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This is her story,her boss raped her and after the act offered to take her to a car shop to pick a car of her choice.The poster is reading the comments on the initial post and wants to clear the air.
RAPED BY MY BOSS....Blog Visitor Narrative.
Hi Stella......
Answers to your questions ...of course it was rape...
I wasn't excited .....
I didn't know he would result to rape!
He told me to bring the document to a plaza when I got there I called him and he told me he
left there already and I should bring it to a hotel nearby,I was feeling uneasy but I told myself he won't try sleeping with me forcefully because he has a reputation to keep,the painful part of this story is that he laughed and bragged to my face that he would rape me before the struggle started.
I can't get the scene off my head.i quit the job already.i was given advice by my friends to collect the car he was offering so as not to loose everything,my job and my dignity but I cant even stand my own skin talk more the mere sight of him,
I've decided not to take the case up,but to expose him for the rapist he is.post his pic.
hes an animal . He's running for senator for his constituency.I read all the comments and your questions, I just felt I had to give you answers myself,I'm just burning up with hatred inside.thanks for all the replies I appreciate''.
*I am really shocked because both the rapist and the one that was raped are such beautiful people...why will such a handsome man force a woman to have sex with him?from the pics she sent,he looks like a very rich man...
OMG my dear you are so beautiful...so beautiful.please try and put this behind you since you dont want to pursue the case legally.
Now she wants me to post his pic and leave hers out because of the stigma placed on ladies raped but i only think it would be fair that i publish both their pics or none at all.
She says the incident happened in Abuja and she changed the location out of fear.
I asked her if she was trying to set him up and her reply says it all
''I wouldn't want to bring down an innocent man,there are text messages,but then again how would you ascertain if it's true,if you want to post it on your blog without his picture it's fine by me,I just want this out in the open so I can feel a little better,he actually attends winners,when he was about to rape me,he said even quoted the bible "saying the kingdom of God suffereth violence n d violent take it by force"''
What do you think blog visitors?
Pls post the man picture dnt post the girl pic to avoid been stigmatized
ReplyDeleteAunty Stella! Aunty Stella!! Aunty Stella!!! How many times I call u? Do NOT post that pic!!! How are u sure d pic she sent of herself is her real self? This could be a setup u can always chill for her to report to the police, we'd love to see the evil man but then again what if?
DeleteThe man's picture is already on another blog. Sad.
DeleteThe man's pic should be posted. He should be named and shamed! I've been a victim of rape,and I know the pain and stigma. The bastard raped and beat me black and blue. I even reported and the insinuation was that I consented to sex. It's a pity. This asswipe should be disgraced so it will serve as a deterrent to others. Shame on all those who use church to decieve people,quote the bible upside down and commit atrocities under such. Beasts! Mtchewwwww!!!
DeleteStella please don't allow your blog to be used as a tool to destroy people's reputations. Don't be taken advantage of, because of your good-nature.
DeleteI remember a story u posted about someone who claimed to come from a French-speaking country and was asking for financial assistance. Blog visitors eventually exposed him as a fraudster.
In as much as rape is a terrible crime, you have absolutely no evidence to prove this took place. You only have this girl's story to go on. How do you know this actually happened?
There is always a great outcry in cases of rape and DV, and the poster may be banking on this. I'm not saying her claims are not true, but we simply have no proof.
Even if u somehow manage to get through to the accused man, do you think he would admit any guilt?
Please just continue to do your bit by raising awareness and do not take this any further until you have proof beyond reasonable doubt.
#fortheintegrityofyourblog!
You are right.. smells like set up to me
DeleteStella, please don't post the pix. Hope this girl can pull much stuns like Ese Walter did.
DeleteAnyway, Poster collect the money for the car and start up something wiv it since u ain't ready to take up the case.
Don't post d pictures...it could be a poltical opponent @ work n how can we be so sure it's d lady's real picture
DeleteAbegi, dont post the man's picture jare. How can the narrator be so mumu? Y not quit the job at the beginning when your boss started his sexual advances? Oh! You didn't wanna lose the 30k job that took you 4 years to get ba? But now you've not only quit it but have a bruised body, spirit and soul. Abeg the tori too be one kind.
DeleteIf you really mean to expose him, use it as your Facebook status message and tag people to share, you can post his picture too. Use your twitter, use your instagram, at least, you will have some respite.
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, you have been scorned, show your fury, otherwise, hold your peace and take it to God in prayers!!!
since shez not pursuing d case, let sleeping dogs lie plz. Such men are evil nd highly influential, na 9ja we dey o; Godforbid ha being killed. Lets leave the issue/picture posting BIKO, ABEG.............I believe you poster but plz Let The God of justice fight for you. #VEGENANCE IS MINE SAYS THE LORD; I SHALL REPAY****Hugs***
DeletePoster, go to other blogs, dey will gladly post the fools pix. Don't put ur eggs in on basket. Open a new FB acct, with unknown profile pix, expose him.... There are so many ways to expos the fool, without begging anyone to help u. Na now them they beg person mak e help u destroy rapist? Un countable people dey wey go help u out. They there dey dull urself.
DeleteShine ur eyes
Stella, the man pix dey another blog, so na u sabi. As for all the mumu's wey dey say mak stella no post the pix, na God go punish all of u hypocrites. Blogger full everywhere... Shm on u stella
DeleteAbeg which blog o???
DeleteNo way, if she had reported to d authorities nd confimed by u stella then I wld hv said its ok but right now I'm saying No. Cos we don't knw if u were sent by his opponent to tanish his image.
ReplyDeleteStella dear. Do u wish to know my view on this matter honestly? Well, I think that there was NO rape. I also think that she sent u a fake pic of herself but sent u a real picture of the so called rapist.
DeleteI think that she knows how sensitive the general public will react to matters like this, hence, she knows that it will get a lot of attention after which she intends to settle scores with the man. Tell her to reveal herself to u and tell u the TRUTH. Right now she has given u a fake name and will only speak with u on phone, but u Stella, cannot verify her identity by merely speaking on phone. Therefore a libel suit becomes eminent should u post his identity without proper scrutiny. I say, confirm the veracity of the man's side of things, and I suspect that should u finally contact him, he would also tell u that he doesn't know whatever name the lady may have furnished u.
Of course she exists before him, but he would not know who's after him because she will NOT reveal her true self to you. Hence you and the man will be left aloof.
My verdict....scrap this nonsense and let her publicise him via BlackBerry herself. it will spread like wild fire if that is what she wishes to accomplish.
Bia stella where d pix na? See as I jump down dis post looking for their pix? Mtchewwwe! Poster dear God will fight ur battles for you. E hugs.
ReplyDeleteChei! Wicked people exist. Don't worry dear,he will surely suffer for what he has done to you. We serve a God who cannot be mocked,quoting the holy scriptures when raping!!!! God will visit him with fire and brimestone. His holy Spirit will comfort you. It is well.
ReplyDeletePLEASE POST THE PICTURES.
ReplyDeleteLET HIM COME AND SET THINGS STRAIGHT IN THE PUBLIC FORAY SINCE HE IS CONTESTING AND WANTS TO BE A PUBLIC FIGURE !!!!
Poster, go to other blogs, dey will gladly post the fools pix. Don't put ur eggs in on basket. Open a new FB acct, with unknown profile pix, expose him.... There are so many ways to expos the fool, without begging anyone to help u. Na now them they beg person mak e help u destroy rapist? Un countable people dey wey go help u out. They there dey dull urself.
DeleteShine ur eyes
Post it jor let's see
ReplyDeleteExpose that fool now Stella if he thinks himself innocent he should defend himself animal like him. Pls
ReplyDeleteStella don't put up his picture since she doesn't want to press charges. Why tell you to put up the man's own and leave out her own. That's not right. My dear I know it hurts very well. Just leave him and move on. Showing us his picture won't do anything. HE WILL NOT BE JAILED. Please move on. You still have a whole lot to achieve in life. God will deal with him. Take the case to HIM. For HE is a just God.
ReplyDeleteTrue.
DeleteDo not post the man's picture pls.
Poster, don't listen to wat dis one is sayin o! If they were in ur shoes, they will do worse! Deal with the man.
DeleteStella justice is when both parties are heard. Tell her to give u the man's contact, speak with him, then decide if the stories and pictures are worth publishing. Dnt be a tool for destroying another human. Do the NCIS/CIS job 1st before anything.
ReplyDeleteBless u!
DeleteStella post d beast's picture. He's got no reputation. Ppl shd know who they're electing as their rep. #Belle
ReplyDeleteChurch agbasa
ReplyDeleteChurch never gbasa because we never see pishures biko.
DeleteStella, I'm indifferent abt the pics anyway, I only advise you use ur discretion.
So stella, where is d man's pictures?? Are u protecting d man by not putting up his pix or what? Then y d long story if not pix to identify d lunatic to curb future occurrence. Somebody on ds platform can be saved from rape if u had put up ds man's pix, someone here might happen to be in Abuja seeking 4 a job n won't know that her future to be boss is d one d blog visitor is talking about! Abeg put up d pix or 4get ds story, thank you.
ReplyDeletePost both pictures or post none at all. Include the munched/screen grabbed text messages with both numbers. You want to expose the man? That's what we are here for.
ReplyDeleteOn a second thoughts, skip the pictures and post the text messages
Pls dear, take hrt, allow God do d fighting 4 u. No nid exposing him, jst go on ur knee n say ur prayers. May God c u tru. Hugs. Chipe
ReplyDeleteAunty Stella I agree wit u on this, if u post hers it will affect her in future considering d stigma she might face in life, as a woman I understand how much she wants his pics posted for the general view but if am asked for an opinion on this I will beg u to leave d pics out cus she might regret posting it later. She's only havn d urge now cus she's pained and hurt. I am so sorry my dear, wish u God's wisdom to handle this.
ReplyDeleteMoreso, Stella if u do this, perhaps it will serve as a detterant to other beasts. Since d courts have failed us, the blogs shd help us. She has evidence, This man shd come out and deny it. Use any meeans to bing rapists to book. Belle is annoyed!
ReplyDeleteStella i don't think you should post the man's picture without concrete evidence like recorded conversations. I don't really know what to believe about this story anymore.
ReplyDeleteNk
Post d mofo's pix n leave d girls pix out. Its such a wicked society we live in. By d way she is right about d stigmatization of rape victims.
ReplyDeleteYou are not smart, even if u take the case to court, he will win and u might even go to jail for defamation of character. You went to meet him in a hotel room, why don't you wait for him in the hotel lobby? The deed has been done. See if the car offer is still available and go for it. You kinda rape is like when husband force his wife or boyfriend force his girl, u know when it enters u start enjoying it. He didn't beat u, use a gun or knife. Forget about the rape and move on. Every girl have a story when it comes to this kind of sex but not all get a car offer afterward. So move on and continue your life.
ReplyDeleteDid you say every girl? Chukwu aju! Please I don't
DeleteSee the way you opened all your mouth down to talk! Do you think its dat easy eh madam judge! Pls take and over dose of chill pills and pray it nvr happuns to you o! My frnd was raped too and I can't say I know how she felt,buh she was depressed for months and almost took her own life to my dear relax and tank God it wasn't you!
DeleteNa wah for u oh zoe, idi egwu nne. Ur view about life is kinda twisted. U most have gone tru stuff like dis severally. Smh
DeleteYou're so on point. Babe collect the car and move on with your life
DeleteZoe, you are right.. We all hv stories. I m sorry poster but you are not smart atall. A man that has been sending sassy msgs asked u to bring files to a hotel room and you went ahead trusting him.How old are you? 12years? My dear, since you are not reporting him to the right authorities, I advice you take a break, pray, and try to be happy again. It s not easy but yesterday is so goneeeeeeeeeeee
DeleteLike you read my mind. Every girl indeed has a story to tell, maybe not as traumatising but we really do have a story to tell concerning this kind of sex.
DeletePoster: Take the car or its equivalent, set yourself up, move on! What's done is done.
Coming from a girl, I'm ashamed for and by you. Obviously, u have been deprived of any self worth. Not everyone feels worthless!
Delete....I'm amazed a woman wrote this, have a heart!
DeleteE show say dem don rape u tire. Wide and smelling toto!
DeleteI'm amazed at what ladies are saying.....well, I'm so sure I don't have that story.
DeleteZoe take the car n sell her soul?
DeleteYes I have a story to tell...that beast Ayiri Imami(Mr money miss road) raped me recently..I cried and cried.. guess what?with all his money he did not even offer a bicycle ...thinking I am going start a relationship with him afterwards...I had to leave him to God...because I don't want to tarnish my name and reputation by pursuing the case...people will end up blaming you ..its really difficult but I have to move on....dear poster please move on and leave him to God.
DeleteShit happens #sipsMoetnChandon#
ReplyDeleteMy church member huh!am highly disappointed.you have the money to get any girl you want,handsome and influential.why the rape?Aunty Stella,post the pics of the animal!!
ReplyDeleteExceeding Grace Edo finest
DeleteSo ad our church big reach. You think say na everybody dey fear God or you think say na everybody be born again? Ordinary church member for that matter. When some pastors of the church are busy sending pictures of their dicks to chics on BlackBerry, sexting and yet still pose with pics of they and their wives on fb and even run religious blogs sef. Abeg, leave dat tin o, no let me vex call names biko.
It's obvious you're pained and want to play dirty.
ReplyDeleteYou are a stubborn fly who wants to follow the corpse to the grave.
If u weren't a Nigerian I would have understood but hey!!!
There is no justice in Nigeria.
Forgive n forget!!
Its obvious u r a rapist! N u think God is a boy? U will get ur reward for dis comment alone n all other likes of this act u ve committed. Don't expect another reply from me. Re read my above comment if u need more.
DeleteOh dear.... am so scared for u dear poster. in my opinion stellz shouldn't post d pics,it won't change wat happened, it cd hurt his political career, buh for a while,he myt still win or he may not, but to wat end? Wd dat change wat happened? A Lot of BV(blog visitors) will shout crucify him but I ask again will it heal u? Think abt it carefully do u rly want to start d war? Honey it's ur word against his,apart frm him there r ppl who wd get hurt; his wife n innocent kids.
ReplyDeletePls dear jst take ur time n heal,tell God to deal wit him in his own way,hurting him now will make u feel good for a while n after dat wat next?
Jst my 2 cents dear
If have ever been raped, u wd know that any justice is justice for d wounded and healing comes from knowing that justice in whatever measure has been served. Pray never to be violated.
DeleteSo sorry about everything that happened to you, you will heal by Gods grace. Just like Stella said,what is fair is fair, it is either both pictures or none.For your sake I will say NONE.
ReplyDeleteSweetheart, let it go, I know you feel hurt, abused, less of a woman, infact , sort of stupid for going but just let it go.
Forget the car, what is car? God will blesse you with a good job,leave the randy rapist for God to judge.
why are you calling him an innocent man @poster?some one that raped you?i think you still pity him despite the pain he caused you
ReplyDeleteRead again madam maryam
DeleteUnderstand first before typing
DeleteWould have loved to see the face of the rapist but it will also require you putting up the girl's pix. I suggest she takes the issue up with him...EEE!!!
ReplyDeleteRich Alhaji from the pit of Hell,God will definitely punish you for your evil deeds. You even had the guts to quote the bible?
ReplyDeleteMy dear take heart ooo,thank God you made the right decision to quit the job and not collect his blood money car gift. You would not have had peace if you did under this insane conditions except you are a runz girl.
Its obvious you dont have any connections or anyone that can back you up financially and thats why you are scared of mentioning his name/company just incase he decides to sue but i doubt he will. I believe he has a family that you can call up or notify in writing, or you can report this to his Winners pastor..........Forget the police.
On 2nd tots he could even be a ritualist and might decided to assainate the person. Hmmm,its a pity rapists get away with this cos a lot of ladies are too ashamed to report or expose the acts and in some cases theres no hard evidence to convict the rapist.
Please go and tell your pastor if you can. You really need spiritual counsel but pls dnt resort to any evil means to serve your revenge....God bless you
STELLA WHY ARE U TRYING TO PROTECT THE IDENTITY OF THE RAPIST? YES YOU CAN POST HIS PICTURES AND LEAVE HERS OUT AS LONG AS YOU INCLUDE SCREENSHOTS OF HIS MESSAGES TO HER. NO MATTER WHAT, RAPE IS A CRIMINAL OFFENCE. WE CANNOT ALLOW THAT MAN WALK AWAY FOR FREE. LET HIM BE EXPOSED ESPECIALLY NOW THAT HE'S RUNNING FOR A PUBLIC POSITION. IS THIS HOW HE'S GOING TO RAPE ALL THE LADIES WORKING UNDER HIM WHEN HE WINS? WE CANNOT KEEP LETTING ALL THESE MORALLY CHALLENGED RIFF-RAFFS RULE US. WE NEED HIGHLY DISCIPLINED INTELLECTUALS IN GOVERNMENT. YES INCLUDE HER NAME AND HIS NAME INFACT U CAN POST HER PICTURE IF SHE WANTS, SHE HAS LOST EVERYTHING ANYWAY. 'B'
ReplyDeleteStella pls dont publish any of their pics,in as much as i dnt and Will Never support rape,u can publish d texts but pls no pics unless u Can prove beyound doubt that the story is True.
ReplyDeleteWowww this is hard one.
ReplyDeleteMy dear even if she post it, u wnt v anything to gain from it. The deed has already been done n u know dis country is so full of evil men, u may lose ur life in the course of fightn a just cause. Like I said earlier, report him to God n he will surely fight for you.
ReplyDeleteBut if u v d strenght to face any challenge just like d COZA girl did to pastor Biodun then Stella shd post d pix, even if justice isn't served atlst d randy man will be put to shame.
I think she should either make him face the law or let it go. The idea of pictures is a Big NO NO! I mean without investigations what proof is there that she isn't trying to spoil his name and image, and if she decides to post "hers" along how do we know that is really her and not just an "innocent" girl she's just getting involved in this mess to make her story credible, I'm not judging at all.
ReplyDeleteEven if your story is true and the pix you are sending are actually yours and his, are u ready for the show down? It might get really dangerous, I fear Politicians, they are capable of every evil, including "Wiping our Stains and the ink bottle"
OP this decision isn't wise at all, Get tested, make sure you are STD free and let it go. His Karma would come, but if u feel u still feel the need for revenge and you are financially and otherwise capable of suing him then do that.
I say lets nail the bastard. I am a victim of rape, and my one regrets was keeping quiet because I was afraid of being rejected by my family. I was 16 then and today, I wish I had said something. You keeping this quiet when someone is crying out for justice will be so wrong. We are supposed to help our sisters, most esp those who have been abused.
ReplyDeleteWow !!!!! Don't think you should post their photos cause of the stigma and like I always say never judge by half stories , cause it just might be a set up or some other vital information may not be present in her write up and you might just be ruining an ' innocent ' man ( remember I put it in quote ) . Anyway The Lord is your strength , God is the ultimate judge and his thoughts towards us are of good and not of evil , the wicked shall not go on punish . Leave it all in God's hands and just watch how he brings that your boss to judgement
ReplyDeleteGo and take PEP first to prevent HIV. Initially if raped, do not bath. Go to the police station make a statement,go to the hospital immediately and report sexual assault to a doctor, He will give u tests to do and PEP to prevent HIV plus contraceptives.
ReplyDeletePoster hv u gone to hospital for PEP . PEP is only for 72 hrs. PEP is given to prevent HIV. Your health first.
ReplyDeleteBodypart
Sweetie move on! And allow God to judge him.
ReplyDeleteGet in touch with d alleged rapist and hear his side of d story,if he denies get evidence from d raped and table it to him.Then take it from there,#justiceforrapevictims...
ReplyDeleteI agree Stella, both pictures or none. Life isn't fair but it is what it is. Poster, the bible admonishes us to be as wise as a serpent. But in this world that we live in, you have to be WISER than a serpent. I'm sorry but your case is DOA (dead on arrival) because yo do not have hard evidence. Even if Human Rights activists take up your case, what evidence would you present? Text messages? Duh. Your best bet is God. Seriously. Talk to Him to heal your heart and deal with your alleged rapist Himself.
ReplyDeletewhat is wrong with men of these days. omashe ooo.
ReplyDeletestella you should put up the man's picture and leave the girl out of it. the man is a wicked man so why do u want to cover up for him? if u were the one raped or your sister was raped would you protect the man's image? or because she said he's running for a political post that's why you don't want to post it? the wicked man should be exposed for the rapist that he is.post his picture and let his friends, family, colleagues and workers know what he is and be cautious of him. not posting his picture would make him do this same thing to another young girl because he would feel that he has gotten away with his evil act. i wish the poster would press charges but i understand her situation, this is nigeria and the man is obviously rich and influential and the case would not go anywhere. the least u can do stella to help the girl is post the man's picture and help her find justice in this little way.
ReplyDeletePlease do not post any pictures Stella either of her or the man or even both of them, you will start a fire that may come back to burn the Poster.
ReplyDeletePoster I am very sorry this happened to you and even more appalled that he had the guts to quote the bible. Since you rejected the car, I personally think you should have collected it and sold it and used the money to be taking care of yourself till a new job comes. Please move on, as hard as it sounds, let him be, cos you cannot win this fight if you start it. He can never escape Karma neither can he escape the vengeance of God.
Please do not post any pictures Stella either of her or the man or even both of them, you will start a fire that may come back to burn the Poster.
ReplyDeletePoster I am very sorry this happened to you and even more appalled that he had the guts to quote the bible. Since you rejected the car, I personally think you should have collected it and sold it and used the money to be taking care of yourself till a new job comes. Please move on, as hard as it sounds, let him be, cos you cannot win this fight if you start it. He can never escape Karma neither can he escape the vengeance of God.
Post his picture. Name and shame the rapist.
ReplyDeleteStella, talk to the man in question. Get his side of the story. Justice demands this.
ReplyDeleteAnd if u are going to post his picture, then you have to post hers as well.
Poster,for your safety,I don't think Stella putting up his pictures is a good idea....Naija politicians can do anything to keep their reputation....someone that raped you and still quote bible can KILL....
ReplyDeleteJust leave him unto the hands of God...trust me,one day,he will meet his match....
Useless he goat...
My dear, let God fight ur battle...For mocking God with such a quote, he will definitely die a violent death, Gosh am so angry
ReplyDeleteHmm, it will be good to release their pictures but you have your blog n image to protect Stella. Let her do the necessary police work or go to one of these bodies that fight for rape victims. When the matter becomes clear that truly it went down and all you can assist by putting up the man's pic and blowing up the story. Till then know this, rape ain't a small accusation and therefore should be treated with caution when it comes to going public (media) with those involved. The man's image and even hers can be tarnished for life. Tis well with you poster.
ReplyDeleteRelease the pix jare
ReplyDeleteStella abeg post d dogs face, shey hes feelin ontop of d world for wat he did, let his dance to d tune of his music
ReplyDeleteStella, before you post any picture, hear from both parties. Let her give you the phone number of the alleged rapist so maybe u can confirm it is indeed his own. I can help with that if need be, I work with mtn so if it's an mtn line, i'll be able to confirm the owner of the line, or who registered it and communication between both the lady who was raped and the rapist! The rapist might not be the one who registered the line. But if he's the one, i'll send u in confidence his picture and u can compare with the one she sent to u. If it's another network, I have friends who work both for glo, etisalat and airtel so they'll be able to assist. The most important thing though I feel is communication between both parties. I'll be able to check if she calls him as well and the times she calls and duration of the calls and vice versa. I'm not saying she's lying, I just feel the need to be very thorough here. Rape is wrong, but accusing someone wrongly of rape is almost as bad. If u do want us to take this further, pls leave a message for me and i'll contact u privately.
ReplyDeleteAs for the blog visitor, I'm sorry about your ordeal if truly u were raped. But u need to be certain this is not a relationship gone sour.
Dear poster, i can only imagine how u really feel right now. I think you made the right decision not to take the case up just for the simple fact that issues like this would be covered up ad a result of the corrupt system. As for the pics Stella, I don't think it's a good idea to post any of them, although she says to post his and not hers to me it still does not mean he's going to get punished for what he did to her. My Advice for you dear poster is to leave it all in God's hands and for simple fact that he had the guts to quote the scriptures before raping you, the wrath of God is on him.
ReplyDeleteAunty stella abeg post d stupid man pix jor,wot r u waiting 4.
ReplyDeleteThe monster deserves to b exposed but I fear for the security of d poor girl because that kind of man can easily fish u out with time. take heart my dear. I actually know how it hurts.
ReplyDeletePost the pic Stella n let d useless man be put to shame. Remember Ese Walter? She's married today Stella. So post it,u r a mother n u a woman.#uknowwhatimean.
ReplyDeleteStella abey post pishure at least that of the man. Lets see this animal's face. Since she can't get justice at least this will affect his career.
ReplyDeleteBreezy
Stella this person is my husband. Crying . This man will not kill me. God please don't let him
ReplyDeleteDrama!!!
DeleteUna don stat on top dis blog agen.
U ppl dont no wia to draw d line.
Hehehe d man will not kill u #Mshweetch
Lwkmd.....if u r joking, abet its the wrong time
Deletestella i just read your questions on the first post about the rape and i'm terribly disappointed in you and your questions. he was her boss! was she supposed to say she won't deliver the documents? how was she to know he intended to rape her? which girl wakes up in the morning thinking her boss is going to rape her that day? your questions and reluctance to post the man's picture shows that you don't have feelings for the victim. and all the stupid brainless followers of stella that can't reason by themselves that only repeat what stella writes i pray you all find yourselves in the poster's shoes, then let's see how you would collect the car and money. there's no justification for rape. as long as the girl said no and the man still had his way with her it is rape. do u know what it means to be paralyzed by fear? that is how rape victims feel when the rapist is on them. in most cases the victim is too shocked to move or even believe that she is being raped. stella imagine the poster is your sister what would u do? i'm sure you would not only post the man's picture on your blog, you would also march down to the man's house along with all the policemen and soldiers you can find and make sure that justice is served.
ReplyDeleteMy dear may God give you the strength to heal.
ReplyDeleteMy suggestion: Stella if you want to get involved deeply, contact the man and possibly send him the links to the stories. That lady should be properly compensated for all her pain. I really don't know how but she shouldn't loose out totally. Getting a job is extremely difficult.
Let the man feel the pains she is going through and let him know that all the odds are against him. You hve his picture and all the evidence to nail him.
Young lady, the Lord is your strength!
I de vex. Wetin I type just vamoose. Stella, don't show them, rather give us the SDK coded style and let us unravel the idiot. I would have said you put up the man's picture, but it might affect his 'home' and not him. As I am not interested in him been disgraced. Pehrase this post and bring it in your coded form and make it easy to get it right oh. That's the only way. You will find out that the girl is not the only one this bagger has done this to.
ReplyDelete*rephrase*
DeleteHmm... I'm not certain wat 2say cos this recent development hv sprang loads of questions in my hrt! So I no kn wetin to talk.
ReplyDeleteZuma missing diamondblinqZ
I think she has passed the stage for any investigation to reveal rape and the fact that she is waging a battle against a supposed powerful man. But i think she should show her face it that way gradually people will know who raped her. Imagine the bastard becoming a lawmaker, doesn't that mean he will push for the legalisation of rape
ReplyDeleteWhat exactly does dis poster want?
ReplyDeleteDo u want d car?
Cos if u do now, its too late, e oly offered u dat car at d moment outta guilt.
Or is it justice u want?
Even dat is too late, nobody wld believe u(cos d tin dey hard me sef to belive, a rich man wld rada blackmail a 30k salary earner dan rape her, rape for a rich man is dminin,lets hope dis isnt fetish)
Poster are u a butty?
U left a man wu raped u unarmed wit only a torn shirt!
U shld av made a scene
Scratch is eyes out, broke his windscreen.
U even sed u kicked his balls #Chai! U kicked nothing!
Poster what do u want?
Plz move on wit ur life, n curse d man if it wld hlp wit ur grief.
Dont dwell on dis for too long #Inugo
Kpele!
Good questions. Poster, report him to God. Or stella should contact the man and get his own side of d story and compesate you if dt s wat you want...I m sure he won't want his pic exposed but then no material thing can replace one s self esteem. May God be with you poster
DeleteOmo church don close o!
ReplyDeleteplease post it
ReplyDeleteYou were raped
ReplyDeleteYou refused the peace offering
Now you want his pix published.
What would you gain?
SDK,forget putting up the man's pix
This lady can't take the heat
She'll be kidnapped or killed or both
Nobody will do anything
Lady,use the only weapon you have
Your knees
Again,if you can,
One midnight,send him an sms
Pour your heart out
Don't curse him
Tell him what he has done to you
Your psyche and your pride
Tell him you still respect him
Tell him that he was a good boss
Then end your sms with
WHY DID YOU DO IT
WHY DID YOU KILL MY SPIRIT
Quote some passages
And wish him well
This is the first step towards Healing
GOD BLESS YOU
I wish his picture could be put up
ReplyDeleteShameless rapist.
But then again, I fear for her life....cos he will definitely kill her leaving no traces.
This is Nigeria where no matter how you scream, you ain't heard.
I am so angry, I want him exposed, I want her vindicated but .....wisdom! Let God handle it. Vengeance is the lord's.
He mocked God by quoting a bible verse before his wicked act, that same violence will wipe him out from the surface of the earth.
Poster! Keep calm and trust God.
SDK, SDK, abeg no post any picture. My mind tells me this girl/lady is really angry with this man not just because of the assumed rape but something more is yet to be said. Maybe the man was her sugar daddy before, left her for another lady or her friend. I mean something more is untold. I thought she said she has left the work, how then did she get the man's picture. Is it before or after the rape?. Pls SDK,for the sake of the man's innocent wife and family, don't post the picture, if the lady is sure of what she is claiming, let her report the man to his church.
ReplyDeletePoster, since the man is rich and has power, nobody will listen to you.
ReplyDeleteFast, while fasting, pray to God to fight for you, go naked if you want while praying. Tell Papa God to fight this battle for you because you are powerless.
By the time God is done with him, even you will be begging God on his behalf.
Stella, forget picture abeg.
my dear, i feel for you i really do my heart reaches out to you so much cos i was raped too. but i found healing sis i did. it might not be the conventional way but i set myself free. i am not a victim- i choose not to be. i wept for months became withdrawn, lost all will to be and to do anything, lost my sense of self and then i asked my self how long i was going to go on plotting revenge? how long can you? for the rest of your life? give yourself peace my dear accept that this life is not a fair place. people may not always be punished for the wrong doing immediately or on this earth and there is nothing you can do.
ReplyDeleteaccept that it wasnt your fault unfourtunate circumstances came your way. that is life ups and downs take your own like that and make the best out of it. Go for prayers and deliverance if you feel the need no. and dont be fool GO GET THAT CAR! You can sell it and use the money for something worthwhile. give yourself a treat and stop prolonging your misery. IT IS WELL
Stella please don't post any picture poster where do you live? Do you want this man to kill you? Please forget it and just pray for him go on fast cry to God at midnight fast if you can, the God for the helpless will fight for you. The man is powerful has money and can do anything but he is not above God, the God that sew what he did to you and sees your pains will fight for you. I just hate it when the rich and powerful oppress the poor, it's in the book of plasmas remind God in your prayers how he promised to help and defend the helpless. This man will not go unpublished. It may take a time but I will surely act at his own time.
ReplyDeleteTake heart dear but please DO NOT PUT YOURSELF IN MORE DANGER. live it for God to fight for you he is the voice of the voiceless.
To be honest I used to think that rape was committed only by area boys and hoodlums. Reading people's experience on this blog has enlightened me a lot and I'm more aWare now and more sensitive to my environment.
ReplyDeleteI also want to thank those that share their experiences. You are HELPING a lot of us so it's not about reading stories alone you are also saving others that would have been victims too. I have been in more compromising situations with men before because my job exposes me to such and I've come to realise that the fact that I've never been raped is not because I think I'm smart.
I remember a particular client that asked me out once knowing fully well that I'm married with kids. It was really difficult to reach him at a certain time because it was governorship elections in Edo state so he asked that I come to Benin to make the presentation but I declined and said I would rather wait till he gets to Lagos. This is a man that a lot of people fear and all he does is just ask and you see people running up and down to do his bidding but I clearly declined. After the job was executed he called late one night that I should come to his house 7am the following day because he would be travelling to Liberia. It was a Saturday and I felt to qualms with it because in my unsuspecting mind I felt it would be a full house with wife and kids. I got the shock of my life. Dudes family lives in UK. After I picked up my cheque and was about to leave he tries to come closer and ask for a parting gift in the bedroom. My heart was racing. I had to put on my warri thinking cap and told him I don't want us to rush things that I'm the type of person that when I start a relationship I put all into it and so if he wants the best of me he needs to give me time because I'm very possessive. He thought for a while and said he preferred my kind of person and wished I was still single that most ladies would have jumped at any opportunity to make quick cash.
Since I started reading stories now I don't take such risks. If I'm having meetings at weekends now I make sure I have my husband in tow. As soon as we start my opening remark is we need to make it snappy because my husband is in the car waiting. Most times I even ask my husband to join us. I'm searching for a male PA now so that as soon as I make the contacts he will follow up.
Yawns
DeleteNaa peter ain't this smart
DeletePlace a curse on him placing all u want to happen to him and watch it happen!!
ReplyDeleteHuuuummmmn.....been following this story and I really don't even know what to advise.
ReplyDeleteFirst let me say sorry for your pain and the way you may feel. #big hug.
Rape is not a pleasant thing to go through I'm sure. I've never been raped, but I remember a guy I didn't like once tried to kiss me forcefully. Just the fact that his hands touched my skin made me feel like dying, I felt like I've been violated and for days I kept trying to wipe of his touch from my arms.
So how much more rape.
However, I don't like the idea of keeping quiet because You don't want to be stigmatised. As long as we keep doing it, rapist will continue to rape. If that Coza girl can come out with her story and still find a husband, why is reporting a rape case difficult?
You only have one life to live and life is is tooo damn short to be bothered about people's opinion or approval of you.
Remember that whatever decision you make on this issue, you will live with for the rest of your life. So my dear do you want to look back 50years from now and wished you had taken a stand and fought for justice?
Please don't go and ask for any car oo. That's as good a paid sex then.
Here are two options I suggest you consider:
1. Get a lawyer and pursue the case legally. If at the end of the day you decide to take monetary compensation and settle out of court, make sure it comes with a written apology. That way I think you can still hold your head up high.
2. Let go and let God fight for you.
Putting up his picture here, you will probably end up making a mess out of the whole thing. I'm never a fan of fighting dirty, if you must fight then fight with grace and tact.
Above all if you don't want to do this for anything (compensation or justice), please please and please do it for the apology. Just tell him all you want is a written apology so when you feel uncomfortable with the thought and flashes of the scene you can go back and read that letter.
Note: if money to get a lawyer might be a concern, find a lawyer with NGO or better still ask for volunteers here. I'm sure we should have some lawyers in the house.
Good luck
Stella, pls get the man's side of the story first. Girls of nowadays can't be trusted, I have recently been a victim of my former lover trying to blackmail and accusing me of rape when wat we had was consensual, it's a sad world. I still don't know her motive till today.
ReplyDeleteDo we really understand the meaning of RAPE? I think not. Dear poster pls inform your parents because you do need a lawyer and if you don't get justice then bring the case with pictures to blogs. If you don't want to press charges then keep it to yourself (I don't advice this though) and don't send pics to stella. I don't doubt you being raped but proof is needed so your ex boss won't cry out 2morrow as the victim. Good luck
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm, that thing that has 8,0000 muscles don put another man for wahala.Chai chai chai chai chai chai chai chai chai chai chai chai chai chai chai chai chaiiiiiiiioooooo
ReplyDeleteDo not post any picture.Even if she agrees to put her own picture without contacting the man and hearing his own side. Make person no use you settle score she get with man.
ReplyDeleteAnd I should also say ladies need to be careful. Stop all this he told me to come to the hotel thing. If you must meet a man you don't want anything thing with in a hotel, please go with someone and don't go pass the reception.
ReplyDeleteYou can ask them at the reception to deliver the documents or ask someone to go up with you. Learn to protect yourself at all times and always think out of the box. Don't even go on a date with a man your not seeing in a hotel restaurant.
Stella I work with an NO against rape. Post the picture, is high time we start fighting this men and again my madam said once u post the pix , we will bring him to book. Rape has to stop
ReplyDeleteBia Stella i think say you be journalist,abi who dey write blog no fit investigate again? She should send you his details and you hear his own side,also what ever evidence she has,shld also be sent. #ILOVEPIPILEE
ReplyDeleteEveryone is saying hear his own side of d story. Pls let me ask, is d man goin 2 say yes SDK I raped her so what? Is he going 2 say yes I did n am sorry? Re we saying we don't already knw d answers/repond stella is going 2 get from d bastard? Pls let's BlackBerry reasonable. Stella she came 2 u 2 find justice. She's young, naive n again not rich n powerful plus she filled wit rage n so much pain dat is way beyond our imagination so all ill say is do d needful n in all try 2 c ur kid sister, daughter, cousin, neighbour in her.
DeleteYou people want to put Stella in trouble. Stella don't publish only his. It's either both or none.
ReplyDeleteLet her go and publish it on YouTube by herself.
She has already messed this case. All evidence has been tampared with. She can meet the opposition party to see how they can help her. But she must report him to the police and his church first. Shameless he-goat. Rose
Stella, I think you really need to be careful about this poster, this one wey location don change so, the whole story go soon change, why did she lie to you about the location when she could have told you the "truth" but ask you to leave it out like she's asking you to do her picture? Here I was cussing the man outt, now I'm not so sure. She has NO proof, she left the hotel and went home without doing a thing, not even going to a hospital, I just wonder. Stella, pls get in touch with the man and get his side of the story, this poster now strikes me as cunning and manipulative, don't be a tool Stella. BEAUTY
ReplyDeleteDear victim, please forgive and move on! Ask the Spirit of God to heal you...revenge might SNUFF YOUR LIFE. You don't know the extent to which politicians can go. Most of these guys are jazzed up-you will have bigger regrets by fighting him. Time and God heals all wounds. )))((( hugs.
ReplyDeleteYou see, posting the bastard's picture will expose him especially now that he is running for a Political post and will also save other women from going through the same experience. Before you post make sure she has told you the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Another thing is, i am worried about her safety, she can get killed and nothing will come out of it. She should think DEEP. How long ago did this even happen? What evidences does she have?
ReplyDeleteStella;about the pics aspect,I will say u should keep it pending and first of all do the SCID work first..even in the court of law u ve to hear both parties before the final verdict is stated..stella;if its possible collect the man's no from our BV and talk with the man cos u can't just put up the man's pic without hearing his own side of the story..who knows?? This could be anything,a set up from his opponents(since he is aspiring for a govt seat) or whatsoever..I'm not saying blog visitor wasn't raped but all am saying is that first of all u ve to hear the man first and also ask the blog visitor to send u screen grabs of the text they both shared earlier on..remember its not good to tarnish the image of an innocent man if ever this was a setup..my 2cent tho
ReplyDeleteStella,do not post the picture..
ReplyDeleteif you do,you can me nailed because you can not prove she was raped? Do you have pictures of him raping her? Is there a voice record saying he would rape her? Is there a report in the police station where she filed for been rapes? Is there a doctors reports that certifies she was rapes?
You would only be putting you and poster in trouble.. Because one way or the other,the man would know its the poster and he would go after her in every way he can. Hr would go diabolical on her,he would go physical on her.. He would take her to court and he will win because she doesn't have prove of been raped...
Poster,why do you want to bring more problem for yourself? You earn just 30k a month and you want to fight someone who could afford to give you a car after allegedly raping you? You don't want to press charges but you are asking the post his pictures? What do you think would come out of it... You feel he wouldn't find out and press charges... Assasinate you for trying to bring him down that way... Please allow God to heal you..
You already made a mistake by not going to the hospital immediately it happened,that way,it would have been the one good proof you have and Ngo would have fought for you but you have non
forget sdkers saying they should post the pic,when the man comes after you only you would bear it... And politicians can fight dirty... You don't know where he has gone to bath.. Biko,just go to God in prayer and he would heal you
Stella have you ever heard of Libel and Slander? Post the pic now and I will personally contact the man and help him sue you....You do realise that you are liable to be sued for some uncorroborrated information you report.
ReplyDeleteIf she is ready to post her pic and the culprit ...why not press charges?...
ReplyDeleteDon't post d pictures....let her use other medium to get justice...
Accusing someone of rape is a big deal o....
Even TMZ will not jump to post without proper investigation....
So Stella get d name of d guy...call him and tell him you've got an alleged rape story on him...
sterra of life,d girl na real impostor,i guess she is been sponsor to tanished the man's image,if its true y cant she give u the details of their text messages or his phone number,so u can verify,second poser,y does she want only the man pics posted online.political jobber/prostitute
ReplyDeleteDear poster,pls in the name of God go to goshen city with your evidence go report to bishop abioye, secondly give his nos to stella let her call him and hear his own side of d story, pls change were stay cus such bastard politicians can waste ur life ,stella pls don't post his photos maybe u can give us his facebook name and we will all go there and finish him or better still we look for his political opponent,make money from them that can send u out of this countrythen sell them d story to use against him in d coming elections u wld have gone far from his reach then.I think stella. One of us shd call him and threaten. To expose him except he pays a certine sum of money u d postere take it and disapper. But pls stella confirm dis story from d guy first of cus he wld deny it but let's play safe if possible poster shd call and record their conversation.as for d car gift forget it its gone
ReplyDeletePost the man's picture. I've been a victim of rape twice after a failed attempt of rape at 15 by my vice principal who was a strong deeper life member. The beasts deserve to be exposed. Post his pic, not hers
ReplyDeleteAlright. Stella I don calm down. Please don't post the man's picture until you've gotten his own side of the story.
ReplyDeleteAnon 10:51 u said d rapist is ur husband? Good now I want u to talk to stella now! And let ur husband compaste,apologise and send this lady for teatment Now, for ur sake we will pipe down on d discrage and insult cus u dint cover up evil, honestly I am so jobless right now that I plan on going to all d living faith in abj from durumi to goshen I will fish ur hubby out in less than 24hours their are no many people contesting for senitorial seats in LF,that wld have an office were a famale staff just resigned! I don't even need to know poster ,I swear by monday u will see year husbands face all over abj from area1 to 11,all apo, central area. Wuse,utako,berge,jabi,maitama,asokoro up to nyanya and even maraba and kubwa Shd I go ahead or u will talk to stella? I am in LF choir and have bin in abj for over 30yrs I know every were So? I don buy this case! Rubbish
ReplyDeleteRide on!
DeletePoster,it is well with you. May the Lord heal you completely.
ReplyDeleteYou see,when we hear about rape cases,we are all quick to tell the victim to speak out and expose the rapist as that will be their first step towards healing but when we see victims who are bold enough to speak and expose the rapist, we begin to question them and even blame them for not been smart enough,indirectly validating what the rapist has done. Zoe,what makes you different from the bad policemen who will not do anything to any rape case reported to them considering your comment above? And i ask,how exactly do we expect rape victims to react and heal after the bad experience??
SDK...i know you can use your investigative prowess to unravel the mystery behind this whole thing IF you want to.Kaylah has offered to help you get some vital information you may need to get answers to the so many questions springing up,until you dig deep into this issue,NO pictures. If you are able to get to the root of this,by all means,expose this man and put up his pictures for all to see.
That said, Poster,finish the man already with your prayers as you seek raw vengeance from God and be very sure that God's vengeance surpasses earthly justice...
she shld take d case to his church pastor
ReplyDeleteStella try reach out to the man first and threaten to publish his story , if he plead accept . at least it will save his next victim that's if he will genuinely repent.
ReplyDeletePoster, u can expose him on ur own if stella doesn't want to post his pix. Open a new facebook acct with unknown profile pix, and then destroy his image there. Join a group chart on BBM,and ur members will help u destroy him totally. U no wise at all! Start destroying him on ur own, and then bring his remnant here let's help u bury him. Its that simple!
ReplyDeleteShine ur eyes
Rape you and want to give you car na so you sweet reach.......stella na lies.
ReplyDelete@poster..All i can tel you now is that it is well.. such case and many more are the reasons why i dnot blame people that naked themselve in midnight to curse such idiots..all i knw is da karma is a bitch.
ReplyDeleteAm I the only one that saw the ' I don't want to pull an innocent man down ' part? Smh
ReplyDeleteI saw that part
DeleteAnd I'm like....what does she really want?
ANTY STELLA BETTER STILL HELP US SMALL TO DECODE THIS MUDAFUKER. BTW I HOPE HES NOT PCNU?
ReplyDeletePOST IT AND SAY ALLEGEDLY RAPES GIRL. maybe other girls he raped will speak out. u may just be surprised. onwero if n'eme. post the pix.
ReplyDelete@Irene you are a very, very wise person. I will look out for your comments from now on. God don bless you with serious sense!
ReplyDeleteWow, I cannot believe some of these comments I'm reading. She just went through a traumatic experience and what most people could do is call names, call her a liar..Chei! This is why a lot of rape victims don't speak out.
ReplyDeleteHoney, I am so sorry this happened to you. No one will understand the level of your pain and current situation more than you and God. Exposing the guy's picture will not bring you closure and could bring you negative consequences you might not be able to handle. Unfortunately, we live in a country where you cant always cry out for justice.
Please get some counseling, don't sweep this under the rug. I'm not sure if there are nonprofits that helps with counseling in Abuja. If there are none,journal, write about it, pray to God that he'll free you from this hurt that this man has caused you.
Trust that God will see you through.. He is able. I pray that God will comfort you and bring you all the healing that you need. Hugs
PLEASE CAN SOMEONE POST THE LINK TO THE BLOG WHERE HIS PICTURE APPEARED. SOMEONE WANTS TO TAKE UP THE CASE; MONEY FOR MONEY; POWER FOR POWER ETC.
ReplyDeleteThe picture on another blog is another story. I guess. Cos the other one didn't happen in Nigeria.
DeleteI have fought so hard to be quiet on this case but something in me keeps fighting me to speak up.. And with all sincerity i will pour out my mind and pray you all Forgive me pls.
ReplyDeletei will even have to go anonymous on this at least to satisfy my conscience and save my personality from the cuss that will come from some gullible BV's....
Dear poster,
In God's name i confess to you that all you have said and written about this particular man ain't true and i will advice you to withdraw this before you incur the anger of God.
Firstly, you didn't state your designation in the company.. But that's not the ish....
Again, the name of the hotel is needed, the time, the date and the people who saw you run out of the hotel with your shoes in your hand without stopping you to think you are one of those prostitutes that kill "alhaji" in the hotel and making away with their money. Hmmmmmm.. Supposedly you are not i believe!
Now as a psychologist from birth i have drawn a conclusion and i am here to relate my observations with my fellow intellectuals and her royal majesty Mrs Stella Dimoko-korkus.
1) Your salary may not even be 30k, but as a smart lady u re, u had to reduce it to draw more pity to ur self. Yes!
2) Who does that? Raping a girl and offering her any car of her choice??? My dear, that's where ur lies lacked composure cos from what i deduced accruing from your desperado of nailing him down all reads BLACKMAIL
The koko is that the man and your self had an agreement that after sex comes any car of your choice, which you did.. Yes! Probably you both "smarties" had planned on how you would bring the documents to him somewhere to make everything look official and the scripts were all acted out smartly only that the man has refused to keep to his own end..hahhahahahahha!!! Did i lie???
Now you are looking for every possible way to pull him down..Smh
2) Let me now ask you sweetheart, Have you seen anyone raped before??? Close to being raped before? Or heard or read real stories of a raped person? No, i don't think so, so i will continue to pray you never experience that..
3) In every game, there must be a winner and a looser; but bear it in mind that sometimes loosers turn out to be winners why the winners becomes loosers. So don't see it that you have lost completely darling...please.. Save your self the shame(that's if you have gat any) and the stress you are putting your self through.
4) If per adventure you still insist you were raped, then do me the favour of sending all particulars, i mean all, the date, the hotel, the company name, the clothes you both put on on that day, everything without reservations and i promise you with my last dime to see i bring the man to book. Heard of CMC before??? Okay outside that, i could go more heights for you...
If am forgetting anything, then it should be my apologies for doubting you and pleading you all forgive me pls!!!
Signed,
Nkwuru na Eziokwu
Dis Nkwuru na Eziokwu,,u are a very Mad nd useless person!! Mrs Zulu,,whic kind mumu talk u just talk so??? Pls SDK,,post d bastard pic nd leave d girl's!!!
ReplyDeleteOKIJA WIFE
Mad dog they left u out today to enter nkwo market. See ur mouth like post picture.
DeleteTunder fire u nd ur bastard generations there!! Na ur mama be mad cow!! Oloriburuku omo jati jati!! So u are d beast rapist?? U go quench soon!
DeleteOKIJA WIFE
I understand that we have no faith in the Police Authority or even the court system in Nigeria. What we do have faith in is the Church. The girl should report this man to his Church. If anything, she would know that she has done something, and it is the duty of the Church to prevent it's congregation from being associated with such a man. He should be alienated and other women and young girls should be warned against him.
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