There are real rape victims out there and this post is not to bring them down,however we must also realise that there are also people out there who are falsely being accused of rape everyday...that is the reason for this post.....please read and argue as you understand.
We always jump on the bandwagon to crucify alleged rapists but sometimes the story is different.........The burden of proof lies on both the rapist and the rapee.
''When a woman (or man) claims to have been raped, what is the best course of action to uphold? Should the accused be taken under arrest and assumed guilty until proven otherwise in a court of law? Or should the victim provide sufficient enough evidence to warrant the arrest before action is taken?
If we levy the burden on the victim, it will become harder for them to come forward or to even prove they had been raped (when they did).
If we levy the burden on the accused to prove his/her innocence, it will criminalize them, and essentially assassinate their entire character - deforming their chances of fitting in with their peers or obtaining work because of one false accusation''. culled
*This goes to show if the rapee does not have enough proof the rapist walks free and if the rapist is innocent and cannot prove that the rapee is lying then he pays for the crime.
Innocent until proven guilty?
Guilty until proven innocent?
At what point does sex end and rape begin?When NO is said right?
What if sex between two consenting adults is called rape and used as a payback? A lot of woman now use the word rape to settle scores.I just watched a case where the woman was jailed after it was discovered that she lied about being raped to get back at someone she willingly had sex with.
Rape is wrong and a very serious offence which everyone frowns at but my question now is...at what point does sex between two adults constitute to rape when it is over.
*This post focuses on rape between adults and not children please.Anyone who rapes a child is a beast and should do the time.....if the burden of proof favours the prosecution.
Rape is wrong and a very serious offence which everyone frowns at but my question now is...at what point does sex between two adults constitute to rape when it is over.
*This post focuses on rape between adults and not children please.Anyone who rapes a child is a beast and should do the time.....if the burden of proof favours the prosecution.
Only a woman can be raped as rape in d criminal code is defined as penetration without consent,so wen d woman says no, even at d peak of excitement d man should not comtinue.
ReplyDeleteWhen a woman is raped, if there isn't a witness to d rape,she shud go to a doctor who wud confirm she was just raped,he wud prepare a medical report which wud corroborate her story in instances where there are no witness.
Rape is a crime,therefore the burden of proof is on d prosecution,the rapee(victim) as stella would say,lolzz.
The rapists can be arrested by d police on complaint of d rapee,but he can be bailed pending the matter being taken to crt.
Some people are that evil that they can accuse someone falsely of rape but that's why rape should be proved beyond reasonable doubt as a crime,on the other hand if someone was actually raped and the person seeks timeous intervention at the police and hospital without fear or shame,i think justice can be meted against the rapist.
Was almost raped when I was 12....till 2day I can't explain the power dat gripped me, I fought, scratched him, bit him....he tore my shirt but didn't succed...he left afterwards, I still see him till 2day...neva told any1, not close to my mum @ all..she'll find a way to blame me...I thank God evryday 4 delivering me dat faithful day.
DeleteWhen I was in 100 level,I met a female classmate in d cab on my way home from skul one day n during our discussion she said 'lemm coman know ur place'...we were gistin n al of a sudden she kissed me.I no slack,na so we begin dey smooch up to d point dat she gave me bj..I was down to only my boxers n she was wearing only her panties..when I pulled out a condom she started saying NO.I struggled for a while den gave up after some time.she left me with crazy blue balls...2 days later she wanted to do d same stunt...na so I 'by-force' her o...she started holding me on emotional tips dat I raped her n stopped talkin to me.but how can a lady punish a guy dat much
ReplyDeleteDude u r a rapist. Go seek help. U can masturbate and relieve urself. Do you know how many women masturbate after sex? Because the man failed to satisfy her? No means no coming from a man or a woman. And yes a man can be raped. Women who blackmail their partners into having sex with them even when the man doesn't want it are rapists. Learn to walk away when you hear no.
DeleteYou raped that girl. When you knew she wasnt giviing in, you should have let her be or send her out of your house.
DeleteEhen? Daalu kwa o. Ekenekwa m gi. You "by force" her in other words raped her. She pulled the stunt once common sense didn't tell you she' d do so again so you allowed both of you to be in a situation where you will "by force" her. Oya clap for your dick
DeletePathetic rapist! So much for the supposed good upbringing u claimed to have! Omo Osu radarada!
DeleteWe've bn harbouring many delinquents on dis blog sha! I hope u dnt contact anybody on ds blog during d valentine hook-up.
DeleteAbeg I'm a woman and I dont blame you. How can a grow girl engage a guy in a sexual act, gives him a blow job and wldnt allow penetration. What exactly is sex cos left to me she already had sex with you the first time without penetration.Shes very stupid to say you raped her. She purposely seduced you and lured you into touching her.these are the type of girls tht wldnt let us know who the real rape victims are. mchewww
DeleteBitchplis, hope you know sdkers don't forget? This is why I pity Tony Ihekire and Adefunke Momodu aka phrinkies. She's deactivated her fb account sef.
DeleteIt's easy for u to judge me cos u r not a guy,u av no idea wat it's like to be led on dat much only to be denied @ d last minit...she made all d initial moves.I didn't take off any garment from her,she pulled her clothes by herself including her bra...I don't even feel bad about it cos I saved myself from been punished again .@ Anon 2.00 ose modupe
DeleteI forgot to add....she still stayed around for round 2 o. Na rape be dat?she just stopped talking to me cos she assumed I told my 2 friends in our class(no I didn't)
Deletebitchplis....the fact is u raped her bcos she said NO.....but the girl sef...was she intentionally "toying" with ur emotions??? cos i still cant understand why she had to lead u on to that extent and then back out at d last minute....but next time just find a way of relieving urself instead of "by - forcing"....
Deletebitchplis....the fact is u raped her bcos she said NO.....but the girl sef...was she intentionally "toying" with ur emotions??? cos i still cant understand why she had to lead u on to that extent and then back out at d last minute....but next time just find a way of relieving urself instead of "by - forcing"....
DeleteStella you really irritate me sometimes cos you are so hypocritical.... The post u made yesterday about that Yoruba musician did u not see where they said they took her to hospital and they confirmed she was raped? But you and some foolish females came here to talk rubbish and ask why she went to his house..... When u reason like that u r blaming the victim am allowing the rapist go free..... It does not matter if you sleep on the same bed if you ask someone for sex and they say no and u forcefully have sex that is rape..... Ple should be held accountable for that actions and realise that you must respect the rights of others.... While I agree that people should not put themselves in uncompromising situations we sometimes do things cos we expect the other party to behave but when thêy go beyond acceptable limits they should be held responsible and face the consequences.....women stop being judgemental of adult women who are raped.... You do the thing they have done but you were just lucky..... Men have to stop allowing emotions and lack of self control ruin them.... It is an insult to God who made men with brains, your dick does not control you..... He gave you a brain to do that
ReplyDeleteDnt mind stella..very biase woman...maybe d singer is her friend..medical report shows she was raped yet u are putting up these post..i used 2 like u 4 ur fite against domestic violence but these shows that even with all ur exposure your still a typical niaja person with ignorant mindset!!!
DeleteAnon 12:10 no matter how well brought you are the fact still remains dat the are others you will meet dat are animals, as such being dat you are lady you have to protect yourself. Dat man wanted to sleep with her & she went ahead to spend the night there. Why didn't she leave before it was dark? Rape is a very terrible form of abuse. Even if they like let them hang the rapist but the damage has already been done & that lady will take a long time to recover.
DeleteLadies don't tempt a man. If you want you don't want don't make him feel its a maybe. Some of these men were raised in prison.
Breezy
"If you don't want you don't want"
DeleteOh please spare us the sentiments. Call Stella a hypocrite all u want but to try a rapist in court, evidences will be crossed examined.
DeleteTherefore u sanctimonious hypocrites, would u tell the judge to pass a verdict of 'guilty' on the accused without fully scrutinising the circumstantial evidences, just because even if she was at the wrong place the dude shouldn't have touched her???
Because what u are accusing Stella and her readers for is the fact that we scrutinised the lady to the letter, and btw no one condoned the act. Rather the 'victim' was rebuked because it could have been avoided. We cannot be sentimentally passive because we as females are the weaker gender, we cannot cry wolf because we want to support out own even when it is obvious that she flunked the test. NO WAY lady. U cannot force us to a consensus without first being reasonable, ok?
What pple like u are doing is to encourage other females to put the power of the media and the compassionate justice for females to test. Of which some will start to use as leverage to settle scores, with perhaps an ex who dumped them for another lady. Scorned women will abuse this privilege if u do not castigate them. Some females will start to feel that since pple like u argue that u have a right to sleep in a man's house without succumbing to the pressure of sex, and therefore if he as much as touchs them they can get him arrested.
Everything as per this Obesere saga is fucking circumstantial. And as the title of the post here says, the burden of proof lies with the so called victim. U haven't even studied the case properly and u are already condemning our views based on the report that was published. We should be able to rebuke, castigate, and condemn any female who tries that thrash. What if she was killed? Would u say a murderer should not have a right to kill because someone slept in his house? What morals are u preaching? Any one who fucking sleeps in a stranger's house and gets raped should fucking live with it. I do not pity her. If I ever did such and I got raped, by all means do not pity me either. Cut the bull crap and let's be realistic for once.
And besides, Obesere is a celeb whether we like it or not...and this I think is the reason this lady is twisting what actually transpired btw them. Am I taking sides with him? No...but from the report she gave, nothing sounds right. Her identify is concealed, save for her name. But he is the one we all know. Have u stopped to think that this could be her plan abinitio? Leverage perhaps?
If she came to my court room I would have Obesere walk FREE. Yes...because she didn't go to his house under duress. She put herself in the environment. And besides, why is she saying this now when it happened a while back?? Abeg
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DeleteMore often than not it is usually difficult t prove rape n as such victims wud nt even want t speak out. And even wen dere r evidence(s), rapists r not usually made t face d full wrath of d law. God will vindicate d women folk.
ReplyDeleteMore often than not it is usually difficult t prove rape n as such victims wud nt even want t speak out. And even wen dere r evidence(s), rapists r not usually made t face d full wrath of d law.
ReplyDeleteInfact I was so disappoint with the casual way stella reported that rape case! Rape no matter the location is rape! So what if she was in his house? Does that give him the right to take advantage of her? So anybody who sleeps in my house becomes my property to do as I wish? The facts of this case are not yet available,until then there is a victim who has feelings we need to consider,this is a woman,even if she is a runs girl or a prostitute,even if she liked the obesere,the point is that she says she has been violated! If this story is true! Stella u should be at the fore front of ensuring that this man is brought to book! This is a part responsibility of the press! Are you not the watchdogs in the society?imagine referring to her privates as toh toh!
ReplyDeleteThank you oooo...i was soo shocked..stella ur a disgrace to motherhood..fucking two faced bitch...claiming to be fighting for women yet a rape case against your fellow celeb and u re down playing it..ignorant bitch
DeleteAnon 2:05pm.....all dis name calling was so uncalled for....u didnt even make any point whether reasonable or unreasonable.....u were just ranting all d way....na wa..
DeleteAnon 2:05pm.....all dis name calling was so uncalled for....u didnt even make any point whether reasonable or unreasonable.....u were just ranting all d way....na wa..
DeleteAnother bull crap from clueless females. I have addressed ur mental situation up there with ur colleagues. Pls refer to the manual. U prolly have personal issues with Stella. Otherwise, if u had a meaningful argument to tender, u would do so without being uncouth. U both sound sick and miserable. Dayummm
DeleteRape is a very serious crime against women! I am not sure I liked the way you carried dat obesere story. But let's watch and see....
ReplyDeleteEhmmmm...
ReplyDeleteClears throat!
If to say na me be president jonathan!
I for say ppl like bitchplz, other rapist and especially PAEDOPHILES shld be judged thus;
Look for a 'willing' GAY, dat wld rape d living day light out of them in prison.(Even though my father tinks it means am encouraging rape)
Bitchplz rape na rape, u get d tendency for body already, d gal do d 1st 1, u release am she go, wen she came back d 2nd time y ddnt u run?
If she had told u just b4 u forcefully had sex wit her, dat she had HIV wldnt ur dick av failed u?or wld u av still penetrated her?
Dis is my wish for u, dat a giant sized gay catch u for corner 1 day, n rape d hell outta u.
Pink shell for President!!! Lol
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DeleteAnony b very careful #StraightFace
Are u trying to make fun of me?
I hear u...I'l not find myself in dat situation again cos I no longer sleep with girls am not dating...most of dos loose girls bring badluck..
DeleteHave u ever given a guy u just met bj b4 while u r almost nude n watch him put on a condom?imagine urself in dat position n expect him not to do anytin...
DeleteShe didn't scream,punch,bite, scratch me o,she just bone face dey moan o..4 d 2nd round she was on top o,u still call dat a rape?abeggi
DeleteHave u ever given a guy u just met bj b4 while u r almost nude n watch him put on a condom?imagine urself in dat position n expect him not to do anytin...
DeleteI hear u...I'l not find myself in dat situation again cos I no longer sleep with girls am not dating...most of dos loose girls bring badluck..
DeleteNo be u carry ur hand write say,
DeleteU by force the babe.
D poor gal felt bad afterwards n statd running frm u.
Wu nos weda d moan wey u dey tlk na cry d babe dey cry.
Men! Dey don't no rite frm rong wen dia dick is hard!
bitchplis.....u make me laugh with ur analysis.....i think d babe had a crush on u but she didnt just know how to go about it......
DeleteJust like the first commenter said, the suspect is usually arrested, but is usually granted bail, pending the arraignment in court.
ReplyDeleteMy first case was a rape case and the woman then, was pregnant. Everybody was sympathetic, what kind of man would rape a pregnant woman? Well the evidence against the accused was very weak, I doubt she was even raped and if at all they had sex then it was consensual. Madam rapee claimed that she had bled everyday since the rape till she gave birth months later, I had to call an expert witness in court that disproved all she said. Long story short, she and her husband set my client up over land issues.
But to answer Stella's question, once somebody has said NO, once that person puts up resistance and you still use force (no matter how little) and go ahead, then you have raped.
you are disappointed with the way i reported the case?
ReplyDeletehow does a doctor prove that a rape has occurred?
A doc only establishes that sexual activity took place in a virgina he cannot call it rape unless it comes from the mouth of the woman.
I am supposed to call obesere an outright rapist?shouldnt a judge confirm that there was indeed rape before i carry it on my head?they are both adults,this isnt a case of a small child being violated you know.
When a judge hears both sides and gives his verdict that there was indeed a rape then the campaign against obesere will begin..for now he is an alleged rapist...ALLEGED and until the courts prove him guilty i will sit down and wait.
However if you so chose u can begin the campaign on your own i will join u later.
I AM TOTALLY AGAINST RAPE but one has to go softly when it concerns two adults locked together in a room.
Let the courts decide first abeg.
How come you are picking on me?i dont see any other website campaigning against obesere and calling him a rapist.if i start now it is the same u that will come and say i have a personal grudge against him..na wah oh!
Hahahaha Sterra Onu ugba *tongue out**
DeleteBtw,
I get ur point.
Stella the doctor can confirm that rape has occurred by looking for fresh tears on the vagina walls as that would indicate use of force to obtain sex
DeleteStella, people talk with emotions @ times...so, pls forgive them! Pls ladies, because they said rape ÈŠ̝̊̅§ rape, pls dnt put yourself I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ a compromising situation! People will just sympathize but u'll be d one †Î¦ relieve the pain and trauma! May God help us all
DeleteIn fact,na real wah!
DeleteCan't believe u re saying this,injuries in/around the vagina or body,a little scratch or any mark on the body to show resistance would inform the doctor in making a report.
DeleteStella no mind them abeg, our people are very good at taking sides without truely understanding the issue.I HAVE often told people " no be the first to go report for police makes a person innocent" What if the woman wanted the set the guy up.NOT EVERY WOMAN THAT CRIES VICTIM IS ONE. Some ladies a very wicked.
DeleteStella dont mind those people biko...they wan make u carry am for head...tomorrow they will say u are a bitter person...make una leave stella, afterall she wasnt there when it happened...and these are two adults..
DeleteStella obviously u are an uninformed wman living abroad.Doctors can tell if a rape has occured or not cos there wld b tear and bruises on vaginal wall cos d rape victim was obviously not lubricated bt was forced..kai common sense fa stella!Pls get an education and a conscience while at it
DeleteStella I am a doctor and so I can make statements of facts. A doctor can tell if forceful penetration has occurred by simply doing a vagina examination. Please adjust your thinking and stop insinuating that adults can't be raped. As a woman and a female journalist/gossiper it is your duty to defend through the press those women who can't stand up for themselves. Agreeing to go to a man's house does not give him the right to rape a woman. No means NO
DeleteYes a docmay be able to prove rape. But in Nigeria a report can be doctored by a doctor to suit his client abeg. Is it not Nigeria?? Let the court send her for another test independent of any influence, then we'll take it from there.
DeleteI know Stella will come under fire for this post. However, the truth is that a lot of women have cried foul when there was consensual sex that went wrong. Denying that fact is akin to being oblivious to the truth. In addition,such false alarms make it harder for true rape victims to find justice and sympathy for their genuine pain.
ReplyDeleteRape is not an act to be messed with. Few women should stop using it as a blackmail tool.
To men, NO means NO. Even if you enter and she says no immediately after entering, come out and stay out immediately.
God will butter ur agege bread jare. Exactly. It could be a false alarm.
DeleteYou are very right Stella.
ReplyDeleteIf saying No to sex is rape, then I ve been raped a lot. I don't know why some guys just assumed cos u visited them, then u must have sex with them. Am scared of even dating anyone again, cos after the sex I will just hate d guy. where are the good guys? I think I should just go join a monastery. I am tired.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm… same thing with me. There was a guy I was seeing at some point late last year. Hottest black guy in our uni. I thought he was different from the rest. One night qe were kissing as usual and then he started taking off my clothes and going down on me. I begged and pleaded with him to stop even though I was enjoying it at that point, but I wasnt ready for sex. Then he brought out his massive dick. That was wen I told him to get off me. He pinned me on the bed and whispered in my ear that he would stop. But I could feel him sliding into me. A small sob escaped from my mouth as I repeatedly said, "I told you no!". But he kept on raping me and moaning as I was stiff like a log on the bed with tears rolling down my cheeks. It was not a forceful or violent rape but nonetheless it was rape. He keeps sending me messages that he is always thinking about me but I know it is because he feels guilty.
DeleteI have been raped twice but this last one really struck a chord with me because I cared about him. :(
Stella read Sam's comment again. Then from your heart as a woman, look inwards and reevaluate your take on rape. The fact that adults are in the same room doesn't make it right. Our men need to learn
DeleteSam n Anon. I'm sorry about what happened to u guys. But the thing is that if u are not ready 2 have sex with a guy you should never go anywhere private with him. That's one thing I have learnt. I have never been raped..thank God..but everytime I have visited a guy for thr first time they always ask for sex. So I have just stopped visiting any guy @ all unless I know I'm ready 2 have sex with him. Right now 2 guys I like are on my case 2 visit them because we have been on several dates n they r tired of public cases. But I can't go because I know what will happen? What ifi turn them down n they lose it n try 2 rape me? U think I will have the mouth 2 talk? What was I doing in their house when I knew I wasn't ready 2 give it up? I'm sorry I sound like this but women have 2 use their heads. If stuff like this happen we r the ones that will be blamed so y put urself in such a situation? I am totally against rape. It is barbaric n inhumane. But we females shld do our part n make sure we are never in a situation that fosters rape or puts ideas in2 the guy's head.
DeleteSam I know what u mean. I also had this very cute guy in OAU back then. I was still in secondary school but I would visit the campus staff quarters to visit my uncle. So this guy and I met tru my cousins. We really liked each other but I was still a virgin. But every night he would come to take me to town etc. After which he would drop me back at home. We would kiss and all, but that was it. So on this day, we went to his house and started to kiss as usual. Then he tried to do the real thing but I refused. After a while he got tired and asked us to leave so he can drop me back home. He wasn't happy, I felt bad, but he didn't t force me.
DeleteLong after that I left Nigeria and he went about his life too. One time I visited Nigeria we saw again, this time I was no longer a virgin. We went on our usual date and we ended up at his...we had sex and it was bliss. ahahah...what I had always dreamed for years. I was ready and I enjoyed it.
So..why would anyone rape when the other person is not enjoying it?? Makes no damn sense
I do not support rape.....girls' do not place bone for the dog and expect it not to chew.guys' a rat avoids fish once its poisoned...never force any 1 against their will...
ReplyDeleteso you are looking for a good guy to say no to, right? I sorry for you.
ReplyDeleteSDK i love your response, that said i am a woman and will never support rape , RAPE IS A SERIOUS CRIME. Anonymous march 6 , 12:10 pm must also realise that some men get accused falsely, how will you feel if your son or husband is accused falsely? In Obisere's case we must wait until a judge say's he is guilty before we know our next line of action. Please don't come here and insult anybody.
ReplyDeleteI don't know if ds is normal but I fantasise about bn raped. I don't like gentle sex and I always coaxed my ex to av rough sex with me. Infact we used to do rape roleplay. Does anyone else feel the same way?
ReplyDeleteMe too mehnnnnn.....dnt fantasize about been raped by strangers shaaa
DeleteSomeone like u ehn, if an armed robber wants to rape u just allow him. Bet you'll like that.
DeleteI remember some years back; chased this lovely fair skin Igbo chick for almost 8 months. Almost lost my mind. just could'nt think of anything else. one day, she came to my one room home and i sweet talk her into having sex with me or so i thought. In the middle of it all,i was in eldorado, she just said "No, God! what am i doing" and she forcibly pushed me away. i tried to resist but she gave me this dead pan expression that chilled my blood. I just watched with pain as she put on her clothes and stormed out of my house. It took me another four months to get her to come to my house again and we did it. hehehehe.
ReplyDeleteJust never could pack enough punch, lasted only two minutes every time we did it because i was just satisfied looking at her. No wonder she abandoned me for a more matured guy. my lose!!!
One stupid bucther lured me to his room when I was very young. He threathend to tire my cloths if I don't take it off, the fear of pple hearing my screams and blaming me for going there like nigerians always do. I painfully and fearfully coperated. After 8 hoursd beast let let me go. Well I went naked and reported him to God in prayer and d basterd died a VERY horrible death not long after, so I feel justified. Its d first time I am sharing this story.
ReplyDeleteDear Stella,
ReplyDeleteDoctors are not stupid when they say that rape can be medically proven. medical test will show tears on the walls of the VAY and blood too.
whether i visit guy by night or day...NO MEANS NO!!!!
Rape is not an easy thing to overcome..it has ruined so many lives so please lets be sensitive when we talk about it.
Guys should avoid putting themselves in positions that will warrant even a mere suspicion of RAPE.
Ladies should be careful and avoid being found in dangerous situations as much as possible..the days of the good Samaritan is thousands of years past. dont go and start saying "but how could he"
Stella, i totally love your blog.. but please try to be partial and neutral when you report news. you can put your thoughts at the down end like you usually do( i love reading your thots at the end of each news/gossip)...but dont insert the tone into the body of the letter.
#justmytwopiece
anon doctor what are you talking about?when i was raped the doctor could find no trace of rape and said he could prove sexual inercourse had taken place so what are you talking about?
ReplyDeleteeven in none rape cases bruising takes place...what stella means is that how can you proof rough sex was rape?how can a doctor call it rape?he can only call it forceful entry,his certificate does not give him the right to use rape...she is right,only the rapee can say she was raped....
i wish i could have nailed the guy that raped me with evidence so pls stop generalising i too know doctor!!!!!!
I don't understand how you pple think...ow will u go and visit a man in d nite???btw wat wea u xpectin SDK to say????to agree dat yes obsere raped d lady???abeg take several sit behind and STFU!!#judasofourtime
ReplyDeleteRape is serious and sad. I do not understand women that seduce a guy and say I only wanted to go half way. In my mind I am thinking, you took off your clothes...yourself, you were smooching, etc and what did you expect it to lead to...handholding? Please let us also be real, do not carry yourself and be doing things with someone in an effort to just "taste small".
ReplyDeleteHowever, gentlemen when a woman says no. Biko, snap out of your haze and get off the lady. Or else, you have bought wahala. Also, be using your sense when these girls act too willing. Always think ahead. Na so dem dey set up these guys with no brain, acting like your down below rules your every waking moment. You are not dogs abeg.
@bitchplis, you realize you are just as loose as the girls you call loose. Only African men will be yabbing an ashewo that they just slept with. The irony ma sef is just mind buggling.
ReplyDeletechai! All these useless runs girls..una collect prick finish in peace begin shout rape..dnt evn undrstnd d whole fuss abt rape dis rape dt..ah ah?? Women jst get soo emotional abt d issue.. Btw, hw dyu even see dis scenario y'all are paintin..u went into a guy's house at night..lay on his bed, dere wz foreplay nd then on penetration u refuse..wht exactly dyu rily wnt to happen?? Anyway, dudes, d new style is 9 to 5..if she cums to ur haus..do it wt her then beg frm 9 to 5..hell! It myt jst be 100%consensual after
ReplyDeleteWhat Stella is trying to say here is that some people use 'rape' as a means to get back at the so called rapist. Some of the rape cases might be consented sex and when the relationship turns sour the victim which mostly are women use rape to get back at the guy. Also we tend to forget that even men can b raped. After all rape is a sexual assault involving two or more people without the person's consent. Don't b bias or judgemental but see it from both side; of being raped or wrongly accused of rape.
ReplyDeleteBullcrap, are u stella's attorney?lol Buh your writeup ehn! I bet you're a lawyer
ReplyDeleteAzinnnn ehn. I gbadun u bull crap o lolz
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