A staff of Eco Bank Plc, Mrs. Bimbo Ajetumobi Daniju (pictured with husband),
was arrested for cutting her husband’s penis with knife but she has explained to
PUNCH that she used a knife on him to escape being beaten to a pulp in her
pregnant state.
Read both stories and you be the judge on who is lying.
“Please, kindly judge this by yourself. As a pregnant woman, will I willingly attempt to cut off my husband’s penis? I ordinarily would not have said anything. I did not realise this will escalate to this stage. The case is being handled by my lawyer at the moment.My husband is not a hot-tempered man but he gets angry once in a while. He lied that he washes my clothes. He only did that once or twice when I was ill. We had a disagreement that day and he beat me up. My mother came to the house and took away our son.
“Without telling anybody, I went to my hospital and was treated. I did not tell him. But when I got home, he continued to harass me. He said I must ensure his son was returned to the house.
“I was so tired and I went to sleep. But in the middle of the night, he woke me up and asked me again to produce his son. We started fighting and he was beating me. In order to escape his beating, I had to hold his penis. I wanted him to leave me alone. I held on to it until I had a chance to escape.”
Bimbo said it was a lie that he chased Lekan down the street or dropped his certificate on the street during a fight.
“Please ask him, which certificate is he even talking about? When I married my husband, he told me he graduated from the Ogun State University, Ago-Iwoye, but that he had an accident some time ago, in which his certificates were burnt,”
She said when she went to the police station after their last fight, the officer who heard their case at the station said the wound looked like a knife wound, saying that was why Lekan changed his story that she used knife on him.Bimbo insisted she loved her husband and never for once used the fact that he did not have a job to react to him at home.
“When I married him, he did not have a job. He said he was working on a CD and all the money I made, I spent on him.”
HER HUSBAND LEKAN SPEAKS
Lekan, a gospel singer in his church in Surulere, has emaciated. He was in pain as he explained that he got into marriage with Bimbo against his pastor’s advice.
He said, “My pastor had advised me against marrying her because of an encounter he had with her. Before we got married, in a meeting with Bimbo, my pastor said he asked her about her past and my wife said, ‘How dare you!’Of course, I did not believe my pastor at the time because I was in love. But now, I rue the day I met that woman.
Lekan alleged that his wife had been behaving strangely since he lost his job. He stated that he had done everything he could to ensure that she remained happy.
“I wash her clothes including her underwear. Even without a job, I ensure that the proceeds of my gospel music CD are used to take care of her and our son,” he said.
The apartment Lekan shared with his wife is a mini-flat. Asked who paid for the apartment, the man said the house belonged to his father.According to him, he was living in a rented apartment in Ikorodu before relocating to his father’s house in Surulere so that it would be easier for his wife to get to work.Lekan explained that Bimbo was a good woman at the time.
He said, “I married her legally. We did a church wedding, went to court and did the traditional wedding. But when I lost my job, I realised that after a little disagreement, she would rain abuses on me and my family.
“She would sometimes destroy things in the house. There was a time we had a disagreement and she chased me down the street with a stick. During another disagreement, she took my HND certificate to the end of the street and dropped it beside a gate. Neighbours had to plead with her to bring it back.”
HOW MY WIFE ATTACKED ME
“That fateful day, I was washing my wife’s clothes. She reminded me that she needed some money for foodstuffs and I told her that God would provide for us. Later, she came out of the house and said she had eaten noodles and had fed our son.When I finished with the clothes, I was so tired because the clothes were many. I ate the leftover of her noodles. There were about three-spoonfuls left.”
Lekan alleged that that did not go down well with his wife who said she still wanted to eat the leftover.He said he had to go to the street to buy bread for her since she said she was still hungry.He further explained that he had to go out shortly after to get some money from a salesman who handles his CD sales.
“I came home and informed my wife that I got some money from my CD. She told me that she would like to eat wheat and white soup which I usually buy for her from a restaurant. I bought that for her,” he said.
By that time, Lekan said the only thing he had eaten that day was the leftover noodles. He said the remaining money from the CD sales had been used to buy things needed in the house.But his elder sister who had a shop nearby was to later give him N500 when she noticed that he did not look like he was feeling well.
“I went out to buy rice and when I came in and she saw me eating that, she flared up. She said I lied to her that I had no money. She was shouting but I pleaded with her to calm down so that my people around would not hear. She replied that it would not be well with the people. She abused my relations and parents.
“The following day, a Sunday, I swallowed my pride. I woke up and asked which clothes she would like to wear to church so that I could iron it with mine. When she did not answer, I left for church but came back after the workers’ meeting.
“I got home and saw her preparing jollof rice but I went out to buy N60 bread and N40 beans. Trouble started again when she saw me eating that. She said I refused to give her money but I was buying food to eat. She said, ‘Before I say anything now, you will go and complain to your useless family.’ That was when I told her that it was her whole family that was useless. Had I known, I would have kept quiet. She took the plate of beans and poured it on my head.”
But Lekan said even though many men would have pummelled such a woman, he feared he might kill her in anger. The matter died down, or so it seemed.Around 2am, Lekan said he received a sudden and painful knock that woke him up from sleep and realised that it was from his wife.I knew she had decided to start her trouble again. But I did not in my wildest imagination think that she could do what she did next.Before I realised what she was doing, I felt a sharp pain in my manhood. I touched it and blood was gushing out. I screamed and my immediate thought was, ‘Is this the way I would die?''
*SO WHO CUT HIS BLOKOS LIKE IS SHOWN IN THE PICTURE?
Y d prick come black and rough so? No wonder d lady attacked it
ReplyDeleteI don't understand the head or tail of that pix oo.
DeleteLmaooooooooo!!!
DeleteLmao.......you wicked ooooooooooo. But she has been riding the thing now so she likes the roughness.
DeleteI know its no laughing matter,but could this be a replica of Ms Spin doctor's idea of a shrivelled 'scrotum'? Its not funnyat all.Yes I Know. Let's just say my awkward slip is atributable to relief! At least dem fit salvage this Ekporo! All 'kini' being equal, with enough 'rev',the controversial dick go work.One thing I can bet my burnt cake on,is that this blokos will never again go on over~drive. Shame on you two! You both are liars! Imagine a near tragic Bout over left over noodles and Agege bread! Abeg do and Make up joor cos you deserve each oher until kingdom come!
DeleteI can bet dis dick is infected *yuck* ugly looking tin
Deletevery good reason for chopping off ur husbands Joystick
ReplyDeleteSay no do ''DV''
Women if u can,,,Chop His Pennis off before he kills you
Nice one woman
##standing OVATION##
@Galore
Lmao @"nice one woman #standing ovation" Galore yi o gbadun rara
Delete@Galore, is that supposed to be a joke? So u r one of those that advice women to do stupid things to their partners when they could easily just walk away, break up or divorce. U could even advice a woman to pour acid on her partner. Are u this heartless? Is that really how u advice people? Na wa for u o
Delete@ galore,,I kukuma like u 4 dis....yes kill d man b4 he kill u!!! Woman,,u are supported
DeleteStella did u read wat d wife wrote?she sed she held onto d penis until she was able to escape.in earlier reports,she sed it was her finger nail she used...m also a lady bt with wat I v read so far,d woman is a liar!4 d man to say dat he dint want a police/court case,u'll knw dat he is a very gentle guy...if it was dat woman dat was injured u'll see she n her moda shouting court case!court case!...God help u both ooo
ReplyDeleteThought so too. How did you manage to escape while been beaten, grab a knife and still have the opportunity to cut his dick? Did the guy just stay there and watch you "re-grab" his dick and cut it? But all in all, Mr bankers husband, e e be like your cup don full if not your wife no go target your blokos!!!! If you were such a gentle man, she wouldn't have done that to you.
DeleteI dunno hw her fingernail wuld make dat deep cut.....well only GOD knws who is sayin d truth
DeleteNice....at least he won't cheat on her#just kidding#
ReplyDeleteE yah. Even the woman admits that her hubby is on the quiet side...so she provoked him to anger. that cut could only have happened whilst he was asleep or dead...in this case asleep. no man will watch for anyone to cut them down low. if he was awake whilst she wanted to cut him she couldn't av achieved that hidden angle she cut. He would probably have been cut around the tip of his pens bcos of struggles. So from all indication she did it while he was unconscious.
DeleteYou two have problems jare. I believe the wife's side about the husband beating her up before she cut him on this Penis. Otherwise, how can a pregnant woman wake up and just decide to cut her husband's penis?
ReplyDeleteLesson to all: don't ever go for a knife during a fight with the intention to "just threaten". There's an evil sprit behind it that just pushes you to use it.
As a woman, I hate to admit it but the woman is the one lying. The man's version makes more sense. He said he swallowed his pride. I can imagine wat he was going through
DeleteSee wht poverty Is causing in nigeria. If dis couple works dey wont have time to be slicing each oda penis off.
ReplyDeleteVery true. Lack of food and money had broken so many homes especially if the wife is one hot tempered one or an impatient woman. Govt do not just know so many havoc they cause in Nigeria with this hardship they put on citizens. But it will all be well very soon IJN.
Delete"Each other penis" lol! Does the woman have a penis also?
DeleteLol. Na one pesin get penis na !!
DeleteLol. Na one pesin get penis na !!
DeleteHello, she's a banker!?! Na wa o!!!
Delete@Anon1:22pm you mumu no be small. You just read here that the wife is a banker in Eco bank yet u open ur Okpolo eyes to type this shit? Kai some ppl self mtchew.
Delete@Anon1:22pm you mumu no be small. You just read here that the wife is a banker in Eco bank yet u open ur Okpolo eyes to type this shit? Kai some ppl self mtchew.
DeleteHmmm.....it is well cos that's all I can say now.
ReplyDeleteD tin ugly oooooo maybe Stella can give head to it lollll
ReplyDeleteDt wuman s wicked oh! Of all d plcs na innocent john thomas e go,kai I no support oh,bysds d wuman s a LIAR
DeleteWhetha its d man or d woman dats is @ d receiving end of a DV. I dnt n will neva support DV. We shud always say no t violence- it does humanity no good.
ReplyDeleteI think the man is saying the truth.. Domestic Violence in its entirety. The dick though.... It looks poverty-stricken..
ReplyDeleteAhn Ahn, that's not so nice. How could you have said that? That's so heartless of you. Someone is hurt on his privates and that's all you could say.Wish u could show your real hubby or boyfriend's dick so we could compare.
DeleteMadam, today you are issuing prayers and going all spiritual...tomorrow you come to slander and ridicule your colleagues. You even go as far as writing their full names. Today you are a lover of God..tomorrow you will follow an anon to trade cleverly veiled insults.
DeleteA man just lost his manhood and ths is all you have to say about the issue. It looks poverty stricken.
Let me remind you that God is not a fool. He knows his own. You cannot serve God with one leg in and one leg out. You are either his child or you are not. There is no unstableness in God's kingdom. However, You are neither hot or cold. You are neither here nor there. Straighten your ways. Live like a christian in all you do and say or live like a sinner in all you do and say. Time is short.
This is the message I have been directed to give you.
Good day.
Oluyomi oo gbadun..@ poverty stricken.
DeleteThe guy is violent, but to cut him with a knife? That one pass me o.
Hahahahhahaha omg poverty stricken.chai.lmao..aunt yomi ur wikd oo
DeleteHow does a rich dick look????
DeleteLmao....buh d povert stricken dick produce a child 4 dem...lol
DeleteDid the last sentence come from you? *surprised face* how does ur husbands own look like? A pig's right? O like ko ma t'ona wo'ro. Agbaya jati jati. Like u'll die if u don't comment!
DeleteMake una loosen up abeg. I'm just playing around... Life isn't hard and I'm sure in God's scheme of things, my joke isn't the worst sin.
DeleteOluyomi da hypocrite! I told you that ur pretence is just but a matter of time and pple will see you for whom u r!
DeleteOluyomi same way ur black pussy is drawy like okro...see ur face. Foolish local champion
DeleteAnon 1.00 u no go kill person with laugh o...na so I hala wen I see d tin oo. Na craw craw b dat?? Buh d woman wicked sha. For some reason on d oda I believe d man.d woman is evil.
ReplyDeleteWicked woman.
ReplyDeleteSliced her husband's dick like a piece of pkomo
Eww! All I noticed is,they are always buying food from canteen or cooking noodles,what kind of a woman runs her home like this? This marriage is all wrong,and it ended in blokos slicing things. It is well.
ReplyDeleteWICKED WOMAN. U have no excuse for ur action.
ReplyDeleteI think the woman is lying. She has no reason to harm her husband, in such a sensitive area for that matter. The man seems gentle but you never can tell. Husband and wife matter is always a hard nut to crack.
ReplyDeleteI don't like the idea of going to buy food outside. They can put that money together and cook something reasonable for the family, even if it's without meat but at least, the family gets to eat together.
I feel the woman is frustrated because she is the bread winner and you guys know that some pregnant women are short tempered. Anyway, they can work things out, the woman should sincerely apologise to her husband and promise never to harm him again. The husband should forgive her and try to get a job asap. Not every problem in marriage should lead to divorce. They can make it work if they really make efforts to tolorate and understand each other.
Thank you @genny baby. You are truly a matured woman. You speck words of wosdom! Not every problem in marriage should lead to divorce.
DeleteEwww,, who will want to give head to that disgusting thing.
ReplyDeleteBoth of them are lying, funny story from the guy. All the line about buying beans n bread etc seem false or rather he's trying to paint a pathetic picture. For the wife, she's as wicked as can be. Funny how some women provoke their husbands. Why would she ask her mum to take their kid away, is that not enough to provoke a man and also fuel trouble in the home? She probably have got little or no regard for her husband to do that. N unless the boy's life was in danger, she shouldn't have done that. To think that she would even resort to slicing his dick in ds manner speaks a lot about her temper. She wasn't even scared of losing an eye?? hmmmmm... Me can't stand ds kinda drama cos I love my body n its too fragile so @ the slightest sign of trouble, I make a little noise then when the eyes starts to get red, I shut up sharply! Women should learn to make their husbands feel like a man at times, not fighting and tearing all the time. In this case I think the man is the victim, cos he came out with a sliced puppy...EEE!!!
ReplyDeleteOna no ya say him no C food chop hw d dick wan nurish
ReplyDeleteI dey kom mk I finish dis freesh fish bone tomuch
The story is disgusting. I wonder how educated couples have desecrated marriage so badly these days!
ReplyDeleteWay too disgusting!
DeleteDivorce her ASAP! If you don't she will kill you one day.
ReplyDeleteCan't say much on the wife cos there have not been any medical report from any hospital or evidence she was beaten up , but I believe the husband is saying the truth. He has been consistent in his stories I have read from different news, and for him not to press charges means he's got good heart. Can imagine how his wife must have frustrated his life, this I know cos a friend of mine is going through the same issue just cos there is no money and this guy hustles so hard but not just been easy for him to make ends meet. I really feel for him when he tells me how his wife curses him out cos of money. These our women should take chill pills abeg. And u women are the ones that waste and spend money unnecessarily on irrelevant things. You all waste money on human hair, expensive phones, ipads,make ups, bleaching creams, expensive shoes and bags, expensive jewelleries, aso ebi every weekend et al trying to belong amongst friends and colleagues which wouldn't fetch u money or earn u a living. You all need to cut your coats according to your sizes and save money for food and future purposes.
ReplyDeleteThe woman is pregnant shey?......I think the preggy is making her moody.....
ReplyDeleteSo sad how hypocrites come on this blog to castigate a man who injures his wife but turns this story into a joke because the man is the victim. Shame on all hypocrites especially you Galore.
ReplyDeleteAbeg u people should to ur marital problems off gossip blogs. See as una dey yarn story for people who just want story.
ReplyDeleteLol #1 comment ' no wonder she attacked it'
ReplyDeleteSome men's body hair though, grrrrrrh
Anyway DV is a two way thing
Not in support lai lai
But some men can be REALLY annoying, maybe after the argument he came to demand sex when issues Neva settle na so madam vex wan strangle the thing.
YR
*yawn* all these 'he said, she said' stories. They say there's always three sides to a story. His side, her side and the truth.
ReplyDelete..And that disgusting, yucky dick tho.. *throws up* someone remind me never to look at anything with the caption "viewers discretion is advised" *throws up again*
Before i start i would like to state for the record that i am a woman., buh the truth must be said irrespective of gender . From both parties ( and the other relative's) stories, we can safely deduce that Mr Daniju is the victim in dis situation.. We know dere r women that oppress and control their husbands basically reducing them to efulefus (no offence Mr Daniju) and beating them simply because they (the women) happen to be the breadwinners of the family. While i understand hw fustrating it is to b the only one bringing in daily bread, i refuse to understand even pinching ur husbands's penis talkmore of slicing it with a knife ! U were tryin to escape his beating and his penis bcame tarzan's rope for you to make ur escape abi? And your nails must b like the talons of an eagle to successfully scratch such a clean slice.. May God forgive ur wickedness ma. Mr Daniju run for your life bcos next time she might want to escape by poisoning ur food. She wants to escape, Dont wait 4 her to make anoda "escape" attempt.. "Escape" her urself ! An epistle is surely enough for a man that wants to stay alive .. ( with all his organs intact that is ) xx
ReplyDeleteThere are 3sides to a story...his side, her side and the truth....but jugding from the mans story, I believe him....I even pity him more, no job, no money, no respect, no regard as the man of the hse, injured dick, Margaret Thatcher wife...pheww....dats 2much 4 one man to bare......but come to tink of it....imagine giving head to dat shrivelled dick.....ewww
ReplyDeleteHehehe
ReplyDeleteD woman sef na tiger
She pour a plate of beans on d man's head
And woke him up wit a resoundin knock.
LMAO!
On a more serious note
Its nt good for a woman to marry a man sh doesn't respect ooo.
All u wld feel for dat man is DISDAIN!
A man stats losing respect wen e fails at his resp.
Am sure d woman has learnt her lesson!
There are always 3 sides to every story . In this case, the hubby's, the wife's and the TRUTH.
ReplyDeleteIn all, domestic violence is never the answer
PPeople settle down n read dis story, d woman is a liar... D man is d honest one. Am a woman, I smell foul in her story! She is nt hapi wit d man cos he has no moni,d truth is moni is imp in marriage. Guess d mere sight of her hubby annoys her, d only way to please her is by havin a job n caterin for her n kids......its jst so sad bt let her remember dat no condition in life is permanent.
ReplyDeleteThere is one thing sure the man was sleep when it happen.Domestic Violence againt man is real l have been there before i know how is lt.
ReplyDeleteI think the woman's act was premeditated, but could be a retaliation for the beatings the husband dishes out to her. She obviously is not the siddon-take-abuse type. Oga, next time you go know who to mess with. LOL!!!
ReplyDeleteEXACTLY!
DeleteI believe the man cause his story is constant, the woman's story has changed from yesterday. I know what a frustrated woman is capable of.
ReplyDeleteKelechi
In as much as I don't believe this man but d truth is so glaring that d wife cut his penis wen she was strugln for survival, the man must be a lazy man, so if d gospel wotever dosnt work, therefore no other means of livelihood, tnk God she didn't cut d entire penis, hope d both of u reconcile in peace n move on. Say No to DV n Divorce. Waitooo I tot d dude is a very fair guy, how come his prick come dark like a burnt agege bread abi he no remember to bleach dt area.
ReplyDeleteThe woman is lying her story is vague, the man gave details of the incidence, that woman is a violent person, chai that man don suffer. Too bad the society is one sided on domestic violence, women too are violent to their husbands, just like this case.
ReplyDeleteWell, there are two sides to every story - I hope the woman is telling the truth. If it's true, then the husband must be cowardly. I abhor domestic violence!!!! Btw, that photo of his penis is gross
ReplyDeleteWho snapped that D and why is it all over the web?wh is that area spotted?lol
ReplyDeleteThhe both of them are lars, they are both lookng for sympathy wth their stories, lekan u might be a nice man but u were pushed and hit her,Mrs there's no way that cut was inflicted by ur nails
BUHhahhahahhahahahaah the Blokos dey look like BURNT CARROT...LOOOOOOOOOOOOL.. Btw..she no cut am like cut cut..na jz slicing she do am! Hohohohohohoohohohoohohoho Pele d wound go heal...
ReplyDeleteMy cousin that works in her office confirmed Bimbo is very troublesome and has fought with virtually everybody in the office. She's stubborn and rude.
ReplyDelete...And she's finali on the news.i guess her skills wil get her a grammy... #smh! Banker indeed#
DeleteI don't Believe that woman one bit she sounds like a liar.i feel Sorry for the man.
ReplyDeleteTo some extent i believe the man.DV scares me alot, and i pray i dont fall a victim cos i for one cant hurt a fly.
ReplyDeleteam speechless
ReplyDeleteam speechless
ReplyDeleteam speechless
ReplyDeleteSometimes I jst wonder hw people reason, u c your fellow humanbeing wit such cut on his private, n wat u hve 2 say is "Dick looks poverty stricken" hw many Nigerians are rich? private dey fine? I mean hw your own fine reach? money wise, hw much do u hve? Pls let's be human pls,PICTURES DNT LIE
ReplyDeleteI am in this same situation. My husband has no money-even when I ask for one thousand naira, its always too much. I feel frustrated because all he ever says is God will provide. I don't see him making any real effort to get a job. As a result, I am forced to run around to cater for my family. I have grown quite resentful of him. As I read this story, I wondered if I could stoop so low to shout, rain abuses or even pour beans on his head! My husband would have done the same thing too, buy himself alone food and not as much as ask if his family have eaten let alone share with anyone. I can see the same situation in this story.If someone gives my husband money outside, he first keeps it and then spends it on only himself. If I ask him if he has any money ,he will say no. I see the attitude as basically selfish- But I don't think I can ever descend so low as to cut his penis?? Maybe this is the answer to their prayers. Someone through this publicity will offer him a job...
ReplyDeleteWay 2 go woman! Dat man is a chronic liar,so she's stronga dan u even wit d pregnancy,so she held u down n u watched as she brot down d knife on ur Penis?if she rily wanted 2 cut u,dat wound wuld av bin deeper n wider dan dat....u shuld tank ur stars ur whole penis wsnt cut off wit ur scrotum! Sum of y'all sayin she went too far...she shuld av quietly knelt down n let him unleash his madness on her ryt?rubbish!
ReplyDeleteJahzmene, u don't have one single sense at all. Even from ur name, person go know say u no just get sense
DeleteD woman is a Liar!
ReplyDeleteThe only truth in her story,is dat d man does nt have a job.
She's pissed,frustrated dat she's d breadwinner of d family,as a result of which she lost all d respect for her man.
Above all,d woman have someone dat is backing her up/coaching her nd sending her to behave dat way ,now she have done her worst.
Even if she's nt interested in d marriage anymore,she shld beg d man 4 4giveness bt she shld remember dat no condition is permanent.
The prick don run go inside sef...she nor do justice to the tin sef. Me bin dey tink say the whole tin go don fall down scatter for floor sef. Abegiiiii the tin no big for all this nosie wey the media dey make.
ReplyDeleteWhat went wrong.... wonders never end A couple once in love now at logger heads... there's a missing link no doubt... wish them well God have mercy on us
ReplyDeleteThis is why you shouldn't marry an ugly, fat woman. They are usually full of evil and resentment. Better to remain single than live with an ugly wife that tries to cut off your dick.
ReplyDeleteOuch!
ReplyDeleteStella wen to matured people fight if its a cut it would be deeper than that. Remember that the flesh of blokos is tender and a small injury will go wider unless it is properly treated. That stuff is not a fresh wound. Let him produce a picture with a fresh wound. Then we can see a true picture. As far as I know Lekan Daniju he is a born liar. How can you get HND certification from OSU? Hian......
ReplyDeleteAnon 11:24, was he d one dat said he went to osu? Did u even read d post at all? Ask God to give u brain to understand b4 reading any article next time
DeleteI didn't write like someone that read the post. I wrote like someone that knows Lekan. And privy to what actually happened.
DeleteI think the lady has a problem with her temper.She went too far.She should have walked away.Marriage no be by force.
ReplyDeleteI don't support DV but the truth must be told.This is a lesson for everyone. Men, don't marry if u don't have a job or source of income. It is never a good thing for a woman to be d bread winner in a home. Yes, women can support but not to the extent of taking up d man's responsibility. It will only bring resentment,hate,disrespect. Finance is required to run a home and wen it is not there, na big trouble be dat. God has ordained the man to be d provider and not d woman. I have said it before and will say it again, der is pride wen a man can provide/take care of his family. A lot of people will advice one to get married even wen der is no job/income that marriage will bring blessings. I laugh bcos u r diggin ur grave. No doubt der is blessing in marriage but der must be finance to sustain ur home. Dey r both wrong, dey should try to settle and move on. D man should get a job asap and d woman should apologise to her husband. It is obvious der is interference in d marriage from their families, dis must stop as it will only cause more harm dan good.
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