Monday, April 28, 2014
NAETO C Tells Toolz That ''In Every Successful Marriage The Wife Has To Be The Boss''
Naeto C is on The Juice couch in this edition, talking to Toolz about married life, giving up his partying days to transition into fatherhood, balancing his personal life and the spotlight.
In this interview,he says something very very catchy concerning marriage.
Naeto C says that to ''have a successful marriage you have to let your wife be the boss because it makes things easier''.
what do you think?
......what exactly does letting a woman being the ''Boss'' entail?
...letting the woman be boss concerning all decision making,what you do,where you go,how you garb.....?
Lets discuss this topic and some men who boss their wives around might prolly learn from this and bring back the balance into their homes.
Woman are you the boss?
Man will you let your woman be the boss?
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Over BOSSiness de worry my fren wife. She locks him outside, starves him n beats him
ReplyDeleteAngela Okorie?
DeleteLmao
DeleteLmao @angela okorie
DeleteKeep laughing don davido,you have a nut case called pinkshell in your hands,she will do worse.Your loved ones might not be spared her caustic tongue.
DeleteDon Davido. U ve my blessings! If u hurt her 1bit, ur 3rd name will be sorry. Goodnight!
Delete@ 1;03
DeleteWhat av i done to u, dat u wish me such ill-luck.
@ caustic tongue, its a total package, i av my gud sides too and me n davido are managing fine.
@ 8:22
Tanks for looking out for me.
But plz no threats!
Davido is a total gentle man.
Aww, luv so sweet. I wish am in ur shoes now @pink shell. PRICELESS HAKUNA
DeleteNice one Neto C, yes o na me be d boss for my house. Na Frm day one oga live am so , it makes things easy for us.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree. Wise guy!
ReplyDeleteif only shez gona pay d groom prize...propose to me with a bentley @least...turn my rod to a hairy hole and her hairy hole to a hairy staff... ...BLEX...
ReplyDeleteNigga pulizzzzzz....! Hairy blablabla disgusting.
DeleteNigga pulizzzzzz....! Hairy blablabla disgusting.
DeleteAnonymous mumu....
DeleteYea he is saying the truth, in my rlshp both past n present am always lucky to date a guy who I control, its just my luck n its not dt I date quite men cos I somehow dislike gentle guys cos dey seem to be pretencious, too jealous n controlling. I pray to be lucky to have my future husby under my feet even if his wealth touches d sky. Just need him to be my toy at home but a tiger outside.
ReplyDeleteNo wonder no guy is willing to stay with you. You are waiting for a man you can control like machine? Don't worry, you will wait for ever!
DeleteQueen Amy, it's you I'm referring to oh.
Shut up bitter pussy, u think am u dt wakes ur man with free kick. By d time I pet my man, he wnt know wen he wl allow me control him cos I ist make sure I melt his heart. If u want me to teach you how to stop treating ur spouse like ekuke dog, mail me honey n stop using jazz n free fick for him.
DeleteSame Queen Amy that said it was her 10 year anniversary? Na wa o. Now she is talking about future hubby? Wow! SDKers never forget, just know that.lol
DeleteWay 2 go Naeto C! Boss doesn't mean boss as we know it. If a guy marries a gud woman n gives her d boss title, things will turn out almost perfect in such a household. Only real men recognize d need 2 do so. Here's praying that future hubby understands d wife boss concept.
ReplyDeleteNaeto is right let the woman be the boss. But don't shut the man out completely
ReplyDeleteYes its true...that's how igbo men see marriage...I am the boss in my home....things are done the way I want...I know my husband's account details....infact,am in charge.all bank alerts dey enter my phone...I drive his cars even the one he cherish most,I dey rock am....Naeto,you are a correct nigga...with this your mindset,your marriage will neva shake....
ReplyDeleteLinda Eze, his bank alert dey enter your phone? Buhahahahahahahaha!
DeleteYour palm wine taper husband get account? No be inside hole e dey hide hin money? Tar comot here! Who dash monkey banana? U want me to open your dry crocrow yansh abi? Ewu Boko haram
Why won't you be the boss nkita ara anambra state. Soon, that spell you have over your husby will disappear and your real story will personally be brought to this blog by me, bitch!
DeleteLiar liar pants on fire, like your leg can get to the brake of any car Short engine.
DeleteLinda,pls dnt reply dis fool called sdk bouncer aka dat enugu babe.evryone here knws dat linda is frm anambra.go 2 kool bend's post nd ans d questions she asked u there.stop foolin ur self under her comments.y dnt u open her nyash since u claim u knws her.u re jst an attention seeker.
DeleteLinda's biggest fan
Dat enugu babe,linda eze is offering u 50k 2 open her nyash nd am still waitin.pls b fast
DeleteYes I agree wt him...dts aw I was raised and dts d direction my new family is facing now. I grew up thinkn my mum was a queen...
ReplyDeleteWe all learnt 'living to please' my mum...by d time I grew up and realised it was d other way round in d outside world...it was too late bt I was very grateful for it..
It also guided me in my choice of a man...anyone who cldnt sacrifice all was nt even worthy to be a bf....it was dt serious.
My father placed God first...family second. ..nothing else third....and everything else fourth.
Now my hubby is like dat....sometimes I wonder if he was created to come and please me....
I mean the whole world to me....
Bt wat my mum also taught me was this...a woman who wants her man worshipping her must be chaste, industrious, a great planner wt good fore and hind sight...be respectful n respectable. ..be 100% supportive and sacrificial...and make God her rock....
Not d kind of ladies we have today...acquiring sexual mileage like its no man's business...always lookin for wat dey wl gain frm d day one of relationship...wnts a ready-made market...forgettin dt watsoever u do nt work for really cant be urs for keeps...
To be a queen...u must stoop to conquer ur man...den n der...u have him...right at ur beck n call...and all he wl see above his ego, friends, pride and societal dictates will be YOU.
I wish all d good ladies out der the best...may d Almighty crown us all wt men who wl nt only stay, bt be a source of blessing n happiness to us.
#peace out
you should write a script for brad pitt BLEX
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DeleteU 4 kukuma write book na....
DeleteI like this comment, but I take the biblical stand that the man is the head of the family.
DeleteThat being said, I think the point Naeto's trying to make is that men should treat their wives as equals not as underlings.
The wife is there to play a supportive role to her husband, not be a doormat. The husband's headship is only positional because you can't have two captains in one ship, else there'll be chaos.
It's not that men are intrinsically superior to women, God appointed them the head for the sake of order.
If more men would realise this, that we're all equal before God, and treat their wives as objects of great value and worth, allowing them the freedom to bring their wealth of wisdom and intuition on board for the smooth running of the home, without the fear of being usurped, there would be fewer marital problems.
Alas, because we live in a fallen world, husbands want to lord it over their wives, and some wives want to control their husbands. Neither is healthy, in my opinion.
Nnem u r a lucky lady. Some men, u ll go to hell n back for dem, ll still treat u bad. A bad man is a bad man or husband in dis case. No two ways about it.FYI I 'm married, so talking from experience
DeleteEveryone should find what makes for harmony in the relationship...so long as abuse of whatever kind is not involved and all actions are done in love...
ReplyDeleteHubby and I talk through everything...and compromise with each other as we go...he's an intelligent man and the person with superior argument (not necessarily fight oh) wins
Yeah.....true.D Man is d head andd woman is d neck.now we all know that what turns d head is the neck...
ReplyDeleteThat's deep...abeg kindly turn d head d other way when I'm coming over n leaving,good morning my cyber-crush
DeleteNa ur mama mate u dey call ur crush?...u wan make a whole battallion come flog u n ur household?I don talk my own
DeleteDid someone say something?
DeleteWhat might work for one might not work for another.I love my man in charge it is super sexy,maybe because I'm layback,I cnt never be with a man I can boss around nah
ReplyDeleteUnto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee. (Genesis 3:16 KJV) I don't understand where all this "BOSS" of a thing is coming from. You Ate the fruit, pls deal with it. Boss kòr BOSE Akanmu ni.
ReplyDeleteHehehe, you should be very worried if you are planning anything serious with your blog girlfriend
DeleteLmao @ Bose Akanmu. Internet truly neva forgets.
DeleteHmmmm......papa AyomiposÃŽ come nd read wetin I just red ooooo!! True though!!!
ReplyDeleteOKIJA WIFE
Yes o. The woman is the boss.. Boss doesn't mean you put your hubby under your feet and talk to him anyhow. But it means you are the one controlling things at home without been disrespectful.
ReplyDeleteThe men are the head and we are the neck.. The head can not turn without the neck making it happen... When there is a decision to be reached about anything concerning running the home,I have the final say.. Hubby brings his contributions and I make the final decision.. He doesn't even argue about it...
Then he also has my mumu button. When he wants me to dance to his tune,he knows what to say and do without even me considering to say no.. Oh,how I love this man..
When he goes out.and wants to buy something for himself,he knows he won't hear the last of it if he doesn't buy for me,so he would call up and be like "bae,do you want a new phone"? And am like are you getting one for yourself? He be like no,but it would be nice to get you this beautiful phone and am like okay.. And he turns up with 2 phones,one for himself and one for me... Hmmm. But mine is always the expensive one.. That's why I like my people,they buy the expensive things for their wives and the cheaper things for themselves...
When a man allows the woman to be the boss trust me,no wahala can ensue.. It would be a jolly good ride. And the best part of the whole marriage is I don't have to okay the bad cop with the kids.. Hehehe.. He does that.. I am the good cop. Can't imagine been the bad cop...
I'm in love with your fantasy world.
DeleteI am not tapping into anything though.
I love my man too
A like button pleassse
DeleteYea my boss buys d expensive things for me and not dat his own wont b expensive but mine will be more expensive
DeleteThat's a real man right there. His ego is intact. Plus i'm sure his wife respects him and doesn't take him for granted that's why its working for them. Women- boss no mean say make you dey slap the man around and be disrespecting him even in public.
ReplyDeleteThe Wife Vs The Side Chic- click my name to read more.
Well he is speaking from his family perspective. His Dad is just like a Dummy and his mum is the boss, Am from Emekuku so i know the Chikwe family inside out.
ReplyDeleteOnye juru gi? E kwumakwala he n'imagi.Nshi oku ba kwaa gi. J'ema jee du.I Maa ndi uyo chikwe inside out i kwa? Household rat
DeleteNaeto punk ebe like say u be woman rapper?which one come be say make woman be boss,u dey craze.no womancan ever control ebube dike like me mbanu,God forbid.it is good to treat ur woman nice,make her happy,help her with house works and stuffs like that but despite all that am still the boss.i will never allow u to control me, disrespect me or oder me around never.
ReplyDeleteTrue to a reasonable extent. But that does not mean the woman should take the Mann for granted. He remains the head of the family. But women are better planners.
ReplyDeleteBn a boss here dsnt mean the woman should be a control freak.
ReplyDeleteThis guy nailed it. For all d rude and picky guys I pray dis touches ur hearts. I wish men can just learn frm this. woman hve pride biko dis guy is everytin any responsible woman wants, he knws it all. dats d joy of a woman's ego, always treat her like dat unbreakable egg let her knw she is d boss. I swear she will respect and treat u like dat special man. it more easier. I raLly don't like dis guy buh wit dis I think I have a change of mind.
ReplyDelete2 yrs into marriage and u re talking Trash NAETO C?uR EYE GO SOON CLEAR.He be like say ur so called wife don give u better CAT FISH or VEGETABLE CHOP?By the time u start washing ur wife undies and doing the house cleaning,then u ll understand ur statement.Infact,u really fall my hand with dis rubbish.So u mean the woman should always have the final say no matter what?Then who provides for the family and so on?Anuofia
ReplyDeleteWhat he's simply saying is that women are too petty and quarrelsome and in order to let peace reign, you allow them feel they're in control..
ReplyDeleteExactly.... There is no need arguing with a woman.. Very pointless...
DeleteI like him a lot but What's working for him, might not work for another man. As you have bad men so do we have bad women who will take that your gift of her being the boss for granted. For your information Nigeria/African men don't like wife being boss maybe very few who can take such and they know the result from friends and families. When their wives are boss, they are labelled Mumu man.
ReplyDelete@anon April 29, 2014 at 6:38 AM big lies when did the wife become the boss? wasn't it yesterday when she became big in PDP fa. from their growing up days the man was the boss . it's is just now that the woman behaves very bossy.
ReplyDeleteWhen she was aviation minister,she was d main cock in da house
DeleteHa fu ya onye akoroma yeye
DeleteNaeto C is right. I assure you all that his marriage will last, he married well and i like his wife. In my marriage i am the boss. After God it is my husband and children. My husband does not invite fiends i don't like to the house if i say no he just stop's seeing you or it will just be hello hello when you guys see. When ever we are going out he will dress up and ask if i approve because i am a very good dresser, He does nothing and i mean nothing without my approval, it just come's natural in my home, when i travel he will always call before taking any decision , i feel i just have the best marriage and i thank God. But to be a boss ladies, make sure you are a very good respectful wife and mother. I respect my in-laws a lot.
ReplyDeleteNaeto C is right. I assure you all that his marriage will last, he married well and i like his wife. In my marriage i am the boss. After God it is my husband and children. My husband does not invite fiends i don't like to the house if i say no he just stop's seeing you or it will just be hello hello when you guys see. When ever we are going out he will dress up and ask if i approve because i am a very good dresser, He does nothing and i mean nothing without my approval, it just come's natural in my home, when i travel he will always call before taking any decision , i feel i just have the best marriage and i thank God. But to be a boss ladies, make sure you are a very good respectful wife and mother. I respect my in-laws a lot.
ReplyDeleteI am nt interested in being boss in d r\ship. All I want is respect, luv, affection n peace of mind.
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