RIP Adaora Okoli - Blog Visitor Sends Late BFF A Tribute Before Her Burial...

RIP Ada Okoli

Tribute to my Friend.

My name is Tosin,exactly a month ago I lost my friend.We were best friends throughout secondary school and inseparable until her death.

If you needed me ,she knew where I was.If a guy liked me,they liked us or vice versa.

It has been a very difficult one month for me.I see her all the time and she is constantly on my mind.She knew how much I loved her,but as we went to different universities I stopped saying just how much but death is always a reminder and very final.Ada came and helped me share my questionnaires for my final project and what I had been struggling with just was settled in under an hour.When she was coming to visit me , I will hide my bag and shoes but she will find it and laugh at me for trying and still take it.

I miss her spirit,she was full of life and there was never a dull moment.Throughout  our friendship that spanned for eleven years we fought twice and it was a disaster!lol.She was like my soulmate.She had a new best friend in her Uni but we were  sisters.A part of me is gone forever and it will never be replaced.A part of me misses my friend so much my tears have dried up.Ada Okoli my sister,my friend whom I could hide nothing from.

She always caught me wen I lied!lol.She will say Tosh Tosh!You have come again!Your death has changed me,quieted me,made me introspective and I'm taking account of my life.If I  had one more hug to say goodbye and say how much I love you,i will take it and never let go.God  has you now ,you are in good hands.He will cuddle you .

I'll be missing you everyday and as you are laid to rest soon,find peace.Gone but never forgotten......Ada Ada......Adaora Okoli.

For those who have best friends,lovers,sisters,family....you never know when death comes knocking.Love them something fierce.Every day is a gift from God.

RAda died in an auto accident on her way back to school.

*RIP Ada..
Take heart Tosin,my heart weeps with you.