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This was dropped as a comment,i wanted to delete or ignore it but since it concerns an unborn child and she used GODS name to beg,i couldn't ignore it...I am sure the lady who dropped the comment will come back to read.please if you feel the push to help, drop your comments or email and she will contact you,i do not have any means of contacting her unless she comes in here to post as 'poster' of this comment or she eventually mails me directly.
People really have real life issues meeeeen...sometimes we have it so good that it is unbelievable that some people can have it so bad.
I am not judging but please if you must make love,use a CONDOM...having babies no be joke!
read the sos comment below
Stella, this is completely off topic and I apologise for that, I've been trying to send you a mail but its not working. I discovered I'm pregnant today, I and my boyfriend are unemployed graduates, I don't want to abort this baby. My boyfriend is financially handicapped as he is the first son and has a lot of responsibilities, I'm the only daughter in my family. I really don't want to abort this baby. He wants to pay my bride price but money is the problem. Is there anyway you can help us secure jobs. Please for the sake of my baby. I'm crying my eyes out right now. Stella please save my baby, I don't want to abort. Help us in any way you can please. I beg you in God's name, please.
Prove that your blog is not just for gossiping! Help them
ReplyDeleteAnon Ist comment....May Thunder fire that your mouth abi fingers you used in typing this.....chai Stellastica don chop shit....idiot!!!...
DeleteGo joor, how many people she wan help? You wan kill her? Nigerians, your eye must not see a successful person. You feel she owes you some obligation. STELLA, you dont owe anybody jack! If you want to help, help. Don't be blackmailed into doing anything. Its not fair. You, anon, help the young girl too.
DeleteAnonny, You are an idiot...
DeleteMy dear anonymous wey dey tackle Stella, I guess you have not been involved in charity work. If you had, you would have known that even if Stella spends all her income on people in need, it would still not be enough. Sometimes one has to look away. Rose
DeleteShe didn't state what she and her boyfriend studied or whatever skills they have.
DeleteAt least that will go a long way in giving people an idea of how to help them.
Poster if you stay in Abuja, i can help with some baby clothes (will share from my son's own ooooo if you wont mind). Indicate interest by dropping a contact email here.
She should proove to who? Is Stella here to impress you???? Dundy with a capital D! Gerrout of here. Idiot!
DeleteCommon fuck off to learn the correct spelling of "proove"
Wise words, Mrs E. Anon has probably forgotten dt Stella is a mom & has her own responsibilities too. & yeah, she's a great philantropist! Stella boo, if u can't help her..feel no guilt. Btw Poster,u already have a lot 2 deal with, dnt let me give u a piece of my mind. Post ur a/c details & credentials.
DeleteAhhh! Stella congrats o! i didn't know you have become minister of employment. Abi anon 5.29pm
DeleteThis is getting out of hand! I mean what is wrong with Nigerian youths? SEX SEX SEX has become order of the day. Unprotected sex for that matter! What did you think sperm produces when you were engaging in unprotected sex? Milk or water? You didn't know that both of you were jobless when nacking flesh to flesh abi? Okay so you have read stories of those that kept their babies and you are encouraged abi? I knew those stories would encourage girls to continue having unprotected sex, so now this blog has become what? a place of help. I hate stories like this and i don't even pity her situation one bit, this is a mistake that could be prevented. You have family now? Go and meet them! Abuse me well o, birds of same feathers!
DeleteBut Stella has helped by putting this out, they will surely get help.
DeleteHmm,enof of all dis pathetic,recircled stories.m sowie m nt bein unreasonable or somtin bt you knw d cicumstances surroundin u,yet u had unprotected sex?am nt bein judgemental or actin all holy nd shit,c'mon girl let's be reasonable,eg me nw am a V @ 22,nt lyk I dnt wanna av sex or somtin,I gat hormones girl I get horny @times ,bt I weighed my options,dia is more to sex dan just bein unda d sheets,,av checkd it m so scared,if I say lemme use condom it myt just break while thrustin,,contraceptives No cus of side effects,with drawal method no no no,,av checkd it I can't deal,nd since I can't deal I gotta zip d hell up,to avoid stories that touch,I 'm aware of wat it entails raising a child in dis hard economy,abeg that 30min of pleasure aint worth in d long run,aBeg young girls let's get some sense nah,cus it all falls on us,the trauma nd shit,whilst d guy myt be straffin anoda,in d long run celibacy rocks abeg.
DeleteOgbeni gan drink schweppes nd .....,its still blood not yet formed,God forgive me,but u cnt bring a baby to this world to suffer,what happens if ud hv to deliver via CS nd no money?ud force ursef to push nd die in d process,no job,no house,haba tomorrow ud cry foul that ur hubby says u tied him down with pregnancy,nd he'd b misbehaving,u deserve better pls.heaven show u mercy.
DeleteStella please help my baby.... meeeen dat part is soooo touching. She only seek for job not money pray she get one.
DeleteWhen Ezenwanyi talk now, una go curse her die. No money and una dey love una sef dey fuck to console yourselves instead of looking fr jobs. Na now una know say dowry should come first. Who will employ you now and now let you go on maternity leave a few months later. This is what happens when erections continue to determine young people's direction in today's Nigeria. Better go back to your parents and go and beg their forgiveness and support so that they can take care of you so that your boyfriend can grow up fast and find a job with which to take care of you and your unborn child without putting people under unnecessary pressure.
DeleteLMFAO @ "this is what happens when erections continue to determine young people's direction"
DeleteAnon 8:25 and Yellow Yellow.....You're soooo on point! If only our youths can think with the instrument meant for thoughts and not their "hormones".
DeleteI'm surprised Stella even put this up at all. So, after all the stories you've been reading here on this blog and the life experiences of some other people who had threaded this path before, you didn't learn.....and here you are, using emotional blackmail on Aunty Stella shey?
Please poster, tell your "unemployed boyfriend" to go find work to do so he can fend for both of you even if its from the family members, because you can't expect to be employed, only for you to go for maternity leave before you're even confirmed. Wise up! May God have mercy on you both!
It Is Well. Cheers!
No but wait seriously, I make come off as insensitive but what is all this? You know the circumstances you are surrounded with and then you still engage in unsafe sex????
ReplyDeleteArghhhhh! Abeg I no wan vex.
When you begin to pat everyone in the back while blaming it on mistake which could have been well over avoided, then we gonna keep reading shits like this and we all turn to an NGO. Am really sorry if I seem mean on this but these are my exact thoughts typed out...
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DeleteI feel you my sis,
DeleteShebi I said it a while back that people will shout mistake but it will not stop girls who obviously know better from making that same mistake the next minute.
Not that we are being insensitive, BUT TIMES ARE HARD,!!
For every responsibility make plans!
If you can't afford it now don't cause it to happen and say GOD WILL PROVIDE.
That is wicked!!!
YR
@Bloglord,pls tell! I really don't understand how ppl reason,u already have a situation and u guys decided to add another SITUATION on top. What do u think was gonna happen having sex without protection? GOLD!!!
DeleteI share your opinion BlogLord. You said the bitter truth. People should learn to practice safe sex since they can't abstain. If you are not scared of contacting a disease at least save an innocent child the agony of being born into this world to suffer unnecessarily.
DeleteI sincerely hope the poster gets help soon. I pray the child brings her good luck.
I also hope young ones learn from this. 15 minutes of sexual pleasure can land you in an everlasting problem. To raise a child is not a childs play o.
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DeleteThose who must come, must come.
DeleteI wish I had a job to give, I really do.
No one is infallible, not condoning the action but I mean.............
DeleteI really feel for her, may the Lord see u thru
ReplyDeleteI feel for her too; .may the spirit of your unborn child oper ways for you far beyond ur imagination
DeleteClick my name for all your celebration cakes n cupcakes, cheers
I feel for her too; may the spirit of your unborn child open ways for u beyond ur imagination
DeleteClick my name for all your celebration cakes n cupcakes, cheers
Whatever you do, don't abort that child. God will make a way for you. Trust Him and not humans.. asking for help here is good, but you need to seek God's face, listen to HIM, HE will tell you exactly what to do, show you the way to go. Many people should learn to develop strong faith with God.
DeleteI have a Christian blog, click my name to connect. God bless you.
@baaquethall...I have been looking for your blog for almost 6mnths now...aww
DeleteThank you Jesus
Poster where do u live? Please maybe not your full names but help us to help u here.
ReplyDeleteThanks
I'm the poster. I've gone through all your comments, thanks to those who actually want to help me... For those blaming me for having unprotected sex, I take the full blame but dont just assume the sex was unprotected bcs it wasn't. Everyone I've confided in said I should remove the baby. I never knew Stella will make my post public, I was distraught when I sent it. I'm just trying to correct my mistakes and take responsibility for my actions. Judging/blaming me won't help. Thanks for your concern anyway. I've told my family and they are ready to sponsor my marriage. I know I fucked up big time. I only pray God will grant me safe delivery and a happy marriage. But please next time, dont be so harsh on 'stupid' people like us, comments like urs can drive one to do an abortion. I've learnt from my mistakes and I'll do everything in my power to give my baby a great life. I know the God who created me will always make a way for me...
DeleteOh poster please keep shut! When i was blaming that Ifeoma of a girl a while ago, people condemned me. Now see what we will be getting from time to time. Abeg, no time for pity party, you are lucky your parents agreed.
DeleteKeep trapping guys with pregnancies and blaming the devil, I'm not praying for a bitter story later o, but, make i comment my reserve ist
anonymous 8:53 you are a demented idiot......what the heck have you said that people have not been saying from time immemorial.....have people stopped having sex? no...as long as people keep having sex then mistakes like this will happen.....am sure you idiot talking have either committed abortions or had someone committed abortion for you.....nobody is encouraging any body by helping....the deed has been done and she needs a job....if u have help if you don't then shut your stupid mouth.....enough of your juvenile sanctimonious comments here......no body is forcing you to help so we dont need your lectures or blaming anybody like you are a hero......
DeleteHeeya to fork sweet oooo but wen u fork pikin comot wen u aint prepared, yawa go gas.. Abeg ppl shud learn t zip up ooooo, child bearing isn't a small sth meanwile am glad she wanna kip d baby. Breakthru wud com dier way soon.
ReplyDeleteLMAO....ur crazy
DeleteBLOG ANALYSER: Amen. Hmmmmm I am speechless
DeletePls dis one everybody is talking about help, I am not saying pple should not help her, why she go get bell @ 1st instance, she be baby, if u can't use condom, pls ladies learn to calculate ur safe period or down apps for ovuation and safe period, else na belle every month be dat, u sure say d man wan marry u, no be 2morrow e go talk say u use belle key am down, so know what u are doing, pray God will see u thru.
DeleteThe Lord is year strength plss sdk lets dp sumtin
ReplyDeleteWell as for me I also think this is going too far!why should educated and exposed adults Keep practicing unsafe sex,knowing it's implication and besides,none of them having the financial capacity to bear the consequences?
DeleteStella it's not cool cos now it will seem to the smallminded' pple that u are promoting premarital sex,unsafe sex and immoral behaviour.
I cannot contribute to this cos we have juveniles reading this blog,and all they will think is dat it's cool to get preggy and come on SDK's to get support!
Stella u are a sweet' heart but on such issues u let the parties involved sort their ssh*t demselves,yes!let's hear the testimonies leta if need be #rolls eyes#
Btw there are orphanages every where!#flips hair and walks away#
shut up already....is it only young people who make this mistakes? as long as people keep having sex things like this will continue to happen, so pls make una save all this lectures
DeletePoster why didn't you use a condom? I dont feel pity for you anyways.
ReplyDeleteCeeCee
As if you do...Hypocrite oshi
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Deletestella my advice is that u refer her to the post of the babe that says her disadpointment turns to blessing.the girl that had a baby ,i av forgotten her name.it will do her good
ReplyDeleteMy sis/bro, dat babe(ifeoma) U̶̲̥̅̊ refered 2 snathced her bestie's boyfriend!!! She may enjoy it now, bor wil l8r regret.
DeleteYour boyfriend are unemployed undergraduates?...how many abeg? Lol..
ReplyDeleteon a serious note, tell your boyfriend to discuss with your parents....maybe they can waive some payments for him. I think if he is able to win the sympathy of his family and yours, they will pull their strength to support him.
God is gonna bless you with good Jobs very soon..Amen.
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She said..she and her boyfriend are unemployed graduates
DeleteWhen it was going in did you invite us in god's (sic) name. What you did in hiding is now public. Handle your mess since you are grown enough to spread your thighs.
ReplyDeleteWill the commenter be a bit reasonable. Who will knowingly employ a pregnant woman? So you can be going for antenatal during work houra then disappear for 3 months? If you feel convicted to not have an abortion don't have one. But perhaps you should focus on a trade while your baby daddy gets a job. You can see what you can buy & sell or small scale agriculture. God will provide for you.
ReplyDeleteWell, there are companies that employ pregnant women. I was employed and welcomed with my pregnancy. It is not a disease. Your mindset is not right. To the subject at hand, you need to involve your families. The deed has been done. Now is the time to face reality. A little more details about the guy can determine if we can help with a job for him. For the lady, please do not abort. It is not the child's fault. Pass through it and learn from your mistake.
DeleteHmmm....
ReplyDeleteI don't have jobs for you but I have baby things you may need. Calm down, it's never as bad as it seems, some people definitely have bigger problems. Drop your contact.
ReplyDeleteBloglord am with you on this one. Why have unprotected sex when you know what might come out of it. Pls Nigeria ladys,there is something called contraceptives if you wan fuck, protect your self.
ReplyDeleteNk.
This is just a simple thing, she asked for help and not force... If you cannot help better shut the fuck up
ReplyDeleteYour brain is sure misfiring since you are not aware that once people ask for these kind of helps, they automatically hand over the review of their lives to the helper!
DeleteToo many mofos in that Nigeria..seeking for help after foolishly living their lives. It is people with undeveloped brains that makes the world what it is today. And that includes my sister who "mistakenly" got pregnant twice without been married. Now we are saddled with the responsibilites of helping out! Bunch of sick people..
You and your guy have no job and yet you couldn't buy twenty naira condom to fuck..now you wanna bring a child to dis world to suffer...because he says he is a forgiving God so we keep commiting sins which we are aware of,silver or gold I do not have to give you but go and sin no more....i tire for all dis stories I read here..after helping you now,a teenage gal reading will want to try same believing stella will help her seek for help..God help you..fornication is a sin...stop it..stop fucking oooook
ReplyDeleteIf its lyk dat I need a job too! Am serious only am not pregnant. Am not being insensitive but its sumhow na.
ReplyDeleteWhat did your boyfriend study? What are. His qualifications. Details please.
ReplyDeletePeople mow take advantage of blogs without shame, remembered when Linda wanted giving out her Christmas package,you need to see people begging,giving family history and stories,she had to beg people to stop cos she has given out all she could...she doesn't give room for such too.stella is kind hearted tho..she deserves an award..she has tried...please stop taking her simplicity for stupidity abeg...fornication is a sin..stella start preaching about how bad sex before marriage is so all dese people will know it's wrong..stop using your blog to promote immoral acts..
ReplyDeleteSexy bitch i am somuch with you. Stella pls stop this already, it all sounds like encouraging sex before marrige.
DeleteWell said...
DeleteThey seem to be taking advantage of Stella's kindness.
They are old enough to know that sex results in pregnancy , so why indulge in it when they are not yet married and can't even cater for a child.
#say no to premarital sex.
Any idiot who comes here to insult me should go and fuck and die....
ReplyDeleteWell right now; total, sipem, ups, IITA, Saro agro service and lots more are all recruiting. I think u shld try n send ur application to the above org, am sure somethn good would come out of it. May God see u tru.
ReplyDeleteU na dey craze!!!wetin person no go hear, jobless people, for dis kind hard time, economic meltdowm na him person go open yansh fuck anyhow produce pikin in the moment of jollification God punish u there!!!very soon u go tell us to save up money for your pikin school fee Idiat!!!
ReplyDeleteYou don't need marriage to have a baby my dear poster, use d money for pride price to set up a small business then wen u guy make a gud profit u can pay d dowry. U guys must nt get married now madam., God b wit u.
ReplyDeleteBoth of you go to your parents they will help you, they will not be happy, but they will not leave you and the baby to suffer. Then you both will have to work a plan to better yourselves. There are also agencies that can assist poor new mothers. Your road wont be easy, but nothing lasts forever, one day it will all be behind you as a very distant memory. Go talk to your mother now!
ReplyDeleteI agree with you 100 per cent - it will not be easy, but, one day they will look back and smile. Biko, don't abort the baby (I'm begging you)
DeleteChewing gum boys again.
ReplyDeleteI pity all these girls that give their bodies to schl bfs all in d name of love.
U see ur life?
These commentators wld promise u eternity n ask u not to abort ur preg but my dear,a lot like u have com on this blog to solicit for funds only to b met by empty promises.
They can promise u heaven n earth here but I bet u,no one wld remember to redeem their pledge.
That's d world for u today.
Carry ur belle,go meet ur parents or his parents.
My £1
I love u mamie, u r always truthful.
DeleteLesson pre marital sex is not good if you no fit chop am no smell am. Period
ReplyDeleteNA PPL WEY NO GET MONY, NA DEM DEY FERTILE PASS!
ReplyDeleteNa wen belle enter u reason am say ur BF na 1st born, n e is financially handicapped.
My dear, u really try,
U sopose collect medal!
U av no EXCUSE to abort dat baby oo. None at all.
Dia are som ppl in worse situation dan urs.
You and your boy friend are jobless yet you two make love with out condom? Go see your parents.
ReplyDeleteMy dear one step at a time. Bobo never get money marry den stay your parent house first.Give birth 2d child then LEARN A TRADE. God bless
ReplyDeleteDear poster,
ReplyDeleteWhy don't you have a court wedding first? That should be less than N20,000, right? When things get much better, he can then pay your bride price. I feel you and the unborn baby, but right now, you don't need any stress. Have a court wedding and have your baby in peace. Bride price can be paid any time.
I hope your boyfriend has a place he is staying. I mean, I hope he isn't staying with his parents?
What exactly do you want SDKers to do for you? Money, house, food, clothes, what?
I sigh. Some have this money, but don't have kids.
Please, whatever you do, don't abort this pregnancy. Don't commit 2 sins. All the best.
funny.....stella is doing her job, not running a charity for" careless women who know the consequence of sex without a condom' you had sex with your eyes wide open..please dont KILL THE CHILD....face the consequence of unprotected sex while broke. smh... stella please dont answer or girls will start having unprotected sex and running here for cerelac(however that is spelt) money.....mtchewww. am pissed. poster and poster's bf needs to get something legal and dignifying to do to feed her child...DO NOT KILL THE CHILD.
ReplyDeleteNever judge any one, y'all have done worst things.... Stop pretending to be the best, when most of us are pretenders. Just help the lady in question or shout up
ReplyDeleteAbi oo,i've done an abortion and i'm not proud of it,i'll applaud her 4 wanting to keep hers. Bloglord hope u re a virgin oo,and hope u've neva aborted. Let's cut d pretense here
DeleteChai...I feel for u both...but what happened to using condom?...I pray God sends u the help u need and see u through ur pregnancy
ReplyDeleteStella pls GOD has bless u to bless others, please help her and make sure she is genuine.
ReplyDelete@Mrs E thunder fire u and ur rotten mouth wey dey run like diarrhea.
@ BLOGLORD even u have had sex without condom and a lot ofppl in relationship older than 2 months don't use condoms and thays why postinor 2 still sells. I know for a fact bcos am a pharmacist..... BLOGLORD U be like gal wey do abortion yesterday sef...
are you stupid, trying to be stupid or approaching stupidity personified! which?
DeletePharm JJC, welcome to SDk...your university education should have taught you to be civil FYI ....bloglord is a married woman with kids.
DeletePeople are entitled to their views, make your point and move on.
This one wey you dey release thunderstorms, if Stella helps, wetin be your contribution eh...Pharm Uye aka thunderstorm?
Uje, i feel very sorry for your life. Maybe you are even the boyfriend of this young lady and you are trying to scam Stella. Don't trust you guys. Times are hard and people are desperate. As for your comment, i would not dignify you with an answer, go and call your mother. I would like to have a word with her on your bad behavior
DeleteHehehehehehehe Mrs E. I'm son laughing at ur "Go n call ur mother, I would like to have a word with her on ur bad behavior"
DeleteFunny his people same up an rain insults on others they barely know. oga pharmacist, nl wonder u support unsafe sex practice; so that ur postinior will continue to sell. Well done o.
Lmao...Nuffin wey my eye no go see for dis blog o, mogbe!
Delete@poster what did you study? where do you live? What did your spouse study as well? to get a job, even as a graduate, a lot would be considered. you need to clarify these and you may find a helper. Please do not have an abortion, even if no help comes, you can carry your child and give him/her up for adoption. you can also start a petty trade today. God help you
ReplyDelete#20 condom will save u from all this truma. Sorry poster is your cross so carry it.
ReplyDeleteHow can one reach u. Have a contract job in a bank but you cant fit in hence u r pregnant. So maybe ur guy can come for interview. But how do one reach u. I dont need ur boyfriend's no or contact. Send urs den u can pass d message to him urself but note dat d interview is tomorrow afternoon.
ReplyDeletePlease i need a job too, and if the contract job offer is still on the table i am very interested. I studied banking and finance by the way, and i can be reached here...nnekawoha@hotmail.com
DeleteAbeg,pls,biko,ejoor.give me the location of the interview.am not preggie buh I need a job badly.if its in ph,I ll be there.
DeleteI need a Job too!
ReplyDeleteAm so pissed reading this. You got no Job nor you bf. he not even has money to pay bride price. And you allowed him in without condom? Why cry fowl? Go pray for forgiveness of sin thats what the Both's of you need, not help from blog.
ReplyDeleteNo offence to the poster but how can u engage in unprotected sex when u are not ready to b parents. Who do u want to help u now nd dis applies to all financial handicap people. Raising a child s not cheap. Buying condoms s cheaper while abstinence s @ no cost. This s from some1 who s single nd practicing no sex b4 marriage
ReplyDeleteSo what if discover that your bobo's pee pee is like that of a pig and he can't fuck properly? You know it is for better for worse, so the issue of you chopping outside is ruled out, how do you do it nah?......... Its a catch 22.
DeleteHmmmmmm all these yoruba girls wey nor dey get sense ,mumu dem! I tust igbo girls,she go don put am for shalanga since! U ppl should kip furking oo nd b expecting ur story to b like chioma own wey com here com testify.smh!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteYou are lost. Ode.
DeleteHian na wa 0! How tribe come enter this yarn?
Deleteyou forgot to sign okija wife at the end. yinkus where was yoruba or igbo mentioned in the post?
DeleteYou are an illiterate. ..... it can happen to any1. If you've never had unprotected sex then feel free to yarn dust. ... it is well my dear poster. God is able, He will make a way for you in Jesus name "Amen"
DeleteMs
U are big OLUKU!! So dis is okija wife now abi? Smh for ur head.
DeleteAnonymousJanuary 29, 2014 at 11:28 PM chief of olukus. STFU. who doesn't know how she spells and how she writes uselessly except you the real oluku.
Delete@2:59,u dis bastard! U are alredy HIV positive bcos its ur type dat furks d whole street boyz witout condom,NKITA ARA OSHI!!!!!!!!
Delete@2:59,u dis bastard! U are alredy HIV positive bcos its ur type dat furks d whole street boyz witout condom,NKITA ARA OSHI!!!!!!!!
DeleteAunty Stellz pls check ur mail... @ poster.. God is in control, keep your baby!! I promise u won't regret it.
ReplyDeleteGod fit Vex if person wey Go help you. Sorry to say but you and ur boyfriend don't av sense ooo. Why should you guys av unprotected SEx wen you don't av money. And I'm sure d both of you av bb's and you ppl pay Bis every month but you guys can't buy condom of #20. Now yawa don Gas learn to take up your mistakes your self. Wen you dey fuck you call us make we come help you? Why you com dey call us after match. You guys should take care of urself. Mtcheeew. Anybody dat help dis ppl God go punish dem ahhha wat av ppl turn dis world to wen dey come make d mistake na den dey go remember say we dey. Stella you sef dey carry face comot dis nonsense dis is wat white ppl won't take. I repeat God go punish you guys. Stupid ppl.
ReplyDeleteGod fit Vex if person wey Go help you. Sorry to say but you and ur boyfriend don't av sense ooo. Why should you guys av unprotected SEx wen you don't av money. And I'm sure d both of you av bb's and you ppl pay Bis every month but you guys can't buy condom of #20. Now yawa don Gas learn to take up your mistakes your self. Wen you dey fuck you call us make we come help you? Why you com dey call us after match. You guys should take care of urself. Mtcheeew. Anybody dat help dis ppl God go punish dem ahhha wat av ppl turn dis world to wen dey come make d mistake na den dey go remember say we dey. Stella you sef dey carry face comot dis nonsense dis is wat white ppl won't take. I repeat God go punish you guys. Stupid ppl.
ReplyDeletePeople never learn..... I'm sure someone must have told her to stop or her conscience must have said be careful. But you took it for granted. I will start praying this prayer. That God should put enmity between my daughters and boys/men that will want to destroy her future.
ReplyDeleteDis reminds me of ma own storrryyyyy.....even as i am with my horseband now,have refuse to furk not to talk of givin him a 2nd child.....sumone dat I went tru ma life for! U girls better know wot u are doin instead of furking up nd down!
ReplyDeletei don't get it, just keep the baby, i'm sure you'll be fine!
ReplyDeleteMy mind tells me dis is a scam. Pls guys be careful.
ReplyDeleteMy mind tells me dis is a scam. Pls guys be careful.
ReplyDeleteThis blog use to be a mature place if u don't have advice and u can't help please waka away,poster u can't eat ur cake and have it,ur hiding from ur parents,u don't wanna abort the baby well what job do u want and what for,to cover for ur unemployment status,and it will make things right?please here is the deal
ReplyDelete1.Tell ur parents or
2.Abort the pregnancy
3.OR u go to a place where ur child could be adopted,they will take care of you
There will be a time in nigeria when kids will kill parents that bring them here to suffer...
Why has the poster not responded to enquiries about her number/email?
ReplyDeletePeople, when you have a problem, assume SDKB does not exist. There are numerous people struggling everyday through life's various problems without resorting to seeking help fron blogs.
If its not domestic violence, don't worry Stella.
Aunty stella leave story skin to skin is the best if is not panadol if can not be like panadol..................
ReplyDeletecrase man/woman
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why are all these people lecturing her about sex? Is that gonna help the situation at this point?
ReplyDeleteWith the current economics, how many people below 30 have what it takes to pay a bride price or raise a family?
I'm really tired of reading these sermons about premarital sex. My mon got married at 17. Most of her friends before they were 25. As a matter of fact all of my siblings were born before my mother turned 30. I'm in my early 30's and just got engaged. Do you really believe that all these woman pushing 40 and 35 desperately looking for a partner would have the mental strenght to remain virgin at such an age?
I know many will come out to say "I only knew my husband" but again how old were you and how many of your mates were married when you tied the knot?
Get real. I am not saying that people should go out there and be promiscuous, I'm just saying get real. I grew up with less western influence, nowadays with all that sexuality around, what do you expect 2 young people in their prime "in love" and with plenty of times in their hands (thanks to joblessness) to do but sexing each other? It's comforting and it is free. Probably one of the few pleasures they can afford.. So please quit the lecturing and address the situations at hands then we can debate what the bible says, ur social context, youth unemployment and sexuality ad nauseum.
Notin truer than this.
DeleteWell stated... the mistake has been done and instead of proffer solution people are crying over split milk!
Deleteyou don't make sense Dlapikin. People can have sex all they want ..... they just need to use condoms, calculate their safe periods or face the consequences.
DeleteYou just want to take advantage of human kindness cus this is not a mistake,you were having sex without condom,what were u expecting ? You see the foolishness in women,it's the woman that is crying now to the extend of coming to cry to bloggers,what is the man doing? You better think it thru cus ur confused. You don't want ur parents to know?do they hide belle? U don't hv money? The bloggers sud help u raise the child? It's a dog eat dog world my dear. Be strong ,do the right thing.
ReplyDeleteLadies try and know when you are in your safe period. It goes a long way especially if you like knacking without protection.
ReplyDeleteBaby girl, it's a harsh world out there but dont let it weigh you down. Mad woman dey born pickin but e no dey ever wonder how e dey take chop. At least you've asked for assistance for a job and admitted your fault. God will open doors for you ok? U can even try and learn a skill,catering, tailoring..it will go a long way. God bless you
Oyibo
Abort the baby
ReplyDeleteThey will NEVER learn. Mtchewww. We see and read stories here, if they re not contacting disease, its pregnancy. What is it self? Kilode?? Shea now you're pregnant, you need finiancial help. And I believe she should be in her early 20's. Don't you girls advise your boyfriends by the way? If a guy should know how to insert his dick inside your Vj, then he should be able to reason, that at this stage in his life, he needs to get a job!! He needs to Hustle for job? And let's assume he doesn't have the brain to think, can't you as his girl talk to him? No matter how small the pay is? I started working at age 17, immediately I left secondary sch . Even while my parent (dad) disowned me, I never looked back. that sales girl experience I had then has shaped me in molding both my personal and business life. Nothing in life comes easy. Even when you need God's unmerited favour, it doesn't just come that way, you have to go on your kneels "in prayer" and talk to him. This is January, the beginning of another New Year, have got no money to throw around, have got responsibilities... Every Mallam with him kettle......Carry your cross alone, don't put your burden on someone else. We ve been so free minded here, you cnt try this in other blogs. Stella is the ONLY blog who is so concerned and who interacts with her followers. Now you want to take advantage of her/our kindness.. when you were busy "Riding" on him without a condom as little as N20, you never knew it would result to this. I may sound hash but that is the truth. NB: Anybody who comes here to insults me, back to the sender this year. *walks away*
ReplyDeleteheeeyyyyyy! easy with all the bad judgements abegggg. If u never sin before, then be the first to cast a stone. We are six children in my family and my mum told me she had all of us before she was 30. And here i am, i clocked exactly 30 last december not married not to talk of having a baby. do u think i dont think about it ni? i graduated in 2010 and served 2011 and yet no job, my guy's income is still small, so wetin make i con do, abeg to survive in Nigeria ehhh, na extra grace wether u be graduate or not so i really dont blame the lady. Infact, its when two pple in a relation does not have anything to do that is when it is easier to get pregnant cos they are not busy and sex becomes the only solace.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile, Aunty Stella abeg, tell my fellow blog visitors that i make very sexy pap with ginger taste and Akara for breakfast. Contact me if you are interested. Its also very healthy for breathfeeding mothers cos it aids the flow of breastmilk. Abeg na designers be my stuff o, for special pple only... chao.
a child is a good thing no matter how hard it is, it pushes you to do better. I think u shudnt abort u just dont know where help would come from. Please be strong and that child could be your saving grace
ReplyDeleteYh the girl is to be blame for having unprotected sex when she knows better that her boyfriend is not financially buoyant... But can't we jst pity the unborn child involved? Stella if you can help her situation pls do and God will continually bless you...Girl I beg you not to abort that pregnancy even if no help is coming forth cos you won't like the experience of complications after abortion. You will regret for the rest of your life when you find out you can't conceive again due to past abortion. #Talkingfromafterabortionexperience#
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