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Tuesday, February 04, 2014

Blog Visitor Jay Moore Writes Mind Blowing Epistle On Fake Versus True Friends.




I guess in the last few days,some things on this blog has opened a lot of eyes to the difference between the friend who stays because they love you and the one who stays because they want to see you fall.....oh well Jay prolly got hit by a fake friend bullet because he is so on point....please read and share your thoughts.....and then try to fish out your fake friends.
If you are a fake friend,this writeup should change you..huh?



There are lots of haters in the world. I'm sure we all have our share of them. But one thing I've learned in all these years is that you can't get ahead if you'll try to get even. 


As hard as it can be sometimes, you just have to be better. You won't be happy trying to make other people miserable anyway. Just live your life to the fullest and forget the enemy. 



Remember, the best revenge is to forgive, live well and succeed. Nothing drives people crazier than seeing someone have a good life! 

Deep down some of your so called friends don't want the best for you. 


They sleep better when they know you're not sleeping well. Fake friends believe in rumour. 

Real friends believe in you. It's not how many friends you have, it's the quality of friends you have. Be careful of those who pat you on the back.

 They might be looking for a soft spot to plant the knife.




 Friends are like boobs, some are big, some are small, some are real while some are fake.

 When you're up in life, your friends get to know who you are. When you're down in life, you get to know who your friends are!

 People who talk shit to you, usually talk shit about you. 

Be careful of who you pick as a friend, most people pretend to listen, but are only gathering information to judge you with.


It's so ironic. The people in my life who say, 'I'm always going to be here for you.' are the ones that walk away first.


Fake friends are easy to find and easy to loose but real friends are the hardest to find and hardest to lose.

Fake friends believe your fake smile, true friends see the tears your hiding inside.



True friends are always there for you. Fake friends only appear when they need something from you.


Its funny how; The one person you'd take a bullet for tends to always be the one behind the gun.

 Fake friends are no different than shadows, they stick around during your brightest moments, but disappear during your darkest hours.


Since when did BFF stand for 'backstabbing fake friend?"


The less people you chill with, the less problems you deal with.


 I'd rather be a friendless loser, than have a bunch of friends who secretly hate me.


In your life you will deal with hurt, disappointments , heartaches , headaches, heartbreaks , liars, cheaters, players, fake friends, scandalous females, trust issues, backstabbers , gossipers , and most importantly deceitfulness. you have to expect a punch and take a Panadol, have dirt thrown on you and brush it off, be tripped but stand up stronger than ever. There's no point of having tons of friends who won't be there when you're down.


 A fake friend calls when they need something. A real friend calls to ask if you're in need.


Some people they only remember me when they are broke, hungry and need shelter.


 In the end, you'll realize you only have a few true friends. But that's better than having many fake ones.

There's always those friends who are secretly happy to see you fall down. No friends are worse than them.


You gotta deal with the shit people do. Not everyone in life is gonna stay true.


What goes around comes around. That's what people say. So all the pain you caused me will come back to you someday. 


Neither of us meant for things to be this way. If things went differently, maybe we'd still talk today.No one stays true. It's like an addiction because ain't no one real, it's all fiction. 



Sometimes growing up - means growing a P A R T. Some say that time changes, best friends can become strangers. Nowadays there's no honor, only drama. Your friend today can be your enemy tomorrow.


Another lesson learned. Better know your friends or else you'll get burned While you're stabbing my back, you can kiss my ass too.




When you are up, your friends know who you are. When you're down, you know who your friends are. And remember, in dealing with backstabbers and haters, there's only one thing I’ve learned. Those 'bitches' are only powerful when your back is turned. 

God bless you..
Jay Moore.

49 comments:

  1. Mehn Jay u r so on point. Been facinq a lil challenqe recently n all d so called friends vanished. I was like 4 real? Den I had 2 wake up 2 reality. I fink I hv learnt more dan enuf 2 last me a life time. Naw I aint qat no tym 4 #sillyfakeassbitches#

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  2. OK...
    In addition, Expect nothing from no one..That way, you are not disappointed when they fall short..

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    1. Naturelle Osasere4 February 2014 at 12:41

      Sometimes it is difficult especially when you have rendered help to that friend in the past.may God help us all

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  3. Jesus Christ is my best friend...

    Oluyomi Odukoya

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    1. You've just mirrored my sentiments plus He can never betray or talk smack about me behind my back

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  4. Jay Moore my friend and brother,you have said it all,God bless you my Aboki,Mother fuckers never loved us,worst behaviour.

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  5. I have seen all of these in pictures....oh yes,cos I have them...but all the same well done cos it must have taken you a lot of time to type and all..love your spirit !

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  6. Very nice writeup.

    I'm glad I'm not type with lots of friends, most times I prefer being alone.

    The more friends u av, d more trouble u av to deal with. having too many friends is a luxury... Moderation should be applied to anyfin done in life including FRIENDS

    God save us from fake arse friends

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  7. Hunmmm fake friends.....i remember one frd i had. thrs was this period i had pimples on my face i asked her wat shud i use cos shes a doctor guess wat my frd said dat i shudnt bother using anything dat it will go, dat i dont even have pimples sef me too i believed her and left my face like dat.some months later she had just two spots on her face u shud have seen wat she bot to remove it, three diff kinds of facial cleanser. I was just looking at her, is she jealous of d fact dat wen we hang out i get more admirers. I confronted her she told me i dont need to remove the pimples dat me am fine already. I just reduced our frdship sharply.....short pple fear them cos this same girl can lie, pretend gossip na her trademark....hummmm

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    1. OH SHUUSH! She was right about the pimples, you don't need to use anything on them to remove them.
      You talking like this about her means you were really not her friend, for you to have such mindset about her. Maybe you are even the jealous one. People like you, need to stay friendless!

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    2. I know a friend dat knew dat her friend was getting married to a tout but refused to let her know, she was laughing about it and was happy, d kinda things people do ehn!

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  8. Hmmmmm true talk

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  9. Powerful. Saving this with your permission Jay Moore.

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  10. #YAWNS# what's all the long epistle about? Nothing New. Friendship is not by force. Truth us, if you are a true friend, you will have true friends, if you are a fake friend, you will have fake friends.
    The next time you are back stabbed, think back and examine yourself if you have never back stabbed someone else who trusted you, think back if you are not such a huge gossip who runs others down too cus quite sincerely, it's all a vicious circle- what goes around comes around. Don't expect too much from anyone and you'll never be disappointed.
    Deal fairly with all humans and to THINE OWNSELF BE TRUE!!!

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    1. @oliviaslik u crack me up mehnn dat blog is as fake as fake friends. Wat kills me most is d name sticking on pics as if dhe was d photographer hahahhahahaha fake blog.

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    2. Edirin, you are so on pint.
      Wondered why people always have something bad to say about others?
      People like that are not to be called friends.
      I noticed how people were going on about "say no to bff, i don't need no gf, my sisters are jealous...", if only you all will look deep inside, you don't even trust yourselves.
      Expect nothing from nobody and be good to all, no matter what.

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    3. Please tell them ˚Ooº°˚Ooº°˚Ooº°....pipo seem to forget karma lies having d last laff......when u can't be a friend how will u have friends.....If all ÐŽ☺ΰ do I gossip about peoples lives,expect urs someday......

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  11. Wow! This is so comprehensive n true; I like the last quote especially. For me, friends r like clothes; I'll rather have a few quality ones that a truckload of jagbajantis from d bend down boutique.
    Click my name for all your celebration cakes n cupcakes, Cheers

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  12. Nice one
    well am my own best friend
    me myself and i.

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  13. That,s true. That' why i have just 2frds my husband and others

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  14. na real epistle. mcheeew

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  15. Nice write up Jay Moore...
    Now I know who you are...#smirking#

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  16. Oh my God! Thanks jay for this!!! I needed this.i have just cut away from a fake mofo of a friend! I leave her in God's hands!

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    1. LOL, you are the fake mofo. Show me your friend...

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    2. @ anon 11:44 . i guess it takes a fake mofo to know a fake mofo! you are such a piece of shit! if you dont have anything sensible to say, go and DIE *in Oshiomole's voice*
      Alaileko!

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  17. They are everywere n the worst is that you cnt know them until its too late.

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  18. As for me, ever since I started minding my business and avoiding fake people who come around as friends, my life has been better. Kai! but I suffered oh. dem show me pepper. The ones who snatched my boyfriend, the ones who called me names that I knew nothing about, or accussed me of things I didn't know. Na my parents cause am. I didn't have any street sense before I got into university of calabar. na so them dey cage me throughout my early life. i thought life ws a bed of roses with clean minded people like me. By d time I graduated, I learnt fast. na so I jack bag go my papa house. so much peace and tranquility. girls bad sha. and I am not a tribalist oh, but I still fear Igbo girls. cos they can do almost anything for money. sorry to all offended parties, but I am talking from my own experience.
    Now I have very few friends who I am more at peace with and yes one of them is Igbo, so the whole pack isn't entirely bad. And i actually prayed for God to help me stop meeting the wrong people and send me good and honest friends. cos let's be honest, you can't travel this life alone. even just one is friend is good to have. cos sometimes you need a shoiulder to lean on. secondly, being friendly with women who are older is good for us young girls. older women have more exoerience on alot of things. but the truth is we avoid them because we feel we know too much. have even one older female friend. you will be amazed at the kind of things you will learn from her because she was once a young girl like you and did most of the things you are doing now and she has had experience with guys, girls, bosses, colleagues, neighbours, bad friends, good friends, aristos sef-lol. not to talk of the experience she has knowledge of.

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    1. Cc: Mamie....
      Can you see how respectful this Anon sounds? She's had bad igbo friends but she's not generalizing and she apologized in advance for any offence this might cause. Plus she still has an igbo friend.

      This anon was clearly brought up in a good home. Unlike Mamie who always sounds as if her mother ran away with her young yoruba lover and left her to suffer with her physically challenged Father.... lol... pele dear.

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  19. Naturelle Osasere4 February 2014 at 12:56

    We shouldn't over blow this friendship thing,there are bad frnds and there are also a lot of good friends,friends that motivates you understand your person. most people make friends for the wrong reasons some popularity or for wealth,in all choose your friends wisely and I believe in the saying that show me your friend(s) and ill tell you who you are.

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  20. Fake Friends, Bla bla bla, you're prolly someone's fake friend too!!! Loooool .... Nice compilation though!! I've seen them on google quotes about fake friends -_-

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  21. Jay you surely rock big time...need more of this but pls ope u practice what you teach?? Well, the tips over made my day, couldn't help but copy some to paste on my fbk page&even went as far as saving some pix(thanx to aunty stella) for BB dp.... God replenish the strength you lost while writing this epistle jay.... Thanx once more&more thanx to aunty stella... This blog has been a turning point in my life. @i_Choptas_Not

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  22. Jay you surely rock big time...need more of this but pls ope u practice what you teach?? Well, the tips over made my day, couldn't help but copy some to paste on my fbk page&even went as far as saving some pix(thanx to aunty stella) for BB dp.... God replenish the strength you lost while writing this epistle jay.... Thanx once more&more thanx to aunty stella... This blog has been a turning point in my life. @i_Choptas_Not

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  23. To appreciate who a True friend is, one must first be a true friend. In dis way, he/she easily recognises one of like-mind. You can't get wat u don't give, it goes against the law of sowing and reaping.

    Does dat mean that good friends don't have fake friends lurking around? No. There r bad and evil pple everywhere, smiling at u, escpecially if u r successful. They patiently wait, bid dia time and plot ur downfall. It's easy to recognize such pple.

    Be cautious of a friend who'd spend hours gossiping wif you abt anoda friend, but will smile and joke with same person to her face. Chances are, she's doing same abt you too.

    A friend who'd besmirch another's reputation just to get ur favor is one to be avoided.

    #my 2 cents#. Emem

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  24. No man is an island.
    In friendship, be wise and smart, while at it,....hope for the best and prepare for the worst.

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  25. This are things i already know and that is why i live a peaceful, clean, calm, healthy and stress free life..yes i love my life style!!!

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  26. Over time I have come to expect less from people. They have a right to be who they are. No one has an obligation to you in anyway what so ever. Loyalty is a privilege not a right. If you find it, appreciate and never abuse it. If u don't live well all the same.

    Most times we expect people to be perfect because they are our friend, no! Just like marriage, we must learn to tolerate one another even our flaws. I used to have a friend way back in uni. We were very close but guess what, she doeant joke with her money o! If u borrow from her she won't let u rest until you ve paid back. Yet we were still friends, knowing this also helped in relating better with her.

    If you entertain gossip, don't be hurt if its about you. Friends would hurt you just like anyone else but learn your lessons. Then evaluate yourself and see if truly you are not guilty of what you accuse the other party of.

    #mytwocents#

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  27. Pls what do we call friends that wait for you to commit blunder in thier hands. E.g after a phone conversation with you they refuse to drop the phone. The first time, I realized after about 33mins, then it happened again, I then decided to watch it and found out that she is purposely listening to everything my husband and I are saying. What category of friend do we call this one?

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    1. Omo she get time oo!!! How some people sleep at night i don't know. I thank God for the heart i have... Always wishing people well and trying to do things ppl most especially younger ones can emulate...

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    2. Hmmmm simply amebo lol. A normal person would immediately call u to let u know that u haven't end d call. Even sometimes when u have certain people on ur speed dial. It may call them randomly. Some are so wicked that they let u burn ur airtime because of their amebo...lol.
      The only time this behavior can be useful is if u were speaking to ur man. Most of us always want to hear a chicks voice in d background so to nab the man. Lol. But outside of this, a friend shouldn't do that.

      However.. a lot folks have been relieved of bad friends who speak ill of them after a phone call. So it varies. But I root for the man woman thing sha. Lol

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  28. Menh you are very powerful on points nd killing them all in the heart
    is only God knows the heart

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  29. Well I just found out that one smally who I always played and laughed with and have her back say that I'm not her friend cos I didn't or I don't tell her about my relationship with the one whom I'm dating. When I heard it I was like WTF, now here is someone who is coding her relationship,not telling anyone whether she's dating this particular guy or not but abeg I nor be small pikin wey one Ubika go wan dey use dey play ten-ten na. U nor wan dey yarn about ur paroles but u wan dey tafia for other people own,na wa o. Anyways I was shocked that she could say such behind me sha wen I'm so open to her. I have people who I get along with o but heaven knows that apart from Jesus and my family members I have just one person I call a FRIEND. Thanks Jay,been a long time coming.

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