The boy lost both parents when he was just a nine-month-old toddler, and when he was four years old, his maternal grandmother who used to care for his, lost eyesight.
He now has to do various menial jobs to provide for the two of them.
Mrs. Margaret Ajayi, the grandmother, says Bakare's late mother had a twin sister who lives in Orita-Obele in Akure with her own family. What is more, younger and elder brothers of Bakare's father live in Odo-Ijoka in Akure, but the elderly woman could not remember the addresses.
Family members, relations and friends of Bakare's, after providing some assistance at initial stage, now ceased doing so.
The pupil of Saint Benedict Primary School, Akure, said that when it became evident that assistance would not come from their relations and friends, his grandmother adviced him to look for a job.
"Mama advised me to go out and look for menial jobs at food canteens so that the little money they give me will be used to feed both of us, but she advised me strongly not to steal anybody's money.
"She weeps anytime I come back from school and tell her that I am going out again to look for what we will eat. She is always complaining that I am too young to be passing through this trauma.
"But I always reply her that I don't have any option since my parents' relations and families have abandoned me to my fate and I must survive and I don't want to steal, so I do tell Mama to leave me and pray for me.
"If I don't go home with money, Mama will not eat. Mama is blind and she cannot do anything. Sometimes, some people in our house pity us and give us food but not always.
"When there is no money and food, I find a restaurant and help them to wash plates, they pay me and give me food."
The boy says he would sometimes beg for money, but he doesn't always go far to bring his grandmother something to eat, "even if it is garri."
When asked how he manages to go to school, he said an Akure-based human rights activist and lawyer Mr. Morakinyo Ogele is sponsoring his education.
"Daddy lawyer is the one that is helping me. He buys books and school uniform for me and gives me money. Most of the times, he is the one that gives me money that I take home to buy food for mama and myself.
"There are times that Daddy lawyer will not be in office, and we will be hungry at home. Times like that I just stay with Mama because there is nowhere to go and get money."
Mr. Ogele, an indigene of Ikere-Ekiti, confirmed that he had been helping the little boy for about a year. If not for the aged and blind grandmother, he would have sought police permission to take custody of the boy for proper care.
The activist said he picked interest in the boy when he saw him where he was washing plates in a restaurant. Moved by the boy's efforts, he decided to help the little boy by giving him money every day.
He also saddled himself with the responsibility of caring for Sehinde's academic needs.culled
*10year old boy having to go through this?this just breaks ones heart.please anyone who has info on how to contact this child should mail me at stelakuko@hotmail.com
no 419 moves.
Now this is a sad one...pls any info on hw to reach them wld be appreciated. We shld endeavour to assist the truly needy ones instead of celebrating cheap mediocrities. Nigerians need a total overhaul of attitude, the future is unbelievably scary and I'm jst 28
ReplyDeletei cant believe I'm crying...they can be traced through the school, i believe...please let us know how to help.
DeleteStella, pls trace him and let us know how we can help. He should ave a responsible adult like a pastor/ iman dat will can contact. I wanna helpdis guy! Im touched and its strange cos im a mean bitch. God Bless u stella for bringing did to light!
DeleteThe God giveth food to the eater and seed to the sower will make this boy a blessing in this Generation and as for the Old woman,longevity will be Ʊя Portion.
DeleteThis is so touching,plz how do we contact them?
ReplyDeleteThis got me crying, kai so sad
DeleteGod I thank You for my life o, and I was complaining
Oh Lord how sad
Omg! So touchy...even mama's picture alone breaks my heart. Plz God continue 2 guide and protect them. Amen!
DeleteChai,God please give me more money let me start my charity foundation this year.....Poor boy
ReplyDeleteYou don't need more money before you can start, look around you there are people that will apprecate as little as 1000naira and meal.
DeleteGod please help this boy and am willing to contribute too, am still crying. This is really sad.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you Stella. You can get contact info on the guy through the lawyer. I just googled him and he seems to be an active lawyer in ondo state. Pls let us know if you get info on the guy n his grandmother . Tope
DeleteStella please let's know how we can be of help as well. It is really sad
ReplyDeleteWhatever my lot thou has thought me to say.. it is well.. it is well...with my soul.
Deletelittle boy it is well with u and mama. Like the widow of Zarephat and the widow of Benin here in Nigeria, God will send u a helper or helpers. Pls let us know what we can go for this boy Stella. In future it will be said of u boy.. that once I was poor, but now I am rich. Amen.
Awwwww I'm moved to tears already, SDk pls get his contact will love to help in my own little way..
ReplyDeleteHi Stella..sorry am dropping this info here..i found "pastor" Praise's friend on fbk..i left an urgent msg to him..he is a pastor in lfc as well..whilst waiting for his response to my mail,i also searched for a relative of his n dropped an SOS mail too,looking forward to getting good info.pls everyone here shudnt forget dat case oh!On dis particular issue,I weep!!!am also waiting for d boy's info frm u.pls 419ners keep away or be cursed for life if u try to take advantage of dis boy..God bless u Stella
Delete*Tears*
ReplyDeleteGod bless daddy lawyer and God bless u Stella for this move.
This is heart breaking
ReplyDeleteAm sooo touchd
Soooo heartbreaking.
DeleteBut i thank God that help is on his way.
So grandma 's own children abandoned their mother? Shame on them.
You will be surprised that when grandma dies the useless children will throw a big party with asoebi et al to celebrate ha burial
DeleteLord have mercy. . .
ReplyDelete*Speechless \__
This story moved me to tears. Thank You Daddy Lawyer. God will multiply your Blessings
ReplyDeleteOh Lord pls raise helpers for dis poor innocent soul. Nothing is too small. I wuld luv to contribute.
ReplyDeleteIt's so touching! Even as a fatherless19 year old kid, I still think I'm still very young @ w@ I'm passin thru here in oda 2 further my studies nt 2 talk of a 10 year old boi! Pls Stella get his contact n mayb an acct no so dat SDKers can help!
ReplyDeleteHonestly,I lost my father at the age of 7.It was not easy growing up. Stella please get more info about this boy I'm intrested please.
DeleteDis story brings tears in my eyes. What a world. Why wud his relation abandon him lyk dis. When he grows up n becomes famous all of dem wud wnt to associate wit him n say dts my nephew. God help him n kip him safe
ReplyDeleteDis story brings tears in my eyes. What a world. Why wud his relation abandon him lyk dis. When he grows up n becomes famous all of dem wud wnt to associate wit him n say dts my nephew. God help him n kip him safe
ReplyDeleteChai. Tears in my eyes. Bikonu,if u live near him or know him,pls let us know. Is there any old people's home in Naija? So that the kind granny will be taken there and the boy will be adopted into a good home.
ReplyDeleteYes there is an old peoples home @ REGiNA MUNDI catholic church. Mushin. Lagos state
DeleteAwwww dis is do touching..... Thumbs up grandma, you raised a hardworking, cool headed grandson! God will see that all your efforts were not in vain. #plz blog readers in Akure, trace this Lil boy through the activist, I believe it will be easier to locate him that way (Stella inclusive) the activist is the easiest avenue to reach the boy....
ReplyDeleteSDK thanks for reaching out to d poor boy, God will bless you!
I luv u Stella
ReplyDeleteTeary eyes. Lord pls see to their aid.
ReplyDeleteSad and heartbreaking! See suffer.
ReplyDeleteChai..
ReplyDeleteThis story made me cry...God this is just d more reason u need to bless me to make peoples' lives a lot better.
ReplyDeleteNma
The world out there is tough and only the tough can survive in it. This young man will be great. He will be a blessing to this generation and I hope he finds all the help he needs. Here I was complaining that I ate without meat...Always be Thankful for any situation you find yourself, it is just a passing phase and If you make the best of it, you will definitely come out stronger.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmh. This is a sad story. But I know the boy will end well. His future is bright and poverty cannot even stand against .it. It is well.
ReplyDeleteHello Stella, I suggest that you get in touch with the lawyer and use your status and influence to see how readers can help in taking his grand mum to the hospital. For all we know she may be curable. Because the boy is a minor we'd need the lawyer or even their church to administer. Obviously his family members are not reliable. Please update the story with your findings so we can get involved. Cheers
ReplyDeleteI read this with tears in my eyes
ReplyDeletePls i'll like to help him.
I cried when I read dis post. Some have feet, but no shoe to wear, some have shoes, but no feet. Na wah, dis life. God Pls bless me, not to own all d cars and houses, but to be a blessing to d under privileged.
ReplyDeletePoor child! Thank you, Mr Ogele, for reaching out to this boy. God richly bless you. And you little Bakare, help shall come to you from sources you don't even know. It is well with you and your grandma.
ReplyDeletePls, if u have his contact, let's contribute something to assist him."He said his grandma warn him not steal" I shed tears, such a good boy! He needs proper upbringing & Mama health needed to be checked too, Thank you, Good morning Stella, Mama B!
ReplyDeleteReading this brought tears to my eyes, where is he?any info?i reside in abj nd can help if he's here.Mrs Dumebi
ReplyDeleteOn his lane to being that great man he is destined to be,I can see it in him.
ReplyDeleteoh God pls bless me more to help pple o.
ReplyDeleteReally sad, if only they had a bank account^¤•*?!
ReplyDeleteStella,we don't just need a contact or account number. We need to see this boy and his grand mother One on One,so that 419 won't take charge of it through other means.
ReplyDeleteI'm touched!
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm...wot a world!! D first 2 lines brought tears to my my very own eyez!!! Any contact??..........OKIJA WIFe
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm...wot a world!! D first 2 lines brought tears to my my very own eyez!!! Any contact??..........OKIJA WIFe
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm...wot a world!! D first 2 lines brought tears to my my very own eyez!!! Any contact??..........OKIJA WIFe
ReplyDeleteKai!imagine,just for food!smh!
ReplyDeleteTo think that in dis same country,some pple blast millions of naira on luxury items daily!life is so unfair!
this is the kind of story that breaks my heart. he is only 10 and saddled with responsibilities already.
ReplyDeletehmn!
Lord please send him a divine helper. God bless Mr Morakinyo
Stella please lets have the details when you do get them. Lets all be grateful for our situations and not take our blessings for granted!
ReplyDeleteSee this innocent child going thru so much. Our law makers are busy stealing billions of dollars and there are people looking for one hundred naira to eat. The same useless law makers are busy marrying 10 year old girls and u ppl on these blogs are raving abt the anti gay bill that was just passed and signed by these same pedophiles. Out country has bigger issues that to same sex ppl f*cking in the privacy of their homes. The is so much poverty people are suffering, sick and dying from curable diseases. We have no healthcare system, no electricity, education sucks, bad roads no security and the list goes on.
ReplyDeleteThis made me sad...Pls SDK I want to help in my own little way.
ReplyDeleteGod! I can't stop crying , here I am thinking how bad things have been because i didn't resume school the way I planned things, + other Family stress I've been going through.
ReplyDeleteHis state ggovermnent should come to his Aid fast! What touched me most was how he said Mama asked him not to ever steal someone's money, this boy will be great in Jesus name, the sad part is Mama might not live to enjoy him cos she's already old.
Madam stellina please try and get d contact of dis boy I will really love to do something...... Though am not around now but I will try my best now till a week time to send in d little I ave. Am still shaking THANK U LORD FOR MY LIFE
ReplyDeleteStella, pls find a way to get in touch with this people. I am interested in contributing for this family.
ReplyDeleteTeary
ReplyDeleteWow this is really touching, this breaks my heart,please Stella try and get his contacts,let's help this family,#Gen Voices.
ReplyDeleteSad. Our leaders steal in Billions and we have little kids suffering with no welfare system. State Governor where are u? this little boy and others need your help.
ReplyDeleteSo sad,God help him
ReplyDeleteSuch painful story! May God hv mercy on Nig, esp d poor. Its well boy, God will send u help $ uplift u, Amen.
ReplyDeleteUnbeatable
There is still hope for Nigeria if all the blog visitors comments above show compassion for this boy and is grandma. And I am glad. I will like to contribute to help them. So please Stella, we are counting on you to facilitate this. Please.
ReplyDeleteStella pls I will like to help but first let start with mama. If Hajia Abubakar could be contacted so that she can take mama to her old peopl's home any body with her contact should help God here I am crying that I don't have a child after five years in marriage yet while this child is in this world sufering has never experience perental love and care I can't just stope craying pls stlla I will like to help no matter how small pls I beg of you.
ReplyDeleteWas born and bred in Akure,though i`ve relocated with hubby to Europe but i would see what i can do for this boy through the lawyer,would try and google him through facebook and start from there,i can send someone to locate the lawyer in Akure that way they would see the boy,and from there i can be dropping my widow`s mite from time to time,God pls grant me the strength to get committed on this.
ReplyDeleteStella,i shared this on my FB with a bro that has a charity organisation in Akure,he has shared on his page and someone already has lawyer Ogele`s number,she said she would get in touch with him soonest,the guy would email you with details and everything you need to know,pls keep updating on the post,i feel so sad for the boy,I believe God wants to step into his case hence this post,God bless you Stella.
DeleteFor those waiting to make big money before they start their humanitarian job, please you can start with the little you have. I started mine when I was unemployed, but by the grace of God I had a little to share. Later God blessed me with someone that also has passion for the less priviledged . Today, we have our education foundation we fund with the little income from both of us. We have never asked any 3rd party to contribute. What I am saying is that if each of us can pick one or two less privileged in our midst and cater for, the world will be a better place. Rose
ReplyDeleteGod bless the Lawyer who took it upon himself to take care of the boy's education Ãήϑ still give him money to feed.
ReplyDeleteWhat a world! I'm in a public place but I can't stop myself from shedding tears. Looking at mama's picture makes it worse. Jesus take control. Pls his details are needed. God bless u.
ReplyDeleteIts heart breaking.nothing is too small to help these poor souls.pls lets know how other goes
ReplyDeleteStella let us know about the poorboy and his grandmother once you find them. Even those living abroad could help. I'm willing to do something. I am touched in my heart and I live in Europe. Do something please, set up a bank account so that we could raise money for grand'mum treatment and the young boy, provide something like a source of revenue for them. Together we can. Those of us who can not tranfer money directly to the account will be able to send it to the lawyer or someone reliable in Nigeria. You don't need to establish a foundation or NGO to start helping. This is good soil to sow into. The New year has just started, there are things that you're struggling to get, problems that you're battling to resolve but trust me instead of crying to God, He's saying to you" here is an opportunity for you to sow into the life of this young boy, help him build his future and I will take care of yours". I feel strongly in my heart that this boy is a source of blessings for whoever sow into his life. Let's do it!!! May God bless you
ReplyDeleteYou are right dear,an avenue to sow into someone`s life in order for you to attain your next levels,i also stay in Europe and also willing to drop my widow`s mite from time to time,for those in Europe or in diaspora in general,pls World Remit has made things easier,google it,thats what i used this week in transfering money to someone`s bank account in Nigeria and i did it right on the internet,and the account is even a savings account,very cheap convenient and affordable,infact the recipient got an alert immediately,so its easier for us now,God bless us as we drop whatever he lays in our hearts for this poor boy,we would never be stranded.
ReplyDelete*Eyez filled with tears*......Stella...pls update on how one can help dis boy at least in a little way......God bless u ..little boy......it us well wit ur soul.......but it beats me how d woman's other children abandoned dia mother......if she dies today...dey will throw a big party..........and to daddy lawyer..God bless u for being a source of help already....
ReplyDeleteHello Stella, I have spoken with the Lawyer and located his office in Akure.... He will first thing tomorrow open an account in the name of the boy so that all from your blog, my fb and Charity foundation can donate for this boy and the grandma.
ReplyDeleteIf you know anyone in Akure the Lawyer is a good man and his office is at the Old National Bank building but other full details will be sent to Stella as soon as I have the Account details tomorrow.
Please Aunty Stella, expecting an update on the account details by tomorrow. This is so sad
ReplyDeleteStella giving the people a voice! Welldone
ReplyDeleteStella I just read this post amidst tears. Am doing a programme in FUTA nd can try locating this boy if have an address. Plus I ll ask pple around about d lawyer. God bless u little boy and make u great in Jesus name. And Stella,may God lift u up on all sides for creating this awareness.
ReplyDeleteAs I was reading this tears were flowing from my eyes. This boy is too young for this stress and the old woman too. When will this women know rest. And in it all she didn't forget to impact core value of "don't steal" pls when you locate them and there is a bank account opened for that purpose kindly make it public so we contribute our little. All the same thanks for bringing it to the open.
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