Using What You Have To Get What You Want?...Would You?

STELLA PLEASE DOES IT PAY TO PROSTITUTE? i.e (RUNS)

I am seriously thinking about going into this runs business, First and foremost I am a very pretty light skinned girl.  I have a first degree and also a Masters degree from well recognized Universities abroad.   I just moved back to Nigeria with the hopes of getting a job, but apparently all light skinned girls here in Nigeria are assumed to be “RUNS” girls. 

I have never had the need to sell my body for money, I am not from a wealthy background but I am very content with what I have, I always say until I can be convinced that all this wealth acquired through “RUNS” can be taken along to the great beyond only then would I start that business.  I would not say I am a saint, but I believe strongly in Salvation and also fear God so much, but as it is now it is like I am the only one left out.

Right now I need a job, but everywhere I go, so far it's a man there, the next thing I hear is, you have to use what you have to get what you want? Like who does that? For goodness sake I am actually coming to add value to your company, why on earth do I have to please you first?

Should I just close my eyes harden my heart and just “use what I have to get what I want”? This life is just not fair, see me that would be hustling on my own, God will not look at me and just bless me once and for all, but this girls that desecrate their body which is your temple, they are the ones balling, in fact most of them get married to the best men and even have lovely kids after. Then we so called good girls are the ones that some times even end up with the bad guys after all our ostensible values and principles.

I observed that, there are only 3 ways to make money in Nigeria.

1.       RUNS, Eg, Prostitution, Fraudulent activities… etc.

2.       CONNECTIONS, i.e., you know people of power.

3.       GOD, but thing about God is, our timing and his are not the same, The guy might say he would bless you in  15 years ,but that 15 years is like 5mins to him.

I chose the God’s way before, but I am having a rethink, because even the  bible says do not be overly righteous,  I started a small trade to keep body and soul together. I wish my folks had some connections, but sadly I come from a family where they believe in getting things for themselves by themselves.

So my fellow blog readers, I'm I the one that is overdoing the good girl thingy? Should I just start sleeping with men to get what I want? After all almost everybody is doing it. Even now that I do not do it, nobody believes me. Should I try it once and see if it pays? I have many questions to ask, but my little summary above should give you guys an idea of where I am coming from.  I do not even want so much wealth, all I want is to stop being dependent on my parents.

 Is that too much to ask?

P.S… Biko nu you people should focus more on the post, rather than grammatic errors, trying to decipher where “is” or “was” should be. Na vex I take send this email.