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Are some people born lucky and favoured than others ?
Are there people who never get positive results no matter how hard they try,whereas others don't even need to scratch the surface before they get results?
Is there any truth in the proverbial Midas touch? do you have it?
My cousin and I were just discussing someone we know that has tried everything but never reaps the reward.
He has helped people fill forms and taught them how to apply for studies abroad,many have gone and come back and he didn't succeed inspite of meeting all the requirements.
He got a job one time and the day he was to resume,he was told the employment had been cancelled.
he goes From one problem to another and has even contemplated suicide.
Are there people born unlucky?
Are there people born lucky?
I know someone who turns everything he touches to gold....I am also one of such people.
When this happens,there is no explanation for it,just like the unlucky ones cannot explain why they are unlucky...
Do you have a lucky/unlucky story to tell?
Noting like lucky or not, Stella, them don tie that one kpatakpata! Head to SCOAN or MFM for special deliverance.
ReplyDeletePepper knows all
There's never been a doubt in my mind as to the power of God, His love faithfulness and mercy. He can do it, nd definitely He will do it. His timing is different from ours and that's what I av issues with! Right now I am broken, I don't even understand anymore. All I feel right now is humiliation, is it wrong to love? Is it wrong to trust? Is it wrong to want to marry? Is it wrong to want to be loved? If its not wrong why do I keep experiencing this humiliation called rejection? I have checked myself, fast, prayed and I have been prayed for, yet NOTHING! Even when I thought its over, that was when the most humiliating and painful of it all happened. Its said that God will not give us something we can't handle, is it because I can handle this? God can see my heart now, I can't handle it anymore. Because right now all I feel is rejection from God too. I won't be an ingrate and say He hasn't been good to me because He has been. I have a job even if the pay is small but at least its something I have a roof over my head even if its not my desired place. But in all, I just feel I'm far below where I'm suppose to be coupled with been single at this age. I'm not perfect in all but I'm sure I'm not the worst being. So why? I know that I'm not suppose to grumble or murmur but it just baffles me!!!! There is a God! He can do all things, He is d one I have been calling on, He answers all but just this one, marriage!!!. Hmmn God of heaven and earth, again I am not in doubt of ur power but I just want what u av promised me as ur daughter so that this feeling of been let down by my creator can go.
DeleteJust tired! Just tired. Its like living in splendor yet eating like a pauper. How can I belong to God and a force somewhere will still av d gut to seat on my entitlement as a child of God! Remember Lord God, you said you will set the solitary in family! Pls remember all the single ladies who genuinely desire to be in their husband's house, pls help us to find fulfillment so that we won't be broken and unfulfilled. Amen
I just want a change for the better!
DeletePepper don talk am finish!
DeleteMy dear I can't imagine what u ar going through right now but please don't give up on God. He has a plan for u, a very perfect plan and dat plan must be fulfilled no matter how long it takes. Just hold on to Him and his promises. He is giving u time to prepare urself for ur husband. Don't worry it will happen for u. Amen.
DeleteAnonymous 1; 15, let me tell you something. if i can be married today to a very good man of my dream after all the disappointment that i've faced when i was searching for a man to call my own then i believe GOD ALMIGHTY that does not sleep nor slumber will locate you wherever you and bless you with good man in JESUS name. AMEN
DeleteAnon 4:11pm,Amen!! The prayer is 4 me 2. All things worketh 2gether 4 my good cus I love God. God is able to do exceedingly aboundantly above all I ask for acording to the power that worketh in me. Just turned 24 this april. There is not such thing as curse or bad luck when ur in christ cus sometimes we r the architect of our calamity. Some people think nehatively and say negative things. If ur in christ my dear no bad luck. N God's time is the best.
DeleteI just met the most handsome guy I've ever dated on my bday *smiles but e aint got a job but doing of business. Saw my dp and told my friend that he wanted my pin and we have been chatting. I know by this time next year it will sing a greater praise song than I am.
Did I tell u, I had terrible relationships in the past. Just ended one the week b4 my bday. But one thing I made sure I didn't do I sleep with the men. I've been celibate 4 ages now.
I have everything on a platter of gold. I use joseph as an exampls the journey will not b easy but be worthwhile as long as I am in christ.
Lucky me,I have it all.
ReplyDeleteLovely skin,nice long hair/nails
Beautiful accent
Made in heaven family
And even a white dog that never barks.
That's my story.
From glory to glory!!
U make me laugh M-amie. We thank God for u though.
DeleteAs for me I am a special child that one I am sure of, God leads my way nd I humbly follow.
DeleteM-amie madame',a dog dat never barks?lol!then it's no more a dog now,dats a goat.
DeleteLol. Mamie of life. Thank God for u.
DeleteI am de apple of God's eyes. And its either am Favoured or am Favoured. God has been faithful and I Thank Him.
DeleteWhao @ mamie...y r mine not suprised at ur shallowness? So that's ur own definition of having it all....thank God for u ..(Aspire for more)
DeleteWhen has having a good accent become an achievement! Your ignorance and lack of exposure should be a cause to worry about. You live an imaginary life of LIES..sorry for you Mamie
DeleteM- amie,you live a fairy tales life, a complete fantasy lol.I pity you.
DeleteI am a very lucky girl but I always dnt get what I want not because am unlucky but because God knws what's best for me, in every situation I say ALhamdulillah cos God has been good to me. Plz smell d humour and live mamie alone. Preachers
DeleteI am a very lucky girl but I always dnt get what I want not because am unlucky but because God knws what's best for me, in every situation I say ALhamdulillah cos God has been good to me. Plz smell d humour and live mamie alone. Preachers
DeleteNobody is born unlucky. Let your cousin go for deliverance, something is wrong somewhere.....don't care what anybody says, I am born again and with all my years of walking with God I know that demonic oppression exist......ancestral curses also affect some people cos your parents or grandparents might have made a covenant in one area or the other......certain unconfessed sins also put some people in certain types of bondage.....while not all problems are demonic it is not possible for person who has a personal relationship with God to not make progress in life....God is not stagnant , while he does not guarantee you a trouble free life he will not allow you go from one bad luck to another like that.......let your cousin go to God and surrender his life to him, he will make a way for him
ReplyDeleteI am a living testimony....I have never experienced failure before....I keep thanking God everyday for his faithfulness towards me upon all my iniquities,he keep blessing me....my biz is growing rapidly,I have never been admitted to the hospital except during child birth...I have the best family ever....what more can I ask for???...thank you lord Jesus!!..may your name be exalted...
ReplyDeleteWhat biz? I want to start one, but don't know what to do
DeleteYeah some people are that way; born lucky/unlucky. Its written in their stars from birth I believe while many more are just operating under curses.
ReplyDeleteGbam! Evrybdy's star s diff,same wif our lvl of grace. EVE E UME
DeleteI was born not only born lucky, I ve been highly favoured
ReplyDeleteThere were days I went to bed hungry but d dreams I had compensated every bad day I had, like chasing us away from sch for non payment of fees etc etc.
My mother has always dotted on me always calling me Ezewanyi and reciting some eulogies
Anyway, fast forward to my 13yrs, suitors had been coming for me as some of my friends had already gotten married, but my mom always goes to check and ends up rejecting them untill my hubby came along
I didn't really know how fortunate I was, I was neither happy nor sad infact I wasn't aware of so many happenings around me but I knew that I was an important personality in my town.
I rebelled against anything and anyone, I was so ungrateful, insatiable I always wanted things to go my way.I started looking for answers cos I wanted to understand , most newly married in my estate were my mates but I had eight kids who were grown ups,cos prior to that all my friends were mama dem just that whenever I go out with then people always mistaken think am their daughter, till they stopped hanging out with cos I was spoiling their market.
My eldest daughter who is married and expecting her first child introduced me to bella naija blog, but d blog was too boring, then I found my way to wc but d women there were so boring and sanctimonious and I rebelled and changed d status quo in no time till d administration of d blog started doing partial then I left and came here .........
I ve learnt so much here, so much, I learnt to be faithful, loyal and above all to be grateful cos while I was always rebelling my hubby held d home front, gave my kids d best care both morally and otherwise cos if he had left them under my care they would ve been messed up.most times I see my hubby with tears in his eyes and it gave me great joy cos I thought I was winning unknown to me that d tears were for me but these days I see him with a permanent grin on his face prolly thanking God how everything turned out well.
Yes I am indeed lucky and blessed cos my daughter taught me how to read and write and her wish Is that I will start going to church.
Too long, no vex.I will be doing this fro time to time cos I feel so light right now.
Hahahahahahaahaa....Ezenwanyi 1 of Igbo land....the beautiful beautiful,the richest....the ukwu sugar her self....ekene kwam gi...kene ihe na agara gi ozi...I thought you said earlier that your children are 10 in number??....LMAO....
DeleteLying confused bitch.
DeleteHahahahahaha ezewanyi! I remember you from WC, you are nut case mbok. You annoyingly make me laugh out loud most times.
DeleteI have been effortlessly blessed by my God and I will forever remain grateful to Him alone
Linda when has she ever said they were 10 as long as I can remember even from wives connection she has aleays said they were 8.
DeleteNash,Linda,she always says she has 8kids.. I haven't come across where she stated otherwise
DeleteOur own Ezenwanyi. I respect u biko. Remain blessed.
DeleteEzewanyi, your story brought tears to my eyes
DeleteBella Naija is boring ? Lol of course, it has to be for you, considering how shallow and reckless you are.
DeleteI'm sure those prose, headlines and English they use is way past your IQ.
Ezewanyi 1 of the whole world
DeleteTomato jos, ukwu sugar.Aunty Eya just put to bed, a bbb I hope you will there one of these days
Sdk, you are going places with your blog and God will keep taking you higher.
I have never seen someone as funny as Ezewanyi in my life, u see honesty in your comments and I have noticed your rebellious nature but am very happy you are working on it.
DeleteI love from the bottom from my heart
Ezewanyi iburube
DeleteOkala mmadu Okala mmuo
D most beautiful beautiful
Tomato jos
nwanyi diamond
Udu ego
Udu bunch
Okasimalu
Anamanu 1 of Igbo land, the one n only uwku sugar. Ur writeup almost made me cry now but I just remember I vnt eaten so no strength. I Luv u small
Ezewanyi iburube
DeleteOkala mmadu Okala mmuo
D most beautiful beautiful
Tomato jos
nwanyi diamond
Udu ego
Udu bunch
Okasimalu
Anamanu 1 of Igbo land, the one n only uwku sugar. Ur writeup almost made me cry now but I just remember I vnt eaten so no strength. I Luv u small
Am Not Lucky. Am Blessed!!! Jesus I will live all my life thanking you.
DeleteYour story brought tears to my eyes.13 yrs? Omg! It is well with you.this child marriage is not only a northern thing.I am so happy it turned out well for you
DeleteEzewanyi gbu ru ozu..
DeleteI think am one if the lucky ones cos most times, I do some stuffs and it turns out well,I myself will wonder how the hell that happened.... I think has smthn to do about ones star and all....some are closer to d moon while some to d sun,some are faraway from both, just thr I ll say....
ReplyDeleteI luv this ezewanyi. Honestly wicked!
DeleteNobody's born to b a loser... even d Bible say His plans towards us are for good so whoever is going thru a difficult phase, it's either AYE is involved or its a temptation and d end thereof will b blessed
ReplyDeleteTrue...everybody is a born winner!
DeleteU didn't read about jabez then?
DeleteBorn to win,born to reign in life,I'm no ordinary person,I'm destined for greatness!!!
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing like luck or no luck, I believe so much in prayers,assin prayers and God is so merciful and kind.why I thnk some people progress more than some or faster than some is simple prayer,I have noticed that parents especially mothers who take time to pray for their children,assin serious prayer for their children tend to progress even when the children are no big deal cos personally I have noticed that if I should do anytyn my parents are not in support of it doesn't just work out dnt know,all Ill say is dt mother should start praying for their kids even right from the womb,if you arnt progressing the way you should pray for unmerited favor,tell your parents to pray for you if you are an ophan,ask God to have mercy on you. In my life I have always believe one thing that everything works out for my Good,even if it was bad initially but it always end up for my Good.
ReplyDeleteI was born lucky. I have been highly favored by the most high God. My God had never failed nor disappointed me. He has never failed to fulfill his promises in my life.. He makes the unavailable available for me. He clears my path. I am a testimony... Whatever I want,all I need do is ask my Lord and he provides... He has oiled my hands with his anointing that whatever I do,works out for my good.
ReplyDeleteThere is something I realised early in life, your belief works for you, I come.from a.family people used to say is cursed but for me even though it was rocky at first I chose to believe am favoured and approached life that way.
ReplyDeleteI got to know Christ and that.made me bolder, I dont believe any witch or person can determine my course in life when my lips are not locked. Nobody is born unlucky, just ignorant. Open your mouth and speak what u want to see and keep.speaking until it happens. You no dey watchby yoruba films, if they have so much confidence to speak under the influence of their demon powers and see result then we that ve Jesus have better advantage.
i am so lucky as well....
ReplyDeleteONLY MATURE MINDS SHOULD CLICK HERE!!!
Some were born unlucky(jabez as case study)
ReplyDeleteSome were born blessed (Joseph,Solomon,David) above all we were all born to proclaim God's glory.
The children of sorrow only have to connect to their Creator while the blessed ones never stray from him.
It is God's desire that we live like kings but the devil keeps testing n plotting.(Job as a case study)
@ anonymous 1.15pm, please to not loose hope, I am also in your situation and was as depressed as you are some weeks back, it got to a point where my car broke down and I had to start jumping buses, it was then I started noticing my environment, seeing people who could hardly afford to pay their bus fares, I got to seat next to a neat,well dressed blind man, my dear, I dried up my tears and started counting my blessings. I know the wait can be really harrowing but I also know that there's nothing you can do change the situation besides pray, pray, pray and the Lord will surely crown all our efforts with the right husband who will wipe away all our tears and make u understand why you had to wait. He is indeed a faithful God.
ReplyDelete@ Naturelle IMOSE.I disagree with you.poeple excel more than others not cos of prayers but just one thing;GRACE.
ReplyDeleteGod s grace depicts d kindness by which God bestows favour even upon d ill deserving and grant sinners pardon of der offences
I agree with you,grace still involve praying to God,either praying for yourself or someone is praying for you.Grace revolves around prayer IMO
DeleteHmmm…I feel some people are unlucky in life while some are lucky ( that is how i feel in my head ) some people work soooooooo hard and yet have nothing to show for it! I DONT UNDERSTAND! Yet the day some are born they are already millionaires or billionaires..hmm..Let me just use one example, the latest addition to the royal family is already a super rich dude! You see what i mean?…hmmm..Is that fair when some people can't even feed 2 times a day? That is just one example..
ReplyDeleteLol,I call that grace
DeleteEven the bible says that as many as the isrealites are like the sand of the sea, whom I shall bless, I shall bless (bi awon omo isreali po bi iyarin okun, eniti emi yio sanu fun l'emi yio sanu fun). Which goes to show that we're not all equally favored by God. otherwise, God wouldn't refer to some people as 'my beloved', while remaining silent about others.
DeleteDear poster, the good book didn't promise us roses and peaches without thorns. "Though I walk thru d valley of the shadow of death...I shall fear no evil"..there will be tribulations and trials but God wud surely see us thru. God also wishes that we prosper even as our souls prospers. I'm a living testimony and I knw God isn't finished yet. Just hold on pls.
ReplyDeleteI agree wit u. Trials n tribulations r dere 2 keep us in check. I've always bin 1 of d best primary n sec so it was surprising that I cldnt secure an admission in2 Uni nobody wld hv believed so I kept lying. My dreams of becoming d youngest doctor in my town slowly elluded me but I'm thankful 4 those yrs cos I wld hv bin a proud person n neva regard any gud as God's doing. Fastforward 5yrs of staying @ home got adm. n came out among d best in my class. It was God's doing. Everybody kept saying I'll get a job in a blink of an eye, 2yrs now nothing but I thank God cos I know its only d best that will be mine. I've come 2 realise some of us r late bloomers but when we bloom others take d back seat (wit all sense of modesty). We r created different our hustles r different. Hold on 2 God never let d dream die. Do gud 2 all men in d end everything will work out.
DeleteI agree wit u. Trials n tribulations r dere 2 keep us in check. I've always bin 1 of d best primary n sec so it was surprising that I cldnt secure an admission in2 Uni nobody wld hv believed so I kept lying. My dreams of becoming d youngest doctor in my town slowly elluded me but I'm thankful 4 those yrs cos I wld hv bin a proud person n neva regard any gud as God's doing. Fastforward 5yrs of staying @ home got adm. n came out among d best in my class. It was God's doing. Everybody kept saying I'll get a job in a blink of an eye, 2yrs now nothing but I thank God cos I know its only d best that will be mine. I've come 2 realise some of us r late bloomers but when we bloom others take d back seat (wit all sense of modesty). We r created different our hustles r different. Hold on 2 God never let d dream die. Do gud 2 all men in d end everything will work out.
DeleteIt's a sure fact some pple are born more lucky than some,its noone's fault,God puts grace and favour and wealth upon whom he so wishes we cannot comprehend or question dat or even change dat.the funny thing abt this issue is that whoever is marked by God to have the midas touch',no matter their sins and wrong doing,it still happens for them??
ReplyDeleteFrom my childhood:my mum told me I was born lucky,till now!that when I was born was when things were best for my father,in my growing up yearss,its when she takes me out that something good will happen to her,and pple liked me and gave me gifts for no reason,grew up graduated with good scores,got a good paying job and a gud family all these within short period.yes I have been very lucky that some of my friends and siblings are feeling threatened unto:'is it only u'!infact a man of God once advised me to be careful of my friends cos they don't understand why mine should be different always.but what more can I say but 'no be God!I am so grateful to him,so Stella,yes some pple are more lucky than others...it is God's doing and it's marvellous in our sight!
We were all born lucky. Please house does anyone makes money from clickbank? Pls pls pls I need ur help. Help a sister
ReplyDeleteWhat is clickbank? Beware of scammers o
DeleteGod has never said when u serve him you will be free of troubles, sometimes you need to learn patience and wait for his time......self obsession is a sin, our lives are not all about us and what we want......cos you are not married now does it mean you should stop living? cos u are in a low point now does it mean God has abandoned you? work on yourself as u wait for the groom, serve others, if you are in church join a dept and serve....have i said there wont be times of discouragement? absolutely not, those times will come but you need to keep pressing on believing God will work out all together for your good.....joseph was sold into slavery, thrown in prison but he was still faithful till God delivered him. david was annointed king but did not sit on the throne till years later......get over yourself, begin to thank him for your husband...i have been trusting God for a child for 9 years now but all i do is thanksgiving.......he has heard our prayers and he is faithful to watch over his word to perform it.....when you have done all to do just be still and see the salvation of the lord......it is well
ReplyDeleteAwww, anon 2:27. I love your comment. I pray the Lord almighty grants you your heart desires soonest in Jesus name,Amen.
Delete#hugs
A million like *hugs*
DeleteThe God that made me pregnant after 3months of asking will do it for u, I love ur mind set and I know God loves it too. He will definitely do it for u. #hugssss
Deletelinda eze and ezewnayi you fake arsed bitches should stop bloody lying.....gosh una dey tire me........@mamie lol.....as for you we know say ur own case don pass mfm case...white dog that never barks indeed.....lmao
ReplyDeletePeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeter! Is everything ok?
DeleteLmao
DeletePlease readers HELP with advise. What do you do when you discover that u've been living a lie. Married to a liar who painted a picture of a good life saying he is the boss of his business meanwhile he just goes there to share the working space with friends whom he called his apprentice and I am just discovering this now that am married to him? A guy who told me that he left a prestigious University just to help hustle for his family when the chips were down meanwhile I just heard from his own family member that he never went to any school. He told me he has been paying our house rent meanwhile the landlord came to embarrass me some days back saying we owe 6 months. Lies everyday with different dI never signed up for this in my life. Even with all he brags about I find myself caring for the house alone since we married. When he cries to me to borrow him some cash to add and do business I lend him but never get it back. Do I have bad luck or what's happening to me? should I quit with our 2 yrs old daughter because the load is too heavy for me to bear. Am so unhappy
ReplyDeleteI think you should sit him down and explain to him that you know about all his lies and all you need from him is that he should leave his fantasy land/zone, face reality and make something good of himself
DeleteNa wah for your hubby anon 2:31. Why will he be lying to his wife? It doesn't make sense.
DeleteSomething is wrong somewhere.
I advice you to have a heart to heart talk with him. Don't shout or try to intimidate him please. Let him open up to you. He has to tell you the whole truth about everything he has lied about and his reasons for lying. I think he is suffering from inferiority complex. His lying to you is his way of trying to measure up to you. You have to make him understand that that's not how real marriages works.
Nothing like honesty and trust in marriage.
Please don't leave him. I know it's hard but try to hear him out first and make him understand how his lies has hurt you.
I pray he truely repents and starts hanging his cloths where his hands can reach.
Btw, you are not unlucky ok.
Shit happens.
Pls madam talk to ur hubby.. Make him understand what u r going thru..I'm just scared of d fact that he will still lie to u just to get u to stay! U deserve d best! Ur daughter deserves a good role model nt a lying father! Pls life is too short aii? Goodluck! @xclucivexter!
DeleteThe good book says:'when the foundation is destroyed,what can d righteous do,'!so ma'am ur marriage has been built on lies!and hmmm,its a very serious something o',cos that man has a lot more things he's hiding that the day u will find out,u will faint!
DeleteI really don't even know whatt to advice u!
I believe when it's time, it's time...when that moment comes, God just answers speedily and u tend to overtake the ones who took off before u.
ReplyDeleteTrue that!
DeleteIf d foundation is destroyed; wat can d righteous do? Some pple are victims of circumstance while others just get d bitter taste of life. By n large God is merciful. There's nothing too difficult for God. He's done it for me, He will do it for does who genuinely seek Him. Be anxious for nothing.
ReplyDeletewhether born lucky or unlucky, just be grateful to God for the gift of life and all you have and do not have.
ReplyDeletewith a clean heart, Gratitude transforms ordinary opportunities into blessings which translates you to being LUCKY!
I am grateful to God for everything I have today but I seem to be going round in circles...... no meaningful progress careerwise. Been married 8 years and not been pregnant once. 10 years in this land and nothing to show but endless debt.... Got my papers after 2 years, no job, prayed and fasted got a manual job, did that for 2 more years, prayed and fasted, skilled job came, limited to filing and photcopying at skilled job, no hope of career progress, attempt to make friends at work and u can see them visibly cringe, decide to stay on my own and they say I am too reserved... cant seem to get anything right... Lord, other people in the same situation seem to make better use of their skills... what am I doing wrong? Is asking to be trained at my skilled work if I dont know anything too much to ask? I have a degree oh lord and I hear testimonies of people who get offers and are trained on the job. Am I just whinging? I am grateful so far but I need help lord!!!
ReplyDeleteI'm grateful to God! Whatever it is we r going thru is just a phase and it will surely pass! I v had evrythg on a platter of gold, until I left work nd haven't gotten any yet for d past 9mths. However, I knw God hasn't forsaken or forgotten me, and I will laff last nd testify
ReplyDeleteAbout the woman commenting about his husband lies,hope u arnt talking about someone I know by name Edward cus if u ar,hmm madam is too early
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