Sunday, February 02, 2014
Water DOWN Relationships - Dating Whilst You're Married And Your Spouse Is Comfortable With The Idea?
Ever heard about 'Marrying The PERSON You Love'.??
A lot of people are in compromising relationships that Marion calls WATER DOWN RELATIONSHIP.
She interviewed a lot of MARRIED men with multiple MISTRESSES......looks like Their wives know about their girlfriends and are somewhat comfortable with the arrangement
because they are also doing their own "thang"......you have got to hear this yourself and tell me what you think.
Is there any man who visits this blog that has a girlfriend his wife is comfortable with? huh?
Please watch and lets discuss.
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Fantastic Nonsense. @i_ChoPtas_Not
ReplyDeleteAll the men that I know that have mistresses don't even let their wives flirt so I'm quite stunned by this report
ReplyDeleteI can never be in an open marriage.
DeleteI'd simply slowly poison my hubby.
I have zero tolerance for infidels.
She shld go n sit down with this her lame theory
Contrary to what ur bird brain might be telling u, infidels isn't about infidelity.
DeleteDon't mind her,a lot of people throw words about carelessly without researching their true meaning. The other day it was that popular blogger that was defining "smart Alec" straight out of an unreliable source like wikipedia. Most people do not even know the meaning of the word illiterate. All those calling that mama Uche face your work an illiterate are damn ignorant. A woman that used the word "otherwise" perfectly,used present continuous in "he is bathing" is being tagged an illiterate. If you don't know,once you can read and write in any language be it hausa,manadarin,yoruba,Fon etc,you are definitely literate.
DeleteYes, it happens a lot. I met a guy who paid a girl's bride price but latr decided to back out cos he doesn lov her. The girl being so desperate to settle down and ashamed of being dumped, told him to pls continue wt d marriage to save her fece, even if it means he cheating on her, dt she doesn't care as long as he comes back to her at d end of d day. Can u imagine! I was mad. How can a lady giv her new husband d approval to cheat on her? I only concluded within me dt she's gonna cheat wt tim. For now, all she wants is to settle down so yes, ppl do it
ReplyDeleteIts a no no for me, Odikwa risky
ReplyDeleteHot Entertainment Gist
Lol! This woman is so funny! Y show us her mac lipstick! Rotfl!!! Inferiority complex is a "bitch"!!!!
DeletePlease Marion stop the cream you are using, it is tearing your skin apart. Any man that thinks it is ok to be calling his girl friend while his wife is there ( i mean openly cheating ) is putting his life in danger, your wife sure has plans for you. Don't think that make's you a man, it only make's you a very very stupid man.And the girl friend that think's oh he love's me and can talk to me while his wife is present? I pity you, he will do worst to you.
ReplyDeleteRight on point my dear
DeleteI know one popular banker from south-south whose wife knew oga's bitchy girlfriend. But what could she do? Bitch was always looking for trouble- for instance will call madam and say, 'hi, I'm now in dubai with your husband'... And many other cases like that. Madam most times kept her cool. Well I and other mutual friends couldn't help but wonder if madam's marriage to oga was just the type where you fuck, get pregnant, then both families agree that you should get married. No Love inbetween. I didn't mention anybody's name so don't bother guessing. Ha!
ReplyDeleteNa wa o. D partner will b comfortable wif dat if he/she is also doinq his/her thinq. Odawise it dosnt make any sense
ReplyDeleteThis is the case we have in Scandal. Mellie knew about Fitz's mistress- Olivia Pope. But, she kept her cool for peace to be. Whenever Fitz was depressed, she looked for excuses & invited Olivia to the White House. Anything she could do to keep her husband happy and keep herself in the white house. Moral of the story- it is risky to marry a man or woman who didn't willingly choose you; someone who probably married you due to parental pressure(arangee marriage). As soon as your spouse finds someone he is in love with, he will keep that person not minding if you find out and will be so ready to choose that person over you if you raise threats.
ReplyDeleteI have seen this happen to some couples.
This is the case we have in Scandal. Mellie knew about Fitz's mistress- Olivia Pope. But, she kept her cool for peace to be. Whenever Fitz was depressed, she looked for excuses & invited Olivia to the White House. Anything she could do to keep her husband happy and keep herself in the white house. Moral of the story- it is risky to marry a man or woman who didn't willingly choose you; someone who probably married you due to parental pressure(arangee marriage). As soon as your spouse finds someone he is in love with, he will keep that person not minding if you find out and will be so ready to choose that person over you if you raise threats.
ReplyDeleteI have seen this happen to some couples.
Them never born d man well, I will personally cut his penis and use am chop indomie and onions, it is better d man hide dey do am, but d day will find out, hell will loose in dat hus,
ReplyDeleteIts not like they know the girlfriends and are comfortable with it. The problem is that they dont ve a choice, in Nigeria a cheating husband is not a big deal, even ur parents ll tell u to go back to a cheating spouse, that its normal for men to cheat. So there u ve it, we r not comfortable with it, we accept it cos we are choiceless.
ReplyDeleteI love everything she said until she got to the part that men should leave their wives if they are no longer in love with her and go marry the mistress whom they love out there,and she didn't say vice versa,it made her sound as if she is on the part of the mistress which i am not comfortable with. That being said,marriage is all about compromise,couples fall in and out of love all the time,at times you would so fall out of love that you would feel you cnt regain it back,only for you to fall in love with one another all over and more deeply that you yourself wnt believe it. In marriage anything is possible o,this is for the singles,dnt think you know it all,even if you have read all the books,heard all the marriage tips and all,the main koko is your marriage itself,no two marriages are ever the same. So if a man and a woman cheats on each other,and decided to keep their marriage intact because of their kids,its their business,its a sin against God defiling the marriage bed,but staying together still means God can still work out miracle in their marriage. And for the mistress out there being confused,am sorry o,you must be a highest learner for still sticking with such a man,it only means his first allegiance is to his family,yes he loves you but if push comes to shove he would do away with you and face his family squarely thereby leaving you high and dry,is it worth the heart break when you can stay on the mountain top with God for 7days "pere" and you would call forth your own husband? Ladies please always make the right choice some married men out there are just out to suck out your lushness and youthfulness.
ReplyDeleteHmmm,'this being in love and out of love thingy'. I read a post on this on another blog recently. Its like it was all about me. When my boyfy come back from work next week, we are supposed to start marriage plans. He said by latest by 1st half of the year, we should be married. I have devEloped cold feet and he has noticed. I am no longer in love with him. He cheated on me not once, not twice. took sides with the side chicks, even two married women he was cheating on me with, not once, not twice. Gave me the hottest slap of my life cos I ignored him, having cheated on me, AGAIN. I was so cold to him that particular day. Then he went outside and stood by the window and watched me secretly. I was chatting with an old classmate and just LoL. When he came in. He grabbed the phone, checked, and finding nothing guilty I did, he said, so I could be laughing with someone else while he is unhappy, before I could finish asking how his happiness now depends on me? HE SLAPPED me. He squeezed my neck in another argument.
DeleteYet, we are very good friends who can talk about everything. I sometimes tease him about the facebook friend that came in from calabar to fuck him. I had his password (facebook)(he has changed it though) even to his phone sms and he doesn't know.
Like I said, I no longer love him. I can spend a whole day with him like my best friend, but when it comes to sex, I cringe. Can't stand it. I even pity him. So, my question is pls, will I ever love him back again? Cos I'm about to tell him my mind when he comes back. Can't marry a man I'm not in love with or moreso, a man whose touch I detest.
Are you foolish you better run 440 from that marriage he hasn't married you he is punching and slapping you on top of cheating on you with both married and single. My dear he will do worse then you will be stuck in the marriage too ashamed to speak out to your friends and have no where to run to. No man should treat you like shit. Your peace of mind and happiness should not be compromised no man is worth it. We dey use sleep know how death go be. Be prayerful and your prince charming will come no hurry in life.
Deletelove from a married sister
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Please dear,i am anon 1.47pm stay away from that guy as fast as you can,do not marry him,he is emotionally imbalanced and he would so much take it out on you in marriage that you would become a shadow of yourself. Pls.and pls i am a happily married woman who has been in such a relationship with an emotionally imbalanced man while i was single,so i know what i am talking about when i tell you to fleeeeeeeeeee,he is only going to get worse,no remedy to his case except he goes to God and makes himself available for God to work on him,and before that he might have battered you and even harm you,please do not willingly become a "lab rat" in the hands of such a man,tell him off,and please make you are not alone when doing that,make sure someone or people are nearby so that you can easily scream for help in case he begins to act up. Falling in and out of love in marriage is not always based on the premise of misbehavior from one partner or the other,infact they might be that most blessed gift from God,but you might just be tired of the stereotyped way of life,you might just be tired of the sex and all,but again,it all becomes sweeter when you spice things up,or remember how much God has done for you by giving you such a man or woman,and you look inward and revive and rejuvenate the sweetness that you once felt when you just started. So please my sister this your case you stated here is different o,run quickly before you become trapped with the man and end up in marriage with him. You guys can still be friends,but after he must have accepted the fact that you cnt date or marry him again,and am sure that would take a while,in all i wish you God´s blessings.
DeleteAm not yet married so its likely you don't listen to me or take my advice,what you have said only shows that your boyfriend is taking advantage of the fact that you are either very nice or you both have concluded that you are getting married and there is no going back.Men are always like that sometimes we just relax and believe there is someone to always clean up our mess,thereby neglecting the feelings of the one that matters most and that has shown how stronf you are in your relationship.
DeleteMy advice is please before you start your wedding plans,please break his heart,torture him,tell him you can't do this,make him know you are strong,let him realis you can do without him and make him feel jealous.
Expect two things when you do this,1)he will crawl back to your arms in tears or 2)pride and ego might push him away but he will still come begging, when he does tell him all these you have said and how you feel even when he touches you and tell him you can't marry that kind of man then walk away,if he. wants you,he will change,and when he comes back please don't be too nice,act like Ezewanyi,don't show him too much and keep your self sometimes at distance,most times proximity brings insults, be prayerful and read books to guide you into knowledge in keeping your home, God bless you and your marriage, no fail invite us lol.
Well leave him now and save urself from the emotional suffering that will fellow afterwards.
DeleteSo what r u still doing wt him? Considering dt a broken courtship is better than a broken marriage and u aint happy wt him as a partner cut it off. Of while ur friends he realises his wrongs nd u feel u can live wt him then restart it otherwise na die u de so o!
DeleteMadam do urself a favour n leave that rship!!Even if he begs,cries,screams..DO NOT MARRY HIM!
DeleteMy dear you said it already, you no longer love him so y go ahead with the marriage, n he cheats, u sure can't love such a man.
DeleteE be like say u like to chop slap.. best friend ko best friend ni. Ur man has no boundaries( married women). He might even have inherited a curse. My dear, he has seen ur tolerance level is high and will continue to remain foolish. My dear, pray and move on
DeleteIf u don't love him den don't marry him...even if u do love him,a man lik dt.ask ursef if dats wat u ll b able 2 stand 4 dt rest of ur life.A man slappin u,grabbin ur neck?If u can stand all dat,den u can stay,some women av mind sha.but from d way u talk I fink ur thinkin dat if u leave this man u might neva find some1 beta than him.If that's d case,girl am 100%n with God u ll.4 all u know u cud av more Ps in ur marriage dan u already av now.but no1 ll force u 2 make a decisions but like I said earlier if ur strong enuf 2 deal with wateva comes ur way.then stay. And 2 those people who says all men cheat,not all men cheat but they are rare though. WEDU.
DeleteAnswer urself my dear. Its only u that knows how u feel or will feel
DeleteThanks so much everyone of you. Thanks @Anon 1:47. Thanks KayCee for speaking from a man's point of view. This has been on my minds since december. Been praying about it. Yes u are all correct for saying I am tolerant cos I am. Now everything I tolerated and even pretended not to know has made the mere touch from this man nauseating. I know abstinence before marriage is just, BUT, ideed was already done. God will help me cos I've told him how helpless I am concerning this. Thanks Again.
DeleteI had dis 1 dat had trust issues n inferiority complex n as a strong woman I know whr I am headed 2 in life wit God on my side. I don chop slap, arm twisting cos of my male frnds etc nigga expects u to be down when he is. I wanted 2 stick wit him cos I was sure he loved me but my eyes opened n I saw obsession. I had 2 walk out he tried 2 remain frnds if I hear. A frnd dat used 2 slap n twist my arm? Its safe 2 say he is history cos he deleted himself from my bbm after posting a subliminal on his pm. Gud riddance 2 rubbish. Girl, u better run! That's all.
DeleteWhat crap is ds one saying? So he should leave his wife? Saying he doesn't love her again to his gf, do you think he means that? All I know is the cane used for the 1st wife is on the rooftop waiting for the mistress, shikena
ReplyDeletePls I need some advice,am a married woman with children bt d tin is,I stil can't forget my EX,I actually left him to marry my husband cos he was studyin abroad and I tot he had forgotten me.he came bak 2 days to my marriage,asked me to cal it off bt I cldnt.bt til dis moment,am stil in luv wit him and am wonderin if sleepin wit him @least once wld help me get him off my system.pls advice me on wat to do.stella post dis pls.my ex now resides in same town dat I stay,and hasn't moved on cos of me.he is proposin dat we jst fuck once,then forget abt each oda.
ReplyDeleteDat once fit leasd u astray.
DeleteMy dear dnt try it...if you sleep with him u will realize dat once is not enough and you will continue sleeping with....so face ya marriage and cut off frm ur EX
DeleteSo in other words, you wan go cut show and you need us to help you clear your conscience abi? Huuuummmmn.....like the saying goes "the grass is always greener on the other side"! Go and fuck once oo you hear? When you loose your husband, you will look back and envy what you missed!!
DeleteMadam av sex wit ur eX den u ll always do it again..n 1day ur husband ll surelyy find out n if u leave him finkin @ least u ll fall back 2 ur ex..,there's 70% chances u 2 mite not b compatible anymore and den again u might start missin ur husband.n appreciate him more.U re already married Focus on ur marriage let ur Ex move on. WEDU
DeleteHello Madam, with all due respect, do u use ur thinking faculty? Cos if u dont i think dis is d time for you to use ur God given intellect .. ! How can u even b seeking advice on such a clear matter? Ok what do u want us to tell u? To fuck him just once? Or to not fuck him? You are a married woman pls have some respect! Ur ex is ur ex, You are now someone's wife in the eyes of God and d world , u dint marry ur ex then dont u think dat happened for a reason? Do u know if u dodged a frigging bullet? Now u wanna ruin ur home and ur family for an Ex dats "proposing to just fuck once and forget about each other" ? U really think it wld stop watever feelings u still have for him? Jus so u know (incase u didnt) Women tend to get more emotional and attached and mushy once sex is involved so i bet u if u start its gon b from once till either ur husband catches u or ur ex blackmails n ruins ur marriage.. U see how i jus painted 2 scenarios?, 1000 things can go wrong, U can get stds, u can get pregnant n have to explain to ur hubby why d baby looks like ur ex, u may not b aware your hubby has laced u wit magun and ur ex can die ontop of u and you will go to jail.. Need i go on? And worst of all u will go to hellfire, does d sound of it not scare u? Pls pray to God to kill every lustful spirit in u and you sef stop entertaining him both in ur thoughts and physically or socially! Ah ah help yaself biko! Focus on ur children and raise them like d mother u are dont b thinkin abt going to spread leg for ur ex , love ur husband , if u r horny shebi he has a penis? no matter d size love his penis and ride it like a pony even ride am like okada sef nobody go ask u na u get just pls dont make d mistake of sleeping wit ur ex, not even once, some women cheat on deir husbands everyday but never get caught but not everyone os dat lucky! Apart from the fear of getting caught, think of d unncessary heartache u would cause everyone .. Ur parents ,ur Kids , ur Hubby den dose pple dat are ever waiting to laugh then . When God asks u "wat did u do with the home i gave to you woman?" whats gonna be ur answer? Its not worth it ma. Be wise
DeletePls sleep wit ur Ex bloody prostitute.
DeleteMadam, the marriage bed should remain un defiled. How will you feel if your husband did same?
Delete@Titi,pls where is d like button jst wen I need it.u made so much sense!madam,u hear am!God is watching u on 3D oo,,u dnt need all d drama.face ur God givin home biko.
DeleteMy friends husband got drunk last year n brought his girlfriend home forgetting his wife was at home. It ended up in a big fight black eye n everything. 2weeks ago the babe came to his matrimonial home and demanded to see him he came out of the house n took her to some corner to talk. The girl calls my friend reigning insult on her. Today pastor saw her n told her to continue praying. Saying this to shall pass. He banned me from his home cause I insulted him the last time I saw him at a club frolicking wit dis same wicked girl. Very violent babe. My friend is so butter quick to cry. This guy has ruined her. Men know the people they can do dis sort of rubbish too no be every1 them fit try.
ReplyDeleteAnon 2:44 pls leave the mistake of a boyfriend and run!!! I know it won't be easy but sometimes being single is better than being in an abusive and loveless relationship talkless of marriage.your own man who will love and respect u will come soon and this feeling will b mutual so pls let go and let God take the wheel...goodluck!
ReplyDeleteany 2:44 if you go marry that your boyfriend who slapped and cheated on you with married women, Then u must be a big idiot. Dump his ass never look back. He sees u as a foot mat who will never changelle his orders. So dats why he keeps u not fr love. Give ur self more value. Definately not a man that willl make u happy in the long run.
ReplyDelete@anon.2.44pm,its no fault of yours dat u dont love him again(permit me to put it dat way)he bruised ur trust in him big tym n believe me,i wud feel d same if i was cheated and abused.shelve d marriage cos it will b worse wen u guys re married eventually.nothing is as beautiful as ur peace of mind.pray n ask God for directions.Goodluck
ReplyDeleteI am currently in such a situation,and so called madam knows,she's been begging to stay for the sake of their two kids.My man doesn't love her,and its been like that forever,even before I came into his life.There's this one time,early stage of our relationship(cos we've been together for five years)she traced my house,entered into my compound,saw her husband's car parked outside,knocked on my door and pleaded with me that she wanted to talk to her husband.He ordered her to go home and wait for him,well let's just say she didn't see him for two weeks,after which I went back home with him and two policemen to get her arrested,for coming to my house.He moved me out to a posh apartment months later.To cut a long story short,madam is still living in denial,worn out and messed up but has refused to leave the marraige,she calls and begs for 5k to make her hair and pedicure(she's a stay at home mum)my man and I take her kids on vacations while she stays behind.He met me,while my store was thriving,but all thanks to him I now have a branch in PH,a posh luxury apartment in lekki and ofcourse he built a house for my mum in ibadan,I just completed my 3bdrm bungalow in badore.our son is two months old,we are both excited!
ReplyDeleteGod will judge u in a different way. Karma na ashawo.
DeleteCan you imagine the cockiness in the rubbish u r spewing. Women r realy eachothers worst enemies, ow do you sleep at night knowing u r causing another woman so much grieve and anguish, and u have d guts to say u took d police to go arrest her for coming to your house"begging" to see her husband..if this guy was so into u why hasn't he married you for the past 5yrs u have been fucking him? God will surely punish you for this act, infact that same man whom u have jazzed up that is licking u up and down will turn around to be ur doom, u watch and see cos God is not mocked,all the wealth u say u r gathering from him will not help ur plight when the day of reckoning comes, you watch and see
DeleteYou can lie for Africa...Bungalow ko, bigalow ni...elenu sukusuku...for inside ur dream!...
DeleteWHAT THE FU@K! PLEASE TELL ME YOU ARE JOKING?
DeleteSounds like nollywood but if its true, you don't know the kind of hot coals you are heaping on your head. 5years of being a side chick while she bears "Mrs".......well, life na turn by turn and karma is a mean bitch.......
DeleteMay God have mercy on you. Stupid woman. Yours is on the way. Ewu
DeleteShey you know this is not the end of Gods plan
DeleteYou dare call his wife messed up and worn out...mehn I leave you to God
God punish u! Just know dt karma is a bitch!
DeleteI've got five words for you: "IT WILL NOT END WELL" - No be curse, that's the way life is. Karma is real!... It's disheartening to find out, like this, that another woman is suffering at the hands of yet another heartless man and his stupid, devilish and loud-mouthed mistress.
DeleteFoolish fool! Your MAN you said? May devil and all his demons dance skelewu on your head! Idiot by the time the cheating lout dumps your sorry smelly ass you won't come and tell us, asewo home wrecker.
DeleteDnt worry, Mr Nemesis is on his way...Karma knws ur address.
DeleteMay God judge you.
DeleteHehehehe @ we are both excited.
DeleteAnony I pity ur end, cos its gona be bitter.
Uv built ur happiness ontop anoda's unhappiness.
All dis woman needs to do is to lay a curse on u, infact she doesn't, dia is a natural law called karma.
I av an unspoken rule, I don't deal wit married men, dey are forbidden fruits, I curse each an every 1 of dem in my mind wen dey approach me.
Infact TB josh no go fit remedy ur case.enjoy well, cos ur doom is near.
You are a big bastard! And you'll get what's coming to you! I'm telling you you wont even know what hit you! Wicked oaf! Stella pls post this comment. This woman is a heartless !
DeleteFear God madam!!!
DeleteYou will never have true joy n peace for as long as that woman remains in pain and God bless you if she dies in that condition then know that you already placed a curse on your generations yet unborn. Only God van give wealth without sorrow. May it not be your earthly buildings that'll kill u and ur mum that failed to train u.
DeleteThriving on another persons sadness! Karma knows everyones name yours must be NO 1. Kmt
DeleteYou are a devil!! I pity the womb that carried your evil ass! Women like you don't desrve to live! Homebreaker
DeleteClap for urself. You an example of useless lady for real. U re even so proud to be vomiting all this rubbish u call comment. Where is ur dignity that another woman like you beg for 5k from husband and you have tied her man down with your stupidity. What is wrong with our women? i am sure u do not love that man is just his money u love. Don't think u re comfortable in life with all this ur stupid stories of travel and property u got through the man while his wife suffers one day everything will come down crashing in front of u. U are a very shameless lady for real. Sad
DeleteNawa people get mind sha
DeleteI want to assume u're jst foolin Ard wit dis story but if u're not I can promise u dat d wrath of God will fall mightily upon u n ur whole household n ur opportunist parents r actually clapping their hands for u to continue ruining anoda woman's home n happiness, my dear it will only take time but judgement day must surely come upon u. D day dat woman will harm u, not even d all babas in ibadan can loose u..... if u'r not a fool have u asked urself y in 5yrs d man hasn't left his wife 4 u? soon d juju u put in his food will clear from his eyes n u'll return all d property u n ur opportunist parents av gained from him, n ur bastard son will grow to hate n resent u
DeleteU jst wait n see
For distorting the peace of a Gods ordained home it shall never and can never be well with you. For every tears and heartache you've put that woman through , it shall come bk to u in abundance. I am absolutely disgusted that you would Bragg on social media about how u destroyed a home. As sure as Jesus lives and Jehovah is God , it can never be well with you. Karma is a witch. If not u but your generation. Ah madam quote me oooo. And mark this down... Vengeance is The Lord and boi when it comes it will pour. Unless you do the right things, madam
DeleteBabes, build your nest egg. So you'll have cushion when the broom starts to beat you. And her kids hate you and your child. Brace yourself.
DeleteLol... You are both excited ko elated ni....do you know that in heaven your relationship is not recognised? So be ready not to have peace for the rest of your life.... U shall not know peAce, it shall never be well with u and as u have connived with the man to make the wife unhappy that is how happiness will elude u in life..... Stupid idiot
DeleteYour heart is a black hole. May God reward you abundantly
DeleteSince wat ur doin is good I hope someone else does it to u.
DeleteDont you worry dear ur time will soon come!!! U think u can break a marriage and live in peace?? Might not be in 5 years o but trust me karma is a bitch. All the tears that woman has shed will not go in vain!!! Wicked soul
DeleteEnwata?????? Issokay dear *hands you cup* drink water oo .. Nor wori d broom wen dem use beat 1st wife still dey complete wen dem go dey use am wipe live-in-girlfriend! U dey laugh dey say "shes worn out, messed up, i take her kids on vacation n she stays behind " bla bla bla n u r happily typing too *smh* i too sorry for you sha make sure u give us feedback when karma start to bulala you o, cos its bad enuf dat u r with anoda woman's husband and u can still arrest her and gloat abt it , u tink say na so e finish? ok na ! Hence do i take one of stella's seats, what do i know i neva tie person husband b4 ... Oshisco
DeleteYou are a heartless bitch! U narrate the story like you have won a trophy, ur man indeed msheww. Remember the saying "One good turn deserves another". This life u r living shall never ever be a happy one, it must be cut short pretty soon. Wicked Devil!!!!!!!!
DeleteHuman beings,smh. U r heartless oo. Y do u have to cause so much pain to another woman like u? Y? Ekensu
DeleteI don't know why everyone suddenly got violent and spiritual on this case! Is the wife a baby? She no get family? My friend has been married for 3yrs just bcos she felt she was old @ 28 tied a dude down with a one ngt stand pregnancy he was even drunk when he slept with her! He had to marry her cos he's d only son and he loved his mum to bits he had a gf then who left him cos of that... low and behold last oct she got a shocker of her life the babe has a 2yr old son for her hubby and they r married in the US. The house they live in is built with the 2yr old's name on the deeds! He never loved her she practically has to rape/force him to have sex with her. So u guys should stop cursing u don't know the full story. What makes some of u think she's God's ordained wife for him. Make una go siddon mbok
DeleteAnon 5:43, which nollywood movie is this? If this really happened, then I am heartbroken. May you find joy all the days of your life, because what is coming for you may be too bad for a human being to handle
DeleteWhen we were younger,na so my dad carry one old mama youngie.they drove my mum from upstairs my mum came downstairs and was living with us kids while my dad and his "new wife " were frolicking upstairs.trust my mum na.na from 12 midnight her prayers dey start.lol.nobody go sleep for house.she was screaming to God at the top of her voice even calling the woman's name.when the woman and my dad broke up,it was so bad ehn.that she left without a pin.this is a woman that travels out of the country with my dad while they will ask my mum to look after the house.
DeleteAsk me where and how she is doing today?she is selling kerosene at a busy junction.so my dear husband snatcher,wen God begins to hear that woman's prayers ehn,u will not know what hit you.the court of public opinion has judged u.u just wait for God's judgement!!!!!she-diot!!!!
I don't believe this story jor. Failed attempt to mould a satire. Guess this writer wanted attention, and she got it. Or are u Stella damasus? Hian.
DeleteAnd ur point is????? That u are sweeting the man??? It's not u I will abuse cos u are obviously a low life gutter snipe who was grossly deprived of the better things in life. It's that useless excuse for a man. God will judge and punish both of u accordingly.
DeleteI prophesy EVIL into your life this morning for causing sorrow in dat woman's life..may u experience sadness in ur life..God will bring confusion into ur midst soon.
DeleteDat stupid mum of urs will burn down with dat cursed house n may sickness visit u soon
DeleteDat stupid mum of urs will burn down with dat cursed house n may sickness visit u soon
DeleteI prophesy EVIL into your life this morning for causing sorrow in dat woman's life..may u experience sadness in ur life..God will bring confusion into ur midst soon.
DeleteIt will never be well with madam home breaker! For the pains u put this woman through,our God will judge u!Karma is a bitch and it will definitely catch up with u!
DeleteThatisokochic!
You will surely reap what you sow,wicked woman.
DeleteMy dear its not like married women here know and accept it. Its more like a how for do situation. This country is legally unfair to wives. U fight and fight and fight him and at the end of the day nothing changes. If u go u r on ur own. No support nothing. After a while u just stay with him and kind of overlook it. Thats life here in Naija!!! Its unfortunately a mans world here
ReplyDeleteMy dear if we follow ur advice even our parents and grandparents will be divorced. Study the society b4 u give advice. Na Nigeria we dey not the western world.
ReplyDeleteIts not abt being married, its abt being happily married!!
Delete@anonymous 5:43 and you are proudly saying this? to the extent of taking police to her house to arrest her. i can't even ask you to fear God cos you lack the fear of him. May God have mercy on you and cause not the pain you meted on someone else to be meted on you someday. You have no conscience, your heart is as dark is midnight.
ReplyDeleteAnon 5:43, do u know what karma is? Ur feeling kool abi? Y has he married u? Or he kips lying 2 u dat she begs him 2 stay cos of d kids rite? Soooooo wrong. He doesn't wana marry u cos ur just his fuck buddy n now baby mama.
ReplyDeleteChoiiiii *speechless* SDKers abeg make una come talk 4 this gal matter
ReplyDeleteAnon 5:43 u wicked ooo! Evil kancany! U go like am if God exchange una...women get mind, na us dey do ourselves!
ReplyDeleteAnon 5.43, u a heartless! Just get ready,cos wen d Wrath of God will come upon u, ur posh apartment cannot save u! D wife is obviously a God fearing woman n all d angels in heaven will b on ur case. 'She didn't see him for 2 weeks' n u r proud to say dat. Thunder strike dat ur mouth face back! N ur mother is d most useless person in all of dis. Letting a married man build a haus for her. Like mother like daughter
ReplyDeleteWrath of God?? Make una calm down oh. He didn't even propose to her!
Deleteur man indeed....................................u r a bitch
ReplyDelete@Anonymous 5:43. Where is your conscience? U caged someone' husband, u takes her kids on vacation wt her husband, built ur mum a house in Ibadan, opened shops for u on pH etc And the main madam calling and begging for 5k to make her hair *crying* for madam. Beliv me whatever u sow u shall reap. Karma will knock at ya door soon. God is not asleep. Oga doesn't love madam abi? Na u him love back? Husband snatchers don't always end well. Go and ask.
ReplyDelete@ anon 5:43. It won't be well with u and ur family for wat u av done to d poor woman. Ur children wuld grow to face disappointments. Am a single lady of 21 bt I can't imagine myself boasting abt such a tin. U wuld suffer for everytin. God wuld immensely punish U. U wuld face worse dan what that woman is facing. Ow can people be so wicked nd ur bragging abt it. Dat man wuld leave U. U witch!
ReplyDeleteAnon 5:43 u r just wasting your life with a man that will soon dump you! 5 years & he did not divorce his wife to marry you,u r a fool!!! The jazz u used on that man is what will kill u! U hav caused his legal wife unspeakable pain & hardship by taking away her man,humiliated her by bringing police to arrest her & u say she is leaving in denial??? You r cursed with an everlasting curse! Continue boasting while another woman suffers cos u hav deprived her from what is rightfully hers,she will have the last laugh cos u will certainly die young!!!
ReplyDeleteIt is you that'll die young.Tell me,are you even alive?
DeleteAnon 5:43 u are cursed,u will lose d time he has done 4u someday n God will fight 4 d poor wife,
ReplyDeleteanon 2:44 if women can chop slap and beat like dat, then why do yall complain about anal...
ReplyDeletei tire o...i go pet u well well but put it in ya butt
LMAO
Delete"Anonymous@ 5:43 PM" you will never know peace. You cheap and useless fool. That home you broke will fight you.
ReplyDeleteFor all you commenters on my post,yes I'm Ioud and proud about my man and I.Ofcourse as a typical bini lady u don't expect me to be so dumb having a baby for my 'oga' without nothing concrete on ground.I was seven months pregnant in nov when my dowry was paid,as I didn't really wanna say this before but as I write this,we have a date already with the registry on the island(he wants the registry wedding before our child dedication)whew!what can I say?definately some people must die for some to live,madam knows the jazz she used in marrying 'oga' can no longer hold,since she doesn't wanna walk away in one piece with her head held high,then she must surely live the househelp life she's been living for five years,and as I'm typing this,she's on her way out,cos my man and I are tired of her archaic and mgbeke ways of bringing up those kids(they love and adore me,they call me mummy,and spend their holidays with me)she's definately on her way out.abegi divorce is nothing new,so u guys should stop spewing trash,hypocrites.a lot of u ladies wish u had what I have,nonsense!My husband(I'm sure she now knows)has moved on,move on too mgbeke,ur time and jazz has expired,btw I wish u luck.
ReplyDeleteWon't judge! Do onto others as you wish to be done onto.
DeleteKenyan babe
HAHAHAHAH this girl u re real AMADIOHA DAUGHTER chee see woman. God Have mercy u re still talking trash. Let all the gods from Benin scatter that your up coming wedding. Let u not see peace as u frustrate another woman. Let your life be Miserable as you cause pain to that woman. Shameless lady.
DeleteU see?? Most of d benin edo girls are ashewo!! Nothin dem no dey furk!! Wide eyed come nd debunk dis oh as ur benin sis concern.......benin akunnas...........OKIJA WIFE
DeleteAnon 11:18 R.I.P in advance to u and ur mum
DeleteThat madam has a God who will respond to you. You have just murdered sleep, don't expect to have any!
DeleteIt's a pity dat u hav no respect for God else u will hide dat ur mouth u r using to call anoda woman's husband ur husband.he has paid ur dowry....bla bla bla. u just showed u r a loose woman wit no self esteem, u hav to stoop to steal a man from a woman. U can't get ur own husband. Don't worry ur daughter's will cry out about oda women stealing their husbands and ur sons will hav thier wives taken from them by oda men.thats d curse u hav heaped upon urself. And ur Generations to come.
DeleteSeriously, that's why I love oyibo pple. Nigerian women tie their lives to marriage as if its d end of their world! If a man decides he is tired of U and signs are readable; please save ur stress and move on already! As a woman, I couldn't undo myself to continue to live with a man I am already tired of! Why remain in a tasteless and sham marriage when I can be free to attract another man in my life? Divorce must be accepted in Nigeria for sanity's sake! If a couple is tired already; let them divorce than bask in the cheating/mistress spree. That is why Career is important in a woman's life. When d chips are down; U swerve to ur independence! And hold ur ground to attract other positive pple into ur life. It's women who depend on men that gnarl at petty sentiments and yet; they receive d heat d most when their hubbies get tired of them. Why drown in a wedlock that has rejected you? Some women even marry with juju! They marry someone else's husband and when juju clears and God decides to match-make both destined couple; no amount of tears and MFM prayer can stop it. Even U find it out that d more U pray fire upon their heads; d more they glow!
ReplyDeleteWarning to Women: Stop forcing urself on men for marriage. If U use juju or pregnancy to marry ur husband against his will; snatching him from his supposed destined wife who is perhaps busy praying to God to connect her to her bone of bones; the law of nature must surely play its role by connecting them mysteriously and then, na you go suffer am! You spiritually displace another woman of her destined husband and then when God finally connects them, U begin to rant like a toothless bulldog like you have been robbed?! Hey, you the Robber!
I strongly believe that women who marry their destined husbands by law of natural attraction never loose them!
An ons 5.43 God will punish you, for every tears that woman cry God will give you a million times more, you will never know peace your life will end in great pains and you will beg for as lil as water is will not find. All the St in heave will help say amen to this.
ReplyDeletewhat most mistresses dont know is men lie to get into their pants.",my marriage is failing" "i dont love my wife anymore" 'she tricked me into marrying her" bla bla bla. Because they know it would work and the dumb girl would try to make it her life mission to make him happy. Biko if any man is telling you all this my dear run. most of them are actually happily married and wont chase their wives out for the world. why they cheat? question for the gods.
ReplyDeleteStop bleaching,but if u insist on bleaching don't show us your feet and knuckles,huge turn off
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