This is a very sad story and i pray that every one involved forgives this beautiful young woman.....looking at the picture attached to her email,i dont know what she has been through or what she has done to cause this pain she is going through but i pray God in heaven guides her back and melts the heart of the man she calls Father..Happy Birthday ''L''.
Hi Aunty Stella and SDKers.
I should have sent this message before now but I couldn't bring myself to do it. Am ashamed of myself and am sure God will forgive me.
Today 2nd March is my 20th birthday. Everybody have been looking forward to it but sincerely I don't know where I stand. I have done some atrocities that has soiled my good name (thanks to my stubborn nature and influence of bad friends).
My father will not talk to me. As a matter of fact how I raised my school fees was a miracle. My friends have deserted me and I feel so alone in this world. I don't need anyone's sympathy because am reaping what I sowed.
But is it possible for me to pick up the pieces and start all over. Am really young and heart broken, am depressed, am hypertensive. I just want all SDKers to pray for me as my birthday gift that my father would forgive me and love, talk, cherish and correct me like he always does.
From a heart broken, depressed, evil and stubborn girl. (Please don't publish my name)
Frm ur lips to God's ears. Hapi bday
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Mtschew so wat exactly is she seeking forgiveness for wen she dint state? Attention seeker oshi since its just un God ur parents n friends go n seek forgivness wit them n stop bothering us here
ReplyDeleteU r so mean@ qurl next door. She must not state her crime b4 u pray 4her. Hbd poster n I pray ur father comes around soon. N yes u can start all over aqain.
Delete@ Girl next door - Virus Detected: u r too harsh, d poster needs ur prayers n not harsh words. Btw even if u knw wot she is seeking forgiveness for, do u hav d power t forgive? If u dnt want t b bothered by wot she wrote then u shudnt hav wasted som mins of ur time commenting on her post.
Delete@Virus, take ig easy please.
DeleteMadam poster what matters most is that you should seek the forgiveness of God. Other things will come easily.
@ girl next door,u re right but whatever it maybe. May she find the forgiveness she seeks.
DeleteHappy birthday. You can learn from the prodigal son, begging parents is pretty easy. He wont write you off but you need to do what is necessary.
ReplyDeleteGet on your knees and ask for his forgiveness.
you are cleansed and healed. God have heard ur prayers and have visited u. see yourself as a new creature.
ReplyDeleteSad story... God will touch ur father's heart n he'll love u again... happy birthday dearie
ReplyDeleteAll these adjectives for one person? Sigh
ReplyDelete#eyes rolling# hbd
ReplyDeleteIhekire Tony
ReplyDeleteWhy do people like dwelling on the negative side of life...??
I pray God forgives u ur evil ways.
Happy bday sweetie, God loves u sooooo much. Don't worry awld pray specially for u......I know its hard being all alone
ReplyDeleteHian...poster didn't tell us what happend...guess its adolescent and puberty dey worry you...its a stage and it shall come to pass.....time is coming when you will remember them and laugh....HBD and enjoy your youth....
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ReplyDeleteThis one serious o. Dear poster, u need to ask God for forgiveness of whatever sin u've committed. U also need to pray and fast for him to soften the heart of your father towards u and get ppeople he respects to beg on ur behalf.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday all the same, all the best
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Happy Birthday dear poster. The fact that you've voiced out your personality flaws means you're ready for GOD to rescue you. And HE will, but you have to be steadfast in your resolve to change. Pray vehemently, morning and night, and when you have nothing doing.
ReplyDeleteCut yourself off from negative friends; be aware that they will make fun of you when it happens and you'll be hurt. Be steadfast.
Try making your dad comely towards you by doing what he expects from you. A good father will be gladdened at a reasonable deed from his offspring that would make him forget the pains you caused him, hence drawing you closer to him. But even though his positive reaction to you is slow, don't relent. Be steadfast.
May GOD bless you this day and always, and grant you your heart desires.
Gbam u ve said it all. Happy birthday blog visitor L. God bless u richly.
DeleteHuni d bible said "for d living, there is hope" dat u're alive 2dai is definitely for a purpose, maybe God wants to save others through u, am happy dat u realized ur mistake, all u hav to do now is go to God with dat broken and contrite heart and I assure u, he'll transform you. I'll always pray for you and as for ur dad, d bible said dat the heart of kings are in d hands of God and like a river he stirs dem to any direction he pleases, so huni, d heart of ur dad is in God's hand and with ur prayer and d prayers of brethren, God will turn him towards you. HAPPYBIRTHDAY SWEETHEART. I love u, Jesus loves you more....hav a blast!!!and pls dnt use negative names to qualify urself u are a beautifully and wonderfully made daughter of Zion-KWYN
ReplyDeleteMorning dear.. I can kinda relate to wot ure going tru.. I was once a prodigal son..with prayers frm I mum and loved ones,.. I fought my bad habits and came tru.. I would definately keep u in my prayers.. Dnt worry God would touch ur dad.. He would call you this week..:).. Incase you want to talk to someone.. My name is Timothy..08187285116..here's ma num.
ReplyDeleteThere's no fence that couldn't be mend.....no relationship that couldn't be worked upon, to me the greatest sin of a child which a dad would find difficult to forgive is if he shares his bed with him...you know what I mean....and are a female so no need for that...seek God's forgiveness first...then seek your dad's....though it may take some time for the relationship to return to normal....everybody has someone in the family they'll always respect in situation like this...so go to such person in your dad's family. And for the fact that God spared your life till this moment, I'm pretty sure he has solid plans for your future which your dad's gon' be proud of...so relax and savour the moment...HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
ReplyDelete"What a frnd we have in Jesus............take it to d Lord in prayers"....
ReplyDeleteJesus loves u no marra what!
You have to forgive and love yourself first. Pray to God ask for his forgiveness and he should soften the hearts of those you have offended. Then seek to repair or rebuild the bridges you have burnt down. It is well. Happy birthday. Big hugs for you.
ReplyDeleteDear,
ReplyDeleteThe first step is for u to forgive youself and repent genuinely.
Walk up to Daddy and cry on ur knees. Explain au u av been struggling to stop ur ways by ur might and how u av realized that you need more of his prayers and guidance.
Don't be discouraged i av seen worst girls become wonderful again.
Shuo! Only you one? Heartbroken, evil, stubborn and depressed? Oghene!
ReplyDeleteMay the good Lord create in you a new heart.
Happy Birthday!!!
Did you kill your mother? I think that's what you might have done coz i didn't hear you mentioned your mum. May God forgive you and unit you and your dad. Happy birthday.
ReplyDeleteWhat did u do?
ReplyDeleteShe killed her mum, I guess
DeleteAs funny as your reply sounds it might be true ooo :O
DeleteWell dear, I believe it's not a coincidence that you share the same birth date with Pastor Enoch Adejare Adeboye. If God can forgive and use Baba Adeboye in spite of his weaknesses, why won't He forgive you?
ReplyDeleteTruth is, we've all done stuffs we aren't proud of, but God keeps forgiving us.
Go back to your Daddies like the prodigal son and I'm sure They will welcome you home.
Happy birthday. I pray today marks the beginning of the best days of your life.
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I no understand this post ooooo
ReplyDeleteBabe na wetin u do?
Okbye
Mtwsssss. At least she should have stated what she did.
ReplyDeleteShe killed her mother
DeleteTell us what u did first, for it written confess your sins and u shall be forgiven hehehe.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday Anonymous. Please don't call yourself evil seeing that you are now a repentant sinner. If God has not condemned you till now how much more us and every other person out there Pray for a change of heart of your father towards you while at the same time you prove to him you are truly a new being. Show him a new you that with time he will see you as a worthy daughter, then you go on your two knees and beg for his forgiveness. (The prodigal daughter style, you hear?) The change has to come from you absolutely and please cut off all bad influences in your life. You are too young to waste your life over nonsense that will come and pass. One love.
ReplyDeleteShe sounds remorseful for whatever she has done,just keep praying everything would be fine.
ReplyDeleteAll my life I've met only one ozozoma.... did u attend fediben?
DeleteNo abigail I attended navy borokiri. What Is the ozozomas surname I can help you find her.lol
DeleteNo abigail I attended navy borokiri. What Is the ozozomas surname I can help you find her.lol
DeleteNo abigail I attended a navy school.
DeleteNow prove to your father that you are a changed being. Pick up yourself and find something meaningful to do with your life. Do not wallow in grief and despair. From your mail, you don't sound deprived, just that you intentionally deprived yourself of your benefits. You just passed your teenage years, it is never too late to start afresh. I am only happy that you have experienced the bad side of life by your choice, the ball is in your court now, make hay while the sun still shines on you. Happy birthday.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday.
ReplyDeleteWe will pray for You.
One way to get back in your father's good book is to impress him. Do something. Get a job, start a skill training. Something to show you have your bearing right. He will see that and see you have turned a new leaf.
Happy Birthday "L". Ur Heavenly Father has already 4given u. He will give ur earthly Father d Grace he needs 2 do d same. Its well with u.
ReplyDeleteCheer up dear, it's not d end of d world. We've all done something we're not proud of @ a certain time in our life but that didn't make us give up. So, pick up d broken pieces and move on. May God use all the birthday wishes heaped on you today to do something for you. On the other hand, Happy birthday to my one and only sweetheart, may God bless and favor him as he adds one today. I luv him so much! Ciao
ReplyDeleteWhat fuckery is this?
ReplyDeleteNo she didnt kill her mum.
ReplyDeleteShe said she had an abortion in school and it got complicated and her staunch clergy parents had to be called in when she was almost bleeding to death.
Her father is disgraced and cannot forgive her.
The friend who gave her the tabs to take is now the one fuelling the rumour about her.....she just needs for you guys to spur her back on negatively..i think she has learnt her lesson.
Negatively ? Abi positively.
DeleteAbeg no dey murder English for you.
Poster, it is well with you.
Well, she needs to ask God for forgiveness first. Then most importantly, she needs to forgive herself. when she forgives herself then she can look up to her parents for forgiveness.
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This makes no sense joor
ReplyDeleteGod is a merciful God
ReplyDeleteFrom d look of things, u feel dissappointd n distressd about ur past life & about watver happnd btw u n ur father.....
Pray to God He'll forgive u, Pray n ask ur Father 4 forgivness, if ur father refuses to, God won't & dat settles it.
Happy birthday...may ur day be a funfilld one
Happy birthday dear poster. Go on your knees, God love's us unconditionally.
ReplyDelete*spur her back on POSTIVELY.
ReplyDeletetypo up there
dear POSTER: To err is human but t forgive is divine. Christ dint com t die f d righteous but f sinners like u n I; so dere is no sin he can't forgive. Genuinely give up ur own human effort n reasoning in trying t make peace wt ur family esp ur dad. My dear u can't do it on ur own,
ReplyDeleteGive ur life completely t Christ. He will restore peace t ur distressed soul.
Allow God t take charge of ur life: his unending grace will overshadow ur life n u will do exploits in ur generation. I pray ur next bday will b d very best u hav eva seen. Shallom.
Well, now dat we know the problem we know how to address it. First of all you need the forgiveness of God. And from ur story , I think u've prayed and repented. Pray that The Lord Almighty that stirs the heart of kings should soften ur father's heart towards u. Then go to your father, kneel down hold his legs and ask for forgiveness. Tell him that God said we should forgive 77 x 70 times. So he should have mercy on u and give u another chance.
ReplyDeleteHowever, if this does not work. Go to the elders in your church or your fathers' most respected friend or person and ask them to help you beg your father.
May the favour and grace of God go before and with you.
All the best!
My dear, I had similar experience. D year 2009 is a year I will never 4get. I grew up nt knwinf my mum, was told she died when I was 6months old, so grew up with a woman dat took me lyk her child. Then @ 2009, dad told me 2 finally be staying with him, I refused cos I dn`t like staying with dad cos of my step mum, but she is nt wicked o but seeing her with my dad makees me cry 2 God asking Him y I lost my mum. So bcos I refused, dad abandoned me 4 2 years, he neva called nor sent money, I was jst 17yrs then, I had 2 do marketing 4 1yr & 8months. 2 cut everything short, we r now kool
ReplyDeletePsalm 27: 10 "When my Father and Mother forsake me, the Lord will take me up". Sweetheart, whatever you did wrong, there is forgiveness in Jesus, and it does not need to be earned, you receive it by believing. The beautiful thing is that Jesus' sacrifice on the Cross means that He took the punishment for whatever wrong you did and may do. When you accept and understand this, it frees you to live a life that honours Him. Your joy will be restored, and by His miraculous power, He will also restore you to your family. Praying for you dear, you will be fine. (((hugs)))
ReplyDeleteShaking my head for so called clergy men who cannot forgive even their own children.......their annoyance is that you have spoiled the holy image they put for the public.....every body makes mistakes and if we as Christians do not know how to forgive then we have a lot to still learn......poster go before God and ask for forgiveness, he says anyone who comes with a right and contrite spirit he will not cast them out......then go to your parents and ask for their forgiveness.....after that just let everything go and focus on living right...I pray for your parents sake they forgive you cos they have no excuse.......I speak bodily cos I have had to forgive an offence that some have killed or gone to babalawo for but with the help of God I had to forgive when I got revelation that no matter what anyone does to you if you do not forgive you will not make heaven.....
ReplyDeleteBut, why are young girls always having unprotected sex? For heaven's sakes, you're just 20! Gees! I pray your dad forgives you though.
ReplyDeleteARIES.
Once u confess ur sins to God, he forgives u.He is full of mercy.Pls dont be depressed, depression is of the devil.Depression attracts demons, so do away with it by singing praises to God .When u sing praises to God, ur spirit is lifted.Dont think abt ur friends that deserted u, when ur ways pls God, he will make them to be at peace with u.It is well with u in Jesus' name.
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