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Wednesday, January 01, 2014

Girls Problem -Would You Rather Date For Money,Beauty Or Personality?




Would you rather date for money, beauty or personality? Find out what 
Ruby is up to next... 

Has this ever happened to you?you set your priorities high and then you meet the man of your dreams..rich,handsome and suave BUT HE TURNS OUT TO BE THE CLEANER IN A FACTORY SOMEWHERE....LMAO!



...He lied because he knew how to get you,because it was the only way to have you love him.
Any victims here?














100 comments:

  1. Personality.. Before now I would hhave said looks, with thhe right personality money will surely come.
    He lied to get me which was totally unnecessary,and in the bid to cover thhhe lies more lies came up, one tin about lying is u keep digging a pit to fill another.

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    1. Abeg stella,,,my ibo daughters must marry a man with d three o!!! We must find him!!!

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    2. Hv dated 4personality luv bla bla in d past ended up with money money money all d way so cool.I stick to money

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    3. Personality oo.

      It goes a long way.

      Money must surely come.

      I've never been a victim of such lies sha.

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    4. I would have also said looks and money, but I guess maturity has kicked in, with the right personality, he begins 2 look good and also make his money! Its all abt personality! www.dazzfairy.blogspot.com

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    5. Personality. Last year, I saw Mr. Money but I ran away. Dating a monster with money who was always looking for a reason to beat me up. Said stuff like: 'won't u do something that will make me beat u today?' He was a very angry man.

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    6. Hmmm true,there are many monsters with money dat I can't advise even my enemy to marry!
      A biz partner of my hubby,has been asking me to link up my lil sis to him for marriage,but can't even imagine that,shes only gonna suffer and take every bullcrap he serves her cos that's d kind of person he is!angry,rude,arrogant,promiscious, petty,....imagine all this in one man with Money!ah!its not worth it abeg
      A man with a good personality is best for me o!

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  2. I'm such a lucky girl.
    Never have I bn tricked or lied to cos I'm super-smart!
    Any girl who wants to emulate me shld mail in ASAP.
    Av got the keys!

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    1. Irritant!self righteous goat.kobokobo

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    2. Wow,smart chick

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    3. Funny enough me too
      And I av met the man of my dreams
      So no need

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    4. I av a feeling this babe is a pimp! Always wanting to attach.my instincts don't fail

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  3. Money!Money!!Money!!!....Money is the only word I understand....

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    1. Yes we know.thats y u ended up wth a smelly mouthed man!

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    2. Yesoooo anonymous......and why is it paining you???stop taking panadol for my headache you hear......oya go and die!

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  4. Sorry this doesn't relate to this post but my husband's best friend is proposing to his chic today who happens to be my friend and brides maid. I am most excited cuz I have always hooked her up with guys but never seem to work out nd after my wedding I hooked her up with this guy nd a year after an engagement. I hope they will allow me give a speech on d D.day ...... She is such a sweet girl nd I love her. So excited, I am already planning a surprise party for her later in the week. Lagbara Olorun all single girls out there ready to settle down receive your gift from God in the form of a GOOD HUSBAND. Love you all blog visitors and I love my friend and i can't wait for weddings and baby dedications this year. Please help us beg rain to stop o make we go out would have even preferred snow sef like last year. Love u aunt Stella xxx

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    1. Abeg I prefer this rain o.lastyr I was always frustrated to tears to of the snow
      Sassy

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  5. Show me the money! Hehehe...

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  6. SDK I troway salute ooo nd tanx to baba God for making us see d first day of January ooo.wish all SDKERS a promising year

    Bck to da Marra.as for me personality,looks nd then money in dat order
    But guys finding nd keeping true love is all about been honest frm d start but cos of d world we live in lies is now been sort after,everything people say both male female young nd old is painted wth lies
    Guys it's a new year let change nd put a stop to it so da world wil be a better place for everyone

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    1. And you decided to gbaaaa all through. *being, not been*, *sought, not sort*. People that can't really spell, I can't deal

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  7. Money!!! Even d bible says money answereth all things. Na personality or beauty go send my children go better school or have a good life? Money first before anything goes down.

    CeeCee

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  8. PERSONALITY.... theres a big difference between JOY and HAPPINESSS!!! Severally have had cause to tell God to please take away all the money and give me PEACE OF MIND. Joy is so priceless even money cant buy it. though money may bring happiness but not joy. (To the single ladies out there please and please dont let money be the only basis for chosing a life patner....)

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  9. Beauty is not a priority even though he should be OK..like facially presentable.
    Personality: Yes of course! He musnt be a high profiled personlaity but such that amongst his peers he is well respected!
    Money: errrrrmmm who no like better thing? Even when the love is much, the love will soon turn bitter in the absence of maintenance money...!
    I think a balance should be struck amongst the three qualities. BUT I will go for Personality first..because Goodname is better than money.

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  10. Cleaner ooo. As long as he has the money I fell for. Then all is well. If he no get the money, I will be blunt, 'I liked you Cos I thot you had money, but since you don't, I'm out'


    This is based on the scenerio that I'm in it for the money oo

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  11. Well for me, Attraction(looks) first catches me and personality keeps me....nd dnt be stingy too..I think a little of dem all will do for me...let there be a balance cos me too i'm well balanced..winks*

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  12. Personality,then money.

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  13. Can't date for money cos money can disappear at any time, can't date for beauty cos he might be invloved in an accident dat wud take his handsomeness away. I'd rather date for his person. What makes him who he is.

    Lemme gist you guys, I had a frnd back den in uni. She got married to her hubby cos she liked his clean look and his black shinning jeep amongst oda good qualities. Fastforward 1yr after marriage, dude drops her off @work n got involved in an accident. Jeep is gone, man uses wheel chair. She wants to quit. Never date for ephimeral things.

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  14. Personality!!!! Personality!!!! Personality!!!!

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  15. For girls theoretically it is personality, but in reality is Money, much money and too much money.

    For me nothing is as attractive as a girl with good manners, humble and respectful. You don't necessarily need to befriend a girl to observe these trait s, it can be perceived from afar.

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  16. Money? NO!! Beauty?No!! Personality? YES!!! I can hustle enough on my own to make more money than I need to spend, I want a man who can give me what I don't have or what I can't buy

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  17. No mata ow handsum n rich a guy is having a terrible personality is gonna mk him a disaster.A good personality goes a long way;strting frm d way he interacts,handle matters,communicate,treat pple e.t.c.wld follow anyman wit a great personality anyday anytime coz money fit finish oh or person fit use hot water spoil his handsum face,lol.A great personality wrks d magic mehn.

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  18. I trust most Nija babes to chose Money over others bcos of their poverty mentality and "Amaka begi begi" nature.. Lol

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  19. personality for sure. Happiness is the most important thing in life. A man with a good personality will definetly make you happy. Being Poor today doesn't mean being poor forever and looks cant be permanent.

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    1. Nna mehn.....no romance without finance, personality wont pay the f...king bills. I want a little of the 3

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  21. Personalityyy, an asshole is always an asshole, no amount of money can change that!
    That's what pple dnt understand, u jst tink d money will take all away, bt no it wudnt, it shows more sef!
    Every1 gotta ne careful.

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    1. Totally agree with you...
      Personality comes first.

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  22. Money. And please nobody should reply me. Thanks and Happy New Year.

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  23. Personality al d way.moni s important too buh so nt dt important,as long as he s comfy n provides d necessary,he s gud to go

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  24. Love these Ruby tales. Please more Ruby videos in 2014. Stella please tell them to do it everyweek like Toke's vlogs.

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  25. If you no get money, i no like this your touching body.
    Any way sha the maiin thing is you must have money to take care of two.. looks , personality will will come later later.

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  26. A scene.
    Boy sees two girls...a fine lightskinned and a normal darkskinned girl, boi is moved by the beauty of the lightskinned and enlists d help of d dark skinned to get the girl, sooner or later, the guy realises the light skinned is jst a dumb girl with no manners and that d dark skinned is evrythin he culd ever wish for in a lady, he den turns around and starts toastin d dark skinned and she tels him to fuck off, becuz hez a prowler......
    What am I sayin?
    Men wud always be men, its what dey see, that dey like, dey won't evencare to know u well, its beauty befor brains.

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  27. Personality.... With a good personality money wl definitely come. Fuck looks, won't last forever after all.

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  28. Personality.... With a good personality money wl definitely come. Fuck looks, won't last forever after all.

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  29. Personality for me . Although he has to be presentable & financially comfortable..with good planning &God's favour + blessings we shall gt all d money somday..i had a frnd who lied about hiz job nt knwing he ws a driver in d coy. I ws considering his proposal until I found out! Although I wouldn't have minded cos I lovd him & he lukd really nice, tushd & intelligent but for the lies..naah i jes cudnt see masef coping wit dat cos I ws so sure more lies wud emerge..i dunno y some guys do dat anyway.*confused*

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    1. Liar!u dropped him like he was hot d mo u knew he was a driver.talk true

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  30. I will like to date for 3 of the mentioned! Money, beauty and personality makes love worthwhile!!! That's just the truth

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  31. i met a guy nd he told me dat he was into phone business...d first day we met he asked me for money to buy food to eat...i got angry nd left....he kept apologisin..sm days lata he invytd me...i went..wen i was abt to leave i went to d toilet to pee nd wen i came out i noticed my bag was tampered wit..i checked my bag nd noticed dat he stole 300naira frm my purse...den i knew dat was d end

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    1. Why would you go back when he invited you again?Thank God you were not ganged raped and robbed; learn from this, it could have been worse.

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    2. Cheapskates! U attract ur kind!

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    3. Hope say una no do anything?.... This one you said he invited you and you went. Because it seems he only wanted food money(and he got it), make e no be say you carry another thing join give am.

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  32. Hmmmm.
    Dis is a big one here, will choose his personality but d thing is all comes hand in hand. Wen a guy is broke even with his personality u get tired, money is also very importnt, no matter how good he is there are things u will expect from him and wen he isn't capable den problems might start arising.
    About d beauty don't care much about dat so far he is presentable. Personality and money is yes for me, not too much money tho' but he should be able to take care of me.

    (Quote)
    Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time. Thomas A. Edison

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  33. For me; personalityis paramount. A man shud b beautiful inside out. He shud exhude a gentle, respectful n sweet loving character...

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  34. I can't stand a man who probably has killer looks n a fat bank account but is stingy, aggressive,wicked, violent etc. For me; personality is paramount. A man shud b beautiful inside out. He shud exhude a gentle, respectful n sweet loving character...i

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  35. Personality and looks are what I look out for!!!! Happy new year Stella and SDKERS

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  36. stella i dated for personality ,later found out all was a lie ,personality sometimes can be deceptive,yet i still date for personality

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  37. Girls probs..they don't wana talk ni?

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  38. Lmao, chai I go wan die.. Dnt wanna even imagine myself in dat situation

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  39. Are u sure u are not one stella? Cos. I suspect it thru ur looks

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  40. I'm not a victim o
    But personality does it for me....beauty won't put food on the table...of course the money will come...we will both.contribute

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  41. phummy toh splufik1 January 2014 at 17:29

    Personality, in it we av all dt is nided. It has nvr happuned 2 me b4 bt I see no reason y a guy shld lie to me bcos u knw I mite nt lyk to hear d real truth abt u. Wat if is d truth dt wil mk me love u wit my whole hrt nko?

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  42. Stella abeg give us your gist. I heard there was hot gist about u from commenters on Laila's blog , but she has deleted them and is deleting any new one. U know say we like gist , so if na lie come out and clarify things. I love u stella but u people that carry gist about people should not have a problem with people carrying gist about u. I wan flog Laila for deleting all d hot gist. Love u SDK

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  43. Intelligent, High Emotional Intelligence, High Sense of Hygiene, very Grounded in the Word, High sense of Discernment! No Mouth and Body Odours!!Not fatter than Chubby!!! Speaks and write good English and finally. . . Blunt!


    These aren'u too much to ask for in a girl. . . ábí na lie ni? :D

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    1. Oyah, u dey bei! Did u read the attributes of d post? Goat

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  44. Intelligent, High Emotional Intelligence, High Sense of Hygiene, very Grounded in the Word, High sense of Discernment! No Mouth and Body Odours!!Not fatter than Chubby!!! Speaks and write good English and finally. . . Blunt!


    These aren'u too much to ask for in a girl. . . ábí na lie ni? :D

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  45. ONLY a fool with the complex syndrome would lie to a girl to win her heart!

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  46. My piece of advice to you guyz is that they should never try and impress a girl to make them fall in Love with you! . . just like the saying. . . If you like/love your bird; set the bird free from the cage . . . It'd come back to you if the bird loves you or if they are not wanted elsewhere!!!


    The bottomline is that, what is yours will always find its way back to you! You don't have to struggle for it, or lie to get it!


    Happy New Year amigos!

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  47. Abeg money jo forget d rest nd nice video stella

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  48. Dear OluwaStella, Happy New Year oo. Thank God we made it. *clears throat* I dey vex gaan. Infact, my eyes fit spark plug as I dey so. Nepa siezed like for my area for over 3days naa. I thought that wud end with 2013. Now its the first day of a new year, I just dey like dele, dey look like Lookman. No light. To worsen, d case, generator don breakdown. My fone don dey blink. Abeg, if U knw their Oga, help us beg am say make dem stop the rough play as MannaBee dey Igando and no light. Tnx.

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  49. Personality trumps looks and money for me. Never been a victim of such lies, thankfully.
    Happy new year Stella and SDK readers. It's a great community here and I hope to participate more this new year.

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  50. Before, I'll av said money or even looks but now? Personality has me ooo. Every other thing comes next. A guy that will be honest, respectful and caring. I had an argument about it about 2 years ago with my mum when I was saying money was everything and how you can even change the guys personality, lol, biggest mistake! I was so wrong that I should even apologize to my mum for my stupidity. I am even from a well to do family and very comfortable but I have always had ojukokoro for extras like the Chanel purses et al. After the guy started the emotional and verbal abuse, I was so miserable ehn, that purses, bank acct, shoes and holidays dint mean anything again o. I found out how to futile it is to have so much but be very unhappy. Now, I value peace of mind, respect, honesty, compassion and my sanity over money now. Not saying I don't want the good things of life buy personality comes first for me now. Of course it's not like the guy should have nothing o, but I'll put your personality over what you have and who you are now. Many people may disagree with me but an experience will convince you.

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  51. First off...you lied about something so important dawg. Thats just messed up. But but we can work through it...after like NEVER!!!!

    Abeg abeg...after the first word "Money", all na extra. ya feel me?

    Its the battle for the richest! Survival of the hottest and fittest babes. I. lol. Sufferhead is not my portion this 2014. Ive got my bum shorts on, my fighting gloves ready and my Malaysian weave laid! I just care to Land me my "bill Gates". Preferably unmarried! Not that i wouldnt be no 2 To the taken one. Oh comeon its "Bill Gates"...theres enough "love" to go around. *wink wink
    Who is judging me? Im shallow? Good good. Dont care. Your probably the broke shitters. I aint gat time for y'all broke azz and myopic thinking. Talmbout personality matters. It aint gonna buy me real Gold and diamonds and g wagons boo boo. lol. Now eject reject and flee away you broke judgmental piece of shits that are about to locate me. I only got my road cleared for my money rainer. My money sharer this 2014. Let me get an Amen in the house. *Wipes sweat** Amen!

    Lmbo!

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    1. Leona heart,, funny enuff its Pple like u dat will finally end up with d broke ass nigga. And by then, u'll even be grateful u have him

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    2. The good thing about ur comment Leona is that it identifies u with ur IQ! Ur coment is regular, so I'll rate u the regular normal kinda girl with craves for normal things!

      I may not have plenty money, but am cute nd I've got a fine personality! I'm in progress, I will be a success soon!
      And I have a litle to throw around to girls like Leona, buy 'em some fendi bags, lie to dem about love nd wen am done deir bums, I ball.
      Dunno bout other guys, but hell, I dnt want a girl like her in my home. I want me some Wide-Eyed! Brains!

      Our girls in dis part of d world really need brain surgeries. Now dey all want to be light-skinned to sell out more. They want rich guys cuz dey obviously dnt have dreams. They think money, cuz they only want to spend and sit @hme watching tv, posting selfies on fb nd IG. Wear heels on empty heads. But the world has evolved, wake up!

      MTush!

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  52. ladies love what they see and yet don't understand.. but once certain about a personality, rich or poor they tend to swing towards the materials.. unless both arrived from the bottom.. its a mind's game..

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  53. Couldn't comment under the "forgiveness" post that's why av come here. I forgive my greedy wedding decor who begged me for the job after I've concluded plans wiv another decor just because she is my husby's friend's sister. To say she disappointed me was an understatement I suppose sue her. Later learnt she had 3 jobs same day. She brought rags to my wedding reception and to cap it all, she used d wrong color!!! Kai! If to say I set my eyes on her that week, I would have given her the beating of her life

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  54. Abeg I no fit choose one over the other. The three must follow and please add intelligence.

    *Rme*

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  55. *If you ain't got no money, take your broke ass home*

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    1. Personality will go first for me then money comes next

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  56. Personality first then money, money money
    @Dimma pearl

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  57. I've never been a victim but I've heard stories..I'm more about the personality than how loaded he is!
    Black Friday

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  58. Different strokes for different folks. By the way what is this gist I'm hearing?????? I knew there was something about your holy than thou attitude. I don't care whether or not u post this comment. I'm satisfied with ur ass reading it

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  59. Stella happy new year to you and the readers. I am a guy though but I think personality should be paramount, no sentiments attached. Please any cultured lady looking to meet someone new in London should mail me chinasa12_orji@yahoo.com. Lets get to gist and work out compatibility. Its a new year and would appreciate a new promising beginning. Thanks!

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  60. Money, personality then beauty! Moni is vewi imprtant biko. I cnt move frm ma father's house wr i have a room to maself to a 1 room aprtmnt to be shared wi huzzy&kids. & then be jumping buses up&dwn d whole lasgidi! Chukwu ekwekwana ihe ojo!

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  61. Money all the way, God pls dis new year let my mr right locate me... Can I get an Amen in d house! Amen

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  62. Personality and money

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  63. I wanna make ma money wit ma man!!!!but he must be cute I swear! Personality??DAT should be wat attracted me in d first place....

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    1. Personalty first oo den money!your personality is discovered by your character,so character is a primary qualification for you to attract and relate to people around you.

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  64. money and personality

    But if am to choose one....then abeg i go with money

    Abeg i no be ''judas'' oooo


    @Galore

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  65. I'll go for personality now n ever!

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  66. kai...i jus love dis leona hart...#no homo biko. I am a woman like u

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