING.
ANGELRAY SAYS
ReplyDeleteDear poster, this ur story get K leg oh, how did ur brothers in Nigeria know the email of ur class mates abroad,how did they also get the email of ur colleagues where u worked before,plz run away from this blog cos u don't ve anything to say. Fake story.
My dear household enemies abound not only in polygamous family alone. I will adice u ignore them if possible naturalise were ever u are. Goodluck n dnt forget prayers too cos it does wonders.
ReplyDeleteAdvice
DeleteThis is weird, really weird! Poster, please consult a highly spirit-filled pastor...
ReplyDeleteThere is more to this than you could ever in your wildest thought had imagined.
Dear seek spiritual help, I repeat, seek spiritual help!!!
This life is one hell of a roller coaster, may God see us all through it...
U don't need all these if this is truly wot is going on. I don't care if blood is thicker than okoho (ask Idoma pple). U need 2 cut cut them off. If its really meant 2 be u guys will reconnect 1 way or anoda in d future. Just make sure u aren't doing dem wrong n don't pay evil wit evil.
ReplyDeleteHian! To be sincere, I think the poster is suffering from paranoia. How can ur siblings in Nigeria contact ur classmates abroad and be talking rubbish about u. Check urself very well. I might be wrong though. This ur story is somehow.
ReplyDeleteComplex issues....but it's this kind of complexity that makes me thank God because though I'm not from a rich home,I didn't get all the things other kids got but the love my parents showered on us is immeasurable
ReplyDeletePoster ur story don't really add up, u ve nt really said wat dey did, gv instances. U want us to advise based on dis shabby story.
ReplyDeleteHmmm this one pass me o. How did they get contacts of your classmate abroad?
ReplyDeleteHaba, its easy na....people take pics and tag others on fb......then u can view their profiles and get mails, phone numbers and addresses sef.....
DeleteBlood of jesus! This is definitely spiritual o, I don't see any other explanation. Pls run to God nd hold him very well before them kill u trowey
ReplyDeleteStella please stop encouraging rubbish. People abroad mind their business and a masters program is not boarding house. Where your family member will call someone to fight you. And they all actually gang up against you. When people have projects and bills to pay. How long do you even stay in one class with all your degree mates at one time. Depends on the classes you take that term. This story is a lie. Jobless Nigerians, go and find work instead of manufacturing blog stories, while your mates all over the world are doing life changing things. See your useless life
ReplyDeleteSpot on!
DeleteYou said it all.
Seconded jare.
DeleteI wonder! Who have your time when there are bills to pay and assignments to summit? There is more to this story and if you cannot spill all, then keep it to yourself. You don't need any genius to tell you to become invisible online and disable your fb twitter and instagram!
DeleteI've come 2 realise that blood is not thicker than water. Infact water washes blood away. Strangers bcum family n family bcum strangers. Speakin 4rm xperience.
ReplyDeleteExactly my experience,blood my foot family sometimes is overated,I cut off my sister inlaw because she has been treated me and my family badly.my husband can have contact if he wishes but myself and children are out of reach
DeleteExactly my experience,blood my foot family sometimes is overated,I cut off my sister inlaw because she has been treated me and my family badly.my husband can have contact if he wishes but myself and children are out of reach
Deletein this kind of situation only prayers work,and dont let their bully deter u from achieving your goal
ReplyDeleteThis your story get as e be oo.
ReplyDeleteBut it will be fine.
The darkest hour is just before dawn.
GOD will see you through.
Ignore them all as much as you can and while this might sound'bothersome',it's time to get closer to God so that He can fight your battles. Even the bible said' a man's enemy are they of his own household'. Start praying now so that they won't finish you.
ReplyDeleteYou have very wicked brothers! U have to be careful! The way it is going, they can kill! If they have the guts to write your class mates and plot a bully plan on you, they can go to any length to bring you down! Listen poster! At this stage of your life, I think you should cut them off! You sound like someone in his late twenties! If yes, this is the time to build and form your life! I hope you are not dependent on them? Draw the line now! Don't tell them about every good things coming your way! They need not know your routine! Stay away from social media! Like facebook! Badoo! E.t.c! Just focus on yourself! I'm not saying you shouldn't talk to them, please do, while you are at it, learn to be diplomatic!
ReplyDeletePepper ose oku! The most beautiful!
Pepper ose oku! This na make up story na. Make you read am again
DeleteHow did he get to know u were being bullied? How did he get the contact of ur classmates that are overseas? Who even told them the university where u re doing ur masters? I think u re the architect of ur own problms. U didn't really cut off frm them, else they won't hav access to those details. Or are u the type dt live ur life on facebook? Then u ve got to stop. If u must keep in touch wt them, call wt a hidden number once in a while. Above all, pray for peace in ur family, cos u they re stil ur siblings no matter what. Find a way to give them an impression dt u re now at peace with them wtout givin them the salient details of ur life. As for the bullying, ur classmates wil get tired of it.
ReplyDeleteIs it possible for you to cut off completely, I mean, erase all traces of how they could find, locate or know where u are or what u re up to. Delete them on ur facebook. Stop posting pictures that would suggest to them ur present status or what exactly is happening to you. For me its a very easy thing to do. I have stopped postin my pictures on facebook or update status bla bla. If I need to reach anyone, I send them messages. Also be carefull of friends and the level of imofrmation you give out. Anyline of info u feel they could use in reaching u even friends cut it off. Above all be prayerful incase they decide to result to diabolical means
ReplyDeleteAnother senseless, cooked up story. #Yimu.
ReplyDeleteCan't u cut off any means by which they can trace u?. U are not ready for action yet oo. How are they gettin ur colleagues or friends contact. U have not cut off from them at all. They still know what's up with u and u said u have cut off. Mayb u don't know what it means to cut off from someone
ReplyDeleteHuh??am gonna pass cos me no understand****
ReplyDeleteI hope you are psychologically ok? If you are, then get a restraining order against your classmates. Leave social media for now. Rose
ReplyDeleteYou don't know what it means to cut off from someone. Let me give you a typical example. When my sister and I discovered that our elder ones were completely envious of us and might also be diabolical, we stayed away. We both got married and they didn't know. We didn't tell them about it neither did my mum. Infact they still think we re single and still stayin wit mum cos when they call mum and ask of us, she says we are fine. I travelled out of the country, non of them knew. They think they know what's up with us but they are far behind. For me, I don't even tell people my plans until I'm done with it. If I tell you I want to do something, be rest assured that I've done that thing already. So poster wisen up oo. Wisdom is profitable to direct
ReplyDeleteGbam.
Delete@ anon 11.24, I am as perplexed as you are. With Facebook and all anyone can trace anybody. Why would I put up a story for advice if is fake??? I can't give details because it involves spiritual attacks of the kind you would neither understand nor believe.
ReplyDeleteIf it's as spiritual as you say then you know how to handle it. Go spiritual too. The Christ kind of way. If your heart is right and you really serve God all will turn out well for you.
DeleteAbegi, since u know it is spiritual I c no reason y ur asking us for advice, u should b asking pink shell for prophet Joseph Abi jonnah's number so he can deliver u toO. Abeg carry ur mumu story go sleep.
DeleteThanks to all those who advised-particularly on prayers. Trust me, it is only prayers that have brought me this far. I couldn't give details as it is spiritual...a friend advised me to see a man of God and he was the one who disclosed some things that put me on the run in the first place. Since I cut off from them, the mysterious battles I was facing stopped; except over plans they found out before I carried them out. I am not dependent on them-I have been responsible for myself for years now.
ReplyDeletePlease kindly help me with the Man of God‘s contact detail.
DeleteSomeone here is in your kind of situation.
Also I did not state that they mailed "all" my classmates and colleagues; it was only one lady who read a mail/letter/whatever from her computer before she was stopped but in a class of just 14 people, damaging information about one person from their own family can cause a lot of harm especially since it was within the first few months of the program when they hadn't known me. Bullying also does not mean they were physically assaulting me but they treated me so shabbily and isolated me, details will be too long but well, it is what it is.
ReplyDeleteLearn to not care about people's opinion about you to succeed in life...your class mates, are classmates apart from school work,what again do you want? Make your own true friends....close all social media accounts...yes all!..time to properly cut off, if your story is true...wishing you luck!
DeleteP.s.. this is the real tinkerbell...I don't comment all the time,except I am moved to. the person using my name both on bellanaija.com and here should find a name, I refuse to change my blog name because of you and I definitely won't be exchanging words here because of name too..
Go n sleep my frd
DeleteGo n sleep my frd
Deleteblood is thicker than water doesnt apply to all aspects...@poster,if u trully wanna cut off from ur family,u change ur sim,confide in urself alone(not even ur bestfriend or lover of any kind) then wherever u travel to;u keep the location to urself and every other thing u do;u just make it private or perhaps very very confidential just for ur safety..if its possible;u change ur name(i guess u would since u are opting out of family).....finally after u ve done all these;i dont think any living soul could trace ur existence on this planet except u make ur location and activities known to someone or maybe if jazz is involved in searching for ur whereabout(but i doubt soo)...remember what remains with you stays with you aldsame..
ReplyDeleteI don't understand dis ya story sha o!dia is a lot u haven't said that would have helped us put one and one together.
ReplyDeleteWell.....always pray with psalm 35 in d midnight.
Lest I forget; the anonymous blog where my brother wrote wasn't addressed to people around me-it was an open thread. He just wrote things that were almost identical to an email he sent me. When I followed his handle, I discovered a page where he wrote detailed stuff about himself-that was how I knew he was the one. Anyway, it is well.
ReplyDeleteYou have a vry active imaginatOn, Plz Seek help coS UR mind is playing tricks on u.
DeleteThunder fire household enemies and monitoring spirits!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteWht kinda silly story is dis biko?... u're enrolled in a masters degree program outside the country and u can't express your self properly... u'll talk up and talk down in d end u don't make any sense. Your brother probably sarcastically told u to come back outa anger when u'll call him and be saying u're being bullied at ur age and level... I think your case is a simple case of paranoia... ask your GP to refer to to a psychiatrist
ReplyDeleteWhat are you doing on the internet all the time?reduce your social media interaction,cut people off and get serious spiritually!you are lucky you are not in the same country so what's your complaint?just sulking like a baby,
ReplyDeleteAre you sure you are not imagining things?All these accusations against your siblings make no sense to me. They incite your friends and colleagues to bully you? To what end?
ReplyDeleteYour story lackscrucial information that would have helped in giving you the necessary advice. Still, all I will say is whatever medium they are using to "monitor" you, KILL IT! For your good, deactivate all your social media accounts. In short, is it possible for you to stay away from then? If No, then create another one with a different name and restrict the people you approve as friends. Also DO NOT POST any private matter online. Social media has given people the chance to become monitoring spirits. Like others have said, change your line, phone, mails and any of your contacts in their possession. Also, be mindful of things about yourself you share with your "so called" friends. Learn to guide your mouth. Lastly,if possible, change location.
ReplyDeleteDis is. ,y best advice to u pls try it and it will definitely works and u will see ur life moving forward and u will be so so happy, disactivate all ur social handle from d internet, stop telling people what u are doing or ur plans, make ur hubby and children d only friend u have in d world if u have one now, stop associating with people. Just be on ur own. Trust me it will work.dont ever call anyone in nigeria no matter who d person is. Stay focuse on whatever u are doing,try dis for 3 month and see how it goes. Thank me later my dear
ReplyDeleteEvery household enemy die by fire, yes ooo prayer works, just keep praying and also I guess there is a link between you and them some how just city of or make
ReplyDelete#sharon was here
How was it possible for ur family to be in touch with your classmates and colleagues? Anyway, its wise if you stay off social media or use a fake name. - desire
ReplyDeleteMAN'S GREATEST ENEMIES ARE THOSE OF HIS HOUSEHOLD... DIS LIFE EH
ReplyDeleteMy dear your brothers might be ignorant of all they are doing because you stated that your father was fetish. First of all turn to God who is the best friend and brother anyone would have. Then begin to pray that every spell put on your siblings that has led to this wicked behaviour over you should be broken. You just have to love them and know that they are manipulated. Love conquers all.
ReplyDeleteRight now you need Jesus in your life.
Poster pls I would like to be objective, try and make peace with your siblings, after which keep them at arms length. You know the saying with dinning with the devil? Let it come to use. Staying out of the social media would be tough on you, so I advice that u change your identity(name) when blogging, don't update your Facebook acct, so they won't be in the know with your where about, always be watchful(pray) and live life to the fullest
ReplyDeleteThanks for all your comments. And for those who don't believe my "sob story" I do also wish it was a dream I could wake from. As per my brother knowing I was maltreated, he sent me a mail with some details himself. How he knew-only God knows. It is my assumption that it is through the internet but if I am to believe what I have being told by a few men of God, it is a spiritual battle indeed and you can't physically hide from a spiritual battle; only the Blood of Jesus can shield you.
ReplyDeleteTo all advice seekers that come to this blog. If you want GREAT advice from blog visitors please try as much as possible to tell us at least 80 % truth so you can get the best advice from us.( that is if you can't tell us the whole truth ) Too many holes in your story, you are the only good one in your family? Really???
ReplyDeleteAgreed! 1000 likes Moi!
DeleteIf it is a spiritual battle as told by your men of God, then please fight it spiritually than coming to seek for advice from us that don't know the head or tail of this rivalry. Please go and concentrate on your prayers and studies and stay off social media.
Sibling Rivalry...all families have it...looks like you need to kiss his ass till you can stand by yourself..
ReplyDeletePls move to ukraine or paraguay and change ur identity!!!
ReplyDeleteWhen no one are with you,then you called on GOD in HEAVEN to come and be with you always,and i pity you again cos you already knew dats they are fellowing you on internet nd still come here to write about you,better you keep off from internet and telephone calling till after ur education ok'?but why did they all hate you?is ur mother fetish'?are you fetish too as saying like mother like daughter'?you did not mension God here,repent,,from swiss,enjoying my summer holidays
ReplyDeleteO Chim ooo. Bekee wu agbara
DeletePoster,ur story seems somehow sha......don't knw wat to say bt I pray God grant u d peace u desire
ReplyDeleteCute_shawty
Thank you all...and for the insults and flagrant dismissal some stories are truly hard to understand. I think this post was more about unburdening as I don't share my private issues with people anymore. I am as confused as anyone of you as to how I was traced but well I guess nothing is impossible right? *Also I didn't say it was "all" my siblings but I can't relate with some and successfully keep my privacy from others...
ReplyDeleteTruly, reading my narrative again made me understand why some might have doubts as there are many unanswered questions. Maybe I should not have put it up until I had more facts but I was so pained after I visited my bro's handle on that blog. The flagrant way he described how peer pressure should be used to teach a "show off" like me a lesson...part of what he wrote was that I feel superior to him and the others. I was and am surprised cos though we were never close cos of our upbringing, most of us never lived under the same roof for extended periods but I didn't think a brother 12 years older would suggest/support the idea that I was treated badly.
ReplyDelete...and just in case you, my brother, visits this blog, I will show you how I found you. You got the article from here http://www.yourofficecoach.com/topics/coworker_relationships/difficult_coworkers/how_to_deal_with_childish_adults.aspx
ReplyDeleteedited it, removed the "sibling rivalry" part, added the "peer pressure" part and pasted it here
http://www.nairaland.com/1740966/profile-childish-adult
It was the fire incident from a few years back, the same fire incident that made me travel down to take care of you that helped me identify your handle, mask it as much as you tried. If you ever get to read this, brother (F.E.O), I do not hate you, I forgive you actually but do not continue until God's judgement visits you...if my crime is that I am a "childish adult" please bear with me and pray for me but please do not continue to try to frustrate me. May God help us all.
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DeleteOne last thing; that my dad spiritually manipulated my siblings or not is an assumption-I didn't see him do anything. Only Lord knows how children whose mother suffered so much for them suddenly turned their backs on her for the last 17 years of her life and even after her death.
ReplyDeleteMy dear poster, I believe ur story 100%.u ain't paranoid or a psycho.my elder sisters are doing d same spoiling my name to my dad and ex-uni mates cus am pregnant at 26, d eldest was so angry cus she has been married 3yrs plus no kid, only god knows wat d 2nd is dragging wit herself cus me and her ain't d same in anyway; but no matter wat I hear they say I hv developed a thick skin, dem no born dem well as to say shit to me.so when I hear deir tales by moonlight and figment of imagination, I just laugh on cus I know sooner than later they will so regret it and fall into dat pit they have dug for themselves, just be prayerful, never narrate their own stories and cut them off, like I always say to do "sisterhood"or "family family" no be do or die affair.I learnt that a long time ago and it has really helped me out....just 4gt about dem and remember if nobody talks bout then u are nobody..
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