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i met this Amazing guy recently,he's a soldier actually but he has the qualities every woman wants in her man. …kind,humble,caring,understanding.... etc.
i met him and discovered he's not really the church going type(he's a catholic) but cos of the d feelings we had for each other i was able to lure him to mine and he started attending service normal. Now Stella i have a problem (i am 20yrs old) for the past two weeks not a call nor sms from him and i didnt bother to call him cos i was suspecting something was not right.
i got info from sources close to him that my pastor talked him into marrying his relative and to leave me that i am too young and need to study further. (can you imagine)
he's confused and doesn't know what to do cos he really loves me but since this one is coming from a prophetic pastor he's confused. Stella i love this guy,he's okay as in not so Rich but at 26 he's living very comfortable,i love this guy a lot.
he's been to my family and we've come a long way. hmmm Stella do you know that sometime last week this same pastor called me and told me that he saw a vision where men are flocking around like flies but that there's one who is at the corner who came for deceit.
hmmmm As in am going crazy, i just got to balance the equation from what his friend just told me recently.
Now the question is what do i do Stella? do i call him and ask him about this or just keep calm and watch. OR do i confront my pastor to tell him i know what is going on???. please i just need someone to help me in this cos am going crazy.
No one should cuss me out please i just need help and please pardon any errors . God bless you all!
*BLOG VISITORS OVER TO YOU,I AM LOST FOR WORDS..BUT PLEASE DO NOT CUSS HER OUT,SHE NEEDS SERIOUS ADVICE....NA WAH!
1st 2 comment!!!side eyes**
ReplyDeleteTake him back to his catholic church atleast the rev father would not tell you anything concerning visions
DeleteJust tell him that your pastor is fake cus he must really be fake to be fixing ppl up
Run away from your church or attend another branch of the church
You are really young but if its meant to be then run away from your pastor
How did your pastor even get his number...because of your ajayi abi
Babe, gaan buy 'camoflag', n enter bus to somalia.
DeleteU no weda d guy dey fite war for anoda country.
On a serious note, I doubt if u no wat it means to be in rltnshp wit a soldier.
Do u want to be a nomadic lover?
@pink shell: u just killed me. "Nomadic lover'
Delete@pink shell its some1 that will marry them nah,my guys is also one but its not all of them that do field ish,@poster I tink you shld ask your guy bout it since u said u guys really love each oda
Delete@ pink shell very on point ! Take from some who has been there and is there they are the worst pple to go out with. You never see them after sometime na you go waka with your leg. Anyways flee from that pastor he is no good. May God help you know and do what's right
DeleteBack 2 d mata! My dear, if now dat U̶̲̥̅̊ guys aren't married n he listens 2 advices frm al n sundry only 2 give U̶̲̥̅̊ dis emotional stress U̶̲̥̅̊ presently goin tru, I wonder wot he wil do wen U̶̲̥̅̊ guys get married n a frenemy tells a lie against U̶̲̥̅̊ ? Well, since U̶̲̥̅̊ guys have com a longway, I suggest U̶̲̥̅̊ cal him 4 a heart2heart talk n U̶̲̥̅̊ decide afterwrds!!! Gudluck.
ReplyDeleteBukola eleyin alias personal federal government, please remove sexy from your name jare
DeleteExactly! U are so unsexy,u even looked dirty,I'm ur p stinks,sexy kor
DeleteLMAO....why?
DeleteNa now i just dey realize say na bukola be this name oh!
DeleteAbeg stop d cussing,bukola is pretty and her skin has a healthy natural glow.
DeleteShurrup dia @ anon 11:10what's pretty about her?
DeletePlease leave my brown sister alone, #bullies#.. Back to the question, lady please let him go if he wants to, dont force him to be with you, men like that will go to their pastor for permission to sleep with you...
DeleteLinda hope u r not using tru anon to cuss bukola
DeleteY u all so pained..whether is bukola oo or boocallher or callherboo leave t lyk dat 4 her...nd 4 her skin,ur type of comment is d reason y dencia had d reason 2 call her cream line whitenious...bleachy bleachy ppl...kimora
Delete=)) =))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º=)).....my fellow sdker's, pls fashy dis yeye anons cos dey aint in existence!!! 4 d records, no1, I min no 1 can bully me cos if U̶̲̥̅̊ know me, hehehehehe, U̶̲̥̅̊ go FEAR!!!
Delete.... and that brings me to ask the one penny question sonotsexybootycall calling herself sexyboocalher who the freaking hell are you? Feeling funky innit? All thanks to SDK for your one second of fame. Oshi o da! Tu e kelebe!
Delete@anon 4:23 that's what I noticed bout sdk's blog,anytime she gives a shout out 2 'em,in thr minds they assume they're some kind of celeb,notsosecybukola sef is forming here,gtfoh ur 1 min of fame has expired
DeleteUr bf didn't call n u didn't bother to call him?dats wrong...if u continue to wait n watch,u'l finally lose him to d pastor n his cousin.it's better u act fast n claim ur guy...I think u also need to change ur church...ur pastor is full of deceit
ReplyDeleteThat's my bae!..
DeleteHey poster,call him to get things right and change your church or u pray @ home...
Hi bitchplis..
Aramide
Hi Aramide,happy sunday n have a wonderful month ahead
DeleteBukola, na wa for u oh, olodo! Yes, you! Sexyboocalher! Mschew!
ReplyDeleteLMAO.....u r very funny!
DeleteU sound lik a regular blog visitor though,, btw, dis is somethin u cud easily call d guy in question nd verify first hand.! All dis churches and dia abracadabra. & pls yu don't have to be confused or childish abt dis, cos ur attitude wil go a long way in affectin d outcom of dis, try be exact and firm dia's nothin confusing abt dis, ur pastor wants to device a devious means to rob you off ur future husband, try talk to ur guy ok? You can even convince him to leave d church nd d "pastor"..odiegwu
ReplyDeleteMy dear, better call him and tell him what the pastor told you, atleast by so doin he'd be able to figure the whole thing out...its a simple thing, and please can u stop goin to that church/branch??
ReplyDeleteThen again...dnt be decieved shaa by the Soldier's calm nature...most of 'em are wolfs, when they start hammering u, u'l think they just got possessed but NO.That's just their nature.
Dats a terrible lie. Am married to d best man on earthloving, caring, humble. D best hubby n father anyone culdnt for. Meets my needs b4 i even ask n he's a soldier. Plus most his friends r d same. So pls dnt genralize cos if u do my amazing hubby will be included
DeleteJust take evertin in to prayer
ReplyDeleteEewwwwwoooooo ..... Tell d pastor dat u want 2 give a testimony on sunday & den wen u come on d altar u tell d congregration bout what d pastor did 2 u & how he made ur bf leave u 4 his cousin , by talking him out of his relationship with u ... In his life he would never mess with anybody again , let d congregration know dat he is a wicked man ... But before u do dis , make sure u confront ur boyfriend & d pastor , & if its true then act like its nothing & den humilate d preacher by doing what I have suggested & also let ur bf know dat he is a fake & btw a real man never leaves his woman 4 another , so he is not worth fighting 4 except he has been jazzed by dat fake pastor & also be very prayerfull .... All d best & don't 4get if u humilate him , its gonna save others 4rm his wickedness
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteMadam Ruth abokoku (i must die with man).
DeleteDebo debo, dis kind advice for a 'RECENT' BF.
I fear u oo.
Abeg no dey call my name @ Pinkshell......lolzzz....
DeleteDebo ds ur advc strong oooo......plz derz no need 4 dat,she shud jst confront d guy n explain tins 2 him...... if truly he s hers den he'll come back if not she shud move on! She'll findsom1 better....Gudluck
Your pastor na wayo..il set him up n treat his fuck up
ReplyDeleteI wonder why you posters have a problem talking to someone you claim you are in a relationship with!
ReplyDeleteYou didnt hear from him for longer than usual, instead of you to call him and find out what's up, you are searching for information in unlikely places.
Why are you speaking for him? If it's true that your pastor asked him to dump you just because of your age, shouldn't he tell you and then the 2 of you agree on an action plan?
Have a meeting with him, ask him outright about the allegations about the pastor. His response will show his sincerity or otherwise. If he's no longer interested in you, move on please.
All these churches sef! Many have been misled by fake prophets.
Foul Play! He claims to love you yet after receiving this *prophesy* from pastor *Isiah* he switched off. And the evidence of the prophesy is nothing but word-of-mouth; your boyfriend's mouth. Second *prophesy* from this pastor portrays you as some sort of seductress who will fall into the wrong hands later. Hmmmmmm... Foul play girl, unless there's more to this story? Better call soldier boy, sit him down and have serious talks with him. He must have been attracted to Pastor's cousin and Pastor *Isiah* is playing to the gallery, using his *prophesy* to you to paint your boyfriend as a mistake. Act NOW! Be Blessed.
ReplyDeleteMemphis, am fightin wit u. And its already a seasonal fim. Season 1 episode 1 just started today. Neither Victoria nor Winifred will be able to settle it 4 us.
DeletePhrinkies, tell Tony your grievance with me so we can settle up man-man. Hehehe.
DeleteHmmmmmm. LOL.
DeleteDear poster, pls dnt stay idle o! Call Ɣ☺ΰя man and have a heart †̥ heart talk with him before e go enter voicemail ☺º°˚˚°º
ReplyDeleteLeave Men and face your studies and career at least for now. You're way too young for this kind of desperate. Every relationship shouldn't end in marriage. Some are expected to end with some lessons! The pastor may think he's doing you bad but for me it's good because I can see better husbands lined up in your way if only you will let go of this soldier.
ReplyDeleteIfeanyi stfu up......dirty night bus fingering pig
DeleteLmao @anon. How come everything someone says on this blog is later used against one in another post and how come you guys don't forget those stuffs. Ifeanyi the fingering pig, Linda eze with the smelling mouth husband, bukola eleyin.etc. Guys forgive n forget. Lol
DeleteAnon. 8:41
DeleteTaa gba fuo!
Ifeanyi biko go siddon for gutter....u don wash ur hand since you finger d girl finish?
DeleteLmsao! Don. Davido I wonder how dey don't 4get hahaha serzly hahaha'ing!
Delete-Are you ready to settle down at twenty?
ReplyDelete-what kind of church is that where prophets/pastors fix partners?
You are too young for a thing like this at just twenty. Stay focused on your education to add value to yourself, except if you would be comfortable being a full house wife. Your own resolution to succeed is more impoprtant than any one thing-Abraham Lincoln.
Marry this dude now and you will probably become a slave in his home and would come back here to complain of domestic violence. IF HE is GOING TO BE YOURS, NOT EVEN THE DEVIL CAN SNATCH HIM AWAY FROM YOU! There are more important things to be done than to be hustling after a guy at twenty, you are still young and in your prime.
Paragon7ven.
1000 likes! Girls are too desperate these days. Another case of child not bride but this time around the child consents to it. My sympathy remains wit the poster.
DeleteShe's not too young ma,allow her to marry not to be doin runz like u,and praying for life partner at d end
DeleteAre you her pastor? Y evils? Ppl marry at 17 and r end up happy, it's not Abt age, it's Abt favour from d lord
Delete.....yall nid to kip up
Allow her marry o , age doesn't define maturity as hv seen a very foolish single 40yrs lady. To each its own ,some families marry very early so don't come here nd say wat u don't know.
Delete-Are you ready to settle down at twenty?
ReplyDelete-what kind of church is that where prophets/pastors fix partners?
You are too young for a thing like this at just twenty. Stay focused on your education to add value to yourself, except if you would be comfortable being a full house wife. Your own resolution to succeed is more impoprtant than any one thing-Abraham Lincoln.
Marry this dude now and you will probably become a slave in his home and would come back here to complain of domestic violence. IF HE is GOING TO BE YOURS, NOT EVEN THE DEVIL CAN SNATCH HIM AWAY FROM YOU! There are more important things to be done than to be hustling after a guy at twenty, you are still young and in your prime.
Paragon7ven.
U ignorantly said he is not the church going type simply bcos he is CATHOLIC!!
ReplyDeleteSuch a silly/naive statement!!
Now dat u hav lured him 2 b d 'church going type' in ur supposedly 'superior' church...
Wat hav u benefitted from it??
Instead if u 2 b content in his spiritual status, u decided 2 push him 2 a church wr d pastor is obviously QUACK!!
Ur ignorance bit u in d ass me luv!!
U meant 2 snidely criticise d Catholic church believing no1 wud notice ehhh!!
Well u r 20...wat do I expect!!
Now carry d cross ur 'better' church has given u!!
*kmt*
Billie jean
Hehehehehehehe. I love this. Best comment IMO
DeleteHahahahahaha! Chop knuckle Abeg
DeleteYour comment is the best! Mumu girl so being Catholic is not christian Enof for u okwa ya.. he must marry your pastor's cousin so u will learn a bitter lesson.. And stop going to all these fake prophets..
DeleteHehehehheeeeee all dis road side churches 4 ur mind ur lured him into comin to ur church, my dear he isn't confused he's just wondering wat u dragged him into, I'm sure that wouldn't hv happened in his cath church. All dis pastors telling pple who to marry or not. Wat did u hear from God. Thank God 4 my pastor o she always says ur the 1st prophet of ur life, so b4 u digest anytin uve heard it b4 frm God.
ReplyDeleteBabe, you are just twenty and worrying yourself like this. Trust me, you'll meet better guys as you grow older and wiser.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, a girl at 20 rilly nids to focus more on education and herself than getting married
ReplyDeleteSecondly, you really need to be careful of that church you attend
Finally, once again, focus more on urself than killing urself over a man, marriage and all that stuff u shldnt be killing urself over
Plz go and see him to find out wat is rily hapening,if u had allowed him remain in his catholic faith, such wouldn't have befall on you,all of you goin to young chuches for miracles am sure u got a big one.babe if a man is ready to marry u@20 u bter get married and stop listening to peeps sayn your too young,that's what they would say to you til u get old and start praying for life partner.
ReplyDeleteAbi o
DeleteDint omotola marry @ 18 abi 19
Just marry someone who cares about you
They would tell you not to marry and the next thing collect your boyfriend from you
Marry oo
Atleast sin go reduce for your head
Please face your life. Don't call your boyfriend, If he has anything to say to you, he will call. You are wayyyy too young to be worried about whom the guy wants to marry. You should be more concerned about enjoying your youth mbok. As a matter of fact, please don't marry until you have a job and a little more matured. #talking from experience#
ReplyDeletePoster,you are still very young for marriage....leave that guy mehn...focus on your education first....if he is yours,he will surely come back...
ReplyDeleteNa wa o... Y d heck is he a soldier?soldiers are supposed 2 b authoritative, courageous and responsible! Have a heart-to-heart with him, and remember not 2 allow ur emotions get in d way!#doctorbobby
ReplyDeleteSame thing happend to me I meet a guy 8 months bk on a blog n we fall in love n he decided to come get me from SA n I relocated with him to ibadan everything was great until I started attending his church . My dear pastor won't leave me alone ooo ! N his coursing fyts between me n femi m currently working in nigeria a great job n my man is not working his now under pressure n the stress is evn affecting out sexual life I dnt know what to do next bt for now I went to pastor n told him shit thn he threatn me that if I dnt bcom his own he will he forced to use holy water on me becouse god choose me for him
ReplyDeleteWetin be this?
DeleteRewrite ur comment in yoruba,igbo or pidgin english maybe som1 might understand wat u r saying
DeleteHahahahaha lwkmdoooooo!...EEE!!!
DeleteWorris this? Rlmfao hahahahaha....somebody pls dial 911
Deletethough u still very young but dat doesn't gives ur pastor d right to fix ur bf for his cousin. Call ur guy my dear question him and see was gonna b his answers,no one can snatch him away from u if it's truely urs for now FACEBOOK!
ReplyDeleteMadam this is to show that Ɣ☺u like all this prophets that prophecy per day and per minutes. Seek God and forget all this. Your guy has started enjoying the prophecy so get ready for more prophecy, if Ɣ☺u can't leave the church stay for more prophecies Ɣ☺u hear.
ReplyDeleteadd value to yourself.....
ReplyDeleteDo the things of GOD
Seek the kingdom of GOD
Have a discerning spirit
Commit your ways into GOD hands
Everything will fall in it's rightful position
It shall be well with you
@Galore
Is that how you just barge in without greeting?
DeleteWhere's the "hi"?
Lol@anon 11:05 jus made me spill drink on my top,@galore oya say hi
DeleteKikikikikikikikiki! Iya @galore greet.
DeleteHmm, are u ready for Marriage?is the guy ready? Do u think ur Pastor is genuine,(I mean before now)? I can't advise u cos I don't know these things Sorry, but personally I think its too early for u to stress urself about these at ur age.
ReplyDeletePS: how do u love someone and not hear from them for 2wks? How do u people do it pls? Just asking cos I can't unless I don't love u or I've already moved on.2wks??
@Anon 9:11am.......
ReplyDeletePls,,leave that church immediately...any pastor that loves fornication is not a true man of GOD
You all shud stop going to all ds newly opened penticostal churches,,,most of dem preaches what GOD did not send dem
Imagine oo
Pls,,stay in ur house....tune ur rado to inspiratnfm..92.3.....listen to live message from d throne of grace...
Must u go to church to seek GOD face?
Abeggi,,,,attend Redeem church instead or deeper life...ds two churches can never lead you astray
@Galore
My friend I tried m not a nigerian so the list I can do to show respect to my bf is attend church with him whn m thr you will c the pastrotalking to my man in yoruba. All I hear is my man begging him n saying mi o le waku. M so confused
DeleteOr even christ Embassy...giving your life a meaning.
Deletestay in catholic church.....#best advice
Deletestay in catholic church.....#best advice
Delete@ 20 u should be thinking of how to add value to your life, by way of sound education...not lusting after a man...get your priorities right my dear
ReplyDeleteNo problem here at all.
ReplyDeleteThe only problem is that you no get respect. Really saying "Stella can you imagine" @ 20! Small rat!
LoL!
DeleteNice one dear thumbs up
DeleteAt 20 you don't need all this stress, have pastors become match makers??? Nigerian Pastors sha!!! 2 weeks he has not called or text you and you say he is in love with you??? Stop fooling yourself because he is not that into you.
ReplyDeleteI don't trust your pastor.. So msny fake pastors in the world now
ReplyDeleteUr pastor mst hav said something negative about u to d guy, claiming he saw vision, jst like he did to u
ReplyDeleteThis mail tho....you've not talked to eachother recently and you said he is confused; how do you know he is confused? You feel he is or he told you? If I may ask, has he asked you to marry him? Or you feel you know what's on his mind? At 20, you've not told us if you are a student, a graduate, self employed etc. If you are a student, I hope this marriage thought is not a fall out of the strike? That's if you in a government owned institution? No pun intended.
ReplyDeleteSweetie, marriage isn't bf and gf, its a life long commitment we must not jump into. I feel you are still quite young to start thinking marriage.
As for the pastor, its not everybody that says "the Lord sent me" that is sent, the bible says try every spirit.
You need to stop assuming/thinking for the dude, talk to him. Stop doing first to talk, its childish.
Finally, stop looking at the "relationship" through rose tinted glasses, wake up to reality and remember marriage is not an end, but the means to an end.
All the best.
Pray 4 God's intervention..Stella she needs serious ADVICE not ADVISE, ADVICE-noun while ADVISE-verb.God bless u for ur good works.
ReplyDeleteEngris ti-sir thank you,i have corrected it.
ReplyDeletemwaaah
I'm sooo wit Billie Jean on dis one wat an ignorant way to talk dear poster!
ReplyDeleteNever u try luring ur bf or gf to any church.look at u so proud to mention " catholic" why didn't u mention dt ur church's name.20yrs ur an adult but u stil hv 2 get matured wen it come 2 marriage. U bf can decide 2 attend ur church n even wed u in ur church but is just matter of time ,all those things about church are not even the priority in marriage.just beware of false prophet n prophetist they use familar spirit to do their work calling Jesus 2 deceive ppl.mind u the word of God says "my people perish for lack of knowledge"thy claim to be pastor but all thy do is to put fear in ppl n destroy their future even some marriages, families, relationship are in such bondage.
ReplyDeletePoster, you do not have a boyfriend in that guy. 2weeks n he hasn't called? That's not a relationship, stop deluding yourself. I suggest you leave that church ASAP! Meanwhile sow ur wild oats now you'll need d memories later...EEE!!!
ReplyDeleteMy own be say na flash God flash some of this pastors they come dey claim say God call em.
ReplyDelete@poster ntooooo atink u carry church for head? Now see what it has cost u.
This and other reasons is why I don't attend I all this mushroom churches where their pastors have time to meddle into people's affairs......plus all this yeye people that r always looking for who will prophecy for em, worshipping mamas n papas in the lord, you all should better open ur eyes.
That's why I love my church nobody dey notice anbody coz we too plenty.
Dear Poster,
ReplyDeleteif you really love this soul-ja boy, the first thing you ought to do is give him a call or better still, see him and have a long talk with him. from his response/body language/attitude...you can decide if he has changed and his feelings towards you has diminished...thus, dust your slippers, wear it, stand up and say to him "it was beautiful while it lasted"
move on.....painful as it may be, you will only hurt for a while and then heal....you got your life ahead of you
Next is LEAVE THAT "CHURCH"!
Apparently the pastor is no good.
Pastors
ReplyDeleteNa wa,ur phone dey forbid to dail his number?
ReplyDeletemy pastor told me that having a boyfriend is a sin because boyfriends/girlfriends are all sin partners. So leave your sin partner alone and concentrate with your studies. God would definitely find the right man for you effortlessly that would be yours and marry you. Please make una no attack me oo
ReplyDeletehello Poster, you would make this first time, i am posting on this blog. you claimed you wantedto make him a church goer as he is not a church goer because he is catholic? very funny what do you know about catholicism sef, been a church goer isnt tied to paricular denimionation my dear, that said, i think they just made him a better church goer for you shikena..........My advice is just for you to just see how to confront him and sort this out ASAP
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