Hello Stella,
Am sending this email to sensitize as well as see if other women are experiencing this.
My friend has been receiving mysterious calls almost every day for the past 6 years. The call comes through, when she picks up, she hears a man moaning and making sexual sounds.....
he also sends her highly perverse texts. Anytime she blocks the number, another number starts calling. She has reported to the network but there hasnt been any help.
This is big because it can ruin a relationship and its quite traumatic and bothersome. Her phone line is a business line so changing her number seems quite impossible. When she put the numbers on tru caller, she saw that some other people had the numbers saved as 'who' indicating that some other people are experiencing same. The phone numbers she's been receiving calls from are 07064649209,08135092997,080697 63216.
*WTF? FOR REAL?
I will take a seat and wait for other comments as this one pass me.
ReplyDeleteYes, an ex used to do that rubbish with me. He uses my voice to wank, lol. But really, one day, I summoned the courage to call him out. I didn't know it was him at first o, cos i kept blocking the line and having others call him. Sha, long and short of the story, I called him with his line and told him that i have reported him to the cops (where i see cops report to?), i told him that i know its him and that i will go and report him to his parents and mine. He apologized, said he was doing it because i don't pick his calls (lmao). He stopped and i have been checking on him every once in a while, guess he just misses me (my guess tho)
DeleteLet's call the numbers (07064649209,08135092997,08069763216.) and give the wanker a taste of his own medicine
DeleteHow can u block a number'ooo bikonu, very important my stalkers r 2 much.
DeleteAren't u lucky u are no longer with such a creep
DeleteI had similar experience on whatsApp. I checked out d guys face, told him politely that I don't know him- that he should stop bothering me. He kept on, then I blocked. Then he used another number with a females face- I knew it was him. Then he used yet another number with yet another female's face. I have them all saved up. Now I notice he interchanges the faces for the 3 numbers. I'm tempted to unblock him and see if he'd pester me again. OR, if I as much as have him pester me through another number, I will paste all the photos he uses on facebook so people can identify. The girls could be innocent but at least they'll know they have an impersonator. From the pics, I guess the girls are based in calabar.
DeleteGod bless you guys for this post! A certain emeka used to call my line o. I have saved the three numbers. He called with a landline nos I checked with Tru caller and found out it was sterling bank. 08065935854,09091455886,012774660,08090950281
Delete6 years!
ReplyDeleteHow traumatic. IT experts can trace and nail the pervert.
Lol...
DeleteCould b an angry unforgiving ex that is bent on causing chaos.
She's even lucky the number isn't hidden,at least that's a way forward if she wants to trace it.
Hahhahahaaa...How stupid can I be. Damnit!!! Okay I Just Dialled the numbers now with my number on withheld and what did I see on "Truecaller" :
Delete1) Who
2) Akasie
3) No match found.
Lmao!! Am indeed bored! #Home on my mind!!!!!!!!
Anyway, I think is not something serious. The guy/gul doing this must be a horny jobless "bitch". Just be careful tho.
Abeg wetin be truecaller ? How does it work? No cuss me o,I don't know so pls explain. Thanks
DeleteI had that experience some years ago. I was so anoying. The call will keep calling my name while moaning.... I will ask who the person is but the only respond I get is serious moan.. Hmm it got so serious and mine was that he calls with a private number all the time. And the call mostly comes at night. The last time I heard from the caller was when I lashed him with insults and curse.
ReplyDeleteCheck again, it could be an ex
DeleteOr send down Holy Ghost fire to that throat.
DeleteIt's usually an ex. My ex used to call with private number @ 2am, 3am!!! And would mumble and make some stupid noise! So pissing. Thank God for true caller that exposed him. Rubbish, I mean wtf 2am! Blood wanker, still useless @ 30years!
DeleteI experienced this as far back as 2006 while serving . It was so bad that the guy calls up to 6 times a day, it was someone that knew me because he kept describing my physical features while moaning. I started threatening him that my uncle was a soldier and we will fish him out , he didn't stop. It was when u started crying and threatening to report him to God that he stopped. Sick people everywhere I tell you
ReplyDeleteLOL @ started crying
DeleteI *
DeleteDis na serious issue o....Means we have a demented pervert on d loose....
ReplyDeleteYaron Allah
Has never happened to me,wuld so curse dt prsn eh,ma isults oh,ma bible curses oh,wil so heap t on d fool. Eve E Ume
DeletePhone stalker! Very annoying and difficult to get rid of.
ReplyDeleteOtherwise, that number has to be traced and barred by the telecommunication network.
The only option I may suggest since the network provider hasn't been able to trace n bar the line, (incompetence mtchew) is to stop picking any number that isn't saved....and deleting the text messages as soon as they come in. Tell your spouse about it as well.
Let's hope the stalker will get tired and go away.....
Its for real oh,mine was international numbers texting,if I blocked d line the person will start using another line it got worst dat I had to let my husband know so as not to stumbled on it one day nd caused prblm for us,later on mtn blocked d line nd I haven't stress my self to find out why.
ReplyDeleteMaybe the stalker was ur English teacher from pre school. Perhaps he was calling to remind u that u forgot to write your English tests. *sighs*
DeleteA lot of perverts in Naija. Wetin person no go hear for this world. This one tire me.
ReplyDeleteIts not only in nijah o...there's an international number that keeps sending my hubby text mssges
DeleteThe number never calls and when I try calling with my fone they say it doznt exist
He has blocked it before but another number started calling him
My boyfriend experienced this for a while last year, but from international numbers. The call comes through and immediately moans and groans are heard and this goes on till the line cuts. This lasted for a while and he hasn't complained since. I remember asking if put up the number on any social site, maybe your friend did or someone she knows is playing a silly game and won't grow up
ReplyDeleteBusiness line or not, she should change her line n stop making a mountain out of a molehill....
ReplyDeleteI wonder ooh! Holding on to a number like its a direct line to heaven. Keep on with the trauma then.
DeleteSave yourself the torture! Inform ur clients u have changed ur number. 6 years is a long time damn! In that period, I have gotten my first degree and done nysc!
DeleteGod have mercy...just pray. g
ReplyDeleteMy mother has been getting the same calls. When you pick up the phone u hear sounds of sex. We tried blocking the number but it didnot work
ReplyDeleteUr mother? Jeez dats jst sick
DeletePpl nor well shall
This is serious oh. The funny part is mtn can't gv details of d person doing that, a frd of mine was receiving treat msg n calls he went to mtn office wrote a formal letter to that effect. But till date dey cudnt tell him who d person is n d location dts so bad. Niga is not safe at all
ReplyDeleteStella it happens. There is one number that calls me like that too. This started when I got my first phone from my mum in 2005 after I left secondary school. Mine is that the person won't even talk. No matter how many times I say hello, the person won't say anything. Sometimes I will pick the call and not say a thing too just to waste his airtime and piss him off too but the person kept calling back. I blocked the number and he changed to another number. I had to change my number because of this person sometime in 2007 but the person somehow still got my new number after some months and kept calling. It was only once that the person, a guy, spoke to me and said I should give the phone to my husband Joseph, that he wants to talk to my husband.
ReplyDeleteHa! As at then, I have not even married or met my husband, and till date I don't know any Joseph. I told him he is calling the wrong person that I wasn't married then and that I don't know any Joseph. He still kept calling me.
I have learned not to pick his calls no matter how many times he calls and it seems to be working cos the person now calls like once ot twice a week, sometimes he won't even call for like 2 weeks to 1 month at a stretch.
When I initially stopped picking his calls some years back, he got mad and I would get like 40 missed calls from him in one day,LOL. It's so bad that evry1 around me knows about this my mystery caller and they sometimes ask me if he still calls. My friends, ex coursemates and relatives have tried calling him to know what his problem is but he won't say any reasonable thing to them.
I have stopped bothering myself about that lunatic since. Anytime he remembers to call these days,I ignore his calls as usual and just laugh it off.
The poster should stop picking his calls. Just ignore his calls no matter how many times he calls. The person, who ever he is will get tired and stop calling you with time. It's working for me.
Next time, just answer and press the mute button-so he/she cant hear your conversation.
DeleteThere's no need for you to get worked up over this, he will get tired eventually and drop, and you just repeat the exercise. Simple.
Do people really still experience such? Tell your friend to buy the New Samsung Gallaxy joor. Then download the app.. Yes even if the person's calls with hidden number, it will tell you the person's name and location simply.... That's technology for you. Cheers.....
ReplyDeleteName of app???
DeletePC, whats d name of the app pls
DeletePls wts d name of d app
DeletePrincess charming what app pls?
Deleteprince charming please whats the app on samsung galaxy pls help a sister
DeleteAbeg help a sister out. What app is it?
DeletePlease wat its the name of the application.i av samsung galaxy 3.
DeleteThe app is true caller
DeleteShe sees it as traumatic because she gives it a thought. Continue blocking the calls and texts. I had a chap who use to profess undying love for me. I blocked his calls and texts. We don't have an outlet to talk about our needs and grievances. So people just call random numbers to act out their fantasies. I worked in telecoms and I felt for call centre colleagues. In Unilag, there was a guy who'd mask his face and masturbate to the women in Tinubu hall. There are crazy people in this country. A lot of them do not realise they have a psychological disorder. Yelling adds to his excitement. That's the reason you keep getting the calls. You react by yelling or calling him names. Stop reacting. Hang up or leave the phone in front of something noisy like a gen or fan. But continue blocking the calls and texts. He'll stop calling. Don't let such inconsequential things worry you. There are crazy people around.
ReplyDeleteYou can always get your clients back, please dump the line, because your network provider would not help you trace who is making the calls, and six years is too long to keep up with such!
ReplyDeleteExperiecing same too. But dis call comes in with a hidden number "Unknown Number". I neva hear the phone ring, my phone suddenly comes off as "hanging" and when it frees up, I seee a missed call notification from the unknown number. This happens repeatedly throughout the day and has bn going on for a while. Confused
ReplyDeleteYour line is bugged.
DeleteAm still having the same xperience....the caller calls me with a private no once its 2am.......I use to put my phone on silent whenver am sleeping and waking up with 50 missed calls from the caller....I have stoped answerin the motherfucker and I now switch off my phone b4 bedtime
ReplyDeletedat one na witch ooo....2am ke???
DeleteLinda eze must have her own experience about every issue.
DeleteOluyomi odukoya? Didn't you have the same experience as well?
Its real ooooo. Yes it is. We have very severe crazy peeps in dis country. It happened to me in 2009 after I just got married. And d idiot calls only at night. Thank God my hubby was hardly at home at night cos of d nature if his work. Insults didn't work for d animal ooo. My dear I even thot of thrashing my line, but it was far more valuable dan d fool. I started ignoring d person instead if saying hello hello hello hello. Il just ihnore and leave d person tomisbehave. He obviously noticed i wasnt bothered anymore(even though I was) AND TO GOD B D GLORY, D ANIMAL OR BEAST OR WHOEVA STOPPED!
ReplyDeleteThis has happened to me,but the person hid his no,kept calling and moaning always and then I didn't have a phone so it was my mum's fone I gave out to my friends,i was so scared,what if my mum picked the call,i mad it a point of duty to always be with my mum's phone it was very serious!!! Thank God she allowed me be with her phone 24hours and she never mistakenly picked the calls cos I would have been dead by now *phew* stupid guys!
ReplyDeleteIt has also happened to me,infact i had to save those numbers with EVIL so that when the person starts calling i wouldn't bother picking. At point i was scared because those calls kept coming at night, thank God the person has stopped calling now.
ReplyDeleteat a point******
ReplyDeleteBella Ragazz: dis has also happened to me, when I pick the call all I hear is moaning and sex sounds, its so annoying, buh now I choose not to bother myself about it.
ReplyDeleteSomething similar happened, mine wasn't sexual tho. Just a stranger constantly calling and it bugged me. I went on my knees and reported the caller to my Lord Jesus as I felt stalked and didn't know what else to do. The next thing I know, he calls and apologise, begging me to stop it and promising never to do it again. Haven't had any such experience ever since. When God fights, He fights to the finish and give utter victory. Good thing is He's interested in our wholesome living....everything about us interests him.
ReplyDeleteDownload whozcalling... It's an app that indicates the caller. It displays the caller's name and where the person is calling from. It's on andriod play store and also available for blackberry users though not on there app world but u can get it from google or try this link... Ota.whozcalling.com not sure that's the right link but check.
ReplyDeleteTo all the married ladies, it could be the handiwork of your jealous bff's or the ex you left heart broken.
ReplyDeleteICY
it has happened to me severally but theres this 1 i can never 4get.i used to be really naive.maybe it was because i went to all girls secondary school.i got my first bf in 100l.. there was a chic that was always calling with a private number.always giving me info about my bf and his ex.even details on their meeting during the holidays.i asked why she was doing that and she said it was because she likes me.after a year i found out it was the handiwork of the ex girlfriend.i fell into the trap.i found out when it was already too late.
ReplyDelete6yrs! Huh!
ReplyDeleteStupid network so dey can't rectify d nonsense, if its to deduct consumer's credit unduly dey go carry 1st.
The person is close to her, it could also be her ex.
ReplyDeletena wa
ReplyDeleteWetin person no go hear for @sdk blog sef
I cover myself wt d blood of Jesus
@Galore
Hmmmmm lots of ppl have bottled up emotion n anger n d only way they can ease it off a bit is to make one's life miserable thru fone calls n txt messages or even flashing. Dear poster mayb u wud have to divert calls like dat t anoda numb probably a numb u used t use befor or u can just com up wt a numb u knw isn't functional.
ReplyDeletethis s very serious..I work wit a telecom..Infos are usually not given out excpt if there s a police report and a formal letter attached to it.. poster, should either block strange numbers, or change number,but when its a stalker that knows u,means dat he could get ur number again, eeya..
ReplyDeleteI thought it was only happening to me. Last year a useless number was calling me saying all sort of rubbish,how he has seen my nakedness n describing how my body looked like, dt he cnt rest unless he v sex with me. The disturbance was so much that I reported it to the police but notn came out of it. I later stopd picking his calls especially wen I see a strange line.
ReplyDeleteJust send curses from psalm 109 and psalim 35 to the person,I don't even have that kind of patience.a guy tried it wiv me,it was 3days of hell,morning afternoon night,this guy didn't give me breathing space.after 3days I knew I had had enuff,I rained curses on him sotey the guy had to cut the call,then I started bombarding him wiv text msgs,I'll wake up around 5am to send curses to him,my mum and sister were doing the same thing after I told them,first thing in the morning,last thing @ night.we were consistent o,first thing mnday morning Epe,monday night Epe,smtymes I'll even send him extra dose of Epe in the afternoon,we made sure he started and ended his day wiv curses.after that,he didn't last a week.mtscheeeew.
ReplyDeletehahahahahahaha. Girl yi ni action!!! you are not a learner. The harasser became the harassed.
DeleteHahahahaahaha
DeleteI wasn't going to post a comment...but @Godchic, your response got a 5star from me. I can't stop laughing here.
DeleteThis cracked me up! When the oppressor becomes the oppressed... hehehehehe
DeleteMy roommate was getting one of those back then in sch,wen she stopped pickin n person started textin n they were threat texts we eventually caught her due to her stupidity n turns out it was her bf's ex who didn't want to let go..... ppl do cray cray tins meeehn
ReplyDeleteThis is stalking, hope it don't turn physical sha
ReplyDeleteIt also happened to me. The called hids his number each time he wants to call. He will call when I pick he won't talk. So what I did was whenever he calls and I pick I start raining curses on him it now reduced
ReplyDeleteHappend to me too oh!
ReplyDeleteJeez it happened 2 me once n it was a private num. Vry terrible. N d voice ws dt of a young guy. I was appalled. D person huz fone hangs n den sees private num, dt happens it is som1 on ur fone callin bt d fone wld say private num bcos it ws hookin. If ur fone hooks, try callin ur line wit a line u knw n it wld stil show private num. AS 4 d monsters dt do doz rubbish, God dey
ReplyDeletestella this is called nuisance calls. its not an individual making these calls. its machines normally in europe. they check the number ranges in nigeria and other african countries and the machines randomly select numbers to call. they also roam on nigerian numbers. this is why you cant block the lines. they flood the gateway with these calls. you can contact NCC to lodge a complaint so they can address it from the gateway
ReplyDeleteThere are those machines but I think in the case of Nigeria, its mostly individuals calling girls they have a crush on.
DeleteCrazy peeps indeed. One used to call me every midnight & moan as well but unfortunately for him, he forgot to hide his number once. U won't believe who it was- my friend's husband. I screamed his name, he hung up & never called back. Haven't seen him since then & didn't bother telling the poor wife.
ReplyDeleteLmaoooooo, you should jokingly tell the man in front of his wife that you got his call last night o. Make he no go tel ur frirnd say na u dey chase am
DeleteDis one is serious ooo, it was during d time I was planing for my white wedding, dat I started receiving dis strange call, I told everybody in my hus, my cousins started calling d number, it got to a stage d person snet me a text, dat she will deal with me, dat she will expose me on my wedding, d told the person to pls come and expose me, even my hubby called d person and d person have nothing to say, finally my uncle dat is a pastor collected the no [may his soul rest in peace] and will call d no and start firing prayer, nobody told d no to stop calling me. The no will stop calling
ReplyDeleteThat's right! Lol! May uncle rest in f bosom of d lord
DeleteLmao, your Uncle is gangsta...may God rest his soul.
DeleteI've had such experience. the person calls at night. i always suspected my neighbor. what i did then was once the call comes in and fortunately i'm always watching a movie when he calls, i put the phone right in front of the speaker. I don't even bother with saying hello. I gladly press the green button and place it strategically there. at the end, i'll say i had the last laugh cos only God knows how the perv felt when the sound from the tv blasts his ear. for me it was hilarious. it's not someone that told him to quit calling.
ReplyDeleteDear, you worry too much. it's prolly someone you know and the person is obsessed with you. you can do what i did. it works!
Stella ooh(*in Obj's voice).i finally got a google account..yeepeee.am a newbie here guys..actually started commenting arnd Dec..bt under anon.oh well,hv bin getting sm text mgs frm a foreign num asking me if il luv to see dem naked or if il luv to go out for dinner,i jst felt twas jst a mistake..i get em like once a week,n delete immediately.wow!i shud call my husband's attention to it n prolly handle it better!
ReplyDeleteMine is an unknown number always calling...everyday....its so annoying...
ReplyDeleteMine called me for like 2 years. Wen I pick he makes moaning sounds, when I drop, he would send a text telling to moan back wen he calls again that he wants to cum. Like he can give me 50 missed calls if I don't pick. I tried finding out who it was but failed, my boyfriend was soo upset bout it. I travelled for 3 months nd he hasn't called me since den. Guess he tot I had changed my line. Oh well glad it stopped cause it was sooo annoying nd frustrating...
ReplyDeleteThe second number- Akasie.........u might know the person. As for me,when i experienced such, all i did was just pick the call and put the fone by the television and i make sure its on a very annoying channel. The guy got tired after months.
ReplyDeleteOyibo
Copy ur important contacts, change ur line n give them ur new line. Save urself d headache.
ReplyDeletewe had this weird experience....i and my big sis. and coincidentally, it happened to both of us at the same time.a particular number calls her everyday(the silly caller just breathes heavily) while another calls me everyday without saying a word. wasting the credit by answering the call and not talking didnt work.SO we distributed the phone numbers amngst us( i come from a big family(8) plus tons of cousins staying with us, all teenagers...to flash the numbers at their own convenience. omo see gobe, it was like a fun game. we were all mostly in secondary schools then with die-hard Nokia battery phones and social media wasnt in vogue then.we flashed with hidden numbers in the morning,noon, night, midnight, early morning.and we wont cut till you pick ooo.finally they stopped calling us(i guess they now had a problem of their own to solve) and eventually changed their numbers as we didnt stop calling!
ReplyDeletemy advice....treat a weird situation in a wierder way.they think they are sick???you can think up more sicker games
1 particular no wud call my mtn during free call hour, d person won't say anything, I wud cut d call, but d person wud always call back and this happend 4 wks until 1 day after cutting d call, I quickly diverted calls from my mtn to airtel line. When d person called & realised his credit was going, he cut d call himself & dt was d end.
ReplyDelete1 particular no wud call my mtn during free call hour, d person won't say anything, I wud cut d call, but d person wud always call back and this happend 4 wks until 1 day after cutting d call, I quickly diverted calls from my mtn to airtel line. When d person called & realised his credit was going, he cut d call himself & dt was d end.
ReplyDelete1 particular no wud call my mtn during free call hour, d person won't say anything, I wud cut d call, but d person wud always call back and this happend 4 wks until 1 day after cutting d call, I quickly diverted calls from my mtn to airtel line. When d person called & realised his credit was going, he cut d call himself & dt was d end.( D no calling wasn't available during day time)
ReplyDeleteSo how hard is it to change your telephone number, or switch carriers all together? You can even get a free# change here in the west in cases of stalking. She must love listen to the moaning and groaning why she stick it out for 6 years..mtcheww
ReplyDeletethose are calls from jail
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