''Aunty Stella, good day to you.please you need to post this by all means .Just save my soul. ..all names are real
my name is Kemi, I think I made the highest mistake ever...yea I think so.
I met my hubby Ayo 4 yrs ago, he once married to Calabar woman. they met here in Lagos and along the line they got married but no white wedding. after 7 yrs they separated, may be because of issues of not having children.
After one year of separation from the first wife, we got married.I regretted getting my seif into such mess, I started receiving threat msgs from unknown person asking me to leave this man or I will regret getting married to Ayo.
I taught it was ordinary threats but I lost my child the first year without any ailment and am burying my 2nd and only child today..(crying me ).
I want to go, I want to end this marriage but Ayo refused, He keep begging me to stay..you need to see him crying like baby but I have to go Ayo.
May be God don't want me to marry him, am sorry God, may be am in a wrong marriage according to Christianity. My question is WHO IS KILLING MY INNOCENT CHILDREN? , no ailment of any type nor malaria.
Am planning to quite the marriage soon, AM I TAKING THE BEST DECISION?''
*OMG
D calabar woman don chop ur babies finish.chai!abeg go b4 she go kil u 2
ReplyDeleteWat are you family saying about it,and what is ayo himslf and his family saying about it,the both families should move,the mother of the boy should b questioned about the family background,it myt nt evn be the ist wife rember she nvr had any issue,then came u having still birth,myt just b sme1 else,cld be a generational curse,cld be that his in a cult,could be anything,we only have physical eyes,we cannot point fingers in one direction,how are you sure if u leave him it won't cont with your new husband u need serious prayers,I mean not just any1 serious one. Deleverance for you and your husband both mothers should be arund if still alive.smetin is wrong smewere but I swear belive me nothing God cannot do! tel ur hubby shld open up about his past life just incase who knows,mydear sorry about the loss of your innocent children, God wld fight for you.may d good lord hv mercy on you
Delete@Covenant Abi o! I think same too.
DeleteShut that trap u call a mouth if you do not have anything to say. Which Calabar woman? If u do not have any advise for the woman SHUT UP and I repeat SHUUUUUUUT UP.
DeleteCharity, u must be a Calabar babe. See, it's a known fact that Calabar girl preserve juju in their vagina
DeleteThe devil is a liar. Many people on this blog will say its not by prayer but the truth is that, IT IS BY PRAYER. KEMI. fast for 9 days. Go to an altar and cry before God. Go outside at 11:45 and pray, by 12 midnight, Don't expect an immediate answer. Your problems will be revealed to you and will slowly fade away
DeleteMadam Charity, what do u mean by that? Isn't it obvious? The first wife is clearly not happy with the man in question (Ayo) so she is directing her anger to Kemi through diabolical means! I hate it when people see the truth and try to deviate from it.
Delete@Poster......it is not enof for u to point accusing fingers at ur hubby's first wife??dont u eva thinnk sm1,,somewhere could take advantage of d whole scenario(ur hubby leaving his first wife,,d threat messages) to shoot an arrow into ur home???do u also want to ask me how sm1 else (aside from d person who sent it) could no about d letter???then i should remind u dat we live in a wicked world.....and before anything materialises in d physical.....it has been long concluded in d spiritual realm......Madam,,,take heart,,,rise up and throw ur tentacles anywhere and everywhere in prayers and fasting......Our God is a God vengeance.....ask him to avenge d blood of ur innocent kids.....whoever is behind ur problems must pay dearly with his/her life(irrespective of whoever d person is)..........and pls dont forget to pray against every principalities too.......dont forget that d same unseen powers behind ur hubby's first childless marriage could still be at work.......probably some people dont want ur hubby to have kids in life(assumption).....that is why i said earlier..that u should throw ur tentacles everywhere and anywhere......pls carry ur pastor along too....it is well....May God fight ur battles IJN...
Delete@ladyengland,nyc comment dou I insist noone has a right to kill or keep anyone under oppression be it generational cause,spell or covenant cos D bible says even d legal captives of the mighty shall be delivered and taken away!
Delete@poster all u need is serious spiritual warfare!cos it's clear and obvious principalities from wherever are using ur kids for barbecue,and they are getting thru so easily,seem ur prayer life is cold,pls u need to sit up seriously and start going to churches dey do hott hot prayers.
Sorrry abt ur kids,all will be well IJN
@Fumilic, yes I'm a Calabar girl n proudly so. What's with pointing accusing fingers on someone whom have no evidence? Besides, what's with the " he once married to a Calabar woman" ish about? @Lloyd oliver, with that your dumb conclusion, I wonder what the generation after u would ever learn from u. R we still in the 21st century? Or have we gone back to d stone age?
DeleteI DONT PITY YOU AT ALL. THIS SHOULD SERVE AS A LESSON TO THOSE WHO MARRY OTHER WOMEN'S HUSBANDS. FOR YOU TO MEET AND MARRY HIM AFTER ONE YEAR, THERE IS A POSSIBILITY YOU WERE DATING HIM WHILE HE WAS MARRIED. YOU CAUSED IT FOR YOURSELF. WHAT YOU SOW, YOU SHALL REAP!
Delete@AnonymousJanuary 16, 2014 at 3:35 PM its obvious u r 50yrs old n u hv never been preg b4 if not u will know what to say. Barren witches like u r not expected to comment OK.
DeletePrayer my sister, go on prayer mountain and pray to God all will be reveal to you.
ReplyDeleteDear poster, u better look for an aladura (yes, white garment) church where they can see visions n tell u what is going on. I know some hypocrites will frown at this, but its ut life!
DeleteGod forbid, aladura is like going from frying to fire........they are utterly and totally demonic....go to a pentecostal church where you know they are known for deliverance.....meanwhile please i beg you in the name of God pick up your bible and also pray for yourself....we all have access to his throne of mercy....his mercy prevails over judgement.....while you go anywhere for prayers be sensitive....no asking for money, bathing in the river, sleeping with u or any kind of lies some people use.....it is well with you and i pray you find a solution to move you forward in jesus name.......also please try find out more about your husband....if possible try find out some facts about the calabar woman and why the marriage ended, she might know something you dont and how are we sure the guy told you all to know?......am not saying anybody is at fault but sometimes the truth about a situation can only be revealed in the place of prayer and you will be surprised it is not who or what you thought......women before you marry please pray and fast and get a pastor to also pray along so if there are any hidden things God can reveal.....
DeleteMy dear u don't have to quit the marriage just remember there is nothing God cannot do put it into prayers and u will see wonders.
ReplyDelete@poster, dz z beyond physical.
DeleteThis is d time to engage ursef in serious prayer nd fasting.
We wrestle not against flesh nd blood but against principalities and powers.
If u understand dz bible verse (if ur a xtian) dn ud knw say na serious bizness.
U dnt av to leave ur hubby. He should join u in praying nd fasting.
Therez notin u can't settle when ur on ur knees.
Wish u d best
U r still planning?U r yet to quit. Ok, continue planning when u r done with plannin, let me know.
ReplyDeleteFool u dnt run frm problms if ur cursed it wld afect u anywere
Deleteso what is ur advice??? running away???
DeleteTruth b told..u won't find d answers here..talk to God pls No1 is compared to him..he's d only 1 that can direct u..I knw d only suspect u have is d calabar woman but criously this is more spiritual than physical! I urge u to go spiritual too..talk to ur God madam, it is well! @xclucivexter!
ReplyDeleteAre you sure you and ur husband are not AS...that's how an aunt of mine was claiming that her husband's ex-wife killed her 3 boys nt knowing that they had sickle-cells.....ignorance is a disease plus people tend to take this genotype issue for granted (claiming a calabar woman ate ur children for lunch)..........just sayin oooo
Deletechooo,if you are truly and legally married to this man ,then stand by him in prayers ,you need to pray yourself out of this situation ,i won't advice you to leave your lawful wedded husband ,you need to hold hands together and ask God to come down for your sake ,this kids are innocent .God surely answers prayers
ReplyDelete1000 likes
Deletethings are really happening in this world,it may not even be your husband first wife is haunting you.
ReplyDeleteall you need is God for intervene.
Jesus, please stay away from him and anyone else, Fast and pray about it,the lord will reveal the unknown to you, am sorry about the loss of your child but please go to Mfm weekdays prayer and fast with them, the Lord will take charge in your life...God bless you
ReplyDeleteSorry about your loss. Kindly fast for 3 days and read psalm 51 asking God for forgiveness and then psalm 35 asking for God to revenge on your behalf. At the end of the 3 days please get yourself together and watch God act for you. Don't get pregnant until you feel the peace within you return. I will pray for you at midnight tonight too. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteCould your husband be a cult member? :(
ReplyDeleteThank you my thought exactly... Cos why is that the first woman couldn't give him a child? Have you asked yourself that? Have you thought about it? Don't jump to conclusion assuming becos the first woman is a calabar woman, or she left the husband for you then she killed your child. Dear @ poster, go and check the course of your problerm.. Church, prophet etc So you know where to channel your prayer to. That's my advise to you.. Sorry about the lose of your children. The Lord is your strength!
DeleteHave you gone for prayers? Not the type u do alone in your house. If you still love this guy and you think u want to remain in your home.you need the help of your pastor. Talk to him about it and I am sure he will organise for prayers and fasting cuz you cant fight this battle alone.but if u think your not ready for this its better you leave cuz the next arrow might be for your life.
ReplyDeleteYou just said they weren't sick before they died, how do we know who or what is killing them? Don't know if there are prophets here though. Why don't you see a powerful man of God? So sorry about your loss, I pray God gives you the fortitude to bear it.
ReplyDeletewhat you need is prayer,leaving him won't change anything. go on your kneel fast,pray and cry to God.. in Jeremiah 29;11*** For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.*** HE IS READY AND WILLING TO SAVE YOU MORE THAN YOU CAN IMAGINE
ReplyDeleteSo what has the Woman been Calabar got to do with it? Receiving text from unknown number does not mean it's from the calabar woman, typical blame the person who you think is responsible, blaming someone for something you have no proof they've done is just as bad, also has autopsy been done to confirm the cause of death??
ReplyDeleteShataaaaaaap dia!! It has got everytin to do with u calabars!!!! Calabar girls are known for witch craft nd furk furk!!!
DeleteShataaaaaaap dia!! It has got everytin to do with u calabars!!!! Calabar girls are known for witch craft nd furk furk!!!
Delete@anon4:06pm. She might be surprised that the poor calabar woman has got nothing to do with the death of her children... Had she also considered the husband? She should go see a strong man of God that's got Vision. She should go to 2-3 churches... I don tire to type abeg... Make she take heart
DeleteOkija wife...you are a miscreant and i shouldn't be replying you...especially as you have given your life to Okija shrine in which case you would totally know all there is to know about juju and witchcraft..
Deletebut in this case, your envy of calabar women is obvious, and so is your ignorance...
OK IJA wife,Abasi ukim ikang keep efod do!retard!
Delete@Calabar chic1... You should have known her by now. You see the way I bluntly ignored her to make my comment. Pls ignored her next time.
Delete@Calabar chic1... You should have known her by now. You see the way I bluntly ignored her to make my comment. Pls ignored her next time.
DeleteBut what makes women still go ahead to marry baby dadies and divorcees? Na wah for some women o.How many men bring thier problems to blogs? How many men go thru crises marrying a single mother? None! Cos they make sure she comes clean without any baggage frm previous relationship.shld we always give men the reason to believe its a man's world? I can't and will never let any man take me for a ride . There is nothing like karma, cos it's eye for an eye.
ReplyDeleteIf the reverse was the case, will Ayo ve stayed? Two kids!!!! My dear, pls run.
Look for a clean man with less drama cos all in all, u re the looser.Sorry abt ur loss but pls leave him to sort out his mess.
Pikin no dey Aba mrkt.
You could have known what it means to be married but what I do know is you aren't...na your type yoruba dey call adalemosu(going back to your fathers house after getting married)cos you can't stand marriage...maybe when you know the difference btw marriage and wedding you would grow up
DeleteQueenie dont u know women come clean into marriage but these miscreants called men lie their sorry arses to death or feign ignirance when the shit hits the fan yet get away with it!
Deletepls go to God in prayers @ Baba Olomi at Ikeja near excellence Ogba. or call 08023243055
ReplyDeleteCan you please tell us more about Baba Olomi? Who is he and what church is he affiliated with bikonu?
DeleteLMAO!!!!!!!! Maybe you should call the number to find out. Lolz
DeleteIts a sad one, May God comfort you and grant you the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.
ReplyDeleteMehn!!! People go thru a lot.. fast for 7days if u can n let GOD reveal tins to u..*smokescigar*
ReplyDeleteSweetheart it's not always religion o.
ReplyDeleteI understand Nigeria has it's own challenges n superstitions but have u bothered going medical?
There may be genetic impairment involved in ur children's gene make up n ure here suspecting witches n wizards.
If they die at a certain age,why don't u take it upon urself to visit a doctor before then with your hubby instead of leaving him out in the cold.
You need to b enlightened more.
Not all cases are spiritual.
I agree with Mamie. We are always quick to think every problem has a spiritual undertone.
DeletePls go for tests and find out if you or hubby have a genetic disorder that is affecting your kids. It might be dormant in you both but the combination of the genes in your children might be deadly.
can I just give you a mega hug?I was about scrolling down to say this ,God bless you.
DeleteIt not all necessarily witches n wizards, what we ourselves cause....
She should start by getting their medical positions/conditions right before pointing fingers, God help her though because in situations like this she wouldn't think straight and as we are just humans those that threatened her will come to mind but after all said n done, she should go to God, ask for forgiveness because in all we are sinners.
Definitely need to check it out, it could be in the genetic make-up.
Delete@M-amie clap for ur self. Today u make sense, in short the past 2 days i am seeing changes in ur write up. Did u visit prayer man or woman to pray for u? Thank God for the change keep it up. LOL
DeleteYes it's not everything that is spiritual. But I expect you to read in between the lines. She was warned not to marry him and then she started receiving text message of warning. It's very easy to point at where it's coming from. Children dying without ailment how can you explain that? How many cases have you heard of genetic disorders. They are there and it's always clear.
Delete@Jay Moore, I think the undertaker,/brain surgeon did a wonderful job on Mamie.
DeleteKudos to them.
Danmmm! @M-amie! !!!! You must be drunk girl. ....woman or lady!!! Sooo, you finally start sucking dick! I guess that changes your way of thinking. Tribalism bitch!
DeleteDid u check your rhesus compactibility b4 u married?
DeleteCheck ur genetic factors pls. Stop all these spiritual stuffs. U will hang in d arms of charlatans
Poster do u know Ikotun? Can u run as fast as ur legs can carry u? If ur answers r yes to the above, then run with the speed of *sound* to Synagogue and cry to God to use Prophet T.B Joshua.
ReplyDeleteStop advertising TB Joshua here.....he is not a true man of God....miracles can be orchestrated from the kingdom of darkness.....guard your hearts wella
DeleteDo u want to excalate her problem abeg mind d kin place u send ppl biko
DeleteIt is funny that all the comments are about prayer. This story is not complete. She is not telling us lots of things. Children don't just fall down and die. She has condition her mind because somebody threatened her. The children may even be SS genotype or something. Seek medical help for your children and stop labelling innocent people witches and wizards.
ReplyDeleteDint u read the part that she said they did not av malaria or any kind of sickness?
DeletePrayer is the KEY.....MumIssy
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for the loss of your children. I pray God gives you the strength to bear your loss, Please run to a Bible believing church. My suggestion would be MFM prayer city. I can't even think passed losing two children! Please my sister you need to cry out to God in prayers. You cannot do this by yourself so please go somewhere that strong men of God can join hands with you and agree with you in prayers, and also tell you the source of your problems. You also need to hear from God about the way forward. You need his guidance to proceed.
ReplyDeleteGOd where are yu!
ReplyDeleteMy dear leave that house immediately. Traditional or white wedding, he is married to that woman in heaven and on earth s long as that woman is alive and as long as u remain there, u r a fornicator and Ayo is an adulterer. Read what the bible says about divorce. I can search for references on google. U stepped in because u felt the other lady was barren and u r more fruitful than she is....have u thought of the pains n agonies that woman passed? Maybe God is trying to teach u and Ayo a lesson that He is d one that gives children Not u d poster.first start by leaving that house and calling off that thing u call marriage and Find ur own man. There is no point attaching sentiments to this, d truth has to be told regardless of how good ur write up looks.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts too.
Delete@poster...i really empathize with you on the loss of your children..it is a terrrible thing to befall a parent and i wouldn't wish it on my enemy...
Deletethat being said, it baffles me when a woman feels that a couple is not properly married in law and before God because they didnt do what we call 'white wedding'..it is totally untrue.
now to the issue...please do not witch-hunt anyone..cos it seems your mind is on a particular person otherwise you wouldn't take great pains to mention where the first wife hails from...
can you possibly know what that woman 'saw' in that house before she decided to leave?
go all out medically and spiritually...you might be shocked
True talk there.
Delete@Peaches God bless you ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo TELL THEM, TELL HER
Deletei dey read comment here telling her to remain pray and fast as long as she is the legitimate wife
i dey laugh ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo i dey laugh
UNA KNOW WETIN E BE TO LOSE PICKIN, TALK LESS OF TWO?
God forbid may we never know in Jesus name
Madam blog crier RUN OUT OF THAT HOUSE AS FAST AS YOUR LEG WILL CARRY YOU
women getting married to another person's husband or a man who has just broken up have to be very very careful. i know you want to get married and its not your concern what lead to his previous marriage break down but you need to be concerned.
you need to call God and ask questions with style. THAT IS WHEN YOU NEED TO DO THE DELIVERANCE SESSION NOT WHEN CHILDREN BEGIN TO DIE OR THINGS BEGIN TO GO AWRY. LADIES PLEASE BE CAREFULLLLLLLLLLLLLLL, SOME WOMEN SCORNED DO NOT JOKE O.
madam pack your load and leave that home. can you sit in that house with the death of two children over your head. pack you load and go for deliverance. begin afresh, dedicate your life to God and he will make things new for you again. dont look back, dont let anyone hold you back, dont let anyone tell you tales, let God lead you out of that home in one piece. Goodluck
NB: I know someone this sort of thing happened to, her case it was the mysterious death of her toddler son. she ran out of that man's home. I am not asking everyone to do this but she must have done her home work afterwards and would have been confident the husband had something to do with it before making the decision of running away.
This is so heart breaking, I think an autopsy should be done and the previous wife might not even be the culprit + u need to go to God in prayer as well. M so sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteYou can't just accuse the calabar woman like that, what if your hubby is in a cult after all his first wife did not have any kids
ReplyDeleteJust start praying and fasting sharply... Cus you never can tell
+ there's nothing impossible for God to do just have faith, but in the first place why marry a man who has married another woman for 7years do you know what they have been through together, anyway the deed is done, just start praying
Take it to God he alone can make d final decision for u, but if I were you I will call it quit.
ReplyDeleteOne part of me is saying u should pray seriously about it,the other says run as fast as u can from the marriage.I think amma go with RUNNING! U only mentioned the guy been separated from the first wife,the fact they didn't go to church does not mean he didn't pay her dowry or go to court,which means they are still married. If truely he left her after 7yrs bcos of no issue then he might be under a curse from her, karma or medical cos some people don't show any sign of sickness and before u say Jack they are gone. May God give u the strength to bear it and also give u the wisdom to tackle it
ReplyDeleteThis is so heart breaking. I think an autopsy should be performed and you really need to go to God in prayers as well. Who knows the previous wife may not be the culprit. Am so sorry for your loss.
ReplyDelete.......but is it everything some people post in blogs? would you find solution here? How is anybody here supposed to know who's killing your children? You have family,dont you? Aren't there elders there?
ReplyDeleteA couple that is separated isn't divorced, you had no business marrying the man so your marriage was even wrong ab initio.
You shall not suffer any loss again by God's Grace but pls do the needful through the proper channel.
@m_amie wetin u dey talk again??
ReplyDeleteIsn't it conspicious its d calabar x_wife eating up are children?? Abeg its glaring joooor!!CALABAR winchy winchy_holyghost fire go scater una!!
Ok we don hear, na only Igbo woman men suppose marry. Every other woman is the daughter of satan. We don hear madam, oya leave this place
Delete@m_amie wetin u dey talk again??
ReplyDeleteIsn't it conspicious its d calabar x_wife eating up are children?? Abeg its glaring joooor!!CALABAR winchy winchy_holyghost fire go scater una!!
Hmmm!!!! People are already saying its d first wife! What if it isnt her? What if it has nothing to do with the spiritual realm .. There is a possibility that it could be from genes of either parents .. Why dont u do proper medical tests and all!! Condolences
ReplyDeleteI am truly sorry for your loss. You need to do two things, first serious fasting and prayers. Then go to a specialist doctor once u r pregnant again, there are certain tests that can be done to reveal genetic problems affecting even a child in the womb. Pls don't leave ur husband as all will be revealed through prayer.
ReplyDeleteAre you both AS ?? GO AND FIND THAT OUT FIRST!
ReplyDeleteIf they are both SS ie the children it would be clear. They will have records that the children had sickle cell. But she says the children died with no ailment She will know the difference and also have their health history . This woman knows what she is saying.
DeleteMove over the superstitions and reason logically.. Your children may have died as a result of several factors. Did they get comprehensive medical attention to rule out any congenital issues prior to their death?..At what age(s) did they die?..were they ill and if so for how long before death?.. are you a rhesus positive mother..? Have you thoroughly investigated you and your husband's genetic make up?..In this day and age, it is shameful to attribute medical issues to spurious beliefs and witchcraft. If you need further evidence based and medically sound advice, I trust there are many medics in this community to proffer sound advice. Please accept my condolences for your loss.
ReplyDeleteAm calabar, but I fear my people lik mad. And of cos youraba pple too cos am married to one. God will expose and disgrace ur enemies
ReplyDeleteStella,pls i'm begging you what so ever you enlarged pls adjust it to fit my nokia express music phone,so i can read and comment in your site with ease. @poster try and visit the first wife with your husband so that what ever curse she lay before leaving can be broken. @stella thank you.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm na Calabar ppl u dey joke wt. My dear flee before she uses ur womb as her nxt meal!
ReplyDeletePlease are you sure your kids are not suffering from sickle cell anaemia? This might not be spiritual as you thing. Have you and your husband checked your genotype?
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your loss, please take heart. Before you start pointing accusing fingers at anyone please I want you to explore all medical options. It may not be what you are thinking... Take heart and please handle this with wisdom ok. Get close to God.
The Lord is thy strength.
I'm so sorry about your loss ma'am, so heart breaking. Go to God in prayers, He alone knws all. And perhaps, u shud also ponder on these:
ReplyDelete1. Your hubby maybe involved in something fetish; occult (I've heard of cases like that)
2. It may/maynot be the calabar woman
3. Ask your own family certain questions, they may have answers.
4. Did u marry him against the wishes of your parents?
Leaving ur hubby may not be the answer u seek. Aboveall, there's nothing God can not do, pray honey pray.
I thought you guys did for better or worse stay with your boo my granny buried 3kids out of 8 & she is still alive to take care of the rest...I use to say I don't believe any wrong can do anyone wrong and even if they do destiny can never be changed...my dear go on a marathon 7days fast you need no pastor get an anointing oil,kjv bible and a scarf cry to the most high to show you where the problem lies and you shall see wonder...yoruba pple do say (omo to ba ma sin ni kin ti majesin sanku) meaning a child that would bury you will never die young...
ReplyDeleteYesternight I was still playing with a little 8month old girl at my bf's place & this morning my bf called me that she is dead so pls take heart better kids will come...sorry 4 any typos
You guys can try going for genotype checkups to see if you aint both AS...
ReplyDelete@Poster Kemi, May God In HIS Infinite Mercy grant u the fortitude to bear such an irreparable loss IJN! Now a quick one (1).were u in a relationship/dating Ayo while he was still legally married to His first wife(now ex-wife) (2).was Ayo's marriage annulment to first wife a mutual agreement or was it a sole decision by Ayo? (3)was the marriage annulment(separation/divorce) legal? I speak from experience especially if the first wife wasn't aware & maybe the man involved lied to u that he was separted or divorced or never been married,when u eventually come into the matrimonial home. In quote some first wives take 2 diabolical means to harm their mate or her step children. Sometimes u don't even find out about such enchantment or divination if u are not spiritually grounded in the word(word of God) or have a spiritual covering(A spiritual Mentor that is a Spiritual man of God). Because your write up says the reoccurent deaths of ur children has got nothing to do with any ailment whatsoever. So I am ruling out medical challenges. (4).were his Folks in full support of ur marriage to him? The funny truth is sins's of the father(husband)always visits his seeds. My advice 2u is to go for Deliverance in a bible believing church(MFM,RCCG,LFC etc).to all the ladies out there,before u walk down the aisle with any man make sure u both go for deliverance together so his sins from his past doesn't visit u & ur unborn kids o. Because some men knowingly & unknowingly utter promises of marriage to their gf's & eventually disappoint them leaving them for some other lady. Such men incur cusses on their future wives & seeds. To the men out there,if u are not sure u would want to spend the rest of ur life with a certain lady u are seeing at the moment Pls do not jokingly or seriously promise her marriage. Save your future wives & seeds the stress of moving from one prophet to the other,one pastor to the other,one jazz man to the other! May we not suffer what we know nothing about IJN. The advice isn't only for the male folks o! It's for both(cos both sexes are guilty of such promises)
ReplyDeleteGo to d Lord n prayers
ReplyDeleteGo to T.B Joshua...
ReplyDeletePlease, please please do not I repeat do not go to TB Joshua. Your case may seem better but you will, be worse off. Pls don't go there.
Delete@Poster Kemi, Then after u are through with your deliverance(Deliverance is Freedom from Stronghold),Fast & Pray believing God for Answers! If you Pray & u don't get solutions then it means u are not praying right. Read John 10:10, 2Thess 1:6, 1John 3:8, John 8:32, Isaiah 49:24-26, 1Peter 2:9, Psalm 8:4, Micah 5:7-12, Psalm 35,Psalm 121,Psalm 18, Psalm 25 & Psalm 27. If u need a Pastor to counsel u then u could comment & i would give u a Pastors no in RCCG or LFC 2 Pray with u! It is well IJN!
ReplyDeleteOkija wife got a memo some days back and she is still here blabbing. If ure married am sure ur story will soon come here as case of DV cuz he wil kill u 1 day. Madam ur not alone in this and all u need is some investigation and soul searching. A woman in my area had 7 kids( 3 guys n 4 gals). All the guys are dead n they died in their prime @ moments of success. After much prayer and with the help of a pastor they found out that its their neighbour a fellow ibo whom she had wronged that was doing it n d ibo man confessed too(woman is ibo n husby na yoruba). Madame do autopsy, do everythg medical and then do ur best to get a real man of God. Stop saying calabar woman thereby castigating a tribe that's been hurt by u. Less than a year u sharply marry her husby. For ur info u caused her pain too so don't come hia n yarn dust. Maybe u were even his mistress while they were married n na belle u use enter. Sorry about ur loss but ur calling d woman in without proof set me off.
ReplyDeleteI think yiu should quit the marriage cos its obvious that you don't love him. Cos if you di, you won't be here. You'll be busy burying your child and discussing how you will get closer to God and fire prayer with him
ReplyDeleteRun, pleae, run. My uncle was married to a lady and she kept having miscarriages. My grandmother said she was mami-water, that that was why she was losing her babies. The babies always died during childbirth. She stayed. Long story short, she died with baby number 4. Years later uncle remarried. She lost her first and only baby. That was 9 years ago. No babies since then. Draw your conclusion.
ReplyDeleteLadies please pray before marriage o!
There are many sexual infections that cause still birth coupled with the environmental factors. Stay there and be calling witches.
DeleteIt happened to some one in my family, calabar women are dangerous ( talking from experience ) the guy was killed by this calabar girl. ( true life story )
ReplyDeletestupidity no doubt runs in your family....i am not calabar but from the middle belt........so now all calabar women are dangerous cos the guy who we don't know his own part of the story was killed by a calabar woman?....let me know your tribe so i will give you a list of atrocities committed by them.....people like you should go back to the stone age or better still go be a hermit in a jungle somewhere......retard..
Deleteand i forgot to add...please, an autopsy!!!! please, you'll be surprise what it might turn up
ReplyDeleteSorry for the loss of your children but I don't think this post is cos you really want answers from here....am sure you are just looking for another way to vent your sorry if not I can't comprehend why you would bring a serious life threatening issue to a blog....have you not hear of churches or pastors? What kind of advice can you get here? The time you used to type and come back and read for comments you would have used it to go to a bible believing church for prayers........you buried your child today and you have the time to come and open blog and read and type?....anyway I won't say you are not serious cos people do things differently...if you are serious about solving your problems start from this night to begin to call on God every midnight......if u are a Christian take your bible and read then go and look for a pastor to pray along with you so God can reveal the real genesis of this matter........it is well with you, may God comfort you and bless you with other children who will live long and bring you joy.....
ReplyDeleteSorry for your loss. Please ignore superstitious belief. Have you checked your genotype? Congenital defects, sudden infant death syndrome may be the cause of these deaths. Please go for a comprehensive medical assessment. An autopsy on the dead child would help. Take heart. Rose
ReplyDeleteGo to no. 16 oluirolu street, ijesha lagos. Its a prayer ministry and last busstop to ur problem. Thank mi later. Chuks
ReplyDeleteHmmm..... read this psalm, 109. It is extremely powerful and if you couple it with prayers my dear hell must break lose. You will surely testify. My thoughts are with you. God bless.
ReplyDelete@poster, you don't need to be scared when you have God. Go to HIM in fasting and prayers and also seek the guidance of a true spiritual head to guide you through this process. Wouldn't advice you to leave your husband as that's not the solution. Seek God and you would find HIM with open hands awaiting you.
ReplyDeleteMadam,you are in a wrong relationship. This man you marrid has a wife. you threw her out and married Ayo. taking advantage of the fact thatshe did not have children. put yourself in her shoes. how would you have felt if your husband left you after 7years because you could not conceive? The scripture says one man one wife. Go and find your own husband and marry. And let Ayo return to his first wife. U cannot be fasting and praying to takeover someone's husband. the time to do so is now. God doesn't favour divorce so He will not answer your prayers. Be strong. your destiny is in your hands
ReplyDeleteyou still dey ask? u want make I borrow you leg? run for your life woman and don't look back
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ReplyDeleteMy advice is to seek the face of God you and your husband need to see a real man of God for serious Prayer.don't leave your husband
ReplyDeleteMy advice is to seek the face of God you and your husband need to see a real man of God for serious Prayer.don't leave your husband
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ReplyDeleteGod can do all......just go to him
ReplyDeleteeverything to God in prayer as He is the impossibility specialist..
ReplyDeleteif he performed any traditional rites with the calabar woman then she is his wife. you are not his wife, quietly leave the marriage before you would be next on the line my dear sister.
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