Some of my relatives lived for decades in the North, in Kano and Bornu. They spoke fluent Hausa. (One relative taught me, at the age of eight, to count in Hausa.) They made planned visits to Anambra only a few times a year, at Christmas and to attend weddings and funerals. But sometimes, in the wake of violence, they made unplanned visits.
I remember the word ‘Maitatsine’ – to my young ears, it had a striking lyricism – and I remember the influx of relatives who had packed a few bags and fled the killings. What struck me about those hasty returns to the East was that my relatives always went back to the North. Until two years ago when my uncle packed up his life of thirty years in Maiduguri and moved to Awka. He was not going back. This time, he felt, was different.
My uncle’s return illustrates a feeling shared by many Nigerians about Boko Haram: a lack of hope, a lack of confidence in our leadership. We are experiencing what is, apart from the Biafran war, the most violent period in our nation’s existence. Like many Nigerians, I am distressed about the students murdered in their school, about the people whose bodies were spattered in Nyanya, about the girls abducted in Chibok. I am furious that politicians are politicizing what should be a collective Nigerian mourning, a shared Nigerian sadness.
And I find our president’s actions and non-actions unbelievably surreal.
I do not want a president who, weeks after girls are abducted from a school and days after brave Nigerians have taken to the streets to protest the abductions, merely announces a fact-finding committee to find the girls.
-I want President Jonathan to be consumed, utterly consumed, by the state of insecurity in Nigeria.
-I want him to make security a priority, and make it seem like a priority.
-I want a president consumed by the urgency of now, who rejects the false idea of keeping up appearances while the country is mired in terror and uncertainty.
-I want President Jonathan to know – and let Nigerians know that he knows – that we are not made safer by soldiers checking the boots of cars, that to shut down Abuja in order to hold a World Economic Forum is proof of just how deeply insecure the country is.
We have a big problem, and I want the president to act as if we do.
-I want the president to slice through the muddle of bureaucracy, the morass of ‘how things are done,’ because Boko Haram is unusual and the response to it cannot be business as usual.
-I want President Jonathan to communicate with the Nigerian people, to realize that leadership has a strong psychological component: in the face of silence or incoherence, people lose faith.
- I want him to humanize the lost and the missing, to insist that their individual stories be told, to show that every Nigerian life is precious in the eyes of the Nigerian state.
-I want the president to seek new ideas, to act, make decisions, publish the security budget spending, offer incentives, sack people.
-I want the president to be angrily heartbroken about the murder of so many, to lie sleepless in bed thinking of yet what else can be done, to support and equip the armed forces and the police, but also to insist on humaneness in the midst of terror.
-I want the president to be equally enraged by soldiers who commit murder, by policemen who beat bomb survivors and mourners.
-I want the president to stop issuing limp, belated announcements through public officials, to insist on a televised apology from whoever is responsible for lying to Nigerians about the girls having been rescued.
-I want President Jonathan to ignore his opponents, to remember that it is the nature of politics, to refuse to respond with defensiveness or guardedness, and to remember that Nigerians are understandably cynical about their government.
-I want President Jonathan to seek glory and a place in history, instead of longevity in office. I want him to put aside the forthcoming 2015 elections, and focus today on being the kind of leader Nigeria has never had.
I do not care where the president of Nigeria comes from. Even those Nigerians who focus on ‘where the president is from’ will be won over if they are confronted with good leadership that makes all Nigerians feel included. I have always wanted, as my president, a man or a woman who is intelligent and honest and bold, who is surrounded by truth-telling, competent advisers, whose policies are people-centered, and who wants to lead, who wants to be president, but does not need to – or have to- be president at all costs.
President Jonathan may not fit that bill, but he can approximate it: by being the leader Nigerians desperately need now.CULLED
I agree with her in d part of humanizing d lost and missing . Let their stories be told. Show their faces! Tell their stories
ReplyDeleteVery well said lady. U have said all and much more. Matter of fact the articulate entreaties of several other brilliant Nigerians like yourself have been shoved aside as usual. They know all these my dear, they have a clue as to what to do...but the problem is that they are NOT doing it.
DeleteTrust me, GEJ has core brilliant people around him...Moreso the likes of Reuben Abati..who is a brilliant man. He has displayed this before he resumed into aso rock. But the truth is the the genuine heart of everyone there has been compromised by their selfish desires to stay aloof relevance.
Please quote me. Mr President is also very intelligent and a kind man as an individual with blood in his veins, and as a father to his children. Then again, his position as a president and not as a human being.. disqualifies him. If we had to separate his ideology, actions and inactions as an individual, he is blameless. But as the Commander in Chief of the Armed forces, herein lies his condemnation.
Summarily, I am sick and tired of reading or writing about this issues. Very monotonous and frustrating. Silence these days is louder than anything else. What I pray for is that we do not all die in silence.
@ sisi eko well written.u spoke my mind.
DeleteSpot on! I had goosebumps reading this. I'm going to broadcast it,let's make sure Johnathan and his cohorts(reuben abati,okupe,omokiri and co) sees this! That's if greed and the quest for prolonged power won't blind them to the numerous truths contained in this piece.
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Sisi Eko u are super intelligent and av been following ur write up on this blog. Keep it up dear. Uv spoken well again.
DeleteBest part -I want President Jonathan to seek glory and a place in history, instead of longevity in office. I want him to put aside the forthcoming 2015 elections, and focus today on being the kind of leader Nigeria has never had.
ReplyDeleteThank you Ngozi GB Adichie. ..I na anwa!
Hmmm, this name 'GB'.@Aku, must be among her flock from Unisec. *wink*
DeleteAnonymous Unisec decoder, I see you
DeleteToo long mehn...can't read...
ReplyDeleteDis article wasn't written 4d lykz of u n itz stil ur kind dt ll say rubbish latr without undastndin d basics of how tinz r done.
DeleteElsie
Iti mkpakata ndi anambra state
DeleteYou should be ashamed of yourself.
DeleteShame on u
DeleteShame on you lazy bone that cannot read cos it's too long. That's why we have many young zombies all over the land. SHAME!
DeleteChai! Linda EzE! No fall mi hand ooo! Pls read and get knoWledge.
DeleteCos' u r clearly a dunce! If na prick & toto matter or gossip & tarnishing someone's image, ehen! Na there u go read everything.
DeleteChai! Linda EzE! No fall mi hand ooo! Pls read and get knoWledge.
DeleteDumbass Linda Eze.......no wonder ur brain is porous, hope ur kids won't be as dull as their mother.....hisssssssss.SHAME ON U
DeleteWho are these awon smellos on my post????...all of you should disappear asap....Stupid nonentities...*NoticeMe...
DeleteYou all should carry your frustrated lowlives out of my post....FooooooooooooLs.....
If it's gossip, sex, husband snatching or anything related.... you will read the long story abi! Clap for yourself. Only God knows what the likes of you educate your children on.
DeleteLeave the illiterate if it is gossip and lesbo moves you will read This is the very reason why you need an education and a degree because you would have mastered reading in Uni. Bush rat.
DeleteVery disappointing comment Linda eye, i expected better from you! Disgusting!
DeleteYour horseband undiluted mouth odour is beginning to affect you that you now address everyone as smelling.Smh! Your problem is that you never take corrections, pity for the innocent kids you brought into this world. Cursed woman
DeleteChoi! They have finished linda eze today with cuss. No need to add mine. I will come back later.
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Shame on U all.....seee as dem gather like flies cos Linda Eze said d post was too long......U guys are very silly....see them forming cyber bullies......indeed U guys are Smellos......rolls back to bed*
DeleteEzewanyi ibilibiogada....
Bloody illiterate.u r the reason Nig will not move forward.and to think u av the audacity to come back and reply pple.shame on u.bloody simpleton
DeleteLike seriously what's the big deal if she says it is too long?
DeleteAll of you should Go and Die except Ezenwanyi....
DeleteI didn't read means I didn't read and how does that concern any of you????....
Is Linda Eze the cause of your frustrated miserable lives???....
Yes,I like juicy gist cos this blog is all about gossip and entertainment.....so you all should jump inside the lagoon on my behalf...
Continue killing your stupid selves on my matter,I go soon give una HBP....
Cowards!!!!
DeleteAnonymous up and down, am sure u guys ve google account but cowardice wont let u use it cos u are afraid of Linda Eze......
Once again shame on U!!!!
I no kukuma go sch, so if any gbagaun dey 4 my comments, use it 4 lunch.
Awon smellos
Ezewanyi udu bunch.....onwa nnewi....Ada anaedo.
Yes o, Linda E, abeg dash them HBP jare, Awon smellos, gathering on Linda's matter. My babe no mind dem jare.
DeleteLol.. Can feel ur heart beat@linda eze, try and see a heart surgeon after this. Thank you!
DeleteBirds of a feather eze nwanyi ndi iti, if you had something doing, you won't be this sane with a nonentity. Sometimes i ask my self if you and linda are truly married. Lazy and jobless mofos.
DeleteThat was below the belt @Eze wanyi, but you anonymous fool deserved it.kikikiki
DeleteWhat is a jobfull idiot like u doing here?how much ve earned this year? How much ve u earned since u were born? Go and take several seats and think of ur miserable existence.
DeleteI am rich , very rich, too rich, so fucking rich that I can buy u and ur entire village. ...Anuofia! See mad person forming cyber bully..na crase dey worry una....anonymous fowl.
I can feel d pain and frustration in ur comment anuofia anonymous 3; 20
DeleteSome people go develop stroke ontop this matter today ooò......if only they knew......bwahahahahaaaaaaaaa.........Ezewanyi akajiaku 1 of Nigeria.....
DeleteAnonymous onye ode, am leaving my warehouse to my house so am gonna ignore u now or forever hehehe.........aunty jobfull wretched poverty infested rat, keep deceiving urself thinking ranting on SDK amounts to anything.udene fegge...ezi awada...am done with U...ur abuses are too weak jhor! Next time come with better punches.. bye for now cos I ve offline issues to attend to.stay there and be feeling like Jackie chan...bwahahahahaaaaaaaaa. .......
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Linda eze empty vessel..... Shame on you, i pity your children....stupid goat ur brain can't obviously comprehend intelligent discourse.... Get your half baked illiterate arse back to school
DeleteWell said dear! Jona Shey u dey hear am?! Or wil ur cohorts,Reuben especially "hide" dis article from u?!
ReplyDeleteA million likes
ReplyDelete-I want President Jonathan to seek glory and a place in history, instead of longevity in office. I want him to put aside the forthcoming 2015 elections, and focus today on being the kind of leader Nigeria has never had.
ReplyDeleteMy best part. God bless you babe. This is brilliant.
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ReplyDeleteHey there.patt can u try to be sensible at times.maybe comment intelligently.in d absence of that learn to keep quiet.some of ur replies show that u r very shallow minded.be guided!
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Good points. I also want a president who hates corruption with passion, and who insists on punishing those leaders that are involved in it. I a president who insists on killing any BOKO HARAM member that was caught instead of imprisoning them.
ReplyDeleteI want GEJ to realise Nigeria is at WAR with BOKO HARAM and should treat the matter as such. I wonder what would happen if a neighbouring country declare war on Nigeria.
I think the non chanlent attitude of our leaders are getting too much.
Finally, I want a leader who value a one Nigerian life more his own. Let us all pray for the kingdom of God to come because I don't think that type of leader we are looking for exist in this country.#BringBackOurGirlsOrTheGodOfElijahWillSendHisConsumingFireOnAllBokoHaramCamp.
Am with you!!!! Corruption got us to this point where Nigeria is. I look forward to a president who us corrupt free,have the interest of his people at heart!!! Kisses to Ms Adichie!! You just got a fan :)
DeleteDear Goodluck Ebele JoNathan, you are a BIG FoOL. I have prayed for you sincerely yet you don't allow my prayers to work.
ReplyDeleteMy question is simple, what was done to that senator that the boko haram leader was found in his house last year? NOTHING!
Was he probed? NO!
That's the kind of country I come from. Kill the girls for all I care. Mtcheeeeew.
..........And this snail called Jonathan
And i also want the president to stop appointing nonsense committee for BH.
ReplyDeleteI want the Northern Governors,few past political men and some wealthy Northern well do mean to stop sponsoring the BH people.
Chimamanda and your likes, just go and sit down. All these your letters, tweets, posts, are all irrelevant.
ReplyDeleteNne I gukwara ihe nwa bu isi ndi ocha dere tupu gi akowa ihe na eweghi isi na odu. Kpuchie onu gi biko oburu na iweghi isi nkwado okwu. Nani ndi ma ihe ka achoro na SDK ma obughi ndi na ako ka ihe ikuku bara isi inula ooh.
DeleteNne I gukwara ihe nwa bu isi ndi ocha dere tupu gi akowa ihe na eweghi isi na odu. Kpuchie onu gi biko oburu na iweghi isi nkwado okwu. Nani ndi ma ihe ka achoro na SDK ma obughi ndi na ako ka ihe ikuku bara isi inula ooh.
DeleteAnd I'm sure your comment is relevant.
DeleteVery correct. Too much talk no action.
DeleteYou are a BIG FOOL! I'm aggravated by your ignorance!
DeleteWell stated...Good tke home homework for Mr president
ReplyDeleteChai! This babe head too correct! God bless u for lending ur voice, it carried a lot of weight, make that Rueben Abati they look for response to her.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm this line really caught my attention
ReplyDelete" I want President Jonathan to seek glory and a place in history instead of longevity "
Exactly where he missed it.
Sincerely he seems more interested in retaining his position in 2015 rather than focusing on serving the people.
When you are a good leader , you don't even need to campaign for another tenure , it is the people that will be crying for your come back.
Very well said,Chimamanda. Very well said. It beats my imagination that at this crucial time in our nation's checkered history,our President is talking 2nd term. This Chibok kidnappings is being politicized. I ask again, WTF is wrong with our leaders.
ReplyDeleteIYABO OBJ for President.
I read ur comment, nodding my head in agreement till ur last line. WT...
DeleteIrene idi egwu....iyabo obj for wetin?????????
Delete@anon, no mind irene biko....
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ReplyDeletePikin wet dem born well,some people are just blessed with coining words.A good leadership will win hearts.Well said abi well written.God bless u Chimamanda,God bless u and God bless Nigeria.
ReplyDelete!!BORING!! It's only a fool dat will blame Mr president for all this stuffs happening in the north,I mean do u all want him to go inside d forest himself....the solution starts with u and I and not some stupid write ups about Mr president #sipsMoetnChandon#
ReplyDeletePls Next time u Wanna rush and comment,pause first and THINK! u dont just open ur mouth and yakk like u are à one year old!SMH!
DeleteBiggest fool ever liveth! I recommend u crawl back to the shit-hole u crept out from. Big-for-nothing scumbag.
DeleteIf u say corruption,oh yes it starts with u and I but u say d Boko haram issue starts with u and I! So u and I should go to sambisa forest to fight Boko haram? Do u even know what it means to be d President? He is the Commander in chief of the armed forces. Also,that is the job of the military in any country,to combat state enemies. This has been happening since the Medieval times,the king or a ruler of a country declares war on certain people and the army is unleashed to fight for the territory. Today,our leader is Gej and our enemy is the Boko haram sect. Also,this write up is to propel our obviously sleeping 'Commander in Chief' to swing to action and stop setting up irrelevant committees. I hope u now understand what is going on in your Country.
Delete@Moy Dot, d solutn strtz wit U n I quite alryt bt mr president also has2show some traits of leadership 4cryin out loud! Dis man s nt handlin dis tinz d ryt way as far as am Concerned( n every1 else bt u). Our security system s very poor n I bliv datz d 1st tin he shld b tinkin of doin cos 1z dat s settled, lotz of tinz ll b put in2 place. He dos nt regard life as anytin cos if he doz, he wld v acted on all dis hapninz nt jst cos pple r nw takin t upon demselvz 2c dat sumtin s done, bt cos every single life lost s precious 2him n every Nigerian.
DeleteElsie
What's boring in what she wrote? Read all first and then come back n comment.
Delete#Squirt guzzler#
Mot dot or whatever u call ur self, mr president is to be blamed cos he is our commander in chief. He takes responsibility for the whole country not just his immdiate family.
DeleteThankx @ moydot!...when the CEO of the state is given security votes In millions!...LGA admin...and other security details In a particular state are supposed to stand up to their responsibility or why were they elected?...if no information is supplied to the security men, nothing can be done! Anything GEJ does, nobody is ever satisfied!...what has your representatives In local govt council, house of rep and senate done to better your lives?...all we hear of is GEJ...pls, we should all stop this blame game and help fight instead of living safely abroad while blaming the president alone!$exyD
DeleteIt wouldn't be a bad idea, thank God mama Peace is leading the way tomorrow
DeleteNonsensE comment! The lives of all his subordinates are in his hands. If he can't handle d task, pls he has a choice. GEJ is rEally aNnoying! Yeye president! Life broadcast my foot! Not interest! I rathEr hv a good time Wt BF than spend it listEning to some sluggish statements.
DeleteLwkmd oooo.........
DeleteI wish GEJ will read this write-up.
ReplyDeleteI'm so so tired of how sick my country has become. Too scary I must say.
God please heal our land.
I just love loving Chimamanda. God bless her
Right on point Ms Adichie but isn't that a rather tall dream for us in this country. God bless Nigeria!
ReplyDeleteRight on point Ms Adichie but isn't that a rather tall dream for us in this country. God bless Nigeria!
ReplyDeleteIs dis guy " moy dot" ok?
ReplyDeleteShe's just Affable.Beauty and Brians...God bless Nigeria.
ReplyDeleteShe's just Affable.Beauty and Brians...God bless Nigeria.
ReplyDeleteI do not insult people.. but with you, I just can't hold back.. you are a fool for this write up, she is not apportioning blame to anyone, she is just saying the rate of violence in Nigeria is more than enough and the president should take serious actions,and work on the security of the country.. no matter how much you want to coin it, it is the responsibility of the Head of State to step up when the state government can't do anything.. she is saying he should act like the leader he was elected to be and stop making everything political and giving speeches, cause right now Nigeria need more than speeches and committees..and the solution does not start with you and i, because the president once said and I quote "we know the people who are behind the boko haram attacks but I won't mention names" or have u forgotten he made that statement? So if someone claims he knows something that is making every other thing bad, wont he do something about that thing before it gets worst.. think before you speak and read in between the lines, not everything that is written should be interpreted exactly as it is written ok.. Let me give you an example: the black boy that was shot by a white man in America, despite public opinions didn't Obama comment? And for your information I'm sure he worked behind the scene and followed up that story and case.. no matter the outcome of the case.. he did not go about setting up committees every few minutes to address issues that don't need further discussion.. Osama Bin Ladin's case too, did u hear Obama make noise or announce committee members.. u only heard something after it all went down. That's History dear, and that what she is saying the president should do.. don't go about insulting someone when you have no idea of what they mean. Think before you speak.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this write up.
DeleteThis is for you @ Moy Dot..
Delete@anon5:51pm its pple like u that are the problem with this country. U are are a tribal bigot blinded by sentiments. Are u not bothered by Nigerians being killed every day abi? Shame on u.
ReplyDeleteBoko haram is political..........Goodluck jona understands the message they are passing across; he's too stubborn to listen, its just painful innocents lives are the ones being affected. The government has failed its citizens my advise is live aright wit God; all this are signs of the endtime.
ReplyDelete@ moy dot shame on u. Ur level of intelligence is pathetic. This not a blame game, this is seeing to it that every Nigerian is safe. Stop claiming to love jonathan or Nigerians more than the rest of us.
ReplyDeleteI wish Jona can have access to this write up and may be just may be he will have a new thinking.
ReplyDelete@ Moy dot you seem to have a low IQ and can not apprehend the weight of this writeup pls pay for time spent in your local cyber cafe and disappear
ReplyDeleteGood piece. GEJ just doesn't have fire in his belly. He doesn't have the gravitas required for the office. Lets not forget how he tumbled into the presidency. Na how-for-do presido be dis. One day. ..
ReplyDeleteWell said @MOI DOT! security, just like charity begins at home, the insurgents are not ghosts, they are humans, flesh and blood who have families and live with them. Enough of all these blame games. I wonder what would have happened if that 'missing plane' was from Nigeria!
ReplyDeleteYou must be dumb to support the idiocy mo idiot put down.
DeleteYawagas u and some ple here are just plain dumb? Why do u think states are advocating for state police? So they can have control over security and not always have to wait for command from force headquarters before deploying soldiers for anything....
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I do too and badly so!
DeleteE ka bo Galore. No one has missed you.....
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DeleteMissed u a LOT.
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As a lovely family we are (greatest SDKits), let mobilize ourselves n march into dt Sambisa forest on tusday. Get wotever u can lay ur hands be it gun, cutlass, knife, catapult, stone, acid etc let's go there n bulldoze like pepper. If u r with me holla at my email below
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Nor be be me and you, who wan collect bullett
DeleteNyc write up,am sure she spks 4 all. EVE E UME
ReplyDeleteKai jona see your life. Pikin of yesterday is telling u what to do. Honestly that juju that made you president will not work on us this time. You sure kno who the so called bestial bh devils are yet u keep promising nigerians how you Will bring the perpetrators of dis evil deeds to book. Till tomorrow we are yet to see ur empty threats unraveled. Mchwwwwwww for weeks now dose innocent girls are stil missing. As for you sanusi you wil die a shameful death infact ur corpse will be mass buried becos you are evil. And definitely a boko sponsor. See his boko haram face. Cowards. Hiding under the guise of boko haram.
ReplyDeleteBee hive
Linda Eze: its too long you cant read,you are the confirmation that Nigeria has been producing iliterates in the past 10yrs
ReplyDeleteAny way well spoken ,well written Chimamanda,This too shall pass ,including jonathan and Ngeria will survive.
Whats with d insult @pamela mojekwu, she didn't read means she didn't read noni......
DeleteThank you jare Ezenwayi,..don't mind the idiot...when others are talking,she too will talk...NoticeMe syndrome...
DeleteNo sweat jare.......
DeleteLol @ Pamela mojekwu hahahaha you be real case.
DeleteI want President Jonathan to seek glory and a place in history instead of longevity "
ReplyDeleteFood for thought & this goes to all in leadership. May God help us through christ our Lord.
I want a president that will put a death sentence to corruption or life imprisonment. I want a fearless president that will step on toes to make things work. I want a president that will do just one term and make huge impact instead of chasing 2nd term with nothing to show after 6 yrs. I want a president that will stop setting up commitees every time he sneezes. This is a brilliant write up. Moydot is a retard and should be ignored.
ReplyDeleteEzewanyi ajegunle rat who married a paedophile and cheats like hell. Why won't you support a fellow illiterate like Linda lesbian runs girl Eze? Two of a kind. All you do is gossip and abuse. Bloody waste of sperm fools.
ReplyDeletePrescription: Play Pharell's HAPPY on repeat 2 weeks so much hate for folks you barely know.
DeleteStay HAPPY
I can see how miserable and frustrated ur pathetic life and ur generation is......
DeleteUr nincompop shameless father could ve used condom when he molested d bitch that gave bitch to U.
Fools, I wonder y every word of Linda Eze gives U guys heartache. ...wasted akamu!
I am Vengeance. .....I am d night....I am Ezewanyi onye Ukwu, ome ego 1 of Nnewi...Umeyiliora 1 of Osumuenyi...Ibilibiogada 1 of Nigeria.......choi...choi....afo agha atu egwu obute uzo..........pepper come and complete d rest....
Lol... See gobe at anonymous. Just passing
DeleteEzewanyi haff keed anonymous. .......yeparipa ojibijibijihibi
DeleteEzewanyi you too much....you get mouth biko
DeleteEZEWANYI YOU ARE TOO MUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! See finishing. I love you too much
DeleteReally liked this part "I want president Jonathan to ignore his opponent, to remember that it is the nature of politics , to refuse to respond with defensiveness or guardedness and to remember that Nigerians are understandably cynical about their government"
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