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Monday, December 23, 2013

Lover Leaves You Stranded At The Marriage Registry For The 6th TIME?What Would You Do?






The above question is the million dollar question ….how can a man who claims to love you,leave you stranded at the marriage registry, not once, not twice, not thrice...but, 4, 5, 6 freaking times? 


What kind of a man would do that to someone he professed to love above all others especially more than the whole world? Imagine the preparations that must have gone towards the day, imagine the shock of getting to the venue and then it gets to your turn and your names are called repeatedly to step forward and take the vow but you are there and he is not!
 Imagine the shock that would be on the faces of the witnesses that must have gone to the registry with you, just imagine how shocked the parents would be if out of joy they had thought to go witness their child getting hooked…..oh,the  sheer embarrassment of it all. 

Let's give you a clearer perspective to ponder on. ……

Imagine you have dated your so called heartthrob all of 10  years plus. Main reason you had stayed that long must have been because you had an end in sight, you thought that at the end of it all, he would make a good woman out of you and give you his name.......MRS SOMEBODY.

You had over the years gladly accepted abuses and all sorts of insults. The other reason could be that having gone through ten years  plus together and having seen it all, you tthought to yourself
''what more storm can we not weather together. It surely must be love''

The sheer madness to crown the insult is that he does not appear at the registry for the 6th time counting..even after the family introductions.
What could you be doing wrong to warrant such humiliation?
Why does he keep getting cold feet and why do you keep going back after each humiliation?

Six times?hell no!!!
If  you were the lady, what would you have done? 

Remember this is a true story which was culled and rewritten from Maestromedia


*This can or could have happened to so many ladies out there so do not come here cussing anyone out,just give your responses to help someone who might go or be going through this..remember that ladies should give each other diva strength....*wink*



86 comments:

  1. Only DESPERATION can lead a lady this far.

    What da hell?

    Embarrassment for the sixth time???? Gross!

    Happiness comes from within, not from men. Love yourself more....and love from others will find you.

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    1. 6 times ke? D lady should take a walk after being left stranded the first time or @ most the 2nd time

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    2. This looks and sounds like Toke's story...

      *I no fit do am oo

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    3. Orisirishi!! Dats jst wastin ur precious time with d fool..

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    4. Joooorr oo! This one na ishe aiye.. Nobody deserves this, even if she's the ugliest woman on planet earth..

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    5. I'll simply shoot him!! WTF

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    6. 6th tym? Lol r u kiddinq me? Wasn't d 1st tym enuf? I won't even give u dat chance. Naaaaa. I date u brk no gree reconcile sef let alone marriage... I no b dog I don't throw up n go back 2 it. Its not goin 2 happen. Lie lie

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    7. 6th tym? Lol r u kiddinq me? Wasn't d 1st tym enuf? I won't even give u dat chance. Naaaaa. I date u brk no gree reconcile sef let alone marriage... I no b dog I don't throw up n go back 2 it. Its not goin 2 happen. Lie lie

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    1. Now that's just mean!!! Haba

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    2. U have not even ask yourself, u want to ask toke. If u were in toke's shoes, by now we will be reading your suicide story everywhere.

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    3. Anon 11:41. LIKE.....RETWEET

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    4. All these anonymous haters,swear you didn't reason Toke first.
      Mtcheeww

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    5. Sum of u r juz so full of shits

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  3. That woman must be extremely desperate....a relationship must not end in marriage.nowadays,most men don't marry their girlfriends....DUMP his silly ass if you have dated him for more than 2years and no ring to show for it...

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    1. Who do men marry then if it isn't their girlfriends? Rachet? One night stand? I'm a bit confused dear.

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  4. aunt stella,dat kind of guy doesnt love me!if he has a phobia for commitmnt or anyoda psychological reason why he cannot commit wt me,den i deserve a heart to heart talk wt him on why he seems to shy away at d last min all d tym.true love lets u bare yourself to ur partner.i wont evn let a guy make me his second-best let alone standing me up 6 freaking tyms at d altar.my dear lady,hueva u are just move on.he just myt b blocking ur real better half.*myopinion*

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  5. I'll jst hav 2 walk out on him n face God!
    Shit happens.....dust urslf up n move on,wit God all tins re possible!!

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  6. Hian! S-T-E-L-L-A! I hope this is not what I'm suspecting. ...now activating my voltron mood.

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  7. 6 times? Are u a learner?

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  8. In the first place, why would a woman wait until she's humiliated for the sixth time before realising the man is just a bloody time waster? There are lots of them around and women need to really shine their eyes. For crying out loud, what am I looking for, dating a man for 10 years plus. It took God just 7 days to create the earth and its inhabitants. Any woman who allows a man to waste her time, na you sabi o. Trust me, men know whether a woman is marriageable within 6 months of meeting her...

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  9. Lolz...stella of laif....d persin u spik about is TOKE nd er ex boo Maje

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  10. IT IS SIMPLE! DON'T BE ANGRY, JUST SLEEP IN HIS PLACE ON THE NIGHT BEFORE THE WEDDING, AND YOU GUYS COME TOGETHER THE FOLLOWING MORNING TO THE MARRIAGE REGISTRY.

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    1. My dear it is not worth it, why would anyone drag a full grown man like a goat to a tether, just to get him married, this is wat some other guys do excitedly while worshipping the woman, courting10 years is a no no, I won't be surprised if the same guy Mets n marries a complete stranger in six month. Ladies dis is wat U get wen U allow people over use U.

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    2. This sounds like Ifeanyi Obiagwu. Bros na u?

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  11. I don't believe that can ever happen, did you say 6 times???? Is once not enough? if this has ever happened then the two are sick and in need of a psychiatrist!

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  12. Na wa o.y wait till d sixth time.is that luv or wut.their is smethin called MOVE ON.for a guy 2 do that to a gal showz his absolutely not ok.he eventually marries u and make life miserable for u.

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  13. like seriously? WTF???????? 6times????? that girl must be under some kind of spell or something, i mean no sane person will accept this d 2nd or 3rd time let alone d 6th time. have never heard of that b4 oh! that foolish guy is a wicked, indecisive & heartless being & should be avoided. geeeez!!!

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  14. After the first 'rejection',God forbid that I continue the relationship. The shame and embarrassment before my family and friends will be too much. If a lady allows the 'rejection' 6 times, she must be a sadist, I won't blame d man anymore.

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  15. Obob dem no swear for me na! The issue is simple sef, d man does not want to get married at all, at least not to dis particular lady, d first time I can understand but after six times, d family of d girl should bundle her to a church and ask for serious deliveance becos dat relationship will not end up with d both of dem getting married at all so she really needs prayers to open her eyes.. lady read d writing on d wall abeg, oga no wan marry u, finish!!!!

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  16. If any guy does dat to me for d first and second tym, I won't even wait 4 it to happen d third tym. I will just dump his sorry ass. Which kind of luv is dat....

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    1. Æ”☺ΰ don't talk about Tony again y? Hope all is well between U̶̲̥̅̊ two.

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  17. Madam Stella, I Was wondering when you will bring this gist here. Lol. Toke dearie, you really suffered sha....

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    1. I suspected it must be Toke, but I thought, Toke can't be that foolish na. I hope Ayida knows no woman would ever take him serious, at least the sensible ones. He is a wicked man.. Why lead a woman for that long?? Toke, you sef, why allow yourself to be led on that long? Self esteem issues.

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    2. @oluyomi,U just assumed it's toke n u'v concluded it's her...na wah for u o...I tink say dem say u be journalist,,,na so journalism be now?

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    3. Ok I was Toke's voltron till I saw this. I mean, with all the relationship advice? How could she let a man do this. Wow! But it really still shows how strong and weak she is. For me, the 1st time was enough, considering all the arrangements that goes into such process. You knew you won't come, so why lead me and my family on? There's nothing in this world that would make me go back to such a man. Except he couldn't make it cuz he died! Hmmmm

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  18. Any lady that allows herself to be left sranded at the registry 6 good times by the same man has serious low self esteem, I'm sorry to say that. What the heck? 6 times? Are you kidding me?
    I can tolorate it only once, by the time the 2nd one happens, then that is it! Its over! I will drop him like its hot.
    What? I can deal please. Still can't imagine the humiliation some women go through just because they want to be Mrs. Please dear women love and respect yourself first.

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  19. Oh such an heartless man. My dear, forget the idiot and move on with your life. It is never too late to Love again!
    There is Love after Love.
    Now get up,wipe your tears,get rid of anything that wld make you remember the motherfucker.
    Hang out with friends
    Visits blogs,read d funny comments and laugh out loud like a mad woman.
    Be strong and enjoy your life!

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  20. Oh such an heartless man. My dear, forget the idiot and move on with your life. It is never too late to Love again!
    There is Love after Love.
    Now get up,wipe your tears,get rid of anything that wld make you remember the motherfucker.
    Hang out with friends
    Visits blogs,read d funny comments and laugh out loud like a mad woman.
    Be strong and enjoy your life!

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  21. sneak into his home when no one is around. Then imma poison his coffee. a healthy rich dose that will kill me slowly but surely. Thunder fire him there idiot.

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    1. You see how you want to kill yourself? Hian! That's how u will kill yourself! Pls read your comment again madam poison expert.

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    2. Leona you mis wrote or mis yan.

      Go and sleep from all your overtime biko.

      Night shift nursing is a brain fuckress.

      Mbok that!

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    3. Rili cant stop laffin on ds blog...dont kill yourself madam !!!

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    4. Please don't kill your self Leona. It's not worth it.

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  22. It's either u leave home together or u move on...life is too short to be unhappy*hugs

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  23. What Kind of lady goes to the registry 6 times for such a man? That should be the appropriate question! Ladies we need to learn. Lemme share my story and I dated a guy for 6years he treated me like trash always accused me of dating and sleeping with every guy I spoke with he distracted and killed my academics any time I had exams he came up with one quarell and destroyed me emotionally I graduated with a 2.2 because of him he told me nobody else will ever Love me they just want to sleep with me I met him when I was 17 he used me I gave. This man all my time all my sweat my life! All he did was trash my self esteem cheated on me severally, he's chicks will call and insult me it got to a point I became the side chic! Why did I stay for 6yrs? I knew no better he brainwashed me of the idea of men making me believe he was the best man I could get so I stayed because "the devil I know is better than the angel I didn't " but then I sat down and thought how can a devil ever be better than an angel? And that was how I took my chances! I met a guy at first I thought he just wanted my goodies so I told him no sex till marriage to scare him off! He didn't go this man has shocked me with Love everyday of my life at first I thought he was pretending but slowly I understood this is what Love should be! I can't describe what my fiance does for me! Yes he's my fiance in 6months he put a ring on it! We're tying the knot in 5months this man changed my whole life I look at him and cry I'm the most beautiful girl in the world to him! He drives 4hrs across 3 states just to take me to see the movies I can't list what this man does for me. Bottom line women stay in situations as the above because of no self worth they've been damaged afraid of what's out there I was there I understand! If You're in such a situation girl leave the loser love Yourself know what You want and go for it! If at first You don't succeed try try try again! Sorry for the long episode but I hope I talked to someone.

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    1. Awwww happy for u darl and Yea u talked to me

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    2. Congrats girlfriend, wish u a great life together. U deserve it!

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    3. U definitely did.

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    4. I'm so happy for u,ur story made me smile and gave me hope,though I've not been abused by any guy b4,but I've been single for way to long and d wrong guys keep coming.to the poster smh for u,are u a learner.6 TIMES!!!

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    5. Naïve girls, yes.

      Toke is too exposed for this shit. Marrying a pedigree by force made her desperate.

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    6. I'm happy for you.

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    7. Happy for you poster? But can same apply to a married woman wit kids. Married but d man does all or ex did above??? Can a single mom find such selfless love?

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    8. Am so so happy 4 u; Some men are just pathetic 'feeling like God's gift to u' acting like u should be grateful to them 4 dating u, saying others guys will sleep with u and leave..........but the deep down these men are actually the ones with the low self esteem cos they only feel better by bullying and making women feel worthless.

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  24. Lmao toke don suffer 4 9ja I swear

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  25. that is spiritual, sheer stupidityy and madness!
    Alotta girls are just too stupid!
    God have mercy cuz der are too manmy lost souls!
    How wud u stay with a bastard for 10yrs, are u as stupid as toke?
    Puhlease!
    U give love my dear, u cannot force it back!
    If sm1 loves u dey love u! No clause to that!
    Women need to stop doing things for marriage in a stupid relationship!
    How wud u expect a nigga to wife u?
    Afta all d fucking? Kooking and shit?
    Abeg! Stay der der wait until u old!
    Look for sm1 gud that respects u and has d fear of God that weathers all storms!
    X

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  26. im happy Toke broke up with that him and i pray she keeps away from him.He probably has a spiritual wife cos why would a man over 40 be acting the fool
    Toke kpele.God will give you fine better man

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  27. I don't believe TM went through this 6 times.

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  28. honestly this sounds like a joke...!
    Fanta#

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  29. TOKE MAKINWA ,this is her speciality we need her to tell us about this ,last time was lecture on side chicks,oya madam TOKE over to you

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  30. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me. Why should I let it get to the 3rd, 4th, 5th, and then 6th time? The person is cursed at that point then and in need of serious deliverance.

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  31. What the hell would make you even go back the second time? That's an extreme case of low self esteem. Like WTF? *sigh*

    Aeegurl

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  32. She shuld have known better, thank God she realise sha!

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  33. Its not possible except d lady has been cursed dat if she doesn't marry d guy, no1 will. If it truly happened den she's d most foolish person in dis world

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  34. hahaha... But Anon thats not my response though. My lil cray cray cousin typed that. I would never spread hate. Not my style. Shes laughing her head off. See how peole poison themselves.lol

    On the topic. Third time is the charm for me o! After No 3 nothing will make me go back to the altar with that runaway groom. Besides backing out at the last minute everytime shows weakness on the man's part. I dont want no weak man. If this is your story Aunty Mi the dress have tire biko. Give it up and move on. but If you really really think he is the only man for you and you cant live without him...then FORGET marriage and stay with him. Simple. The judgment wont come from me. Na una and God.

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    1. Your little cousin? Hian! I also tell this kind of lie.

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  35. Then the woman does not know her self worth abeg, she permitted it. Six times??? Arrgh!
    Believe it or not, people treat U the way u let them to!
    LIZ

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  36. Sorry oh but remember...fool me twice the joke's on me. My dear sister if you have any self worth you won't let this happen to you over and over again'

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  37. when a lafy gives up on love and thinks she cnt find anyone better, she settles for less.maje isn't man enuf nd isn't really into her.jst wants to continue using her till d right, younger lady comes along.my advice: dump his sorry ass nd never look back

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  38. It can't happen twice not to talk of 6x. The babe does not have a good family or she's a stubborn goat because I know a lot of people would have advised her abt the man but she refused to heed their advice.
    Why would you force/beg a man to marry you? You no get pride? Its well with some people o.

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  39. SDK, since you're undoubtedly referring to Toke Makinwa, my opinion will be specific to her case. Maje met Toke when she was barely 18 and he was captivated by her beauty,intelligence and innocence. However..as the years rolled by...Toke grew into an unforgivable party animal, an OAP that has so embraced a fictitious life, she did everything within and outside her reach to attain her "infamous' fame. Maje got confused about going ahead to marry this woman who had lofty interests. She made the man a public figure which he completely detests, their affairs became extremely public and he kept pulling back and forth hoping things would get better but they never did. He has his own flaws which doesn't go beyond cheating but that's as far as it goes..even the girls he cheats with all know they are side chicks and Toke is No. 1. Toke wanted to force the marriage after noticing their relationship might head for d rocks considering their endless break up and make up. And the guy..couldnt just be foolish! Toke is a great girl, a powerhouse and very ambitious but she's probably not a good match for this guy. Lesson: don't persuade a man to tie the knots with you regardless of how crazy u think he is about you. Leave such moves for the men!

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    1. Maje, thanks sweetie for this update. Now that this has happened, try to put ur life together. Focus on ur relationship with God to help u become a better person.

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  40. I have no problem with the guy but I have many problems with the lady. Haba! 6 times... for what nau? that is the height of low self esteem. You were 5 times bitten but not for once shy until the 6th time.

    You date a man for 10 years, (wonder why people still date for this long) he stands you up even once, you should have re-evaluated your relationship with the loser at this point. If a guy stands me up once, I would be too scared and skeptical to even try again.

    There are ladies who are not even as educated as you are nor as cool as you are and yet they are getting married to good guys, why do you think a better man won't come for you? it is actually better to be single than a Mrs Loser.

    It may take some time but please wait than subject yourself to such disrespect and humiliation.

    Ada

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  41. 6times??? Haba! Me I no fit continue with person wey Jilt me once sef.

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  42. Toke Toke Toke! Why una dey call Toke? Shit happens everyday to a lot of women. Get real. It just happened to someone in the public eye. I'm sure some comments here will talk to other women living in denial . Wake up and smell the coffee. But come o! Why will a living human being date someone for 10yrs? Wetin happen? Fuck that shit Mehn. A man sees a woman and knows what and how to play. Let's be wise. And very careful and prayerful. Make person no use boyfriend do husband

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  43. Impossicant!!! If u are kind enough to try it out with him again, make sure he brings d registry to your house that way ul b sure...EEE!!!

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  44. how do you knw its toke???because stella said its a true life story so it must be toke makinwa pls u guys should leave toke alone

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  45. Oh pls ladies let's not pretend. I'm not sure anybody can wait for it to happen 6 times, but I know that most ladies find it difficult to live this type of relationship, they think about the number of years they've spent with the guy, time invested and most importantly fear of the unknown. The earlier we ladies realise that guys don't put the number of years they've spent with you into consideration the better for us. Once you notice the relationship is leading nowhere biko run for your life, cos the longer you wait the more difficult it is for you to leave. 4 years will turn to 6 years, before you know it 10 years later you are still just a girlfriend.

    Belledazzy.blogspot.com

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  46. Sie tyms, the first tym am out of his life for good.why should i wait for the sixth tym.

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  47. afi shits naa. olodo.

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