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''I graduated from school four years ago and with the hardship in the Country I couldn't secure a job. So you can imagine my Joy when I was offered a job in a Human Resource Company. The salary is nothing to write about (N30,000) but the boredom was growing stronger everyday I accepted it.
The first time I saw him (my boss ) he looked responsible may be because he's running for a senatorial position,that thought stopped when he started making serious sexual advances, sending Randy text messages to me at work of how he wants to have sex with me. He even suggested he wanted a quickie in his Office. I turned down all his advances and I guess it made him desperate because he started offering me huge sums to get into my pants. I debunked all his requests.
On a Monday morning, I was already carrying out my duties when my colleague came to me with some documents that needs to be treated by my so called Boss immediately.
I was told to bring the files to him in Cherry Plaza, Maryland. On arriving at the plaza my boss told me to meet him at A hotel and I should hurry up because he's already late for a meeting.
Immediately I entered the room, he pushed me so hard on the bed and I struggled with everything inside of me, I begged him, I cried, I even tore his clothes, kicked his balls but noooo he was bent on taking me. I GOT RAPED!!!
When he had his fill, he came of me and said I should come along with him to a car shop to pick any car of my choice, I picked my shoes and ran out.
What should I do? Do I report him to the Police because I still have evidence of his text messages or should I count it as my loss and continue working for him or better still accept the car and leave the office? Please advise me I'm in pains and I still don't know if I've been infected with any disease.
Help! Help! Help''
*when he asked you to meet him at the hotel,were you excited?why didnt you refuse?IT WAS RAPE RIGHT?YOU SAID NO RIGHT?
*Continue working for him?it was rape right?you said NO RIGHT?
*Accept the car after the rape?are you crazy?YOU SAID NO TO THE SEX RIGHT?
if you accept the car,what next?
you are still in pains but your line of thoughts is confusing..I am sorry honey but i cannot offer any advise,i only have a million questions so i would say....''work with your conscience''.
Report fire, if he can buy you any car of your choice, then he pay his way put of any court. U be dull girl sha, since the deed has been done, you would have followed him to the car shop nau. Collect car, collect money clean mouth!
ReplyDeleteAbi ohhh, my thought exactly. It's obvious u need d money,u better collect cat,collect money on top sef. You can still be f**kn him if you chose to. Keep your job until u get a better place . If maybe you decide to sue his ass, my dear, it's call a waste of time,because u were nt force to d hotel room. Tell urseff nothing happen and move on wit what ever he has to offer. Goodluck younglady!
DeleteI tire oo,dis 1 na ode ooo!hissss
DeleteYou don't know how painfull rape is,money car diamond cannot take it away.talking from exprience
Deleteam with u if he can offer u a car den he would buh his way tru any case,my dear take d car and leave d office,if u stay in d office he would keep sexin u
DeleteYou said take the car and leave the office?and then be psychologically impaired? I don't think you guys know the impact of rape in ones life! The so called car will one day pafuka! And if she is imfected with an incurable disease God forbid, then she lives with it forever! Everything is not all about money my dear! Think! Think! Arghhhhh!
DeletePepper ose oku!
Have you gotten yourself tested? Cos from the tone of this write up, I didn't see anywhere you said he used a condom. First things first before you start thinking of how to collect car
DeleteThank you Pepper. Well said...
DeleteMs
Don't collect that car! Leave that job. Don't taint your soul. God himself will deal with the he goat. Take heart, he is still in control.....
DeleteDon't waste your time going to the police because we all know nothing would come out of it rather you would be ridiculed.
DeleteGo spiritual on him!
It's your decision to either accept the car or to resign.
You can get evidence!!!! Set him up... Secretly record a conversation with him on ur phone. Start the voice recorder before u enter his office and ask him why he did what he did to you... Mention the car and ask him questions that will make him confess on tape... Most smart phones have a voice recorder. Then you can go to the police or any activist with your evidence... Don't forget to mention his name and let him acknowledge himself so he can't deny it...
DeleteMy dear girl you are young and naive and he knows it. That animal doesn't have any plans to buy you no car he know you will not accept he just made the offer I'll advice you take it to God in prayers. If you know any civil right agency you can go to them for help because he is influential there is no need going to the police, let the group take it up for you dear.
DeleteRemember time is of the essence.
Rape is bad try and forgive yourself too it will help you heal fast. Get tested for STDs and in a few weeks for pregnancy and HIV you have to speak up!
Finally, Stella I think you were too hard with your comments and most comments too this is a young chap who needs our honest advice
Hmmmm!
DeleteDear poster, sorry about the rape!
Now let me analyse this,im sorry if I appear mean along the line but let's be factual!
Your boss was sending randing messages, asking for quickie and all and you still went to meet him in an hotel room, not lobby, WHY?
You got raped, nobody deserves that but let's see it from ur (he-goat) boss' point of view, u know he likes u, he invited u to a hotel, under whatever guise and u went, he'll think u were mayb shy cos of d office environment and stuff.
The right way to play this out was to have stayed at the lobby and wait for him there, even if he orders u up, don't argue, just stay putn he'll come down to get the documents, if he truly had a meeting.
Rape is carnal knowledge without consent, for dictionary!
Real life, rape is when it is done violently and by a disgusting person or someone you are not or cannot be attracted to at all.
So except u were beaten, a virgin or this man is a man u would ordinarily not be attracted to, u need to get over this.
Sweetheart, use ur head, this guy was probably not a beast 100% and maybe he didn't slap u.
Forget police in Nigeria for rape matter, u won't get justice and the facts are not in your favour.
That said, I think this guy feels that once he sleeps with u, he'll get the relationship rolling (I may be wrong). So I think u should collect the car first, except ure a virgin but if ure not and u are doin a job of 30,000 in 2014, who is the idiot ure sleeping with that is worth this fuss.
I'm just being honest,na u go loose and hunger go comot ur eye
*randy
DeleteThis Ur story doesn't add up boo...something is missing here + u said u tore his cloths so what did he wear to d car shop? Singlet? Abi did he carry anoda extra cloths in his bag? U also said u kicked his balls Wow and he still raped u...His balls must be made of hard rock. #Just saying#
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness! I can't believe what I'm reading from the comments rolling in! A whole lot are saying collect car! You be ode! U for collect am wipe mouth! So she should collect the car and keep shut while the culprit is left to continue to rape more victims? what about her health? She doesn't even know if she is already infected with an incurable disease all you can say is collect car! Hian! This is why so many rich men will continue to rape girl, ladys and women! Cos they know that when they flash the so called almighty car at their faces, they will keep shut forever! Unglaublich! Am highly disappointed!
DeletePepper the unquenchable!
Pepper, go and rest abeg. D deed has been done and irreversible. Poster, abeg collect d car as compensation for ur troubles. Sueing him or woteva will amount to sheer waste of time and resources.
DeleteWake up guys this nigeria nt USA police in nigeria wil even advice u to drop the case(rape victim)cos ur fightin an empty battle wit d rich...rape or no rape go get ur self tested n hit d foolish boss
DeleteSee pepper going all sanctimonious oh. She has been raped. Deed done. She will have to go for therapy, treatment and all that. Looking at d circumstances, SDK'ers doubt she will get anywhere with charging him to court. Plus d publicity. So they want her to at least get a car from d wahala. But I think collecting d xar us d start of a new wahala...
DeleteY'all are saying she should collect the car.see am a victim of rape.it happened 10 years ago n till today I still have flashes. It plays all the time in my head.no amt of money or number of cars can take away that horrible experience. Report him or ask God to heal ur broken heart. I hope u dont take in cos that's where it gets uglier. Good luck to poster.
DeleteHahahahahaaa *falls off balcony* chaii @Anon 4:50pm. I am with you on this one, this story doesn't add up at alllll Haba!
DeleteI'm really disappointed. To think this comments are coming from women. Shame on you all. I hope your daughters, sisters, cousins, aunts and mothers get raped and offered a car too. Idiots... fools
DeletePepper biko, 9ja diff from UK o. 9ja when you have money and connections, you are above the law. O girl don't waste your time and resources. Collect d equvalent of the car, or sell it. Wippe your tears o, cos 9ja no easy. Ask for promotion from him, and better money biko. You are wasting your time looking for Rape activist. I wish being a good girl paysin this 9ja, but trust me it does not, better to see your account swelling due to sex, than for u to be having sex based on the pretense of love.
DeleteIts easy to examine the facts on ground like fiction.however,in real terms,what did you honestly think you were called to do in a hotel room ? A bush 12yr old girl,from a thick village, in all her ignorance,won't fall for that;especially if the man in question has been on your case in a 'gra gra' manner .I am trying to be on your side,but I can't. Sad truth is that what's done is done.Template advice,Get counsel and heal. Corporate advice, seek redress in court.Otherwise,you just want discordant voices of sdkers urging you to take the car for your troubles(all na damages to an extent).Afterall,at all, at all na winch. On the other hand,the likes of madam 'ose ukwu', are calling for his head on a plater! 300 comments or not, these are your options.Yes,they are few.Pick one. Hope you re wiser for it? I know a few ladies who fall time and time again into same 'rape~ trap'. Sorry it happened tho.God be with you.
DeleteWide eyed you are a bloody idiot..... Did u read the story and is going to the hotel a reason for rape? May your sisters and daughters experience rape IJN then u will know that it is not about being wise.....the idiot could have used any other circumstance to rape her.....
DeleteAnon 4.50p, u r so funny. Singlet and hard balls.
Delete@wide eye, this girl is obviously naive! Any naive chic can fall for this...
DeleteCompanies use hotels for meetings all the time...
The rapist oga went through someone else which made her let her guard down
She was urged with the 'urgency' of the meeting
Since this man has been on her case, I'm sure she does her job extra-well so he doesn't have complains and would not want the man to blame her for his being 'late' to the 'meeting'
I feel for her....
That being said, pls go to the hosp ASAP for HIV prophylaxis and emergency contraceptives...
And pls, do more than get the car, get him to set up a business for u.... ( u might as well get something for your trouble)
Sad, I know..but that's the society we live in and it is only God that will reward him cos the law wont!!
Be strong!
Mydear go get d car, go for blood text and emm emm start up a relationship with him, police no dey naija wey go handle d case for u not with ur 30k in a month. My opinion. ....
ReplyDeleteContact me...I will help you take the case up personally...I'm a legal practitioner...
DeleteDnt 4get 2 screen urself 4 HIV in 3mnts! It should be top on ur ToDoList plz!!
DeleteAnd 4 advice, i dnt kw what 2 say 2 u. Clearly this ur story get K-leg! So many questions in my head seeking 4 answers but i dnt ve time now. Slightly busy @ work. Will come bk to this post after work hours.
But if i must add, u seem confused 2 me tho... were u even raped??? U said he have bn mking advances on u and u still went 2 a hotel 2 see him? In a room? Alone? Plz how old r u?? Nawa oo!!!
Abeg till later. Take heart!!!
#Hot Ice
Why are u idiotic fools doubting her story cos she went to the hotel? Her boss gives an instruction and u assume it will lead to rape? Don't done of u bastards have colleagues who make passes at u and u still interact with them? There is no excuse for rape and sadly it's myopic and idiotic comments like this from u mofos that is making it hard for women to get justice in this country.... I only pray all u loudmouths experience rape then we will see if u will still sing the same sanctimonious song..... Bloody idiots
DeleteEven though I detest rape, why on earth did u go to the hotel room even after he had made sexual advances to u, nd I doubt if the yeye police authority will believe u. You weren't smart enough poster .Try though nd if not , report him to the Almighty, the only that can mete the ultimate punishment. Fucky fucky man, I detest men that have no self control.
ReplyDeletePlease those saying why did you go to the hotel room? Should think twice even Stella!! When she has the mind of just going on an official assignment.
DeleteWell young lady! If I say report to the police, it might be a waste of time indeed. The Only person u should just tell is God and pray he gives you that strength to overcome everything that comes after rape. Moreso, get yourself tested and I don't even know how you want to face him whenever you see him @ work + all that happened flashing back to your memory. It is well with you
Please those saying why did you go to the hotel room? Should think twice even Stella!! When she has the mind of just going on an official assignment.
DeleteWell young lady! If I say report to the police, it might be a waste of time indeed. The Only person u should just tell is God and pray he gives you that strength to overcome everything that comes after rape. Moreso, get yourself tested and I don't even know how you want to face him whenever you see him @ work + all that happened flashing back to your memory. It is well with you
U v said it all kemie,she shdnt v gone to the hotel. Anyway d deed has been done, report him to God n not man cos if u report him to d authority, am sure he will buy his way out. Summon up courage n visit d hospital, nothing will happen to u honey. Its one of life experiences, move on.
DeleteYou be mumu ohhh which police u wan give report de ones wey dey sleep for moto abi de ones wey dey find roger if I slap u for there u go collect ur moto from ur oga u better stage another 2nd rape and collect better cash
ReplyDeleteSomeone pls remind me what the penalty for rape in Nigeria is again
DeleteThose people telling her to report to the police and go to Festus Keyamo, pls what proof is she going with? Text message? In what civilized country will that be accepted?
For the STD and all, will reporting to the police take that away?
For rituals, wether she takes the car or not the fact that he has raped her is enough for any ritual whatever
Someone even used the CHIBOK girls case as an example! *LMAO*
Poster, the bitter truth is, you cannot fight that man in any court u do not have a case! He will buy his way out! And I pity u if u decide to tarnish his image because u go just die for nothing!
Collect that car, if u can't maintain it, sale it! Look for other means and collect cash from him.
About the lingering memory, I don't know about that one but I'm very sure going to the police and loosing on both ends after everything will make those memories worse!
That's my 2cents but if u want to report to the police or sue the man, by all means do that but I assure u, that will Be a complete waste of time and resources(that u don't even have sef)
Choose wisely!!!
Poster,you be mumu ohh...so you want to lose every every....you better go back and collect the car gift...the deed has been done...
ReplyDeleteDon't even try to report him cos he will turn the story upside down remember the Obesere rape saga...
Rape case don't favour women in this country.infact the whole blame will be on you...
So I will advise you to take the car and resign....
I agree with Linda
DeleteLinda baby, after taking the car nd resigns, what if the man has some sort of STD or better still, the most dreaded STD of all time, HIV/AIDS... On that note, I disagree with you.
DeleteKemie,if he has any STD, he has already passed it down to her... Can police report take that away? I don't think so.. He would even turn it around and say because he did settle her after sex. Poster you gulfed big time.. You shouldn't have gone to the hotel knowing fully well he made advances at you...
DeleteWhy didn't you go to the police station and hospital immediately so that the hospital can ascertain that you were raped,that way,you would have had a little case but with the naija system,the police wouldn't have answered you,but all those NGOs would have helped..
right now,there is only 4 things you can do,and that depends on the kind of conscience you have
1. Go take the car,keep working and fucking him while he gives your exotic gifts
2. Collect the car and resign if you don't want to continue fucking him
3. Report him to the police and show them the text messages but remember,that doesn't prove he raped you cos I am sure he didn't mention he would rape you plus the police would take it that he made advances at you and you accepted that's why you went to the hotel.
4. Collect nothing from him,resign,go to God in prayers and report him to the Alpha and the Omega.. He alone can help you...
Kemi, ure d one not believe reasonable. So, if she doesn't collect d car, will it reverse d std or hiv(God forbid) she might have gotten in d 1st instance? No!! So, instead of loosing out altogether, she should collect d car as compensation for her troubles
DeleteI think you should go for checkup to make sure you do not have any std or even be preggis
DeleteIf you aint, run go collect the +money sef, leave the job and do not date him, you can start your life with the money, after all you dint ask to get raped
Just like cleo in lekki house wife cry, and keep your car by the time you the ac from the new car starts blowing you, you'd forget
About taking the ish to court, do you have the money for a great lawyer, police no b am
Kemie but if the man has anything she don carry be that. Some people no sharp. Collect the car. One that u can maintain o because to buy spare parts no easy and make sure u milk him, that's if the offer still stands. If the man has used u to do jazz tinz you will still lose so better bring out your tooth pick and finish this perv.
DeleteIs it not better to have a car if you have hiv than be suffering and you still hv the hiv not taking the car will not make hiv go away so i agree with linda
Delete@anon 6:33pm, I don't understand your English o , please type yoruba. I reason with others that replied my thread, but most of all remember we aren't in her shoes, nd do not know exactly how she feels. I do not wish rape for anyone even my worst enemy. Poster, I pray for God's wisdom for u nd also a sound mind.
DeleteAnon 8:50pm, that's the most shallow comment ever. What has car nd HIV got to do with each other? Seriously, when she dies of AIDS (Heaven forbids) will she take the car along. Vanity anon, vanity!!! Car, seriously. What the freaking hell is in a car, compared to her peace of mind and health. Read your bible more anon u need God.
DeleteWhich car? Report his sorryass to the police! Don't accept any car! What if his HIV positive? I didn't see where you said he used a condom!
ReplyDeletePepper ose oku!
Exactly!
DeleteShut up abeg! Ur comments are irritating
DeleteAnonymous 7:28, will you fuck off from my lane! Stupid mumph! My comments will continue to irritate you until you develop HBP! I wounder why you keep reading! Clear evidence that you await them! Old Hagg! Ugly mupphet!
DeletePepper the unquenchable!
7:28 go get raped n get as many cars as u want thanks pepper
Delete@anonymous 6:53 uwc dear!
DeletePepper hot!
THERE IS NO JUSTICE IN THIS PART OF THE WORLD....I HAVE BEEN UNDER THAT CIRCUMSTANCE BEFORE,I DIDNT GET RAPED,I USED HIM TO SECURE A BETTER JOB,GOT SOME PROPERTIES,SET UP MY OWN BUSINESS AND THEN GAVE IN WILLINGLY.
ReplyDelete(DONT JUDGE ME)
FOR YOU,THE DEED HAS BEEN DONE.LICK UP YOUR WOUNDS,TAKE THE CAR AND ANYOTHER THING YOU CAN GET.IF HE HAS MONEY TO TAKE YOU TO A CAR MART,THEN HE MUST HAVE MONEY TO BRIBE THE CHEAP POLICE MEN....SO SORRY GIRL,U SHD HAVE ASKED QUESTIONS WHEN HE WAS MAKING ADVANCES..
How can God judge in your favour when you accept money for the evil done to you. You gave willingly? Whore!
DeleteHow can God judge in your favour when you accept money for the evil done to you. You gave willingly? Whore!
DeleteSome men can be useless and bad . I am very sure you went to the hotel out of respect and fear. You shouldnt have gone there. He is well connected, nothing will come out of it if you report to the police. He would tell many lies against you, such that people would start doubting your story. Honestly as a Christian, I would say forget the job and leave him to God. On the other hand, as a human being, since he has already slept with you, I would say, take the car and ensure the registration is in your name and leave the shameless man. I pray he does not have any sexually transmitted disease. Honestly, I am angry and as confused as you are. Rose
ReplyDeleteMy dear you can't be for God and also for man. You can't worship God and baal.
DeletePoster, cry to God. Do not collect anything for him. Are you really that materialistic? Or do you doubt the Word of God. All things work for good for those who love God. Stay in your job and be delligent but make sure what he did to you is not a secret.
I agree with u Rose..
Deletecollect the car as consolation and count ur loss. His powerful,could be his word against yours.
ReplyDeleteCollect a car as consolation for RAPE? You are so vain...... Just remain anonymous o. Mshewwwwww
DeleteHonestly i confuse pass Stella o,but my dear when he made mentioned of hotel that was when you would av politely turned him down...God help you in making a right decision..#DOVE#
ReplyDeleteStupid gal,collect d car or die of hunger. Pls give me his number. Plss or ur office add.
ReplyDelete90% of anons on this blog na ashewo nd na una curse pass. E beru Olorun o. When it comes to ranting , na una go rant pass of how una want a husband. Mshewwwwww number nd office add my sexy butt. U better have some sort of respect if not for your body, but for God your creator.
DeleteDo you want to be raped too? make una fear God oooooh. What do you want to do with the number?
DeleteNk
Dont mind them ashewo 10 kobo.tomorrow you will say there are no husband material when you are ashewo
DeleteAnon too wants to go and be raped and collect car, ah tire for naija, i nor blame u, contri tough
DeleteLol@ his phone num and address. Oh baby you are crazy.
DeleteThe deed has been done, wt u need do now is so stop working for him, still keep the evidence and move on with ur life, cos d guy is rich he will just bribe d policemen.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry!
ReplyDeleteAfter you left the hotel room you should have done something immediately to actually prove you were raped(like going to the police). Acting late now for me is not advisable...it will seem like you want something else or people will probably think you are looking for means to blackmail him since he is vying for a political position. Even lawyers in the law court willask you why you didn't go to the police immediately after the rape to report the case.
If you wish to leave the office fine, but if you don't want to leave, advise others to cryout when a thing like this one happens again.
ONLY WEAK MEN RAPE GIRLS!!! GBN.
Paragon7ven.
Errm, kindly drop the number of you boss here. I will personally look in2 the issue! Dullard!
ReplyDeletePls I need him in my life.
See dis barbie nkapi!!
DeleteOKIJA WIFE
Hahahahaaaaaa!@ anon 5.18..m wit u jare,DULLARD of life!msheeew
DeleteFirst class poverty stricken shameless whores CAR na how much
DeletePoster, first step: Go Get urself tested 4 std, ur status determines ur nxt action.
ReplyDeleteGod help u nurse ur emotion
bak to health
Are you seriously asking what to do? Someone rapes you and you're asking if you should continue working for him or collect the car he offered? WTF!
ReplyDeleteI'm with Stella on this one. I can't possibly offer any advice with the kind of questions you asked....
#SAYNOTORAPE
This case is dead on arrival. Your boss was petering you for sex and you gullibly took a document to him at a hotel to sign! All those coming here to form holiness, pls cut the crap. Count your losses and move on. Just like the lady who claimed she was raped by Obesere. Why go into a hotel room to sign a document? What happened to the lobby? Carry your foolishness comot for here.
DeleteEyaa
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry about ur experince since he is your boss and he needed the documents and little did you know he had plans for you?I think you should think things through again and be sure of what you want.
ReplyDeleteI wont blame you for going to the hotel because you were acting on instructions. I would blame you for entering the room knowing that he had been making serious advances.
ReplyDeleteThe deed has been done, police cant help you, especially as your story is not watertight, in fact they may end up turning it into a case and making a fool of you, saying you are a scorned lover.
My dear, collect the car and anything he has to offer- make sure they are all in your name and sell, then have the money cooling off in your account while you look for another job
Dear poster I'm sorry 4wt happened to you.. In your post, u said he's running for a senatorial position.. Well I'll suggest you report him, trust me, av read thru some of the replies hia and most are saying you don't have the money to pursue justice. But I tink with his political career hia,u cn do and undo.. Speak up, shout, make noise about it, dnt stop.. Trust me help wil come, atleast from political opponents. I know Naija, d play dirty, opponents wil b happy to get ds kind of info against him, d wil luk 4u, and fund his trial, even tho it myt b for dia personal gain but at d end of it all, u dnt get 2loose either.. God bless ur decisions tho..
ReplyDeleteSmall Mrs
She'll end up dead
DeleteDo you want him to end her life? Politicians can do anything
DeleteI dont think you leave in Nigeria.poster dont endanger your life.go for test immediately pls flush every rubbish he might hv deposited in your body and quit the smelling job.how will you be able to ride a car from someone who raped you,that one i dont understand
DeleteMadam na story u writte here! What proof does she have that she was actually raped? In a hotel room!! Ha! If u be police u go belief her story?
DeleteReporting him will only make things worse for her! Firstly, she will loose her job and it would be her world against the mans'!
Poster u better be sharp and collect that car plus all the available cash o....Aspiring politician fit kill u if u wan hinder him political appointment na Naija we dey o...forget all these sanctimonious bullshit wey this people dey yarn here.
I'm sorry u were raped and I honestly hope the guy didn't leave u with any souvenir (disease) Infact, thunder go fire him blokos for that act!!! But the deed has been done! This na opportunity to hammer. Makeup for the lost 4yrs mehn...no dulling..
U r advicing someone who doesn't have money to fight dirty with a naija politician?...issokay o.am sure u don't know how dangerous these people are
DeleteCollect d car key,,,d deed has been done
ReplyDeleteUbiam united
DeletePele poster, u sef no sharp. You should have politely but firmly declined when he asked u to bring the papers to a hotel. Even if u had to go, u should hav waited for him in the reception.
ReplyDeleteWell the deed is done, try and see a therapist to treat urself and it's up to you if u want to collect the car or not.
However, be rest assured u're not going to get anywhere with the nigerian police, shame it didn't happen in a civilized setting
Click my name for all your celebration cakes n cupcakes, cheers
This is actually someone's husband, highly irresponsible low life married man. The wife will be cursing and threatening when in actual fact she should be cursing the dog she married! A man that lacks self control, this one go dey do househelp, Shameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile, the randy he goat (Married man) had to resort to rape out of desperation, how low can one go? you better go for HIV test cuz I doubt he remembered to use condom .
Madam you are a FOOLISH girl. Your boss who has been after you and you said you refused now ask's you to meet him in a hotel with what ever document and you went? and you are still working for him? Since you did not report to the Police immediately this happened i advice you take the car and collect some money from him and move on...mtcheeeew. But men! I am sure he did that without condom! What if she is positive? It is true that an erect dick has no conscience!
ReplyDeleteMOI u are a foolish idiot always talking like u r smarter than everyone...... Ur rape story is next..... Bloody goat
DeleteLmao.......r u whitenicious? U berra dnt dull.
ReplyDeleteLmao.......r u whitenicious? U berra dnt dull. *astra*
ReplyDeleteNne, nata ya motto...what more can i say? #confused# endeavor to go for the necessary test. Even tho ur story has kleg like my legs.
ReplyDeleteNata ya moto? Aguu, ubiam
DeleteRapist don't deserve to live and You don't deserve to be raped. So sorry for what happened to you. You made a terrible mistake by meeting him in his hotel room. because he has been pestering you for sex. The deed has been done.
ReplyDeleteFirst you need to go to the hospital for STD test, hope you took the day after pill to avoid unwanted pregnancy.
Don't take any gift from him and there is no need working for him anymore.
You can report him to the police but I don't trust our system and hope they will arrest him when you do. Good luck
Nk
Poster in as much as I partly blame you for the rape, I sympathized with you.
ReplyDeleteYou should have gone with a friend or a colleague to the hotel.
However, the deed has been done, accept the car offer, resign from the company.
Sell the car and use the money to sustain yourself until you get a better job.
Pls also go for medical check up
And be wise next time.
CeeCee
YOU ARE A FOOLISH GEL,GET THE CAR,SEX HIM MORE,GET WHAT YOU CAN N MOVE TO D NEXT LEVEL..HE CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOR GOOD(MONEY WISE)GO BACK FOR YOUR CAR..U BE VIRGIN?ARE YOU A FOOL?YOU KOLO NI?WHY THE RUBBISH REGRETS?IF NO HIV OO CARRY ON MY FRIEND...HAA U NO SHARP @ALLLLL..AND YOU GO UNIVERSITY?SHAME ON YOU!SO NA 30K U DEY DEPEND ON PER MONTH...THE MAN TRY SEF SLEEP WITH A CHEAP GIRL LIKE YOU COME OFFER YOU CAR YOU DECLINED..MUMU...
ReplyDeleteVanity upon vanity, complete the rest. .. There is more to life than what you have just typed. I detest people who think like u. Carlifornia indeed.
DeleteCarlifonia your father and mother are the mumus who gave birth to a retard like you? Who the fuck do u think u are? Bloody bastard
DeleteCalifornia potential rapist
DeleteNa so una de claim saint 4 no reason,dat ur poor boyfriend wen de fuck u up &down nai u like. Abeg go collect d car make u change ur status. Abi dem curse u wit poverty??
ReplyDeleteu better collect that car. mumu dey worry u abi?
ReplyDeleteDear poster this is what you should have done,this is what I would have done; Don't clean up,yucky yes,but put on your panties that way,follow him n get the car (ensure its in ur name cos frm ur story babe u too dull) on your way back divert to a hospital,a govt hospital n explain your ordeal,tell them you want to press charges,trust me any sane Dr will examine you and write you a report (make sure all these happens under an hour). Make various copies of the report and keep it underneath your box (or wherever it is you keep important documents). Go back to work and have a recorder on u,talk about the incident.. coerce him to talk,he'll definitely say something like 'I didn't mean to rape you,i love you,d devil made me do it (if devil dey die,all these false accusations for don kill am). Also duplicate that record underneath your box alongside the Dr's report. Never be fooled again pls,do not sleep with him again..you can even throw in a 'I'm pregnant ' stunt and let him know you are keeping it (again let the conversation be recorded) He's a senatorial aspirant abi,as soon as campaigns begin,locate his opponents and deliver all incriminating pieces to them. Let it also find its way to media houses and blogs. He'll try to buy your silence,do not fall for it.
ReplyDeletePls pls pls never go alone to deliver documents to anyone in their hotel rooms,anything beyond the reception point,my ass is out of the door.
Haaaa,right now I want to hold you and probably slap sense into you and then hug you because I can feel the trauma you are going through. Of all the problems Nigerians are going through,being naive shouldn't be one of them.
the story has k-leg
ReplyDeleteThis is my honest and sincere submission... Your boss is a randy and retard rapist! You are not his only victim and won't be the last proll. Go and run a test in a very good and standard hospital. Collect the car, cos the deed has been done. No po-po will help you o. If you report the matter sef dem go insult you finish say you be idiot! Continue your work, make a research on him know where he lives, if he is married or not. Give the bastard some wks then. present a fake pt result, use am collect more money from him. Blackmail him till he repents. #sonOfabitch#
ReplyDeleteCn u just see ow wicked men can be? He is paying a graduate jus 30k a month buh cn buy her a car for going jus one round. Dts ow dy encourage gals into runz tins. MEN....pls rmbr diaris God oooooo!
ReplyDeleteits a very dicey situation.
ReplyDeletefrom your write up, this man is running for a senatorial position meaning he has connections. first the matter may be turned against you should you report. infact the Nigerian police I know as of today, will collect money from your so called boss and begin to call you unprintable names right there at the station.
second, he could snuff life outta you via paid assassins should you try to tarnish his image.
you gotta be careful.
I do not know what to tell you, but I will only advice at this point, that you go get tested to ensure you are not infected with any kind of disease.
really sad that there are no laws in this country, no genuine authority to report to. really sad.
Stella na wah for the comments I am seeing, a young lady got raped and u tell her not to seek justice but take the car?!! Com'on is that how bad things are in Nigeria? Linda Eze for the first time I am truly disappointed in you.
ReplyDeleteYoung lady seek counsel from a learned lawyer like Festus Keyamo etc that do probono cases, dont let anyone tell u, u cant seek justice for the wickedness that was done to you, no car can return the shameful crime he has done against u. Pls seek for justice, afterall when the Chibok girls first got kidnapped people said, oh its Nigeria nothing will be done but today you see the whole world fighting for the release of those girls. Please keep all the evidence u have and seek for justice. No one is above the law
Magical Eyes
Yh i agree with you.but such case are difficult to prove also her life will be at risk
DeleteNow we know the calibre of people that come here. Collect the car and clean mouth?? Can you imagine?? On Sunday they will go to church and raise holy hands to God! Nigeria is in shambles.
ReplyDeleteIm so shocked to my bone even people i respected on this blog. May God protect us
DeleteMena hunger is real in naija look this na proof
DeleteStella na wah for the comments I am seeing, a young lady got raped and u tell her not to seek justice but take the car?!! Com'on is that how bad things are in Nigeria? Linda Eze for the first time I am truly disappointed in you.
ReplyDeleteYoung lady seek counsel from a learned lawyer like Festus Keyamo etc that do probono cases, dont let anyone tell u, u cant seek justice for the wickedness that was done to you, no car can return the shameful crime he has done against u. Pls seek for justice, afterall when the Chibok girls first got kidnapped people said, oh its Nigeria nothing will be done but today you see the whole world fighting for the release of those girls. Please keep all the evidence u have and seek for justice. No man is above the law
Magical Eyes
Hmmmmmm, Magical eyes I just can't fathom how people think. Some people are so materialistic that they can't see truth or stand for the right thing. After taking the car, what next?
DeleteFor you to be asking if you should collect the car, you enjoyed it. You were raped and you are asking Stella if you should report? Sometimes I feel people just write trash and send. If Stella didn't offer this platform, you wouldn't think? You don't deserve sympathy! Mtschew
ReplyDeleteMadam amaka you seem to know it all and have all the solution therefore making other people's problem to always sound like trash to you,biko not everyone is a 'genuis' like you,remember a problem shared is a problem half solved.
DeleteAbegi shift. I need to be a genius to know that I have to report to law enforcement agencies that I was raped yeah? I need to be a genius to know I shouldn't visit a man in his hotel room yeah? It is called common sense ma, well, common sense isn't common
DeleteRape ke. What kind of file are you carrying up and down tto hotel rooms.If he was in a hurry as they claim,he would have been at the hotel lobby or car park. I guess it was those kind of hotel that the room's door shuts automatically as you entered.
ReplyDeleteI want to ask you a sincere question,did you enjoy that kind of rape.
I want to know those antiquated companies still carrying hard file up and down.shocking.
I tire oooooooo.......Hmmmmmmm!!!!
DeleteNawa ooo lord have mercy!
ReplyDeleteWell this doesnt sound rapish to me ooo, to later think about the goodies that came after. My dear dont decieve ur self saying u were raped, u know the truth so go ahead and collect ur car gift , ur own good sef d jolly jolly carry car follow body, enjoy it while its lasts honey. I go vex if u no play along bc u don start already but if na married man, better stop there. Tell him to open business for u and u walk away. my 2kobo
ReplyDeleteCar follow body play along chai chai naija chics are thirsty
DeleteSurprised to see evryone saying collect the car, what if the rape is for ritual purpose in which after collecting the car she dies mysteriously...who rapes and offers a car as compensation if there's nothing behind it?
ReplyDeletePoster if you have no means of taking up the rape case leave it all to God. Go get tested to ensure he has not infected you and ultimately you need to prayyyyyy
So sry abt wat happened to u but my advise. Is to report him to God,pls dont collect ány car or money frm him if u really want God to avenge for u...my two cent
ReplyDeleteThis is serious
ReplyDeleteIf he infected you with STD or even HIV, it's there already, you can only treat the treatable one and live with the other (HIV). Forget the police since you didn't report immediatly. If you have proof, there are NGOs that handle cases like this and I'm sure it won't cost you anything, if not, I'd advise you to collect the car, squeeze more money out of him, dump the 30k job and start your own business with the money. Like I said before, if he's infected you with anything,it's there already, pls take the consolation price and learn your lesson. BEAUTY.
ReplyDeleteDear poster,u forget u wield a lot of power with social media(Facebook,twitter,blogs etc). If u report to the police about it and nothing is done, send all your evidence to Stella,if she posted this,i bet she would post that too. If you are not able to send him to jail,be sure he would lose his senatorial race and reputation with all the media backlash. If u take the car it would be considered payment for services rendered. Be wise. #ILOVEPIPILEE
ReplyDeleteNa today, so many ladies has been raped by their so called boyfriends who will end up begging them n they will accept d guy back. Now some one wants to give u a car 4 doing d same thing ur boy friends does ur there forming "am too good" u can't fight dis man cos his bigger than u n my dear don't be foolish n loose out.......... #Tinima#
ReplyDeleteWhat is the big deal about owing a car? Is that enough to sell ones dignity.im shocked.too much emphasis on material things that we forget the basic things of life
DeleteNaturelle poverty is a bitch ask 98% of blog readers
DeleteI'm just sorry for whatever happened dear..but here is the truth;the legal act to be taken here is to report him to the police but come to think of it;in Naija we all know how the rich bribe their way out of every illegal act they ve carried out most especially when it comes to rape..if your boss told u to come with him to pick up any car of ur choice;then he can bribe his way out of any authority you take him to..and this nigeria for us.dear blog visitor;just follow ur heart and conscience and do whateva u think is d best..cos all I can advice u to do is go and get urself tested soo as to know ur next step..
ReplyDeleteI can't believe the stupid comments am reading here? She went to the hotel so what? Even if it's a date does he have a right to rape? No wonder rape is still on the rise, the kind of mentality we Africans have is why stiffer penalty will never be metted out to rapist..... If it's a child u hypocrites will make noise but the stupid comments here shows why it's hard for adult females to get justice..... May u stupid females here commenting all suffer rape one day then u will realise that there is no excuse for any man to rape anyone......as for you poster stop having a victim mentality and know that under no circumstance do u deserve rape..... U should have reported as soon as it happened..... Go look for another job and be wiser next time
ReplyDeleteWhy are you ranting,must you now swear for people bcos they dnt share your views.
DeleteI understand you went to the hotel believing he needed the documents like he said. You have to decide what you want. The fact that you turned him down before and fled the room shows you are a good girl.
ReplyDeleteI will advise you don't collect a penny from him. Cry to God for vengence and He will fight for you. As Him to rewrite your pain into joy. You may not see His hand immediately, but He will surely answer you.
If you collect the car, you have your reward. It is similar to what the arabs call blood money ie when a murderer pays the victims family so he doesn't get punished/prosecuted.
From the comments on this issue, I can authoritatively say that Nigerian men will CONTINUE to rape Nigerian women, girls and anything with a hole and the victims will be blamed by the society.
ReplyDeleteNo means No!
STOP means STOP!
It does not matter if she was naked and flirting with him. When she says NO, by law he should have stopped.
Until the Nigerian Police Force creates a special 'RAPE VICTIMS' department constisting of trained, loyal and matured police women, Nigerian women and girls will continue to be raped and blamed.
As for the OP, report him to the police, try to get a lawyer and sue him, his car and his political ambition.
Get tested and look for another job. Stand tall and confident. You are you.
#RapistAreDeadly.
Raped you and now wants to get you a car...hmmmnnn, hope he hasn't used you for anything o! Senatorial aspirant you said? Me I no trust politicians o! Better go to MFM for better deliverance, cut all contact with him and pray your destiny is intact...
ReplyDeletePS
Police fit lock you up sef. You wan sue big man for naija??? LOL.
True DAT juju tins
DeleteDear poster u saying ure confused is so annoying. Some1 took advantage of u n ure here talking about a car? Who will fuel n maintain d car 4 u? Ure talkin abt going bk 2 work? Re u 4 real? If ure sure u can still look d he-goat in d face n reply yes sir! Whenever he calls then u weren't raped. Don't u feel dirty @ dis point? My dear even if d police won't help u pls help ursef by walking out on his fucking car, job n money n let God help u. If u touch anytin he's offering u then ure as cursed as he is n u will live 2 regret it.
ReplyDeleteEveryone is saying take d car,has anyone thought of d possible aftermath of dis?my dear obviously u can't get justice,d only justice u may get is jungle justice....since he's already fucked u,make him feel like all is well,take everything he's got to offer then "fuck him up" big time,politically and otherwise..strategise,plan,think,think,think again of d best and most shameful way to pull d bastard down...my 2 cents...
ReplyDeleteHe z ur boss, but based on d advances he made severally 2wards u, u shld hv knwn dat he z up 2 somtin n find a way 2 avoid it. Anywaz, d harm hs been done, all i hv 2 say z folow ur conscience. If it tels u 2 accept d car, then do. If nt 4get everytin n walk away. D truth z if u accept dat car n stil continue workin dia, dat means u hv been trapped. My two cent advice z dat u walk away n start life all ova
ReplyDeleteHe z ur boss, but based on d advances he made severally 2wards u, u shld hv knwn dat he z up 2 somtin n find a way 2 avoid it. Anywaz, d harm hs been done, all i hv 2 say z folow ur conscience. If it tels u 2 accept d car, then do. If nt 4get everytin n walk away. D truth z if u accept dat car n stil continue workin dia, dat means u hv been trapped. My two cent advice z dat u walk away n start life all ova
ReplyDeleteHe z ur boss, but based on d advances he made severally 2wards u, u shld hv knwn dat he z up 2 somtin n find a way 2 avoid it. Anywaz, d harm hs been done, all i hv 2 say z folow ur conscience. If it tels u 2 accept d car, then do. If nt 4get everytin n walk away. D truth z if u accept dat car n stil continue workin dia, dat means u hv been trapped. My two cent advice z dat u walk away n start life all ova
ReplyDeletebelieve me , he just wanna use that ''buy u car'' to calm you down and fuck u some more b4 dumping u & move unto d next girl. you bet that man is NOT buying you any fuckin car. all na wash if u doubt me tell him tomorrow " sir o ya let's go get he car'' e go begin post u till him fuck u again. try it. naa their WAy. thank me later.
ReplyDeleteResign your job and go get tested after which u go for spiritual cleansing for both body n soul via (Prayers n Fasting) then move on... leave him for God he will surely pay for it. if u collect d car it means u got no dignity. move on . God will give u a better job.
believe me , he just wanna use that ''buy u car'' to calm you down and fuck u some more b4 dumping u & move unto d next girl. you bet that man is NOT buying you any fuckin car. all na wash if u doubt me tell him tomorrow " sir o ya let's go get he car'' e go begin post u till him fuck u again. try it. naa their WAy. thank me later.
ReplyDeleteResign your job and go get tested after which u go for spiritual cleansing for both body n soul via (Prayers n Fasting) then move on... leave him for God he will surely pay for it. if u collect d car it means u got no dignity. move on . God will give u a better job.
I agree with you
DeleteDO NOT MEET A STRANGER IN A HOTEL ROOM. LADIES PLEASEEEEEEEEEE DO NOT MEET A STRANGER IN A HOTEL ROOM IF YOU DONT WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH THEM. in such a case next time you begin to recieve raunchy text messages, please call it quit. its not worth it for your peace of mind. Now with that 30k, if you have HIV can all that money treat your infection?
ReplyDeletenext if you say you must work, when u enter a hotel like that, knock, stand by the door and give him the documents without going inside. NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS NEVER GO INTO THE ROOM.
finally, the first thing you need to do is get tested for any infection. Next let your conscience be your guide.
PEP for prevention of HIV /Aids before 72hrs. poster go and collect Pep drug to prevent hiv first pls and take postinor 2 to prevent pregnancy pls.
ReplyDeleteTA if i hear which kin rape,so u were also blinded into d room abi,my dear take ur car,still b fucking him take money frm him open shop for him head wetin 30k won do for d mnth, Dat pretty igbo girl
ReplyDeleteDAT poor hungry pretty igbo gial broken by poverty
Deletetotal BS!
ReplyDeleteIs everybody not thinking deep? A politician (senatorial aspirant) pays you peanuts as salary, and is willing to give you a car after having sex with you (rape) tells me alot.
ReplyDeleteHe is an heartless man, he is not giving you the car because he wants you to keep shut. No! He knows that any girl that will accept a peanut as salary is desperate enough to change to a higher level.
My take is this. Politicians are spiritually minded people, he will continue to sleep with you for is own personal spiritual rituals he had been instructed to be engaging in by is babalawo somewhere. As usual you will be getting gifts, money etc. but he will be using you to get money, power etc. Be wise, the man knows you will surely come back to get the car and he will continue to get more cars, money, power from that sexual act.
With the kind of comments people write here,OGA'S will continue to rape Nigeria women. Even most men that read this comments already know the answer to your problem when raped."PAY YOU WITH GIFTS" Poverty is truly a disease.
ReplyDeleteAssin im still in a state of shock
DeleteKill Him... make a cup of coffee put arsenic in it. and watch him die.
ReplyDeleteBuahahahaha you don too watch bad bad film
DeleteFrom her question, she does not sound psychologically damaged, if she was, she would not be asking if she should take the car or not. That was why I asked her to grab whatever she could grab.
ReplyDeleteAgain, look at the case of the youth corper and the traditional ruler. Many did not believe her story.
About praying for God to deal with the man, I have discovered that our God is a merciful God. Many have done a lot and asked for forgiveness and nothing happened to them. So let her mess the man up as much as she can. Some men are beasts. Rose
God still fight for the defenceless infact dont mess with ophan and widows if they should send your name to God in prayer and tears it is always distastrous ,i just wish people know the efficacy of prayer infact im a living witness
DeleteCan't believe wot I'm reading here! All these comments advising her to collect the car! Do you know wot rape does to the mind, do u? She can never be the same again! She is scarred for life! Mentally, physically, and emotionally!
ReplyDeleteIya ibeji ¶¶¶ na hunger ooooooooo
DeleteMy dear, please don't collect the car, it will not take away the fact that you have been raped nor erase the aftermath thoughts of rape. You need to be sure you can still work with him considering the fact that he raped you. Your best option now is to talk to God and not some funny people here, He alone can direct on what to do, it is well with you.
ReplyDeleteNne, I'm scared on your b4. Girls shud knw d first thing to do after rape is to go 2d hosp 4, num 1. Get tested and given drugs to prevent contractin HIV 2. Get evidence incase u want to sue.
ReplyDeleteBe smart joor. These your nonsense questions I dnt undastnd oo. Lik you enjoyed the thing sef
I'm sure you won't get d car sef, having missed that opportunity then. You refused him initially, now you'r contemplating. Abeg, free me joor.
FIRST GO REPORT TO THE POLICE.. NO CRIME SUD GO UNPUNISHED ESP AS U SAY HE IS RUNNING FOR SENATORIAL POSITION, WHAT KIND OF EXAMPLE WUD HE BE SHOWING
ReplyDeleteSECONG GO GET TESTED IMMEDIATELY FOR ALL STDs AND REQUEST FOR POST EXPOSURE MEDICATIONS FOR HIV
ALSO GO GET TESTED TO KNOW IF U R PREGNANT..
CONTACT SOCIAL SERVICE IN UR AREA FOR MORE COUNSELING.
I WULD NOT ADVICE U TO ACCEPT THE CAR COS THAT WUD TRANSLATE TO CONSENSUAL SEX OR PAYMENT FOR THE SERVICE..
RETURNING BACK TO THAT JOB.. HOW COMFORTABLE WILL U BE.. CAN U HANDLE THE SIGHT OF THE MAN THAT RAPED U DAILY..
ITS SO SAD AND I FEEL SO SORRY FOR U.. JUST HOPE N PRAY THAT U GET OVER THE EMOTIONAL PAIN.. TAKE CARE DEAR
I agree with you "na wash" that car ehnn he go post you tire, before you know it he don f*** you 5 times with nothing to show for it.
ReplyDeleteAll these naija randy married men if you no chop their money before you f*** e go hard to chop am after except say the man really like you.
How I roll any married man that toast me, I go first give you bill, I go weigh your pocket Sha but you must drop nothing less than 200k if you wanna see me the 2nd time after we meet.
I was naive like this babe before, I go just dey pile up stupid toasters and still be broke, every day "let's do drinks, let's eat out" like say I came to lagos to get fat.
By the time I understood how these useless Nigerian married men operate i wisen'd up immediately.
They are so quick to tell you let's F***, on your first date they are already discussing sex styles.
So what I do, once I met you and u form liking me, by the 2nd time we are meeting it's either "my rents due" or "my goods are with custom and I need to clear it".. I Sha just give a very urgent story and make it seem like I need that money immediately, because if you act like d money can wait then the man will find a way to sleep with you first and that MAY be the end (some exceptions o ! But me I don't gamble with my life).
So in this situation I would have told my boss the first time he starts toasting "sir I need 500k I need to travel this weekend my mum is sick" .
If he gives you use d money and help ur self, if it a good firm stay there and be the guy's whore, and chop all d money you can. If he doesn't have that kinda money, trust me he wouldn't bother toasting you again cos he will feel you are not on his level.
My point is Sha, for these useless men chop what you can before do'ing, and any married man that can't afford to spend money on you has no business talking to you in the first place. You can as well manage your single bf and be eating KFC in peace.
Long story, I know some smart SDK'ers will use this tip. Remember Sha you have to look the part; if you are a darllyn yaki, primary wearing bus hopping chick please ask for 5k , 10k and be happy with your life.... Haha
On other note; this post just made me think of starting an anonymous blog, where I write stories of my various encounters with Nigerian men and how I have successfully/unsuccessfully collected Stuffs for free. Will you guys read? Lool
Please I am not a runs girl I just like the good life, and Nigeria is a city that encourages me.
I meant "primark" not "primary"... and "Lagos is a city that encourages me" all these world pple no come curse me say I no sabi English abeg.. You get my drift sha.
DeleteHahahahahahaha racheal is this you?
DeleteU got me giggling, abeg tutor me o, still a learner. *astra*
DeleteWrite kint wait 2 read
DeleteLol i like you already!
DeleteSharpest babe! I like youuuuu. These Nig men eh! Na to obtain wella before doing o
DeleteStella I will be vexed if you don't post my epistle o
ReplyDeleteJay Moore, this lady's case is different. She sounds as if she is not that smart. I bet you, not every man will go free with rape. Some women know what to do. As it is now, she has tampered with the evidence of this rape. She should have shouted, as the man was opening the door. By the time people take photograph of the man, and post it on the Internet, his image for don finish. I will encourage women to learn karate. No man can try that nonsense with me, unless he has a gun. Even with his gun, I have other plans. Women need to stop looking for sympathy and defend themselves. Since the law enforcement agents have failed us, we need to help ourselves.
ReplyDeleteAgain, to prove lack of consent is going to be difficult for this lady. You don't enter someones hotel room like that, not to talk about someone who had been wooing her. Rose
Lool, now I feel like am the one giving you bad advice, but my dear let's get real here, it too late to report the case as rape cos you no get proof infact "na only waka come" his hotel room. So just go and get tested and be sure you don't have any medical issues. It's just sad that you where introduced to married men in this kinda manner, sha just dust yourself up and go out and make money.
ReplyDeleteI feel so sorry for you, infact I wish I could get your email so I can private coach you on how to make your money from these useless men that can't respect themselves and they won't even see your pant.
Stella please check your mail, I sent you a mail yesterday and this morning asking you for your advert rates asap....please respond, thank you.
ReplyDeleteSwear say di guy neva mention moto mata bifor ein do di deed. Dis tori enh... E get as e be
ReplyDeletei wont tell u what to do or not to do but if the rape is a very recent thing first get tested for STD and HIV, even if the HIV test comes out negative, do the test at a teaching hospital, and explain to them why u are doing the test, u will still be placed on anti retrovirals( hope thats what its called) bc of the unsure exposure. I feel u should get all u can from him and scram, politicians fight dirty, u might make it to the police station but u might not be alive to continue the case. A man with sentorial ambition cannot be toyed with. Phew.... long epistle but go for test sha and take some preventive measures for HIV just incase.
ReplyDelete@poster sorry u hear. In my own opinion I will advice u to leave dat job,do not take d car,take ur time to heal,fight d stupid boss spiritually,cry out to God and tell him wat u wnt him to do to your boss. I no d deed has been done,take tins easy ok.I had a former boss who disturbed my life like mad ehn,when I saw hw desperate he became,I left the stupid job.At least d lord has been faithful to me. I no naija isn't easy but God will see u tru,so manytins happen for a reason,so that our God can b glorified and honoured. #my Opinion#
ReplyDeleteMy dear girl you are young and naive and he knows it. That animal doesn't have any plans to buy you no car he know you will not accept he just made the offer I'll advice you take it to God in prayers. If you know any civil right agency you can go to them for help because he is influential there is no need going to the police, let the group take it up for you dear.
ReplyDeleteRemember time is of the essence.
Rape is bad try and forgive yourself too it will help you heal fast. Get tested for STDs and in a few weeks for pregnancy and HIV you have to speak up!
Finally, Stella I think you were too hard with your comments and most comments too this is a young chap who needs our honest advice
These are the kinds of girls that disgust me. Greedy materialistic hoes who want to have their cake and eat it by also forming good girl. Did you guys miss the part where she said her boss was giving her "huge sums of money" (before the so-called rape), yet she was collecting when she knew she didn't want to f**k him? Who does that? Are you are kid, or you think the man is a mugu?
ReplyDeleteIf you are a real good girl, you would always flee all appearances of evil. If you know you dont wanna f**k a man, REFUSE his money and other gifts, and stay away from any private encounter (such as in a hotel room!!!).
God punish the useless girl. If I hear say them rape you? Nonsense.
These are the kinds of girls that disgust me. Greedy materialistic hoes who want to have their cake and eat it by also forming good girl. Did you guys miss the part where she said her boss was giving her "huge sums of money" (before the so-called rape), yet she was collecting when she knew she didn't want to f**k him? Who does that? Are you are kid, or you think the man is a mugu?
ReplyDeleteIf you are a real good girl, you would always flee all appearances of evil. If you know you dont wanna f**k a man, REFUSE his money and other gifts, and stay away from any private encounter (such as in a hotel room!!!).
God punish the useless girl. If I hear say them rape you? Nonsense.
Stella your blog visitors are HUNGRY
ReplyDeleteNo need to cuss the girl out or wonder at the authenticity of her story. 7 years ago, fresh outta university, I was a fresh faced innocent young girl (yes, INNOCENT after 4 years of uni education) and new in Lagos. My boss had me go to drop off wine in his private guest house and asked me to wait until somebody came for the keys of the house. 3.30pm...4.00pm...5.00pm...6.00pm the dude finally shows up with some of his friends who gist and drink wine for about an hour before leaving. Stupid me (at the time), I kept waiting for an appropriate time to take my leave (which never came). Cutting the long story short, after his friends left, that fat old man tried to force himself on me. After reviewing my options/ escape route in my head, I had to sweet talk him into us having sex the next day as I would have planned a better excuse for staying out late. Thank God he bought it and let me go that night. As I left that day, I never went back to the office, EVER!...I guess I was lucky!
ReplyDeleteI hope this evil man haven't used this girl for ritual because the way he sounded offering her a car After raping her. And collecting that car is the worst because once you collect that car you have sold yourself. Just report him to God I feel so sorry for you though he will reap the fruit of his wickedness.
ReplyDeleteToo many questions to answer. After signing were you standing or sitting on his bed? The hotel room at least has a seat and you were sitting there.Did he drag you from the seat to the bed. Was your cloth torn?You only told us u tore his. Kick his balls. I dont think so. I am a man and when you kick balls as in kick balls,its enough to kill the drive. The story just doesn't add up. Simple, he pressurized you and you gave in. Go back to work.
ReplyDeleteFor the first time in my interesting life, I also admit that Stella's Blog has admitted the folks who ruined Linda's blog.
ReplyDeleteI switched from Linda's blog to Stella's a while back just because the shallow, juvenile, mean and retard comments of Linda’s fans were getting to me.
Unfortunately, I have watched how the same sets of people have migrated to Stella's blog. Pathetically, there is no yardstick for separating the retards from the intelligent ones.
Someone just explained how she was raped by her boss while carrying out her daily job description and over 70% of the advisers said awful things to her that could make her lose her sanity.
Where are we going in this country? It will not come as a surprise to me to know that 69.9% of the 70% of people who judged her are females just like her. It’s appalling and shameful to say the least.
I firmly believe that the moral decadence in our society and the total loss of virtue has brought us this low to the extent that we now get to hear jaundiced views from the expected wisdom house.
To the issue at hand,...
My dear,
Firstly, I empathize with you on your present predicament. I really would have love to take your story and do a write up on it and also share it with the over 33,000 intelligent Redefined Babes of the Most High God but then I felt it will be a trespass of boundary to do so. I will therefore keep my comment here and I hope that you will be able to find it among the down-trodden, pain-inflicting comments you must have seen here.
Sweetheart, I share your pain and grief at this time and I also join my voice with yours to say “The man wronged you”. I have been an advocate for #No to RAPE# since year 2006 and I will not back off at this time.
...You see, the truth is the deed has been done. We now need to find a path out of the mesh while still holding our dignity and sanity intact.
ReplyDeleteI will advice that you make a report of this case first. Yes, you need to do that. It’s the legal thing to do. Even if you don’t want to follow up with the case, let it be on record that the man raped you.
I know there is no evidence since you didn't go to the hospital immediately it was done but there is a way around such issues.
Since you work for him and you also noted it down that he has been sending illicit messages to you before, that automatically means you have his number so, send a message to him that you want to talk to him in the office preferably to avoid further rape attempt.
Go with a secret camera. You can get a Car Keyholder Camera at the link below. It’s just 4,500Naira.
http://www.kaymu.com.ng/car-key-chain-video-camera-with-4gb-memory-card-87221.html
It is better that the Pen camera. This looks perfectly like a key holder. The camera is hidden. Enter his office with this key holder in your hands and start a discussion around the Rape Topic.
Tell him you are annoyed with his actions and you just couldn't hold it up anymore and being a Christian, you decided to discuss it with him. Please do not at anytime implicate yourself while talking. Tell him how pained you are and then ask him why he wanted to get the car for you. You know the motive of all this is to get him to talk and maybe spill more.
Try to act as if you are fiddling with the key holder and please, do not miss his face. Also, do not panic so as not to send unnecessary signal to him.
Please note that you have just once to do this and you cannot call him again for another meeting on this topic so don’t mess up the opportunity.
After that, save the video and proceed to CNN ireport, Sahara TV, Channels or Basically Youtube( That is if you do not mind the 16th century backward thinking of this present Nigerian generation whom attaches stigma to any raped victim) However, if you do not want to go that route, Keep the video as an evidence. Maybe one day, you will find the strength to release it....
...Furthermore, do not ever think to collect any material gift as compensation from him. Don’t try to blackmail him either and never see it as an opportunity to acquire wealth.
ReplyDeleteResign from the company. Between, you should know that if a senatorial candidate can comfortably pay graduates 30,000 Naira as monthly salary then he might actually be a mean, dark and bitter soul. Leave the JOB. You deserve much more than that.
Take time off to heal. Talk to maybe your mum or your sister. Do not discuss with any friends (boy or girl). People don’t really care about others as much as they pretend to do. You do not want your story on the lips of touts.
Finally dear, SMART UP. Please do. I guess your boss already knows you to take advantage of you. he must have seen the desperation to keep the job in you and also see a gentle (Melancholic or Phlegmatic)personality in you. Anybody can be raped but then circumstances differ.
Most importantly, go for test. HIV, HPB, STD all forms of test. Also intensify prayers. happenings have shown that most of this politically minded souls do some things with spiritual undertone. It might basically not be for pleasure. It might be spiritually inclined.
I wish you all the best as you heal. Heal you must or else, you might not have your sanity back and Please include forgiveness in your mind…It might not be now. As a matter of fact, it will take much more time to forgive him but do not rule it out completely. Time heals all wound.
If you want to talk to me, you can reach me using: mypassion4real@yahoo.com or check
http://marriageessence.wordpress.com/contact/
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And to those who naturally will launch their attacking wolves’ tongues at me or this write-up, I will not reply you. Never. I will not. I do not reply folks like that. I have known Stella’s blog for over five years now and I have watched how she has evolved over time. Fortunately, that has afforded me the opportunity to also watch and analyze all every individual on this blog. I can perfectly put a face, attitude, belief and Knowledge level to almost everybody so I will not be surprised to read your antagonizing comment on my piece.
Peace