You just had a baby and instead of spending time loving your child,you are busy battling with jealous emotions...jealous of your own child?OMG!
''hi Stella, i am i regular visitor of your blog although i dont comment.
i have a problem dat i will your visitors to talk about....... I am a mum to a three month old baby boy but my problem is that my husband pays so much attention to our boy that i am beginning to get jealous and neglected .
Everything about him rotates around our son, he takes permission from him before he goes out, he talks to him as if he is an adult and i dont exist. i dont if this is normal with all men or is it because he is our first?.''
*Madam you are jealous of the child you carried for nine months?a helpless small child that you should be loving non stop?you are jealous?
Okay my mouth is hanging loose from your story,my head is spinning and i need you to take a seat and have a selah moment
Na wa o
ReplyDeleteInstead of you to be happy madam, you are jealous?
DeleteIts not because its your first.its because of the "natural" love he has. He's getting used to being a father and he's experiencing an overwhelming joy.
DeleteI'm pregnant and when I'm back from the hospital, the first thing my husband asks is "how's the baby?" Before "how are you"..........madam, its not a problem as long as it doesn't stop him from doing other things for and to you.
Ain't you lucky he cares, most including mine don't show concern
DeleteMadam you funny oh. Instead of you to be happy, that someone is ready and over willing to help you with your night duty especially. At least if baby do pim! Oga go jump up while you snore along. No be the type wey go de run from baby leaving you to do all things. Biko be happy jor.
DeleteBLOG ANALYSER: kikikikik, SDK ur reply cracked me up. Madame start doing same to ur son. Love him like ur husby nd his love will return back to u
ReplyDeleteHahahahahaha,poster,it happens sometimes....this is just small of what you will see later when your children must have grown a lil bit....most kids prefer their daddy....ignore them biko...
ReplyDeleteHian!!! Na wa ooooo.
ReplyDeleteSome women fa!how could u say a thing like that poster?a child u carried for 9months?i'm lost for words!
ReplyDeleteMa'am u sure say u dey ok? I can't relate wif dis, jealous of a 3month infant ur own baby? Shudnt u b happy u qave ur husband sth he cherish n adore?
ReplyDeleteRather unconstructive. There is such a thing as post natal depression and this could be a factor.
DeletePoster, you should pray and talk to yourself as you may be harbouring some deep rooted insecurities. If possible find a baby sitter for a weekend- your mom perhaps and spend some US time with hubby. I bet he is not aware of how you feel, but appreciate the fact that he dotes on ur child...many do not.
Lolo...formerly 'sweet life of....'
Hian! You are doing jealousy things for child ni? Ehyaa! Some people even wish their husband can make out tym to play with their child and you have it at platter of gold, you are still here complaining.
ReplyDeleteDoes placing with your son stop him from performing his duties as a man? Abeg answer me!
You are beginning to sound like someone who has jealousy written all over her, be careful! and don't do anything stupid to that child.
Pepper don talk her own! Who knows how you go jealous pepper if you see her with ya korokoro eye.
Pepper the one without jealousy.
Oh I 4qot 2add. Sit on dat stella seat mbok. Its meant 4u. Mayb afta a salem moment like she suqqest u wiill come back 2 ur senses inuqo.
ReplyDeleteMadam u are nt serz!!!u are jealous of a naïve and ignorant child??dis is outrageous.I tink u need help,d sooner d beta. Dike Anthony
ReplyDeleteJealousy btw parents and child is quite normal, it still happens btw my mom and I.
ReplyDeleteSo true.....lol
DeleteI am a daddys girl so lots of times my mum says "U and your father won't kill me"....lol
So true.....lol
DeleteI am a daddys girl so lots of times my mum says "U and your father won't kill me"....lol
The child here is 3months old,a helpless and innocent baby,she needs psychiatric assessment
DeleteYou need to see a shrink ASAP
ReplyDeleteNot necessarily, these things happen, especially when it concerns a first child. Remember it was just the two of them until the baby came along.
DeleteIt also happens in the case of mother/son and father/daughter relationships; spouses get jealous in these cases.
I think with time she'll adjust and even the man will adjust as well; he's probably doing it subconsciously.
*click my name for your chance to win our easter cake, cheers*
Signs of post natal depression. Mrs O
ReplyDeleteShe should seek psychological help.. It may be that she is suffering from post-partum depression. Its good that poster has identified the problem, she should make conscious effort to overcome the ugly feeling.
ReplyDeleteThank u.. someone gets that it more than face value..
DeleteIs dis a joke or wat?
ReplyDeleteU'r jealous of ur 3months old baby.
Unbelieavable!!!
Speechless!!!'
ReplyDeleteHe is a first time dad so its normal
ReplyDeleteU shud b worried if he doesn't notice u and ur son. Now dat he does u'r sayin its too much!
Na wa o!!!
Wat do we women wat sef
I envy u dear. I wish my Husby can even give our son half of de attention ur Husby is giving ur son, I wil b so happy. My Husby wil b angry ur giving him de baby to hold n even wen he does, its wt double mind. He wil b on his fone while de baby is crying he won't even bother to console him. To tink its his only son is wat baffles me sometimes.
ReplyDeleteOne mans meat is another mans poison....wicked husband and father!
DeleteAre you sure we are not married to same person
DeleteIts normal but u should watch it. Growing up as a kid, my dad was very biased on matters concerning me, and i know it wasn't funny to ma mum. Till i got married nd out of d way...lol
ReplyDeleteNow i believe those dat saod trust nobody. Wen a mother is being jealouse of her 3months old baby den u gat to know dat there is no one to trust on earth no even ur soul except God. Madam no go kill ur 3months baby ooooo bcos of gbola.
ReplyDeleteMadam abeg calm down o! This your "jolosy" dikwa risky.
ReplyDeleteThe feeling of a new born to first time parents is divine. You just wonder how ordinary Nack and discharge of semen produced hands feet, nose mouth,....a living being!
The excitement, the joy, that amazing, wonderful feeling that I expect you to partake in, naim you sitdon de beef bros?
Madam! Calm down. Abeg u!
Na wa to you o BLOGLORD, see how you put it " nack and discharge of semen". You go really like fuck well well, e dey your body. Your husband instrument go dey hear am wella
DeleteI know a young woman who is so jealous of her kids to the extent of telling them to not snatch her husband(their father) from her; just because the man is playing with his kids. Very devilish bitter leave heart woman. She's even jealous of her youngest child of 2years. She beats her kids for no reasonable reason. Witch oshi
ReplyDeleteR u sure dat's not you?
Delete#justsaying
Jasmine LMAO!
Delete...and na boy sef! If you come born girl na, you will return to us to tell us your daughter has snatched your husband.
ReplyDeleteFather and daughter relationship, dem nor de go there o!
Lol
Okbye!
So true
DeleteI'm not surprised at all... because my former neighbour's jealousy towards her own kids no be here. To the extent of telling her kids not to snatch her husband from her(their father oh) and she was so serious oh!.
ReplyDeleteNever seen a sadist like her before.
It's not abnormal. My husband fell in love with our first son even before he was conceived. Before our wedding my husband bought a suit saying that his first child will be a boy. And God answered his prayer.
ReplyDeleteYou can imagine what he was like when I finally became pregnant. My husband will speak to his son in my tummy even before asking how I'm faring. But I didn't feel jealous.
He was over the moon once our son was born. Was buying football for a new born baby and bicycles. Couldn't just wait for him to grow up. When he travels my son gets a suitcase of goodies and I get a wristwatch and handbag if I'm lucky because he had no time to shop for me.
But now we have 3 kids and he still dots on them but I don't feel jealous. I'm glad he loves his kids. I even think they prefer their dad to me but I'm still not jealous. I only intervene when they want to get in the way of my plans for instance I'm planning a romantic dinner or trip for two and they say they want to tag along. At such times I put my foot down.
Poster love your son and allow your husband connect with his child. It doesn't mean he loves you less. It's a phase of excitement. It will pass with time.
This is what I call experience and its really sweet......
DeletePinkshell are you learning from sweet mother.She has got a great experience that can't be rubbished.
DeleteI have a name for my first daughter already...n I sow a seed of prayer into her life...though I'm still searching for a worthy mum for her...@poster,I don't blame ur hubby cos I know I'l do d same just wnt ignore my wife totally like ur hubby does
DeleteHian...
DeleteAnon ogini kwa,
Wat az pink shell got to do wit dis comment? Hun?
@ stella
I tot as much
I knew u wld swallow my comment.
But plz note dis, dat if 2 or 3 ppl are saying d same tin, it mins dia is some trut in wat is been sed. #Peace!
Its actually not unsual. It happens more with the males though. i.e the man becomes jealous. Just google this topic and see the results. SDK dnt na wa yet. Some men are good fathers but bad husbands. Its one of the reasons I don't have a great relationship with my mum. My dad dotted on me. @ Poster, he means no harm. The joy of having a child is overwhelming sometimes esp the first time. Share in the love but if it continues for too long, talk to him. Tell him u miss his attentions as well.
ReplyDeleteNna mehn na this one oyibo for give name sharp sharp. Perhaps PSTD? I think the poster has a serious mental issue (no be curse), she needs some form of theraphy or visit the doc to get info. Sad!
ReplyDeleteJunkie, get urself a fix and stop irritating everyone
DeleteBoooooooooooooring ......and u think u are all that, circus clown
#yawns
Eze wanyi baddest! Lol u don Carry samira matter for head oh
DeleteI siddon on my own ooooooo........
DeleteNa him samira whore come price my market
Imagine this bleached out hooker, anyway.......
Eze wanyi biko cool temper no vex again
DeleteHahaha na my beauty de jealous you, keep talking. Na under me u go remain bahaha jealousyyy, get a life. Oh you cant cos am your life hahahaha
DeleteEze wanyi, am all that n e de sweet me say the fact you know am all that de kill you inside hahshaha
DeleteSamira bebe pls cool ur temper.no vex again biko
DeleteSamira na u find trouble, and u no sabi abuse sef.see as eze wanyi dey hit u front, right and center.gerrout from here useless learner
DeleteBeauty? How ironic. ....
DeleteBleached hands+Fugleey face+smelly toto=samira whore
@anon4; 48, u wicked ooooo....
@arab money, no mind d idiotic bastard
Delete@mrs chi ude, I no vex again.
Happy weekend maam
Let's be real this things happen. My dad used to do it and mad my mum mad. Even as d oldest child, my siblings know who my fav is.
ReplyDeleteAnd please stop cussing her out.
Even parents those days always had fav chiiildren that led to rivalry. E dey bible sef although it was just among siblings.
She's ok.
She should find subtle ways to tell her husband or show d baby as much love so she can share in d love triangle. Or born another one that's your own.
Ok you might be suffering from histrionic personality disorder. Symptoms include anxious about being ignored as a result they feel a compulsion to be noticed and be the Centre of everybody's attention, dramatic, shallow, stimulus seeking, vain, over reacts to minor events, exhibitionistic as a means of securing attention and favour, constant seeking for other's attention etc. Please the fact that we grew up seeing these things happen doesn't make it right. Nawa oh
ReplyDeleteProfessor Amaka! Phew...wow *cheering you on*
DeleteEmmm.... I know these things are hard to hear in Nigeria but please, b4 we jump to judge, we need to consider and analyze her psychological state. I know we Nigerians believe that everyone must be strong. Truth, we all can't be. A woman who just went through the process of child bearing, should never be neglected no matter how strong u think she is. There is such a thing as Postpartum depression (PPD). My dear poster, please research on it and if u find ur self under its symptoms of PPD, please u and husby should seek help at once, since this can generate to something worse very quickly. However, talk to ur husband about how u feel and in the meantime, shower same or even more affection on ur son than ur husby is.. That may just be the solution. But please research on PPD and get help if required.
ReplyDeleteHahahaha!
ReplyDeletePoster you neva see something sef.
Wait till he grows and starts talking.
Do you know my hubby calls when he travels just to speak to our baby. He will just call and be like "hello dear,please can you give the phone to my Angel" or "please babes, I want to speak to my queen"
I will jejely give her phone to gossip away with daddy.
He over pampers her that I have to take up the role of the bad cop,if not my baby girl will become a spoilt brat.
I don't see anything wrong in what your hubby is doing.
He still loves you just that he is still overwhelemed by the bundle of joy he created and he is trying to bond with his son.
Just give him time ok. He is just being a good dad the best way he knows how to. Or would you rather he ignores his son?
Chill abeg!
LOL
pls is there anything dat can help flush a pregnancy of less than 3 wks? I'm a happily married mother of two but not ready for another.
ReplyDeleteGo n see your doctor ma'm
DeleteSqueeze bitter leave. add 300naira grounded pepper to the bitter leave water,add 5bottles of Coldine cough syrup. Stir and drink for 5days. They no born that belle well.
DeleteAutomatic abortion ni straight
Anon 10.07AM:
DeleteIf you are very sure this is what you AND YOUR HUSBAND want, then please see a qualified obgyn.
Married or not he will never forgive you if he finds out that he wasn't informed. Mens' hearts are harder and much more unforgiving than ours.
DO NOT SELF MEDICATE I BEG YOU!!!!
Go and buy misoprostol, and insert 4 tablets in ur private part, put another 4 under your tongue till it dissolves.
DeleteIt's totally normal my dear.
ReplyDeleteMy DH sometimes gets jealous of my shining armour cos I tend to give him my all.
We've chased DH out of my matrimonial bed cos we co-sleep.
I talk to him all the time n sometimes pipo around me think I'm insane.
I don't care cos my innocent one trusts mummy so much,so mum can never trade him for nuffin
We don't care. Its not always about you. Go and read your bible ode.
DeleteOkija wife
Reading Stella's conclusion and the comments confirms that majority of people know fuck all about post natal depression. The signs are clear that this lady needs help. Please read up and help her Stella.
ReplyDeletep.s. Poster, please sit your hubby down and bare your mind to him. things are not always what they seem. Also, try to book an appointment with your doctor and don't leave until he/she truly understand your state of mind. All the best.
Ur head dey there jare
DeleteMY DEAR DONT BE JEALOUS, BUT BE HAPPY THAT UR HUSBAND DOTS AND LOVES UR SON SO MUCH. WHAT ABOUT ME NKO. WHEN I WAS PREG,MY HUSBAND TOLD ME TO MY FACE THAT HE LOVES AND VALUES HIS SON ( WHO WAS STILL IN MY TUMMY THN) MORE THAN ME. THAT WOMEN CAN ABANDON THEIR HUSBAND BUT HIS CHILD WILL BE THERE FOR HIM ALWAYS. IF HE SENDS ME TEXT MESSAGE HE WILL GO LIKE THIS" HOW ARE U AND MY LOVELY ADORABLE SON" LOL. MY DEAR, AM EVEN HAPPY HE LOVES HIS SON. JUST GET OVER IT
ReplyDeletethis same situation is pulling my marriage apart .i am in a distance marriage. i see him twice a month and when the man calls all he wants to talk about is his son. has he pooped, what did he eat? his eyes were looking brown in he last pic you sent me why?, how did those rashes get on his butt? bla bla bla and proceeds to say his name and make baby sounds loudly in my ears (phone no dey speaker and pikin dey sleep ). this is at the end of a busy day at work and a hectic time cooking baby's dinner, bathing, breastfeeding and putting to bed.all our intimate run down of d day's activities is gone. intimacy levels hitting new lows. i even beginning to dread picking the phone cos i am usually too tired for such boring daily convos and usualyy want some1 to mutter sweet nothings to me or listen to me rant or just unwind with a conversation about each other.
ReplyDeletePele. I can imagine how irritating that would be.
DeleteHave you spoken to him about it? Calmly?
Communication is key, please don't allow your marriage fall apart because you kept quiet about this.
Jealousy is natural, but gets deadly when not handled well.. Pls poster, you don't have a case, just face your work to avoid hearing the kinda story i heard sometime ago about a woman poisoning her own child cos of same jealously u are battling with now
ReplyDeletei_ChoPtas_Not
Anon 10:34 you are a wise woman! Even Stella with her journalistic self and German exposure chose to ridicule this woman very sad indeed. Even fathers get jealous of the child and mothers relationship especially when the mother is paying more attention to the child than him. People please educate yourselves no be only to gossip una dey do for this blog.
ReplyDeletePost partum depression may be at work. It is usually the man that complains about being neglected after birth. Please, seek help now. It is not normal. Rose
ReplyDeleteIt could be post pregnancy depression and it comes in different ways. it could also be that she's so used to getting all the attention and suddenly she has to share with an infant....
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Things happen o, mine is my husband and baby, he tried to log into my fb n he noticed I had changed my password, he asked what it was I said our baby's name, he was now like so she's d most important person in my life right now abi? With vex o.. I ws puzzled o... Unnecessary jealousy
ReplyDeletePoster u neva see anytin u dey vex....d 1st tin my 2yr old says wen she wakes up in d mrn is daddy!they go out n come bck wit bags of goodies n il b pleased if I even get as much as a coke. Do u knw she fell ill wen d dad travelled.he left early n she woke up went to skul came bck n didnt see him till d nxt day.she was so cold all she kept sayin was daddy n I was like,me wey dey here nko? She climbs on his chest plays wit his hair till she falls asleep...dts d only way u can get her to sleep.if u were me nko? U 4 don poison am? Abeg if ur husband dots on ur kid,it means he loves u scara n appreciates ur gift to him.i no wan hear say u sleep off he fell cos I no go believe say na mistake.see a shrink if u hav to n do it fast n get ova dis emotion cos u neva start.mek gal come u go hear nwi.
ReplyDeletePlease this is a clear case of postpartum depression.. Dear poster please see your Gp.
ReplyDeleteSuch is a symptom of what may be the condition of post-natal depression. The good thing is that for the most part it is temporary. Please read up on it and see if any of the other symptoms apply to you. If so then please seek help. To supplement all this,also go the Nigerian woman route (pray).
ReplyDeleteXxx.
Miss you Stella :). I._ xx
stupid comments all around here...dont u people reason before typing? she has expressed a feeling and fools here are already judging what u dont know? so everybody must keep pretending as if they dont think negative thoughts......has it occurred to you fools here that her hubby must be doing it excessively and not even have time for the mother?....yes i have heard some men do it.......poster tell your hubby how u feel, that is a first step......have you fools here not heard of husbands being jealous of their children cos the wives spend more time with the kids than them? poster nothing wrong with you, just talk with a more sensible person who will counsel you.....you might feel much better when you share your feelings......i really wonder why people bring their problems to this site with all the judgmental idiots here......even stella is so sown right irritating with her comments..local babe feeling funky abroad
ReplyDeleteDear God,
ReplyDeleteI thank you for today and keeping me alive thus far....I am sure lord you have seen Anonymous 10:07 am,s message saying she wants to abort a 3 weeks old pregnancy cos she has two kids already and doesnt want any yet.....Lord i know you know all things and you know i have had 3 miscarriages, 3 failed IVFs, 1 fibroid operation in this 9 years i have been looking up to you for my own child....You also know lord am 43 years old.......lord while your ways are not our ways and i know you love all your children equally, kindly let me also be pregnant this year like you have done for her......please lord let her know that every child is a blessing from God and you who have made it possible will provide the means for them to take care of the child......thank you father for your faithfulness. I await your speedy response to my request in Jesus mighty name....
Your daughter
mummy- in- waiting
Madam go and adopt na!
DeleteGo adopt a beautiful baby.
And if God says u wld still av ur own baby.
Am sure, u will.
Too many tins to worry abt in life.
Try to reduces ur worries,
Do wat is humanly possible
Den, Relax!
And see how twins go set for ur belle. #Amen!
@1:28(mother of many beautiful cuties) the Bible asked u to mutiple n also said u shall not b barren rather u shall bare fruits(children)... I join my faith with urs n i declare ur womb open n fertile to bring forth godly children... I declare every gate of hell dat has been standing against ur bringing forth b crushed by thunder in d Mighty Name of Jesus Christ... U r bless, go n return with testimony IJN
DeleteAnonymous 1:14 pm why are you sounding so bitter? Calling every body a fool and idiot? Take it easy life is not that serious. The poster doesn't have to take our advise dose she? She sent in a letter telling us about her problem, what ever advice blog visitors give her is their opinion and like i always say opinion is like ass hole and every body has one..Chill. Madam poster be happy your husband love's your son because many fathers are never there for their children.
ReplyDeletesdk bouncer i now know you are truly stupid and just forming church person oshi.....how dare you say she has no case? for her to voice out do u know how much the hubby does it at the detriment of their relationship? nobody is saying its right to be jealous of your child but you dont ignore feelings cos they can turn deadly....if she is battling post natal deeppression nko? should she not deal with it? this is the reason why people commit sucide and idiots like you will come out and blame the devil....when people have issues u dont sweep them under the carpet, u deal with it....u dont live with her or know her so we cannot downplay what she says she feels....alot of fathers go through this stage but they dont say cos our society reasons backwards......
ReplyDeleteYou may have POST PARTUM DEPRESSION. You need to see a doctor before you harm your child. Get help ASAP!
ReplyDelete@Poster ;you suppose they happy make Ʊя head dey touch ceiling...my dad never gree to carry baby sef,said itz like the baby's skin will peel in his hand or somfin..better take seat or praise God!
ReplyDelete@ poster, ur case sounds like a post-natal depression-get help!
ReplyDeleteAwww mummy-in waiting,anon 1:28,
God ll see u thru,sis
He is preparing d best for u, d child d ll bring happiness not sorrw to u, d one dt ll bear d name "dream coms true" "a star" is in d makin
Congrats, for its about to happen
Anon 1.28pm, i cried after reading your comment.. I must say,I like your positivity towards your predicament.. May God grant you your heart desires, in no distant time the cry of a child will be heard in your home. Amen
ReplyDeleteNOR BE BABY BLUES BE THIS SO?
ReplyDeleteMadam poster please google is your best friend but i have made the work easier for you sha. i have two links here from NHS UK and wikipedia. please stella post this so she can help herself and others too can be informed. thank you.
kindly see
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maternity_blues
and
http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/pregnancy-and-baby/pages/feeling-depressed-after-birth.aspx
Madam poster chill u hear its normal,I love it when my hubby comes from work,my 18mnths baby starts shouting daddy daddy daddy,the hugs and kisses,she escorts him to d room and forgets that mummy has been cleaning her bum bum since morning. Hubby takes permission from her wen he wants to go out weekends,anytime I hug hubby or lay on his chest in the sitting room.my small madam will start crying and want to stay with her daddy. So its normal biko. Children are gifts from God,pls stop d jealousy and allow him njoy d gift of God
ReplyDelete# sweet mother (9.16am): that is thenright way to handle the situation.
ReplyDeleteThe poster's feelings are natural and I am sure many of the negative comments are coming fron unmarried people or yet-to-be parents.
I am a guy, it happened to my wife too, but we guys have a lot to do too. An adage says "you will love the children of the wife you love", so women shouldn't see their children as rivals. But husbands too need to ensure that their affection is balanced out right between their wife and kids and also amongst kids. I train myself to do that and I don't love any one more than the others.
My sister blogger, you never see competition o! Wait till you have a daughter. You go hear wen!!!
Babe its okay. U have post natal depression. It will pass. Dont mind all these people abusing u. I had it when i had my first child. Didnt want to touch her and all. Meanwhile this was a much wanted baby. But thank God my mom understood and was patitent with me and it gradually passed. Now shes 11 yrs and the love of my life. It will pass my dear. Just focus on the good things. Good luck
ReplyDeleteIt's completely normal for u to feel this way. It's can be postnatal depression. It happens to all women after childbirth, but u should call yourself to order so it doesn't get out of hand.
ReplyDeleteIt's one of the many reasons some women loose themselves and become fat and ugly after childbirth.
What your husband is doing is normal. In fact you should be thankful he loves his child. Some women will be nagging and staying out that the baby is crying or something. It's the love your man has for you that his extending to the child you have given him so be happy and join him to give your baby all the love and attention you can ever give.
Good luck sis
She could be truly be suffering from what is medically termed 'post partum depression' from simple maternal blues to full blown psychosis...and yes it is very common among new mums and indeed 3 months is still such a short time...some can even last for over a year. Typically, we are so hypocritical about everything. Pls read my write up for Eviawoman - a women's online mag at www.eviawoman.com (issue 3). Its pertinent for us blog readers to know that sometimes, its really hard for people to share these feelings, harder with one's judgmental friends so I figure they come on social media and write anonymously expecting some kind of succor or resonance with their feelings especially if unpopular..and these negative comments on social media sometimes do more harm and can tilt some really bad cases over the fence. Lets be guided please, a dangerous person is not just one with a pistol, sometimes our tongues and indeed in this case typing fingers can be much more harmful - she mostly likely came on here for help, don't kick a man that is already down. So, again please let's be guided when it comes to posting comments on other peoples issue - sometimes if we don't ve something nice or helpful to say, let's not talk at all.
ReplyDeleteThis is a clear case of post partum depression.I have seen seen a case where the mother was so jealous of the attention her baby was getting from the dad that she bit the baby's foot almost cutting it off.Abroad they don't joke with such things.Stella should know better.oh well!
ReplyDeleteMummy-in-waiting,I read your comment and cried.I went down on my knees and prayed for you,knowing God will visit you soon.wipe ur tears.Please remember to testify of His goodness.E-hugs!
hi everyone thanks for ur comments and for those who chose to insult me thanks all d same, i want to clear up some misconception frm my earlier post. .. i love my son to bits and right now he is my only source of joy, maybe jealousy is not d right word to use. i miss talking to my husband who is my best friend. i miss how we can talk abt anything dat happened during d day wen we go to bed at night without d discussion centering around our son. i just wanted mums to tell me if dis is normal and some people jumped into conclusion dat i am a psychopath.pls i am not suffering frm any form of depression. i love my boy and i cnt do anything dat will hurt him.
ReplyDeletehi everyone thanks for ur comments and for those who chose to insult me thanks all d same, i want to clear up some misconception frm my earlier post. .. i love my son to bits and right now he is my only source of joy, maybe jealousy is not d right word to use. i miss talking to my husband who is my best friend. i miss how we can talk abt anything dat happened during d day wen we go to bed at night without d discussion centering around our son. i just wanted mums to tell me if dis is normal and some people jumped into conclusion dat i am a psychopath.pls i am not suffering frm any form of depression. i love my boy and i cnt do anything dat will hurt him.
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