Would you rather a cheating man or a stingy man?
The cheating man gives you anything and everything you want..life is good and you couldn't ask for more...and above all he loves you like theres no tomorrow and lets you know and shows it that everything he has is also yours and no one else'.
The stingy man cannot stop telling you how much he loves but he would rather die than give you a dime of his wealth..he monitors your movement..he is faithful and does not look twice at any woman no matter how enticing she looks.
The stingy man gives you money from time to time but only a quarter of what you need..he does not believe in sharing his wealth with you because you did not help him sweat for it.
You love the good life BUT You are coming from a condition where you have had to beg to survive,you cannot get a job because you graduated with a PASS from the University...The people who promised you jobs?some of them saw your desperation and slept with you and stopped taking your calls.
You have been asking God to send a helper/husband your way before you celebrate your 40th birthday on Sunday.....
The Stingy man proposed on Thursday,he came visiting and whilst you were begging for money to pay house rent on the phone,he pinged you to ask you to marry him,frowning,you told him to give you till Sunday.
....the Unfaithful man came with car keys to a land cruiser,keys to a new home for your parents and siblings and he went on his knees and asked.
You told him to give you till Sunday.
You know one is stingy and you know one is unfaithful but you must choose one...you must.
Who would you choose?
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Question of life,
ReplyDeleteBut eeeeh, if HIV comes calling all your other problems no go matter o
I don talk am.
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I wud go 4 d stingy man abeg,I wil work 4 my money dat wunt even tink of askin him,can't stand unf8ful men,dat one na early death,hypertensn
DeleteMy cousin has lived with Hiv for 15 yrs, his both parents ve died frm other illnesses, some of his friends ve died frm accident n other things and he is still alive, rich n happily married with 3 kids. If u ve cancer or other serious ailment in d hands of that stingy man, he ll gladly watch u die n keep his money.
DeletePls, staying single is better than marrying either of them out of desperation. If you have faith in God, He will send you the RIGHT man .
DeleteAnon 9:47, fear God o. Your cousin or you? You must be a runz babe to choose money over this beautiful life.
DeleteLol I would marry the rich cheating dude, kill the motherfucker before he gives me any disease and take over his motherfucking money. Problem solved.
DeleteP.S if u cuss me, I'd kill u first (straight face)
Hmm,stella which kind question be dis?,abeg I'd rather stay single dan settle for any of dis men,biko marriage no be by force
DeleteOr rather its not a do or die affair
DeleteA stingy man in love, can be generous! True to God! Make him fall in near~ obsessive love with you,then withdraw yourself suddenly from the relatinship.Mr Aradite will give you his ATM. An unfaithful man is a disgrace! Imagine your man making indecent propositions to your Friends,Sisters and your maid sef! Stingy koko can be tamed sisters! Copy that!
DeleteWide E,stingy kokos can be unrepentant o!cos it's in their blood and genes I swear.they are naturally obsessive lovers nyway cos they never wanna share,when they make love,dey keep delaying orgasm so they can just take and ttake from u..#very annoying#,
DeleteMehn I naturally hate stingy pple abeg so for me,stingykoko isn't an option,i dated one but had to run for my life!for Mr Unfaithful we will find a way around his attitude...#thinking#what abt d option of taming his dick by freezing it diabolically as shua Arab women do,dat even if he's outside with anoda woman,him prick no go rise.#rolls eyes##runs away#
@Queen Bee juju thingzzzzzz.
DeleteQueenie,kinda like the way u shortened my blog identiry.hmmm
DeleteI would go for the unfaithful man! Can't stand stingy men, they disgust me. MOST men are unfaithful to their wives anyways.
ReplyDeleteBiko , none oh!!! Which kind question be this!! Stellacious stella , no dey as us(women) that kind question!! I no do
DeleteHahahahhaaaa....Abeg the rich generous man jor. Won't even blind twice on the proposal!! Am allegic 2 stingy men. Yuck!!!!!
DeletePS. My boo of life is soooo Generous 2 a fault. Tho he ve slept with my lose (ex)frds once. He tld me all of it not withstanding. They said he used a double rubber. (Na them sabi) gulz sha. Lmao!!!!
I can't stand both sha but I kud make do wt d stingy man. I will always com up wt ways t milk money frm him. Dnt wanna sha my man wt any boRry.
DeleteThe rich dude pleaseeee, abeg o... money is d koko! Afterall, 98% of men are unfaithful.
Deletei've had the display pic for a while now. i hate audio money. i hate it.stinginess is a form of witch craft. it is a debilitating disease. it causes bitterness, obi ngbowa, obara ngablie enu, headache and many other life threatening sickness. gosh! tufia.
ReplyDeletei won't kill myself if my partner is a rabbit and loves anything in skirts but abeg i hate araditeness. ewwwww!
OMG,,,can't stop laughing choi,,everybody in my house is laughing!!!!!!!! But stingyness is a disease,,,money brings love. Wen I was single,,I wanted luv but being married to a stingy man made me to rethink,,,Chei I don suffer no b small
Delete@ Julit ,I don die with laff here!! I gbugo here......
Delete@anonymous, choi! Kpele it shall be well with u.
DeleteI agree wit Julit jare stinginess aka audio money is a a disease on its own. All u listed is true. @ least u know d man is unfaithful so u guard urself n ur heart who knows God can change him 1 day. Stinginess can kill b4 ones tym faster dan d dreaded HIV.
DeleteOya ladies in d house, over to wuna. . . .#withDexceptionOFm~Amie# Cos we already know what floats her canoe!
ReplyDeleteStill looking for the rake . . . Environmental Sanitation thingz on my mind. . .
this one is a hard one but with the situation at hand i will go with the unfaithful one,because he is not the first man to cheat on me,while should i die in poverty.hehe!
DeleteUnfaithful straight
ReplyDeleteThe unfaithful das whm I will choose. Madam stellina no time to west time, no one should tell me dat I will contact disease thru him cos headache/fever dey kill some people dey die thru sleep.
ReplyDeleteLmao...
DeleteHei, girls know send HIV again oh!
DeleteThis one is between the devil and the deep blue sea oh.........
ReplyDeleteNah is not. Is easy. Rich and unfaithful. 10x!
DeleteThis is a tough one oo. But nobody wants a stingy man!
ReplyDeleteTough one. I"ll go with the stingy man, at least I can steal from him. Pfft
ReplyDeleteDid u say steal,,wen d money dey audio???? Hmmmmmm,my hubby comes bck home with only #4000,,,knowing he will drop just #2k or #3k,,if any emergency,,he will start begging me 4 d little money I saved SMH,,,,he is soooooo rich,,he has properties in 5 states,,5 buildings in lag,,,pray nt to Marry a stingy man
DeleteI can so relate wiv u anonymous 10:12, my sis in law hushand is so stingy, he comes back from work wiv 500h n this man is super rich, has 2 jeeps shops in lag n abj, big stocked up warehouses. Abeg send the unfaithful man to me we go manage, as long as he takes care of me n my kids. Sewzann
DeleteI can so relate wiv u anonymous 10:12, my sis in law hushand is so stingy, he comes back from work wiv 500h n this man is super rich, has 2 jeeps shops in lag n abj, big stocked up warehouses. Abeg send the unfaithful man to me we go manage, as long as he takes care of me n my kids. Sewzann
DeleteMy dear, cunny man die, cunny man Bury am. U must find a way to get money from him. There must be a way. Me I will go for the unfaithful man but if I mistakenly find myself with the stingykoko, I go everly find way. My hubby thank God is not the stingy type.
DeleteStella I love You......you r jst the best Blog 4 me, you av a way of crakin me up even my hubby vex me like now, I go 4 the unfaithful ooo, every 2mnths, we'l go HIV test...walksaway, #Sheyi
Delete'He PINGED you to ask you to marry you...' Wow,that's CHRONIC stinginess,left me in stitches though...Hahahaha.Well,ama sit this one out and wait for other comments to roll in...Tough question!
ReplyDeleteI will choose the stingy man, the unfaithful man is a pig in my mind because he will sleep with anything, and this days with all the diseases in town now, i will go for a faithful man any time any day.
ReplyDeleteSee question o? The cheating man offcourse. Better the devil you know than the angel you don't. Moreover, the stingy man who isn't cheating now can cheat later in life. Na them cheating dey hook for neck. Abeg,let the stingy man park well o. Nobody is in this life to dull or watch the ene maya 'OWnit'...
ReplyDeleteIt's funny y no one hs suggested dat d stingy man could change. All everone is praying is 4 d unfaithful one to change. Lol. Very shallow and material generation. Do u pause to think dat the stingy man is so bc he doesn't trust ur intentions yet. Whether u cm for d money or 4 him. I'm very disappointed at dis generation walahi. After everyone will start blaming d leaders while d so called followers r just like dem. I'm still in shock
DeleteGbamest comment. Im in shock too at d kind of women we hv now. I asked my wife dis very question and she said d women dat say they would choose d unfaithful man are d unfaithful women themselves. How candid she was. So its true dat everyone attract their kind. Women can be stingy too and no one is talking abt that. Smh
DeleteAnon abeg take several seats, which kind of stupid test is he running, smone who loves u n has money wont be testing u, he ll be willing to make u happy. I hate guys with this ur mentality. Rubbish!
DeleteAbeg make una go wear mothercare pant. The black one wey get white for front. Do u know what stingy is? It's a genetic disorder. Na for life.
Delete@ anon 4:47pm y not be d one with d money instead of d man. U Naija gurls just be there doing nothing and be only consumers. Low mentality people. Wait till u see road go abroad where u and d guu will even split bills.
DeleteTo be candid I can't handle a cheating man.but in this case I would choose a cheating man so far he does his duty,doesnt leave me when I need him the most.he can go out but still come bac home to me,he isn't violent nd he respects me.then I would stick to him.
ReplyDeleteIf you have experienced poverty in this life,you will know what am talking abt....i will chose the unfaithful guy1million times as an igbo babe wey I be.....who no lik better thing.....no time for anya ura mehn.....uwa wu ofu mbia....
ReplyDeleteMy dear ur so on point, take 5 biko. U don't no how it feels begging ur so called husband for money to lake ur hair, as long as the unfaithful man performs his duties at home he is as free as a bird. Sewzann
DeleteBa'e, I'd pick the rich unfaithful dude. Life's too short to marry a stingy dude. 90percent men are unfaithful after all, so I'll deal with it.
ReplyDeleteI'll go for d unfaithful guy abeggi.change is a constant thing in life so there's no assurance that the stingy man wil remain forever faithful.#life is too short to date/marry a stingy man.
ReplyDeleteAnd you think the stingy man can't change ? Any body who will pick the unfaithful man is doing so because they themselves are unfaithful . Can you fall in love with a man who is unfaithful , a man who can impregnate other women outside ? Think ooooooo
DeleteBa'e, I'd pick the rich unfaithful dude. Life's too short to marry a stingy dude. 90percent men are unfaithful after all, so I'll deal with it.
ReplyDeletehow come 90% of ladies see men as their source of livelihood and ticket to the good life? what the hell happened to the virtuous woman described in the bible.............
ReplyDeleteThe virtuous woman eye don tear..duhh
DeleteStingy man talking
DeleteAsk Google.
DeleteI don't think it's about virtuousness.
DeleteThe question paints a scenario and ask that you choose. If the woman wasn't limited in the sense that she had tried unsuccessfully to get a job and there was no way, then maybe more people will go for the faithful man and make their money.
Btw, 'love is kind' and that faithful man's profession of love doesn't mean a thing in the light of this. Not like the randy man's profession means anything though, but I'd choose the better of two devils
Ask Google.
DeleteU go stingy gon!
Deletedo you guys know that there are people who read your comments and take them as advice or wisdom for living ?
DeleteBe careful what you say in public ooo . Are you saying you will advice your child to Mary A Dog because of Money ?
Now I understand how some women can advise their daughters to prostitute for money; it thesame mindset .
Everybody think "Money" First . Is money everything ??? . The women of this Age are Sick in the Mind . They Talk like Handicapped slaves .
Anon 3:44,leave all that thing wey u dey try preach abeg,u are clearly trying to manipulate our minds!on this issue:,its still clearly better to cry in a bentley dan in d wheelbarrow in d hot sun'(as the saying goes#a stingy man def will not buy u or himself a bentley so u see????
DeleteGud day to you aunty Stella,abeg I will settle for d cheating man as long as he provides all my needs & love my family & myself so much.I wil only try to have my children from him,then if he like he can have thousands of mistress.at least I hv my children to love & care for.ASAP!
ReplyDeleteGud day to you aunty Stella,abeg I will settle for d cheating man as long he provides all my needs & love my family & myself so much.I wil only try to have my children from him,then if he like he can have thousands of mistress.at least I hv my children to love & care for.ASAP!
ReplyDeleteThe unfaithful man abeg!
ReplyDeleteNone,Thanks.
ReplyDeleteThis isn't hard at all. I would rather marry the cheating guy, based on the other qualities he has. YES! you know, sometimes the devil you know is better. ..what gives me the assurance that when i marry the stingy guy, he won't change to being a chronic cheat? ???
ReplyDeleteMoreover, am in a relationship with a very stingy guy. To think i got him his present job is very annoying. I'm not the type that ask people for money or stuffs, am usually shy to do that, so I don't ask. I expect you to know your duties and not take advantage of the fact that 'oh she doesn't ask me for money". My fiancee has never given my parents and siblings a dime! Well except when my two younger brothers were going back to school and he gave them 3k to share! Imagine! I was very angrrry, these are grown up guys that never asked you for money. My fiancee earns well over 300k monthly! My family are beginning to withdraw from him cos we very much detest a stingy person in my family. I don't even know if i should marry him sef. He's got all other qualities right except the stinginess.
On your marks!
DeleteUr stingy boyfriend is anoda girl's atm machine....dump him
DeleteMy dear, U are on a loooooooooong moon walk. May God see U thru.
DeleteMy dear, U are on a loooooooooong moon walk. May God see U thru.
DeleteI'll advise you leave him. 3k for two adult to share? In this time and age? That is gross.
DeleteHE is sure pumping the money into another babe's account, stop dulling. The era of 'I hate asking for money from guys' has looong gone. Now, if you don't ask, you wont receive.
Delete@anon 11.24 gbam
DeleteThe Stingy man scenario looks better abeg
ReplyDeleteAint waiting for no man's wealth to make me!
I love dis question#big up aunty Stella.
ReplyDeleteI love dis question#big up aunty Stella.
ReplyDeleteI hate Stingy men,all men are unfaithful that's the truth,so I prefer the unfaithful man, be unfaithful but take care of me,men aren't worth dieing for,most are useless, so I won't stay with a broke ass or stingy man
ReplyDeleteBiko, non of the above.
ReplyDeleteStella of life! This situation is serios. But the girl too is unfaithful keeping 2 men! In that case she better go with the cheat.
ReplyDeleteFor me i will choose the stingy man while i pray to God to bless me with my money soon cos i cant stand cheating in any shape or form! The way u described it sef at least he gives a fraction of whatever is asked for..i will just learn to reduce my want for good things till i can afford it or have saved enough to get it. Stingy man biko. I can kill a cheat!
Gbam! I second ur opinion
DeleteStingy Biko! he would change or I will just keep stealing his Money, no one will Jail me for stealing from my very Rich and Stingy husband,
ReplyDeletebut the unfaithful guy on the other hand will gve u every thing u need and don't need and prolly give u Disease which money won't cure or which u would be so depressed to enjoy not to mention all the heartbreaks u wll deal with.
A stingy man will change??? U never jam. You don hear where dem talk say monkey nyash no tight again. Change fire. My dear the highest that will happen be say, you will be on promissory note. Na so so I will, I go, I shall you go dey hear.
DeleteMy dear u can never see a stingy mans money to steal and some are so stingy they will put ur kids in the cheapest school and mize for everything. U will end up using ur money to support the house. I beg i no want
DeleteThe unfaithful man joor men are naturally polygamous so just enjoy the money use the money arrange ur life n that of ur family so that u won't b in need just arrange a small boy who is good in bed to service u wen u know ur man is out dia with another woman
ReplyDeleteGbam!!! Exactly my tot o! From experience, being married to a vry stingy and unfaithful man, abi u guys tot they come either stingy or unfaithful? Think again! Mine is both vry stingy and flirtatiously unfaithful (whatever that means) and after many years of heartbreak and sleepless nights almost culminating to high blood pressure, I decided what d goose can do, so can d gander. He has fun and I catch mine too shikena! Evrybody is happy and per d stingyness, I grab anything I can and pretend to b happy and jolly at all times while keeping my eyes on d ball.
DeleteStell,pls send me many seats ˚Ooº°˚Ooº°˚Ooº°.....I need 2 sit back relax and let d comments roll
ReplyDeleteunfaithful man will give me a disease oneday...stingy will stil drop sometimes..so one must learn to save and become independent..
ReplyDeletennaa mehn, cheating sharparlly....
ReplyDeleteThe unfaithful man. The stingy man will still become unfaithful after marriage, trust me. I wish I had married my unfaithful man. I hate d life I'm living now.
ReplyDeleteAbeg I choose d unfaithful
ReplyDeleteSorry I can't stand both
ReplyDelete#Yimu
Delete#Yimu
DeleteWell SDK, at her age, she should forget about the job search since there's no hope for that one, I will advice her to go for the "Mr cheating" Yes! Mr cheating. Cos nobody way no like better thing. Reason No 1: with the goodies around his disposal, he can establish a good business of her choice for her... Then the aspect of her job hunting is over. Who knows, Mr cheating can some day change his ways if he truely loves her..... BUT Mr stingy aka chinco,Mbanu! A man who is stingy can never change; its in-born' na like that them born am; awon super glue. If Mr stingy cannot give her his money to renew common house rent, and maybe he do comes to her house to pass the night or eat, untop that even straff her join. Then time to renew rent, he begin speak in tongues. what makes her feel he won't go worst wen he eventually marries her? In sdk's voice; If she ask am for money, he go vex, watin him want make she ask am? For wisdon and understanding? Wen she no be solomon." She gatto cope with Mr cheating oo. At all at all nai worst pass.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahaha! Gbam.
DeleteAbeg cheating no be news good life is good life make the stingy man go sit dowm with e money wen e no won spend
ReplyDeleteI will choose d unfaithful man witout blinking! No go there ooh, I hate stingy people wit my whole being...I no go reason u sef. D unfaithful man will easily change compared to d stingy man. Wen I knw where I'm coming frm u wan com disturb my life wit ur stingyness#icantshoutabeg
ReplyDeleteLol... Funny bae
DeleteA stingy man will alys b stingy nd lyk dey say its in a man's nature to cheat so if he doesn't do it nw, he will still do it, an unfaithful but very giving man, dt I will Pick witout even thinkn twice, men will alys b men, I rather he gives me anytin I want dan b wit a man who is stingy nd mite still cheat on me. I love an independent woman anyday.
ReplyDeleteA beg both are bad. But going from all u have seen in the hands of bothh men, the unfaithful man is better than the stingy man. Cos any one u chose na still heartache. So chose the dude with money and live with his unfaithfulness, just always encourage him to use condom. Than go for thee stingy man and beg for everything you want
ReplyDeleteC'mon Stella! This is so unfair! But I'd take the unfaithful, generous man
ReplyDeleteThe unfaithful man, as long as he uses condom on d other woman! Btw a stingy man cannot afford to cheat lol, all men a cheaters tho so I'll cope/manage. Besides d cheating man still loves me
ReplyDeleteBLOG ANALYSER: Two terrible choices, I have to look at it critically. The truth be told, there is no love without giving. No matter how small it is one needs to give to his or her partner. Money is not everything, it could just be a cheap perfume or cheap biscuits these little gifts gladdens the heart. From the foregoing, it is clear that the stingy man gives bt very little. For me I have no problem with that. I will go with him. Let us assume he doesn't give at all, na to take off be that. With the rich guy I will have money bt no peace of mind, I could even contact HIV. It is important to know that giving is reciprocal, if u give people will give back to u.
ReplyDeleteI hear U. #Yimu
DeleteBLOG ANALYSER: madame how old are you?
DeleteI hear U. #Yimu
DeleteIn this matter,it will be very unfair to me & d entire universe to lie, biko give me d unfaithful man any day,God will take contol."side eyes" Stella's way!
ReplyDeleteIm very financially stable, id say the stingy man. I hate infidelity..........
ReplyDeleteBut for the circumstances portrayed in the write up, the lady is better off with the rich/unfaithful guy jare. If at 40 she still has difficulty paying bills, then she def needs the generous spender.
Jennifer
The generous unfaithful man Noni. Fuck the stingy man mehn!!
ReplyDeleteTechnically, i will choose the cheating one. Thats better than a stingy man/husband abeg. #cursemenot#
ReplyDeleteThe unfaithful man will get tired if his ways one day and besides since i already know he has a wandering dick of all nations, i will b buying him rolls of condom from time to time.
ReplyDeleteHe will get tired of flirting one day.
Stella for me i'll go with this description of an unfaithful man. If he is not physically abusive in anyway, he shows me so much luv, spoils me with gifts and money then he can go on and cheat. All i have to do is make sure he takes precautionary measures not to bring any disease/ infection home.
ReplyDeleteomo stella if he like let him flirt with the whole of africa ,i will choose the unfaithful man .stingy man no no no chukwu aju
ReplyDeleteBiko the UNfaithful man will do! Besides, men are unfaithful at some point.... Biko I want a boat cruise to the Bahamas
ReplyDeleteBia Stella, this one no be question na. Shuu! i wanna choose the unfaithful man die. Infact i no need post am till Sunday o. God punish stingy man love, you no know say poverty dey make professor catch witch. Make i hear say i no go marry d unfaithful man...........
ReplyDeleteStella, we need to face reality. Most men are unfaithful. Infact, 98% of them. Whether rich or poor. It is natural of them. So as for your question, aint gonna settle for any stingy 'Osho-Free' man. God forbid hell-fire. Whoever that is not okay with my opinion should take several seats while I wave @ him/her from the balcony of my mansion. Lolllllll
ReplyDeleteLol
Deletethis one is a hard one but with the situation at hand i will go with the unfaithful one,because he is not the first man to cheat on me,while should i die in poverty.hehe!
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh! This one hard o! Hate stingy men but then unfaithfulness and the emotional trauma that goes with it. I have a sensitive heart, I'll go for the stingy fool and devise ways of getting cash out of him. That's why I'm a woman after all. There's always a way out. Chi
ReplyDeleteNigerian women! Una go choose the unfaithful man! Na wa oh, I hail una women!
ReplyDeleteStingy man? Can't deal abeg.
ReplyDeleteHow are u sure that stin-gi-tus won't cheat tmrw?
Abeg e!
My dear, I can't deal with a stingy man too. I know what my mum is going through with my stingy-dad who is rich. From Jan-Dec, he only gives her money for food only.
Deleteive dated a stingy man andi couldnt hack it. ppl who are stingy r also mean pls ill take the unfaithful. i can work but i want my man to value me and want to take care of me
ReplyDeleteThe cheating bastard naa.... But d game plan go be to rush born all my pikins from him fast fast bcos before long he must get HIV or another gutter disease.
ReplyDeleteSo I give am four years ... Born 2 kids by d grace of God and switch over to condom levels o.
As long as he does not marry any of his gutter girlfriends... Give me d world... Wetin be my own... He can go and die for all I care.
Babe you Harsh oooooooo.
DeleteBlock head u obviously dont think abt d kind of kids ur bringing into dis world abi? Wen maids impregnate ur daughters and ur son tks after his father den u go know. It sickens me y some people cant think beyond their noses
DeleteTufiakwa lazu women
Non of the above!
ReplyDeletenone of them o...Ola
ReplyDeleteSee all of dem EBINKPAMI women shouting d unfaithful guy!!smtcheeeeeeew!! After una nor let sdk rest with una bastardised oloriburuku story of how a man do una like rag!! Any man dat cheats is a no no 4me!!! Yes men are promiscious in nature,bt a randy cheating bastard?? Abegeee!! Bcos he is rich,,one day go be one day,,dos women his cheating with go use mama dolphin foram or dey plan to kill u!!! Dat money no go dey reach ur hand again!Very effective bcos no smoke witout fire! So make una use una brain!! Bt a man wey no dey randy nd he is stingy,,very hard for women to use mama dolphin foram or planned killing u!#am out#.................OKIJA WIFE
ReplyDeleteI can't abide unfaithfulness. It simply disgusts me. Now I do hate stinginess but have dealt with it before. So the devil you know...and so on.
ReplyDeleteI WILL GO WITH THE STINGY MAN AND DEVICE WAYS TO STEAL HIS MONEY....LMAO
ReplyDeleteStingy one all the way. We women know how to squeeze money out of our husbands o. Na today?
ReplyDeleteQuestion of Life! Will go with the stingy man and look for ways to make him drop!!! My aunty has a deal with her children's school, they increase the tuition on the receipt she gives her husband. The difference is hers. Her maid has been instructed to double the amount anytime oga ask her how much her salary is. The difference is her madam's. She shops for food for the house and triples the cost of everything to her husband. Her mechanic is also in on it. There's always something wrong with her car and he gives her a quote 4 times what it will cost to fix it. The rest is her's. There's ALWAYS a way to get money from a stingy man. You just have to be wise!
ReplyDeleteTHE RICH ONE AND LET HIM CHEAT.....I WILL ALSO HAVE MY CORRECT BOBO ON THE SIDE. TWO CAN PLAY THAT CHEATING GAME ABEG!!
ReplyDeleteThe both i surely despise and will never come in terms to select any..Mba kwa!!! Yes! @i_ChoPtas_Not
ReplyDeleteDear stella hope its crystal clear the kinda women we have today hope ur not so disappointed,in criminology this is the kinda question that is used to catch a criminal.how sad anyway its just riddle but on a more serious note being broke and being stingy are not the same thing
ReplyDeleteBroke is that u don't have so u can't give
Stingy is that u have but u will not give and anyman that is stingy to his wife hates himself haba I don't get,ur own wife,mother of ur kids,ur life partner
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@bloglord no be say u talk, my hubby is stingy with a hi five. Stingyness is his lifestyle, he kips his moni in the car and comes in wit 2k for emergency. Yes i knew him to be like dat but i was blinded by love wen i was dating him and neva understood it to dis level maybe cus i was working but now i can c clearly. He buys foodstuffs and goceries himself. Imagine this man going to otto market every forthnight to stock the house. Bin marid for 4yrs wit 2kids and biliv me he wont allow me to work. Yes am a graduate and av begd him to at least open a shop for me even to sell pure water there i dnt mind. He buys d kids casual clothes at asuani himself and the outing party ones wenever he travels out. I cant even send moni to my mum and siblings and dude is rich, we dont pay rent, we live in a 6bedrm duplex of his, hes got 2 other big property in festac. All i do in dat house is take the kids to skool, pick them back and cook. Cant even buy fuel except i ask him for moni, i dare not on the gen(mikano) no mata how dark it is except he returns, dstv is 1,500 supscribtion. The only times i av moni is xmas times wen he gives me moni for kids shopping and at times i wonder y. At times i want to plan his kidnap bt i dont know who to meet. The worst part is dat he still cheats and i woner if he does same to his gfs. I want to leave the marriage and i know one day i will. Sistas pls pardon my epistle but plsss run for ur life with a stingy man, rather do d unfaithful.
ReplyDeletewow!! babe...you are in hell! i pray God speaks to your husband and change things for you cos to be truthful , that is no marriage!
DeleteHmmm I no dis stingy husband that doles out cash to his mistress, they fight over his stinginess ooo, but e dey drop well. And the gf works and earns well. Probably cos u too cool madam, pls get ursef a job. These stupid men love independent sistas
DeletePlan his kidnap and ask for a huge ransom..lmao..
DeleteForgot to add, he gives me 5k every month and says i may want to buy anything.
ReplyDeleteOmo na wa o, na for soup moni me deh get cut o and some other moni for dis and dat, babe i piti u but ur in hell, u nid intervention. Am not working too but my husby gives me 50k monthly and he gives me 20k for home keeping aside rice, yam, potatoes, he gives me 3k mondays, wednesdays and saturday for soup, he drops 1k for me every day except saturdays and sundays and am still complaining...haaaaaa, am humbled with ur post. GOD bless my husby for me i will neva complain again and from now on i will be hapi, grateful and appreciate him weneva.
ReplyDeleteNa wa oo!! Ur hubby is both. Stingy and unfaithful. Mehn dat's hell. Sorry darln, GOD will see u thru. I hate stingy men, and yes they still cheat... Nansence
ReplyDeleteMy dear unfaithful straight. I'm married to one exactly like what u described. I used to complain until my friends married to stingy guys started telling me their stories. I beg I prefer my guy. I don't work and I don't lack. Besides he's a good enough husband and wonderful father. I am very happy.
ReplyDeleteUpon all stingy men still cheat. I beg unfaithful jare.
ReplyDeleteOMG#dis is one hell of a question!to b frank am goin with d unfaithful guy*as long as he makes life so comfortable 4 me n my love ones*as 4 his cheatin hubby*i sure no hw to handle it#i no fit reason dat stingy guy matter twice
ReplyDeleteAnd this is why marriage still remains a joke. I gain a lot from blog comments and I am happy a lot of women have said the true state of their minds. The biblical virtuous woman is sparsely distributed in the society. No woman talked about how to multiply their husbands wealth, but are all seeing marriage like something that has financial gain, lest it's useless. I wish you all good luck in this rat race.
ReplyDeletebest best best best comment, nigerian women see men as their only way to amass wealth. kilode, u think these men don't want to marry rich girls also.
Deletemy male friend once told me he would prefer to marry his 20million/yr earning gf to his 1 million/ yr earning fiancee. as the former salary plus his would enable the kids go to good schs and also take a holiday every year. Food for thot ladies, what actually are you bringing into a marriage
All of u choosing stingy has not experienced what it means to live in lack in d midst of plenty.
ReplyDeleteMy father's stinginess no get Part 2 and from what I experienced, I wld never marry a stingy person. My father wld only pay ur fees and give you an allowance which has bn calculated per day. He stopped my mum from working and would nt give anytin to her except house keeping allowance. He wld buy a bag of rice and keep in his room and only allow us eat rice twice a week. Thurs and Sun. He doesn't pay any fees after ur BSC. If u wan do any post graduate course, wait till u get a job and pay ur way. Never buys clothes for us except during xmas.
This man was an Oga @ NNPC. His Pension right now is higher than wat I receive as salary. If I continue, I'll write till tomorrow and wont finish.
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ReplyDeleteAll these girls cursing stingy or not stingy, you are all from ghetto I guess, poverty mentality is the only thing that would make a girl not know that she deserves self respect to try and make her own money rather than look for a man to milk.
ReplyDeleteSo if men must give, what should women give nothing? It's a form of widespread prostitution to believe that for you to love a man, it has to be for money. The sex you will give to him, sometimes you enjoy more and the vagina was given to you from God free.There gifts times like Xmas, valentines but many girls believe that just because a man dates them they have a right to what he makes, he's not married to you remember?
Only girls from poor homes loose respect to call a man stingy, how much of yours do you people give? Poverty mentality is a disease in several forms and comments like these are the bases to recognize needy girls.
My dear u are talking Greek. So people from comfortable backgrounds should not mind if the guy is stingy???? Let me tell u marriage is give and take. Everyone wants to feel appreciated and being stingy is not a good way to show appreciation. I'm sure u r a seriously broke and stingy guttersnipe. Good luck in ur endeavors.
Deleteladies what are you bringing into the marriage too.... i can never marry a lady that is expecting me to pay for her hair, fuel her car etc God forbid!
ReplyDeleteMarriage to a stingy man is marrying yourself. You will be left with taking care of yourself and children. He cares less if you and your children wear cloths or eat good food. His only language is me me instead of us. Please sisters, think again before you marry that sting man. He will never change. read my lips.... He will NEVER change. You will always live in lack in the mist of plenty. He keeps an eye over the smallest thing in the house ie salt. Nothing goes out of his house without his consent. People around you will think you hate yourself by the way you dress, look or jump from one okada to another knowing fully your husband is rich. Most of them will do everything possible to prevent you from (working/trading) making your own money. Abeg matter plenty.
ReplyDeleteMarriage also to an unfaithful man in gateway to untimely death. Not only because of HIV but the fear of him will prevent you from bringing your female friends home, you will not want your sisters to visit, your grown up ladies nko. Hypertension will be your best friend.
unfaithful wif money all the way mehn
ReplyDeleteI had a huge bust up with my partner and he left me, i was so frustrated and i email Dr. Stanley and he said he could help, I must admit, I was very, very skeptical as didn't really believe he would be back after all he said, but it was just a few days when he phoned and asked to come over to talk, we talked and talked and the silly misunderstanding was all forgiven and we are back together now for good, all thanks to drstanleyspelltemple@hotmail.com, I would highly recommend his services, they do really, really work. Lynda.
ReplyDeleteA stingy man is nt the way forward.
ReplyDeleteI would comfortably marry the cheat, and pray that he accepts christ, I wld jst tell him no babies and no perm chicks, use protection and do regular checks, reason is d stingy faithful man, can become over the years a chronic cheat, so why do I ve to put up with d stingy man.
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