A policeman, Anthony Ibemere, has told an Igando Customary Court in Lagos, Lagos State, that his wife should return the N1.2 million bride price if she insisted on divorce.
Thirty-eight-year-old Anthony was responding to a divorce suit filed by Uloma, his wife of four years, who accused him of battery.
He accused his wife of hiding her marital status by telling people she was single.
“She joined a group of single ladies in her church. I went to the church with our wedding pictures as a proof that she’s married which led to her suspension,” he said.
Anthony added that Uloma had abandoned their matrimonial home since November 24, 2012, when he informed the church of her marital status.
He, therefore, pleaded with the court not to grant his wife’s request of divorce, saying he still loves her.
On her part, 27-year-old Uloma, a factory worker, told the court that Anthony turned her into a punching bag mostly when he was drunk.
“My husband is a drunkard. Whenever he comes home drunk and wants to make love to me, I always refuse him. I want him to make love to me when he’s in his right senses.
“And when I refuse him, he will make love to me by force,’’ she said.
The petitioner alleged that her husband always embarrassed her in public by calling her ‘a prostitute and barren tree.’
She also accused him of threatening her life and giving out her phone number to unknown persons, who were always calling and warning her not to proceed with the divorce suit or else, she would be killed.
She begged the court to separate them, saying she was tired of the marriage.
The case was adjourned till April 16.2014....culled
*wow spousal rape,battery,emotional abuse,disgrace in public.......na wah.
What he's asking for isn't wrong now,cos in african tradition,a divorce isn't valid until bride price is returned!
ReplyDeleteShe should give him d money or wait to get a rich suitor dat can help her repay.
Then he should also return her to her original self to her parents. Mcheeeew!!!!!
DeleteHehe! 1.2 m
DeleteAbeg oo oga policeman hw you take get that kind money. 1.2m ko 1.2m ni
Na wah oooh.
Delete@Queen Bee, He should also return all d fuck fuck....the slap slap...make the girl as she was when he married her...i dnt understand why people measure issues such as this with money!...agreed some women can be troublesome but there's no smoke without fire....wit all these allegation, if she were to be ur sis, will you advise her to continue wit d marriage?
Deleteaccording to customary laws in igbo land,the woman is to return only 60naira as the bride price,no matter how much the man paid
Delete@ Anon 5:54- Gbam!
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In igbo land their is no place they pay such amount for marriage unless the man is calculating his party money . Gidigbam- gidigbam.
Deletelol...orisirisi
ReplyDeleteLik seriously
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Stupid man....who dash am 1.2 million bride price.......she should leave his sorry arse.......Mamie am sure u are aware this is your greedy ibo brother in action.....ibo men are the best my royal arse
ReplyDeleteOh shat it
DeleteMust u talk with ur guttar mouth? E dey una body @ 1:13pm
DeleteD 2 of dem qet problem. Y will u subject ur wife 2such inhumane treatment? N u wife, y claim u r sinqle wen u r married?
ReplyDeleteWhy won't she claim to be single if she is married to a husband that is not a husband
DeleteBride price ko, bride price ni. Who won't call herself single when she's married to a disgrace if an olopa!!!
ReplyDeleteStella u no talk d one wey d woman dey hide her ring 4 public, n 4 d man anyman wey dey use wetin do him wife laugh her,d man is conderm in God's eyes?u don't call ur wife barren!wot do u wish oda pple should call her?haba?pattluvz
ReplyDeleteDenying ur marital status n claiming 2 b single while married nor b wah?
ReplyDeleteWhat of the fucking for 4years, will he pay her per night for those? If so she should name her price per night and deduct it from the bride price. Who knows she might still collect more money from him .
ReplyDeleteShut up@ann 1:39,y do women always claim victim wen it comes to sex,always pretending dat sex is men's tin while in actual sense dey enjoy it more dan men,having multiple orgasm and moaning like lose cows and at d end of d day will claim victim. Victim my ass
DeletePls go and rest!! Men enjoy it more with no pains. Let me give u 90mil to stay away from sex let see if u can survive. Weda no iya mutiu goat u go chase after go fuck. Namsense
DeleteExactly.. always claiming victim when it comes to xes while they actually enjoy more (sometimes :D)
DeleteBarren tree? Perhaps he is the one with problem...oshisco.police husband na bad market sharply fling him out of your life.
ReplyDeleteOga police, make up ur mind. Do you want your wife back abi u want ur bride price?
ReplyDelete1.2 mil as bride price? The policeman even wan chop bribe on top d bride price he paid.
Women pls let's look before we leap.
You constantly rape her and you call it Love. If both of continue living as husband and wife you might murder her, So set her free. You are a rapist and deserve to be in jail
ReplyDeleteMaking Love to a woman by force is rape, whether she is your wife or girlfriend. My opinion
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This one no be marriage na. Na war between Iraq n Afghanistan. Make he con try this one for here mshewww
ReplyDeleteAll in the name of marriage
ReplyDeleteCourt, please save this woman' s life by granting her the divorce. As for the bride price, which community takes such an amount for a bride price? Is he calculating all he spent on their wedding? How about all the banging and services the woman rendered during the period of marriag? Nonsense! Rose
ReplyDeleteWho do we believe now???
ReplyDeleteno be only 1.2mil, wat abt d nack wey u don nack her finish.
ReplyDeleteno be only 1.2mil, wat abt d nack wey u don nack her finish.
ReplyDeleteNo comment
ReplyDeleteShame on the drunk,
ReplyDeleteThis is why I hate men that drink like whales.
They're fond of misbehaving n blaming it on "ahoho"
Thank God DH shares my view on liquor
He only drinks water and fresh fruit juice.
As for the bride price of 1.2m,is he calculating all the wedding expenses or wha?
He's drunk,kapish!
Werey olomo, how market?
DeleteU too werey isale eko.. u don pick all the pangolo for dustbin finish?@ anon 6:25.
DeleteThey should divorce biko...this one na marriage??...
ReplyDelete1.2m as bride price? Barren tree ke? Some men are so wicked
ReplyDeleteThis one is stoooong..eleyi gidi gàààn.
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lobatan things. haha
ReplyDeleteNa so my ex fiance been dey do o! I pick better race na. All.these useless half cooked men with their personal baggage. Before a married woman in Naija would.file for divorce, u the man should check yourself. How can u be raping ur wife? Abusing her physically and emotionally too. If they say men stand up in church this one go follow stand. RUBBISH! Go deal with ur personal issue oga abeg
ReplyDeleteCan't stop laughing.
ReplyDeletemarriage mataz!!!! Hu do we bliv? It is possible she is even lying sef!
ReplyDeleteMst women cant b trusted abeg!
Afta wat my neighbour's wife did 2 him
i ve decided neva 2 bliv any side of a story without proof!
Wetin ur neighbor wife do,make we hear and learn
DeleteIf I get dt kind husband, me sef go claim single. Rubbish. U stil love her. Nigerian men cant define love even if u give dem expo -SIGNED MIMI FROM MIAMI
ReplyDeleteAll of d above happening in one marriage? Woman u better hasten ur divorce process b4 u end up 6ft below
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Oga, NO! Your wife MUSt not return your N1.2m. Why? What of all the the time wasted and the beating she received from your sorry ass? Is that how your mother brought you up?? EWU!
ReplyDeleteOh dear!!!
ReplyDeleteMamie will kill me on this blog oh, lol
ReplyDeleteOga police,ur N1.2million has depreciated over four years..Ʊя change nah 64 tahsan..wifey biko make that transfer on top Ʊя fone asap
ReplyDeleteYou see some woman life?
ReplyDeletenow a woman want to divorce de husband first some women here are now praising the wife,,but last time i read alots of an insults directed to Tchidi becos he is a man nd wanted to leave de ex wife first in marriage,,minds of bad wife in nigeria,,
Haba! What is it now? Why are you killing English language?
DeleteWalahi, d man dey craze for asking of the bride price. Dat mony shd be for services rendered(nacking,cooking,washing etc) while d marriage lasted.
ReplyDeleteWow. So sad... It is well.
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I'm always surprised at how shallow alot of ladies on this blog are. Can't believe some foolish women here are basing an intercourse consummated during marriage as service rendered for bride price... BS. alot of you get fucked around with mere hundred naira ice cream and snack, so i'm not surprised.
ReplyDeleteEven though I think your choice of words are too harsh, you just said my mind!
ReplyDeleteWhy are you ladies saying she should get paid for all the sex they had. Na wa oo. Won't that be tantamount to prostitution? After we will be cussing runz girls.
What ever two people shared while the going was good, is called gifts of love. Not to be returned or asked for when things get sour!
Left to me if the man wants bride price back, then he should produce the contract that states the woman was sold to him. I don't even understand what bride price is about sef.
Can someone educate me?
In the court of law, you are entitled to less than 100/1000 naira not sure... So goodluck. Aint no one sent you to pay millions
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