''Hello Stella,
My wife is used to kissing our 7months old son. Infact, she started when he was like 5months. I have always warned her to stop but she wont listen claiming he's her son.
On December 31st in church, he actually attempted to kiss me right inside the church in the presence of as many people as you can imagine. That's apart from the several occassions he tried kissing me at home.
I saw her doing the same thing yesterday and WARNED her seriously to stop ABUSING my son. This is how much women will go to frustrate a man before they scream of domestic violence.
She reads your blog and i am using this platform to warn her that henceforth, i will treat her the same way i will deal with anyone who abuses my children.
BTW, i'm i been over-protective or she has every right to do it?
I will appreciate if this can go on your blog so we can learn from others.
Happy New Year. More Blessings in 2014 and beyond for you and your family.
God Bless!''
ADDENDUM-
When i say KISS, i mean french kiss and it goes on for seconds. The last time i saw them, saliva was all over my wife & son's mouth. He now knows how to hold the two ears before limping forward with his mouth opened.
Readers needed to fully understand my definition of kiss so we can have a balanced forum.
Also, we have an househelp and i had to embarrasingly ask her if my son had not tried kissing her. We leave them at home alone during the week from morning till evening. She replied saying she puts away her mouth. That means its 50:50, she could have lied or not.
ADDENDUM-
When i say KISS, i mean french kiss and it goes on for seconds. The last time i saw them, saliva was all over my wife & son's mouth. He now knows how to hold the two ears before limping forward with his mouth opened.
Readers needed to fully understand my definition of kiss so we can have a balanced forum.
Also, we have an househelp and i had to embarrasingly ask her if my son had not tried kissing her. We leave them at home alone during the week from morning till evening. She replied saying she puts away her mouth. That means its 50:50, she could have lied or not.
*Dear blog visitor,you cannot stop a woman from kissing her baby oh,its a form of bonding between mother and child oh.
I am sure every mother nursing her child is guilty of this,little babies have this smell in their mouth that is just beckoning.well i don't see it as child abuse.you need to relax and let your child kiss you abeg.
Does anyone think this is child abuse?
*DO NOT TOUCH YOUR WIFE PLEASE.
Hmmm... OK wat us she teaching the baby nw? Hope she does not allow the baby to do 'touching bobi' bcos na so the pikin go take dey touch oda women bobi if dem carry am...#Alinko
ReplyDeleteStanley! Your age is showing and your brain is leaking. Please Log out.
DeleteVery true, a lot of women allow their kids to touch their boobs and these kids tend to do it with other women! I find it really disgusting, although she can kiss her child if she wants just let it be a peck even if its on his lips, but not serious kissing!
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@ Stan Nwanze: wich one b touching bobi again? *rme* u for kuku say make d baby no suck im mama bobi again nah so dat he no go dey suck oda women own.
DeleteStanley is so right oh, when my son started this bad habit, I used to allow him, then when I got preggy and refused him from touching my boobs he switched to his dad, it's really irritating and we are no longer finding it funny. Hubby n I are trying to make him stop now. As per the kissing bit, op, pls allow wifey cos it's a natural thing.
DeleteI think dere should be a limit to everything biko.. Dats how my neighbours 3yr old son touches the breast of any female carrying him..
DeleteThe mentality of some people makes one wonder if we all are on the same planet.
DeleteHow on earth does kissing one's own child amount to child abuse? Sorry Mr but this is really insane. It has even gotten to the point that you are going to go all physical on her soonest. Her own baby, as in her own flesh and blood she carried on her own womb.
Haba, its weird that a man will tell his wife not to kiss her son.
It doesn't even make any sense.
Am a mother so i can imagine the pain you are putting that poor woman through.
Oga go one babycenter.com and babycenter.co.uk!
DeleteTf?
A seven month old baby?
Aw on earth can u possibly spoil a 7month old baby? Biko wait till he's like one or 18months befor u start makn this a huge concern.
A 7month old baby still nids to be kissed over n over by mummy n daddy!
Cos u can spoil a 7month old baby. He's stl very lil!
The guy must be a seriously bush man... whats wrong with kissing your babies... there absolutely nothing sexual about that. It's how mothers bond with their babies. Which cave did this guy just emerge from?
ReplyDeleteGbam he must be a bush man.
Deleteserious Busher man!..Phew !!!
DeleteThat's just the word,bush.Cos I can't think of any other word to describe him.
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DeleteIdiot. Ezza people don't kiss their babies abi? Motherfucker.
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This mail is Vague,and he sounded like he wasn't comfortable with somethng else apart from the kissing. what age are we talking about here? I see nothing wrong with kissing yor baby, some "Aje" parents still kiss their teen "babies" on the lips, its no biggie abeg.
ReplyDeleteChild Abuse kwa lol. Mr pls leave your wife alone it's normal. I also don't think there is anything wrong in couples displaying affection in public. I do that a lot with my hubby.
ReplyDeleteSo far it's not deep kiss where they have to exchange saliva, I don't see anything wrong in that.
ReplyDeletePlease oga, allow your wife to enjoy bonding with her lil baby, as he gets older, no one will tell her to stop.
Some men get jealous of their wives's relationship with their babies, especially when its a baby boy. I think this is the case here
DeleteMr.Man you are the razzest husband of all time. It is very normal for mothers to kiss their children. In the abroad it is very normal for BOTH YES OH BOTH parents to kiss their babies. Mediterranean men, middle eastern men and south American men still kiss on the cheeks as adults when greeting and it is very very normal. It is very clear you are not exposed good thing you have internet i suggest you watch some family vlogs on YouTube of newly weds with their new borns and see how to behave with your child.
ReplyDelete" In the abroad " Like seriously??? Only on SDK... LOL
DeleteYea,'in the abroad"is just a funny way of saying "abroad".I say it as well,now 2 oga poster,u are a very local man who sees a mother showing love and affection as abuse,how deranged can you be with ut thots.please change ur old ways
DeleteYou go fear "in the abroad" na
DeleteThere's absolutely nothing wrong with a mother kissing her baby, they are bonding she will stop once baby is a toddler so baba baby chill and don't do DV plz.
ReplyDeleteU r sick Stanley! I kiss my son and he kisses back only on d cheek
ReplyDeleteOh, come on. She's just being a mum to her little boy. I don't think it's that serious for now. But as soon as the boy clocks 1 or 18months, then she should limit it to hugs and pecks on the cheek. My opinion sha...
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How on mother earth is kissing a child an abuse? How can you attach such a negative significance to such motherly act? It boils down to the fact that..its either your conscience is torturing you about an ACT you did towards another child or something else. Haba for such warning. Don't bring in unecessary drama into your marriage! Ozozi u will say she is cheating on you with your own child. Rapu fi ka fi rapu gi.
ReplyDeleteMr poster it's just normal for a mother to kiss her baby and pls allow that baby to kiss you if he wants to....it's no big deal
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Abegggg there's nothing wrong with a woman who loves to kiss her baby o. I kissed mine like crazy and will do it again and again. Pls poster is over reacting. What's the big deal if your child tries to kiss u in the church or mosque? You are too stiff
ReplyDeleteDis man is Sick!!!!!! He needs help
ReplyDeletePlsss my baby is two, six months n I still kiss her.she's my baby n dere is notin wrong wit dat.infact sometimes she takes me unawares she wil kiss me ,hug me n say love u mummy. Its d greatest feeling ever. So allow dem bound.
ReplyDeleteOga, please you are not alright.
ReplyDeleteAre you for real?
A woman should not kiss her own baby again?
How is that child abuse?
Is she "tongueing" the child or what exactly is your concern?
I for one prefer babies to be kissed on the cheeks because of the less likelihood of transferring illnesses to them but I see that is not even your worry. Did you grow up in the bush?
What if your 5 month old baby kisses you in church, public, market square? What are you ashamed of?
Imagine how you are laying down ancient rules and ultimatums for a woman who should be adored by you! Going as far as reporting her on a Blog.
I will be very surprised if you've not started hitting her already. You sound like a very angry man. Shior! May you guys not have serious issues if this is how you handle this non-issue.
Love ur comment. Thanks for ur sense and sensibility in expression. D poster must hav suffered molestation or lack of affection.
DeleteBoy Alinko,babies must always want to touch bobi o,thou after they are weaned,they forget abt it but it seem something in their head still tells them there used to be a relationship btw they and that place'.
ReplyDeleteUnto the kissing issue,i am guilty too but mine isn't french kiss like in Stella's pic,i hope that is not also wrong?well I know mother's will always want to bond somehow so #confused face#
Shut up!! Foolish thing always trying to sound relevantm kmt!!!
DeleteHater you defo have a lot of time on your hands
DeleteLol
ReplyDeleteThis is so funny
So you want her to stop
Oya madam once its 8months stop kissing your son b4 he would get to school and start kissing girlls in bathrooms
And mr poster really I do not think its a biggy...you do not know whaat your wife went tru when she was pregnant for thaat kid so you can't force her to stop
So every idle person can just wake up and post on your blog and you will give the person attention? She is abusing the child by kissing her own child? E be like say hangover dey worry you, pls get over yourself.
ReplyDeleteDear poster I don't see anything wrong with ur wife kissing her son pls. Don't don't stop her and don't raise ur hand on her even u were complaining of her kissing u in public is it her first time y were u ashamed of her doing it if u don't have any skeleton in ur cupboard are u from the bush? Beta mind urself if is ur mistress that try kissing u in public u won't find anything wrong with it just take several seats joor mtcheeeew
ReplyDelete@ stanley u re a moron 4 givin dat advice. Ode oshi eran.
ReplyDeleteAlmost all women kiss their babies. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Also most babies tend to try to kiss people who carry them, regardless of who (father, mother, aunty, stranger). Except you have observed that she kisses him like an adult. In an intimate or dirty kind of way, which i doubt. If it is the adult kind of kiss, then yes, caution her. Otherwise, i have to ask, are you 78 years old???? Which one is embarrasment in church? For a baby that is kissing his father?? R u out of your mind? Why didnt you carry out a poll to find out if people found it appalling? You would have ended up disgracing yourself. I'm getting so pissed as i type this. Your wife carried the baby for 9 months and after a painful labour or CS, you are saying she can't kiss her son??? Or you will start treating her how?? N you hv the guts to use it as an excuse for domestic violence?? Ha! E b like say women no dey think like me. Except you will not eat my food again after you touch me because of such a stupid reason, or pestle for pounding no dey that house. Na cripple you go become. Idiot! Very old minded and myopic fellow. Shior!!!
ReplyDeleteYou said it all anon. Dude is just looking for an excuse to start punching his wife if he hasn't started already. He for kuku stop the woman from breast feeding her child na. Mtchewwwwwwwwww
DeleteAnon take mmmmmuuuuuaaaahhhhhh
DeletePlenty sense in ur comment..men shd start realizin dat women sef ready for dem,chai me sef dey vex seriously 4 d mata,so she can't kiss own baby dat tore her belly or pussy,mr man av u seen d stretch marks on her tommy becos of d pregnancy? Touch her first,so u were thinkin we'll back u up?u nor jst well at alllllll,I don't usually insult posters o,buh for dat DV u mentioned I boro lepa's language; u'r a b**tch. Lemme jst stop here,but only becos ur wife is an sdker,lemme respect her...idio..... anyway lemme stop
Hahahahahahahaha! Poster u re being paranoid. Leave ur wife alone abeg. Its only someone with good heart that can kiss a little baby. Since she is the mother of ur son, let her be.
ReplyDeleteOh pls stop already! I do kiss my 6months old baby on d mouth and I dnt see it as child abuse. It makes him laugh a lot cos he's very playful........n guess what, I am d only person allowed to do dat* winks.
ReplyDeleteOn a more serious note, I dnt see any problem with that and even my husband doesn't complain (he's a doc.)
So dear blog visitor allow ur wife to bond wit her kid
My mom always kisses me even now I'm grown up. It's normal FFS.
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DeleteShior! No case. Mr nan abeg you too village Sir, as in, you too bush.
ReplyDeleteMr Man
ReplyDelete@ Stanley, i agree with you. One also has to be careful so the babies dont start doing the same thing to strangers. But can you really control babies?
ReplyDeleteAltho i think the poster is taking it way too far. Its not necessary. How can you brand your wife an abuser cos she kisses her baby? Its unbelievable! N he dey talk DV join? Ah! Shegejagwa! Dis man na error o!
Stanley, you don dey upgrade in attitude o. Wetin happen? You meet new boyfriend?
Hian!what is the big deal about a mother kissing her child?mr man calm down abeg.there's nothing wrong with what your wife is doing
ReplyDeleteThis man sef na wa for u. Am guilty of this 100% kiss my kids so much even now they are grown we still have good night kiss before bed time. Free d woman mbok. U must be a local man to think its child abuse.
ReplyDeleteBAD MOTHER!!!!
ReplyDeleteStop displaying your ignorance pls. Since when does kissing one's child become a criteria for knowing a good or bad mother. Ewu
DeleteDon't even dare touch that woman !!!! She has done nothing wrong. Every mother kisses her child. U mustbe from jupiter to think ischild abuse . Mtchew
ReplyDeletePersonally, I Dnt support kissing on d mouth, some women actually use tongue claiming it's play. Bt I think it's nt right
ReplyDeleteUr wife is kissing her own child n u think it's an abuse? U r a raving lunatic...no be ur fault na,na stella wey post ur stupidity ni...oshisco
ReplyDeleteI personally think that you are over reacting.... It's very natural for mother's to kiss their babies like a million times a day! Get over yourself, this ain't child abuse... Enjoy your baby now cos they grow up VERY fast...
ReplyDeleteNikita...
oh my gosh! Stanly just shut up !! what do you know as child - mother bonding? I kiss all my kids.., before they go to bed, when they wake up and also when I drop them off at school. Anytime of the day, appreciate them and bond up in love.
ReplyDeleteAs for the writer saying something about domestic violence, it seems that you have it in you because if it is not in you, there are other people whom you can mention this in your family or even pastor before you talk of beating up your wife.
There is nothing wrong with a mom giving her child a kiss.
Oga sir Abeg relax,
ReplyDeleteBaby wan kiss you na so you dodge,
Abi does she give him mouth to mouth French kiss?
Hian.
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DeleteThe baby will tend to kiss evrybodi........ Its nt badt tho........ Buh nt too much.....
ReplyDeleteAbegi, mak the man go sit down for one side. Weytin be child abuse for here? Mama kiss pikin why she carry for her womb, e con turn to crime investigation? Na wa for husband o! Madam abeg kiss ur pikin well well, even if e reach 10yrs, kiss am. The man need to pray for wisdom, bcs he mind dey corrupt.... Oga na unnecessary Jealousy dey worri u... If e easy mak u sef carry pregnancy for 9months, mak we see wether no be 247 u go dey kiss the baby. U won beat her bcs she kiss her baby. Story dat touches the heart. SHM!
ReplyDeleteI can't help kissing my son, he is so adorable...which wan be abuse ther? Abegi I love my son too very much...
ReplyDeleteDo please keep quiet Stanley if you've nothing 2 say. The baby's just 7months old 4 crying out loud! My friend kissed his 1yr old son on new year's day when they visited & I'm sure if u ask ur own mum Mr. About 2 abuse his wife over some trivia, she did kiss u too till u were probably 5. Anywayz I've got this feeling u wanted 2 just write sumthing and 'put us 4 cruise'. About 2 lay hands on ya baby mama 4 kissing her 7month old baby, silly. Be like u be Black Hitler in d making bros. Nna lerax dia
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ReplyDeleteYes thanks. I sent the email to Stella ab-initio and i have just made my explanation clearer. I hope Stella will kindly update the post so i can learn correctly.
DeleteWhen i say KISS, i mean my son already knows how to hold both ears, locked lips for seconds. They both had plenty of saliva on their lips yesterday. All i want is for us to learn from people cuz our marriage is new. We'll laugh over all this comments anyway
I think u are overreacting...Allow your baby be the baby that he is, and his mom the mom she is...
DeletePoster u too much, no mind bad belle pple...lol... There is notin wrong though but u know dat kids learn so fast and it depends on wat dey are taught, if dey happen to learn wet kiss, dat I don't tink is good...#Alinko
DeleteHian!!!! and u Stanley Nwanze think u made sense with the rubbish u call comment.
ReplyDeleteBlog Visitor husband there is absolute nothing wrong in a mother showering her child with plenty kisses o!. I'm 32 yrs of age and still kiss both parents even in public.
U just have to calm down and learn to kiss your child, it give room for bonding.
Bro pls allow her, how can you call that abuse ? Or are you just looking for cheap excuse to beat your wife ? Its not wrong in anyway its her child, so backoff because you didn't carry him in ur stomach for 9months !
ReplyDeleteThis guy should stop being silly o! Are u kidding me? I just had a baby 3 weeks ago and every time I pick him up I kiss his face. Which kain abuse? Abeg!!!
ReplyDeleteOk my very ist comment here...u had ur baby 3weeks ago??me too..lmao!!*big grin* how r u doin??...@poster.dnt see anythn wrong in ur wife kissing ur baby..i stare into my Lil cutie's eyes n want to kiss her all d time...
DeleteIf the man says she should stop, their mrs wife, please stop. Seeing it from the man's point of view, if the baby had attempted kissing the dad, I strongly feel he will move on to strangers and the likes. So please, let's not make a case out of nothing, stop kissing the child, you won't die!
ReplyDeleteI can't help it, my son is so adorable... kissing ur own son can't be abuse...I love my son too very much, most tym I wonder if becos of the love I feel for the dad... am so attach to my son oo..
ReplyDeleteGod have mercy. What kind of MAN is this? homeboy u re a disgrace to manhood. What nonsense?off-course she can kiss her son even if he is 20years old that is true love. You are PURE BUSHMAN. LEAVE THE WOMAN ALONE. Africans and the way we reason very poor.
ReplyDeletePoster you have to take it easy please, I don't think what your wife is doing amounts to abuse...yet...
ReplyDeleteGood thing the baby is just 7months old.
Madam, you have to call yourself to order, if hubby is not comfortable with you kissing the baby, then chill, and switch to pecking, remember he is not just yours' but you and your husbands'
That said....
Where do we draw the line with mother/son bonding and father and daughter/bonding.
These are babies who know nothing and are looking up to their parents for everything, what a child sees and learns in his formative years goes a long way to mould him into the man/woman he becomes tomorrow.
Have a great weekend everyone.
make d woman reduce d kissing na. If to kiss de hungry am make im kiss the husband jare. Afterall no be d pikin she marry
ReplyDeletePls mr blog visitor, you are so pointless! How can call a mother kissing her baby child abuse.... mmmshheeww,better confess and tell us the real reason why you are pained
ReplyDeleteIt actually depends on the manner of kissing, how does she kiss, as in kiss - gorrit?
ReplyDeleteHahahahah... Blog visitor, you are funny... You sound like an old fashioned man. Anyway, there is nothing wrong in kissing your baby, its a sign of love n affection, not "sexual" ..please the child came from her own womb, so yes she can kiss her child as much as she wants and just because you fertilitized her egg doesn't give you the right to beat your wife fie kissing your son, ok? But I guess you are ignorant so....
ReplyDelete*am out
Dear Lord!!! this man is a stupid nonsensical idiot.
ReplyDeleteif your wife is not sticking her tongue in the baby's mouth then she is not abusing the child. she is showing affection to her child.
were you raised in a barn?
and mr stanely, are you frigging serious? giving your baby kisses equates to touching boobs?
you need to expand your minds for real.
okey...have heard
ReplyDeleteI will stop Kissing ''your'' son
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@Galore
Heheheeee! Galore!! Nah you? Odikwa risky o! So you won't pass your sour mannered saliva to the immocent child - you wey sabi run mouth!!
DeleteMr. Poster, I think u need to loosen up and allow your wife show affection to her child. The only time you should complain is when she allows outsiders (family members and friends) to kiss him, but apart from that pls let her kiss her son as much as she wants and let him kiss you too. Physical contact is a great way to bond with your kids.
ReplyDeleteHe shed also tell her to stop breastfeeding her son becoz the baby might b tapping current, mumu man
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DeleteVery funny
DeleteHaba Oga, which one be child abuse,i even kiss my sister's kids talk more of mine...
ReplyDeleteChill biko, there is nothing wrong with it...
First child is like first luv, u cant get enough of it...
she won't melt 4 him if that's ur thought, some men thinks that women gets wet or reaches orgasm while breast feeding a baby, it's not that way please....
Mr man STFU....do you know what it takes to carry a human being for 40 weeks???......go through labor pains and all...you are a PEDIOPHILE that's why you know she is abusing the baby....carry your jealousness commot here biko
ReplyDeleteOga! Its not child abuse o!!!! Let her bond with the baby and you need to also cultivate the habit. It strenghtens your relationship with your child but start teaching him to not kiss others like that so he will know what the limits are. Abeg no beat the woman oh!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat did i just read? kissing=abuse? Didnt your mother/father/family kiss you when u were a baby? How can u get upset cos your wife is kissing your son? as i see you so, do u kiss your wife or does that turn into abuse too? May the almighty God see us through.
ReplyDeleteStanley u be FOOL!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat is wrong with kissing ones child for goodness sake. I do kiss and hug my 5yr son and my 2 yr old daughter daily. And I've coached them not to allow anyone kiss or touch them aside from their dad and myself. Children needs self assurance from their parents especially their mother that they are loved and the only way to show that to them is by kissing them, hugging and cuddling. Pls enjoy your son and let your wife enjoy the bonding with your son pls.
ReplyDeletehi...dear poster, i think that ur delusional and are also a paranoid freak!!! i mean that in d nicest way, u see..u need help, we live in a country where pple dont take dia mental health seriously, u shd sstrt paying more attention 2 urs..mr wife beater!!!God in heaven will punish u d day u lay ur filthy hands on ur wife..mad dog..abby
ReplyDeleteThat's what happens when u marry all these 51opiweka guys or onitsha mainmkt guys or any trader... Tell her to stop breastfeeding too,cos its abuse... A mother shouldn't kiss the child hat passed thru her vagina again? U so local... My hubby and I still kiss or sons and they are a yr plus... They can even go to bed without kissing us good night and u are embarrassed that your son tried kissing u....
ReplyDeleteu berra don't lay ur hands on her or she will curse that ur hand to wither
Lol @ upiweka. Lmao. Thats not fair. Dem sef go know say e no mata na. Lol. At least they watch movies.
DeleteThat's what happens when u marry all these 51opiweka guys or onitsha mainmkt guys or any trader... Tell her to stop breastfeeding too,cos its abuse... A mother shouldn't kiss the child hat passed thru her vagina again? U so local... My hubby and I still kiss or sons and they are a yr plus... They can even go to bed without kissing us good night and u are embarrassed that your son tried kissing u....
ReplyDeleteu berra don't lay ur hands on her or she will curse that ur hand to wither
Funny poster, in what way is that child abuse? Its the love the mother has for her son and pls don't cut off d bond they share. So far its not deep kiss and they don't exchange saliva. Abeg €make mother kiss her son. Such stupid thing to complain about.
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Deres nafin bad mr poster, me sef dey suvk ma 7months old daughter p****y till she reach orgasm, please dnt touch her
ReplyDeleteThis is absolutely disgusting. Paedophilia is nothing to joke about . How twisted are you? Pls Stella, remove this abhorrent post!
DeleteU r sick and cursed!!! May God use thunder destroy ur face and blokos there!! Rejected soul
DeleteAnonymous 6:53pm is this a joke?
DeleteU r such a disgusting person! If u don't stop it now, GOD will stop u b4 u destroy d girls life. Just can't imagine dis retard!!
DeleteMrs J
Lol! I'm sure it's a joke. Sumn to tease the poster. I mean what kind of woman would sit around n let a mad man do this 2 her daughter? C'mon
DeleteThink the man is jealous kind of(lol),guess the wife doesn't kiss him.Mr. Poster your wife is just showing love to her child biko! Almost every woman does that(usually not deep now),you hear little children saying muahhh(lol). Watch out for abuse from other channels not your wife.
ReplyDeleteWell Stella though the mailer took it to an extreme to issue threat on his wife, i fault him for that, i still think ur being a lil bit sentimental if you dont address this issue holistically. I feel kissing a baby occassionally helps in bonding with the child emotionally but not when it persists to an extreme, rembr it isnt just d mother that has the monopoly of bonding with her child emotionally. it shouldnt be habitually nd it shouldnt be deep, mayb a peck on d chic or on the babies lips. I will be sincere with you, ur robust reply somehw potrays men as cold emotionally. You may not know where the guy is coming from, he may have been a victim of child molestation directly or indirectly hence his outburst. He is only owning up to his primary responsibility as a father nd protector of a home. Rather than make him look dump, i'd advice his wife to kindly understnd his plight and honour her man. Dats all. Besides, he believes in ur value judgemnt nd ur influence especcially on women dats y his bringing this on ur blog. For the mailer, keep correcting in love, the threat was unneccessary, like i said earlier, if it isnt deep kissing, a mother is entitled to show some love to baby through kisses but rationally. God bless you
ReplyDeleteSeriously I dnt understand d problem here....its her son now. Pls relax oga
ReplyDeleteHian,
ReplyDeleteDis poster ehn,
U for tlk say u wan harness ur boxing skills ontop ur wife,
U dey find xcuse to beat ur wife se?
Plz go n check out pics of Bola tinubu's adopted mum n him kissing in public b4 she died.
Gaan rest biko, u dey find smthg wey no lost.
Oga!!!! Take several seat please. This is sooo stupid!!!! 7months old baby even if na 10yrs...he is your son unless you have paedoephilic tendency...Rubbish
ReplyDeleteAm so shocked at dis man. U obviously aren't smitten by ur baby or your wife. If u r, u will kiss and hug him like crazy. Children communicate with der mouth and every mother bond with their baby thru dat. Kissing is a sign of love, appreciate and genuine feeling of affection. U can't deprive her of that glorious moment. Western still kiss their children even when they r 40yrs and above. Don't be naïve and silly. Carry your baby up when he is playful and look in his eyes if u don't feel they urge to kiss him...then know you r a beast and sadist. Am a man and I peck adorable kids. #true love is mostly seen and felt btw mother n child. So Mr let her be and loosen up. Don't lay ur wretched hands on her oo.
ReplyDeleteabusing your child ke? Child that she carried for nine months abi? or are you the one who did the pushing take several seats abeg
ReplyDeleteMr oga sir i am 27and i stil kiss my mum and i also dont go abt kissin pple nyhw...so chill abeg its a new yr...
ReplyDeleteIn dis century! U sound like som1 dat will be resentful & full of hate! Is she not the mother.....move yaself to pakistan abeg
ReplyDeleteI have made clarifications to Stella but I do not understand why it's taking so long to update the story.
ReplyDeleteMy kiss means French kiss and at times it goes on for seconds. We have an house help and I'm scared he might have tried kissing her too.
If na french kissing, maybe something is wrong. How often do u kiss ur wife? How do u show appreciation? Maybe she's trying to pass a msg to u? And as per d househelp, u have to tell ur wife to stop french kissing d baby, cos ur househelp might also start experimenting (not only kissing nut othe thungs) with d baby..am sure d baby kissing his mom back doesnt mean any harm..
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Poster pls relax! Babies tend to suck on any and everything, especially when they start to teeth. Even when you try a little kiss they tend to chew on your lips. I think this is y it looks like a French kiss to you. And pls don't even think about hitting ur wife forany reason, otherwise ama whoop ur ass maself, lol
DeleteMtcheew...Allow your wife to bond with the baby..smh...What's wrong with u???
Delete@ poster, maybe u need to video this kiss for us. How can a baby b french kissing? Dont u see that babies suck anything dey come in contact with? Thats d same way they try to kiss. Get over this already. A baby is a baby please. Gosh!
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Loool@abuse! I'm 26 yrs old and I still kiss my parents when I want to. We show affection to each other publicly and it doesn't mean anything. Poster don't touch ur wife ohh!
ReplyDeleteStella, please could you find out from this poster how he shows affection to his children?
ReplyDeleteobviously he is averse to any type of affection. I just want to know what is ok in his eyes.
kissing kwa ,nothing person no go see
ReplyDeletePoster, u are soooo SICK! Wat a DIRTY mind u have. A mother's innocent kiss to her son, an abuse to u? I'm so sure u must have done some terrible things to some kids, and as such, u feeling someone else might do it to ur child. U had better caution urself. Ur utterances even show u are prone to DV. BUSH MAN!
ReplyDeleteI think the man is jealous also he doesn't want anybody to come in btw d two of them, maybe the wife is a good kiss er which d man enjoys so much and she suddenly shifted attention to d baby!
ReplyDeleteJust saying anyway!
I pray what you are saying is a sick,stupid,very unfunny joke anon 79. What did you just write?? Bcos Stella,such a person should be reported if what they've written is in anyway true. Such a person is nothing but a sick, condemned bastard! Ah,ah!
ReplyDeleteAnd as for you poster, there's nothing more to add, a mother should not kiss her son? So the baby should grow up feeling unloved and not cherished because of your insecurity and archaic views?? Wetin person no go hear for these blogs?? Choi!!!
Too much of anything is not good ........all things must be done decently and in order......cheers
ReplyDeleteWell,there's no harm in bonding with one's kid...+what's with the threats?You need to chil dude.
ReplyDeleteU are a Bush man and don't deserve a wife let alone a child. Bushito.
ReplyDeleteSo, it has become a crime to kiss your son, abi? Take a chill supplement and stop overreacting
ReplyDeletebaba competing with son. At 7 months, you are already a frenemy to your son. Bush man, Boko Haram better pass you.
ReplyDeleteJust say you've bin looking for a way to spank the poor woman and not say she's kissing the lil baby, you just dey find talk for where sigh nor dey, there's absolutely nothing wrong of a mother kisses her son! So abeg say something else okay!
ReplyDeleteBaba competing with son. At 7 months, you are already a frenemy to your son. Bush man, Boko Haram better pass you.
ReplyDeleteBaba competing with son. At 7 months, you are already a frenemy to your son. Bush man, Boko Haram better pass you.
ReplyDeleteAm a mother my third child is 10months old I see reasons with the man. Some women don't knw hw to kiss a child bcs of the way babies sucks their lips. Mothers stop it it's wrong madam don't see it like stella is siding me no obey ur husband
ReplyDeleteGive ur child a kiss on the forehead. With a big hug.
U knw the kiss oga is talking about
Oga pls relax abeg. Ahah! Calm down wiv ur dirty mind. There's nothing wrong with it. Just bonding and showing love 2 her son. Absence of all these little things make children search for love in the wrong places. She'll stop it herself. Or are you looking for an excuse to beat her up?
ReplyDeleteWoman don't let anyone deceive u there is nothing ok about kissing ur child to an extend that ur husband complains. stop it
ReplyDeleteWhen he beats u now u ll bring it to stella then the ones that re looking for husband ll tell u to leave him
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Am a mother my third child is 10months old I see reasons with the man. Some women don't knw hw to kiss a child bcs of the way babies sucks their lips. Mothers stop it it's wrong madam don't see it like stella is siding me no obey ur husband
ReplyDeleteGive ur child a kiss on the forehead. With a big hug.
U knw the kiss oga is talking about
Kissing a child should be a light peck on the cheeks or lips,not deep kiss o,I think the poster should tell his wife this so this issue doesn't degenerate to a bigger quarel
DeleteMr man ur a very nonsense person.. Ur bush stuck up and annoying! U need councelling ...! I would suggest another man raping you to loosing u up....but dats pushing it to far(;
ReplyDeleteI can bet my royal arse this poster is an abusive husband...I pity your wife cos am sure you have a thousand and one rules and regulations she has to live with....get off this page with your bush and local self.....it's your type who do not express love to their children and allow them grow up as unemotional adults.....get a life and stop that rubbish you are saying ASAP
ReplyDeleteDis is a normal.tin now...It is sumtin dt has alwys been.in existence. Y is he d one dt now wants to chng it? Wts his problem wiv dt? Or did he have an ugly past and doesnt wnt his son to v d same experience?
ReplyDeleteHer own baby , no be person pickin oooo , I beg Oga go sleep , first child for tht matter. When you kiss you bond , or are you jealous ,. Reminds me a lot of my husband , when my child was 7 months , he ask me to stop the child from breast milk. We argue we fight until he admitted he was jealous and missing the same Bobbi . maybe she no longer pay attention to you . Sit her down and discuss. Don't come here and start talking about your wife kissing your innocent child , I beg take your time
ReplyDelete*not anon 79, sorry. Anon 80- 6.53 pm.
ReplyDeleteHow will u feel as a parent if ur 7months baby tries to kiss everybody that carry him both old and young he wanna lock lips and keep sucking?....oh am sure ur gonna like it after all he is a baby,please woman if ur reading this comment do not follow the crowd respect ur husband and stop that locked lip kiss,mr poster may have used a wrong term in abuse but its his baby and u don't love him more than he does...stella u did a post about stimulating kids to sleep and u termed it abuse?!!! Everybody did not agree with u but in ur mind u were right,and we respect that...oga abeg no beat ur wife u ve made ur point...
ReplyDeletePlease a woman that gets turned on during breastfeeding and all she does is play with sons ntanta how motherly sick is she am sure the man didn't say what's he is really angry about...
God bless u anon10:16pm many abortionists are here giving advice to a concerned man by cursing him but am sorry for u all go ahead and raise a monster if u want but don't blame is on anybody,some stupid child will grow and say he was born gay and u wonder wtf... But big shits starts small
ReplyDeleteFunny post nna meeeen chillax. Me I still kiss and peck my 5+ son of course not French kiss. Its natural my brother and a way bonding with your child.
ReplyDeleteThere's no emotional attachment to that it's just same way a child touches her ms breast without the woman feeling anything because that child is part of her.
Don't worry someday you'll start asking why your child loves and cares for his mum more than you.
Funny post nna meeeen chillax. Me I still kiss and peck my 5+ son of course not French kiss. Its natural my brother and a way bonding with your child.
ReplyDeleteThere's no emotional attachment to that it's just same way a child touches her ms breast without the woman feeling anything because that child is part of her.
Don't worry someday you'll start asking why your child loves and cares for his mum more than you.
I still kiss/peck my 4year old son on the lips. So does my hubby. To him its all natural. No boob touching ooh. Just the kiss. Allow ur wife enjoy her kid
ReplyDeleteLol.. my first time to comment. love u Stella.
ReplyDeleteBros,,,am beginning to doubt ur sanity...i saw dis post since y'day but i just decided to read other people's comment but ur explanation in the comments section got me pissed off....its either u grew up in an environment where love doesnt exist or u did something nasty to a baby in the past........what do u mean by ur baby is french kissing?what are u insinuating when u said u saw saliva on ur baby's mouth and ur wife's mouth??? check out 10 babies randomly and u'll see that all of them tend to put whatever they see in their mouth and even wet anything with their saliva.....even without kissing,,,babies tend bring out saliva from their mouths more often and that is why u see nursing mothers with mouth napkins all the time.ALL babies suck any/everything that gets to their mouth(u can experiment with ur finger) especially during teething period......I am a mother of 2 ,,my first child(son) will be 4yrs by February and i still kiss and peck him not to talk of 19mths old daughter.....so get hold of urself pls.......and u talked about beating ur wife just bcos she is kissing her own son,,,,i think u have DV trait in u already and u're just looking for the slightest provocation to start ur mission,,,ur wife should be careful with u cos i see u as a time bomb waiting to explode....
ReplyDeleteAnnon #80 that is making his baby girl cum......i think u're a psychiatric patient.....not only the mad people we see around walking the streets naked or wearing rags are sick in the head,,,people like u are even worst than dem......so pls try visit a psychiatric doctor to re-tighten the loosened nuts and bolts in ur head.....FOOL..
Relax people with the insults@ this Poster. It's obvious He grew up in a home with no display of affection/love that has made him feel there is something sexual about his wife kissing their baby. Dude u need to relax! there's absolutely nothing wrong with kissing your baby! Whether french kissing or peck. I still kiss my 5+ and 2+ Sons I give them hugs and they kiss and hug and tell me I love you mummy. DV a big no no! Don't be too frigid. You should learn a thing or two from ur wife when it comes to display of affection towards ur Child
ReplyDeleteUp till now, I still try and give my older teenage children pecks on their cheeks though they always run away and say "Ewwwwww Mummy".... that's understandable considering their ages. I kissed them a lot on the cheeks when they were younger.
ReplyDeleteAs for my youngest child who is 6, we even have a kissing competition where I kiss her all over her face and then she does the same to me. My dear, it's part of bonding between mothers and their children. It is not child abuse in any form or manner and for heaven's sake, your child is still a baby. Once your child is old enough to understand/comprehend things, simply make it clear (which I did with my kids), that kissing is limited to Mummy and Daddy only and must be on the cheeks.
Most mothers love kissing their babies/children. Don't give your wife unnecessary trouble over this at all!
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