The Deputy-Governor of Cross River State, Efiok Cobham is alleged to have recently shocked his household when he commanded his wife, Glory to kneel down and apologize to his protocol officer, Asikpo Okon, for accusing him of arranging ladies for him.
A reliable source disclosed that Cobham's wife and Okon had been at loggerhead since 2011, when Gloria found out that he had been instrumental in initiating love affairs between her husband and other ladies. "Cobham was very angry with his wife when he learnt that she had confronted Okon over his affairs with other women," a close source disclosed.
The source further disclosed that Okon, who happens to be related to Cobham, promptly informed his boss of his wife’s allegation. Miffed with this report, Cobham was alleged to have confronted his wife and ordered her to kneel down and apologize to Okon or kiss the marriage goodbye. Although, Gloria felt bitterly humiliated, she was left with no other choice than to kneel down and apologize to her husband's aide.
Since Cobham was re-elected as the Deputy-Governor, Gloria has become less visible. However, she has been complaining to her close friends that her marriage has lost its shine. According to sources, Gloria has become more concerned over her husband's affairs with various ladies and female personal aides. She is not happy that Okon, who knew of how she suffered and stuck by her husband during his struggling days, could be the one that arranges ladies for him to have affair with. culled
*Space is available for denials.
*hmmmmm NA WA OOOOO,i am taking several seats on this or going back to bed
Odikwa some how. SMH
ReplyDeleteThis is d reason i ll never marry a broke ass nigger, they make money n grow wings. I ll rather be a 3rd wife to a rich dude. Men r not worth d trouble. Phewwww
DeleteAs in ehn. Imagine the insult.
DeleteYour own wife!!!
I can imagine what else the woman will be going through. Its well.
Olosho utd! Don't give ursef a legit reason for being a cheap ass slut!
DeleteFirst time my state gets a mention on SDK and its such an embarrassing news. Mma gloria needs to step up. She is dull and slow. Seen her severally dressed like a market woman, with unmade or covered up hair #haba# The last was @ d airport where she wore a funny ankara top over a diff ankara skirt.. I mean WTH. She should surprise herself, make her hair, dress well and b happy. She doesn't need no validation from that man. Its only that when u stay with a dude from scratch u tend to really love him. That is no excuse though for that her fish brained, wicked hussy who had the guts to humiliate her like that. What happened to encouraging her, and cleaning her up to ur new found taste? His day of reckoning is very close @ hand. As for d okon man, may his houseboy arrange all his fellow houseboys/ shoemakers on d street for his wife so he will know how it feels. NAMSENSE#
DeleteIf she no get money nko?
DeleteSome analysis just plain baffles me. You read an article from a blog and jump to conclusions with insults, abuses and self righteous positions.
DeleteToo many kids here.
Have you considered the fact that she may be depressed as a result of the neglect from her husband. Rose
DeleteLa effizy, big hugs for your comment. Some men sha. I started with my husband when he had practically nothing, stood by him thru thick and thin. Now that money is rolling in, that's when he starts to spread his wings outside, up to the point even his friends are cautioning him that his own f***king up and down don dey too much. That woman is mega stupid for kneeling down. What is she afraid of? Not being married to him anymore? She should have dawned him and told him to do his worst. Stupid man!!! She better take care of herself and leave that wretched dep gov.
DeleteChei. I'm Speechless.
ReplyDeleteMen should learn from Dr Soleye and Nike Oshinowo's relationship abi crashed marriage....
DeletePlease explain further
DeleteDon't be. The way of the world is strange.
DeleteIs it that some Nigerian men hate their wives or what? How can you humiliate a woman you claim to love and the mother of your kids so much? At the end of the day, I bet the allegations are 100%. Useless man
ReplyDeleteNa really wa oh. Hmm. Madam dnt gv ur sef bp oh men will always cheat its part of der DNA. Its in der blood. Y cnt one woman satisfy a man? Wht are dey always lookn for in oda women no be d same p***y abi gold dey am.
ReplyDeleteMadam,99.9999andhalf politicians are he-goats. ALL of them see their positions as avenues to cheat,loot,kill and destroy. If u can,turn a blind eye and if u can't,leave the marriage. But I know 9ja ladies,she won't leave the marriage. So,make urself happy,look good n be friends with that guy you accused of arranging babes for ur happy. BTW,20150is around the corner,he will soon step down and all the hanger-ons will take a walk.
ReplyDeleteHuuuhh???? Wow! Wherein lies our dignity, women???
ReplyDeleteAs in ehn!!! The yeye man, hanging the marriage over her head like say na better tin!!! I wld have hissed like a champ and walked out on both of them. Ladies pls no matter how you love your husband, don't be too dependent on him. Be your own person and have your own success. Don't live your life like say na only my husband o!
DeleteShocking!
ReplyDeleteStella how re u nd your baby?
DeleteWe are very blessed. Thank you.
DeleteLol...seriusly it ain't funny.diis man gat no luv or respect 4 his wife
ReplyDeleteabeg madam deputy governor ,your husband is not a baby for someone to arrange babes for him ,and for kneeling down ,that s not strange stella calabar women and very loyal to men ,calabar women know how to worship a man ,na why the saying don't ever drag a man with calabar woman ,calabar women can lick a man s leg ,and she as deputy governors wife should get use to it now that her husband must do other babes ,better she respect herself and pretend not to know.abi madam jona tell her say she doesn't know babes are being arranged for jona steady.
ReplyDeleteSo jona is d baby, r u listening to ur stupid self. Cheating is not normal, dunno y they ve made us to accept dat BS. If cheating is normal for a married person why cant being Gay be normal
DeleteAre you saying calabar women don't have a voice?
DeleteAre you saying calabar women don't have a voice?
DeleteD woman is too slow I swear! If na me, nothing would have made me kneel down n apologise to d aide!
ReplyDeleteThank you!!!! Ah ahn!!!
Delete@stella abeg wey today's funny pictures. Cos am vexing seriously
ReplyDeleteThis is so wrong. He has no respect for his wife and humiliated her publicly. Did he have to go that far, choosing an employee over his wife? So sad. Smh
ReplyDeleteWomen...........
ReplyDeleteEnjoy ur status as d deputy governors wife nah
Some women can give themselves headache sha
If na me I go dey indifferent to d whole thing in fact he can fuck himself to infinitum wetin be my own
Prick na him own
Waist nko name him own
Na when he no drop pepper he go see my red eye.
Nonsense!
He says jump, u ask how high
When my hubby used to smoke,everybody was begging him to stop,how smokers were liable to die young,however every time I went shopping I buy his cigarettes in rolls for him to "enjoy" himself until one day he took a long look at me and said I was very wicked and that I wanted to kill him bla bla....... And he never smoked again
Aunty deputy governors wife that is older than my mother that does not very sense, my advise to u is supply ur hubby with women name him go tire and secondly stop having sex with him so he does not give u std or if u must ve sex with him insist on condom
Walahi you just spoke my mind! Infact add condom to your shopping list and supply him with it, enjoy your life with the luxuries money can buy( as deputy gov wife na), throw up discussions about how a man can manage his side chics, let him know you know what he is doing. Insist on him using protection if you MUST have sex with him. ( but if na me no sex for him at all I can't carry std! I no fit shout!). Bottom line no give yourself high bp if you die na your loss o!
DeleteLike!!!
DeleteGod pls take me faraway from ezewanyi's daughters, cant live with d fact dat she will b my mother inlaw, she appears to b heinous, all her comments seems too extreme to d male folks, ur husband must av seen hell from u. I pity d man
DeleteEzewanyi!!!!
Deletei wish she read your comments Madam Ezewanyi,you really spoke well and she needs this advice.
DeleteThe thing is God created us differently,am sure people would have given her this same advice,but women are really different,some are very emotional while some are strong hearted,she seem like the emotional kind,so what would you advice an emotional woman to do?because an emotional. woman cannot give her husband girls, or just watch him die slowly because of his decisions, so i think you should also imagine her in that like.
Madam deputy busy you mind with something, try and ignore him,some men cannot control wealth and fame,and that destroys them faster.#Gen Voices.
Ezewanyi so on point!!!!!!
Delete@ anon 11;25,
DeleteHeinous kwa,Lil
@Kaycee,d last place u should bring emotions to is in a marriage
D man is tired of his marriage, his wife is now unattractive, looking old in fact he feels he is doing her a favour instead of his wife to maintain and win her husband's confidence by indulging his excesses she is sticking her nose in his affairs
I watched my father batter my mother for no reason
He blamed her for everything,he toughened my mum in a good way
She applied wisdom in her marriage
Anytime my father came back from wherever she always has hus drink ready from snapped ooo to palmy she will get him drunk and peace was restored in our family
She told me that I was very smart and that if anybody would bring us out of poverty that I was d one
Then came my hubby...........
For me ooo,I can live with any type of man
I either get u drunk or I lace ur food with sleeping tablets biko afterall no be spoil Nigeria
Nb:I don't proof read,if it hurts or eyes or give u headache a beg skip my comment
Well said Ezewanyi,Thanks you, God bless you.
DeleteI love this ezenwayi..corect igbo woman!
Delete@Kaycee,
DeleteBless u too
How does power taste? Sweet yea! No respect for the wife. Some men are beast. God deliver me from such rubbish because I dont know if I can stand such thrash. Kneel down and beg....haaa! Nawa, the things women take all in the name of wanting to keep their marriage sha.
ReplyDeleteits an old news now stella
ReplyDeleteHahaha this one na master and servant marriage n not husband n wife. Kaii God forbid
ReplyDeleteWhat's with some men sef?....once they start seeing money and fame,they will automatically change......she has degraded this woman infront of his workers....all this poiticians sef.I don't envy their wives at all...,suffering and smilling
ReplyDeleteThe best thing is to marry a money bag,i don't believe in starting and suffering together to get to the top..cos when dis men finally get to the top,the neglect their wives who stood by them by womanising..dis woman is not a fool.the aide does what she accused him of doing..poor woman..
ReplyDeleteSo she was there n suffered wif him when he got nuffin n now he's made he's running after young girls,disrespecting d woman n making her suffer? I thought they say men respect d woman who was there when dey got nuffin? Issorait! Okay noted_lemme go n review n make some changes to this belief I always had in being wif d one who am gonna b part of his hustle n suffering. Brb guys.
ReplyDeleteNma
If this is true, why should there be a marriage? Better still,she should arrange her own young studs to do justice to her bod afteral his stuff must be old n shrivelled by now. No time to check time.
ReplyDeleteAeegurl...
Foolish man
ReplyDeleteSome men are just so foolish and stupid, if u must cheat on ur wife why make it so glaring? Why humiliate her? Dis is so sad, and tomorrow when d money finishes or when d man becomes sick or something, all those aides and women he is fucking will leave him and run away and d wife will be d one suffering, dis is just wickedness.
ReplyDeleteThe case of OJB.....women never learn.
DeleteNot too badt. . . .
ReplyDeleteAccording to the story, Okon isn't just an ordinary aide, he's also her "baba oko" too-being a relative of her husband; so her kneeling down for him will go a long way in enhancing her image as a loyal wife too-@least in d family circle. . .
Marriage is the strangest Institution where people manifest the human unpredictability @ the highest level!
Marriage no be moimoi Ooooooo; The endurance you will be forced to face will be worse than the NYSC endurance trek!
lmao@more than nysc endurance trek! Nice one yomislaw
Deletewell, yomslw, in that part of the country, we dont kneel down to do that baba-oko thingy because a woman married into the family is regarded to be on the same level (position) as her husband unlike what is obtainable down in the west...
Deleteso that will even make this a double insult!!
Men are Dogs
ReplyDeleteWhat breed is your father?
DeleteIts a man's world in naija I guess, more so since okon is related to her husband, they'll probably see d confrontation as insolence on d lady's part. Take heart, Gloria, pele.
ReplyDeleteMoving on,
Click my name for all your celebration cakes n cupcakes, Cheers
the confrontation would only be seen as insult if the Okon is older than the husband..and the allegations were false...
DeleteWhat an insult! Woman leave that man. Biko nu what is happening in our society? Men must u control a women to prove u're man? nonsense!
ReplyDeleteleave you say? sometimes the women are afraid to loose their position/status hence they tolerate all sort of rubbish.
DeleteAs in ehe, this days marriage is like going for a war, is either u survive or u don't.
Deleteafi loose naa
DeleteNa wa oooo.. God knows I can't take this supid humiliation. I feel sorry for her!
ReplyDeletewow, if he had made her apologise i would i have understood but kneel down??? to his aide??? that's just low and humiliating and wrong mehn... she's his WIFE
ReplyDeleteHmmm....the things some women face in marriage! If this is true, that man has shown that he has no regard for his wife, whatsoever. How humiliating for her! She'll find it so hard not to be bitter after this. Kai!
ReplyDeleteOld gist...
ReplyDeleteKneel down and beg his aides?thats the height of humiliation to his OWN wife!but he should also be aware he is humiliating himself,its just a matter of time!
ReplyDeleteSome pple sha,small money they just get,it enters their head and scatters it.i pray he comes crashing down like a pack of cards,then he will know 'their is no king but God'#paraphased from a Hausa quote#
Useless Ugly man!
Is it ur biz? I kneel I no kneel na my knees.my hubby is not ugly. I love him so.
DeleteSending masef several shock absorbers on this
ReplyDeleteHow can?! Wife kneeling for husby's semi-errandie
This man totally disrespects his wife
Na real wa
Cross River and Akwa Ibom people can fuck anything,even a goat. Their ladies too
ReplyDeleteKneel down n beg?
ReplyDeleteDash away my dignity n beg?
Just to sustain a marriage that denies me of sleeps.
Wives of politicians in Nigeria seem to be the ones that suffer domestic violence most cos their husbands with their philandering ways really don't giv a hoot abt their wives feelings.
I pity the wives,especially those with good intents towards these dirty men.
Life isn't all abt money,fame or power!
This is y I admire GEJ(God bless his soul)
You can never hear say dem say.....
He's so committed n respectful to mama peace
In ur dreams abii. GEJ is one of d worst around.
Deletestella stop giving us old gist，this thing happened last year！！！
ReplyDeleteThis gist is very very NEW to me.
DeleteYou for skip am pass nah. Other gists berekete elsewhere else. You hear.
#Discourager#
Eya. Toh she agreed to do it. Why are we up in arms. If her husband does not respect her and she sits there to swallow it wetin concern me? You as a grown woman will allow a man to treat you like this. I am sorry o Naija people, this is not the endurance part of marriage. You all choose to absorb nonsense. I always say, if a man wants to treat you like rag versus re marry...let him remarry and see if the next will not show him hot pepper. Do not struggle and be crying over these disrespectful men, give them space when they start calling your bluff. God can not be mocked, you will jam the one that will make you think twice.
ReplyDeleteHummm
ReplyDeleteEhen if e happen 10 yrs ago nko?D lesson behind it is what matters.Make una let Aunty Stella drink water keep cup.
ReplyDeleteFrom the pix,the woman na real mgbiiii.Let her borrow a leaf from Obioma Imoke.
ReplyDeleteIt's his time and it will end in 2015. He is deputy gov now, he will be history come 2015. People fail to realise that power is transient. All those miscreant will leave him when he is no longer relevant and move on to the next. The wife should keep her fingers crossed and look the other way, its just a matter of time.
ReplyDeleteEven if the Okon is the brother inlaw nko this is humilation of the highest order. The man does not have respect for his wife and his marriage. My advice †✽ the madam is †✽ invest in herself and her gifts from God.2015 is around the corner
ReplyDeleteIMAGINE !!! YOUR OWN HUSBAND TREATING YOU LIKE A SLAVE!!! Mtcheeew.
ReplyDelete@OGBANJE,,,u are very very correct !!.......OKIJA WIFE
ReplyDeleteIt is her cross let her carry it. Everybody seem to be talking about marriage. Wen it is good nd rosy we here nothing, wen dere is trouble ppl start complaining......... Abeg I must marry dis year sha IJN.
ReplyDeleteExactly the state of most politians and pastors marriages .Women are bullied daily
ReplyDeletethank God 2015 is just around the corner...unfortunately, deputy govs are always the worst hit after vacating that semi-errand boy position..
ReplyDeleteGod is waiting for u, oga dep gov
-
ReplyDeletevalium 10mg order valium uk - buy valium online uk legally
ReplyDelete