I was gobsmacked to read that torchlight carrying crooner Zaaki Azzay had re-married from the same family of his ex wife who ran away and filed for divorce after she claimed he continually beat the living daylights out of her.....she had narrated how she ran away finally on a day he almost killed her and almost forced her into taking tabs to abort the pregnancy she was carrying at that time....
Zaaki married his ex' cousin!....who does that?if he allegedly beat one cousin,why did the family allow him marry another?does that mean,they do not believe the ex' story?
Talk about the drama that must have ensued.
Is this normal?has anyone in here ever gone back into an ex' family to remarry?Was there any drama?
Please 'selfie' your story here and lets discuss it.
Does cupid strike twice in one family or is going back there to remarry born out of the desire to revenge?
if an ex married someone in the family,does it destroy blood ties?i am really very curious about this....
Bahahahaha goodluck to all of them
ReplyDeleteMy boyfriend's ex is my cousin's cousin. I mean my cousin from her mum's side while the other babe is from her dad's side. I didn't know till about 6months into the relationship and there's no going back @least not for that.
DeleteI know of a guy that dated the older sister and when he wanted to settle down, he told the family that its either he marries the younger sister or he walks. Their dad gave his blessings and he is still married to the younger sister while the older one never got married till date.
DeleteI really don't know what goes thru their minds but I can't see myself doing that.
The guy is a serious nut case. **psychopath** who does that? I don't av any story with regards to that. But he and his new wife's family are a bunch of embarrassment to humanity... God forgive us all
ReplyDeleteReal luv
ReplyDeleteKeeping it simple,keeping it safe.The fear of SDKer's cussing is the beginning of wisdom Patt babe.#winks#
DeleteAfi real luv naa...
DeleteAbomination doesn't exit in dat fmy.Abeg make una leave patt babe alone biko.
DeleteMaybe the entire family is mad. N u know some men can't stay without a crazy woman.
ReplyDeleteAbi na ghost dey impregnate all dis mad women.
Lol. Baddo Zaaki.
ReplyDeleteThe first wife left the house cos of domestic violence,her relative came in not minding the violence....that means that Zaaki and the new wife was having an affair even before the first wife left....height of desperation...this is an abomination where I come from....I have never seen or heard about it before....
ReplyDeleteBia Linda, who gave u this tittle? Buhahahaha Queen indeed
DeleteDey there...I don upgrade...LMAO...
DeleteLinda I owe u Pepsi, who knws if she's not d reason 4 d violence. Big abomination.
DeleteThat is their business and not mine. Next pls!
ReplyDeleteSalt
N u tink d next is gonna b ur biz? Salt ni sugar ko. Pls stop wastin space
DeleteWateva happened to d girl code? I don't think marrying a frnd's ex is even a good tin let alone a family member....well ppl always av their own views. I don't support it
ReplyDeleteGirl code?...d reason why many ladies will remain single fo life..so if u really click with a guy u'l say becos he once dated a friend u won't marry him?...later some of u will be fastin n prayin for a hubby,meanwhile uv let him pass cos of a silly girl code
DeleteTomorrow when he sleeps with her again ud call her a witch. Marry oo
Deletequeen of SDK blog hope u are skul?
ReplyDelete0KIJA WIFE
Birds of a feather your bed mate ain't "skul" even though the submerge makes it to look as if she is*smiles*
DeleteChokwe!!!
ReplyDeleteOdikwa risky
What kind of people are these? Ha!
ReplyDeleteAbomination!
ReplyDeleteZaaki na wah oh na so girls scarce....na to pepper the forme wife abi? We got serious issues in Naija if you like go marry your sister na you sabi....
ReplyDeleteWetin u expect Stella, A Benue man would offer his wife or daughter to you as kola/refreshment when you visit. So marrying two cousins wouldn't be shocking to them.
ReplyDeleteBia,Benue has diff dialects. And Zaki is a Tiv man. Offering their wives to visitors ws wot we heard ws practiced long ago. As far as am concern,its still a myth. So when nxt u talk abt Benue make sure u know d particular tribe. For ur info am not Tiv.
DeleteCommon shut up you bloody idiot! How many benue have offerred u theirs. Anuofia just be talking out of point
DeleteA benue man. Do u know how many tribes there are in benue?
Deleteplus that giving wife thing is not true.
Dats true.Benue men offer their wives as gift 2 visitors. Dats why 89% of d population r infected wit HIV. It's a pity.Dey r very promiscuous. See Tuface wit baby mamas everywhere. Dats a typical benue man 4 u. Disgusting sets of pple.
DeleteI'm married to a decent Benue man. You are Sooooo wrong...
DeleteAnon 9:26pm, am really disappointed in who ever u are, benue people disgust u really?, have u ever witness a benue man giving his wife to any visitor or just hear say, all the girls 2face dt have kids for 2 face how many are from benue, I work with an international NGO that deals with aids and believe me you, benue does not have that percent, it was all political by the governor to get more funds.
DeleteWhen I saw this zaaki's news yesterday I typed congrats... After posting a thought came to mind is the lady marrying him sane? Or is that Tiv culture? Hmm... D family sha. Not wishing them anything short of joy but our fingers are crossed. Let's wait and see what becomes of the marriage.
ReplyDeleteStella dear, don't let this get to you, Hausa's are prone to marrying their cousin's and all... This is not new.
ReplyDeleteZaki is not Hausa though. Secondly, he didn't marry his cousin. The story is about him marrying his ex-wife's cousin.
DeleteIgnorance Chei. Sometimes it is best To keep quiet.
DeleteAlways read and comprehend before makinq comments. The mother to zaaki's 2nd wife is married to his 1st wife's uncle. So tell me how they cousins? And you come to make stupid general statements! I only have problem with qirl accepting to marrry him even with his history of violence and abuse in the past.
DeleteShe probably was the reason for the constant fights...women eh!! We r our own worst enemy
DeleteI have a story, its not the same but there is little similarity. There was a guy who my eldest sister introduced to the family as a friend. She was in a relationship with someone (whom she later married). This guy was her colleague and friend. He eventually became a family friend and my family knew him. He had a crush on my Sis but my sis was engaged to someone else, so it was pure friendship. After my eldest sis got married, he was friendly with my elder sis. They didn't date. Eventually, we became friends and we dated. My elder sis said he asked her out but he denied it. He said it was his cousin that asked her out on his behalf cos the cousin didn't want to outrightly confess his own feelings to her. My family was strongly against my relationship with him. He was no longer welcome in my house. My family felt he took advantage of me, that he is confused. The war was great between my family and me. It almost tore my family apart. Eventually the relationship gave way. I broke off not because of the issue. Am not even sure that my family would have ever accepted him. The guy is a great guy though. That's my story. Have moved on now. Thank God.
ReplyDeleteAs a true Christian
ReplyDeleteThe bible condemns that act solely.
See lev 18:18
Do not take your wife’s sister as a rival wife and have sexual relations with her while your wife is living.
They are not siblings but cousins.
DeleteShut up you demonic witch..... Which bible u sabi? Are they siblings? Ode
DeleteGenesis 29:
DeleteJacob married Leah and Racheal(sisters) and nothing happened to that guy!
Genesis 30:
He went as far as impregnating their handmaids (servants) named Zilpah and Bilhah.
Read Genesis 29 and 30 and see the meaning of sister rivalry.
Their rivalry was his gain. He seeded everyone.
#BackToBible
Stella see your dumb self !!! Quoting the Old Testament like you know anything !!! Go and read the New Testament and then correct your comment
Deletewhat kind of family(human) are this people? they shud be ashamed for allowing such disaster! if the new bride has no shame what of her parent? God help us all.
ReplyDeleteEndtime
Revenge maybe..I dnt blv cupid striked him twice in dat family.*shege yarinyan*
ReplyDeleteCupid "struck" u meant; there's nothing like striked
DeleteANGELRAY SAYS
ReplyDeleteNa wao for this guy oooh, y the same family, the girl too is desperate sha.
ANGELRAY SAYS
ReplyDeleteNa wao for this guy oooh, y the same family, the girl too is desperate sha.
Few months down the line, this blog will be bombarded with sad stories about domestic abuse! Women are the cause of their own problems.
ReplyDeleteThe curious case of stella. Oya wait first make I call zaki confirm den I'll get bk to u.
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Onwu na egbu nwa nkita anaro ekwe ya anu isi nsi-
ReplyDeleteOnly a confused person marrys a family's X. Na so d guy dick sweet d family members smh
ReplyDeleteHmmmm na wa o.. Waiting for comments to roll in! @xclucive!
ReplyDeleteThey gave the cousin to him, as compensation.... "KOLA" or maybe they could not afford to pay back the bride price from the first relative...... Zakky, when you are fed up with this new bride, go back for another cousin, sister or even mother!!!! Yeye de smell
ReplyDeleteToo bad!! Na wao!! Is he d only man in nigeria,,d girl's family needs serious prayr
ReplyDeleteHope the new wife knows what's waiting for her!....
ReplyDeleteAnd pls how do you advise someone that caught her husband having phone sex with a girl in the bathroom? As in he was taking photos of his d**k and sent to the girl and the girl also sent photos of her pu**y....
No advise. Just move on.
DeleteBut u can make an issue and get BP over some oloshi girl when no send u
Mogbe!!!...the woman should face her husband joor...dude is a dog...
DeleteMogbe!!!...the woman should face her husband joor...dude is a dog...
DeleteConfront d idiot. D embarrassment might make him stop or better still seize d phone. Men re becoming something else. No more dignity. To think that he is doing all that wt a smallie.
DeleteEven if u confront him and he swears to change...some men are just unrepentant cheats. Just pray to God.If na me....afi kill am aswear...that prick must get scar....
DeleteSTUPID married men that don't respect themselves! Tell the person not to sweat over the matter so as not to develop hbp for such an irresponsible man! Just let him know that you know the idiotic tinz he is doing and IGNORE the Buffon. Start to use condom to pass a message to him that you don't trust the nincompoop!
Deleteshuo! Strange tins happen in Nigeria
ReplyDeleteSomething is not quite right wit dis Man n his supposed wife...Esp as d wife is soo young...n way younger dan him.it happened in a family i know well...d Man is a strong christian wit a christian wife too.dey had a daughter.one day d wife died,some say mysteriously.buh i choose to say " suddenly" deir only child,a daughter was just 3 years den.and at dat time,d wife's younger sis was living wit dem.so i think about a year or so later,he Went and asked for d hand of D younger sis of D late wife...and dey agreed.from all we have heard,d family didnt object to the unión.they have being married for at least 12 years now.buh childless.and stil strong christians.dat daughter from d first marriage just finished sef school or so.i visit dem and m like,is dis not weird?! Not being judgemental buh its not something i would like my own person to do or find him or herself in.
ReplyDeleteEgun buruku...
ReplyDeleteMy advice to you cut the dick and mail to the bitch end of story he won't have any other dick to snap
ReplyDeleteLike seriously
DeleteHow can you people judge without knowing the full story?
ReplyDeleteZaaki kaabo o!
DeleteSo only zaaki can write that comment? Is your imagination that limited?
Deleteit is totally wrong for the family to allow another of their daughter to marry same man that maltreated the first given to him.
ReplyDeletewell...except there is more to it than what we know.
but we women sef, we are our own worst enemies. it means this so called cousin before now had eyes for the so called zaaki when he was married to his ex wife
...cousin may even be the reason for the beating he meted out to his ex.
oh well, she is out, you are in. enjoy! what goes around comes around.
My grandfather's second wife is my grand mother's cousin..the marriage divided the family. He later regretted his actions and said so on his dying bed.
ReplyDeleteI dnt no if this relates.. My husband was friends with my cousin, when my husband wanted to marry me, my cousin felt that if he wants to marry from our family it should one of his younger sisters. So he and his siblings did everything they could think of to stop the marriage but unknown to them we had been dating for more than a year and had developed a bond they couldn't break with their jealousy. It wasn't easy but we triumphed and are married now for almost 15 years. I just thank God for my life and my family. Am not on speaking terms with the evil cousins crew though and can't have anything to do with them ever. Afi marry your sister by force.. Mscheeeeew.
ReplyDeletePlp re wicked!!! Am scared of everyone nw, even my family members I dnt trust o.
ReplyDeleteStella......i disagree with u based on that bible story u used to justify dis act....u probably forgot that Racheal was Jacob's favorite,and he never intended to marry the two sisters but their father swapped Leah for Racheal when Jacob was asleep. Jacob woke up and found Leah beside him but still insisted on marrying Racheal because that was who he really wanted and he worked for another 7yrs just to have Racheal.....pls get an understanding of that bible passage well...
ReplyDeleteLinda said it all....they were already having an affair before the first wife left and that affair may just be d reason for the maltreatment of the first wife.