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Tuesday, May 06, 2014

Education And It's Effect On A Marriage - Blog Visitor Narrative.




I want to say thank you to all blog visitors here. A friend of my sought advice here in January and am really impressed about the responses and how it helped..
Please I need your advice now. Am in my early 30s and I have a boo (44 yrs) who is asking for my hand in marriage. 

The issue now is i am currently doing my masters program but my boo is a secondary school holder but a successful printer. Some times he speaks some embarrassing English even though he is very caring. Should I go ahead and marry him? what is the future implication of our unbalanced education on me, our relations, our friends and our children?.
Please I need advice not cussing.


*If you really love him,marry him jor..didnt Jonathan marry Patience?Is your boo's english worse than hers?

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  1. Haa stellistic this ur advice bad ooo! I support you 100% joor.

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    1. Oprah Winfrey– “If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can
      make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
      Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.”
      # “Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “Slower is better. Never live your life for a man
      before you find what makes you truly happy.”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think ‘it will get better.’
      You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry
      them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
      If something bothers you, speak up.”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “He is a man; nothing more, nothing less.”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “Never let a man define who you are.”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “A man will only treat you the way you allow
      him to treat you.”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “All men are NOT dogs.”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “You should not be the one doing all the bending–compromise is a two-way street.”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “If a relationship ends because the man was not
      treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t ‘be friends.’
      A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle.”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “The only person you can control in a relationship is you.”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “Always have your own set of friends separate from his”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “Don’t ever make him feel he is more important
      than you are, even if he has more education or a better job.”
      #Oprah Winfrey– “Do not make him into a quasi-god.”

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    2. Those things doesn't matter when u're in love. What matters is ur happiness. If he makes u happy, hold him tight and never let go.

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    3. You can marry him but make sure you are the one who will do the vote of thanks on the day of your wedding sha. Or you prep him ahead of time. Finish. Happy married life in advance.

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    4. Anonymous @2:03: all these Oprah Winfrey quotes - for what now? Imagine you taking an advice from a woman who can't make up her mind about who's more important in her life, her partner stedman or her dogs - Onanikoko

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  2. Love, trust, understanding, tolerance and peace of mind is all that matters.

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    1. Yes o, exactly. How be treats you should be the first in ur list, before you go marry educated idiot! Hummm!!!

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    2. Lady poster. The fact that uv thrown this question open means that it's already an issue for u. Believe it or not, u wouldn't have asked if what people would say in future wouldn't matter to ur union. And no matter what we say here you'll still highlight the loophole later in life.

      The truth is that education doesn't matter when love is involved, love conquers all. But the imbalance will surely take its tow in future when u have misunderstandings. But I think if u are mature enough, you'll always allow him have his way because at the back of ur mind, you'll often say.. 'I'll let it go because he doesn't know better'.

      As long as u do not become domineering subconsciously, as long as u do not try to embarrass him before ur kids in future because u want to correct daddy before them,..if u can abide by all these, then fine. If not, in suggest that u allow him find his peer. Godspeed.

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    3. Happiness is all tha matters!


      #Your Shadow

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  3. Hahahaha SDK you are mean!
    Dear poster, what is your instinct telling you? I will say, follow your heart

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  4. Chai! ...buh my dear, if our president can marry mama patience whose speech causes more public embarrassment and raises issues than the one supposed to hv bin solved, then wht hav u. Question is, "Are u proud of Him?" "Can u stand the tease frm public wenevr he speaks?"....by the way who says eduction has limits. Last I checked, part time education still fxns. Even the "Illiterates" are more successful in their businesses than the ndi Cambridge..

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  5. Lol, stella pls oo, d problem is d kind of reference u just made, didnt Jonathan marry patience?, people ll keep making fun of em. My advice is this, if u are sure the man doesnt ve an inferiority complex, then u can go ahead and marry him, but if he does that might be very dangerous.

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    1. Exactly what I think too.......as long as there's no complex issues....

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    2. Yea exactly! Inferiority complex def wil dampen whtevr spark they hv

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  6. If u really love him,go ahead and marry him.....

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  7. Lol @ "Didn't Jonathan marry Patience"? Poster, pls follow your heart because at the end of the day, you are the only one who will spend the rest of your life with him. So, gudluck wt your decisions.

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  8. Lol. Aunt Stella! Your contribution is funny. I can't marry such. Poster follow your heart, you don't need outsiders to tell you what to do. You can encourage him to further his education to improve his diction, if it bothers you so much.

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  9. Poster,I keep asking this question on this blog,na grammar you go chop???...
    Take me for example,I couldn't go to the university coz I lost my dad when I finished secondary school.....I later got an admission to study Esut but nobody was there to pay my school fees....
    I dropped out and got married to my hubby who studied engineering in McGill University....
    So I will advise you to go ahead and marry him if you can ignore those blunders and teach him if he is willing to learn.....men are scarce ohhh...

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    1. Linda eze,with dis description,I tink I knw ur husband.he is my oga in the office.he works with shell currently in warri quote me if am wrong.I will surely report u 2 him

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    2. Linda eze I won't cuss you out today cos you story touched me. Just try and reduce your basket mouth.

      CeeCee

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    3. Linda so u no go sch ehn? Chai abeg still try go back oo,I love u scarra,plenty homo!

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    4. It depends on how bad he speaks, imagine some 1 saying this duvet are bigger enough for the both of us, amongst of her , they will grow bigger (making reference to one person), it can be very embarrassing. Mrs O

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    5. Awww Linda Eze I was touched by your story! I think is not late! U can register and start as a partimer! I mean you're an adult your decision is yours!
      All the people wey dey cause linda say she no go school, una see say no be her fault! Abeg make try understand with her situation.

      Pepper ose oku dey beg una.

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    6. Lin lin chai ur story touch me. Thank God ur life turned out well. Dear poster u ve heard it frm an experinced person, follow ur heart.

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    7. Haaa! Linda, I'm touched my dear. But, you can still do it, you just need a little push and determination.

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    8. First anonymous,I don't know what you are talking about....why don't you ask you oga if his wife is Linda????
      I can't go back to school now coz the urge have left me....moreover,I am succesful with what am doing.you know nau,as an igbo babe wey I be,MONEY first...my aim now is to give my children the best education they can have...shikena!!...moreover,my husband is not complaining....

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    9. Stupid Linda I always knew u were a half baked illiterate..... No wonder gutter language still dey ur mouth.. Uncouth and crass bitch..... Can imagine the kind of problems ur lack of exposure gave ur husband.... Anyway u r a bloody liar, ur hubby must be an onitsha market trader if not he would have cured his halitosis by now.....

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  10. Marry him dear and lovingly coach him. Gently guide him towards speaking well.. I know a lot of 'aunties' who in their prime swore never to go below standard. Akuko Ife! Right now,one I know of had to go 'Nike Oshinowo' style in order to have someone inherit her numerous properties n degrees.
    PS: know what you are signing up for. Remember every man has an ego,do nor bruise it. do not argue with him,dont fight grammatically with him,admit to being wrong even when you can bet your Bsc n PhD that you are right. Do these and you are well on your way to having a wonderful marriage.
    PS: i'd rather have an unrefined jewel than well packaged filth for a husband.**Although I'm loving my packaged jewel,but diff folks..diff strokes!

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  11. My dear, non educated people can vex like hunch back o.
    Low self esteem.
    Always feeling used and cheated.
    Take simple things too seriously.
    Very unforgiving and stubborn.
    Should I go on?
    Btw has he been married before?
    What on earth is a 44yr old man still waiting for?
    I even bliv he's 50 n u simply decided to cut down his age so as not to attract bashings.
    So many things involved dear
    Pray!!

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    1. I really don't like you. You are nothing but filth. I promise you your so called husband will dump your ass soon. You need the prayers more dear.

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    2. Swthrt u made sense 2day, pls always eat wateva u ate before dropin this everytym..

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    3. Anon11:06 na true she talk na & another thing, when they are with you they speak their native dialect but immediately the are in public that's when the want to blow grammar. If you caution him quietly, he will start calling you itk. So please don't be desperate. Study the guy very, know what you are getting into most importantly don't deceive your self.
      He wants to marry but his he comfortable with your differences.

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    4. @M-amie, u are so right. I pray i don't find myself in this kind of situation.

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    5. Spot on!!!! Dia ITK Na hell oooooh..follow ur heart @ poster if it is worth it..... Don't hesitate....we find love in strangest of places.

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    6. Very true @Mamie.

      And if you manage to upgrade him ehn....him eye go come tear pass your own. And they end up being physically abusive because they have self image issues.

      My advise? Run very very fast

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  12. Stella dear nailed it. If you truly love him, embarrassing english won't be a barrier. In fact you could tutor him and with time, he'll get better. Like my mother would say, "Person wey dey cry dey see road o." Ball's in your court now. Be wise.

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  13. Few things i've noticed is dat semi educated guys ain't as romantic as the well educated ones...
    They can be boring...
    There would be less communication btw u guys cos of the educational difference
    They feel inferior...
    U have alotta work 2 do with a semi educated guy...
    My take!!!

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  14. na wa oh! aunty stella you harsh oh, but it's the truth pls go ahead if you reall love him but like anon 10:41 said if he has inferiority complex you might have a hard time. believe me

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  15. Lol @ ur comment Stella.
    Of course, if the man ticks most of the other boxes, by all means marry him. His spoken English can always be improved.

    Click my name for all your celebration cakes n cupcakes, cheers

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  16. its never too late to be educated.
    Ever heard of NIGHT SCHOOL? ADULT EDUCATION?

    If you love him, marry him. let him resume his education...small time e go speak English pass u sef...lol.

    rule out impossibility!

    Stella na her excellency u yab like that? there is God o!

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  17. Sweetheart, please answer these questions in your heart, if you know you won't be embarrassed when he speaks, your heart won't skip when he wants to open his mouth, will you be able to show him off as your hubby? Leboo wont start feeling intimidated cuz of your qualification and see you as not being submissive cuz your opinion on an issue is different from his, you won't start avoiding social functions with Leboo,you truly love him and it is not out of desperation or pressure then you may go ahead.

    Then again, if he is willing, he could improve himself ,all the best dear.

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  18. Na understanding matter my dear sis.

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  19. For once i agree with Mamie low self esteem is going to be your biggest challenge with him. I was once in your position had to leave the emotional toll was too much this man was always accusing me of looking down on him etc when it was all in his mind i had to leave for my sanity

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    1. You are very rght, I have similar experience. Its only d person that have been in such situation dt can say better.It easier saying go ahead because he's rich or there is love but lots of things involve.

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  20. Speaking English langauge is not a test of character, don't judge any body by it!

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  21. My hub cnt construct a simple correct sentence but i married him. He is a true difinition of a perfect godly husband. So many cinfirmation pointed at him as my husband. Poster,4yrs now and ds man has neva scolded @me talkless of telling me dt he wl beat me.wheneva i do something wrong,he sits me down and talk t u in such a way dt ur hrt wl melt. Jst last friday,a man of God dt i went to fr prayers and conselling cos am still jobless told me dt am jst very lucky cos i married my hub.dt many women has made d mistake of marrying someone elses husband.so dear,if u v prayd bout it and u r convinced dt he s ur hub,then go on.

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  22. I agree with M-amie too.

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  23. my advice is he should go to school or go for those GRE lectures to improve his grammer, this is the 21st century even some so called i went to school cnt speak simple and correct english so he should go for the lectures and be careful when you talk to him abt it guys like that can easily get angry. Stella jon is a man its easier for a man to get married to an illiterate than a woman. Men and their ego

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  24. my advice is he should go to school or go for those GRE lectures to improve his grammer, this is the 21st century even some so called i went to school cnt speak simple and correct english so he should go for the lectures and be careful when you talk to him abt it guys like that can easily get angry. Stella jon is a man its easier for a man to get married to an illiterate than a woman. Men and their ego

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  25. Poster, love is never enough in a relationship or marriage.
    Can you cope? Is easier for guys to marry a lady that didn't go to school but very hard when the case is reverse.
    Don't let people advise you to marry if you love him. If you are having doubts already, dont marry cos there will be always be trouble in your home due to the differemces.

    CeeCee

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  26. You are 3somtn n still asking if u r to marry dis good man, honey pls marry him cos gud men are hard to find dis days. Forget edu, u can still make him go to skul if is wot u really need. Forget ppl advcn u not to cos some of dem dey go spiritualist to find husband. African setting demands husband is really important, just make sure u aint d one feeding him.

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  27. Poster...ask God,only Him knows the heart of man,only Him knows the end from the very beginning...ask Him and He will show you the way! All the best!

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  28. Ha!Don't marry him is my first instinct. Patience is the woman not the man so it's a little different.
    But then again education is not just within the four walls of a university.
    Is he refined? Is he well read? I mean some people are illiterates to the core, they cant and wont accept new technology etc. What is this printing thing anyway? Is it viable in the long run? And like someone rightly asked, why is he so old and unmarried? Is he a widower or is he divorced. Forget your age, only marry him if you think you can confidently go the long hull without. Excuse the epistle.

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  29. Hmmmm I know a guy like that but this one has some form of tertiary education,an all round nice guy,pretty young,very good looking,he works hard so he has a lot of money for his age( don't want to give too much info b4 my olofofo friends will decode). Dated him for a couple of months,I tried to overlook the bad grammer but mehn odikwa hard. The guy dey drop bomb pass Isreal in Gaza! I didn't like him talking with my friends or family members for fear of embarrasment. I delibrately used to speak pidgin when talking with him cos that's his comfort zone. The most annoying thing is that he didn't send,infact na him get gist pass. Self esteem is not an issue for him, e bold pass people when get pHD. He always wants everyone's attention when talking,the place quiet and people listening to him...in my mind I'll be like you have our attention alright,but in a wrong way!
    I told him very nicely that he needed to work on his grammer but I felt he was slacking cos I wasn't noticing any improvement. I wasn't asking for too much. All I want is for a guy to speak basic grammer and not mix his tenses up and mess up his vocubulary with unnecessary fillers. I was even willingly too overlook the fact that he generally wasn't intelligent.


    NewBie!

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    1. Lmao!!!! I laughed through ur comment... Veery funy

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  30. Haba wts all these fuss about! My dear you know of all the educated ones that came your way, choosed that one as your boo... Y ... Becus he is the one your heart accept...
    SDK is even talking about Mama Peace what About Tu face Idibia... He is just a good example..
    ~@ Steph SucrE

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    1. Nne,there is nothing wrong with 2face's spoken english biko.

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    2. Nne,there is nothing wrong with 2face's spoken english biko.

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  31. Go watch d movie THE ILLITERATE..

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  32. POSTER, THE DECISION TO MARRY HIM WILL ULTIMATELY BE YOURS.
    IN MY EXPERIENCE, MOST SEMI-ILLITERATES DON'T HAVE A BIRD'S EYE VIEW OF PERSPECTIVES. THEY ARE PAROCHIAL IN THEIR WAY OF THINKING (REMEMBER I SAID MOST O).
    IT IS EASIER FOR AN EDUCATED MAN TO MARRY A SEMI-ILLITERATE WOMAN THAN VICE-VERSA.
    A CONFLICT IN OPINIONS WOULD BE SEEN AS DISRESPECTFUL AND UNSUBMISSIVE.
    THE DECISION IS YOURS!!!!

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    1. Must you shout? Calm down abeg before you get HBP for another person wahala

      CeeCee

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  33. Education is important, but love conquers all things, if you love him, go ahead and marry him. There' s nothing wrong in also teaching him how to speak better whenever he makes mistakes, as long as it's done with respect. You never know. He may also decide to go back to school to further his education because of you.

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    1. It's not that easy. Very few people know how to correct constructively. Very very few like to be corrected...

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  34. Personally,i feel you are not convinced and thats why you are asking for advice.Would u ask anyone if he is educated and has a good job?probably not,so i think you should make the decision urself

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  35. Omo,not so educated guys can be a huge embarrassment esp in public,their lack of coordination,social etiquette and confidence always poise a problem leta in d relationship.but if ur boo isn't lacking in all these,then go ahead and marry him.
    And another major thing is dat dey can so feel intimidated o,its less risky if the uneducated is d woman.hmmmm.my aunty married like this,and mehn it was hell for her until d man acquired his degree and started feeling confident.but as I said earlier,if he is different,go ahead.

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  36. The question is: how tolerant are you? Trust me, there are things that education has taught you that he will not have in him. If you can stand the embarrassment that will SURELY come from this union, then go ahead. If not, pls do not marry him because some men do not like to be corrected. The day you will correct his English in public, might be the beginning of domestic violence.

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  37. Madam if you really love him you can assist him, get some one to start teaching him how to speak well. I personally find guys who speak fluent english very attractive :) ( i mean Nigerian guys )

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    1. Yes o! As far as i'm concerned,it's a criterion for me to date you sef!

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  38. Poster, INFERIORITY COMPLEX and LOW SELF ESTEEM are some of the major issues with less educated people. Babe, can you deal??? Secondly, unlike some of the previous examples given by other SDKers, you are the WOMAN in this case who will have to do the 'submitting', again Babe, Can you deal??? Finally, unlike women, men have VERY fragile egos indeed; now add this to LOW SELF ESTEEM and INFERIORITY COMPLEX, you get a lethal cocktail. You will not only have to walk around on egg - shells around this man, but also around his friends and family, you will also have to SUPPRESS your own views on most issues, even if you think differently. This is because only confident people can really handle views different from their own and again, lest his people accuse you of being too 'proud' anytime you try to stick up for yourself; this will be the trump card they will ALWAYS play! Finally, depending on how insecure/not he is, you might even get accused of infidelity if you are spotted having abstract or intelligent conversations with your peers/colleagues of the opposite sex! Babe, again, CAN YOU DEAL??? I am NOT trying to scare you, just laying the possible scenarios on the table before you. If you were the man and your fiancee was less educated like this, it wouldn't be such an issue as she will look up to you and respect you even more and may even feel challenged to upgrade herself. But in this case, YOU are doing the 'submitting', and IT IS NOT THE SAME! If your Oga had a 1st degree and you a Masters, it would be less of an issue, cos all he needs to catch up is just a 1 year Master's course, no biggie at all, and you both have the Uni experience anyway. I have a PhD, my Oga has a Masters, it's no biggie cos someone with a 1st degree is educated to an acceptable level and one with a masters is already VERY educated! I only chose to do a PhD because I wanted to become a University Professor. So my dear, THINK very well o! If you can deal withe above, then I'll only say Good luck and GOD speed!

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    1. Well done for the analysis! Have been thru this type of man neglecting all the areas u look into focusing alone on the love aspect hoping that things will change that he is going to improve but it doesn't work out!

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  39. Gbam at Nonnybabe, you have put issues in the right perspective! @ poster, think about it, pray and take your decision.

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  40. lol @ in the future. U are already in the future girl, dnt u knw ur age?30 and 44. Your boo is in the future's future. U had better marry him, the clock is ticking

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  41. SDK you are very correct.

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  42. Poster, INFERIORITY COMPLEX and LOW SELF ESTEEM are some of the major issues with less educated people. Typical examples of linda lesbo eze and eze wanyi

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  43. My dear, please be very very sure his other advantages outweigh this disadvantage. Be very sure you can live with this disadvantage oo, establish that he is even interested in furthering his education because after marriage, everybody eye dey clear o.

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  44. Do not marry him! The fact that he has a flaw that bothers you so much that you would seek answers in a public forum means you really hate it. He is 14 yrs your senior and he is not going to change, he is who he is at 44 yrs old. If it bothers you so much then leave him and let someone who will not be bothered by his lack of education and sophistication find him.

    The little things that bothers you about a person gets magnified when you have to live with them day in day out in a marriage. It is best to marry someone that you have no desire to make over in any way. Taking him to dinner parties and having him around your highly educated set may embarrass you which will in turn make you dislike him or not want him around in social settings, he doesn't deserve that in a marriage because you already know who he is, so leave him if you cannot live with his flaw, there is another woman who will be able to live with it.

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  45. I think you should consider if you can live with that and it would not cause any issues in the future. You would most likely make more money from the job u secure as a masters holder than your husband. Men tend to have complexes and insecurity issues even if you are being submissive. Also, would there come a time you would be ashamed of the way he speaks and handles himself in public and in front of your work colleagues? Because that could lead you to look outside and get attracted to a man outside who has those things. Either you let him go or you help him work on the way he speaks and looks. Don't try to change him just improve on him.

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  46. Awwww! Dont i just love u @ linda eze

    Ehm...but which kain engineering he studied nah M, E, C etc ? lol

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  47. I ve a friend dats happily married to one and d crazy part is d guy is a university graduate with a 2.1, but "simple English, he cannot spoken!" but u need to see the way he treats my friend, OMG! like a queen. my friend simply accepted him d way he is and LOVINGLY corrects him and never in anyone's presence. and d guy's English has improved extensively. so dear poster! if u want to marry him, uve to "open eyely" accept dat part of him, den learn to tolerate, dats when ull be able to teach n encourage him. my 2cents

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  48. Love is not enough.. You should be proud of him.. I can't marry someone that I cannot relate with on any frequency...


    When all the lovey dubey is gone, will you begin to resent him.. What if he becomes poor and unsuccessful, will you still love him?

    Marry someone who is your friend and please pray about it, let God guide you.. A threefold cord is better

    Cleopatra

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  49. Dear Blogger. Everyone has spoken well. My contribution is put LOVE above all first, FRIENDSHIP second, TOLERANCE & UNDERSTANDING lastly. You have a lifetime to straighten things out. In this day and age success is much more than a Bsc or Msc. Best wishes

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  50. Dear Poster,,i wont advice you to go ahead with this man.The fact that you are asking questions about it shows that its a big issue to you and it really bothers you.

    You see,Love is not enough to sustain marriage.I totally relate with you because i got married to someone like that.The only difference is that my hubby kept it away from me and i didn't even suspect because unlike your man,my hubby speaks English fluently.Just like Linda his dad died when he and his siblings were still young and so there was no one to help them with the bills of a higher institution,in fact he cant speak Yoruba properly despite been a Yoruba man. The issue is i have to deal with his inferiority complex.If i communicate with any of my male friends especially those we attended the same university together,,he will complain and say "i want to date the person because he is more educated than he is". I tried to encourage him to go back to school but he wouldn't listen and his mum attacked me saying "book no be sense". My dear,words cant really explain what i have been coping with. I was supposed to have started my MBA since 2010,my hubby refused because he felt it will be an opportunity for me to mingle with men who are more educated and probably leave him for one of them.can u see that kind of thinking and reasoning?but i thank God he has eventually agreed to go back to school and he has been offered admission into one of the universities for part time studies.Poster,if u know u can go through this kinda stress,then go ahead but sincerely i wont advice you to.

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  51. If its never too late, y Patie never learn am wit all d money dat she culd use 2 get d best tutors? Pls poster like I always tell ppl, if u perceive it as a problem don't bother going in cos it will hunt u in future. I once had a date dat had same issues bt wen he starts 2 blow his grammar around my friends we jst mk eye contact, around his friends I bone. Now dat was a date not husband. If u can live wit it pls go ahead his friends already knw his level, ur friends will get used 2 him. So pls follow ur heart

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  52. At anon 2.16, forget what oprah said, d truth is dt relationships are difficult as it it, u make d most of it cuz no one is perfect. Pls pple i dnt understand how u take dt oprah serz, how can u take advie frm someone dt has nva been married or into a serz relatioship.take advice frm pple dt have been in dt pOsition long time, finally love conquers all, its not all abt hu went to schl abeg. Dr is phd guy i once dated, he was d most stupid person ever n i didnt hesitate to tel him what a fool he is. Pls drs more to life than education.

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