If they had known, maybe they would have asked government to forget its job so they could live together. This is part of the lamentation of Mr Austin Amu, the widower of Mrs Sandra Amun, who lost her life, Saturday, March 15, 2014, at the Samuel Ogbemudia Stadium Benin City, where the recruitment exercise of the Nigeria Immigration Service (NIS) took place.
Incidentally, Amun, from Uzebba, Owan West Local Government Council of Edo State, participated in the recruitment exercise with the deceased but survived the stampede. It was a pitiable sight when Sunday Vanguard visited the family’s residence in Benin City watching the husband of the deceased trying to administer medication on their last born, Favour, who was crying due to cough and catarrh.
Amun recalled that he and Sandra had woken up on the ill-fated day and had their bath together as they had always done in the past 10 years. They planned to get to the recruitment venue on time. They actually did but met an uncontrollable crowd at the stadium as thousands of applicants struggled to participate in the job test.
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Amun narrated his story: “ I applied for the job as a senior secondary school holder while my wife applied as a graduate because she finished from Auchi Polytechnic. On that day, while we were on queue, I could have been the victim because while I was in the crowd, I almost couldn’t breath. I told her we should go home.
But she said I shouldn’t worry, that I should find somewhere to relax while she will be at the stadium and monitor things and then get back to me. About 20 minutes later, her younger brother who also came to write the examination saw me and asked after his sister. I told him she was in the crowd. 30 minutes later, somebody shouted that a woman had died.
I didn’t know it was my wife. It was then they now went to open the big gates into the stadium. The first time, they were using the small gates; it was after the incident that they went to open the big gates, for people to enter the stadium.. I thought I was going to see her inside the stadium. I went round the place, I didn’t see her. Around 4 pm when we were about to write the test, I still had not seen her and I became more worried but the brother encouraged me to write the test saying maybe she was writing her own somewhere. After the test, I sat by the gates thinking while coming out I would see her. I waited till around 6.30 to 7 pm.
Later, thought maybe she would be in my viewing centre. I went there but didn’t see her, people came around to watch football, but because I had not seen my wife, I couldn’t open the shop. I locked the place and called her younger brother and my friend who has a vehicle. We went to the hospital where they rushed those injured during the test, to check if she was there; but they said they had discharged four people who sustained injuries.
They checked their names, my wife’s name was not there. They now said there was one woman who Immigration officials brought without a name and they used no name to book the woman’s corpse. I now requested to see the woman. Behold I saw my wife in the mortuary sleeping alone. I touched her, she could not touch me, I called her, she could not answer.
I tried to call her phone because I did not believe she was dead; but she did not pick. But somebody picked her phone on the ground and the person told me he couldn’t reach the owner until after the test, because of the crowd. It was the next day that the Civil Defence people that collected it brought it home.
“Since the incident nobody has called me from the Immigration Service. The only people that came to see me were from a human rights group based in Abuja. They asked how I felt and what happened. I told them the story. I don’t know where to start from. We had been together even before she went to Auchi Polytechnic, she went to the polytechnic from my house; she finished her studies before we started having kids.
She graduated in HND banking and finance seven years ago. The most senior child, a girl, Favour, is six years, Miracle, the second, is five and the last, Favour (male), is three years. I want assistance from government, let them give the children scholarship, give me and my brother-in-law jobs. My wife’s mother and grandmother are still alive; she is the first daughter of her family and I am the first son of my family too. This load is too much for me and I don’t know where to start.”
May her soul rest in peace and God keep her family.
ReplyDeleteOMG. Pls can I ask an honest question that has been puzzling my mind since this stampede incident. When u are in the crowd and people start to shove themselves, I imagine that each person will be pushing as they go along. So say a person falls down while trying to push, can't the person get up or push their way up again? Or am I not getting the pic right? I can't imagine staying on the ground and av pple crush me to death. Pls this I am asking honestly, before some mischievous pple will start to cuss me. I fail to understand what happened that day. Sad
DeleteThis is depressing. My God. What a waste.
DeleteI hope that her blood will not be in vain. Let's just say she died so that help can come their way. She's been made a sacrificial lamb by force, to perhaps pave way for the family. Hopefully the govt will make it worth her blood. Just Hopefully. Rip
DeleteDid anyone catch the line where he said they've been taking their shower together for 10 good years?? My God. Even without money they practiced love...death is a coward
DeleteWhich way Nigeria?
ReplyDeleteTragedy l'otun, l'osi!
#Baba d'ariji wa
Chai,may her soul rip. EVE E UME
Delete*tears*
ReplyDeleteJust the pic alone breaks my heart and then the worded content......
Oh God! This is sad and heart breaking.
May her soul rest in peace. Poor kids.
How would the husband cope now?
Sigh
*Tears*
Couldn't bring my self to finish the story. Had to stop halfway.
DeleteMay God grant him and his family the fortitude to bear the loss.
This brought tears to my eyes....may her soul RIP.....Stella,enough of this sad stories biko...
ReplyDeleteTearing up so bad .This is just too much. How many more deaths will occur before something is done?
DeleteRIP, Sandra
Ouch! Dis brought tears to my eyes. #sobs#
ReplyDeleteNna ehn!
ReplyDeleteThe kind poverty wey de dis country no be ere oo!
Hian... Na the whole family plus xtended go do test?
Oga, i doubt if govt wld compensate u.
Esp wen u av an 'ajala travel everywia' for a president.
How i wish jonathan cn just pick one aspect n improve on it,
if na education, do!(Edu is nt luxry)
If na electricity, do(so biz can improve)
If na economy, do
Just do smthg b4 u leave office abeg, ppl ar suffering.
Sensible comment.
DeleteDnt even knw what to say hian this is the story with most Nigerians it is a pity.thnk God for 2015 hope we dnt sell our future nd that of our children's for 2k naira, over religion and tribalism .Vote out GEJ and his cohort they havnt done anything they deserve to kicked out. Electricity is worse now hvnt had light for the past 5days. Nothing seems to be working just looting and looting. May God open our eyes in this country to see that the solutions we seek are in our hand
ReplyDeleteThe only reasonable word that has come out of your hand in a long while.
DeleteAh *faint*
DeleteReally Sad!!
ReplyDeletebut Mr Man, why allow your wife struggle on the queue while you were "resting"!! It was supposed to be the other way man!!
I pray for help to you cos of those Children!So young without a mom already!! May you find favor even in the unlikeliest places! Amen!
My thots exactly! Why allow ur wife struggle when U were there? seeing the crowd alone shld gv u. Double thots as per b/haram,stampid,just name it... Now u want govt to help!!! What make u think you won't get that money/job from govt $ marry wife nos 2 quoting from the bible tht "man shall not live by bread alone..." Mr man, I'm sorry u lost ur wife in the struggle for a better life but it was also your fault.#temmy#
DeleteOh pls. Wish him well and dont apportion any blame. Don't u think he feels that way already? It could have been anyone my dear. Ok what about those who also died, who would we blame for not queuing up instead of them? It is well
DeleteThis brought tears to my eyes. May her soul Rest in peace and may the good lord grant her family the fortitude to bear this loss
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace and God keep her family.
ReplyDeleteJust the pic alone breaks my heart and then the worded content......
Oh God! This is sad and heart breaking.
May her soul rest in peace. Poor kids.
How would the husband cope now?
Still cant believe this Mercy Johnson in husband snatching mess CLICK HERE TO READ DETAILS AND SEE PHOTOS
Kai! I'm so touched by this story. May her soul rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteCeeCee
I am just speechless,Baba God please take care of these children.
ReplyDeleteWhich way Nigeria? May God gv them d fortitude 2 bear d loss
ReplyDeleteOh God.
ReplyDeleteI feel for the innocent children.
Pls govt do something for this family so these kids won't suffer.
May her soul rest in peace, amen.
#tears
*Tears* Father lord console her family!
ReplyDelete#tears# I lack words t say anything, so sad! may God grant Mr Amun, his little kids n evry oda member of dia family d fortitude t bear d irreplaceable loss of Sandra Amun, may her soul rip.
ReplyDeleteEyaa...may her soul rest in peace...please immigration grant dis man his request..give him the job,his brother in law and another female in his family as president Goodluck Johnathan earlier promised...its well..may God comfort and console u...
ReplyDeleteCrazy naija! crazy pple!! LEARN HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR INCOME
ReplyDeleteNa wa o. Kai. Dis country ehn? Choi
ReplyDeleteSad sad sad, may her soul rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteSee poverty at its peak!
ReplyDeleteA man and wife without job or means of survival,i wonder how they have been surviving with 3kids!#tears in my eyes#
So pathetic,may her soul rest in peace.
Am in tears..this is saddening.may her soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteVery sad, may God provide him with the assistance he seeks to care for his kids; poor kids
ReplyDeleteHelp is on d way
ReplyDeleteI shed tears reading this, i sincerely thatbk God for my life and that of my loved ones. Being alive is Gods grace. See this wonderful family torn apart and they did not even see it coming. Man, God that took your wife would ver leave you. WHICH WAY NIGERIA?
ReplyDeleteNa wa 4 ds country called Nigeria!! What will happen if things are done the right way? They went to open d big gate when d deed has already been done!! Why wasn't d big gate opened initially? I tire 4 ds country. Life is not valued @all, u see people dying carelessly, ds is absurd, MAY GOD HAVE MERCY.
ReplyDeleteOh my God! This post is heart rending..... Can't stop crying...
ReplyDeletePoor woman! Died just like that??? Chai! Nigeria ndo nu!
Oh my God! This is just too much pain to bear! God pls save this country from our greedy leaders.
ReplyDeleteWhat else can be leant from
ReplyDeletethe statistics below ?
Nigerian Immigration
Recruitment:
Existing Vacancies: 4,000
Applicants:
(1) Abia - 23,500
(2) Adamawa -25,504
(3) Akwa Ibom - 18,750
(4) Anambra -15,990
(5) Bauchi - 27,850
(6) Bayelsa -16,888
(7) Benue - 10,623
(8) Borno - 9,852
(9) Cross River - 5,810
(10) Delta - 6,221
(11) Ebonyi - 14,852
(12) Edo - 19,531
(13) Ekiti - 22,851
(14) Enugu - 35,811
(15) FCT - 102,512
(16) Gombe - 32,653
(17) Imo - 31,623
(18) Jigawa - 25,621
(19) Kaduna - 26,661
(20) Kano - 18.812
(21) Katsina - 15,900
(22) Kebbi - 17,821
(23) Kogi - 13,213
(24) Kwara - 21,213
(25) Lagos - 81,852
(26) Nasarawa - 21,521
(27) Niger - 12,531
(28) Ogun - 32,590
(29) Ondo - 29,852
(30) Osun -31,111
(31) Oyo - 53,895
(32) Plateau - 23,123
(33) Rivers - 18,531
(34) Sokoto - 42,123
(35) Taraba - 32,121
(36) Yobe - 41,213
(37) Zamfara - 21,334
TOTAL = 1,254,959
N1,000.00 (Non-Refundable
Application Fees) multiply by
1,254,959 Applicants =
N1,254,959,000. 00 (One
billion, two hundred and
fifty-four million, nine
hundred and fifty-nine
thousand Naira).
White vest /shorts @ 5500
Multiplied by 1,254,959
= 6,902,274,500 (Six Billion, Nine hundred and two million, two hundred and seventy four thousand, five hundred naira only.
Therefore
N6,902,274,500: 00
+ N1,254,959,000: 00
™= N8,157,233,500: 00
(EIGHT BILLION,ONE HUNDREDi AND FIFTY-SEVEN MILLION, TWO HUNDRED & THIRTY-THREE THOUSAND, FIVE HUNDRED NAIRA ONLY)
Isn't this a world record JOB
SCAM?
See cash and fraud at the highest level. @uchyy thanks for the info. Even this figure will change the lives of the youths.
DeleteIndeed, it is.
DeleteU get strength oh. So u get time dey calculate d money dem eat. Na wa oh
DeleteKnowlegde is power. Kudos to you for putting this together. Everyone involved in this scam will surely experience what this man is going through right now. Thier wives will become widows and their husbands widowers. Their kids will become beggars. Ikoro lo ma gbeyin won.
DeleteOh my God! This is just too much pain to bear! God pls save this country from our greedy leaders.
ReplyDeleteOh my God! This post is heart rending..... Can't stop crying...
ReplyDeletePoor woman! Died just like that??? Chai! Nigeria ndo nu!
It don do naa.... na only dey here?
DeleteMay her soul RIP.. I can't just evn begin to imagine the pain d are goin through.. It is well with them. I think the woman has paid the price for all of them.. Better things shall come their way IJN, amen!
ReplyDeleteMay her soul RIP.. I can't just evn begin to imagine the pain d are goin through.. It is well with them. I think the woman has paid the price for all of them.. Better things shall come their way IJN, amen!
ReplyDeleteSmall Mrs
This is heart breaking!!!!
ReplyDeleteSir,the lord will provide for your family, and he will take care of your lovely children, they will not suffer;his blessings will rest on you and your family; this country is just becoming worse;God help us.
ReplyDeleteI cant believe i am shedding tears.......what a life,,,,i pity those kids,,,they are too young to loose their mum.....May God take care of dis kids and may the woman's soul RIP....
ReplyDeleteOmg! Lord please have mercy. Which way Nigeria?
ReplyDeleteHey God oh! which kind thing be this?
ReplyDeleteSo sad, this brought tears to my eyes, govt should assist this man and his family. What a price to pay for a job? If given a job as compensation it will continuously remind him of his dead wife, at all at all na im bad pass sha na so Stella waffi forefathers talk am,
ReplyDeletePls SDK can you do a post for biz owners to advertise. I have goods from the US and I need a platform like this, I will be in nigeria next week,..migwo help a sister.
This is heart rending.... Lord, have mercy
ReplyDeleteOluyomi Odukoya
I can't stop cryin.... god plz cum 2 our aid! (Nigerians)
ReplyDeleteToo sad a story...EEE!!!
ReplyDeleteHmmmm...na wa ooo
ReplyDeleteIts well and may God console and heed to ur desires as you have requested.
Nigeria is a useless country! So it shall remain.. I rather be in jail abroad than nigeria.
ReplyDeleteThis is depressing. May Allah SWT give u the fortitude to carry on. Poor kids...OMG!
ReplyDeleteI was reading this in the tram. I could not hold my tears. An old white woman came to me and asked me why i wad crying. I told her i was reading a sad story from my home
ReplyDeletecountry. I just cant stop weeping for my dear rich country each time i read stories like this.
Absolutely heartbreaking.
ReplyDeleteMAY HER SOUL RIP
ReplyDeleteSo sad and heart wrenching... My prayers to this family. God grant you the fortitude to bear this loss.Amen
ReplyDeleteIn tears...i wish i could help....may her soul RIP. "nurse yalo"
ReplyDeleteDear God save our country! This such a sad story, couldn't hold back the tears. May God console and comfort them, and may good come out of this tragedy for them. God pls keep those children.
ReplyDeleteRIP !
ReplyDeleteGod ll dry ur tears sir!
Lookin @ dese 3 cute kids, who ll
tell dem wat happned to their mum
Wat a use-less country!
Thought i was very strong as i read through this story until i gat to this line......"Behold I saw my wife in the mortuary sleeping alone. I touched her, she could not touch me, I called her, she could not answer". I cried my eyes out...... This is so very touching... Its well, that's all i can say for now... God will never Abandon you and your family that's one thing i know for sure....#Ogadimma
ReplyDeleteRip Mrs Anum#sobs
@i_ChoPtas_Not
Lord ve mercy. RIP to d dead
ReplyDeleteGod wil never abandon ur family & ur wife family,,He must surely for ur famiy!! So touching.
ReplyDeleteMay God send help to you and your kids.It is well.
ReplyDeleteThree children have been robbed of the love of a mother.....no amount of money can replace that.
ReplyDeleteWhy do women stay in abusive relationships....find out more on omalichaspeaks.blogspot.com
D part where he says only human rights pple've come 2 commiserate with him,tells u exactly how d ruling class views d masses
ReplyDeleteMr Austin Amun,this is a very sad story,only God almighty will console you and your family,however,pleeease Sir take very good care of these children, because when you are very okay now, that is when another woman will come and start maltreating those children.Remember always that, there mother sacrifice her life for you all.
ReplyDeleteDear Sisi Eko,
ReplyDeletein a stampede, when people push and shove and somebody falls,it is difficult and almost impossible for these people to fight their way and stand up because the crowd keeps moving and stepping on them. They die from people walking over them continously and from lack of air.
Oh I see. Thanks for this. I imagined it so, just that I find it hard to believe that when pple step on someone they can die. Now I get the suffocation but. Many tnx
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