OMG......i hope the man who did this is behind bars!
"This might be a little graphic but I just want to let everyone know that I am okay. I am a survivor of domestic violence with a boy I dated for 8 months.
I really thought everything was fine but he constantly questioned me about cheating and flirting. Non sense. I never looked at someone the way he looked at me. Thought I loved this boy. How can someone that 'loves' me do this to me?
The scars on my chest are way worse and extend down to my right nipple, completely scarred. The skin on my shoulder has been completely skinned. And i have bruising on my rib cage, neck, and my muscles. I was kicked out of a moving vehicle, then beaten and dragged, as I blacked out and was left lying there in my own puddle of blood.
Doctors said I could have died if not made it when I did. I am so blessed and beyond lucky to be alive and have so much support from friends, family, and strangers. As I try to recover I ask to please keep me in your prayers. I have to wear a neck brace for 3-4 weeks, an arm cast and I can barely walk for now.
Thank you for all the love. I hope to be an inspiration to women and anyone involved in domestic violence." she said.
*The men who their women like this,what possesses them in that instant to keep hitting and punching till they break her?...WTF is this?
Jesus!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteWho says @Kolade shud nt be killed again ooo?
@Mamie Water i guess
@Galore
JESUS! *handsovermyface* even an animal in its lowest form of reasoning wnt do these t a fellow animal. D man dat dd these t ds Lady needs t b amputated n castrated.
ReplyDeleteMay d Lord extend his loving arms t women in abusive r\ships all over d world.
Until you meet my ex!
DeleteWhen I saw the pictures on Twitter I just thought it was make up for a movie. This is terrible. Even if the girl was cheating is that why you should kill another man's child?
DeleteSad!! Very sad!!!
ReplyDeleteAll ladies should enroll in Karate class!!
But Stella, the post on Family planning has opened my eyes.
Is it that hard to abstain from sex? What is really happening?
Single ladies coming out openly that they use Postinor!! On top guy that might not even marry you!!!
God help me raise my Children well and let them grow up godly!!!
@Truthteller kindly take a seat with your holier than thou attitude. People take postinor its a issue, if they end up with pregnancy they don't want its another issue.
DeleteLord have mercy. I can only imagine.
ReplyDeleteThankGod u are alive to tell d story.
ReplyDeleteInfact,am suggesting women be made to undergo compulsory martial arts training. *eyesrolling*
i have been in an abusive relationship before and trust me it not always easy to walk on because when people give you reasons to leave you will keep making excuses for the guy and trust me those abusive guys are the ones that can beg for Africa they will do anything to get you back then its back to square one..smh but i thank God that i am free now...i feel sorry for the girl this is so horrible the guy needs to be kidnapped and given a taste of his own medicine...KMT
ReplyDeleteAnd she will still go back in his arms while we are here debating and crying out for her .
ReplyDeleteWith this level of abuse, I'm pretty sure she must have seen different levels of it n still stuck on to the point of death.
Girls with low self esteem suffer n smile n hope it gets better.
I have no advice for her.
She shld cry me a river !!
Finally I and @ m-amie agree on sumtin. Honestly, these women most times crying fowl are the cause of their own problems. Am sure she has seen early warning signs but still chose to stick to him. Ur lucky ur alive to tell the story. Women should learn to build their self esteem and stop acting like the world revolves around having a man
DeleteYay! M-amie made sense today. Hi-5!!!
DeleteYou're a bitch
DeleteOhhh Myyy Goddd!
ReplyDeleteDat's all i can say for now!
Will it be right to say frustration makes men do this? How can you kick a lady out of a moving vehicle or even still vehicle. Infact am so confused here right now. Psycho's everywhere, infact ladies I think it starts from us learning to love and adore ourselves. Be principled and let da mofo go if he ain't loving u d way u want it. The signs are always there we just make excuses for them and suffer @ d end. Jeeeez! I can't deal.
ReplyDeleteStella you know what is funny to me about you? You behave like DV only happen to women, anything concerning DV about women you started crying wolf I respect you but I don't like you for being bias towards women like you. You need to be analyzing situation on three bases; side one, side two, the truth. I have been studying you for a while and I think this is your major problem learn to view situation without taking any side and you won't have to be apologetic later after the deed has already been done, and don't forget I'm an ardent reader of this blog cheers and this is my two cent for you
ReplyDeletePardon my typo error Eng. Prof in the house
Luda xx
So,please what exactly is your point?'Cos I can't see how you've made any meaningful contribution towards this particular topic!Mr einstein......
DeleteWho is this one? Are u ok?... Do u expect stella to keep quiet about something like dis? Better "put ur mouth where God has put it". What kind of stupid comment re u making? whether u like it or not, its women that suffer DV the most, so just shut it.
DeletePlease there is no excuse for domestic violence! I don't care what the girl did, her boyfriend had no right to beat her like that!
DeleteI praise people like Stella that speak up for the people too hurt or ashamed to tell their own stories. Domestic violence is a no and we won't stop talking until it's over.
shut up and face your work, LUDA
DeleteWe have a lot of mad people walking around. They may not be stark raving mad but mad nonetheless bcz I simply don't understand how a guy would do this to his girl.
ReplyDeleteOnly an animal would do this.
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He is just an animal.Any man that raises is hand against a woman is an animal,please ladies lets love with our eyes widely open.
ReplyDeleteThis is wickedness and a demonic act,why, why,why?is this one not worse than an enemy?The heart of man is so desperately evil and wicked; please this guy should be locked and dealt with.
ReplyDeleteHa look at this woman's face oh!!! Ha!
ReplyDeleteI just hope she learns from this.
DeleteMiss Sally rue, I guess you fall into that category so I won't talk...
ReplyDeleteWhy take Postinor that is harmful when you can easily abstain!!
@Truthteller whatever you say hun. What I don't like is people acting like sanctimonious rats where other people's decisions are involved.
DeleteIf you are going to express your opinion try not to do it in a judgemental tone okay? You probably do stuff I don't support but its no for me to think or say there's something wrong with you. If someone is in a relationship and chooses to have sex and prevent unwanted pregnancy by take morning after pills its their business. And as for saying its harmful, kindly produce a report proving that people who use those kind of drugs are not able to get pregnant or die because of taking them.
Cheers.
Truth teller you speak the truth
Delete#speechless#....... God pls help us all ooo#Sad#
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Mamie and her supporters you are all idiots.....since you do not know this girl personally and you are judging May you receive a double portion of what she has gone through......anuofias.......daytime Amosus
ReplyDeleteDis is unacceptable.....Damn!
ReplyDeleteHis lawyer will soon claim he is mentally unstable then one judge will declare him unfit to stand trial. They will now keep him in one mental institution and be feeding him pills when he should be locked up in a maximum security prison with murders and rapists....I hope she gets justice. Checklist before you say 'I do'-http://omalichaspeaks.blogspot.com/?m=1
ReplyDeleteYou have got to be freaking kidding me!!!!!!
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