TOKE and MAJE...........beautiful together! |
Their relationship and its breakup was big deal and went viral……
Media face Toke Makinwa confirmed her breakup from her longtime love/fiance Maje Ayida in an interview with Punch Newspaper in December 2013, and many who were expecting that after 12years on/off Maje would make a good woman out of her were disappointed.
Media face Toke Makinwa confirmed her breakup from her longtime love/fiance Maje Ayida in an interview with Punch Newspaper in December 2013, and many who were expecting that after 12years on/off Maje would make a good woman out of her were disappointed.
Oh,we all wanna hear Maje's side of the story,even though its not our business.
In the Saturday January 4,2014 edition of ThisDay Newspaper, the 41 Year Old ex-banker turned “Lord of the Fitness World” was interviewed but he evaded the questions.
I guess he chose to respect her and not wash any linen in public.
Even though we all itch to know what went wrong after 12years and several introductions,i think Maje did right by 'Jumping' the questions or running down his ex boo.....they might make up tomorrow...who knows?....Respect Maje!
See the interview conducted by Azuka Ogujiuba.
You seem quiet but your publicised relationship via social media and blogs just hit the rocks after 12 years. How did you handle a relationship for that long and what happened?
I don’t think relationships are things you handle or manage. Relationships are part of your life. They are part of who you are and probably the most complex thing in the world.
I don’t think relationships are things you handle or manage. Relationships are part of your life. They are part of who you are and probably the most complex thing in the world.
Earlier this year, you did the first part of traditional introduction to your ex’s family. What exactly went wrong after that?
Wrong? I don’t think I got that memo, and if that memo got circulated, I can’t discuss it here. Everything about our lives here is a journey; a journey that I’m just glad to be on.
Wrong? I don’t think I got that memo, and if that memo got circulated, I can’t discuss it here. Everything about our lives here is a journey; a journey that I’m just glad to be on.
You guys have been on and off for 12 years. Do you see yourself going back to her considering all your tweets about your ex not focusing on your relationship rather attending events and making appearances as she claims in blogs?
I write a lot of stuff on social media. Some about me, some about life, maybe something I saw, maybe someone else’s experience, maybe my mood at the time. The idea is that someone somewhere may be feeling that same thing. Sort of like the comfort you get on knowing that you’re not alone when you hear a song that speaks what you feel. One thing I will say just as a general life tip, ‘don’t make permanent decisions based on temporary feelings.’ (not my words).
I write a lot of stuff on social media. Some about me, some about life, maybe something I saw, maybe someone else’s experience, maybe my mood at the time. The idea is that someone somewhere may be feeling that same thing. Sort of like the comfort you get on knowing that you’re not alone when you hear a song that speaks what you feel. One thing I will say just as a general life tip, ‘don’t make permanent decisions based on temporary feelings.’ (not my words).
Who is your kind of woman or are you one of those who love to date women in the limelight?
I’m like the United Nations. I have love for everyone. I feel anyone that says they would only date a particular type of person is limiting themselves from the beauty that is the human soul. It can take a lifetime to truly know someone; we are continually evolving. Two people together grow together and transform one another, just as experiences in life transform the individual. In other words, no, I’m not after women in the limelight.
I’m like the United Nations. I have love for everyone. I feel anyone that says they would only date a particular type of person is limiting themselves from the beauty that is the human soul. It can take a lifetime to truly know someone; we are continually evolving. Two people together grow together and transform one another, just as experiences in life transform the individual. In other words, no, I’m not after women in the limelight.
Describe the last time you remember feeling happy?
That’s easy; this morning. I’m happy to have breath in my lungs, to be a functioning being, happy and grateful to God. But I know what you’re asking so I would have to say a few weeks ago when Eden won the award of Fitness Brand of The Year. Those that understand my journey know what it meant to me. The company is an extension of me; it’s who I am. Knowing my work is of any value to others is the kind of validation you can’t buy. I only launched this January 2012 and so much has happened in that time, most importantly to how I value myself. I remember standing on a balcony on New Years Eve 2011 with my best friend and telling him I was starting a new path, and he said to be ‘fly, bro, just fly’.
What is your biggest regret?
My biggest regret is not having the courage to start my company sooner, while my mother was alive. Maybe it was God’s plan for me to start when the time was right, He knows best, but everyday I wish she could see by progress and be proud. It hurts to my core that she left me when I was still searching for my purpose.culled
I already fix Toke with a friend,so get da fuck outta here dude.
ReplyDeleteyou are just a fucking player
unserious element
mtchwwwwwwwwwwwww
Lol. See mumu. U know fix urself ba Toke u wan fix. Lmao. my dear, go n get laid or spiritually delivered and then come back n talk. Either way, u need a fix more than Toke does.
DeleteLepa shandy was there when they were dating to know he was unserious!!!!!! Eheeee. I nukwa.
DeletePls don't be one sider. Remember also that Toke is a "lair". Lair lair pants on fire.
DeletePls don't be one sider. Remember also that Toke is a "lair". Lair lair pants on fire.
DeleteIt is spelt like this: L.I.A.R and also like this;S.I.D.E.D. U r welcome by the way.
Deleteyou pple jst judge without knowing what went wrong btw them.. Do you even know if Toke has changed? Do you knw what made him change his mind abt marrying Toke or being hesitant? Do you knw if the Toke jst changed overnite when she hit the limelight or became OAP or MTN-every where I go? Do you knw if she does runs? Lie? Sleeps around with several men as she dey gallivant frm one party to another in the name of working hard? Men tends to misbehave & react differently especially when they see that there is been so many changes in d gurl they are dating or courting? Do you knw if he has been trying to communicate with her on her drastic change after her limelight? It could be a sign or a red flag that he shldn't marry her? So u pple u if you don't knw their full story. Don't draw conclusions..
DeleteI pray God gives toke a good man.2014 is the year for all single ladies that have been hoping n waiting.this year is not. Goin to be like the rest.forget any dude that have been holding you back.
ReplyDeletePlz lady you should have added the good lord on this your comment coz am taping from this 2014 blessings tayad of being single 3 of myfrnds just got married anoder one in aprail wen wld I b the bride God plz gv me my own.am the only single one left
DeleteToke is near perfect.
DeleteFresh faced beauty.
Silky skin.
Tomato jos.
Yellow sisi.
Getting a man for her wouldn't be a problem at all.
Ask me!
Amen to that!! It shall be my year of Turning Point!. Testimonies overflow.
Deleteoffend him for him to forgive me is like curing a disease.it takes ages and am tayad of awys beging him am so moving on
DeleteMadam m amie plz shut your trap.u tink is becoz of your sunny skin you got married.you fool it was God dat gv you ur bone of bone and he gv u early enof.evry1 has their tym am sure there are grls more brighter than you,and more beautiful but sil the man married you so shut your dumb skull up and go get busy with the kids.u rachet fool
Deletemy dear, I am getting married this year. #Kponkwem.
Deletemy dear, I am getting married this year. #Kponkwem.
DeleteAmen to Dt! 2014 my year of marital bliss!!!
DeleteAmen ooo. I pray this would be my portion in 2014.
DeleteM-amie U bearded delusional bitch, Toke is "ofe mmanu" so keep off n fuck off, remember, u don't like to "put mouth in ofe mmanu's gist" bloody bigot!
Delete@anonymous 6.36..
Deletebetter thank God for seeing 2014.. Haha Gosh!! Is marriage a competition now?
Smh! Women everything in their life is competition? Beauty, fashion, shoe, Ynash, boobs, make up, shape, bfnd, manfrnd, runs, bags, hair, husband, cars, money, relationship even marriage? No wonder they are never contented, always envious... Smh!! May God help women..
Shebi ppl hv been seeing them in lagos recently. In malls and different places. They may be back together, working things out or just being mature n friedly with each other. But all the same, wether he spoke or not, he didnt do right by her.i wish him well in his endeavours
ReplyDeleteRespect waje dat is matured mind speaking.
ReplyDelete*rme* is his name now waje? D last time I checked he still bears Maje!
DeleteMr Man, why do u speak out after the road has been crossed and forgotten!
ReplyDeleteBuh iwished they just sorted this ish and settle down...they are both a perfect match tho! Coke n fanta
ReplyDeleteI haven't seen pictures of Toke in any event this Year. What happened?! No events or did she make a new year resolution? Just asking o!
ReplyDeleteHaba d year just dey stat nah. Cool down, sit back n watch
DeletePeople r reportin dt dey r seeing dem together at movies et al...so mayb we awaitin a 'come back' story soon...I wish dem al d best, tho I really hope toke has good reasons if she is takin him back. A broken relationship is always better than a broken marriage.
ReplyDeleteCan they just come back together already? ☹☹ ☹☹ anyhow sha..they know what's good for them..
ReplyDeleteI like his response!
ReplyDeleteTimaya shd learn from him..na only ukwu he sabi..ewu!
ReplyDeleteTimaya na clown na dirty big like am
DeleteDey av nt broken up...dey were togeda new year's eve....
ReplyDeleteI believe you die! Tell us more. Where were they and what were they doing together on new year's eve?
Delete@queenie they were at the boat party that toke wore all black(check her insta)
DeleteThis is epic...its hard 4 a guy in his position nt 2 throw shade @ a former flame.. Hmmmm dis year won't pass me by...#winks...
ReplyDeleteDon't be deceived. Toke is a stubborn goat and has gone back for Ultimate disgrace No 7
ReplyDeleteHe's 41!!!????? And still off and on relationships?? Abeg when does he intend to birth his first born,at 50???
ReplyDeletePls where did u hear the gist that he is 41? Pls let me know. Cus he doesn't look it.
DeleteThe happiers lady or whatever you call urself, its either you are blind, u don't read or u can't read! Identify your challenge. Ewu
DeleteWash ur dirty linens in public biko its dries faster dat way.. # tongue out#
ReplyDeleteI have so much respect for Maje - he handled the situation with admirable tact! Others would have done the opposite
ReplyDeleteHe sounds very diplomatic,nyc and cool.
ReplyDeleteBut to keep a babe 12yrs is just wats not cool abt him.
Baga!! How many years did ur Imbecillic husband keep?? Keep fooling urself. With ur wacked *horseband* that talks like an Imbecile. Yes I know u.
DeleteAt 41 he's not married? It's not like he's struggling or ugly..... abegi dude is GAY!!! *tell me you weren't finking dis* anyway sha, make shift make we see road.
ReplyDeleteMaje u re practicing witchcraft..y keep a babe for 12 yrs ogiini kwa? *wateva dt mins*
ReplyDeletethis Maje is just a wizard and a manipulator. His responses tell it all!
DeleteDd Maje giv a matured response? Yes
ReplyDeleteWill dey both a good couple? dnt knw
Will I like t c dem back togetha again? Dnt care
Sorry to sound out of point here...pls hw can I get a flat tommy? Drink a lot water nd eat fruits + taking laxatives jst to mk sure everything go out bt still hv a protuding tommy!!! 911 plssss
ReplyDeleteStop drinking Beer and nkwu ocha.
DeleteYou are taking laxatives abi? Carry on oo
DeleteLmao, avoid isi ewu & nkwobi too!
DeleteExercise is the key. And stop eating late.
DeleteWhat about skipping meal?
DeleteI like his respond, very mature
ReplyDeleteI'm sure you meant response???
DeleteFeel 4 d both of dem...they still love eachother...
ReplyDelete*African Barbie..
Isn't it ironic that he's not after women in the limelight yet he dated an OAP? 12 years? I smh.
ReplyDeleteIn other news, up Gunners..
Unlike shit head ( Funke Akindele ex or Timaya or k.solo etc ) Maje has class. Maje i pray you two get back together.
ReplyDelete@janelicious: Waje ko Omowunmi ni?
ReplyDeleteLol
DeletePls he should shush.
ReplyDeleteToke pls don't go back to maje, I may be wrong but I think he is a time waster ,plsssssss
ReplyDeleteMaje! Maje of LIFE! You wey dey beat Toke??!!! At least it is good you have left each other, make you no kill her sotay she no go fit make video dey entertain us! Anuofia.
ReplyDelete"Lair?" Shakes head.
ReplyDeleteOluyomi, to those who don't know Toke, she just became really popular and mainstream in the last 2 or 3 years. He was there before the OAP role. Would he have dumped her just because she became an OAP? It's only in Nigeria that OAPs are celebs.
How are 41 year old people meant to look? Scratches head! He's a fitness freak and looks after himself. That aside, his soft buttered life has helped him.
I think Toke needs to work on d relationship harder. I guess Maje has waited patiently for her to really be a wife material than attending or making appearances in every event. Think of what every appearance in any event cost. Tell me; how many naija men who are ready to curtail such extravagant woman in d house. Pls Toke, find a way of balancing both ur relationship and work together. I wish u all d best in life.
ReplyDeleteMaje! Cool dude. Bur wots wit d delay @ 41? *confused*..anyways, to each his own..me wana gt married ds year oh..Am TIRED of being single mbok! Holy matrimony mustn't pass me by ds year In Jesus Name i pray! Amen.
ReplyDeleteOKIJA WIFE PLEASE I BEG U IN GODS NAME TO TAME YOURSELF...I AM TIRED OF DELETING YOUR HATE COMMENTS,WHY WOULD YOU BE USING SUCH WORDS ON PEOPLE?ARE YOU GOD?.......OK,PIKIN WHEN SAY IM MAMA NO GO SLEEP,THE MAMA READY FOR AM.......EVERYONE IS COMPLAINING ABOUT U AND I AGREE WITH THEM...ENOUGH ALREADY.
ReplyDeleteThank God you took a stand against her rubbish. She was turning this place to Okija shrine
Delete* Lifts hands in praise*;Thank you Jesus! Lol
DeleteSDK finally you listened to all my complaints. Please make a post on yinkus/okija wife from ajangbadi. Thank you so much Ma.
ReplyDeletePost ke? Complete waste of time and energy for Stella.*heaves sigh of relief*
DeleteSDK post this where she has posted & she can read it.
ReplyDeleteI agree wit u too Stella..I read a comment she made some days a ago statin "someone wil surely die b4 d end of dis year"habatically,are u God?mtchewwwwwwwww
ReplyDeleteLMAO!!!!!!!! Goldscent u aint shit! I almost choked laughing!
ReplyDeleteWho are these guyz? Why do these Bloggers like clogging our ears with stupid thingz about attention seekers kwanu? #gosh
ReplyDeleteNa ears you dey use read blog bah? Toh
DeleteDnt mind him. With teeth like Roasted Rabbit
DeleteStella shut your big ugly mouth already......so the guy is now the innocent one here abi? U just open that your ugly mouth and think u can have an opinion on any issue cos u have a blog.....get a life and mind ur business.....ugly thing
ReplyDeleteWhy all these bitterness emanating from you sweetheart??? From what it seems the ugliness seems to be coming from you. Looool
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