I'm a young lady in her 20s and in a relationship of 2years to be precise. I'm an up and coming actress (Yoruba).
My partner are in love but Here is the issue. Just recently he started showing so much interest in coming to locations with me, like picking and dropping me off. I honestly don't have issues with his generosity but I'm scared of losing him to the wolves in the industry. LOL
He is good looking, has a very good and paying job. Hence he drives two nice cars.
Few of these well known "Aunties" are so desperate and one has actually asked my friend on location to link her up with my partner, just because she's seen him with a nice car. I had a word with my partner about him coming to locations and he feels I'm up to some "shit".
Like having an affair with someone on location, which is obviously not the case, I just don't want to lose him. It's quite common that girls go after their friends boyfriends especially in the industry that I am in.
I am sure someone reading this will advice me on how to handle this pressing issue.
I cannot confront these ''aunties'' and i cannot stop my partner from dropping or picking me off...how do i stop them from stealing him?
Stealing of boyfriend is very very rampant in this our profession,the man himself will not even know what hit him.
Please I need urgent advice.
He's not a serious partner joor!
ReplyDeleteYou too dey Jump! Oya get her one serious partner na...olodo
DeleteUrgent advice indeed. M
ReplyDeleteCan a man be stolen?
ReplyDeleteIf he doesn't love u enough,he'd digress.
You come off to me as insecure.
Better stop worrying your head over Nigerian men especially a made bachelor for dat matter.
Girls must run after him,we love security.
You just hav to learn to put dat aside n work on urself so he'd see u as a Demi-god n bet me,even if he ends up falling he'd keep running back to u.
Save ur tender heart for bera thingZ abeg.....
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DeleteM'amie abeg tell the small gal... mtcheeeew
DeleteI agree with you Mamie.
DeleteIf he is disciplined, he wouldn't care about cheap women throwing themselves at him but rather stick with u. Work on your self esteem babes and ask God to blind the eyes of desparados as if concerns your man. Period
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Deletei lovey.....
True talk!
DeleteSpot on a billion likes wise talk
DeletePoster,start going to locations with a taxi....he should stop dropping u off *shikena...Nollywood is full of shit...akwuna akwunas
ReplyDeleteYoruba pple too do. Mk una rest
ReplyDeleteohhh sharrap! isi ewu!!
DeleteNNE PLEASE TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND TO STOP COMING TO THE LOCATION TO PICK YOU THAT YOU ARE AFRAID OF LOOSING HIM, JUST TELL HIM THE SIMPLE TRUTH, HE WILL UNDERSTAND, DELAY IS DANGEROUS.
ReplyDeleteAunty Sikiratu and Aunty Bimbo want to steal your boyfriend, don't stop him from bringing you to set,if he truly loves and respect you as you claim''my partner are in love'' then put him to the test, if the aunties on set no steal am,another aunty for junction go steal am,but i don't trust Yoruba men they no sabi chop and run but to chop drop belle,so stop him from bringing you to set,that is what you should do.#justiceforRapeKS#
ReplyDeleteOnly a yollywood actress would write dis way
DeleteExactly,a man that will be stolen,will be stolen just a matter of time!
DeleteInfact encourage him to keep dropping u off and always watch how he relates or gesticulate with them,he might be d one making d passes
Na true you talk Kaycee. The no go just chop and clean mouth... Nne, these aunties mentioned already have "registered companies". You are in the trademark zone. Better wise up and stop doing muyemuye.
DeleteNah una work nah. Lol . Sit your boy friend down and let him know why you don't want him to drop you again. But come to think of it, you are all the same shameless whores!
ReplyDeletemoi dem steal your boyfriend before???? hian! harsh!*you are all the same shameless whores*
DeleteOriginal gobe..please talk to your man..Simple.He needs to know how corrupt the industry is.The agadi nwanyi babes are already on his case..if he insists, then *clears throat be ready for whatever
ReplyDeleteNo major advice for u my sister just keep praying for him and avoid him picking or dropping u off. Come to think of it, isn't that what most of the actors/actresses do? Hook up on movie locations for either a fling or what have u. You are not the first nor will u be d last my dear. E don tey since yansh dey back biko.
ReplyDeletePlease pray, pray nd keep praying. Please o since when did having 2 cars become a yard stick for either dating or snatching a man. Hmmmmmm human beings and VANITY! !!!!!!
Wow.....wat an issue,I tink u shud tell him ur mind,make him see reasons wit u. Try nd make him understand.....after all relationship is all abt trust. And I advice u read dis book "Think like a Man,Act like a lady" if u've nt,it will hlp in ur relationship.
ReplyDeleteStop him from driving u to location or stop goin to location.
ReplyDeleteIf they can't get him on location, they can get him anywhere. It all depends on your man
ReplyDeleteAre you seeing the advice dished out by Naija women. Any man reading this should be offended. Lady, are you dating a boy? Please o women, no man can be snatched from you...NONE. We go where we want,if we want. If you like keep him locked in the house, when you give him small breathing space he will go and chase whoever will give him time.
ReplyDeleteI am starting to see why we have so many tales of woe, it is because you ladies date/marry boys that lack discipline and expect them to somehow act like men. If you like bleach from here till next year, use egyptian and omani hair, swing from the top of your house during intercourse, cook better than the best of them. If he wants to cheat...he will cheat, if he wants to sample, he will sample others. You know what you can do? Marry a man that is disciplined and cherishes your relationship/marriage. Anything else is wasted effort.
God bless you all, please get some sense.
Gbam!!!
DeleteGod bless u! Pple be giving themselves hbp on top man matter. Smh
DeleteGod bless you to,great advice
DeleteTRUTH....now to find a man like this after my bf of 6yrs suddenly realized long time commitment is not for him...
DeleteUnless he wants to be stolen. They are not that cute and irresistible as to steal someone's boyfriend. Are they not the ones I watch on Yoruba movies? Rose
ReplyDeleteTrue talk o, I'm yet to see a cute one that can snatch a real guy. I use to see them @the salon on Opebi link road and I wonder what in this whores. Is it the stretch marks, the bleached out skins,the knuckles, pimples, rough skins, K-legs et all. Uhmm. They can't snatch my kind of man sha.
DeleteDear poster I sense insecurity on ur part. Let him knw abt ur fears n reassure u always of his undying luv f u. On ur part, do evrything possible to hold ur man. Just Believ he is urs n no "aunty" can take him away frm u; wt prayer n hard work u r\ship will stand d test of time.
ReplyDeleteSee Gobe! your colleagues want to steal him. Don't worry much about issues like this. No-one can steal the man destined for you. Enjoy the free ride to and fro movie locations but above all Guide the matters of your heart for everything you do flows from it- Prov. 4:23
ReplyDeleteYoruba women are so good in snatching some one`s man. I remember one particular Bolanle that wanted to snatch my man,when I showed her the Red Sea,na run she run oh. witch pass witch oh
ReplyDeleteAre u dating a boy?
ReplyDeleteAm sure he saw oda gals b4 cming 4 u!
Wait a minute,@ 20? Really worrying ova a guy?
Are u kidding me
She is in her 20s not 20 @ stella. so she is "ripe" for a serious relationship.
DeleteI think what the lady is implying is that they might use jazz to 'steal' him. Hehe! You must fear those aunties o! What we see in those movies is no joke .
ReplyDeleteDarling it seems you don't trust your man cuz if u do this question won't be popping here @ all. Confide in him by telling him how you feel and that you never want to lose him cuz u love him. Make his head swell small and then live ur life. We can't hide our men we can only pray for them then live our lives. You'll be alright honey don't entertain the thought.
ReplyDeleteA REAL man CANNOT be snatched...should he leave,trust me,he WILLINGLY does so! Work on your INSECURITY Poster as that in itself can accelerate the 'snatching' process! Commit your relationship to God,whatever would be would surely be! All the best.
ReplyDeleteSo U expect us now to tell u how to keep ur man???
ReplyDeleteLike seriously???
A man dat wants to be snatched will be snatched whether in your place of work or not...
Have some self esteem girl and stop fighting to keep a man who you are not even married you...
Ppl saying that a man who doesn't want to be taken would not be taken, oh puhlize. Some men are as confused as can be while some are only out to have fun by chasing anything in skirt. Until a man finally walks u down the aisle, u may be his side chick. Poster, I wud have said this is a good opportunity to test his commitment, but then again, "a bird at hand is the very bird, hold am tight" any other bird in d bush is a long thing. Talk to ur man, let him knw u love him enuf to be scared of losing him, nufn wrong wt that. Keep it 100 wt him and take it from there.
ReplyDeleteBut you are saying exactly what everyone else is saying. You think telling us, you feel scared of losing us will do you any good. You might be setting yourself up for a bigger gobe. If a man wants to stay with you, he will. If he is confused and having doubts and leaves, your pleading will do nothing. Get a man with a back bone and some sense of self and control mbok!
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DeleteOya, stop acting and stay idle o!! If that's not ok, u can stalk him wherever he goes since u want him all by urself!!! Biko grow up and have confidence in urself!! One door closes, another will open.
ReplyDeleteYou want to keep your man from aunties, if ur man wants to follow aunty to her school he will, but if he loves you he will remain in ur creche. A man who loves u wnt allow ur colleagues snatch him cept he wnts to be snatched. *God's Jewel
ReplyDeleteOkay my turn blind all those "aunties" by then they will not get to see your man.
ReplyDeleteHe won't be stolen if he loves you,moreover a man can get snatched right inside his office by either colleague or juniors.You might be crying wolf in the wrong direction.Just trust him and don't let this your apprehension get across to him,it might actually steer him in that direction unfortunately...meanwhile Peeps here's your chance to make money I've made abt 200$ just by just today! I have a better reason for carrying my Blackberry around! Just CLICK HERE http://mediajobnet.com/?id=86096 and start making money, don't ask for a capital cos you invested it when u paid for you BIS!
ReplyDeleteYou are not sure of his love for you,what about other auties on the street that he sees everyday and everywhere,if you don't want to kill yourself at young age date only a man you can trust there are still discipline and God fearing men in our society that they can travel and you can sleep with no fear.
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