Best friends are supposed to be forever right?.......
They are the one person you can talk to and tell everything and you feel comfortable knowing all your secrets are safe with them....you go to bed with a sigh and a smile on your face when you remember that you have a best friend.....
We all know that betrayals come in different forms right?it is the betrayal of a best friend that hurts more than anything else.
I was shocked but enlightened and entertained yesterday when there were revelations on a particular post of two ladies and how one ended up snatching the others man..she supposedly came on my blog to give testimony and she was fished out.
CLICK HERE TO READ THE SHOCKING REVELATIONS BY FORMER BEST FRIENDS IFEOMA AND ESTHER.
Why do people snatch their best friends lovers?
why do you want what belongs to your best friend?
do you use the secrets your best friend has confided in you to woo their lover?you know everything because they told you?
How does it feel like after you snatch?
does the relationship last long?does it lead to the altar?
is it worth the shame?
do you have a story to tell?IFEOMA OR ESTHER you can continue here with the tales of snatching....
please,please you are welcome.
Choi! I was even dumbfounded when Ifeoma admitted shamelessly to the accusations. Ifeoma, I know you will read this, you are soo shameless and, if that sister of yours that commented knows about the story, she is more shameless. With a friend like you, who needs an enemy.
ReplyDeleteI just hate you, and there is no amount of explanation that will make me say otherwise. Just watch and see where that marriage will take you.
PS: I'm neither of your friends, I'm just a very much pained blog observer
You are very wickedt!u see friends??your intent is to actually ridicule Esther.so ple wd open her past.we know she was a les,smokes,has nude pic,a runs gal,what else?however is esther the gal with a nude pic?(Miss imo n fmr miss unizik cohorts)if not,pls ignore my reply.I don't kno esther or ifeoma,but you friends should jus stop.
DeleteD story pain u pass d owner of d mata.
DeleteD story pain u pass d owner of d mata.
DeleteStella I felt you had contacted both parties, done your investigations and so on. ...only for me to be directed back to the post were d allegation was made. Were is d proof pls?
DeleteNo let me vex o!
I wonder y people still keep bffs. Keep people at arm's length, help out when required, socialise when you feel like, know where to draw the line. That's my modus operandi and it's always worked for me.
DeleteClick my name for all your celebration cakes and cupcakes, cheers
Dang man! This Ifeoma babe na wah o. No wonder she said 4 months after they started dating. She obviously trapped the dude with pregnancy. She said she cried and wailed when telling him about it. I'm sure dude felt boxed into a corner or has a soft spot for crying chics and she knew this. Babe just has an innocent face but is very devlish. Na wah! Karma no dey hide face sha.
DeleteAs for those saying the Esther babe na bad girl, abeg what happened to "show me your friends"? If Esther bad like that, then Ifeoma is no better. Na dem sabi jare..... na the betrayal and her effrontery to bring the gist on SDK for that matter, knowing how the story be na in shock me like this. I no dey like comment for all these kain mata.
I had to do investigative journalism now untop amebo. Abeg for those of you looking for the main post and laziness nor gree una search the site, http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2014/01/god-turns-mistakes-into-miraclesblog.html
Delete@ Anon 1:57. U rock!!!! *kisses* ok now let me read the 1st story. Will be bk 2 comment.
DeleteGod bless you anonymous for posting the link.
DeleteThanks for providing the link, got me all messed up and confused yesterday with their argument.
DeleteStella, Amebo!
ReplyDeleteWhy don't we ask the man who he loves most or at least get his side of the story.
For what? What's with her fucking her friend's bf and even hooking him with belle? Abeg shift joor, see as the guy be sef, penniless mofo
DeleteOur stella amebo na our work let me sit here _____________ and enjoy the gist woow I learn everyday here I'm so happy I'm a loner o,everybody on a hi hi level heheheheh no need to carry person join body,nothing hurt more than a betrayal from a best frnd it will look like dream.
ReplyDeleteI'm telling you! Better to fly solo jare. Best friend my right butt cheek
DeleteThis is why no funny friend even smelled my bf, not to talk of seeing him, until we got married. Fear so called friends, there are very few good ones out there.
DeleteGrabbing a seat waiting for d part two. Julit pass me ur palmie n popcorn
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahha
DeleteAll I can say is ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.......okay Linda Eze n co, plz am yoruba o, make I join d igbo forum, I need dat Ogogoro n palmy....is it wif popcorn? I ll bring dat along.... I just Love my Male friends to bits, dey sha can't shag my bf! Aye ma Ni ka oo....and d few female friends I av...dey are simply Adorable!
DeleteHehehehehe!
ReplyDeleteDis is wat we call weekend gobe!
U see why i luv sdk?
Make i carry my two left legs go meet julit 4 linda hut ooo
Linda nwannem, biko pass me one cup of palmi mixed wit ogogoro abeg.
Ehen! *sips ogogoro nd palmi* Wat were u saying?
Haney
I'm sure joining you people o. Linda biko, achicha nwa oka foro? Ogugbugo m
DeleteChoi....serious gobe...I came late ooo....you pple should make room for me lemme sit...anything that will carry my matter come SDK,I reject it....
DeleteHahahahaha God bless the day I found this blog. SDK's blog is truly the best. @julit and Linda abeg space still dey so? Cos I dey come with my Zobo and brukutu come join una. *grabs seat* *undress* *fans self* waiting for more gist to unfold.
Delete*shoving every one out of Linda's hut*: ngwa n'aba nu! Uka mgbede agbasago. Lol.
DeleteSo children what have you all learnt today??
Lesson learnt: keep your private matters away from the prying eyes of the internet.
Chakpiii woooo!
No palmie today. I dey go church. Till 14th of feb before the next palmie go ferment.
DeleteY'all are crazy for real.
DeleteStella,dis isn't fair.she didn't snatch any1 frm me.u guys shud pls stop
ReplyDeleteWe don't believe this is Esther. Unless you call Stella and she tells us you called her.
DeleteWho is ds 1 biko? Famzer. Ifeoma welcome oh
DeleteIfeoma welcome. You can now take several seat
DeleteEeya, I feel ur pain!!! I thereby rest my case!!!
DeleteIfeoma u one cum defend ur sef pretend to be esther. Take several seat joor. My frds guy used to pester me for marriage beg n beg but didn't accept cos I cudnt bring my sef to date my frds guy even der ex.
DeleteLiar pants on fire,ifeoma stp famzing yourself stella just posted this story even yes or no haven't commented,pls try amd be reasonable,habatically,you are not smart at all n people didn't even notice in the danjuma post
DeleteOh shatap! Imposter
DeleteIFEOMA, i know its you....pls shut up and stop posing like ESTHER
DeleteR u sure u r d esther.
DeleteR u sure u r d esther.
Delete@ yes or no, which case re u resting now?
DeleteMtchewwww ! When sdkers don begin de order palmi
& suja 4 d real gist.....
Dissapointd sha... #scratchsheadinconfusion#
when i click on the link it goes back to the danjuma story!stelle whats goin on oh!i never fit read the story.
ReplyDeleteCheck the comments on that story before I call you mumu now.
DeleteJust go thru d comments on Danjuma story, u will find it....
DeleteThat is where the gist is nah,check the comment of yes or no just be patient
DeleteRead the comment section o, no carry last
Deletecheck out the comments in the Danjuma story. u ll get the gist there.
DeleteD gist is under dat Story , go thru all the comments again.
DeleteStella biko post my comment if u no want make i die!
ReplyDeleteMake i no even find dis post later if not i go locate u 4 night ooo.
Haney
Lol your amebo no b here
DeleteHehehehehe!
ReplyDeleteDis is wat we call weekend gobe!
U see why i luv sdk?
Make i carry my two left legs go meet julit 4 linda hut ooo
Linda nwannem, biko pass me one cup of palmi mixed wit ogogoro abeg.
Ehen! *sips ogogoro nd palmi* Wat were u saying?
Haney
Stella the link you provided is connecting to the "musa danjuma has a baby mama " story...
ReplyDeleteAnother lazy mumu
DeleteI thot my own fone was malfunctioning wen it went to d danjuma's story.
DeleteYes, go thru d comments, amebo dey sweet o, chai!
DeleteDat where u can find d story just go dwn 2d comment.
DeleteIhekire Tony
ReplyDeleteHow can u say a full grown and matured man was snatched. Please there is nothing like snatching, just say he left u for ur friend.
Honey don't be daft,it is a metaphor for the "word".you better face what the lecturer is teaching so you don't get an "F"
DeleteWhatever, its still betrayal. Ifeoma is happy i'm not that Esther, i for treat their fuck up wella
DeleteWait o. Please somebody should enlighten me.
ReplyDeleteIfeomas post was that of the girl who said "she didn't want to use a mistake to correct another mistake,right"? That she got pregnant and refused to abort, bla bla bla....so, the man was actually her best friends man?
Jeez, girl.........well, I am still happy you didn't abort the child.
You said he fell out of love with your friend, have you forgotten the silent rule? "Your best friends ex or current is out of your league"......come on girl.....
Now, as for chidi, what is wrong with your dick? Don't you have respect for friends? You are the type that will sleep with his wifes sister......
I tire for all these bffs sef
I tire o and she even had to send her story to Stella to post,SMH,some girls are just shameless .
DeleteGbam! Mrs D.
DeleteWhy would you even date your friend's boyfriend? Ex or present?
Women! We are just our own enemies. Leave the man out of it. If you are principled, no man can ever woo you to that point of betraying your Bestie.
It has to do with you. Ifeoma I hope all these allegation against you is false otherwise.........otherwise......dont let karma begin to romance those testimonies of yours.
Mrs D your brain dey work well. Everyone attacking ifeoma what of the chidi that can not control is dick. Anyway karma na bitch. Abeg ifeoma call stella and clear your name oh. Yes or no were are u? Biko we are waiting.
DeleteLol, Bloglord @romance her testimonies....and u r so right about principles.
DeleteMake she just siddon de wait because Chidi go soon fall out of love with her and in love with her sister.....
BlogLord: .....All 'these' allegation against you is false----these, allegation(s), is
Delete*sideeye* see wetin amebo dey cause!
Ihekire Tony
ReplyDeleteor was he snatched at gun point?
Lmao 'at gun point'
DeleteStella, u shld have let it go.
ReplyDeleteRemember there is now a child involved.
No one has d true details.
U r much more mature than these small girls, I remember Ifeoma said she was 22 or so.
Read the coments on the link musa story na,why are you calling stera
ReplyDeleteSome things are just no-no for me... Dating my friend's ex not to talk of snatching...
ReplyDeleteAs for Ifeoma, she's just a stupid girl...
My dear, how can you open your mouth and say you fell in love with your best friend's BF..
If they were married nko? Na your type be the lady that that has two kids for her BFF's husband.. PLEASE DON'T COME BACK HERE TO SEND READER'S MAIL O... I dey shout now oo and my fellow sdkers are my witness. I no dey curse you but 'Thou shall reap whatsoever thou sows'' pressed down shaken together running over sef..
For Esther, thank God you didn't end up with that kind of man! Na DONATUS them dey call their type.. Sit back and watch... You'd be glad you didn't end up with him..
Gather yourself together and be wary of friends in the future..
As for me, I have good friends, but I still limit what I say to them..I use to have male as BFFs until unnecessary emotions began to spring up...That doesn't realy work too.. So, Na God I dey face squarely oo.. I don't even gist my family every about my hubby not to talk of friends..
NEVER FORGET EVERYONE IS HUMAN HENCE CAN DO ANYTHING..
Ok we haf hear oo but wait a minute,it is okay for girls to date their ex boyfriend best friend but it is not okay for girls to date their best friend ex,seriously we women like to degrade ourself,we are equal,so as long she didn't snatch d dude what's the fuss about
DeleteBoth ways, its wrong! Its even worse as a lady dating your BF's ex.. You be shoe wey dem dey pass?
DeleteAny man that wants to date you knowing you are his best friends ex is a traitor.. He probably had his eyes on you all the while or he just wants a bit of the action¬¬
Memo to all the ladies that cant keep their personal gist/stories to themselves.
ReplyDeleteIf Ifeoma's gist don't teach U̶̲̥̅̊ a tin, U̶̲̥̅̊ wil 4eva remain a learner!!! Let's assume Esther was nt so much into Chidi, n she must v told U̶̲̥̅̊ abt it right? She tells U̶̲̥̅̊ abt her flings or som oda terrible stuffs right? So now dat a concerned friend of urs has com out 2 speak d truth U̶̲̥̅̊ feel it is Esther n U̶̲̥̅̊ wanna let d cats out of d bag? When U̶̲̥̅̊ knew U̶̲̥̅̊ had cockroaches in ur cupboard, why bring ur personal gist on a blog? Ifeoma n her voltrons, let's cal a spade a spade!!! What U̶̲̥̅̊ did is ABSOLUTELY WRONG!!! Wen ur daughter grows up, how wil U̶̲̥̅̊ tell her U̶̲̥̅̊ met her dad? Wen esther comes visiting, ao does she relate with Chidi? Do U̶̲̥̅̊ v d guts 2 leave dem ALONE in d room witout looking back? Nothing justifies wot U̶̲̥̅̊ v don so J̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊t̲̥̅̊ apologise properly n move on!!!
Uhmmmmm you are right my dear
DeleteGbam,1000 likes for your comment,your girlfriend 's ex?
DeleteD deed has been done, leave them alone already! !!!
DeleteEsther if yu like dont move on, commit aldultery wit chidi, God is watching.
Sdkers easy wit d judgement, we've not heard from both parties.
@Yes or No....bia u keep beating abt/around d bush....give us full gist let knw wat transpired cos I have been following ur post u keep saying same tin all over n over again!!!! Ehen ifeoma snatched Esther bf right? We all know DAT part Na...what lead to d snatching pls give us d coco n stop involving d little baby who is ignorant of d mom misdeed..#itchingears#
DeleteN.b stella I got tired of commenting when u made up ur mind not to be posting ma comment for reasons best knw to u....Ur case dey court sha.
Saint zizee
This girl Yes and No is really stupid after reading this ur comment i see u changing tone yesterday u were boiling like YAM on fire. U brought out all this stories yesterday, i thought u re going to spell the bean today as u have been given a chance on this blog now. Why don't u bring out all the story about what happen instead of sounding like a peace maker. COWARD u want to make peace after u brought out the story we are waiting to hear what happen from you in particular.
Delete*Scratches head* Why will Esther come visiting? Are they still friends? Biko Esther should forget that friendship.
Delete@12:54,hahahaha hEehehe really? "Spell the beans".olodo rabata oje eja lo mo je.
DeleteGals should learn to keep somethings to their selves,u can't be giving ur best friend gist on how ur bf loves and cares 4 u wen u know she doesn't have a bf,d percentage of jealousy rising is high in such situations
ReplyDeleteoma, Esther and co, u people should be fast pls, we need u here, come and answer present.....hehehe
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.
DeleteI don't believe in all this bff ish,they are just enemy in disguise. Shame on u Ifeoma for trying to use ur friend's secret against her after snatching her bf or am I missing something here? Ifeoma,Esther and Melvis we dey wait for una
ReplyDeleteWait which ifeoma,d God turn mistake to miracle ifeoma,I dey confuse,stella slap me make I wake,abi mutunre abeg bring my glasses
ReplyDeleteI would have had my first boyfriend when I was in my 2nd year in the university. That relationship crashed before it started because of a girl I called my best friend. We were like twins then. Always doing things together. People use to envy our friendship. I confided in her that I was going to say yes to the guy finally after being choosy for a long time.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile that my friend had a boyfriend she has been with for over 2 years. This my would have been bf was a handsome guy, and caring, he was always dotting on me. He always took I,my bff and other friends out. I also stupidly took my best friend to his house.
Before I could bring myself to say yes to guy, my best friend went and had sex with him behind my back. Chai! I was very hurt and heartbroken when i found out days later because my friends attitude towards me changed overnight. The guy was still forming love for me.
After that incident, I changed. I stopped trusting friends or anyone with all my heart. It has been a part of me till date. It's very difficult for me to trust anyone now.
When I later met and started dating my hubby, I made sure none of my friends knew him. They only hear about him from me and see his pics on my phone but they never met him, I made sure of that.
Thank God he wasn't living in the same town with us then. All my friends both the ones close to me and the ones that are not so close to me met my hubby for the first time on our traditional marriage day. Then the next was on my wedding day. After wedding, I cut off from a lot of friends that are not trustworthy esp the single ones with red eyes. I still have close friends both single and married but I don't tell them everything and I don't allow them in my house anyhow. Thank God for distance too.
I can never trust any friend 100% and it has been working for me. I don't get disappointed these easily because I know people must fuck up. I don't have problems with friends because I don't tell them things they can use against me. My mum is my best friend. She is the one I confide in and I know she can never betray me. After my mum, it's my sisters. They adore and respect me a lot and I know they can never hurt me.
Say no to BFF!
Genny ur baby is so cute
DeleteMy dear you are better off without that your wouldbe boyfriend .
DeleteIf your husband was the useless type, he could still cheat with your friends after marriage.
DeleteIt all boils down to the man in question. For how long will a girl continue to hide her BF from friends? Is he not exposed different types of women all day long? A man with a restless dick can always get a willing partner.
BFFs aint the problem. The problem is the lethal combination of greedy bitchy friends and irresponsible, randy BFs/husbands.
Did u say sisters? Abegi, just say u av God sent sisters. I av the world worst sisters on earth; jealous, gullible, envious, gentle but wicked. So me and God plus God and God alone. Not married yet so hopefully my husband
DeleteNigerian women make me laugh. Genny baby you are hiding your husband like a baby? Is it only your friends he can sleep with? Do you follow him to work? If your man wants to cheat, ain't nothing you can do about it
DeleteI usually do not comment, but I have to now. In a Mans world, Ifeoman did not snatch the guy cos she neither tied his legs to her ass nor put a gun to his head. But in a womans world, Ifeoma betrayed Esther & "trapped" her man. The facts are: U got Pregnant for him four months into ur relationship & he married u at 22? Babe, U played ur game right but Thank esther for letting U get away with such. Am taking several seats on Karmas lap on Ifeomas behalf, Time will tell if Ur innocent or guilty! FYI, I didn't tap into ur posts buhaha! It did seem shady! I wish u all what Esther wishes U.
ReplyDeleteHi,I am a friend to the bth of dem buh closer to ifeoma's best friend.chidi wasn't snatched from esta though they once dated..."Lets just say sm things happen for a reason...sm pple are dere to lead u to ur happiness nd in ifeoma's case it was esta so pls stop dis insolence.ifeoma we luv u regardless of whateva.keji
ReplyDeleteDon't be too fast to conclude it will lead to happiness,don't worry you too will lead your friend to her happiiness at your own expense
DeleteYou, shat ya trap! Imagine! So that broke ass dude was Ifeoma's destiny and she couldnt wait to get pregnant for him? Arrant Nonsense. Ifeoma, u get mind walahi
DeleteGbafuo. Ajo enyi united FC.
DeleteBirds of same feather...................
Deleteyou guys are really stupid.....so he dated Esther then everyone she knows should not be friends with him for life? he found ifeoma a better person to marry and that is a problem? women are so stupid.....the man was not forced cos we know a lot of guys who deny pregnancy without blinking.......we know a lot of baby mamas who never get married so cos chidi married ifeoma you guys are now jealous and want to wish her bad luck.......karma will have no place in her marriage......
DeleteHahahahaha..pls am a zikite ooo!frm wat I hrd,ifeoma is a nice person ooooo!!!
ReplyDeleteI actually don't even believe it was ifeoma that replied sha.
Is esther one of the 6gals with the nude pic?including flavour ada ada n cynthia onyekachi?if yes,you guys shud accompany chidi to give testimony in church.that supposed Esther is a petty,dirty runs girl.God helped him.however,if actually ifeoma did the accused,BABES!u no try!!make I talk true
If esther is a runz girl and ifeoma is her friend then ifeoma too is not 'pure'
DeleteNo be only zikite,na kit kat,that local school Unizik mtcheeww
DeleteEhen? will she be d ist to ve a leaked nude? Or will she be d ist to do runz? Throw the ist stone if u r a virgin, anu ofia
DeleteAbeg no chew me ooo!na question I ask.bia aunty 'tushi tush' unizik mite be local but atleast no be ur papa get the tush one wey u go.oke belgium!!!aunty,I no get nude pic oo!I won't take several nude pic with different pose n send to a pimp.the truth is bitter!no man want to wife that type except kanye but c'mon u aint no kim k.Ndo,kpele,sorry.if u manage 2 get another serious guy eh,shield him from better friends..anu ofia nke gi
DeleteShut ur trap u smelling emerald ! U think I don't know who u are?if I start with u here ehn,sdkb no go contain us o!u this dirty local runs girl!Igbo smoker!I pray that what befell Esther will befall u IJMN ! Oloshi!
DeleteY'all be quick to judge Ifeoma...Chidi knew what he wanted and went for it....U can't snatch any man from his woman unless juju is involved....Prolly chidi didn't love esther that much...The only betrayal I see is Ifeoma going ahead to date her bestie's bf..but d deed has been done..Ladies,when it gets to man matter abeg leave ur bestie out of it especially if she's hotter than u
ReplyDeleteEsther should have gotten pregnant na and watch how chidi will drop her like its hot! A man know wot he wants and who he wants to spend his life with, yu might date him for years but if yu are not d one my dear yu are not d one.
DeleteIfeoma biko tend to your daughter pls, don't come here to defend yourself or justify your deeds, Only GOd sees d heart of man. Just pray for your marriage and keeep loving your husband.
Remember most people who will come here to judge do worse things....
In this case, Esther is way hotter
Deletewell said Ammie well said!
DeleteEsther is hotter Johor, Ifeoma u get mind o, don't u know dat dis kinda man will still date ur sister, cousin or friend in d future, don't be feeling like u have arrived o, I don't trust men dat can date two friends, they are very bad and can do anything
DeleteMay the same thing befall u @anon
DeleteStella! Stella!! Stella!!! How many times did I call u. I remove cap for u. U re the commander in chief of all Amebo matters in Nigeria. All other blogs na Learner dem be. Haah! Stella u re too much.
ReplyDeleteStella is judgemental and she sometimes misleads people...only the two friends and the man in btw can tell exactly what happened. Stella's statements with her posts are usually too harsh...we all should be careful o
ReplyDeleteAll bloggers want at the end is traffic.
DeleteIf not why didn't stella just ask d question without mentioning names nd links?
Are u a learner didn't you see the link.lazy mofo
DeleteWhen I was dating my husband, I made sure not even my bestie of 10yrs knew him or evn had a pix of him....the coding was tight!!! I only informed them of my trad few days to the occassion. All I can say is I learnt from experience and it paid off...its not a case of having trust issues...its a case of avoiding the Ifeoma and Esther Saga!
ReplyDeletePlease mind the kind of words and curses you pour out on ifeoma,she just had a baby and remember she found a solace in you guys, she trust you guys will stand by her that's why she told you of all she went through.
ReplyDeleteEster a part of you might feel bitter but please don't welcome that spirit,its an envious and demonic spirit,her intentions was not to sleep with your boyfriend but all of a sudden you guys quarrelled and it happened that ifeoma stepped in,its not your fault nor ifeoma's fault,its nature playing it role and forcing you to pinch blame on your friend as an excuse to hate her life.
There is something called Destiny and faith, no matter what you can fight it or change it,i remember when ifeoma said she got pregnant and he hurriedly wants to pay her bride price,if it was you will he proud to pay yours?will he show you off as a mother and wife? my dear Ester,look at the brighter side of life and move on, you will be surprise the greatness that lies ahead,there are enough good men out there,even me here nice and still single Lol.
Ifeoma you should have gone to Ester and made amends with her, she would have understand because its not your fault, but stil Ester still deserves a hearing from you, how is kaima?please be bold and strong to confront your fears.
Life is too short to carry unnecessary beef in this new year,this years motto is ''forgiveness'',please its a great message,apply it to your life's.
Bia Kaycee, what are you saying? Please advice them to kill the beef but saying nature stepped in and etc...huh?? I guess I am not clear on what you even mean or how that relates to anything. As for me, I believe Chidi is a snake period.
Deletekaycee is so right mind the curses you put on ifeoma.....how did the relationship with esther and chidi end? was is ifeoma that stopped it? if he found ifeoma better wife material how is that her fault? are we saying that if a guy dates someone and breaks up then none of her friends should ever date him? life doesn't roll as easy as that.....things happen sometimes that we cannot control so people should get off ifeoma ,s back.....since we do not have all the facts of the matter stop playing God and wishing her evil......chidi is not a boy and i believe they both knew what they were getting into..so unless you are all saying esther and chidi had an active relationship and ifeoma stepped in then we can conclude she betrayed her friend.....if truly she betrayed anybody let God judge her in his own way......
DeleteBut Ifeoma you are wicked sha! This is one thing I cannot do to another woman,,,,snatch her man....lai lai
ReplyDeleteBola wey u dey o ti se le ooo,shebi ah so,sare lo si stella dimikoko blog ehn sorry log on to stella dimikoko blog, C ur mouth you too like amebo
ReplyDeleteStella, advise me too...my. Elder sister's friend's sister(A) used to date a married guy(B) like 7yrs ago. Dey met again last year n d sister invited d guy to dia brother's weddin an d married guy was at my table. He askd for my no. And den I askd my elder sister's friend who d guy was and she said d guy is her elder sister's friend.andlater after d party I askd d elderr sister n she said dey r jst. Friends but datedbriefly a long time ago while he was marriied...now me n dguy r veri close n I noticed dat d elder sister is tryg to get bac wwit him cos she kips askin d guy for moni and dat she wants to go visit him.but d guy kept sayin no. And suddenly she deletes me from her bbm ,then I readd her and she deletes me again and added me back herself but I declined.funy tin is she doesn't act like she is angry wen chattg wit me. She used to ask ow fr wit him dat I shld enjoi him well blah blah. She dintt knw d guy told me abt her flirtg witt him on bbm n askg to visit.so for the past few mths after I declined her invitte(I did dis cos she kept using diffnt dps dat talks about lettin go and stuff likedat and cos she kept deletin and reinvitin me)..so for d past 2mths now d guy told me dat she has not been chattg wit him and dintt even reply wen he wished her merry xmas.he said mayb cos he neva sent her d moni she askd for( she askd him for moni for xmas shoe dat. Shebi he dey spend moni for me)..I don't even tel her wen he gives me moni.till date she hasn't chattyed wit him but dint delete him. He wa rili angry d day he was tellg me, dat wats she feelg like dat dey dated a long ttime ago..."Long story short, d guy has been all ova me since we met last year july. I tried datin diffrnt single guys(dey either want me for sex or end up cheatg wit ppl u can even imagine)over dmonths but deyv bin messg up. I'll be 36 dis year and had to tel him dat if stil datin him til july dis year n I don't meet a single dedicated singleguuy dat I love, dat I'm gon get preg for him and do a smal weddg witt him. He said okay and lately he's rili bin welcomin d idea n introducin me as his 2nd wife. His wife is a very cool person from wat I heard from him.he neva complains abt her and I wuldnt like to cause wahala but wil rili love to get preg n do d smal weddg.he has said he'l getme an apartment n take care of me but dat I shld knw daty he gon b comin and goin like he does now.I'm rili lukg forward to gettg preg in july or august. My elder sister's friend even likes d idea and she was even swearin dat her sister isn't datin d guy again that wat d had was brief. She even told me to go ahead.D qstn is am I like dis girl been accused here? Stella pls reply here.don't make a post of it .tanx.
ReplyDeleteUr such an ashawo..desperate bitch @ 36..u wan marry anoda woman's property ole!!!..no go find ur own man..hisss!waste of my murtherfucking time!
Delete1st write in proper english next time, all this ur grammar writing gives me headache.2rd u lack self esteem go out there and get a man of ur own and don't destroy others marriage because of your selfishness of looking for a child this year. Pray God gives u man not another woman's husband. I am sure u won't like it when ur husband brings a 3rd wife to ur house. Maybe you need to change the things that makes single guys run away from u.
DeleteYou are a foolish fool. See you talking about getting pregnant for someone's husband like you are some kind of god who's so certain she can even get pregnant. There's nothing my eyes won't read. You are supremely stupid. Goodness! Talking about oh he's wife is nice and bla bla. How can you be this stupid at 36? You have just four more years before you become a fool forever. You know what they say about a fool at 40. Use those four years to get a brain please.
DeleteYou are a fool at 36 second wife to a married man,say what? Except if u are a muslim
DeleteWhat nonsense did u type here??!! Well I don't blame u, its only a person with the type of brain u have that will consider what u want to do. And u even have the shameless mind to come and ask questions here.
DeleteMtchewwww...
~OMA~
U are a fool , better get urself a single guy and leave d stupid married man alone, tufa kwa, akwuna Kaunas, prostitute, Agaba, may God punish u for wanting to get pregnant for Anoda man, u shall know no peace till u leave someoneS hubby alone, bcos d wife is quiet u want to get pregnant for her hubby abi? Onye ara! Don't u know dat d quiet ones are more deadly, don't worry d leg u want to use enter u go use am runaway and u won't even know wats chasing u.
DeleteHahahahahahaha...Stellastica,where are you?Oya na REPLY...LMAO.....
DeleteWait this is someone's husband ba. All of you are quite silly. Stella, this story is about her and a married man planning to build a small life together. OP, is the other wife aware that you exist? You know this your guy is messing with the other lady ba? Please do not be 36 and desperate. You are 36 but you sound so...naive. I don't even have the words right now. Women are somehow sha.
DeleteYour plan to destroy another woman's home will not work ou in Jesus name. After you have wasted your own life and youthfulness.
DeleteYes, u re worse. In fact u re a husband snatcher, home wrecker, leave another woman husband alone.
DeleteSo, u want to get pregnant 4 a married man? I don't get it. U think u r too old at 36? Its not enough for u to tell us u r dating a married man but u also want to come into his home? I'm trying so hard not to say hurtful things to you because u r older dan I am.
DeleteDo you have sense? ? ?
Delete*sits down* Ok dear, let's advice you, but before dat I need to go over the case you have brought here..
DeleteSo you are currently dating a married man who once dated your Elder sister's friend's sister, And u hope we can justify that since d chain is so long u guys were not so close hence u didn't ifeoma on her innit? Ok dear, and then u olredi told the "married" man that if by July u don't hook urself a single man of ur own, u r gonna hook him up with a baby and he really buys the idea and is already introducing you as u 2nd wife (O_O u dunminit? Go Girl!!! ) and his "First wifey" is really nice (really??? U think?? Hahaha eho omomo na khin) so u r looking forward to getting preggers in August and a small wedding.. I think that did d summary..
Now for starters, u ll b 36 dis year and instead of you to pray to God for your own man, u r scheming on sharing someone else's own.. Smh wat is dis generation becoming? U r so excited he's introducing u as his 2nd wife (2nd being d Word here) u think his madam is nice, wait until God forbid something happens den u ll see jus how nice she is.. my grandmother will say d hawk always returns d chick of d mother hen that doesn't fight back, Fear "Nice" people! Quote me " NO 1st wife is ever so cool" to share her husband and her home" dem nor dey cool reach dere!
I would go on and on but dis is d advice part, Get urself together and fix urself up, Dump dat archaic idea of getting belle for married man , go about doing the best things and the best things(men inclusive) would come falling over demselves for u! Leave another woman's husband make dem nor go treat ur matter for oneside on code. A word is enuf for the wise !
DeleteHe is married. Leave him ALONE!
DeleteThe wife is cool.... lol.... note that you will be in for it when the woman finds out. If the man married the woman in court, then he cannot marry you. any other marriage unless he divorces his current wife is illegal. Its obvious you are desperate cause time is no longer on your side.
DeleteIf you desperately want to give birth, look for a single guy!... I will advice you to wait though and pray. I know of a lady who was this desperate. She got pregnant and shortly after she met a really cool guy.... the guy didnt stay. Watch and pray your husband will come!
Were alaso...ole onijibiti
DeleteAbeg, wey dat stone wey dem dey use pray for that church? I need am to take stone this idiotic idiot.mtschew
DeleteHiaaan ! Okirika peenis kwa?
DeleteWhich kian bend down select horseband
story dis one kom be again?
Madam 36 y/o poster, a married man
ain't no fairly used but a worn-out ,
a thoroughly xhausted horseband.
Na so-so suffer suffer & patch patch if u dare enter,
Go plan ur future elsewhere & leave d madam on top
to enjoy her marriage. No destroy someone else's home
I tek GOD beg you
Oturugbeke!! Oghene okpori gbenu!!!
DeleteNothing when we no go see for Stella blog...
Oluwa oooo!!! Professor X don kill me with laugh ooooooo. Choi! I'm inside public cab laughing anyhow.
DeleteSee your mouth like small wedding!! You seem quite dumb to me, planning pregnancy and small wedding to a married man. Wait, you actually think he'll marry you? Pele o, oniranu.
DeleteAunty 36 years old, I shame for who no shame for you. Its like your senses+ brain have gone on exile.
DeleteLmao @ where that stone.....
Stella which ifeoma? Hope no b d one wey I dey think o0i0o0o0o0o?
ReplyDeleteIfeoma weda u like it or not u owe esther an apology , do it nd move on....weda he fell in or out of love wit her dats not d issue here, why were u available for consolation knowing dat ur friend is still single? My point is ppl break up nd make up so stp acting like u met d guy 5yrs after his break up wit ur friend, nd y'all talking abt nude pics nd runs I ask u dis question, is d ifeoma a saint? Show me ur friend nd I wil tell u whom u are. Ifeoma nd gang pls stop justifying rubbish, Esther God has a better plan for u. #my opinion#
ReplyDeleteU don't know what u got till he's gone..ladies pls go xtra mile to keep ur man#sipsMoetnChandon#
ReplyDeleteIncluding men like you hahahahahahahah
DeleteY even rush into marriage @ 22? Marriage aint a bed of roses like everyone thinks! It is well sha, let God be the judge between esther and ifeoma
ReplyDeleteThis the reason, why i would never have a woman as my bestie. They are envious, jealous, big manipulators, who would destroy one's life in a heart's beat. Nigerian women are worst, they would always be plotting how to steal or sleep with your man. And spill your secrets, so as to step into your life. Green eyed monsters, so disgusting. Can't even find a man of their very own. Very sad and pathetic.
ReplyDeleteAll I have to say is....I love my husband and my Kid. I thank God for blessing me with them everyday.
ReplyDeletePlus I see enemies everywhere....God Loves you all
Shut the fuck up, useless thing. I don't blame you, I blame Esther who should have treated your fuck up. Thank God you didn't try it with someone like me. You won't live to tell the story. You love your husband and your kid indeed. Abeg, who has this lady's address? You really need to be dealt with. In fact, I'm going back to your post and will definitely print your pictures. Girl, watch your bag. Trust me, WATCH YOUR BAG.
DeleteAbeg "the husband you snatched" which enemy,you are the enemy of urself,getting pregnant at d age of 22 without any achievement,when your daughter grows up how would you teach about pre-marital sex when you couldn't even close ur leg after 4months.You disgust me
DeleteU still dey run your mouth abi? Okay na, sorry na ur name.
DeleteDon't worry, shebi na Chidi? Okay o
DeleteShut up bitch!..u fink marriage iz a gateway 2 heaven...time will tell bitch!desperado
DeleteMadam Ifeoma, you better jump off this blog and go face your family. Don't use your mouth to bring avoidable problems to yourself. This is Africa and people do all sorts. Stop fanning the flames. Shut up and face your life.
DeleteWelcome Ifeoma...I have waited so long for you
DeletePls tell us the real jist
You are worse than Konye!
DeleteIf i were Esther, forget love/ex/whatever we shared while dating, i go treat una 2 fuck up eee
DeleteGo and apologise to Esther joor....u re faulty
DeleteMy dear you have no option but to keep loving them. what went down has gone down and there is nothing more anyone can do about it. i hope you take this as a big big lesson and keep quiet about somethings in the future especially if you did some funny moves and anyone i repeat ANYONE can come out and call you to order online. It will surprise you that is not Esther who is replying anything here but a mutual friend or a close friend of hers who feels hurt by what you did to their pal.i know your initial story was done to uplift people who find themselves in difficult situation and God will bless you for that. people will still read that story in time to come and not associate anything more and make the right decision because of your bravery. so for that i will still say kudos. Keep your mouth shut, keep your home in tact, pray for your husband and kid. Reach out to Esther and apologize if you never ever did. do that once and move on swiftly with your life. wetin don happen done happen. May God help us all and not lead us to the friends that will take from us without batting an eyelid.
DeleteIfeoma at this point ....Silence is golden ! Stay away from blogging.
DeleteThis Ifeoma is really shameless .
DeleteUr reply really shows who u are!snatcher!That marriage would not last,let's wait and see!
DeleteAnon 1.05pm why should she "watch Her Bag" are you planning to steal it ROFL.
DeleteDat does not stop d fact dat u are an husband snatcher!
DeleteBest friend ko, worst enemy ni! I don't believe in that crap. My best friend is either Jesus or My Guardian Angel and most often The two of them at same time. Who trust human beings? Whoosai!!!
ReplyDeleteEven though i don't support best friends snatching each others boo, one can't really blame the chic unless she used jazz. When i was still single most guys chasing my sisters or friends once they set eyes on me change their minds i mean chasing not dating o!. I had to stop following friends to visit their prospective boos or boo to be,couldn't tell them why and most of my friends always got offended because i refuse to follow them.Its only my sisters that i used to tell. So most times don't blame the girl blame the guy.
ReplyDeleteFor ur mind u fine..lekwe dis harlot..c'mon smell outta here..idiat!
DeleteLol, don't mind her, oke akwuna like her...
DeleteU better go for deliverance o because u get seduction spirit!dey there dey feel cool with ogbanje spirit wey u dey carry about!
DeleteSomethings beats me!!!!!!!!!why wash dirty linens on the net knowing fully well google doesn't forget.....I hope both babes ifeoma n esther has learnt from dis.....if u must confess,confess to a rev.father who is under oath to keep silent otherwise,take ur secrets to the grave....the world is unpredictable,sisters change,ur mum can betray u ...and ur bff isn't excluded.....does it then mean we don't need them?too much food kills.does it then mean we don't eat food?.....we only choose the good food that will nourish us n nt kill us......shalom
ReplyDeleteChoi, I love Stella die, first class in ameborism.
ReplyDeleteAnyways, lemme continue sipping my fresh juice while comments flow in.
If ifeoma wasn't looking for a way to spite Esther, why did she bring her story nd photos here knowing full well they both read dis blog? Speechless.
ReplyDeleteGood point
DeleteGood quest miss k. I have a feeling it was deliberate. To spite her friends. Boy, revenge's a bitch.
DeleteHmmm Babes get mind sha, is ifeoma new to SDK blog. I remember her testimony post and how she even sent some lovely pictures of her family... knowing that you have issues surrounding your so called marriage, and some of your neighbors and even your hubby's friends commented. Don't you know that it's a small world. Any way what goes around comes around. It is well, Stella pls let's move on because this post will only open more worms for this young girl.
ReplyDeleteMain while I met some lovely ladies yesterday in SugarLand Texas and we discovered we are SDK blog family... Babes I dey hail oh.... Phgurl
Chai, women are their own enemies.
ReplyDeleteIfeoma, and to think I was happy for you. No way, what you did was wrong. Haba. Even if they've broken up, your friend's ex should be a NO. How do you sleep at night sef? And the man sef? This is how some of you get assassinated for nothing. What if Esther is as wicked as you?
I didn't read the Danjuma story and had to go back to read yes or no's comment. You no try at all, honestly. With friends like you, who needs an enemy? You just couldn't help it indeed. Mschewwwww. Don't worry, karma is a bad ass bitch.
I love u...
DeleteForget that I'm sometimes naughty.
Ure jux d best!
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ReplyDeleteLadies, there is a silent chic code regarding bfs nd ex na. Hian! Same way we have some frnds that are never satisfied with who you are dating buh deep down in their devilish minds, na dem dey trip for him pass. God help us
ReplyDeleteDear Esther, place a curse on them and see what will happen to them.
ReplyDeleteAm I the only one who is dying to read the original story?
ReplyDeleteMichael Atasie u r not oh. Wish i cud too! Lmao. #strongcraving#Amebothings#. Like Godmother like followers. @sdk. lolz
DeleteAm I the only one dying to read th original story? Stella pls check the link you posted.
ReplyDeleteAdvise to women. STOP having BFF let your BFF be your man or mother because even sisters can act up. Men will always dump u if they see a better person,physically or emotionally in any of ur friends also no matter how good your BFF is to u she will be tempted to enjoy d stories and good gist u tell about your man. For us men most of us don't have self discipline, instead of crying over BFF snatching ur man, don't take her to ur man's home.
ReplyDeleteChaaaaaai. So,na dis one dey shele here?. Ifeoma,Ifeoma,Ifeoma,how many times I call u?. I have one tin to tell u:HOPE U WATCH UR BACK ooooo.
ReplyDeleteMervis ifeoma Emelife...zikite..mass com...300l...story of your life....buhahaha
ReplyDeleteAs u don give us mini biography,wetting u gain?the girl is married with a beautiful daughter!i officially believe dis yes/no abi no yes is Easter almost committing suicide for an issue that has been sealed!the guy is not the only man on earth!continue your search!he had nothing when they met,she brought in financial breakthrough isnt that really wat men crave?a wive they marry and blessings beggin to pour in?beta shift commot for her,she is now married u are still single and would be for a very long time because uv allowed bitterness soak u!
DeleteAll dz people supporting Ijeoma, may ur men be snatched from u....ndi ara
ReplyDeleteAre you high on some cheap crack? Where you see ijeoma.
Deletemervis did snatched her bf out of spiite...I know you...u did all sorts behind her back wen esta nd chidi were still dating...after they broke up u started dating him...then u got preg...now u opened ur mouth to give story of ur life expecting pple to congratulate u nd give you open arms...*standing ovation for you*...u try! well anything that happened to u na u cos am...I guess u'll saying that esta is posting this...shez not ..I am? face ur hubby nd kaima...slaunte
ReplyDeleteNna na wa oo..@d babes who's dAting her elder sis's frnd's ex(d married man). ure 36 mehn, u shd knw better dat time waits for no1. if ur lady(u deleted from bbm) isnt showing dat she's mad at u anymore, my dear, grab d deal & hv ur own fam. just rmbr dat thrs anoda battle to fight infront(d man's 1st wife) i wiSh u well.& no, ur case is so diff from ifeoma & esther's. dos ones no get pinishi shame.
ReplyDeleteNna na wa oo..@d babes who's dAting her elder sis's frnd's ex(d married man). ure 36 mehn, u shd knw better dat time waits for no1. if ur lady(u deleted from bbm) isnt showing dat she's mad at u anymore, my dear, grab d deal & hv ur own fam. just rmbr dat thrs anoda battle to fight infront(d man's 1st wife) i wiSh u well.& no, ur case is so diff from ifeoma & esther's. dos ones no get pinishi shame.
ReplyDeleteNna na wa oo..@d babes who's dAting her elder sis's frnd's ex(d married man). ure 36 mehn, u shd knw better dat time waits for no1. if ur lady(u deleted from bbm) isnt showing dat she's mad at u anymore, my dear, grab d deal & hv ur own fam. just rmbr dat thrs anoda battle to fight infront(d man's 1st wife) i wiSh u well.& no, ur case is so diff from ifeoma & esther's. dos ones no get pinishi shame.
ReplyDeleteGames girls play, lol. I can remember then in uni, girls snatching each other's boyfriends up and down and whole place, quarellin and fighting and embarrassing themselves. The way I see it, Ifeoma is very cunning. How convenient for her to start dating her friends boyfriend when they quarreled or broke up. She must have been eyeing the guy right from time and that's the real betrayal in this story and then bcos she doesn't want him to be snatched, she ends up preggos 4 months into the relationship. She had her cards right and played them well. Her friend Esther may have even done the same thing to her anyway, so I can't voltron for her.
ReplyDeleteIfeoma just needs to know especially if she was aware of the games she was playing that she may have to keep playing games for the rest of her life to keep the guy. Shebi she is back to school now, and she won't be living with him, hopefully some smarter and more cunning doesn't snatch him from her. It does take more than a baby and getting married to keep a man. Also, I hope he doesn't turn around sometime in the future to insult and tell you how you snatched him from your friend, I see it happening sha. And since I can predict how cunning this Ifeoma girl is, I can bet the purpose of the lengthy message and pics she sent to stella was to rub it in the Esther's face and tell girls to back off. She sure does know how to play games, lol.
I tire ooo, all I keep seeing is ifeoma, esther sotaay I see flavour name buh am yet to get d full gist. Habatically sterra dis is unlike u ke!
ReplyDeleteI tire ooo, all I keep seeing is ifeoma, esther sotaay I see flavour name buh am yet to get d full gist. Habatically sterra dis is unlike u ke!
ReplyDeleteTo me, the guy should be the centre of blame and cusses for having to date and impregnate his ex's frd
ReplyDeletethat's if ifeoma was truly the one that lured him
it's very dumb of him to have accepted and this shows that he lacks sense of discipline
all parties are blameworthy sha but i believe the lion share should be apportioned to the guy
for those who are hiding their husbies from bffs... hummmmm
have you forgotten there are millions of women out there that they meet everyday at work, church, events etc
no amount of hiding can stop a man from being snatched if he wants
it's very rational for every woman to protect her husband, but is the man protecting himself
Na the man i blame jare
ifeoma, u re a bad friend...u tink ur hubby luvs u ba, dnt wori very soon he wil wash u wit al dis.he go remind u one day.if u say Esther na runz girl den u re nt free, una b d same.
ReplyDeleteA story where both can not give correct fact is called a fallacy. Be it Yes/No i don't buy it.
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Ifeoma, stop talking awredy!
ReplyDeleteN real wah for u oo!