A staff of Eco Bank Plc, Mrs. Bimbo Ajetumobi Daniju (pictured with husband),
has been arrested for cutting her husband’s penis with knife.
According to thegazellnews.com, the banker, a staff with the Agege Motor
Road branch of Eco Bank, on Monday morning, cut-off her husband’s manhood
in a fit of anger.
It was said that Bimbo picked a quarrel with her husband on Sunday,
16th December on account of his inability to provide for the needs of the family.
She accused him of being selfish, not bothering to find out how she and their
only child are faring following her demand for feeding allowance.
And on Sunday when the victim and husband to the banker, Mr. Olalekan
Idowu Daniju, an upcoming gospel singer, returned from church and decided
to get himself something to eat, he walked into a skirmish.
While he was eating, his wife, Bimbo came and started shouting at him calling
him very unprintable names, she poured his plate of food on his head and
proceeded to beat him with a bucket she found in the compound.
Olalekan Daniju was reported to have run to his sister’s shop to seek refuge
from his angry wife but Bimbo followed him there with broken bottle threatening
to stab him.
Madam Kehinde Daniju, sister of the victim, said that when her brother ran to
her for help, she had to call their mother and other relatives to settle the matter
as they live in the family house and relatives were around.
She said further that the wife’s mother was also around the area but when she
arrived, told her daughter not to accept all moves of reconciliation.
According to Madam Kehinde, Bimbo’s mother told her to be adamant until
her husband gets a job. She also said Bimbo’s mother took along the couple only son, Opeoluwa Daniju, with her as she was leaving.
This made Lekan to order his wife to ensure that his son is brought back before
8 p.m or else she would have a fight on her hand.
It was said that Bimbo left the house before 8 pm and returned some 30 minutes
later without Opeoluwa.
This resulted into a quarrel after which they went to bed.
At about 2am, there was shouting in the couple’s apartment and on reaching there.
Reports have it that she woke her husband up, tore his pants and held his penis.
She proceeded to cut his penis with the knife she was holding and ran away
leaving him with parting shot, “that is where you will die” with Lekan shouting
and writhing in anguish.
Lekan’s elder brother called his elder sister that Lekan had been injured by
his wife following bouts of shouting and noise.
Lekan was taken to a private clinic where he was treated.
Bimbo was arrested and taken to the police station.
In her statement at the police station, Bimbo denied using knife on her husband
but her fingernails.
She has since been released as Lekan said he is not interested in pressing
charges.
Bimbo who is said to be rude, stubborn and troublesome was alleged to have
taken away some home appliances and all of Lekan’s certificates and allied
documents.culled
*Domestic Violence!...Lekan run for your life,she will aim for your balls next time.
The situation in the country is bad,if you agreed to marry him when he didnt have a job,why not manage?working in a bank should cover up for some things nah....i hope she is not sacked after this negative publicity her story will bring her employers....hiss!
Some men go throgh a lot in thr homes but the spotlight of domestic violence is mostly on women. May God help the dude recover frm such trauma. Some men can be very lazy tho, esp when they have wives that are hardworkn and have good income but thats stl no reason fr a woman to be violent. Women in such cases shld encourage n empower thr husbands lil way they can.
ReplyDeleteWhen you say a woman has a job so she is hardworking and because the man has mo formal job he is lazy. That is unfair if generalised. He may be doing something yet not breaking even. Those who are lucky to be formally engaged and obliged to go there daily and get meaningful salary at the end of the day should thank God they got employed not think it's because they are either smarter or a hard worker. Some better educated people have no job while those beneath them are employed. That's the way thongs are. But that's no excuse either for a man to be completely docile and not do even menisl jobs to maintain his dignity and fulfill-even if mot all but part of his responsibility to his family
DeleteWow d devil himself. Even d devil shiveers @ some ppl's wickedness. Aw can a woman b dis inhuman? Anger is very destructive really.
DeleteXo, ma pe paddy e lole.
DeleteI swear if the cut was serious and has left the man with no dick at all, that girl must stay with him for life. Just that the bitch go dey fuck outside na d man go still suffer. Poverty is no good... see a banker's frustration oo...so what. will those without any income do na? Commit suicide?
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DeleteOga, thank God for your life. Get a job and a more tolerant wife when you are ready. Madam banker, devil used you but God rescued you. If you couldn't cope with the responsibilities anymore, you should have packed your kaya and left him in peace with his penis.
Apparently, this screaming headline is false. She scratched his penis with fingernails and didn't cut it off. Otherwise she wouldn't be granted bail.
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DeleteThis is Super Story
ReplyDeleteHmmm...
Ki lari? U didn't swear/curse today? *surprised face* God bless you for that
DeleteKi lari? U didn't swear/curse today? *surprised face* God bless you for that
DeleteReal super story ooo. May God help us all
DeleteChoi! What a man can do, a woman can do better.
DeleteNa wa o! Tins dey happen sha. Abeg make d man find him square root leave d woman
ReplyDeleteLet's learn to control our anger no matter what
DeleteNow she would spend christmas in prison yle he spends it without a pennis
Some women are possessed,the man is lucky it is just the dick,what if the woman had stab him.their are cases of DV by woman against men too,it is just that pride won't make the man report the case
ReplyDeleteI agree with u. As a counselor I see these cases a lot and the men just wont report. Stella maybe u can shine the spotlight on spousal abuse highlighting women abusing me.
DeleteU said it all. There are so many DV against men but pride won't let them go public. I really feel for the man sha, imagine him saying he is not pressing charges against her. If it were to be the woman, they would have been in court by now. I pray the man gets a job and stand on his own, cos money seems to be the language this generation women understand. Social media, oppression and friends' influence have really turned our women to something else, all women do nowadays is fight their husbands cos of the hardship going on in the country. I guess govt do not know so many problems they cause even in people's lives and marriages. Where is the love ?
DeleteTrue. Am handling one now. A man who had been widowed for 8yrs decided to marry another lady 3years ago. They met in church, as they were both workers and born again o. Now the man is in his early 50s, the lady in her late 30s. Both are from different tribes but won't mention so I don't create any tribal srife here.
DeleteAnyhow the man has 3 kids who are all in university now. He's not rich at all...in fact he's been struggling to make ends meet since he was unduly retired at his previous place of work. This lady knew all of these, but because she had been under pressure to marry from all and sundry, she married this very gentle soft spoken man. One of the reasons she married him...as we later found, was that the man has a very wealthy sister who takes care of him and the kids..in fact the flat in which they all live was bought for this man earlier when he married his first wife who later died. He's not a lazy man at all, just unlucky. I even tried to secure him employment a few times but for his age..ncompanies are not so comfy with his age bracket.
Long story short, this new wife's family thot that they could extort him, they found nothing to extort and frustration set in. Her family members started to live in thier apartment, that was the first danger sign. This lady who was behaving holy started to fight this man when no one was around. She would rip his clothes to shreds because he would have no money or not enough to satisfy her. So much that he had no more clothes to wear to church. He couldn't tell a single soul..
not even his sister or pastor knew what he was going tru. Because of her he sold the only car that his sister bought him. After she squandered the proceeds she continued to torment him in the house. On Sundays when they go to church no one saw any signs of abuse on either of them. She was very smart at it.
It became worse when he couldn't afford any money for food again...this lady had a job as a secretary somewhere. she made her own kitchen cabinet and stored foods there.. locked it whenever she went out so the man or his kids couldn't feed off her food. it was this bad. finally she ran away till date and no one knows where she is, except her folks who haven't deemed it fit to speak to her husband.
Her mother encouraged her wickedness.
I got involved when the man decided he needs to be freed from her legally. He hasn't seen her in 2years...and she's somewhere having fun, probably with another man. am narrating this to buttress that it is true some of us women can be mean and wicked. And our viciousness sometimes is more pain invoking than when a man abuses his wife. I can't begin to narrate all that I hear everyday from grown men who cry when they narrate thier ordeal . Women can be wicked I tell u. Its more dangerous than witchcraft. God help us.
Merry Christmas everyone. May we all experience the true joy of Christmas. God bless u Stella. You shall be greater in the year to come.
This woman is wicked and mentally unfit to handle marital stress
ReplyDeleteDis story reminds me of my ex-mother in-law....Luckily I ran 4 my life b4 it was too late.now things are beta.have a job,a new car and my own house...money worshippers is what I call dem...Mr Lekan,run faaassst.
ReplyDeleteThis one harsh
ReplyDeleteDV is both ways.The babe must be super frustrated cuz imagine her living with her husby in his family house instead of staying a bit far from them n enjoying privacy. Now she works in a bank n knows she can lose her job anyday, the man who is to care for her isn't doing much of that and they have a child to provide d best for, hmmm! Sad situation but harsh reaction madam bimbo.
ReplyDeleteU are spot in Trina...the thing is, that a person works in a bank doesn't mean they are rich o. I found out from a few bankers that all those counter teller attendants sometimes get as low as 30k as salary o. As most of them are either HND holders or the likes. So it's just stipends to go by..and many complain it's barely enough for thier transportation to work in a month. Those who work with telecomunication companies are even better off. Very sad
DeleteNot supporting the woman though cos some be can extremly crazzzzy, but I hate d fact d a grown ass man will sit his lazy bones at home n expect u to carter for all his bills including recharge cards, some of these men are the ones dt push their wife to commit this act. He is so lucky, next time he shd wake his lazy ass, find something doing n b responsible for once aah.
ReplyDeleteANGELRAY SAYS,
ReplyDeleteNa wao, but the man na lazy man sha, haba, how woman go beat u up to the xtent of cutting ur john thomos, na mike Tyson the man marry keep for house oooh, dat woman is worse than the devil.
If he had reverted and beat her to stupor, and the in d process she dies nko? Won't u people say why didn't he leave the room even if she was beating him? Now u are calling him a weak man for resisting his wife? Na wa o. That arowolo dude that killed his wide is still awaiting trial remember? We all condemned him becos his wife isn't here to defend herself. She's dead. Perhaps if he was patient like this one..it wouldn't have happened.
DeleteDis woman must be possessed ooo.....which kain anger be dis???
ReplyDeleteHell hath no fury like a wonan scorned.These people need Jesus
ReplyDeleteCece..
Hell hath no fury like a wonan scorned.These people need Jesus
ReplyDeleteCece..
some tell me to close my mouth,before fly enteroooo
ReplyDeleteClose am oooo...lol.But seriously,the story reach for person to open mouth o.Wonders shall never end!
DeleteNa wa, Lolzz
ReplyDeleteDid I just watch a movie? The woman is insane
ReplyDeleteThis is very annoying. What some men go through ehn? He should run for his dear life. God will pay his wife back
ReplyDeleteToo bad mhen...! Marriage is not a game that should kicked off with blind players...
ReplyDeleteNa dis kind woman dino maleye suppose marry! Stella please hook dem up asap
ReplyDeleteOoga oooo....
ReplyDeleteThis is extreme domestic volence! Her boobs should be cut off to balance this equation. Useless hot tempered schizo! God punish her head! See how her strap fall for arm on her wedding day.Her 'agbiyaga' character was already obvious from day one!
ReplyDeleteThis story gives me d chills! That woman is clearly an insane woman(stella,I hope u're not like that,becos u seem like person wey too like quarrel).
ReplyDeleteSo,she woke up in d middle of d nyte and tore his pant,just to cut his prick? Na wah o!dis tori pass my power...
KENDRIXXX
Stella 'were kpo ni eko' thank God he was treated.
ReplyDeleteLOBATAN!!!
ReplyDeleteAm nt a lez am nt into grls,I met a woman am hvn feelns for,she dosnt blv am nt evn into grls,I avoided it as much as I cld now am hvn these funny feelns for her but I tink she's nt evn rdy for relationshp but just lookn for who to flirt with.she dosnt evn knw I hvnt done it bfor wat do I do,
ReplyDeletePray to God as the thing don get inner hand(o ti lowo n nu). Its nothing bad to admire ur fellow woman but wen u begin to av feelings of going to bed wt her or flirt wt her,na spirit of lesbianism be that o. Just rebuke it and cast it out then stop seeing,calling or texting the woman immediately *my honest opinion*
DeleteD devil is playing azonto wit ur destiny walahi.....
DeleteU're so so so lez
I see fyn gehs nd I'm wowed bt neva to d extent of. Aving feelings.
Anyama,
One of my ex-skl mate tried touching me earlier dis year
I stil can't rememba wen I dashed her d dirtiest slap of d millenium.
U nid prayers abeg
Kmt
Aunty stella,dis is scary oo,the wife was frustrated indeed,only her supportin the family,i kno wat ma mum suffered wen i was growing up bcos she took care of all the 6 childreen while father was lazy and going after women, dat is y all of us siblings are takin care of our mother now cos we are doing well,bt she shldnt have have been violent wt her husband oo bcos ma mum just neglected ma father totally and took kia of her kids by hersef n despite dat mum n dad fight a lot bcos of money a lot,,she will say "she knows wat she is doing oo n dat we the kids shld nt misbehave towards our father despite dat we kno he is nt good man, ma problem is dat, faimly issue i experience wen wt ma parents is affectin me in getting married,i dont want to go thru dat experience at all, pls God help me to loose the fear and settle down properly wt a good responsible husband in 2014
ReplyDeleteMy dear we r on d same level somehow although it wasn't really my dad's Fault cos he tried but tnz wasn't really working, I wish I will c a man 2014 dt I can be able to respect enough n regard him as man cos I vnt found a man I respect enough to point of settling down with as my husband, wenever I c anyman dt depends on a woman I feel like boiling cos I now c most men as gigolo. Mumcy paid my skul fee from primary to uni
DeleteNo be curse o but if u don't change ur mindset towards men,u'l die single.
DeleteThe same thing is happen to my brother in U.K hope he speak out one day.
ReplyDeleteI'm in shock. What madness must have come over this lady. No matter what!
ReplyDeleteNa waaao! Daughters of Jezebel every where! Husbands are scarceooo!Whether he's jobless or not, as long as he is not problematic or a womaniser, manage him!lol
ReplyDeleteI disagree with your statement. And if you are not careful, you will end up in the wrong home all in the name of marriage. There is a good man out there. Be patient, work hard Cuz women also need to be financially independent and your good man will come. While I don't believe that d responsibility should be on d man alone, I don't also believe that a woman should be the bread winner.
DeleteHeeei. Gosh. #checkingmypeepee#. Make my oga no cut my own in a fit of anger ooo.
ReplyDeleteThese thingz dey happen for real! #talkingFROMexperienceHERE#
ReplyDeleteYomslaw,I command you,clooooooooooooose ur mouth. The teeth are scary.Merry Xmas tho!!
DeleteDon't mind him, he be like roast isi ewu, eleyin samuga
Deletehmmm see gobe
ReplyDeleteSo d wifey no wan enjoy d prick again.
ReplyDeleteBad wife! But someone should consider d plight of d woman cos some men are just lazy. Prefer stayn at home enjoyn d wife's sweat. Nawaao.
ReplyDeleteI know this is off. Please I need Edo girlfriend for my Edo male friend. The guy has been dealt with emotionally over the years. Worst part is that he is the best man I have ever come across (well, apart from my future hubby..lol). Edo peeps, single ladies that are interested, abeg drop your email or anything at all.
ReplyDeleteHe stays at Benin so I would also want someone that lives there too.
I am interested,seriously interested.
DeleteBUT,he has to be my 2nd hubby ooo.Em go fit?
Hahahahaha am so sorry dear but I can't stop lafn.
DeleteI stay in benin but I'm nt an edo girl
DeleteYeah have got one babe shall !..but she dey fear to date any gay shall!......because she no to trust gays again....,well am married,leaving in UK,but so concern for her!...u can drop ur mail,then i contact u if u interested!...takia
DeleteAnon 4.23,which part of UK are u "leaving" in? Abakaliki?
DeleteU guys, eish. Still in the spirit, can we all be serious?
Delete@ Irene .E.! I leave in South East (Nunhead ).U wan come visit me?Xmas fried rice and prawns still remain shall,top am down with red wine!....merry xmas shall...!!!
DeleteThe same dick this woman dey injure, another woman will go down on her knees and "injure"...if I were the man, I will take "it" to a another feminine specie that knows how to appreciate!
ReplyDeleteSDK if I hear... Some bankers earn as low as 30k/month, so don't be deceived by the outward appearances. Some even borrow to keep up.
ReplyDeleteWell to the story, before the woman can have heart to do something that bad, she has been provoked by the man. Nobody knows what really happened, all these are hearsay. Women don't really have that stone-heart to get to this level, unless when provoked. Till the man speaks, I have nothing against either of them.
Any human provoked to the extent of causing bodily harm to another human is psychotic.
DeleteThat person needs psychological evaluation and treatment.
In other words, the woman is crazy and she will do it again.
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DeleteI hope she gets sacked! What a wicked witch.
ReplyDeleteThis things are happening nowadays where we have the women as bread winners of the home. I am a banker and I hear d way my female colleagues lament all the time. Most of them fend for the home while thier husbands do noting.
ReplyDeleteOMG this is scary
ReplyDeleteyou guys need to read this blog LMFAOOOOOO
What if the man is not lazy why are we quick with judgement na the woman marry am,what if she caused his set back the woman is crazy period and for the records 70percent of middle class families and even the poor for the pass 30decades has the woman as bread winner
ReplyDeleteMost men of now adays are too lazy,they like already made women for marriage,men wake up,laZy men
DeleteAm not seeing 200comments on this post bc is not an issue abt man beat wife. Where re the men's haters here, over to u people defend the woman who cut off his husband dick. Domestic violence should be treated as women & men's problem. This is an example of what some men go through in their relationship and marriages but never complain about it.
ReplyDeleteDis is d mistake we men make nowadays. 1) the bible says( somewhere in proverbs) if u know u r not capable of running a home,don't get married. 2) God has placed d man as d head of a home and his responsibility is to cater for and protect his family. Now, when it is d other way round(woman providing) she has automatically turned d head of d home, God's law has been broken. 3) it is not advisable for a man dat has no job to get married bcos it is financies dat is used to run a home. Once a man can't provide for his family, der will always be friction. D man might not be earning much, but should have a regular income, so dey can plan around dat. Finance is a major factor in a marriage. It can make or mar a marriage. It is d number one(finances) wrecker of homes across d world. Not supporting d lady but it is high time we men sit tight and not allow our women to take over our roles. Der is pride wen a man provides for his family. My own two cents o.
ReplyDeleteWe only hear about Domestic Violence on women, thank God you people can now see men suffer more from the hands of some certain women.
ReplyDeleteSame way am getting emotional abuse from Pink shell.
I think I will finally agree with Tony that women are the devil. I know they will doubt me, ok here is how I came to that conclusion. So satan was alone with in the garden Of Eden with NAKED Eve and all he could do was convince her to eat an Apple. I mean which guy does that? with a naked sexy woman like Eve
I hope am able to convince you and not confuse you that women are the devil.
Thank you.
Don davido, pls shut up. Tony didn't say women are devils. He only said sum women and nt all. So pls stop misquoting him.
DeleteShe over reacted. When I first read the title of the post, I felt the guy was a womaniser n was happy till I Graf the whole post. She shouldn't have done that. This shows that the woman is deadly. People should beware of her
ReplyDeleteThis is wickedness oooo!Why did the lady marry him?Didn't she know he didn't have a job before?She shld have left instead of hurting him.That's so unfair!!!
ReplyDeleteFriendship is key in every marriage.If there's friendship n understanding,u guys will manage even when u have very little.Violence in any marriage is a No!No! for me.U make matters worse when u can't resolve issues amicably.
Pple shld not judge the husband.Its possible he's not lazy but just unable to get a job.We all know how tough it is to get a job in Nigeria.Ladies should try n encourage their husbands n support their families in anyway they can..
Many ladies & even guys only look@their age when marriage is concerned but most don't often remember that they are still babies psychologically,mentally and theirby become chickens upstairs.just imagine.now even if your house is fill with food I am sure she has lost her appetite by now.BIGGER FOOL.
ReplyDeleteMost men of now adays are too lazy,they like already made women for marriage,men wake up,laZy men
ReplyDeleteStella I just received my first Christmas present in ages....
ReplyDeleteIt's actually been over 15years and I am 27 now...
Brought tears to my eyes......
I actually wasn't expecting it since I gave up on receiving Christmas presents.....
Not like I don't give,i do but I really do not expect anything in return...I receive birthday presents but not Christmas....
And it was given to me by my cousin's girlfriend,awwww how sweet..
I have told him he must marry her ooo.......
My last Christmas present was a dress from my parents,you know how they will buy Christmas dresses for you every year...
Things became hard and it all stopped,hence I signed off from expecting anything.......
Until now!....
You guys have no idea how happy I am....
I pray everyone of you become as happy as this lady has made me and even more.....
Back to the topic...
Emmmmm,I don't even know what to say other than poverty can be very frustrating......
It really takes true love for couples to stand firm In the midst of their ups and down........
I am sure the lady acted on her mother's instruction.....
And that was and evil act truly.....
May God take control...
The guy is not lazy, didn't you pple read where they say he is an up and coming gospel artist.Just that he never hammer period.the woman get another person that's why she's being that aggresive period.
ReplyDeleteThe guy is not lazy, didn't you pple read where they say he is an up and coming gospel artist.Just that he never hammer period.the woman get another person that's why she's being that aggresive period.
ReplyDeleteShe is mad. Her mum will find another husband for her.
ReplyDeleteTotal madness...the man should stay off abeg...
ReplyDeleteanger kills
ReplyDeleteI like the way women (especially Stella) seem to be sympathetic towards the lady. They justify it with the man being a "lazy ass" even Stella is more concerned about her losing her job instead of thee attempted murder. I wonder wat some of d comments Wld be if d woman was d "lazy ass" or d man tried 2 slice off one of her breasts.
ReplyDeleteAs I said with the Daniel Melaye story, DV is both ways. No gender is innocent.
I see people here giving the lady excuses, mostly females. It's the same when men try to do same in cases involving men. DV is wrong either way. Tunde
ReplyDeleteWow.... i know ds couple very well. We attend d same church. Knew ds would happened someday cos he is always after girls wv good job n money. Ive know ds chap for years n he kips dumping one babe for d other in church. Shortly before he married bimbo, he broke up wv a choir member in church n it was a very messy fight that he had to be suspended for a while. Not that im in support of wat was done to him but he has always been a very greedy person. I never knew they were having issues cos i see him almost every morning escorting his wife to d bus-stop. O ma se o..... but d chap is not clean too but whatever it might be not to d extent of cutting his penis.
ReplyDeleteViz s serious o.
ReplyDeleteBuh wait o, all viz long epistle(s) na comments for viz post? #slumps#
Dear Stella, this guy in question didnt say ge was pumelling his heavily pregnant wife after seizing her phones so she would not be able to make calls. And have you asked him if he's handicapped that a woman will wake up in the night to cut the boxers of a grown man then cutting his penis.? And with the cut he is able to walk to the police station. How can all this happen. Lekan is a liar. Pls tell him to post his bandaged or cut penis .
ReplyDeleteHe attends rccg garden of peace surulere . Dat tallest guy in d church. He strikes me as a gentle dude tho
ReplyDeleteThe woman is crazy!
ReplyDeleteI will suggest the man gives her a break.
Ah ahnnn! Na wa o
I know this couple at falolu. The guy I have known for years too. He has finally allowed Kehinde to disrupt his marriage. O ma se o.
ReplyDeleteSome of us men are going through severe abuse that we cannot share with anybody. All for the sake of not letting things get out of hand.
ReplyDeleteI have a job, take care of every blessed thing at home but still cannot be allowed to make simple mistakes before being nagged into submission.
Please say a prayer for me if you read this, I need God to keep me safe all the time. The nagging is making life unbearable.
Jeeeeezzzzzz
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