I remember that call around 5pm from that celeb telling me ''Stella,we lost Jaiye...''....I laughed and said '' na lie,which Jaiye?''.
I told my caller the Jaiye i know couldn't die,he was too nice,too good,too submissive,even as a man...he was my friend and i took the news with a pinch of salt until more calls came in....then the shock and somewhat peace......peace knowing he was free from all the drama life brings.
Its been years but i haven't forgotten Jaiye and this is the first time i will be doing him a public RIP.....every time at this time of the year when his wife STELLA DAMASUS writes a remembrance for him,i remember the friend i try to forget.
He used to tell me a lot of stuff,he used to tell me how much he loved his wife,he used to tell me i am as stubborn as she was and used to ask me why all Stella's were stubborn..lol.
Everytime i rang him he would pick and say ''Ehen wetin them say i do again abi na private call be this?''..lol
He was a care-free person and he loved life,loved the good things,loved his family with a passion.
Jaiye was there for me when i needed a friend,cant talk about the details but that man must be in heaven for his good heart.
Today as always I remember Jaiye and I WILL ALWAYS LOVE HIM..for who he was,what he stood for and believed in...A pity his candle went out too soon.
RIP Dear Friend!
*It is well Stella.
RIP Jay
ReplyDeleteimmed8ly i saw d captn,d first tin dat came 2 my mind was synergy. D first tym i hrd d song i cried coz i lngd 4 dat kinda luv. Iku ma ika o! RIP jaiye!
DeleteNow Sterra u don't come make u spoil my mood dis nyt? Dem send u? B4 I go visit ur blog I go dey pray 1st...#Alinko
DeleteSleep on Jaiye!
ReplyDeleteHe definitely must have been a very good man.
May your soul continue to rest with the lord.
He's one of the few people whose death made me cry. RIPP Jaiyejeje Omo Aboderin
DeleteThis is a very touching piece. Jaiye, continue to rest in peace even as you watch over your kids. I wonder why good people die..
ReplyDeleteAwww continue to RIP dear one! I lost my uncle a couple of weeks ago! he was the nicest person i ever met in my whole life! he wasnt sick, he just died! just like that!!! i always wonder why the nicest people go too soon!
ReplyDeleteContinue to RIP jaiye and my uncle !!
Touching!
ReplyDeleteContinue to RIP Jaiye
ReplyDeleteRIP.but that family needs to do something about their weight issue.
ReplyDeleteAll of them!
DeleteN dat was so touching.. To live in the heart of those you love never to die
ReplyDeleteRIP to jaiye aboderin
ReplyDeleteAwwww,gone to rest in d lord
ReplyDeleteAwww,Jaiye continue to rest in d bossom of our Lord.
ReplyDeleteStella you are too human to be real. Thanks for this piece. RIP Jaiye
ReplyDeleteQuite touching . Continue to rest in The Lord, Jaiye
ReplyDeleteRIP Jaiyejeje sweet man,wonder y good people die so young?? That's how NO POPO too just died yesterday
ReplyDeletei was in ss1 when i heard this sad news. i remember 'cos he died on my birthday, RIP Jaiye....
ReplyDeletein other news, today's my birthday. yaaaaa. praise the Lord on my behalf
Happpy Birthday Sweets! May God's blessings always be ur portion
DeleteMany more beautiful and fulfilling years ahead dear.
Deletehappy birthday with God 's blessings!!!
DeleteHappy Birthday. Wish you many more years in good health and sound mind. Amen
DeleteHappy Birthday, long life and prosperity in good health had sound mind. Amen
DeleteHappy Birthday. Wish you many more years in good health and sound mind. Amen
DeleteJaiye Aboderin.the gd hearted man with a milion smile.
ReplyDeleteJust like yesterday,ur demise came as a big shock..God bless ur soul.
Jaiye's death was a shock,nay,a devastating blow to all who knew him. Rest on Jay!
ReplyDeleteMay his gentle soul rest in peace...EEE!!!
ReplyDeleteWhy won't she remember a man like that? A man you cheat on 24/7 and he still stay's married to you.
ReplyDeleteActually, the piece wasn't written by that Stella Damasus. Read again...slowly.
DeleteGosh! Wat kind of person are u? Did u read the write up at all? Well, u are totally lost. Sleep on Jaiye!
DeleteDon't blame Moi...I too was confused until the last bitt before I realised it was SDK's tribute and not his wife's. Then I started to read it again to realign the message.
DeleteRIP Jaiye. Met u once in New York when u all came for a show. I remember my friend and I had wanted to meet Stella at the hotel. We met you at the corridor and we asked to see your wife. In a very subtle voice u advised that Stella was taking a nap. God rest ur soul
RIP sir
ReplyDeleteJaiye, may your gentle soul continue to rest in peace. Amen.
ReplyDeleterip jaiye.
ReplyDeleteRest In Peace.
ReplyDeleteRest in peace Jaiye!!
ReplyDeleteStella, a good heart can't take any man to heaven, Ones disobedience(Unbelief in Our Saviour Jesus Christ) does!!
Disobedience (Unbelief in Jesus Christ) takes one to heaven??? I either don't understand ur comment OR u must be really demented.
DeleteYou are satan and I bind u
DeleteErrrrnnn excuse u??????? Wetin this person dey talk oo. Hian
Deletemay his soul continue to rest in peace, amen.
ReplyDeleteAnon #27 you are the most stupid human being that ever walked the surface of this earth. Why do you people think you must comment on every post. This lady is just remembering her dead dear friend. And that what you could say? You better ask God for forgiveness. RIP Jaiye
ReplyDeletethanks dear
ReplyDeleteThey were such a beautiful couple heard he died of HBP
ReplyDeleteContinue to RIP jaiye!
ReplyDeleteI was going to skip this because I thought it Stella Damasus Aboderin Nzeribe Ademinokan's annual pretence but Im glad I did.
ReplyDeleteThanks Stella. Continue to rest in peace Jaiyejeje.
Haba, how many surnames she get?!you SDKers ehn...
DeleteMiss G..
see as you list all her names. na wa for you people. wetin concern you
Deleterip jaiye
ReplyDeleteI will not abuse ur wife today..bcos of ur memorial
@stella damasus.......morn well
@Galore
@galore ur just stupid
DeleteContinue to rest in peace,Jaiye Aboderin.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 9:16 thunder fire that your stupid mouth.....idiot what presence are u talking about? Did they tell you she killed him or is there a law that says she should not marry cos Jaime died? Stupid fool, she loved Jaime and regardless of what fools like u think she can remember him as she likes.......and you galore what insult do you want to give her. At least she is better than you glorified prostitute....jobless old hag with an anus you call a mouth....ass wipe
ReplyDeleteStella easy ooo...Go and mourn ur husband and stop responding.
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