DOES ANYONE KNOW HOW WE CAN CONTACT THIS LADY?PLEASE EMAIL ME PHONE NUMBERS...this looks like a cry out for help.
''Stella. I want to bring your attention to one of your blog visitors, Kool Blend. She has a blog where she posts everyday without failure about troubles in her marriage but now it's been over a month and there has been no new post.
Someone reached out to her via email and she supposedly told her that her hubby has seized all her gadgets hence the reason for her absence. However, Kool Blend works so she must have access to the Internet at work at least.
We hope she's okay but the fact that she had been through physical violence in the past in her marriage and still being emotionally abused is a cause for concern. Stella, if you can follow this up, it will really be great. We are all women and we need to look out for each other. Thank you.
Hmmmm! Na wa ooo. Stella u and all dis ur marriage tales by moonlight....
ReplyDeleteMarriages diz days na by d grace of God ooh. Odiegwu! Pls who knows d kool blend, biko contact Stella oo
How can they have a healthy marriage when they live their lives on social network and believe everything they read online??
DeleteRead her blog sometime ago
DeleteFull of sad stories
I hope she's alright
Oh please shut up gorrila teeth!how dare you make fun of a sensitive issue as this?
DeleteThe Alex
Lol@gorilla teeth!
DeleteAleximoron that can't spell a kindergarten word...rele cracked me up wiv ur gorilla teeth Oo. Lmao! Is that rele all u cld come up wiv??? Anuofia ekwe nka!
DeleteKool blend, I recognise the name,haven't seen her on this blog for a long time now
ReplyDeleteHope she is ok.
I recognise the name as well; hope she's okay. Stella please follow up o. Eeyah.
DeleteClick my name for all your celebration cakes n cupcakes, cheers
Yea..I remember that name "Kool Bend"...na wah ohh,hope she is alright...
ReplyDeleteThis Domestic violence is really getting out of time...
I keep thanking God for giving me a wonderful husband...
Remembered dat name kool blend is being a y I saw her on d blog...God please keep her safe.Amen.
DeleteLinda,its becoming too much cos women are not walking out of the abusive marriages!everyone wants to remain a Mrs so they can be harassing and abusing single ladies like it's a crime to be single!God never stamped marriage a ticket to heaven,so wtf is happening lately.
DeleteI thank God for my hubby sha,but the day he changes,i change too.,#no time
Akuku ifo @ Linda Eze. Wonderful husband indeed!!! Stop deceiving ur self jor.
DeleteStfu@linda eze, wonderful husband to his own detriment cos the last time we chatted, his narrated how crude life has been for him having a whore as a wife.
DeleteAm sure with you, your husband will have no difficulty defining HELL FIRE. Your escapades especially your jazz have bullied him into silence which retorted into him having a bad breathe(mouth odour)
DeleteUye,go and die!!...I will not give you that attention that you crave...you wan use me and shine abi?...fuck off my comment...idiot..and Yes,I have a wonderful hubby and a sweet home..deal with it..
DeleteStop displaying your stupidity here @ that Enugu babe...you are a useless maggot...you chatted with who??LMAO...there's absolutely nothing I won't see in this blog...
DeleteWhy don't you open my nyash if you claim to know me well...infact,if you can answer this questions correctly,I swear,I will dash you 50k...
What's my native name and my surname before I got married???
Where in the east am I from and the town???
What is the name of my husband you claimed you chatted with??
Mention any of my siblings name??...
Where does my parents stay??
What type of biz do I do??
You are a pathetic fool if you can't answer this questions and am done replying your miserable HIV infected life....you want to use me to get popular in this blog okwia,it won't work coz am done with you....
Choi,see qiuz untop SDK blog!!starin,U tink U Knw Linda eze*GrabsChair*.that enugu babe aka Sdk bouncer,oruo na omume.come and clear ur name or forever remain silence.since linda opened ur nyash,u hv nt been ur self.u don humble finish.always prayin..stop makin up stories abt her,mayb d tin dey give u sleepless nites..heheheh.I have been followin this una beef and linda is winning.hope u hv treated ur STD.linda,am 1 of ur biggest fan.I love u die!!ur comments cracks me up.stop replying those idiots meen,u rock
Delete*on
DeleteAnon10:28,my head go burst ohh...*fans self...thanks sweety,*muah*
DeleteHa! I hope she's ok. I remember her, but it's been ages sincew I saw a post from her here. God please! Marriage!
ReplyDeleteYea thanks whoever brought this to stella's attention. I'm scared her idiot of a husband has done something terrible. I'm really really worried about her. My prayer is the God keeps her.
DeleteIts really been a long time she posted here.
DeleteI hope she is ok.
*what women go through, only God knows.
Stella, I stumbled upon kool bend from ur blog and followed her story from inception. She's a drama queen who contradicts herself with lies, maybe to kill boredom or marriage pains. She most likely got married immaturely but has parents and siblings who can help her. She plays stupid sometimes, not as if she sounds it. I've personally and privately discussed with her before.
ReplyDeleteI don't think she's in big trouble, but as a stubborn person which she sounds like, she's probably up to some game
A plot 2 advertise her blog simple
DeleteTorr
DeleteOk. Perhaps she sent this SoS to Stella to get attention again abi?
DeleteOh No! I recall the name here. she comments frequently but has been MIA for a while.
ReplyDeletewow wow! I hope she is ok. oh dear!
hmm.. this thing called marriage! some rosy some woeful.
Heh! Na wa o! U sure say I go marry so. Cos me I no get power to fight o! But I piry the man wey go blow breeze for my face talk more of slap! One phone call, and he will be wiped off the surface of the earth. If my papa can die any body can die. Even sieze d woman fone!
ReplyDeleteWhere dat fool julit?
ReplyDeleteAre you always this stupid or are u making a special effort today? Calling you an idiot will b an insult to all the stupid people. Don't be ignorant all your life. Take a day off.
DeleteWhat is wrong with this chidinma??? Hopeless idiot!
DeleteLol@ Julit. Hahaha! That will put Chidinma in her place.
DeleteHey girl, I sincerely hope you aren't one of those fat girls in isolo? If you truly are this stupid, please please and please go under anonymous. A word is enough for people who claim to be as smart as you claim. Warmest regards.
DeleteGod into ur hands I commit DAT lady. Amen
ReplyDeleteKool bend hope you are ok where ever you are.
ReplyDeleteKool bend hope you are ok where ever you are.
ReplyDeleteI remember that name 'kool bend',marriage is just grace of God not by any one's power,stella pls investigate for us let's know whatsup.it is well
ReplyDeletewhat kind of man makes his wife write dis about their marriage life "Honestly these days I've even started
ReplyDeleteholding my breath whenever everything is fine between us, in anticipation of the problem
waiting in front. I have tried my best to avoid
having issues with him but it's just not to be, I've
given up, whatever wants to happen, fine! Let it
happen!"
Copied from her blog
Writing can be therapeutic,maybe that is where she release her stress and struggle and if she decide to use her blog for that it is ok
Deleteoga mike is one crazy fellow, over possessive and jealous fool
ReplyDeleteHe sounds like an introvert, dats how they act. They get bullied by their colleagues or mate, and turn d aggression on their cool, loving wives
Hmmm..
ReplyDeleteANGELRAY SAYS
ReplyDeleteNa wao,single girls are dying to marry, while the married once are running to stella for help. God wat do i do.
Give ur life to christ.
DeleteJesus!
ReplyDeleteI hope she is fine o.
Mothers let's train our sons to grow into the kind of men we would love our precious daughters to marry.
This DV issue is really getting out of hand. This goes to show a lot of our men were not properly brought up.
We spend so much time grooming our daughters for marriage right from a tender age, why can't we do same for our sons?
We need to also start teaching our sons the correct values from a tender age. They need to learn how to be good leaders,good husbands and fathers...
So that our daughters will enjoy their marriages when the time comes.
I remember kool bend. Aww I hope she is okay sha. Dem never born that man that will seized my phone or my means of communication in this life. Women need to be smart in marriage. Dont love blindly.
ReplyDeleteCeeCee
What will you do when it happens? You better pray not to meet a terrible man that would mke your life a living hell.
DeleteNa ur type they fall for them we have seen it before, u people come here to boost when is happening under ur noise pls spare us ur grammer.
DeleteThanks, Stella for putting up this post. God bless you
ReplyDeletewell may be she is in a happy place in her relationship now perhaps thats why she doesn't have the need to keep posting about it any more .
ReplyDeletePls is there any one who has given birth with one ovary in d house? Pls am in a dieing mode ungently need your advice pls. Been married for seven yrs without a child, we hav gone thru all sort of treatment and hav be certified okay Docs said having one ovary dos nt mata dat it nt a problem. I had ovarian ciyst operation ten yrs ago and hav neva miss my period since then. Pls help me my marriage is hanging by d thread bcos evry one now blame me saying it my fault bcos of d one ovary dat I should leave my husband to marry another woman so dat he can hav children bcos his nt getting any younger. Pls what should I do? Pls dot ignore I beg u, u meant be saving a life. Madam stella pls post. THANK YOU.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, my very close friend had two children, with only one ovary. She had ovarian cyst and one of the ovaries had to be removed. Though her first child came after four years of marriage. You will have children. Hang on to your faith. God bless you.
DeleteMadam calm down and put your trust in God, my friend is currently pregnant, after 12years of marriage.
DeleteWhat about IVF? That is if you can afford it, well if you can't, pray to God's for a Miracle.
DeleteYes, a good friend of mine gave birth with one ovary; another one has given birth twice with one ovary; and I have been having my children with a multi -fibroid womb.
DeleteYou can have as many children as u want with only one ovary! God is able to do it , ok.
Have u tried ivf?
DeleteAbsolutely possible dear. It's just that most women have a dominant ovary that ovulates more. But as u've lost one, even if it was the dominant one, the other should take over, all things being equal. Have u spoken to ur doctor about medication to stimulation ovulation? Try that. I wish you all the best.
DeleteMadam Pls relax. V u ever tot about u not being d cause? It might b ur hubby. Dat was how my useless husband went around saying since after our first child I vn't been able to take in. Meanwhile we don't v intercourse n he said to wait cos he was ving financial troubles. He forgot all dat. N me how I wan take tell people im no dey sleep with me? At d risk of sounding boastful, am beautiful n young. 27 June dis year. Finally had my second last year with almost four years gap after timing intercourse n some months he just picks quarrels to avoid sex. I love sex but d guy attitude Don make me hate sex with am. I no dey smell o. We v separate rooms, his decision not mine. I wonder if he's gay or an occultist.
DeleteI tire,hate d guy sha. I dey plan my exit route
*stimulate ovulation, I meant!
DeleteStella please don't give that woman audience again, her stories re very fake...
ReplyDeleteShe is fine, nothing happened to her, Internet no dey her office, abi she no dey work again...
Hello Stella, please this is kool Blend, I just wanted to let you know that I'm okay, please help me to put my sisters minds at rest, i just can't respond under my own name cos the new phone i bought is having issues and i haven't gotten any reliable gadget yet. Tell them all is well and they will be hearing from me soon enough, thanks i appreciate all the help and also everyone's looking out for me. Thanks a million KB.
ReplyDeleteGreat to know you are okay, KB. May God continue to be with you
DeleteWe don't believe this is Kool blend, for all we know, this might be her husband trying to allay our fears after harming her.....We ask for "Living Proof"!!!!!!!!!!.....until we get it, we shall regard her as MIA you hear? Mr. Impersonator.
DeleteY cant u put ur sister's mind at rest by ursef madam?
DeleteWat's happenly.
Mayb u shld speak to stella directly n privately.
Best wishes!
Anon 2:34 , don't go and marry and mind your business. Keep on poking your noses in other pple's affair. Its women like you that refuses to get married yet urging the married ones to leave their homes. Go to her house and find out if she's ok, you jobless thing.
DeleteKool blend always signs off wit #onelove. Jus saying.....
DeletePink shell you are a stupid girl! Stop constituting nuisance on this blog. You can't spell simple words correctly yet you make noise and very irritating comments. Get a life you dirty pig!
Delete@ KB, I hope you are not an imposter o or the horseband trying to deflect genuine concern.
ReplyDeleteWhy haven't you update your blog in recent times?
Creepy.
ReplyDeleteAnon 1:19pm it is well luv
ReplyDeleteHd d same experience as urs, hd 1 of my ovaries removed but 2 d glory of God, I've 2 lovely princesses. U wud conceive b carry ur pregnancy 2 term IJN. Amen
hello.my cousin had ectopic pregnancy years ago and had the right ovary removed.she had a daughter the following year and has not been pregnant since then.
ReplyDeleteso yes its possible to get pregnant with 1 ovary.she cant get pregnant again because of reasons only God knows.she has done at least 20 abortions that she told me about and i am sure she kept some to herself. Sigh
May God help you and give you children soonest.Amen
Holy major shitballs. 20 what?
DeleteDear Anon 1:19, you can have a child with one ovary. Do not give up hope. However to facilitate things, you can see a fertility specialist. Gluck.
ReplyDeleteI've been reading Kool Blend blog as well. Sounds like fiction. But who knows........she may really be hurting.
ReplyDeleteGod be with you all
Oyibo
I pray God hlps her. EVE E UME
ReplyDeleteHuuummnn....in short I tire!
ReplyDeleteOk God is in control
ReplyDeleteI follow her stories on her blog and I noticed she's been inactive for over a month. Really hope she's ok.
ReplyDeleteWhy Do Women Stay In Abusive Relationships?- click my name to read more and share your views.
Kool bend always signs off wiv #onelove.just saying
ReplyDeletefor all you saying kb is lying u can only say dat cause u don't knw wat she is going thru. reading her story reminds me of my ex. we were to get married but i had to break up d relationship cause he was exactly like mike. he always accused me of sleeping with everybody and he used to abuse me a lot. i always had to be d one saying sorry to making things rite. i went for a church programme and datts when i made to decision to end it all. if we are not married and he is acting like dis wat would happen when we marry.
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