Have you ever trusted anyone so much that you told them A-Z and they turned round and used the info to stab you in the back?...or perhaps they told others when you swore them to secrecy?
This is a road almost everyone has been through.....lets share stories.
*I have a friend who dated someone and badmouthed his mum to her best friend and somehow the mum heard what her son's girlfriend said and swore he would marry her over her dead body.....she didnt die and he didnt marry her....sad story!
*Dated someone and described his blokos to a close friend and she introduced him to a friend of hers who liked it monstrously big...ah na so i find my way oh...lol
hmmmm..@stella....have had my own share
ReplyDeleteNow...I rather take my Secret to the grave with me....I keep my secret to myself
Frnds eeeh.....dey are always waiting for d time dey will Spill all of ur secrets out
@Galore
my dear,you just said what was on my mind
DeleteFor those that watch pretty little liars, u know what the song says - " 2 can keep a secret if one of them is dead". I have been lucky. From childhood, our mum always said never depend on man. This has made me cautious as he'll.
DeleteI don't have secrets, never had any i can remember right now.
DeleteAm I the only one like this?
I see keeping secrets as stressful and a burden. So I try to be blunt and truthful always(not claiming to be a saint o).
That's why I have and maintain few friends at a time.
"Friends" have betrayed me a few times using the info/gist I gave them. But those infos are not exactly secrets per say.
Anyways, that's life for you.
My sweet dad always says that the best secret is the one you told no one atall even an ant.
Dear SDKers, please please please, I need your sincere prayers, again.
I'm sick and on admission right now (my new born is fine,thank God). Just regained some energy this evening. The Lord is in control.
Thank God for my sweet mum and darling hubby. They are really trying for me,they are pampering me so much,that I feel like a baby.
Dear God, please continue to bless and protect them and all SDKers,Amen.
Will include u n my prayers madam genny. EVE E UME
Deleteure healed genny..........you shall live to eat the good of the land, jst said a prayer for you dear* congratz on ur bundle of joy #mummy of life.
Deleteure healed genny..........you shall live to eat the good of the land, jst said a prayer for you dear* congratz on ur bundle of joy #mummy of life.
DeleteYou are healed in Jesus name. Xoxo. Ok back to the matter, I usually don't feel comfortable telling people I have sickle cell disease until I extremely need to cuz I hate people pampering me unnecessarily. Now there's was dis frienemy I had, she knew about it and decided to insult me with it during a fight. In public for that matter! She told me i'll soon die anyway. Kai it pained me o. 5years after and I still dey like Dele #bigsmile
DeleteOh Genny,
DeleteYou are in my prayers dear.
Wishing you Good Health.
May the Lord heal you Genny,whatever pains you are going through,the Bible says and he shall decree a thing and it shall be established, i decree total and perfect healing into your life this minute.. inJesusName..Amen.Health and strength is yours in the name of Jesus,you shall rejoice and testimony of his goodness shall fill your mouth,in the name of Jesus Christ.. Amen.
DeleteMeanwhile;i dey vex for you oh but that matter go be later.
Thanks guys for your concern. God bless you all.
Delete#kisses.
I'm having this bad ass headache.
Seems my head will fall off.
Heal me Lord.
Chai!
@Genny the good Lord will perfect his healing on you in Jesus Name Amen.
DeleteGenny darling u are healed ijn. Take am easy ok
DeleteSimple if u have a secret take it yo ur grave for once u tell someone, It's No longer a secret. Don't trust anyone not even urself bcos u might get drunk oneday
ReplyDeleteWhen I was in Nigeria I had a close friend then. We were both from extremely poor family but luckily my first boyfriend then who was a barber had the opportunity to travel and started to send me money though his sister that lives close to me. Whenever I'm going to his sister to get things I always go with this girl ,never knew she was so jealous despite the fact that I always give her out of the money and gift. One day I was on okada and I sae her wearing. My jeans and top and I got down and I asked her with annoyance that how did she get my clothes without my knowledge. So we had a misunderstanding ,later she started to threatened me on phone that she will deal with me that wrap should bet it,, my spouse will leave me.luckily she never knew that I ws processing my VISA , a month after my VISA came and I came to London. A week after I got to London my partners sister called him that my best friend came thatshe should please give her his number that there is Sumtin important they need to know about me. Meanwhile the sister too didn't know that I'm already in London because she wants him to help her with some money. The sister refused to give my friend my husbands number but collected her own that he will call her. He got the number and called her while he put it on speaker so I could hear the conversation . As soon as my husband introduced himself ,this girl started to cry that uncle if you love yourself pls find another wife that presently I'm Living with another man and about 3months pregnant looking for ways to abort. My husband laughed and said I'm right here beside him. Jesus is lord, she was speechless .Sorry for my bad English .
DeleteGod delivered you from that jezebel you called a friend.
DeleteSeems your husband really has a good head on his shoulders- he didn't even tell his sister he was processing your papers- good one.
God delivered you from that jezebel you called a friend.
DeleteSeems your husband really has a good head on his shoulders- he didn't even tell his sister he was processing your papers- good one.
Hahahahhahahhaha.....nice one!
DeleteMy dear .. Ur storry is really touching .. Gods hand was really at work in ur life .. And dat ur friend is a fuckin bitch .. Bad bell ..
DeleteMy dear .. Ur storry is really touching .. Gods hand was really at work in ur life .. And dat ur friend is a fuckin bitch .. Bad bell ..
DeleteAdonbilivit! Can you imagine! Wow!!! People are wicked o!!!
DeleteInteresting life.... Thank God yours ended well. Where is your enemy now? Is she married?
Delete@dildo, u said my mind
DeleteWow! Lucky you dear. Your boo really loves you.
DeleteEver Dated A Mama's Boy? Click my name to read more and share your experience
I don't keep close friends so I have never experienced such...I am #TeamOneManSquad...I only do my aproko here thatsall...
ReplyDeleteI envy u. Dts the way to go my dear. A married woman doesn't even need any close friend.
DeleteLinda Eze, your head dey there...
DeleteMe and u na the same. No gadamn friend will come out and say I said shit abt someone
Everybody needs a friend..... I mean, what do you mean a "married woman" doesn't need a friend?
DeleteI'm married and, though I don't have friends, I'm hoping to make a trustworthy friend and am only taking my time.
Nnem chop knuckle! Friend owu onye ebee? Na solo tins oo
DeleteGbam! Thats the way forward except its not a secret, then i would tell - bc am a very open person. But if its sumtyn i actually consider a secret , forget it.
DeleteAt the age of 13 someone once said to me after I was betrayed by a guy I thought was my friend. He said" it is good to trust but it's better not to trust" those words stuck in my subconscious. Since then I've been saved from heartaches. Even if you profess love and loyalty I keep an open mind and prepare for the worst.
ReplyDeleteAv been in dat situation Bfor. I told a close friend then some stuffs dat were happening lyk maybe a few times I had cheated on my then bf. Wen me nd dis girl had a problem, she ran to tell him all o and evn extra. Evn his fone dat I took den and sold she went 2 tell him nd she ate frm d fone money wit me o. Stuffs I evn said abt his mum she still told him. Told him how I used 2 tk his money then nd all. Yes I fhuked up but her loyalty shud Av been wit me nt him. Anyway we broke up sha Bfor she told him all dis bt she spoilt my name 2 him cos he went arnd tellin ppl d tins he did.
ReplyDeleteLmaooo, you stole his phone, sold it and spent the money with your girlfriend? Hahahaha SDKers are hilarious!
DeleteLol @ his fone u took. Olé lol
DeleteThief u stole and sold ur bf's phone, ewu onye ori.
DeleteSad! But you self, you are very bad person. Dangerous human being. Bad people get bad friends. Birds of a flock !!
DeleteSo u are a kleptomaniac galfrnd? Huh?#runsaway for safety #
DeleteSo you're not even ashamed to say u stole his phone and cheated on him?! Ewu!
DeleteThe reason I stayed away from girl friends is because they can gossip for Africa, I thought guys were better, but one do me ehhh, I was doing something that I don't want by assumed best friend to know so I confided in a guy(a friend too) but I warned him not to tell my girlfriend, because she can never be discreet about things, the girl's mouth can lick for Jamaica. Na him the guy carry go tell the girl that she is too open, she tell her friends everything but her best friend is up to something good and didn't tell her because I think she gossips a lot.mehnnn wen I heard that see as I open mouth the look like moron.the thing pain me ehhh.Since that day I confide only in myself.
ReplyDeleteit always bad,it has happened to me,my former friend,i hv forgiven her but we cnt be friend anymore,this girl pratically mocked me with everything that happened to me,most she was there when it happeneds. me im one man squard cos i cnt deal with stupid girl trying to form mushin attitude on me. Today is bday* shines teeth*
ReplyDeleteLike seriously Naturelle??? Where is your picture na??? Oya, take just happy birthday until your picture/pictures is/are uploaded, then you get the rest wishes from me#ShinesTeethBack
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DeleteToday is mine too. Happy birthday
DeleteMicah 7 vs 5
ReplyDeleteDo not trust a neighbor; put no confidence in a friend. Even with the woman who lies in your embrace guard the words of your lips.
My girlfriend then told her younger sister of my skills in bed and natural endowment and the sister kept seducing me until we hit it. That was when she told me
DeleteAnon you've lost it
DeleteANGELRAY SAYS
ReplyDeleteI ve had worst xperience, my sister told my guy the tins i said abt him and dat almost destroyed my relationship,so i ve learnt never to trust anyone cos if my sister can betray me then a friend can kill me.
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ReplyDeleteI ve had worst xperience, my sister told my guy the tins i said abt him and dat almost destroyed my relationship,so i ve learnt never to trust anyone cos if my sister can betray me then a friend can kill me.
Let's face it. Most of u have done it and have experienced it from someone.
ReplyDeleteWaiting for people with imaginary enemies to come and start nagging.
Ekene kwam gi!
DeleteLet's face it. Most of u have done it and have experienced it from someone.
ReplyDeleteWaiting for people with imaginary enemies to come and start nagging here.
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ReplyDeleteMy dear if we all strt droppn our stories of trust issue am sure ur blog won't contain, ve had lots of experience. So I dnt trust ppl wit my secrets. Learnt my lesson d hard way
ReplyDeleteHahahahahaha, the last story is very funny. But well, once bitten, twice shy. It has happened to me somehow, wen I was in my final year. I knew a guy nd his cousin. Both of them are my friends. The cousin told me to run away frm d guy cos he's stingy. The guy lives overseas. I said fine and was just observing the guy. Within a short time, the guy spent a lot of money on me. I only told d cousin abt it, not necessarily as a friend but just to show him dt d guy is not as stingy as he portrayed. This cousin of his went on to tell d entire family abt the guy, painting d guy as somone dt spends extravagantly on women, mentioned d number of times he sent me money which I told him, in fact, he got to know dt d guy wantd to marry me nd made sure it didn't happen by tellin a lot of lies against me nd my family to d guys family nd openin many of d guy's secrets to me. I had lots of good options so I didnt really care, nd I didn't want to enter mrg wt too many gossips trailing it. He was so jealous cos he nd the guy re arch enemies. Later came to apologize to me sayin am too good for d guy. So since then, I decided never to tell anyone of my good fortunes until it clicks completely. The guy was more than nice to me and somtimes, I think of him nd wonder wat would av been if I didn't end d whole thn. Ppl can just get unneccessarily jealous nd decide to put sand for ur garri. So pls everyone should b careful cos d slightest harmless detail u give can b turned around to harm u
ReplyDeleteitU sound lik a responsibl girl. Wat if the guy is really a bad guy nd d cousin just wanted to save u frm him? Think abt it
DeleteThere is a saying that goes 'Dont be so mad at smone who let out your secret, cos even you could not keep it to yourself in the first place'
ReplyDeleteMi like ur comment wow.
DeleteU re on point dear
DeleteI so like ds comment!
Delete@Anon 12:25, u must be an amebor and betrayer obviously
DeleteTrust only God.
ReplyDeleteThe only person I tell my secrets to is my mom, because words I don't want on the streets I don't tell bitches. I'm a woman and women tend to fight dirty when looking for weapon/ammunition against our fellow human being.
Talking from experience, I've been burned too many times in the past and I'm learning my lesson now.
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DeleteI dont run my mouth anyhow? My left ear can not hear what my right ear heard. Talkless of all these fair weather friends every where! One man mopol!
ReplyDeleteNo matter what, we will always trust somebody in other to make it in this life but the important thing is trust and pray also....
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Trust noone. Hoes ain't loyal
ReplyDeleteI haven't found myself in such situation before
ReplyDeleteI'm very secretive person,I choose the things I tell people very carefully
Like you told the whole world via this blog how you gave a man with small D an endless blowjob.
DeleteLooool
DeleteBelieve everything people say on blogs and u would believe just about anything u hear in this world
Stelllaaaa....you sef,hw u go dey describe blokos!!!....if there is anything my friends complain about,its the fact that am too secretive....abeg I can't deal,carrying my secrets to the grave jare!
ReplyDeleteLol....I don't even trust myself..#sipsMoetnChandon#
ReplyDeleteIt's finished then.
DeleteLol... Had a crush on my x's friend, told my supposedly bff n she in turn told my x. Na that day I loose 2 dear ones o! Use to hurt back den but not anymore!
ReplyDeleteI have had friends that share their ish with me and I keep it to my chest not spilling..
ReplyDeletebut when I tell just one, next thing I hear it from others and the worst part is, lies set in. meanwhile you are the only one I am so sure I told. so how did the rest know?
abeg i don't have time to trust, i know better so i carry my ish on my chest.
so called friends always want to know your business and share your business.
when they "judge you", they claim they were just gisting, when you do it to them, they say you are a gossip and backstabber.
OYO things abeg
90% of SDKers have imaginary enemies. May God help us all
ReplyDeleteIf my friends are 100, 97 are male while just 3 are females...cos me no get time for girls palava.
ReplyDeleteI tell you what i want others to hear cos i know whatever that leaves ones mind ain't a secret anymore. The only person who has all my secrets, yet not my A-Z is my kidsis(My Best Friend)..lol...
Am yet to see that person to bare it all to, maybe its even you aunty stell, who knows???lol
Btw aunty of life that ur blokos betrayal gat me lolling.. Sorry you hear???lol
i have been betrayed before sha, though in other ways...but who cares??? That's why am going so low all in my own solo world.
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Everyone will come here now claiming 'I was betrayed by a friend,sister,blah blah blah..' Now d big question is who DID u also betray their trust?? If everyone is betrayed,who are d "betrayees"??? So don't come blabbing abt who betrayed u,also tel us who u betrayed o! Nobody holy pass!
ReplyDeleteBetrayer!! Guilty conscience
DeleteIf we all tell our stories stella your blog will not contain It o ...hmmm...the best thing in this life is to keep your secret to yourself ..be ur own best friend ...there is no best friend anywhere ..I learnt in the hardest way . People that I trusted messed up my relationships ..long story ..never ever believe in human because they will crumble your cake before you know
ReplyDeleteBeen a victim severally. Stupid me I never learned. Until recently when it almost turn to a biq ish if not for God's intervention. Now I don't trust n don't minqle. Back to my normal self oof one woman squad! I confide only in my mom n cis naw. Don't care if they say I'm too full of myself anymore.
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ReplyDeleteI began to have trust issue with people after my whole life and dignity was nearly sniffed out of me by my dear friend then.I wonder how people derive joy in other peoples downfall...Now i prefer to die in silent.
ReplyDeleteI told my friend something abt my bossom friend and i asked her to help me talk to her and she went and told my bossom friend something else and even lied against me nd it even made i and my then bossom friend worse enemies. It's been long tho buh i've learn't my lessons ~Tessie Gold~
ReplyDeleteMany years ago when I had my 1st bf I got pregnant and was so confused. I called my elder sis and she told me to go do DnC n even told me where to go. Fast foward to about 2 years later we were having a quarrel n some people were in our house, nxt thing she started shouting "shebi u don do abortion" blah blah. I was shocked to d bone cuz nothing concerned the quarrel with that gist. The people there were just looking @ me.
ReplyDeleteChai...LMAO
DeleteOmor .. Dis ur own no be friend betrayal .. No cis betrayal..
DeleteROTFL........
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ReplyDeleteA secret is no longer a secret when it is whispered to another!
ReplyDeleteI keep other people confidential matters to myself but when I confide in others about an issue bothering me, they say it out!
I have learnt to vent in blogs like yours and feel better about it.
When is your ranting post coming out stellistica?
I don't know why pple get unnecessarily jealous especially for good fortune. Pple envy me naturally cos God brought me frm nothing to somtin, grass to grace. So I stay away frm pple as much as I can. A lot of them creep up to you only to know ur worth but guess wat? When u kn ur worth u don't give discount to anyone.
ReplyDeleteI pray a lot to stay put into God's grace. I don't mingle. I miss some gatherings deliberately...life isn't always a bed of roses.
Thank God for my kids n hubby, they are my trusted friends.
That's why my lips are permanently sealed - Trust no one!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteI have no frds, so nobody to tell my secrets,I talk to God alone. But I have so many secrets oooo
ReplyDeleteCan't deal with with spillers
ReplyDeleteSo
I keep my milk frozen.
When PHCN commot light that milk go thaw and spill!!! *tongue out*
DeleteMy dear, I got burnt severally.I have learnt my lessons. Don't even wanna think or talk about it . Now, I confide only in God. And its has been working for me.
ReplyDeleteMy dear u can't keep ur secret? Mehn d tin go dey hot u 4 mind? Unless u open up? Not dat kind of secret dat will result dem say u say me say she say noooooo
ReplyDeleteLol I no get secret becos I tell everyone dat way e no pain me if anoda person hear am
ReplyDeleteLaw 3 of 48 laws of power by Robert Greene. "Conceal your intentions".
ReplyDeleteI had a friend bu didn't like her life style. Told someone about not as gossip but she sold me out as if I gossip about my friend. Each time I remember it I feel bad coz I looked like a bad person. I apologized to my friend but d r/ship was not like before. It was d 1st n last time time I saw myself in that kind of situation. Now when I don't like something about someone I say it to the person face to face n it makes d friendship better. Anything secret is mine I don't anyone and I don't like pple telling me anthing secret. Not like I will betray them but I don't like to carry that burden, mine is enough.
ReplyDeleteAm not secretive, so tell me wat have done dat u have not as a girl? My dear plp betray me al d tym & I promise 2 die wit der own secrets. It makes me beta @ d end. Dem say is wat I hate n can never find myself in n everybody stay away 4rm gossip wen wit me. Lolz I go call d person instantly.
ReplyDeleteMy husband is my best friend....Its been a while I had any drama like this...I don't like Chinese whispers....so #1ladysquad #saywhatyoumean #meanwhatyousay
ReplyDeleteYea yea Shit happens. Av learnt my lesson in a hard way too. I am happy I was betrayed severally by friends cos it tot me a whole lot and also made me see the power in forgiveness. As a married woman I have chosen to b a ONE MAN RIOT. #cant shout#
ReplyDeleteI had an acquintance that lured me to be suspended from school. I covered up for her because I saw myself as fully responsible as I could have said no to her when she asked me to come and sit behind her. However,I told her to take it to the grave but she went and told my best friend. I was there when they discussed me but could not understand a thing as they were speaking Yoruba. She did not end there, she went to tell the discliplinary committee without my knowledge but I was busy covering her up because I promised I would not implicate her.I eventually told my best friend after I stopped coming to school that I was suspended and she cried, rolled on the floor and all. A few days later, she told me she knew everything as the acquintance had told her. The other person even told my best friend that can't she see that I was acting abnormally(I was pregnant as at the time of my suspension). My best friend went to further broadcast my suspension gist to other people including a church deaconess that is her friend until it got back to my ears.It took the grace of God that I did not run mad. I am taking one day at a time and I solely believe that God will vindicate me.I had evidence that could send the acquintance (oluwatoyin) suspended but decided that vengeance is the Lord's. As for Buki, we are not friends anymore. I had to block her from my facebook and get a new contact. I kept all her secrets, but she stabbed me in the back when I needed her the most.My motto now is "Anything you do not want anybody to know, don't tell anybody." Also, only God is worthy of trust. My husband is the only human I can confide in and God has used him to comfort me. He is my best friend for life and his being born again has made life less miserable for me. I don't know any of you that has had an altered life because a friend stabbed you in the back. Do not retaliate, there is a law of reaping and sowing. Just ignore them and keep on living. May God wipe your tears and strengthen you to live again.
ReplyDeleteMay God bless you and keep you. What you think is altered may just be his plan for you. In the bible, when joseph's brothers sold him, they thought they were putting an end to his dreams but they didn't know they were actually helping him. The road may be long and rough, but in the end it will turn out to be in your favour.
DeleteHmmmmmmm ......a guy dat had come to visit my family for introduction. ..my so called friend...dat I gisted her about my relationship and told her of how e sister dey worry me ....na so she talk every added salt pepper etc ....I stop being her friend becos she was too despirate..was even sleeping with my bf bro..I distant my self ooo..even hear say d girl go baff for river..nd my pastor warned me about friends..so my secret and goodnews is to me myself and I *sorry for bad English*
ReplyDeleteKeep your secrete to your self.
ReplyDeletesdk bouncer and kadybia thanks alot abeg i no chop liver make i just hide my self and anony hbd to us.
ReplyDeleteWhat I tell anyone, I can tell everyone!!
ReplyDeleteIf there's anything I consider a secret, then it has never passed throughy lips.
The only problem i have got now are my wife and the mother of my only child using every secrets i told her to keep for family nd biz as a wife i can trust,are now using it all to fuck all my close friends,empty home no rock again,sorry for her future
ReplyDeleteEven my horseband has done me strong ting. I no dey tell am shi shi. My trusted friends are enough.
ReplyDeleteI use to have friends until one day when one boy wan marry me,my stupid friend went and told the guy everything about me. The guy cut out. From that day I became a one man squad, my best friend now na my fiance and myself. #Woman are pack of BS# fear them#
ReplyDeletei keep my secret to my self,my friends complain about me that am too secretive .nd i tel dem dat is d best....no more friends but frenemies..#DOVE
ReplyDeleteI have a childhood friend you betray herself&the trust we share,initially thought she was mad over her messed up hair,but the things she said,shocked me to my bones I cried for a few days&asked God to be judge,she even went as far as telling my husband that if she opens her mouth,my hubby just advised me to stay away from her That she is bad news.I want to thank her though,because of her betrayal I ran back to God TOTALLY&I am all the happier for it:) Thank you
ReplyDeleteBut everyone that has said one thing or another here has betrayed someone too. I have though I never meant to. I didn't even tell the ppl she said I told what has happening in her life but words gets round fast. She was my best friend and 6 years later I still miss her everyday because we both went our separate ways even though we live in the same town. That's life though, so when someone betrays Me I find it easier to forgive. Cus we all are humans and we make mistakes. If u don't trust any one u will lead such a sad sad life. The beauty of life is love and friendship..... Just chose ur friends wisely that's all. I HAVE AMAZING FRIENDS. I'll guard them and love them forever and yes I do trust them
ReplyDeleteHmmm! Tori dey for inside well.If I draw small up e go never finish.
ReplyDeleteTori dey for inside well abeg.Na endless gist.
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